Some Recent Questionnaire Respondents. . .
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Tue Aug 7 09:26:56 2007
Anonymous Guest 36 in , =UK=
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--Relationship Is:
Another person in your life who becomes integral to most aspects
of you.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...intense, but i fell inove too quickly
--The best things about relationship are:
Sharing/. making plans together. snuggling up on a cold night on
the sofa.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Being vunerable. Once someone means a lot to you its very easy to
become hurt
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
to belong. To have mutual respect and love.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be less paranoid and take responsibilty for my own happiness
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I sometimes dilute my personality because i'm so afraid of offending
anyone
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
i'd lve him to open up more
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I like the fact that my partner and I can talk about anything but
neither of us are confrontational, which is good. I don't lilek
argueing
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
his brains! i can't laugh or be interested in anyone for veyr long
if they can't make me think
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
You may be form different background or cultures and even have a
differnet faith, BUT your core beliefs and values on life have to
be similar to make it work
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex with someone you love is the most amazing
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
growing up
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Wed Jun 27 05:10:18 2007
Anonymous Guest 48 in LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNA =USA=
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More personal info:
LETS JUST BE KIND TO ONE ANOTHER CAUSE THE WORLD IS NOT HEADED IN A
POSITIVE DERECTION SO SMALL GOOD DEEDS CAN MAKE YOU DAY AND SOMEONE
ELSES..IT IS MUCH EASIER TO LIVE WITH NO TIME FOR ANGER
RE: Handwriting: NO
RE: My HW: A LOOK OF BEING SMART
AstroInfo: NO I LOVE IT I JUST AN NOT IN THE KNOW MY RYTHUMS
I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Aquarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Recommended Reading-- Titles:
A COURSE IN MIRICALS
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
CHANNLED
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--Relationship Is:
LIVE IN LOVE-TRUE LOVE AND LUST FOR AT ALL TIMES
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
--The best things about relationship are:
DEATH
--The worst things about relationship are:
HURTING EACH OTHER
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
SOMEOMNE WHO CAN HANDLE THEMSELVES IN ANY SITUATION
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
BE WILLING TO LET SOMEONE INTO MY GUARDED HEART
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
THERE ARE ADDITIONS I HAVE TO FILL THE VOID OF HAVING SOMEONE THAT
I COULD NURTURE IN ORDER TO NURTURE AND HOROR MYSELF.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
IT DEPENDS WHAT THE HABIT IS
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
CONCIOUS
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I AM THE ONE ONE WHO ALWAYS WANT TO COMMUICATE SOMTIMES TO MUCH
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A HAPPY STONG SECURE,CLEANE MAN WHO ALMOST HS AN APPEAL AND SOMETHING
ABOUT HIM EVERYBOY SEES, LIKE A BRIGH LIGHT THAT ENTERS THE ROOM
--Regarding Age in Relationship
AGE SOULD NO MATTER IF THEY HAVR EVOLVED TO THE POINT THEY SEARVE
EACH OTHER
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
GAY BUT IS STILL A TOTAL MAN PACHAAGES
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
MEN
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
YOUR SOUL AND YOUR SPIRIT OTWEIGHTS ANY ORGANIZED RELIGION
--Regarding Love and Sex:
LOVE AND GOOD SEX IS A GIFT FOR GOD IN A RELARIONSHIP
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
FIREWORKS
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
STAY INDEPENDANT AND SELL IF IF FELLS RIGHT
--Regarding Risks
TRUTH AND TRUST
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I AM HEALTHY AND HAVE BEEN HIV SINCE 88!!!!! I NEVER FELT BETTER
--A funny relationship story:
HOW OPPOSITES CAN ATRACT AND THAT IN ITSELF CAN BE VERY FUNNY WHEN
LOVE IS PRESENT
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
ALWAYS LOVE WHEN LOVE IS SO HARD TO CALL ON
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Illicit Drugs
GIVING INTOFEAR AND SELF-WORTH
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IT IS FUN AND COVERS ALOT TO THINK ABOUT WHEN YOUVE JUST CONSIDERED
A NEW LOVE
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IS PEMIS SIZ IMPORANT!
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Fri Jun 22 22:21:26 2007
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--Relationship Is:
Was going good and bang one day a bomb exploded and then it was gone
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
communication and doing things together of interest
--The worst things about relationship are:
any type of abuse
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a good listner, communicator, fun loving and family oriented that
expresses or eludes love and kindness
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn to slow down a bit
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I could quit smoking otherwise I am a pretty decent person who has
unconditional love to give
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Talking to People
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Thu May 24 19:10:05 2007
Anonymous Guest 23 in banning, california =usa=
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--Relationship Is:
challenging, in the beginning every thing's great when you have
been with someone that you constantly feel you have to put up a
fight for it starts feeling like a roller coaster ride.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... very intense, I was 17 and moved
in with him and parents and other 2 children. he was 3
years older than me. we argued a lot but, we had a lot of
love for eachoter.
--The best things about relationship are:
sleeping in the same bed and cuddling. its such a comforting feeling.
--The worst things about relationship are:
mistrust
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
i need a hard working man.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
listen a little better instead of talking too much.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
living life.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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Sat Mar 31 20:31:36 2007
Anonymous Guest 44 in St. Louis, Missouri =United States=
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Prof/Studies: Corp. Teller/ Massage Therapist
RE: Handwriting: I don't have a partner at the time, but in the past I have examined
and tried to analyze it.
RE: My HW: pretty
AstroInfo: I am interested for entertainment. I wish it was more accurate
in predictions
I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and Cancer rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Honesty, commited, best friend, supportive, fun, loving, helpful,
caring and enjoy just being with each other
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...Not love at first sight, but did marry.
It ended after 13 years
--The best things about relationship are:
Just hanging out and enjoying each other completely.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Sharing everything. Not having enough alone time.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Loving, commited, supportive, confident, hard working, honest,
caring, love life, enjoy traveling
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Tear down walls of protection. Learn to cook. Open up more.
Not be so afraid.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I take things to heart to literally
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
To make decisions for both people not just me.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I don't respond well to belittling or screaming. I don't feel
like anything get solved like that.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
teeth, eyes, and kindness
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I don't think there is an age limit when you are both adults.
It depends on the people involved.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I choose people as my friends for the type of person they are not
their sexual preference. I have many gay friends who I adore and
most of the time enjoy hanging out with them more than I do my
straight friends.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am straight and prefer that.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't think you have to be of the same religion, I do think that
you have to have a common belief.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Very important
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I was too young.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
To each their own. I prefer to be married first before living
with someone. I need the commitment and stability.
--Regarding Risks
I finally told my close guy friend that there was somehting between
us after 2 years and he chose to go out with an exgirlfriend.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have not had, Thank God to deal with that issue, but I hope that
the person I am sleeping with is being honest because that is a
subject that is always discussed and if I have any doubts either
it doesn't happen or use a condom
--A funny relationship story:
Bad dates
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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I made me think about what I want in a relationship, I have not
thought about that specific.
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Thu Mar 1 06:23:16 2007
Anonymous Guest 41 in Boston, MA ==
F41 in Boston, MA ==
Name: "Mickey"
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Handwritting search
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RE: Handwriting: Its nice to be able to READ it.
RE: My HW: Bold, direct. My printing is all caps and very legible.
My penmenship is appalling.
AstroInfo: I have read it all, and had my chart done twice. I think people just
like to read about themselves (which I why I am on this webpage now).
I'm a: Aries Sun; with Gemini Moon; and Aries rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I relationship is an verbal expression of intimacy with an emotional
connection/commitment. It involves trust, respect, kindness and
love among many other emotional and/or physical descriptives.
Relationships are varied. They can range from work associates
(respect), parents, friends and family (love, trust, respect,
kindness).
--That first relationship was
Puppy love.
--The best things about relationship are:
A life partner. Someone I know I can count on when the foul weather
arrives, as it certaily does.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Trust. I think for the most part men are mostly providing a flowery
verbal presentation, not reliable action. Essentially, in my view,
men are "all talk, no action".
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
It is vital he has the ability to maintain a serious conversation
(an actual dialog), but is able to jump from that to clever
humor. Emotional and mental stability is for me far more important
than financial stability. He has to love to fish, be of higher
intellegence and hopefully be (ahem) adequate...
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I have a controlling side. Being aware of this certainly makes
the dealing of its byproducts easier. I also wish I could trust
more easily. I am still in the midst of wading through this mess
in an effort to overcome its pitfalls.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am prone to make snap decisions and take immediate action. This
isn't to say I do not come right back with an apology, catch my
breath and rethink the issue.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I will not tolerate a man that is inclined to view
pornography. Period.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being responsible for my actions relating to my spouse's needs. In
other words, does my actions/behavior positivly affect him? Am I
acting/behaving in a manner that is respectful? Loving? Am I doing
my part managing money? Chores? Maintaining open communication? Are
his needs being met?
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Communication is vital. I do not raise my voice, but rather
ask for him to sit with me fir a visit and experss my concerns.
Something I have found to be very useful for its bonding value,
it to mention the good I see in him. A day doesn't pass that I do
not mention something positive about him. He is also very quick to
uplift me. Although he is 7 years my junior, he has reached a point
where he can confront ME with issues as well. When "challenges"
arise, we have a loving, yet direct discussion about the issues.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Their "presence". I adore a dominant personality. Full of
confidence. Physically, the first thing I notice is their shoulders,
the broader the better. Hair color is next.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age does matter! And I laugh myself into the ground over this,
because I DO believe that, and yet, my fiancee is 7.5 years YOUNGER
than myself! We have quite the laugh over this when the subject
rears its curious little face!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't care. But I am offened that the gay community does. I do
not belive they should get special rights because of what they do
in their bedrooms.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Hetro
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
In my experience and opinion, it cannot be possible without similar
spiritual viewpoints.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex are roommates. Seperate yet very closely linked.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
=)) Disasterous. Hardly felt a thing. Pathetic tiny little guy
he was. I didn't really understand anything until boy #2 came along.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Either. It's up to the couple.
--Regarding Risks
I share my weaknesses with them. I confess to my controlling side,
and my lack of ability to trust. I do this in an effort to establish
open dialog and let him know that I have issues, too.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Whatever. If I take the risk, then I pay for it. We will all die
in the end. Egads!
--A funny relationship story:
OMGosh... I don't have the stamina in my wee little fingers to
complete this one!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
Very curious
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
My first marriage took place just after turning 17. No, I was
not pregnant.
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I think the question descriptions were too much. Instead of
allowing the reader to contemplate the question for themselves,
the webpage basically fed the reader ideas.
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What is up with this sordid porn craze? Why are men so addicted to
sex with pictures, then claims to want a relationship? I know THREE
ladies thus far that have had their homes and families broken apart
from this. It destroys a man's mind and breaks the woman's heart. I
simply do not understand...
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Fri Jan 19 00:27:43 2007
Anonymous Guest 24 in montreal, quebec =canada=
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RE: Handwriting: I have never thought about it although I came to this website
hoping to get some information on the handwriting of a guy I find
very interesting...
RE: My HW: no comment.
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--Relationship Is:
I think a relationship is about making each other's lives better,
making each other better. it is fundamentally about raising a
family. the person should stimulate you, motivate you, understand
you and besides helping you to achieve they must be there for you
when times are difficult, they must be there to pick you up. They
should have a good sense of who you are. There should be mutual
respect. There should be a balance between the two people.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... very intense, very physical and also
very intellectual. It was passionate, that was all I was
interested in, I did not understand what relationships
were about.
--The best things about relationship are:
Having someone who knows you so well and cares about so much that
they know and want to do exactly what you need to put a smile on your
face. Coming home to a warm hug. Comfort. Having someone to talk to.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Sometimes you can loose yourself in a relationship, it is important
to consider the other and compromise but you must not let the other
impeed on your needs and dreams. it is difficult, in this day and
age, with all the choices we have, to be sure that you are with
the right person.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
I would like someone that is smart, funny, that can see inside
me. Someone I can be goofy with and someone that I could talk to
for hours. Someone that has empathy for the world.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I would have to stop compromising too much. I would have to affirm
myself and let the person know who really am. I would have to go
out with their friends more often.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am a very secretive person, sometimes I should tell more about
myself instead of hoping that the other can see right through me.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I have been able to love someone not in spite of, but including
any bad habits. I am very open, maybe a little too much.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking care of the other person. Letting them know where you are
if that's appropriate, for example if you're living together and
can't come home one night. Making sure that you are doing as much
as your partner.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Me and my current boyfriend have very different styles. I like to
communicate, to argue, to have a passionate discussion. He does not
respond to me right away, I might have a big fit or a big intense
discussion and he will come back to me a few days later sometimes
with a response. In our case it is all about upbringing.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I think the face in general is the first thing but for me to be
interested I have to be touched somehow by his personnality.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age does not matter only because it is all quite relative. I think
it is more a question of timing and wanting the same things.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think it makes sense that there would be a continuum, after all
nothing is black or white in nature, nothing is that cut and dry.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I will always love men, but I can certainly appreciate a woman
esthetically, but her charm also.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If both partners can agree that their different faiths can live
together then there is no problem. I think that the reason for
believing is the most important to be on the smae page for both
partners.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I think sex is important in a relationship, it is a way to stay
close or get close to your partner wihtout the akwardness of words.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was with a guy that I really liked. I did not feel pressure to
perform, he pretty much took over and led the way. It definitely
got better from that point on.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I don't personnaly believe in mariage, it does not mean a great
deal to me. I am currently living with my boyfriend, and if I were
married I would feel trapped.
--Regarding Risks
I remembering opening myself up to a boyfriend when I was going
through rough time. Looking back, I think it scared him away but
I would not change the way I acted because he was imply not for me.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have been in a relationship for the past four years. Today I have
a greater awareness of these realities but back then I did not pay
much attention to it, did not think it could happen to me.
--A funny relationship story:
Me and my current boyfriend have our own goofy language. If ever
people saw us at our most extreme they would be shocked. We are
pretty insane.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
It came to me when I realised what I needed from a relationship and
I could then relate to the other better. The most important thing
was to understand the importance of communication.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
I would run into any relationship without thinking. It had to fuel
my passion.
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I have been thinking about relationships a lot these days and so
most of these questions I was laready thinking about.
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Fri Sep 29 13:57:10 2006
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RE: My HW: no ones ever commented
AstroInfo: I'm gemini through and through! Don;t really pay serious attention
to astrology, but often find descriptions of geminis match my
general personality
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--Relationship Is:
INteracting with another person on a level that goes deeper that
that which you hold with most people. Having someone to share your
interests, your time, laughter, dissappointments, physical love with
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... a frienship that turned into a
firey fling
--The best things about relationship are:
great sex, laughter, challenge, excitment
--The worst things about relationship are:
communications, maintaining a high level of excitment and interest,
maintaining a common direction
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who believes in me, who is supportive, who respects me and
my goals, who makes me laugh, who has a compatable libido level
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
listen more, communicate better
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
it is easy to hang onto something for the sake of comfort, or for
fear of the unknown. I am sometimes an enabler
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
if you earn my trust, respect and love, I am extremely loyal.
Break that trust and you'll never get it back.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I tend to notice eyes first - but mostly smile and sense of humour -
and I think I see or look for those things in the eyes.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I married someone 10 years older than me. Not an issue in our
early life, but right now I am a very young 40 year old and he is a
very old 50 year old so we have what sometimes seems like a30 year
age gap. Makes for some difficult times, but will probably seem
less again as time goes on. I'm not sure there is one " right "
answer - each individual's response to aging is so different.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Honestly haven't given it alot of thought. Live and let live.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm pretty much straight hetro. I do appreciate aesthetically
when someone of the same sex has a nice body, but don't have any
desire to explore it any further than that. I think its more an
appreciation of someone who takes good care of themself.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are very heavily intertwined
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was somewhat dissappointing as he had conflicting issues around
his religion. ( Good Catholic Boy)
He was gung-ho to have sex, but
immediately upon taking my virginity decided that that was a sinful
(bad) thing to do and was stupid. Thanks! It was somewhat painful,
but not bad - no rockets going off, but not awful either.
--Regarding Risks
don't have one - I'm pretty open to taking chances, and giving
people opportunities.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Protect yourself, and be honest with your partner(s) about your
previous history. Give them the choice as to whether or not they
want to risk their health.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
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Wed Sep 20 14:06:18 2006
Anonymous Guest 38 in Janesville, Wisconsin =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Non-Profit Program Administrator
RE: Handwriting: I'd love to analyze his handwriting. I think he's very tense and
his writing tends to be very small and tight. His face just looks
absolutely stern whenever he writes. It would be interesting.
RE: My HW: No comments from others. I think it is ok but not on a consistent
basis. If I'm writing a lot it shifts in technique.
AstroInfo: I haven't really noticed a consistency in compatibility between any
sign and mine. But I do check my yahoo horoscope, life and career,
daily and it's pretty accurate.
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--Relationship Is:
The coexistence of two or more people from different backgrounds and
experiences, each making a commitment to be good and loving to one
another despite their differences. Two people committing to caring
for, sharing with, spending time with, and respecting each other.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... what I thought would be a summer fling
but turned out to be a 6 year relationship. The person,
I thought at first, was just 3 years older than me but he
soon confessed to being 6.5 years older than me. We lived
in different cities, continued dating others, saw each other
when we were in each other cities, wrote and talked on the
phone regularly the entire time.
--The best things about relationship are:
The first kiss. The complete chaos and uncertainty of letting
yourself fall in love.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Jealousy, doubt, and the complete chaos and uncertainty of letting
yourself fall in love.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A nice guy. Someone respectful, funny, relatively optimistic,
a hard worker, someone who shares at least one of my interests,
someone who can be independent and still make time for me, someone
with a big heart and genuine love and respect for his family and
friends, someone without gender biases.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be less accomodating and more independent, be more outgoing, be
more accepting of love.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I tend to want to be right, not necessarily in control, but right.
That can cause arguments.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I am accomodating. They may infuriate me at times, but I get
over it.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Understanding the other persons needs and choosing your actions
accordingly. In my first relationship I somehow totally grasped
that he was at this different stage in his life and had no problem
giving him his freedom and actually insisting that we both carry on
our lives with people our own ages and in our own cities. in the
end I ended it because I felt it unfair to keep tagging him along
when I knew I wasn't ready for permanent commitment and he was.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
It always goes back to the idea that each person must recognize
that they both grew up in different environments, different family
settings, and with different experiences. That means we will all
communicate differently and must always seek first to understand
and then to be understood.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes and personality. a man has to be nice, funny, and respectful
and them I'm hooked.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
To each his own. If it happens it happens. But an adult should
always be the careful one and the cautious one when dealing with
someone under 18.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't entirely agree. Although a person may find members of the
same sex attractive, that seems as though it would be more out of
comparison sake rather than desire. Doesn't mean they have the
ability to have an intimate relationship with a same sex person.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I have found many a woman sexy and am intrigued with the concept
of two women and a man. I am not at all interested in thoughts of
being just with a woman. It seems empty.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
As long as any person, regardless of reliqion, is not too caught
up in that religions dogma and is more focused on spirituality and
the philosophy of his religion, any couple should be able to work
it out regardless of religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I need to feel loved to appreciate sex. If I'm being disrespected,
or not shown love in daily life, I can't feel like having sex.
Hand in hand if you're in a committed relationship. However,
if you're not, your frame of mind is different and I'd be more
accepting of a playful romp just for the sake of a romp.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
awkward and painful. Not well thought out or well planned.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I did it myself and think it was a mistake. We all have preconceived
ideas of marriage - regardless of whether those concepts are present
in our co-habitation scenario. So shifting from living together to
marriage is heck! It also lends itselt to making lifetime decisions
out of a sense of convenience or comfort, instead of taking a risk,
rather than out of desire.
--Regarding Risks
My first serious relationship. I was young (15) and just clueless
about love or what it felt like. He was 21 and ready for more
in his life. Still we lasted 6 years. It was hard for me to
accept when he said he loved me and hoped to marry me someday.
usually that sort of intimacy would send me running and hiding
for a while. It led to a few break ups before we, usually at my
suggestion, got back together.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It certainly would affect my actions if I were single. I'd either
remain celibate or insist on a condom until monogamy were established
and we both consented to screenings.
--A funny relationship story:
When dating my husband, we rendezvouzed at his parents house when
they were supposed to be out of town. They arrived home to find us
in a rather compromising position on their living room floor. Oops.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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It was very interesting to complete. It does generate a lot of
thought about how I approach this subject.
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Fri Aug 25 18:58:00 2006
Anonymous Guest 23 in orlando, fl =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: as long as everyone can read it and it is leagable then i dont care.
RE: My HW: neat but mess when im in a rush.
AstroInfo: dunno
I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
i would say it is the way i feel around that perosn or thing and
they treat me so good.
--That first relationship was
my first love who is my best guy firned we are still friend
nothing more.
--The best things about relationship are:
love
friendship
have someone there so your not alone
support
sex
having someone who you want to marry and have kids with
giving you love to someone
romance
be romantic for someone
getting attention
giving attention to someone
having someone
else to love other thatn your family
being able to give and share
things with someone
giving and taking
--The worst things about relationship are:
having your partner not get alone with your friends
bad sex
not
commating like you should be
half listening to what is said
lies
cheating
family hating mate
frineds hating mate
mate want you
to be with him and leave your friends
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a kind caring giving person
who is opened minded
wants a wife and
kids
do not have to explain my american jamaican/indian culture
someone who has goals in life and knows how to get them
thy
either graduated college or in college
he has to have GOD in his
life
he has to be not fat or have tendencies to get fat.
he has
to like me just the way iam with every flaw
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
i could get a better job.
be more indepent
be more open with it
come to sex
dont worry and this that my partner is gonna leave or
doing something bad to me like all the other.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
me moving too fast then stopping to king about what i did
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
my partners habits help me. he is so straight forward with me
sometimes he asked me if what is said hurt my feelings and sometimes
he does. he is also overly critical of the things i say and i like
that cause he makes me think of what i say and how i say it.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
50 50 you have to give and take to make a relationship work.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
we all need to claim down when were in an arguement and listen to
the other person then say out peace. we to listen and think about
what we want to say before we say it.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
his voice. and his body and personality.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age is just a number once your a year or two voer 18 then age should
not matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
there is only straight and GOD made us to be straight for a reason
so if your gay .... then your going to hell and thats thats
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
im straight as can be. some of my closest frineds tell me that im
homophobic. and it for a good reason. GOD said he deos not want us
to be gay if you are then your going to hell and thats all to it
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
if my partner and i beleive in GOD and the Bile and that all gays
are going to hell then were are cool he has to want to raise our
kids in the church...
--Regarding Love and Sex:
sex does not equal love. you got to love first then sex comes way
way way later after you have said i love you and meant it. sex is
just something that make too people that love each other with all
there hearts closer physically, spirtually, and emotionally.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was the worst experience i ever had
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
nope hell no he will not get marrige previalges before marrige. if
something was to happen i would just be the girlfriend nothing more.
--Regarding Risks
i told a past partner that i was bipolar and that when i was in
second grade... and he used this against me he used the disorder
i had and so fears i had to try to take advange of me and plus he
also held back his self from getting closer to me cause he thought
that i was somewhat crzy cause i have bipolar disorder.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
my partner will be tested before there is sex we both will be. and
we will still wear condoms until marrige.
--A funny relationship story:
when he hinted that he wanted to break up with me because of my
family problem and the fact i got drunk and passed out at his house
and he took care of me but while i was drunk i did some hurtful
things to him infront of his good friends.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations
the problems we had and how i dealed with in the wrong way and this
made evrything worst.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
me freaking out and not telling him some important things and plus
lying about the important stuff.
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it was too long.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
nope
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Sun Aug 13 18:18:39 2006
Anonymous Guest 36 in MB, SC =USA=
F36 in MB, SC =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Mom
RE: Handwriting: I have not had the opportunity to apply it. I've always had the
ability to read people, handwriting is just another aspect of it.
Body language, written language goes hand in hand.
RE: My HW: I am told I have beautiful handwriting.
I can see through 6 years
of journals how moods, state of mind, depression, happiness, etc
changed my writing.
AstroInfo: Love astrology and I've read everything I can-I have the mind of
a sieve and can't retain details. The big chunky stuff stays in
there, so I know each sign and their traits in general. I also
dabbled in Tarot.
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--Relationship Is:
you + chair = relationship between ass and chair. It is a
connection, a transfer of information, a useful often pleasurable
action.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... immature puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
comfort, happiness, strength, friendship, orgasms :) not the fake
ones either because you're honest now.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Moods, learning when not to push the wrong buttons. Not knowing
each other right away and finding out your opinions differ and
trying to find a balance.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who makes me laugh, loves me when I'm ugly, knows when to
leave me alone. I'm lucky like that :)
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Cook more. Learn how to save money.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am a homebody. I am not fond of crowds, like in clubs, since
I'm not even a good dancer. Plus I live in a resort town, where
the traffic is terrible and I don't like being angry. But in the
off season I love the beach! I'm pretty sure I'm not even answering
this question right lol I'm absent minded!
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Either he has no strange habits or I am so used to them that it
has no effect on my relationship.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Since I stay at home it is my responsibility to make sure the house
is clean, dinner is cooked, the laundry is done, the bed is made
and there is iced tea in a glass when he comes home. It is his
responsibility to bring home the bacon and make sure I'm happy
enough to do all that crap up there :)
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
you have to take each situation and work it differently. It is
important not to suppress your feelings and opinions, you just
have to pick your time. Yelling gets you nowhere, but sometimes
you just have to.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The eyes and teeth, having both and all is pretty important, though
I could fall in love with a toothless cyclopse if he made me laugh.
I'm drawn to needy souls.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter, well if you're 55 and she's 12, that's
just sick-but consenting adults over the age of 25 have at it.
Whatever makes you happy.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I really dont get the woding of this question, so I'll answer it
best I can in my own way. I am heterosexual , I've had homosexual
experiences, and I believe that most people do and won't admit it.
Maybe even just thoughts, but the idea is there. People should
just live and let live, who gives a crap what people do behind
closed doors.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Oh, I answered that up there^^^^
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it's all BS. Before there was a need for control, people worshipped
the sun, the moon, the earth, the rain...you get my drift. I have
FAITH. I believe in good and bad, not Heaven and Hell. I believe
we have energies that never go out. I believe some people can tap
into other energies and increase their abilities, it's having faith
in yourself. My partner would (and does) accept that.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I love sex. I love my man and I love making him happy. He's just
lucky he's the one that found my spot and gave me my first real
orgasm lol
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It hurt and I was scared my mother would find out, so I puked.
Puked the 2nd and 3rd time after that too.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I think it's a great idea to take it for a test drive. You really
don't know someone until you live with them.
--Regarding Risks
I am an open book. People just tell me things. Even if I don't
open my mouth-I must emit an aura of trust. The check out lady at
Wal-Mart told me her marital problems while ringing up my stuff.
I take risks, sometimes to the limits of obscene, but it's just to
maintain my sanity.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Stick with one partner and keep it exciting. If you can't do that
protect yourself!! Protect yourself anyway, kids dont need to come
until after you're sure this is the person you want for a long time.
I mean kids keep you strapped!
--A funny relationship story:
Would I deprive you of a chuckle if I said there have been so many
funny things, I can't remember one of them?
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other:
experience, I guess it's spontanious, but more making a few mistakes
and realizing what worked and what didn't.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy
I worried if God would be mad at me for a while, until hormones
raged and blinded me from caring.
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I dunno, I just answered some questions. I was thinking I would
get feedback.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
Well, that question about homosexuality was confusing. ANd if I was
totally off the wall and didn't answer a question correctly then
that one probably needs rewording too. Most people like straight
forward, common worded questions. I think unless you target them,
highly intelligent people don't fill these things in. And I think
I'm pretty smart.
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Wed Jul 12 22:14:54 2006
Anonymous Guest 45 in , =USA=
F45 in , =USA=
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RE: Handwriting: Actually, it was very important -= my first husband's handwriting
did not compliment mine as well, and we had ours analyzed. That was
the precursor. . .
RE: My HW: Yup - both my husband and myself have had comments on our
handwriting. My husbands is beautiful and rounded. Mine is neat
and precise, but with flourishes that have been called ornate.
They seem to complement each other.
AstroInfo: Eh. . . Sometimes we read the horoscope, sometimes not.
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--Relationship Is:
I would explain it based on attraction to a person's mind, body
and soul. A mutual attraction. The bonds are formed, and as with
anything, there will be some friction. Stressors will be present,
but the true nature of maintaining a healthy relationship is to work
things through with each other, so that both people grow mentally,
emotionally, and spiritually with each other at a fairly even rate
(relational to each other, of course).
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was puppy love - and most amusing was that
"Puppy Love" by Donny Osmond was indeed the top song of the
year! Red-headed boy named Graham. We rode bikes together,
and wrote notes back and forth in school. Alas, that was
a sweet year in 4th grade, but Graham moved away, and I
think I crushed on someone else . . . Randy, I think. . .
--The best things about relationship are:
The companionship, the love, the support, just being with them
and sharing experiences and life. Nothing is better than shared
memories, sensations, thoughts, dreams, and ideas.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Maintaining the physical balance of family and personal needs.
Sometimes it is also seeking outside advice to heal the relationship
rifts - as the outside viewer often tends to assist in re-calibration
of what is "really" a problem, what is not, and steps for resolution
or concensus with the people involved in the relationship.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A best friend, a confidante, a person who has similar dreams and
goals, one who can share, one who is comfortable with themselves
and others, kindness and helping spirit, willingness to explore
the spirituality, one to be active with. . .
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I could be more outspoken on some issues, more assertive when I
am dissatisfied, better at standing up for myself, and a little
less insecure.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am not always willing to talk about problems - as that is
considered whining. I am also too willing to ignore something in
hopes that it will correct itself.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Required to be patient and not too critical.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking responsibility for the other person's feelings and doing
your best not to hurt them. Taking responsibility on tasks, chores,
emotional stresses, and sometimes even taking the lead on decisions
- although another part is allowing responsibility to be taken by
the other as well.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Critical. Essential. I am in a relationship with a talker -
a communicator. I am not so much. I will not debate. If there
is an argument, I will usually just sit back and listen rather
than confront. However, after 20 years, I have gotten better about
that - and more diplomatic about saying "bull-s((()"
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Personality, voice, kindness and attitude. Appearances are nice
and a lovely bonus, but that is not what will last you through the
years. . .
--Regarding Age in Relationship
YOu need to have things in common. Common reference points.
JOkes that become one-liners - or even a single word that can bring a
smile to both persons. A common frame of background, music, books,
interests, pursuits. YOu do not have to be twins - but at least
an appreciation of the other's interest and building understanding
between the two. Anything else as to age is irrelevant. If the
understanding is built and expanded upon to provide common referents,
then that is all that is necessary.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
As a biologist, we see continuums of this in nearly every (I won't
say every, because saying all or never tends to be incorrect)
species of animals. Homosexual tendencies begin to show up under
crowded conditions, and have been documented in all hominids.
This continuum is biological in nature (although I also think some
people may tend to "force" their preferences depending on whether
they want to conform or rebel).
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I believe I am mostly heterosexual (saying that, because again,
I mistrust "totally")
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Fairly wide open. I actually married an agnostic. However, we now
both share a same religious preference, although maybe differing
levels of spirituality. HOwever, it is not taboo, and there is give
and take. The most important thing is tolerance - and discussion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Just being with the one you love is wonderful.
However, sex without
love is just sad.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I think I was excited and disappointed all in the same breath.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It really depends on the people involved. My parents were married
before living together - and are celebrating 40 years of marriage.
I was married to my first husband before living together and finding
out just how incompatible we were. My 2nd current husband and
I lived together for a year, then married, and just celebrated
our 20th anniversary. It really totally depends on the persons
involved. Are they ready for a commitment or just looking for
temporary security (an oxymoron).
--Regarding Risks
When I accepted a date from an upperclassman (and class president)
in highschool that I had admired but had never even considered might
be interested in asking me out! That was terrifying! And exciting!
Lasted for 6 months, and was a really hard "fall" - even though I
recognized the signs of withdrawal first, and I took the steps to
end the relationship. Not something I wanted to do, but it was
necessary, and as a result, maintained a friendship the remained
special.
The second was when I was dating a professional musician,
and he offered several times to fly me out to Nashville with him.
I guess I was too afraid to believe he was truly interested in
maintaining a relationship, so I declined. I will always wonder
on that one. . .
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
We have been very lucky. We have also discussed this with our sons
as they grow up, so they are fully aware (or as aware as possible)
of the dangers of unprotected sexual encounters.
--A funny relationship story:
Actually, some of them are very funny. Come to think of it,
I believe most of them were funny - which is what made them so
very nice.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
My best friend was 6 ft tall in 5th grade, and her boyfriend was an
"older" middle school basketball player. We would talk a lot about
her relationship - but mine was an unrequited crush on a boy named
Dan - the smartest kid in the class, but too shy!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
My other best friend and I were fairly clueless on relationships
with "boys" - so it was really a lack of experience and lack of
interest at that age. . .
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
Yes - I think emotional maturity is a critical factor.
Also,
asking about being friends in a relationship is a good idea.
It worked for us. . .
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Thu Apr 6 05:07:11 2006
Anonymous Guest 19 in Nairobi, =Kenya=
F19 in Nairobi, =Kenya=
Name: Sharon
Email: <nkathaloves@gmail.com>
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RE: Handwriting: I don't bother much about handwriting but I like artistic looking
handwritings with curves. King of like my own. Long looping L's
anr curved F;s
RE: My HW: They always say it's beautiful and unique. Some say it's artistic.
AstroInfo: I'm in love with astrology. I know my star sign though am still
researchng on my moon sign. I'm capricorn so am compatible with
scorpios, cancer
I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is a sharing between two willing people who deeply
care about each other and respect eah other.
--That first relationship was
It was more of a hot now cold now relationship. He would go from
hot to cold(He was Gemini!!) so When he was sort of balanced
out, it was fiery.
--The best things about relationship are:
The feeling of oneness, sharing, kindness when sad, no more stuggles
to face alone, a friend I can count on and trust, Oh there are
numerous things!Understanding each other and knowing each other in
and out.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Lack of trust,selfishness,lack of caring, over
possesiveness,pessimism,unbalanced moods of one's partner i.e hot
now cold next..
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A mature person with a balanced attitude to life, open
minded,funny,optimistic,playful,spontaneous,open,carries his heart
on his sleeve,not shy,passionate,hardworker,trustworthy,must be
my friend.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Stop being stubborn,reduce some of my pride,be more open,trust
enough to say "I love you!",not give up easily when "things aren't
working out"
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I give myself excuses of why I shouldn't approach a guy and tell
him I'd like us to be more than friends saying that it's not done,
I guess am scared of being rejected
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Argumentative partners are my worst followed by Lying to me openly.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Marriage with a capital "M" and Kids with a capital "K"
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
If my boyfriend is obviously mad and is yelling at me I usually
lower my own voice, listen to what he's saying and even if it's
unfair I try to see his point f view. If all else fails I either
walk out or resort to humour.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The eyes. a persons eyes are what attrat me first to a person then
I start noticing other things. After all "the eyes are the morror
to the soul"
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age maters. Maturity and experiences help two people to relate
well. The ideal would be someone at most 10 years your senior or
5 years your junior.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
everyone is different altogether. Sexuality doesn't reflect on a
persons character and so I think either way we are all human.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm totally heterosexual.I'm attracted to the opposite sex though
am curious about homosexual affairs though I've never tried it.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If two people trully love each other, religion doesn't matter as
long as you have the same views on moral issues then this can't
stop a relationship from taking place.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
\love and sex are two different entities.sex can happen between two
people who don't love each other but I believe it's more meaningful
and fulfilling between two people who love each other.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Confusing,awkward, a huge mistake and if I could review it I probably
would have had it with someone else.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It depends on if I am looking for something long term or short
term. either that or am not too sure about my relationship with
the guy. It could work for some instances though i wouldn't like
to go through it.
--Regarding Risks
None! oh my am so boring!! No risks
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I don't believe someone should let their partner have 100%
trust. When it comes to STD's I say protect yourself and be safe!
--A funny relationship story:
Well me and my boyfriend were kissing at afriens house and when
he walked in on us, My boyfriend pretended to be getting something
out of my eye!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family
I thhink I learned about relationships thrugh experiencs(my own)
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
My mother and father never had what I could call a real "connection"
so that colored my opinion somewhat about relationships
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I hadn't noticed.
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--Relationship Is:
Codependence and loving partnership
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... intense
--The best things about relationship are:
Stability, trust, loyalty and understanding
--The worst things about relationship are:
time alone, no responsibility
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who understands me and loves me for who I am
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Patience and effort
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How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends
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--Relationship Is:
It's a very complex commitment; to someone whom you care deeply for,
that challenges your spirit daily.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
hugs, kisses, validation, compliments, flirting, goofing around,
laughter, confidentiality, trust, hope, happiness, equality, respect,
dignity, unshakeable love and commitment
--The worst things about relationship are:
anger, disrespect, frustration, lack of trust, lack of communication,
yelling, fighting, verbal and physical attacks, silent treatment,
hurtful words and actions
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a person who will love me for who I am and will treat me well
and fairly.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
work harder on listening,accept him for who he is, try harder to
work together, not shoot down every idea he has, try to work on
myself more, improve my health so I would have more energy
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I blame others in my life for making my life miserable by holding
them responsible for things tat are missing in my life. I get easily
frustrated and give up to easily on caring about those around me
and my own environment.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My husband gets easily frustrated with my inability to care for
our children's disabilties and how others in society treat our
children and us too. He doesn't like how I give up so easily and
how I let others comments and behaviors bother me. He doesn't feel
like I freely accept him and he feels like my expectations of him
are too demanding and unfair.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
taking care of my family on a daily basis and trying not to lose
my mind or my temper.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
You must try to live, speak cautiously, listen carefully,
fight fairly and respectfully, maintain an unwavering level of
patience,commitment to the other person, self control, and dignity,
above all try not to lose yourcomposure
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality, looks, physique, humor, respectful, honesty, fun to
be with, spontaneity
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter but you should make sure that you really want
to be in a long term relationship with the person by spending
at least one year getting to know one another. Also get to know
someone before having sex because once you go that far there's no
going back. It also throws the relationship into a whole new level;
that could confuse your emotions and true feelings for someone.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
The whole gammit of sexual behaviors and how they are acted out,
has become very distorted by the entertainment industry; and by
other people trying to determine what true love should be like
inside of a "normal society". I don't understand homosexuality or
other distortions of what relationships were meant to be like.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I prefer heterosexuality and being committed to one person of the
opposite sex; and loving that person with all of your soul.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Sometimes if both people have different religious beliefs or
values; it can become a challenging obstacle to overcome in a
relationship. It can become something that can cause much division
between people if not discussed early in the relationship. Some
people can agree to disagree but that's not always the case;
especially when you have a german and irish mixture of temperaments.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and behaviors affect how you canfeel about the sexual part of
your relationship. If your partner just got done tearing you down
verbally; or ignored you all day, and then expects you to bypass
your hurt and have sex there's no way that's happening.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It wasn't all that great in the way that I felt cheated out of
having the fantasy experience. It's portrayed as a big fairy tale
and perfectly wonderful experience; but when there's no love or true
commitment it turns out to be a very empty and hurtful experience.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
it's a lot easier to take a person for granted and to leave
the relationship when you aren't married. Like I said before,
sex without love and a lifetime commitment to your partner is
meaningless and empty.
--Regarding Risks
ten years ago when I decided to get married and have children.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
that if our society were more committed to helping people develop
respectful relationships; and teaching them to respect themselves
enough to not give their bodies to just anyone, sexually transmitted
diseases could be wiped out or at least decreased greatly.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model
life experiences
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
bad parental role models
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helpful in that it made me think about my relationship style
and values
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can't think right now, too tired after all of those questions
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Love others as Christ loved us! Be gentle, loving, caring, kind
and forgiving and you WILL be blessed!
RE: Handwriting: I am receptive to good cursive handwriting or good printing, but
certainly don't let a person's handwriting or printing affect how
much I might or might not love them!
RE: My HW: This has varied, depending on how hurried I was when I wrote
something. Sometimes I've be told my handwriting was beautiful
or neat, but othertimes, I've had complaints that it was basically
illegible!
AstroInfo: I used to read Horoscopes finding things that were "right" and
ignored those that were wrong. I no longer believe in Horoscopes. The
sky has changed so much over time that horoscopes based on today's
dates & signs are wrong anyway.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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"Out of the Shadows" for identifying and dealing with sexual
addiction
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Dr. Patrick Carnes
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--Relationship Is:
A deep, soul-gripping, Creator-given love/tie to another being.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... with my pet lamb, which I bottle-fed
and was then killed in front of me and I was made to eat
her for Sunday dinner. THAT was the first time I sensed a
"love" relationship. I was about 8. The same year, as I
recall, I was incested/raped by an older, same sex, male
family member. He said he loved me...but there was a price.
It went on for 5 wonderful and confusing years.
--The best things about relationship are:
(Agape) love, trust, honesty, reassuring and suportive conversation
and physical contact (like hugs)
--The worst things about relationship are:
In being totally honest, there is the fear of the loved one's
negative reactin to something I might say/have said or do/have done.
There might be expectations I am not aware of or ones that I know,
neither of which I might (always) live up to and might disappoint
the very one I love most dearly!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Intense, intimate agape love, honesty, total trust, reasuring
and supportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) and
verbal confirmation of reciprocal love and compassion, physical
and spiritual beauty!
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Without exception or any further failings, live my life totally
committed to being obedient to Chist's teachings and LIVE those
things for my loved one(s) to know and see are real and consistent -
not stumbling ever agai!
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
My confused, incest-based experience of "love" between two men has
led me to an alcohol and drug-based perverted experience of "love"
- despite a happy marriage, which I abandoned to seek the "real"
love that I felt I was lacking...until I found God's love for me
and shared that with others. THAT was the loe I had been seeking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My partner should be loyal and dedicated to our relationship.
Reliable in what is promised, said or planned to be done. Needs to
be continually honest, loving, caring and compassionate towards me
AND others.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being loyal, reliable, trustworthy, dedicated, committed,
finanically, socially, legally and emotionally "right".
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Always talking openly and spontaneously with each other with love,
respect, honesty and faith in the "foreverness" of the relationship
about ANYTHING: any problem, something funny, plans for the future,
forgiving the past, etc.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A sense of an individual's INNER being, followed by: eyes, behavior
and physical appearance.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I believe love is a state of the SOUL, not the mind or body,
and is beyond consideration of "age". Love is not, at first, a
physical/sexual thing. That might or might not evolve. The most
important thing is that love exists!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe "straight" people can have "gay" experiences, without
jeopardizing their overall "preference" or commitment to their
heterosexual partners. I believe gays are committed to gay liftstyles
- and there are "bi's".
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
My distorted view of love from a man, due to incest at a young age,
led me to seek that same-sex love through most of my adult life,
despite being married and having wonderful children. Finding agape
love was what I needed!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
The beauty of a "love" relationship is that it gives the opportunity
to share the love of Christ with those we love. "Love one another
as I loved you" said Christ! Being of the same "Religion" isn't
important. Belief is!
--Regarding Love and Sex:
As I said above, I believe that love and sex are seperate and sex
might not even ever occur - even in the most sincere and intense
love relationships.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was adult male-to-male child, but I felt human love for the
first time (for 5 years). It felt good being loved! I sought to
recreate that love all my life without success - until finding the
agape love of one Christian for another!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
After 40 years of "drugs, sex, rock 'n roll" wandering in my own
proverbial "desert", I finally found Christ and believe that we
should try our best to be obedient to Him in ALL things and we
should marry and not co-habitate.
--Regarding Risks
Being totally open and honest about my past, and present, life
experiences. My commitments, my dears, my rights and my wrongs.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I belive that, without going into details of one's personal past,
number and sexes of partners, etc., when entering into a sexual,
love relationship, a simple physical and, if needed, medication,
would be best.
--A funny relationship story:
Nothing in particular, but the constant smiling, good humor/demeanor
exhibited by my best friend is my source of fun, self-worth and joy,
as well as the joy of the Lord.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy
Finding the love of God for me was the love I had always sought
but couldn't define - until I found it... The love of one Crhistian
for another!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
- - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - -
I think it was very time-consuming, but exceptionally worthwhile!
Completing your questionnaire helped me analyze and verbalize a
lot of things that were not normally expressed, but probably known
"down deep inside".
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
What is my sexual preference: homosexual vs. heterosexual (a) past) &
(b) present? For me, "love=sexual contact" was with anonymous males,
but now, my agape LOVE can be with a male and/or female. My life
partner? Preferably female.
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Name: Rapha
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More personal info:
Love others as Christ loved us! Be gentle, loving, caring, kind
and forgiving and you WILL be blessed!
RE: Handwriting: I am receptive to good cursive handwriting or good printing, but
certainly don't let a person's handwriting or printing affect how
much I might or might not love them!
RE: My HW: This has varied, depending on how hurried I was when I wrote
something. Sometimes I've be told my handwriting was beautiful
or neat, but othertimes, I've had complaints that it was basically
illegible!
AstroInfo: I used to read Horoscopes finding things that were "right" and
ignored those that were wrong. I no longer believe in Horoscopes. The
sky has changed so much over time that horoscopes based on today's
dates & signs are wrong anyway.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Recommended Reading-- Titles:
"Out of the Shadows" for identifying and dealing with sexual
addiction
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Dr. Patrick Carnes
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
--Relationship Is:
A deep, soul-gripping, Creator-given love/tie to another being.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... with my pet lamb, which I bottle-fed
and was then killed in front of me and I was made to eat
her for Sunday dinner. THAT was the first time I sensed a
"love" relationship. I was about 8. The same year, as I
recall, I was incested/raped by an older, same sex, male
family member. He said he loved me...but there was a price.
It went on for 5 wonderful and confusing years.
--The best things about relationship are:
(Agape) love, trust, honesty, reassuring and suportive conversation
and physical contact (like hugs)
--The worst things about relationship are:
In being totally honest, there is the fear of the loved one's
negative reactin to something I might say/have said or do/have done.
There might be expectations I am not aware of or ones that I know,
neither of which I might (always) live up to and might disappoint
the very one I love most dearly!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Intense, intimate agape love, honesty, total trust, reasuring
and supportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) and
verbal confirmation of reciprocal love and compassion, physical
and spiritual beauty!
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Without exception or any further failings, live my life totally
committed to being obedient to Chist's teachings and LIVE those
things for my loved one(s) to know and see are real and consistent -
not stumbling ever agai!
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
My confused, incest-based experience of "love" between two men has
led me to an alcohol and drug-based perverted experience of "love"
- despite a happy marriage, which I abandoned to seek the "real"
love that I felt I was lacking...until I found God's love for me
and shared that with others. THAT was the loe I had been seeking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My partner should be loyal and dedicated to our relationship.
Reliable in what is promised, said or planned to be done. Needs to
be continually honest, loving, caring and compassionate towards me
AND others.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being loyal, reliable, trustworthy, dedicated, committed,
finanically, socially, legally and emotionally "right".
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Always talking openly and spontaneously with each other with love,
respect, honesty and faith in the "foreverness" of the relationship
about ANYTHING: any problem, something funny, plans for the future,
forgiving the past, etc.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A sense of an individual's INNER being, followed by: eyes, behavior
and physical appearance.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I believe love is a state of the SOUL, not the mind or body,
and is beyond consideration of "age". Love is not, at first, a
physical/sexual thing. That might or might not evolve. The most
important thing is that love exists!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe "straight" people can have "gay" experiences, without
jeopardizing their overall "preference" or commitment to their
heterosexual partners. I believe gays are committed to gay liftstyles
- and there are "bi's".
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
My distorted view of love from a man, due to incest at a young age,
led me to seek that same-sex love through most of my adult life,
despite being married and having wonderful children. Finding agape
love was what I needed!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
The beauty of a "love" relationship is that it gives the opportunity
to share the love of Christ with those we love. "Love one another
as I loved you" said Christ! Being of the same "Religion" isn't
important. Belief is!
--Regarding Love and Sex:
As I said above, I believe that love and sex are seperate and sex
might not even ever occur - even in the most sincere and intense
love relationships.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was adult male-to-male child, but I felt human love for the
first time (for 5 years). It felt good being loved! I sought to
recreate that love all my life without success - until finding the
agape love of one Christian for another!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
After 40 years of "drugs, sex, rock 'n roll" wandering in my own
proverbial "desert", I finally found Christ and believe that we
should try our best to be obedient to Him in ALL things and we
should marry and not co-habitate.
--Regarding Risks
Being totally open and honest about my past, and present, life
experiences. My commitments, my dears, my rights and my wrongs.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I belive that, without going into details of one's personal past,
number and sexes of partners, etc., when entering into a sexual,
love relationship, a simple physical and, if needed, medication,
would be best.
--A funny relationship story:
Nothing in particular, but the constant smiling, good humor/demeanor
exhibited by my best friend is my source of fun, self-worth and joy,
as well as the joy of the Lord.
- - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - -
1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy
Finding the love of God for me was the love I had always sought
but couldn't define - until I found it... The love of one Crhistian
for another!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
- - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - -
I think it was very time-consuming, but exceptionally worthwhile!
Completing your questionnaire helped me analyze and verbalize a
lot of things that were not normally expressed, but probably known
"down deep inside".
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
What is my sexual preference: homosexual vs. heterosexual (a) past) &
(b) present? For me, "love=sexual contact" was with anonymous males,
but now, my agape LOVE can be with a male and/or female. My life
partner? Preferably female.
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--Relationship Is:
To be one together yet separate, respect and consideration,
acceptance and compassion, compromise, letting go...
...who am
I trying to kid? I've never achieved it, how can I define it??
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...obsession and convenience.
--The best things about relationship are:
focusing on myself and my own issues and letting them do the same...
--The worst things about relationship are:
...yet trying to figure out a way to live in sanity at the same time.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who can accept that we are probably both pretty messed up or
disfunctional (otherwise, we wouldn't be attracted to each other)
and there is nothing either one of us can do to fix the other one
or make it better--all we can do is stay in our own "yard" and try
not to throw our garbage on their side of the fence or blame them
for the crap we're tripping over. And hopefully have a barbeque
together every once in a while when we're having a good day.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more content with myself and therefore more content with my
partner; accept that if they are in a bad mood, it is a reflection
from their inner space and I don't have to take it personally;
accept that they are not me--they do not think or feel the same
way I do and that's okay for them and I don't have to like it or
agree with it but I can choose to live with it.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to keep the focus on me, otherwise I will try to blame,
shame, and criticize.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Unless it involves physical or emotional abuse, my partner's
behaviors are irrelevant to my happiness.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I am automatically attracted to a disfunctional personality
(preferrably a drug addict or alcoholic); thankfully, I no longer
have to act on that initial attraction.
--Regarding Risks
everything that's led up to this point in my life.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
I've never learned from watching others--always had to make my own
mistakes (over and over and over and over and...) before I figured
it out.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
stubborness and naiveté
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How'd I do? Well
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Name: Venita
Email: <venita_brown@hotmail.com>
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RE: Handwriting: I get along better with a Messy handwriting person.
RE: My HW: neat
AstroInfo: no
I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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Friendship, trust, dependable, giving,loyalty and unconditional love.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... married at first sight
--The best things about relationship are:
Friendship
--The worst things about relationship are:
Selfishness
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I like to live alone, with short visits
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It is a big problem
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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How'd I do? How well
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Thu Nov 3 08:40:32 2005
Anonymous Guest 39 in zagreb, =croatia=
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Prof/Studies: teacher
AstroInfo: disinterested
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--Relationship Is:
a warm, emotional connection between two people
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was warm, friendly
--The best things about relationship are:
some very beatiful precious days and moments, long talks, little
surprises, enjoying someones presence, ...
--The worst things about relationship are:
complicated misunderstandings
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
him - fantasy person who exists
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
express my feelings more open
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
a question if I am realy able to take it
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
we need to listen more carefully, to talk more open - we need to
learn it
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
good heart, inteligence
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it matters but it is not the most important thing...
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
don`t think it is continuum
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Totally heterosexual like most people I know
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
for me very important, my basic interest - for me it is important
for relationship
--Regarding Love and Sex:
it is all about love... sex is only one way of expression of love
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Love is not a pair of shoes - it is not for trying
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How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family
books and church helped too
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other Role Model
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Fri Oct 21 11:23:36 2005
Anonymous Guest 29 in oak hill, ohio =USA=
F29 in oak hill, ohio =USA=
Name: Dawn
Email: <ohiohottie20032002@yahoo.com>
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Prof/Studies: burger king
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--Relationship Is:
a relationship is two people who love each other and want to be
with each other
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
spend each day with the person that i love
--The worst things about relationship are:
having some one tell you what you can and can't do
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
some one who is night inshinning armor
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not beind a whiner
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
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Thu Oct 20 08:47:58 2005
Anonymous Guest 23 in , illinois =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: No.
RE: My HW: SKipping
AstroInfo: No.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I have friends and co-workers relationships that needs to improve.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Intense, a crush. Had a couple
of week retationship with a person at the age of 12, that
did not involve sex, but holding hands and kissing.
--The best things about relationship are:
Having trust in a person.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Telling a person you like them and want to date them.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
As a friend and lover you want trust and honesty.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Slow it down.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Moving to quickly and scaring them.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I want them to be more open and verbal with me.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being honest. No secrets.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I person has to open enough to talk face to face about problems.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Looks are important, but I look for a funny smart person.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I don't know. I feel a young girl and older guy no.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Don't know.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I've had some relationships with men and have liked some women. I
prefer woman.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I'm not going to go out with someone who worships the devil.
I would like to go out with a Christian.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love is a feeling. Sex is just physical. Anyone can have sex,
but it takes more for love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
The first male was not good, there was no give and take. With
a female (I was young 10) they were the same age, we were just
playing around, it was OK.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Depends on how long you've been together. It's OK.
--Regarding Risks
I had a friend that I thought was a slut, but then I looked at her
and thought differently and asked her out and she said yes.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I'd use a condom, and asked my male partners about diseases.
--A funny relationship story:
Writing on my partners care with shoe polish, getting silly stringed
by her.
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How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling
observing, reading, and watching TV
worrying about relationships, stressing out.
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--Relationship Is:
i would explain a relationship as being a constant give and take
between two people that have feelings for each other whether that
is sexual or just friends
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... when i was 14 years old and i guess it
was like puppy love because i really thought i was going
to marry him and then he started to get controlling and we
ended up breaking up.
--The best things about relationship are:
someone who will always be there for me, someone who understands me,
someone to run to when i need help, someone to laugh and cry with,
cuddling, kissing, the feeling of love
--The worst things about relationship are:
control issues, possesiveness, jealousy, anger,
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
i want someone who is going to be honest with me, who will love me
no matter what, who lets me be me, and who can accepts my quirps.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
i want to be more understanding, more patient, more spontaneous
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How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
in my first relationship his mother absolutely hated and resented
me becuase i was in her sons life
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How'd I do?
What Helped me most deal with Relationship?
What Hindered me most in Relationship?
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Fri Sep 30 02:58:56 2005
Anonymous Guest 26 in , maryland =united states=
F26 in , maryland =united states=
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Love, Respect. Don't hate or judge. we are all one being under one
sun and God. Remember satan is cunning so watch your back.
RE: Handwriting: never thought about it.
RE: My HW: none
AstroInfo: i've given up astrology. but two alike signs rumbles because they
have similar weaknesses and strengths and get easily upset when
they see that their partner doesn't react or problem solve the way
that they do or the way that they wish they could
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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when two people are seeing one another and sharing dreams, thoughts,
and their bodies.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
the unconditional loving of one another
--The worst things about relationship are:
arguing or not agreeing about situations
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
them to be emotionally and financially stable. easing going,
great communicator.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
more control over my emotions. more passionate
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i overeat and am overweight. i don't really feel confident in myself
which restricts my passionate side
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
stay calm, talk with sense. be empathetic. work
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
doing what is expected of you
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
listen. let the other finish their thoughts without interruption. and
during this time try to keep your emotions under control.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
appearance but i can become unattracted to someone's personality
therefore their overall being as ugly
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i think age plays a part. i think people can fall in love based on
there ideals. for example, an older man might look for fresh beauty
or a younger girl may look for financial stability. being superficial
initiated them in finding the person and then falling in love. i
don't know sometimes people have kindered spirits. so , i'm neutral
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe that some people are in denial. they know their sexual
orientation but because of societies views they are subconsciously
pressured into trying to live the "right way" but then their desire
for their real need cause them to swith lanes several times.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
well as a child i watched pornography. and saw two women interacting
in sex. never before until then did i know of it. i found it
intriguing and then by the reactions of the characters and others
watching made me curious on the excitement. when i got older i did
engage in one homosexual relationship but found it no different
than being with the opposite partner except for the body parts. I
concluded that it wasn't for me. but i still fantasize about women
but i think it is my subconscious saying that i want their body
type. i would love to have a nice booty and perfect shape but only
to attract men.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it depends on how spiritual one is. but if a person is heavily
devouted to religion then being with a person of opposite views
will probably cause a lot of frustration and struggle because one
of their goals maybe to try and convert the other
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex is one. one shouldn't have sex unless their in love. sex
without love is empty but sex with love is physically, emotionally
and sexually gratifying
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
peer pressure was the force behind losing my virginity. sex was
hyped up too much. i thought i would be transformed in some kind
of way. but afterwards it was like that's it. that was sex. damn,
i should have kept my virginity
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i believe that Gods law is the right way but because i am a sinner
(which is no excuse) and lost my virginity and have been exposed
to sex; I feel that sex and love are inseperable. and i feel that
you should know your possible spouse and test the waters to see if
you are overall happy with each other. in this day in age, many men
and women wouln't be able to stay commited to a virgin because they
can't test the waters.
--Regarding Risks
risking letting go completely, not withholding myself
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
well knowing the entire history of their partners is a little
overrated. I believe once someone is tested and cleared of all
diseases they are getting a second chance to protect themselves. but
all couples should get tested together before engaging in any sexual
behavior and practice monogamy
--A funny relationship story:
sharing a moment and laughing our heads of together
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How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy
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do you think that sex is overrated?
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Sun Sep 18 20:32:12 2005
Anonymous Guest 39 in Houston, Texas =United States of America=
F39 in Houston, Texas =United States of America=
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RE: Handwriting: I think handwritting can tell me a lot about a person
RE: My HW: no comments I've heard as it pertains to relationships but I've
heard that it's easy to read and neat.
AstroInfo: Astrology can tell us a lot about ourselves and others but its not
a precise science.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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two people coming together to help each other through the jungle
of life with uphills and downhills but always foward
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...I fell in love for the first time
--The best things about relationship are:
sharing joy
--The worst things about relationship are:
understanding someone else's perspective
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone to share experiences with good and bad, someone who will
support me in all that I do and I can return that same support
---I need someone to share joy and sadness with and someone who
will allow me to share their joys and sadness.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be more understanding that not everyone sees the world the way that
I do
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
if I were not so suspecious that my love was not being totally honest
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I'm pretty laid back --do what makes you happy
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I think I am responsible for protecting the trust given to me
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I talk a lot...I have an opinion on everything. I argue and then
I get over it quickly. I also get very excited and animated when
talking about normal life stuff.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
facial expressions ---are they kind, hard, soft, scary?
--Regarding Age in Relationship
you should be no more than 10 years apart so that you are not in
different phases of life that age dictates
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe whatever makes someone happy sexually is what they should
be doing --that is the point right?
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm straigt as a board. I have experimented with some hot lesbian
action and was not at all happy with the experiences.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it makes no difference to me what another believes as far as religion
or spirtuality goes
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex can be great without love but love can't be great without sex
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
passion mixed with fear
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Live together before getting married but put limits on how long
that arrangement will go-- a relationship does two things it either
ends or you get married so after a couple of years you must take an
inventory and ask which it's going to be and move towards that goal.
--Regarding Risks
trusting someone new not to hurt me takes a lot of risk IMO
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Protect yourself and don't be too promiscious
--A funny relationship story:
that assholes are usually great in bed
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How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Fri Sep 16 20:51:37 2005
Anonymous Guest 39 in Venice, CA =USA=
F39 in Venice, CA =USA=
Name: Sandee
Email: <sandeebrown625@msn.com>
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Prof/Studies: Buyer
RE: Handwriting: I love his handwritting
RE: My HW: It sucks
AstroInfo: I have a prpblem with no one, people have problems with me. Their
astrological sign means nothing to me.
I'm a: Cancer Sun; with Leo Moon; and Sagittarius rising.
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Share life experiences with compassion and intrigue and grow together
--That first relationship was
I was used for sex
--The best things about relationship are:
Check myself, give the relationship your all as you continue to learn
and grow and roll with the punches that are life experiences. Be
honest about your feelings as you recognize things you've never
encountered before, loyalty and faithfullness
--The worst things about relationship are:
lack of compassion of your partners life experiences because you
can't imagine them
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
to be understood, appreciated, loved unconditionally, supported,
treated with respect and compassion, agree to disagree and be adored
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
More awareness of other's feelings, ask lots of questions so we
have a clear understanding of the desired relationship mutually,
don't judge, be supportive and compassionate and understand that
people make mistakes while learning how to really love and they may
not be aware of their feelings all of the time so they may not be
able to answer the question with logic. They are to be forgiven,
and validate the other's feelings and always offer guidance and be
open to just listen. Love myself and take care of myself so I can
be a better partner.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to realize people don't think like me and I shouldn't be
so bossy just because something works fine for me. Validate and
always acknowledge my partner's feelings. Never expect others to
do for me what I so willingly do for them. I love the gift of give.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Own your own thoughts because those are the only ones you
posses. Listen to your partner and appreciate what they're telling
you communicating to the best of their ability and do not tell them
their full of shit because their explanation doesn't make sense to
you. Ask more questions and be supportive.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I thought just giving love, encouragement, honesty, faithfullness
and affection was the sole responsibility.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Arguments are healthy as long as both sides are heard and validated
ending in agreement or not. Just listening allows people to learn
things about themselves and is monumentally helpfull personally
and for the relatiuonship. Some people answer and comment and a
listening session becomes a damaging no growth ordeal.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Looks, personality, character, eyes, hands and how they treat me.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Must be older, but no more than like 6 years.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Let there be love period.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Heterosexual
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Spirituality, not religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Fuck you asshole!!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Cohabitation is a mst before marriage
--Regarding Risks
No risk no gain. I have nothing to lose as long as I'm smart and
concentrate on the emotional stability over everything else.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I don't have sex before asking questions and at least a month or
two goes by before I engage in intercourse so I know more about
the person I'm giving myself to.
--A funny relationship story:
Laughter with each other appreciating one another's sense of humor.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
He broke my heart.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
I was who I thought the guy wanted me to be instead of being myself
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Spell relationship(s)correctly
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Anonymous Guest 29 in Baton Rouge, LA =USA=
F29 in Baton Rouge, LA =USA=
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RE: Handwriting: haven't thought of it
RE: My HW: neat and easy to read
AstroInfo: it's interesting but i don't believe in it much
I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and rising.
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love, giving, sharing compromise
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
friendship, love, sex
--The worst things about relationship are:
understanding and compromise
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Responsible, stable, loving, loyal, honest
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be less selfish, and less hot-headed
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I don't really have many bad habits
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I'll try to work things out
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I feel like i do it all!
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i'm an arguer
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
within 2 to 10 years - age does matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
you have to be one or the other and being gay just isn't natural,
i think it's wrong
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
straight - all the way
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
we should have similar views of religion or it could cause problems
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they go together
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
exciting and scary
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i think you should try it before you buy it, but i don't know if
i could actually live with a person before marriage
--Regarding Risks
telling the person that i cared for that i cared for him and he
didn't have a clue
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
i would sleep with a person i thought could transmit this type of
thing to me
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How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity
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Anonymous Guest 17 in Aberdeen, =Scotland, UK=
F17 in Aberdeen, =Scotland, UK=
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Prof/Studies: Student at Academy(high school)
RE: Handwriting: his handwriting is a mess and looks rather a lot like a lot of
guys i know but it doesn't particularly bother me, at least it's
still legible!
RE: My HW: he once said it was pretty and neat and fancy after i commented on
his but pesonally i hate my handwriting
AstroInfo: i don't think it's possible that their are only 12 types of people
in the world but sometimes it is strange how i have read the star
signs at the end of the day and it is so similar to what actually
happened. i do tend to go for people born in feburary so apparantly
i like apuarius's
I'm a: Pisces Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a relationship is something between (usually) two people who know
eachother this does not neccisarily have to be caring or loving or
close but it is usually considered this way
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... exciting and long-term and happy
(love)
--The best things about relationship are:
getting to know the person, having someone to talk to and rely on,
not feeling alone
--The worst things about relationship are:
frustration at not being able to understand something that person
did or said and not feeling needed
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who needs me and wants to be with me, someone who finds
me attractive and someone who won't cheat(loyalty)and obviously
someone who i am attracted to and can share even a few interests
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
a little less dominating in a relationship even though i am not
with others(friends, teachers etc)
a little more confident about
my outward appearences
maybe a little smarter too
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i am too self conscious and nervous that my other half doesn't find
me attractive or that he finds someone else more attractive despite
the fact he always tells me otherwise
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
little things irritate me easily and may aggrivate me but despite
all that i would still like them for who they were and try not to
let it affect me and ask them to not do it as often but only if it
were something small, if it were large i wouldn't ask them to curb
who they were just for me
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
considering the other person and that you can't just yell at them
whenever you feel angry you have to consider that they are a person
who has feelings too. It also means being responsibility for yourself
awell as the other person
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i like to talk things out and i get frustrated when he says that
he doesn't know what to say and i have to tell him what i need to
hear. originally i would have rather been the one to listen but i
have had to learn to be the one to talk otherwise no-one would
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
how the person reacts around me looks i thought were always important
but the thing that attracted me to the person i am with was just
who he was around me and that he made me happy and relaxed
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter, it only matters if the age difference is between
say a 20 yr old and a 13 or 14 yr old or even if a 17 and 14 yr
old were together but if it were a 20 yr old with a 40 yr old it
wouldn't matter. it seems to matter to me if, in my wiews, one of
the persons is stil developing mentally and physically
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
absoloutely correct! no-one is completely hetrosexual no matter
how much they think that homosexuality is a sin or totally wrong
everyone is a little bi-sexual they just tend to be either more
homosexual or more hetrosexual
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i look at other girls and can appreciate their beauty or that they
are a good person with a great personality but i would never want
to kiss a girl or touch a girl in an intimate way. i am sexually
attracted to guys and only really enjoy being with guys
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it will only matter if one or both of the people in the relationship
are set in the belief that they must be with someone of the same
faith. personally i think if you love someone enough you will try
your hardest to make it work and see past that aspect but i know
some people would never consider that the religion was less imporatnt
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex are completely different, in todays society at any
rate, i would never have sex with someone i didn't love but they
don't always go together; many people have enjoyable sex which they
do not regret and it is not with someone they love
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
that it was perfect with a guy i totallly cared about and felt
uninhibited with. it was great because it was our first time ever
and it was with eachother so that took a lot of pressure off about
expectations of past experiences
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
it seems almost too traditional to belive that living together
before marriage is wrong it was right years ago but time change and
(although it can be debated) so do morals or at least the realisation
of morals changes. therefore i believe that living together before
marriage is perfectly accptable and sensible
--Regarding Risks
telling my other half things i had NEVER told anyone before and
not hesitating about trusting them was a huge relief. The scariest
thing i ever did was let myself be intimate with him because i
hated my own appearance
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
protection is key care about yourself even if you don't care about
the other person think about the repurcussions of getting a STD it
could ruin your whole life before you've even had a chance to live it
--A funny relationship story:
the cheesiest jokes anyone has ever heard, everytime i fall over
or he falls over is always hilarious
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
the way i was raised contribuited to the way i think about other
people
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Rage
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it was interesting and easy because i enjoyed examining myself and
my beliefs and my relationships, that may be because psychology is
extremely interesting and i hope to study it at university
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"are/were you in a relationship if so how long is/was it?"
i am
in a relationship and have been now for just over a year
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Mon Jul 18 13:19:01 2005
Anonymous Guest 23 in tukwila, wa =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: i think when i am happy i tend to write more round and bubbly and
when i am upset about him i write more sharp
RE: My HW: i have had some guys say it is hard to read and some say it is nice
AstroInfo: i am very interested and don't know all my signs but would love
to know.
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--Relationship Is:
when two people have the same likes and dislikes. can get along
and make eachother happy.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... high school. my first real
relationship. i didn't really have any emotion or had
negative thoughts. i was generally happy with this person.
--The best things about relationship are:
sharing life with someone. there is someone there to make me laugh
when i am down.
--The worst things about relationship are:
trust. its really hard for me to trust people.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone i can trust with ease. someone who makes me laugh.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
trying harder to trust. to stop thinking everyone is lying to
me. try not to be overbearing and possesive.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i dwell too much and i always have to know what he is doing and
who he is with.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
they always know how to make me happy
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
telling the other person what i am going to do or call if i am not
going to be home at a certain time
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
you have to choose the right time to talk or it will just resolve
into a argument
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter. As long as you are getting what you want
from them.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
no comment
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i am not attracted to the same sex
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
doesn't effect my relationships
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex is different. love is a feeling you share with someone
and sex is an action
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
doesn't happen the way i thought it would
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
living together first can solve a lot of problems and you can tell
if you can really be with this person
--Regarding Risks
risking a relationship on truth. finding out wether he is telling
the truth or not.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
protect your self.
--A funny relationship story:
being able to laugh about how clumsy i am
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life
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somewhat.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
i would like to examine how my feelings have changed from previous
relationships.
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Mon Jul 18 07:35:48 2005
Anonymous Guest 23 in tukwila, wa =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: i think when i am happy i tend to write more round and bubbly and
when i am upset about him i write more sharp
RE: My HW: i have had some guys say it is hard to read and some say it is nice
AstroInfo: i am very interested and don't know all my signs but would love
to know.
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--Relationship Is:
when two people have the same likes and dislikes. can get along
and make eachother happy.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... high school. my first real
relationship. i didn't really have any emotion or had
negative thoughts. i was generally happy with this person.
--The best things about relationship are:
sharing life with someone. there is someone there to make me laugh
when i am down.
--The worst things about relationship are:
trust. its really hard for me to trust people.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone i can trust with ease. someone who makes me laugh.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
trying harder to trust. to stop thinking everyone is lying to
me. try not to be overbearing and possesive.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i dwell too much and i always have to know what he is doing and
who he is with.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
they always know how to make me happy
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
telling the other person what i am going to do or call if i am not
going to be home at a certain time
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
you have to choose the right time to talk or it will just resolve
into a argument
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter. As long as you are getting what you want
from them.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
no comment
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i am not attracted to the same sex
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
doesn't effect my relationships
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex is different. love is a feeling you share with someone
and sex is an action
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
doesn't happen the way i thought it would
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
living together first can solve a lot of problems and you can tell
if you can really be with this person
--Regarding Risks
risking a relationship on truth. finding out wether he is telling
the truth or not.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
protect your self.
--A funny relationship story:
being able to laugh about how clumsy i am
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life
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somewhat.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
i would like to examine how my feelings have changed from previous
relationships.
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Thu Mar 31 14:09:17 2005
Anonymous Guest 24 in salt lake, ut =usa=
F24 in salt lake, ut =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: I have never paid attention to my partners handwriting
RE: My HW: beautiful
AstroInfo: I believe in astrology, I think there is some truth to it
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
its two people comming togather as one, complementing each others
character, its a compromise, fun, exciting, piece of mind.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...a guy much older than me from whom
I learned about sex but didn't have sex
--The best things about relationship are:
being loved, wanted, admired, pampered
--The worst things about relationship are:
time consuming, and emotionaly draining
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
good looking, strong character, confident, educated, tolerant,
inteligent, wise, well mannered, spontanious, attentative, daring,
realists, careing.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn to listen more than talk, stand up for myself
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
habit of testing them
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he'd have to be clean, and well dressed
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
respect, and care
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I talk to myself about problems rather than my partner
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
appearances and personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
depends on their personality.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
pretty accurate
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
heterosexual but wouldn't mind experiencing
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't believe in any of it
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are totaly seperate
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
painful physicaly, but exhilarating
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
try the pair of shoes
--Regarding Risks
exhilarating
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
scary, but I tend to trust the person I am with
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
boyfriend
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations
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Thu Mar 31 14:05:48 2005
Anonymous Guest 24 in salt lake, ut =usa=
F24 in salt lake, ut =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: I have never paid attention to my partners handwriting
RE: My HW: beautiful
AstroInfo: I believe in astrology, I think there is some truth to it
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
its two people comming togather as one, complementing each others
character, its a compromise, fun, exciting, piece of mind.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...a guy much older than me from whom
I learned about sex but didn't have sex
--The best things about relationship are:
being loved, wanted, admired, pampered
--The worst things about relationship are:
time consuming, and emotionaly draining
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
good looking, strong character, confident, educated, tolerant,
inteligent, wise, well mannered, spontanious, attentative, daring,
realists, careing.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn to listen more than talk, stand up for myself
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
habit of testing them
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he'd have to be clean, and well dressed
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
respect, and care
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I talk to myself about problems rather than my partner
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
appearances and personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
depends on their personality.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
pretty accurate
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
heterosexual but wouldn't mind experiencing
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't believe in any of it
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are totaly seperate
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
painful physicaly, but exhilarating
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
try the pair of shoes
--Regarding Risks
exhilarating
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
scary, but I tend to trust the person I am with
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
boyfriend
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations
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Thu Mar 31 14:04:54 2005
Anonymous Guest 24 in salt lake, ut =usa=
F24 in salt lake, ut =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: I have never paid attention to my partners handwriting
RE: My HW: beautiful
AstroInfo: I believe in astrology, I think there is some truth to it
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
its two people comming togather as one, complementing each others
character, its a compromise, fun, exciting, piece of mind.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...a guy much older than me from whom
I learned about sex but didn't have sex
--The best things about relationship are:
being loved, wanted, admired, pampered
--The worst things about relationship are:
time consuming, and emotionaly draining
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
good looking, strong character, confident, educated, tolerant,
inteligent, wise, well mannered, spontanious, attentative, daring,
realists, careing.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn to listen more than talk, stand up for myself
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
habit of testing them
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he'd have to be clean, and well dressed
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
respect, and care
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I talk to myself about problems rather than my partner
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
appearances and personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
depends on their personality.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
pretty accurate
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
heterosexual but wouldn't mind experiencing
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't believe in any of it
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are totaly seperate
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
painful physicaly, but exhilarating
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
try the pair of shoes
--Regarding Risks
exhilarating
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
scary, but I tend to trust the person I am with
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
boyfriend
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations
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Thu Mar 31 06:26:47 2005
Anonymous Guest 21 in Edgewater, Fl =USA=
M21 in Edgewater, Fl =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Student at UCF
RE: Handwriting: It is nearly completely irrelevant....
RE: My HW: People think my handwriting is nice for a male....
AstroInfo: completely and wholely disinterested in the entirety of Astrology
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
It is something that is cared for like a plant. It needs love,
it needs patience, but it needs the better part of you.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was puppy love...
--The best things about relationship are:
Honesty with the other person. The ability to get advise from the
other. And ofcourse "cuddle time"
--The worst things about relationship are:
Hanging out with friends and your significant other... Not letting
each one feel avoided....
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Honestly and a lot of love.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more on time and be less lazy.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
my procrastination must come to an end...
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I'm flexable... :D
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Bring it on.....
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
It is vital to keep the relationship healthy and alive....
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age shouldn't matter after each party is over 18 yers old.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
It doesn't bother me....
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
No comment....
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
To each his own... No bias with me...
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex is a function and love is felt with the heart....
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was memorable and pleasent....
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It is needed before marriage....
--Regarding Risks
frightening....
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Be safe or don't have sex at all....
--A funny relationship story:
We went to kiss for the first time and couldn't turn our heads the
right way.... :D
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends
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it let me identify where I stand on some things....
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
Is sex vital in a relationship?
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Fri Mar 18 00:20:00 2005
Anonymous Guest 40 in bangkok, =thailand=
M40 in bangkok, =thailand=
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RE: Handwriting: i always did like a certain style of handwriting or atleast how it
makes me feel when i look at it. some i just dislike.
RE: My HW: very similar to my partners'.
AstroInfo: i have found that it is quite interesting.
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--Relationship Is:
finding someone who one feels the least need to compromise with,
the one with the best match.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love, purely based on instinct
--The best things about relationship are:
companionship and someone to emphatize with
--The worst things about relationship are:
accept and be content. there is no perfection
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
ease, simplicity, smooth
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
say things sweeter, be more gentle and aware of my language (tone)
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
jumping to conclusions too soon, nag nag nag, self occuppied
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
to be there, get my hands dirty to help them out. be able to count
on them being there, atleast to listen attentively.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it is two way. what is agreed should reflect in the action that
follows. i dislike mouth says "yes, ok, no problem" and action does
" no, i dont agree, i will do what i want"
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
i am a size queen, so size of cock usually gets my
attention. however, if that is not available, i would have to say
eyes and voice.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter for the time being. however, in the long run,
having someone physically similar makes it alot easier.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
0-7
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i prefer 6 and 7
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it is better to be the same as to have as little conflicts and as
little need to compramise as possible
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are quite different. sexless love is possible, loveless sex is
also possible. sexful love is great and loveful sex is even better.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
quite scary.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
definitely co habitation. most issues lies with virginity.
don't have sex, but do live together and see if the personalities
clash and if it is possible to compromise.
--Regarding Risks
take the risk, high risk high return when i am young and can afford,
low risk and low return when i am older.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
go with the heart. just do it. ones already trust the other with
their heart, the body is just secondary. if one must, use a rubber.
--A funny relationship story:
i befriended ingvar because i felt sorry for him. he talked to me
because he felt sorry for me. we went in for the wrong reasons.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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it was quite interesting. made me reflect about my relationship
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Fri Mar 18 00:19:23 2005
Anonymous Guest 40 in bangkok, ==
M40 in bangkok, ==
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RE: Handwriting: i always did like a certain style of handwriting or atleast how it
makes me feel when i look at it. some i just dislike.
RE: My HW: very similar to my partners'.
AstroInfo: i have found that it is quite interesting.
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--Relationship Is:
finding someone who one feels the least need to compromise with,
the one with the best match.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love, purely based on instinct
--The best things about relationship are:
companionship and someone to emphatize with
--The worst things about relationship are:
accept and be content. there is no perfection
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
ease, simplicity, smooth
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
say things sweeter, be more gentle and aware of my language (tone)
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
jumping to conclusions too soon, nag nag nag, self occuppied
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
to be there, get my hands dirty to help them out. be able to count
on them being there, atleast to listen attentively.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it is two way. what is agreed should reflect in the action that
follows. i dislike mouth says "yes, ok, no problem" and action does
" no, i dont agree, i will do what i want"
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
i am a size queen, so size of cock usually gets my
attention. however, if that is not available, i would have to say
eyes and voice.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter for the time being. however, in the long run,
having someone physically similar makes it alot easier.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
0-7
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i prefer 6 and 7
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it is better to be the same as to have as little conflicts and as
little need to compramise as possible
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are quite different. sexless love is possible, loveless sex is
also possible. sexful love is great and loveful sex is even better.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
quite scary.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
definitely co habitation. most issues lies with virginity.
don't have sex, but do live together and see if the personalities
clash and if it is possible to compromise.
--Regarding Risks
take the risk, high risk high return when i am young and can afford,
low risk and low return when i am older.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
go with the heart. just do it. ones already trust the other with
their heart, the body is just secondary. if one must, use a rubber.
--A funny relationship story:
i befriended ingvar because i felt sorry for him. he talked to me
because he felt sorry for me. we went in for the wrong reasons.
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How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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That first relationship was... with a girl, which i felt socialized
into
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How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
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RE: Handwriting: i feel that you are onto something, i do find certain hand writings
more attractive subconsiously than others. I remember exactly how
my daughters father wrote and how it made me more interested in him.
I love the way my current bf writes. I cannot stand highly slanted
writing...
RE: My HW: people comment all the time that my handwriting is like a school
teachers.. not sure what that means
AstroInfo: Astrology .. i take a look at it after I am in the relationship
and sure enough it lines up right.. i don't hold too much faith in
readings, but I do listen and stay alert also
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
When two people are able to share time together that makes them feel
happy - like best friends, but are on another level of intimacy
that portrays a deep unselfish love, and you are able to trust
another person with this love, and they in turn open it to you.
And of course, these two people must have similiar interests,
morals and values in order not to fight all the time.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was destined to fail? I was 13 he was 18.
I was "in love" and tried to learn everything I could
about him, I guess puppy love.. he took my virginity
then left. I "dated" one guy for a few years before my
next relationship, which was for 2 years (16-18) and first
real one, which was the fact we were too young and didnt'
know how to be adults.
--The best things about relationship are:
laughter
cuddling
loving (physically)
making the other person
smile with secret surprises, knowing little things that make
them ahppy
--The worst things about relationship are:
Anger, disagreements, feeling like the other person just ignores
your opinion, thoughts or beliefs
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
fun, loving, caring, confident, loyal, sympathetic, stern
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
better myself financially
stick to my core values and not be swayed
just because someone makes me laugh
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Right now I am at the point where I am trying to figure out if its
holding me back or helping me improve.. i am in limbo.. and that's
the pattern I repeat the most..and it kills the relationship when
I start voicing it
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
the only issue that comes up is my partner's parenting habits. It's
my daughter, and he's not good being a parent. Not abusive, just
too strict and is a jerk at times
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
My Daughter. I have responsibility, no one else, and unless you
are willing to take a full responsibility as a parent, dont think
you can be a half a parent, an donly when u want
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i want to talk, i want to be heard, even if he doesnt agree, i
want him to understand, listen and acknowledge he understands my
feelings too
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes, smile and laugh
--Regarding Age in Relationship
within five years is a good gap, then you don't have the generation
thing going, but hey, to each their own
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
that study sounds about right even for modern day society
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i am not sure.. i am somewhere inbetween. I have experimented with
females, find females attractive, but only would devote myself in
a relationship to a man
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I dont have any views of religion. I dont know if i believe in God.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex is sex.. Love is Love, combine the two, and you have some awesome
love making sex! they are two different aspects, but also at times
should be viewed as one
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
fast pulse, warm all over body tingle, unsure of what was about to
happen, shy, nervous, embarassed, amazed (that was it, thats what
all the hype is about?)
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I dont know what's best. I have co-habited the last three
relationships, and well, I'm still not married, and not sure of
if i want to be with ths person.. he hasn't made tht committment,
so I am still free to leave. I'd be much more willing to give up
certain things if i were married.
--Regarding Risks
every time i am in a relationship and it lasts longer than a few
months, it becomes personal and therefore is a risk everytime.
I allow someone into my life, my home, my family.. it's all a risk
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
STD = Scared To Death
Yup, too many people have them, most don't
know and I don't want any. I am very picky, very scared, and well,
will end up staying with someone longer justcuz I don't want to
have to start over and worry about that again
--A funny relationship story:
the amount of humor i can have with one person is amazing.. i never
knew that someone else could share the same humourous thoughts as
myself, we dont even have to talk sometimes, we just laugh knowing
what the other is thinking
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling
Friends, Counseling, learning from mistakes
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
Stubborness to fix it to make it right to not give up
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RE: Handwriting: I like neat handwriting, but handwriting does not really matter. If
it is illegible, then that is a problem. I do note the fact that
handwriting often symbolizes the person's personality.
RE: My HW: They said that my handwriting is neat. However, I feel that it is
rather messy. In fact this past year my handwriting has changed
significantly.
AstroInfo: I am immensly interested in astrology. I feel that my particular sign
( Virgo) relates to my personality a great deal. Also, my partners
sign (libra) has a tendency to relate to his personality as well.
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I believe that a relationship is dervived from trust. If you are
unable to trust someone, then you do not have a sturdy relationship
amongst them. In a healthy relationship, support is key. You have
to be willing to support your friend/lover regardless and respect
their descisions. It's also important to know that everyone has
flaws, and you either have to look past them, or find someone else.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Well relationships are hard things
to define. First off, my first real realationship consisted
of a mutual agreement of future plans, similar common
interests, along with phsyical attraction. We are still
together, but times are rough.
--The best things about relationship are:
I believe that the best thing to look forward to in a relationship
is the happiness of having someone sit by your side and not have to
say a thing and they know exactly how you feel and they respect it.
--The worst things about relationship are:
I believe the most difficult thing to deal with in relationships
is when the other one withholds the inability to accept people have
flaws. Nitpicking causes fights and problems in a relationship.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
What I want a person to be in order for me to be satisfied is someone
who I can hangout with and not feel obligated to do anything. Someone
who can come over at any time and I do not have to fix my hair or
put on a stitch of makeup. Someone who is willing to help me do
homework. Someone who understands that I am very involved in school
and respects it. Someone who is proud to be with me. Someone who
cares about me and respects my decisions. Someone who doesn't try
to tear me down.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I could attempt to go out of my way a bit more and exhibit more
emotions. Through this exhibition they would know that I appreciate
them. I also, could give more compliments than I often do.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am generally a very understand individual. However, at times I may
infact be too paranoid of my own actions. Ultimately, immediately
question everything of which I do. This could lead to an inabilty
because the other person may use that to their own advantage. Also,
I have a tendency to remain introverted with respect to school. When
I have school on my mind, I stay completely driven. People might
that mistake that for being ignored.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
In order for someone to relate to my inability they would have to
respect me for who I am as a person. They would have to understand
that some days I just need to study. They would know that I cared
for them and that school is an important factor in order to succeed
later on in life.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Responsibilty for respecting one another. Also, remaining commited
to the other individual regardless. It's responsible to watch your
actions and realize they may affect another.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I am the type of person who likes to be calm and rational when in
a relationship. When something bothers me, I become vocal about
it. However, I do not get aggrivated, I simply state the fact that
it bothers me. If the person continues to do so, then it is entirely
up to them. I believe that discussing things brings an awareness
to the relationship, which is vital for lasting.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
What I care about most is personality mixed with a smile. I feel that
looks fade. If someone is initally beautiful, but their personality
is horrible, thier looks fade and visa versa. It's important to
keep in mind when you get older, your look swill fade and all you'll
have left is the personality. Thus, looks are not that important.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I believe that age and time does not matter. I believe age is nothing
but a number, and does not make a difference. I also believe that
love comes in places you would lease expect them to.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe that it does not matter if you're gay or straight or
bisexual for that matter. You are what you truly are. However,
I find it easier to understand those who are homosexual, rather
than bi because bisexual individuals just seem confused to me.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I prefere males. I have experimented with women, however that I
was heavily sedated. I believe that thier is attraction in women,
however it is more or less based on wanting to be as pretty as them,
not wanting to date them.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I respect others if they have a different religion or faith. As
long as they stay respectful to their own religion and are moral
individuals, religion does not matter.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I do not believe that love and sex need to go to gether. I believe
that enjoyingn the company of another individual can be by far more
rewarding then sexual intercorse. However, sometimes intercourse
is wanted in order to demonstrate the love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I felt really nervous and excited at the same time.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I believe that living withs omeone is fine. I do recomend getting
married first, but it's all a matter of choice. I support individual
choice.
--Regarding Risks
Sharing how I truly felt regarding romantic instances. Also admiting
there might be a chance of me doing something wrong when I was not
totally sure. Ultimately, leaving me succeptable to loosing that
person. I just didn't want to keep a secrete even if I did not know
the answer myself.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It's better to be safe.
--A funny relationship story:
The time we were outside playing in the snow, I had so much clothing
on I looked similar to that of the boy in A Christmas Story. My
boyfriend and I were then playing in the snow, all he would have
to do is barely tap me and I'd fall right over. I could barely move
and I looked like a little eskimo.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People
What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc.
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RE: Handwriting: I like neat handwriting, but handwriting does not really matter. If
it is illegible, then that is a problem. I do note the fact that
handwriting often symbolizes the person's personality.
RE: My HW: They said that my handwriting is neat. However, I feel that it is
rather messy. In fact this past year my handwriting has changed
significantly.
AstroInfo: I am immensly interested in astrology. I feel that my particular sign
( Virgo) relates to my personality a great deal. Also, my partners
sign (libra) has a tendency to relate to his personality as well.
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I believe that a relationship is dervived from trust. If you are
unable to trust someone, then you do not have a sturdy relationship
amongst them. In a healthy relationship, support is key. You have
to be willing to support your friend/lover regardless and respect
their descisions. It's also important to know that everyone has
flaws, and you either have to look past them, or find someone else.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Well relationships are hard things
to define. First off, my first real realationship consisted
of a mutual agreement of future plans, similar common
interests, along with phsyical attraction. We are still
together, but times are rough.
--The best things about relationship are:
I believe that the best thing to look forward to in a relationship
is the happiness of having someone sit by your side and not have to
say a thing and they know exactly how you feel and they respect it.
--The worst things about relationship are:
I believe the most difficult thing to deal with in relationships
is when the other one withholds the inability to accept people have
flaws. Nitpicking causes fights and problems in a relationship.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
What I want a person to be in order for me to be satisfied is someone
who I can hangout with and not feel obligated to do anything. Someone
who can come over at any time and I do not have to fix my hair or
put on a stitch of makeup. Someone who is willing to help me do
homework. Someone who understands that I am very involved in school
and respects it. Someone who is proud to be with me. Someone who
cares about me and respects my decisions. Someone who doesn't try
to tear me down.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I could attempt to go out of my way a bit more and exhibit more
emotions. Through this exhibition they would know that I appreciate
them. I also, could give more compliments than I often do.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am generally a very understand individual. However, at times I may
infact be too paranoid of my own actions. Ultimately, immediately
question everything of which I do. This could lead to an inabilty
because the other person may use that to their own advantage. Also,
I have a tendency to remain introverted with respect to school. When
I have school on my mind, I stay completely driven. People might
that mistake that for being ignored.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
In order for someone to relate to my inability they would have to
respect me for who I am as a person. They would have to understand
that some days I just need to study. They would know that I cared
for them and that school is an important factor in order to succeed
later on in life.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Responsibilty for respecting one another. Also, remaining commited
to the other individual regardless. It's responsible to watch your
actions and realize they may affect another.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I am the type of person who likes to be calm and rational when in
a relationship. When something bothers me, I become vocal about
it. However, I do not get aggrivated, I simply state the fact that
it bothers me. If the person continues to do so, then it is entirely
up to them. I believe that discussing things brings an awareness
to the relationship, which is vital for lasting.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
What I care about most is personality mixed with a smile. I feel that
looks fade. If someone is initally beautiful, but their personality
is horrible, thier looks fade and visa versa. It's important to
keep in mind when you get older, your look swill fade and all you'll
have left is the personality. Thus, looks are not that important.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I believe that age and time does not matter. I believe age is nothing
but a number, and does not make a difference. I also believe that
love comes in places you would lease expect them to.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe that it does not matter if you're gay or straight or
bisexual for that matter. You are what you truly are. However,
I find it easier to understand those who are homosexual, rather
than bi because bisexual individuals just seem confused to me.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I prefere males. I have experimented with women, however that I
was heavily sedated. I believe that thier is attraction in women,
however it is more or less based on wanting to be as pretty as them,
not wanting to date them.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I respect others if they have a different religion or faith. As
long as they stay respectful to their own religion and are moral
individuals, religion does not matter.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I do not believe that love and sex need to go to gether. I believe
that enjoyingn the company of another individual can be by far more
rewarding then sexual intercorse. However, sometimes intercourse
is wanted in order to demonstrate the love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I felt really nervous and excited at the same time.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I believe that living withs omeone is fine. I do recomend getting
married first, but it's all a matter of choice. I support individual
choice.
--Regarding Risks
Sharing how I truly felt regarding romantic instances. Also admiting
there might be a chance of me doing something wrong when I was not
totally sure. Ultimately, leaving me succeptable to loosing that
person. I just didn't want to keep a secrete even if I did not know
the answer myself.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It's better to be safe.
--A funny relationship story:
The time we were outside playing in the snow, I had so much clothing
on I looked similar to that of the boy in A Christmas Story. My
boyfriend and I were then playing in the snow, all he would have
to do is barely tap me and I'd fall right over. I could barely move
and I looked like a little eskimo.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People
What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc.
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Anonymous Guest 26 in Nacogdoches, Texas =USA=
F26 in Nacogdoches, Texas =USA=
Name: Mihaela
Email: <fantasy588-at-yahoo.com
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RE: Handwriting: I never really thought about this, but it sounds interesting
RE: My HW: most people said that my handwriting looks beautiful, but that
they can't understand it...my partner said the same thing...is
that relevant?
AstroInfo: i don't know
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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two different entities connected by blood or emotions
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... I fell in love at first sight...it
actually only lasted 2 weeks, but I was in love with the
guy for 3 years...juts could not get over him...
--The best things about relationship are:
the thought that someone really cares about me and accepts me just
the way I am
--The worst things about relationship are:
learning to understand when a relationship is over and that,
although you lost a partner, you may have found a lifetime friend
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someoen who accepts me the way I am, who loves me for what I am
and not for what I have, who appreciates me and what I can do...
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
stop getting soooo angry soooooo easily...and stop being stubborn
would be nice,too
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
my habits never really interfered with my relationships
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
the same thing that goes for me would be nice
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
understanding that you're not alone anymore, that you have to take
the other person into account,too
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I always speak my mind, no matter how seriuos or frivolous the
matter is
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the lips
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age DOES NOT matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think it depends on emotions really
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm bisexual myself...
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't think religion should be important
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they're 2 different things..but it's so much better to have sex
with the one you love!
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I hated it and swore to myself never to do it again...actually,
that was what made me consider other options
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I think it's best to live together before marriage, but again it
depends on circumstances
--Regarding Risks
I took a risk once and it almost cost me my life,so no more....
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
PRACTICE SAFE SEX!!!!
--A funny relationship story:
I don't remember anything funny right now
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Music
my own experiences
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
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I really can't think of anything else
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Anonymous Guest 26 in Roodepoort, Gauteng, Johannesburg =South Africa=
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RE: Handwriting: Your handwriting reflects the person that you are, and if I could
I would first analyse a person's handwriting before considering
whether to pursue a relationship/date.
RE: My HW: No, but people often comment that it is rather beautiful and neat
AstroInfo: I am interested and believe in it but don't know my sun/moon/rising
signs. There is one starsign in particular that is always drawn
to me but we are completely incompatible as this starsign is too
jealous and dominating for me
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--Relationship Is:
It is a kind of friendship/intimacy and the way you and another
person care for each other. Sacrifices you make and things you do
to make each other happy.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...very akward, I fell in love fast but
kept tying to get the other person to prove his love for
me as he was much older than me and a different nationality
--The best things about relationship are:
Knowing there is somebody else out there really caring about and
looking out for you, someone you can trust and depend on....and
share your happiness and sadness with.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Trusting that person with your heart, your secrets and putting your
happiness in your hands....knowing there is always the risk of it
falling apart some way or another
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Him to really care for and look out for me, but not
suffocating/smothering me. Be gentle and treat me like a lady,
not like a child. Trust is most important!
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Open up my heart and really let the person inside, trusting him
with all I have. I'm sure there are many more, but this is the
most important.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Sometimes I act a bit strange, almost lazy....preferring to stay at
home just being on my own by myself with no apparant reason at all.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
When I really care for a person, I accept this person with all his
"habits" as long as he does the same for me.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being aware that you have the power to trample on(and perhaps
smash/break) your partner's heart. Always being considerate of
his/her feelings.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Always say what is bothering you, don't wait until it builds up,
give your partner a chance to "fix" what is bugging you. Never say
things you'll regret when arguing.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Personality definitely....I do however notice a sexy, shy smile
and crows feet around the eyes(A sure sign that the person loves
to laugh)
--Regarding Age in Relationship
My first love was 22 years older than me and it was disasterous as he
was forever telling me what I should/should not do, treating me like
a baby. I am happiest when my partner is person is more or less the
same age or +- 5 years older than me. We relate better to each other.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't have any comments on this. I for one would not feel
comfortable with a person the same sex as me.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I definately prefer the opposite sex, one might have the odd thought
about the same sex but it think perhaps people do think about it
now and again...I have.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Again, my first love was a different religion and this was a
problem. Things like these are important and tend to become sore
spots, especially when you have to decide how to raise children
etc. One feels at home with one's own sort
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I cannot enjoy Sex with a person unless I really truly love this
person. To me Sex is a way of expressing your love for each other.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was horrible, painful, I did not know how to respond or act
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I honestly don't know what to say. I wouldn't live with a man
before marraige again because once you live together you might
never get married.
--Regarding Risks
The particular risk I took was worth it, I experienced intense
feelings, of both joy and sorrow. In the end it was worth it as
life is about feeling and experiencing, not observing.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I trust my partners waaaayyy to much
--A funny relationship story:
This is a tough question and I'm not sure how to answer this -
my partner HAS to have an excellent sense of humour...thus there
are always hilarious moments - "They who play together stay together"
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How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
Also experimented and chatting to family/reading books etc
What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc.
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men who think they can just touch should be murdered in their beds
RE: Handwriting: all my family seems to have bad handwriting and my partners are
always really bad aswee, my current puts in random capital letters
and is bearly legiable
RE: My HW: messy, but my relationships are usually relaxed yet my handwriting
is more tensed. what i write could be full of meanings so what u
see with me isnt always what you get.
AstroInfo: i matched mine and my partners sign and it showed complex feelings
which was true, it also said it wouldnt work out, which is not true,
i believe it in some aspect but a billion people with the same sign
arent going to have the same week
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
2 people knowing each other
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
the warmth feeling
--The worst things about relationship are:
trying not to argue in front a group of people
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
humor, so not the racist type
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
tidy up more
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
they dont
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
as long as i get cuddles whenever i want them il be fine
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
getting a mortguage and a baby, i cant wait.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
dont talk until it needs to be yelled
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
how other people relate to them, if they think they are cool or
funny, etc
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it matters if ur 25 and wanna party you dont wanna be with a 65
year old who cant, u have to be in the same place in life
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
toltally true, at one point or another curiosity always wins
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
mainly boys, but not many girls, i prefer men
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
if ur in love who cares what god u believe in, if any.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
you can love without sex, but sex doesnt make you come as much if
theres no love involved, so id take them as inseperable
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
pain
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
im co-habiting and we may as well be married so i suppose do what
u feel right.
--Regarding Risks
moving in with him
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
my partner was a virgin and i always had used protection, now we
dont have to.
--A funny relationship story:
i dont know any
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How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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Anonymous Guest 16 in Blanding, Utah =USA=
F16 in Blanding, Utah =USA=
Name: Chailee
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RE: Handwriting: havent ever thought about it
RE: My HW: Havent ever had comments about my handwriting from partners
AstroInfo: I havent ever known much about it, so I haven't payed much attention
to those factors
I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I would explain personalitys playing a big role, age, friends,
just all of the factors related..
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... between puppy love, moving onto an
intense fiery thing.
--The best things about relationship are:
Companionship, Intimacy
--The worst things about relationship are:
Other people butting in.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who i can feel relaxed around, who makes me want to be the
person I am.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I could be a little more open.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I drink too much.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I would like them to be able to be honest, not lie as much.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
holding up my side of the relationship. being trustworthy, and
reliable, and sincere.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it's okay to talk, even if sometimes you say dumb things
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality, voice, looks, and smile
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesnt matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Everyone has their own oppinions, more power to them. but i prefer
straight people.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am straight
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
i am open to anyone. I dont expect them to be religious, spiritual
maybe, but not religious
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love isnt full until sex is there too, it binds it
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
i wasnt ready for sex my first time. but I am a very sexual person,
and express myself in many aspects of sexuality
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I am alright with living together before marriage.
--Regarding Risks
Telling that person how I feel, because of fear of rejection
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I am clean
--A funny relationship story:
?? couldnt really say off the top of my head
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none-
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RE: Handwriting: I have notice how my partner's handwriting reflects his irratic
character.
RE: My HW: legible
AstroInfo: i noticed that my two major, committed relationships have been to
aries. However, some astrologers say that it is not possible for
us to get along.
I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Gemini Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Repeated interactive encounters with another person, regardless of
their sex, race, or social status. The other person can be a lover,
customer, or relative.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... i fell in love with the romance.
--The best things about relationship are:
Having someone value you just as much as you value them.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Accepting that individuals are just that, individual. Everyone is
going to have unique personalities; if one choses to have someone
in his/her life, one has to accept them as they are.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
gives critical feedback, supportive, concerned and interested in my
goals, logical and reasonable, carefully affectionate, good humor,
doesn't mind being spontaneous once in a while.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
show more empathy, celebrate individuals as they are.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I shouldn't have the same expectations of others as i do for myself.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I do well in accepting individuals I value as they are.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking responsibilty for another's reactions and acknowledging when
I had something to do with it. Moreover, taking the responsibility
to reestablish the balance.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
It's important to recognize the other person's communication
style. This will decrease the chances of misunderstandings that
may lead to undesirable consequences.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The manner in which someone carries him/herself.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Women should be younger than their male counterparts.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
One is either hetero or homosexual. However, that doesn't mean that
a male heterosexual cannot find another male to appear attractive.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I enjoy being heterosexual. Although, I do have a few homosexual
friends.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
It depends how strict the religion or you are about your
spirituality.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Depending on the type of relationship - committed or casual -
sex may play an important role.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Inadequacy.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
How else would you know if the person you are dating has behavioral
problems such as bi-polar disease. Sometimes it's very hard to detect
certain extreme behavior issues when you don't live with someone.
--Regarding Risks
The opportunity for someone to betray you.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I would never sleep with someone that I new was promiscuous. Or
evaluate whether they take good care of themselves. If he doesn't
take good care of himself, I would think more than two or three
times before sleeping with him.
--A funny relationship story:
sharing bathrooms with someone!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
closed minded, expected too much from significant other.
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Fri Aug 27 19:12:08 2004
Anonymous Guest 22 in , nebraska ==
F22 in , nebraska ==
Name: Vanessa
Email: < vanessamarie14-at-hotmail.com
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RE: Handwriting: Handwriting can tell how thought the words are that the person
is writeing
RE: My HW: my partner has said that my handwriting was neat
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Fell in love
--The best things about relationship are:
Friendship
--The worst things about relationship are:
trust
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Eyes, You can tell exactly what the person is feeling
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I think age doesnt matter it depend on the person some people are
more mature not at the same emotional level as their peers
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex go hand and hand. Sex with out love isnt great sex
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Tue Aug 17 21:03:29 2004
Anonymous Guest 41 in Largo, Florida =USA=
F41 in Largo, Florida =USA=
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Yahoo - psychology
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Severe abuse growing up so relationships and trust issues are
difficult.
RE: Handwriting: I don't know what to think of this.
RE: My HW: I don't know.
AstroInfo: I don't believe that but for fun, it's ok. to read the daily ones.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
It is like a glow of energy that comes from within that when shared
one feels like one is floating and no longer are present problems
that strong.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... dear friends from church, actually. A
couple who befriended me. As far as dating, I was 21 when
I really felt close to a young man the same age.
--The best things about relationship are:
Trust, respect, love, unity, sense of humor.
--The worst things about relationship are:
codependency; abuse; money problems; loneliness.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A healthy person who knows how to take care of himself and share
that with his companion. He in turn is open to his partner's sharing.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Build up my trust. Build my sense of humor (I can be funny!). Loose
weight, eat better and exercise so that he can see that I take good
care of myself.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Watch less t.v.; cook healthy foods; not be afraid to show feelings
and be vulnerable.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Communication is the key!
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
The fear that I tend to rescue people and take too much on myself.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I don't like arguments. Anger scares me a lot of the time.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A smile.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Doesn't matter! Love is universal.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I stay out of that discussion. I let people decide what they want
to do. As long as people stay out of that part of my life, I am fine.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
N/A
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Tricky subject. For me, What I belive would work better is to marry
some one of my same religion. Spirituality is important in my life
and I don't want to marry someone who is too different from me.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They can be both.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I feel really terrible since my experience was with my father,
the bastard.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
In my religion, living together is not encouraged.
--Regarding Risks
I don't know. The question itself upsets me.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I don't have sex with anyone, protection or not. I will wait to
take my chances when I marry.
--A funny relationship story:
Getting stuck at a toll booth in a highway in NY (the car broke
down!), heavy rain and no rearview mirror!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
Codependent Anonymous; comedy books about relationships.
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without feeling overwhelmed.
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Give thanks to the Lord EVERY DAY..DONT EVER LET ANYONE BRING
YOU DOWN!
RE: My HW: different all the time
AstroInfo: i am totaly into astrology!
I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with Moon; and rising.
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...fall in love married at first sight
--The best things about relationship are:
my self esteem, my dignity and happiness
--The worst things about relationship are:
fear, let downs, stress, dissapointment, mental/verbal abuse
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
honesty, good communication, no accusing
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
sex
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i am focusing on my future, happiness
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
i need to find out who he really isbeing equal with your
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
have your priorities in order
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
there are those who can hold an honest conversation without tthrowing
in criticizim
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
tons of love, kidness, caring and i am a good person all around!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
n/a
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i prefer straight
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
my partner has to have love for our LORD
--Regarding Risks
being equal, open and honest not greedy, overprotected
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
i need to know if its there
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other:
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
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Tue Jul 27 15:19:01 2004
Anonymous Guest 19 in gloucester, gloucestershire =uk=
M19 in gloucester, gloucestershire =uk=
Name: tim
Email: <room16laser-at-hotmail.com>
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Prof/Studies: store manager
RE: Handwriting: never even thought about it
RE: My HW: everyone says its very neat
AstroInfo: always read the horrorscopes out of intresst and occasionally think
yeah actually that does kind of relate. but dont rely on it for
advice or to map out my life for me. though for some reasons seem
to attract a lot of picies which apparently is unsually for a virgo!
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
the interaction between two different ppl
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was. with one of my best friends kind of
developed over time we were very close, Till she fell for
a guy 20 years her senior, married with children who just
used her for sex. but hey im not bitter at all.
--The best things about relationship are:
friendship and companionship someone to share everything with and
to help take their burdens too
--The worst things about relationship are:
when your apart from each other for extended periods of time
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who is confident in themselves and knows what they want. who
is prepared to give everything to you and likes you for who you
are doesnt try to change you into what they want
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more open with the way i feel about people. Accept everyone has
their own oppinions and dont have to agree with me all the time and
its not personal when they dont. maybe balance partner and friends
a bit better
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
im too closed used to keeping things to myself due to a difficult
childhood. Also probably go out too much as its a wekkly trasdition
with friends
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
if i want to be with someone then nothing they ever do can put me off
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
accepting your not always the innocent party and sharing tasks
and commitments
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i can listen with the best of them and in an agument go silent while
partner gets angry and shouts. just dont feel comfortable being loud
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the smile of a person and how confident they appear
--Regarding Age in Relationship
depends on cirumsatnces. nothing wrong with big age gap as long as
the feelings are genuine and one partner isnt using the other to
boost ego or for some other reason which is often the case
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
everyone wonders what it would be like to experiment but the majority
leave it at that so i wud say most ppl are round the 1 or 2 mark
on the scale
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
though about it as have most ppl but never been tempted to do it
for real
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
religion and faith make up part of who you are so are partly
responsible for if you attracted to someone or not. therefore if
you are actracted to someone of another faith that faith ould be
part of what is attracting you so it is certainly not a barrier to
a relationship
--Regarding Love and Sex:
without love sex is meaningless. while the two are linked i think it
is perfectly possible to love someone but not be sexually attracted
to them and vice versa. however sex is the most personal act two
ppl can be involved in so it should only be with someone you love
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
excited beyond all measure but with no real idea of what to
do. desprate to please the partner
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
moving in is a step to be taken as soon as both partners are readyto
make a commitment to each other but they dontnessecerally have to
be commited enough to get married before living together
--Regarding Risks
the one person i ever opened up to ran off with another bloke. safe
to say risk isnt high up my list of things to do in a relationship
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
only sleep with people you know and trust even then we make a point
of getting checked out before doing it just in case
--A funny relationship story:
being caught in the back seat of the car bythe cops while i was
with my girlfriend
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How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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F45 in Yakima, Washington =USA=
Name: Lori S. Crow
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RE: Handwriting: i will have both our handwriting analyzed. I want to know MORE!
RE: My HW:
Don't know yet
AstroInfo: i love it and study it all the time. Supposedly my Libra sign and
his Cancer sign should have few problems. . life has intervened and
made us what we are on top of our sun signs. We are wonderful for
each other-at-
I'm a: Libra Sun; with Sagittarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Ed Wheat (I think?)
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A feeling that you work on 24/7. A series of negotiations,
mediations, compromises, atta boys, feel goods and feel bads.
A giving of 100% when it can be done and a hope that the other
person will give !00% when they are capable too. If it evens
out, it is okay. It often doesn't. You have to be willing to
realize that it is okay to disagree and okay to not see eye to eye.
It is like an old pair of jeans so comfortable. . .never complacent
(complacency kills) and never for granted. . always work but always
the best work you could ever do. .
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... i wanted a "boyfriend"! It seemed
like what I was supposed to be wanting/
--The best things about relationship are:
the future with my best friend, laughter, not wanting to get lost
in the infrastructure of miniscule parts of life but living the
whole picture day by day, minute by minute.
--The worst things about relationship are:
learning that the person I love is not exactly like me, not taking
everything personally. If he is having a bad day, it is not I that
has caused it. He has the right to have feelings just like I do.
Accepting his idiosyncrocies (sp?) and knowing that he is accepting
mine. Giving giving giving. . .and knowing that he is doing
the same. Having great faith that hope will triumph over experience!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone I can count on, someone who is stable, someone who knows
when to say "I'm sorry" and when to remind me that I may be making a
"poor' choice. Someone who knows how to show affection and receive
it, someone not afraid to say "I love you"
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Not be insecure, carry my confidence with me. . a man loves a
confident woman. Reassure him of my love and commitment just as
often as he needs to be reassured without pressure
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am used to chaos. I was married to an alcoholic for years and my
father was one too. I have a tendency to create chaos or a crisis
when there is no need for one. My partner realizes this in me and
reminds me that stability is good and looking for a fight is not
a good choice. I have learned to "take a walk!
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
He is one in a million. I have waited a lifetime for him. .
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking responsibility for my words, my moods and my responses to life
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
One needs to be able to walk away and take the space that one needs.
A cooling off period is essential!
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Someone's teeth! I guess I notice if someone is smiling!
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i'm 45, Mike is 50. 10 years is a generation. . I feel one should
have much in common; music, history, etc. . .I work with geriatrics
and I love them but I couldn't be in love with one!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
We have all been everything in one life or another. Love knows no
bounds or gender . . i am straight but not narrow minded. I have no
desire to make love to a woman nor does my partner have the desire
to make love to a man. that is just where we are in this life
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
See above
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Mike and I share a very similiar opinion of Faith. I went with a
person who was a Mormon, , , it didn't work!!!!
--Regarding Love and Sex:
If you are in love, the sex is great. . .sex can still be great
without love but it is just that. . . sex. Making love is an
intimate part of a relationship. Making love and sex are two
totally different things!
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
"Is that it?"
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I am living with my partner and I feel God has blessed our union.
I would love to be married for the "legal security" that it brings
in this country. I would love to have his last name. I will never
push the issue however as I would rather have him without the benift
of marriage than not have him at all
--Regarding Risks
When I met Mike I was extremely wounded as was he. I took an
extreme leap of faith and now believe that we are together for the
rest of our lives. Statistics would say otherwise. We have both
a plethora of relationships in our past. we pledged outselves to
each other after taking the leap of faith and BELIEVING and now
KNOWING that this is where we are supposed to be. We have taken
the leap of faith to know LOVE.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
My "faithful" husband of 18 years have me HIV. . .I ended up with
cervical cancer and almost lost my life. . .need i say more?
--A funny relationship story:
The entirety of our relationship. We laugh all the time
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
Watching how loving my grandfather was no matter what a bi. . . my
grandmother was!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
I thought that even a bad relationship was better than no
relationship
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This was fun! It is late on a Saturday night tho and I am tired!
Should have done it in the morning!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
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What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
Watching how loving my grandfather was no matter what a bi. . . my
grandmother was!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
I thought that even a bad relationship was better than no
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Sun Jun 27 20:22:58 2004
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RE: My HW: Messy, and i took the HW questionaire and found it to be amazingly
accurate other than the astrological sign
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--Relationship Is:
One might call relationship the feelings that you and another person
share for each other, or in the sadder cases, the feelings that
you have for someone who may not neccesarily share those feelings
with you. Relationship is something that can make you feel wonderful
or something that can make you feel horrible. In both cases, it
is something that forces you to feel alive, because if you didn't
have feelings for anything or anyone (even if it is self pity for
yourself) you wouldn't feel that you had the drive to live.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... a puppy love that I thought was an
intense fiery love. I was crushed at not having the person
in my life then but laugh at the thought of ever having
had a real relationship with this person now.
--The best things about relationship are:
Knowing that somebody loves you just as unconditionally as you love
them, being able to laugh at each others pety misfortunes together,
being there for each other when you know there is nobody else on the
earth that you would want to be there for you, holding each other
with the warm comforting feeling that we will always be there for
each other, in our hearts as well as in the flesh...creating an
everlasting feeling of shared love and security.
--The worst things about relationship are:
sharing...feelings, perspectives, decisions, space, money...dare
I say that evil word...all of the things that two people are bound
to have different opinions on causing one party to always have to
take a loss
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who is willing to understand my needs...not someone who
will try to give me everything I ever wanted, but someone who will
support me in getting there by myself if that is what it takes to
make me happy
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
have more faith and self-confidence in myself to lesson the load
of constant reassurement I need from my partner
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Change is good...too many people get in a relationship rut, or think
that finding the "right person" (whom they never seem to find)
will give them happiness when really it is their self that they
are looking for. I went through many partners trying to find that
"right person" only to find that I kept dating the same type of
person who was ever-so wrong for me
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
My opinion is: never go to bed angry, don't ignore that there is a
problem...talk about it if it needs discussing, and don't out wear
your welcome to someones lended ears. You can only talk about a
subject for such an amount of time before you realize that there
is no solution or you get angrier at each other...give it a rest
once and a while.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
As the saying goes, "looks do help", but my first true love
(unfortunately that didn't last)
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age definitely does not matter in love, but I do think that some
generations of people have widely different views making people
quite possibly incompatible for each others needs in life. I think
relationships in the statutory manner are questionable due to the
mere fact that it takes many of us most of our life to figure out
what it is that we need to fullfill our needs.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They can be one and the same if you find a partner that you feel is
right for you and someone who you feel fullfills your needs (even
if your needs do not include any or much sex at all). In this they
can be totally separate as well...you do not have to have sex with
someone to love them, and you do not have to love someone you have
sex with. Sex and love can be pure pleasures in themselves.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity
dated a lot of people to learn in them who I was and to learn
what/who I really wanted in my life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
Seeing the horrible relationship my parents and many of my siblings
had...they were all much older than I allowing me to observe,
closely, more adult relationships
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Name:
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some say you can love no-one else until you love yourself. I think
that it too strong a word. Self acceptance is all thats required,
everybody has bad habits that we don't like and there will always be
parts of yourself you don't like either. It's learning to understand
and accept them that will help you to form relationships.
RE: My HW: she said it looks like a spiders scrawl and not at all attractive.
AstroInfo: I think you can take some general traits from it.
I'm a: Libra Sun; with Moon; and Sagittarius rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Two people wish to be together and are prepared to put that other
persons needs above their own. This must be reciprocal.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
emotional beauty of life when you are happy with someone
--The worst things about relationship are:
the pain you can experience when hurt by those you apened up to.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a partner, an individual. A person who wants to be with me for me
and not because of any form of dependancy.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
you carry part of their emotional welfare with you. Your actions
affect their life and wellbeing.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it's a balance. A life experience call of what needs to be talked
about and what can be forgotten
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the way they carry themselves as a person. It tells you almost
everything. Purpose or wandering soul.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
as long as it works
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
for some it's fantasy and others require experimentation, whilst
others are sure of who and what they are
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
hetrosexual
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
as long as your differences do not destroy your relationship ,
then why should convention stand in your way.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I prefer them to belong together.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
not what i expected and not great either
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
commitment on paper does not always apply in practice.
--Regarding Risks
telling her i loved her after 2 weeks before she went away.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
be careful!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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did it out of interest. I pretty much know what I am. Even the
bits I don't like so I don't feel that I helped myself in any
particular way.
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You should ask people if they consider themselves to be a giver or
taker in their relationship. I see many abusive relationships and
these people consider them quite normal (self deception).
Ed Note: 24.Jun.2004: Added to the Questionnaire. Thanks. -JS
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Anonymous Guest 17.9 in , Georgia =USA=
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RE: Handwriting: never thought about it.
RE: My HW: some say its kinda of pretty.
AstroInfo: I'm almost perfectly Virgo. But. I was almost born on a cusp, so I
find myself acting sort of Libra-ish sometimes. But, I don't base
my life on astrology.
I'm a: Virgo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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I really have no idea.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was extremely strange. I loved him
but...things didn't work out.
--The best things about relationship are:
The intimacy, companionship, and love.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Jealousy, strange flaws, anger
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who loves me
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I think that I need to feel my emotions more.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I'm too critical and I pick everything apart.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
???
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Supporting the other person
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I love arguing!!!!
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
face, I guess. or body. but they could be evil and still be
attractive. I'd date someone not-so-attractive if he was interesting.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
My boyfriends have always been older. two or three years older. but
I've had crushes on younger guys!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
People can do whatver they want.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm strictly straight, baby.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Two people can not truly be in love unless they are on the same
page spiritually.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They go together...sometimes.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It hasn't happened yet.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
People shouldn't live together unless they are married. It's a sin.
--Regarding Risks
I told him I loved him still.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
People need to get tested!
--A funny relationship story:
the exciting banter
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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it was sort of insightful. It made me think about my exes.
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RE: My HW: neat, easy to read
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I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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close emotional ties with another of the opposite sex causing
complete irrationality and total loss of control of emotions
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... lustful
--The best things about relationship are:
Happiness
--The worst things about relationship are:
not seeing eye to eye. constant arguing. different views on life
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
strong willed personality with similiar interests
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more sympathetic to others
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I'm a close kept person. I don't like to show feelings often
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
take me as I am, or not at all
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Doing the right thing
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
men yell, women whine. neither listens to what the other has to
say until usually too late
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
attitude
--Regarding Age in Relationship
as long as your happy, it don't matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
god created adam and eve, not adam and steve
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
heterosexual only please.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
commonality can be a good thing, but variety does make life more
interesting
--Regarding Love and Sex:
go hand in hand, but not same
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
embarassing!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
have to know what I'm gonna be spending the rest of my life with
before I get myself stuck in an unhappy situation
--Regarding Risks
horrible
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
better safe than dead
--A funny relationship story:
my first date
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How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life
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them befor ei saw their handwriting so it doesnt impact it too much..
RE: My HW: Artistic.
AstroInfo: I relate with many things, but not all.
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it is when two people who are attracted to one another on an intimate
basis-which means caring about somebody so much it sometimes hurts
your heart and never looking back on choices you have made in
devoting your time to them
--That first relationship was
a little bit of puppy love, more so on his part. it was sort of a
fling but i lost my virginity to him
--The best things about relationship are:
Knowing someone will always be there and knowing that when you are
hurting, so are they. your partner's willingness to comfort and
shelter you from pain and simulataneously feel your pain when you
are down.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Having to compromise your ways for someone so different. dealing
with their mistakes and dealing with them not realising their own
faults. risk of being hurt by them.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who loves even my bad qualities, or who at least can accept
those qualities and see how good can somehow come from them. like
being stubborn, sometimes you have to be stubborn to be strong
in situations, it gets you through. i want someone who will stick
thorugh it all, the good and the bad.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I am not good in communicating my thoughts when things get tense. I
freeze up and feel as though my voice is paralysed and i cannot
tell them what is going on.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i listen more than i communicate my feelings
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he thinks too much about our whole relationship, when one thing goes
wrong it has to be made a big deal and thigns have to get sorted out.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
responsibility for the other person's feelings, not hurting them
or trying not to. also to be sensitive towards them
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i have trouble expressing my feelings straight away because i'd
rather think them over and think about what the other perosn has
tosay as opposed to reacting straight away.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
how they carry themselves, and then their personality. you can
already tell alot about a person form the way they carry themselves,
you can see how they feel about themselves, or how they feel others
see them.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it doesn't matter, when you love somebody that shouldn't hodl
you apart.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
it is unnatural to love someone fom the same sex, it is like cats
and zebras being in love.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
men.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
your values form your religion and spirituality reflect your
values and who you are as a person, so if people come fomr two very
different and very diverse cultures and religions, it impacts their
relationship greatly because they are so different in values and
they will have trouble understanding eachother in many ways.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex is the most intimate part of love, if you make love, it is
different from having sex. When love someone, you ake love to them,
when youblike someone you have sex with them.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it wasnt what i thought it would be because it should have bene with
someone more special to me, movies and the media tend to manipulate
sex and make you think sex and intimacy can be with anyone, but it
is only when you find the right person that you realise how wrong
you were. however those are learning experiences which shouldnt be
taken for granted.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I'm not entirely sure, it shouldn't be somethign that has to be
labelled, if you want to and it feels right, then why not? if you
know you will marry someday, then why not? time doesn't make a
difference, it's love that makes the difference.
--Regarding Risks
telling them i loved them
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
people should stop having promiscious sex and then complain about
STD's if it is their own fault. people should check themselves
out before giving them to somebody else because otherwise you harm
soemoen else, and that is selfish.
--A funny relationship story:
when my boyfriend tickled me and i kept syaing stop but he thought
i was just syaing that because it tickled and i was laughing, but
because i was laughing so hard it made me fart...we both rolled
over laughing uncontrollably.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family
not listenign to others so much but following my heart more so
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life
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Name: Cath
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Aye, one thing that can't be overstated...when entering into
that eternal battlefield of "love"...put a helmet on that
soldier!...men...ladies.....someone;)
RE: Handwriting: Never thought about it beyond, perhaps, an indication of their
neurological capacity and/or education.
RE: My HW: Oddly, men often seem to Love my handwriting and think I'm somehow
gifted in that dept...women however, like me, always see it as it
is...i.e. that it sucks, basically.
AstroInfo: I used to wholly discount it...now, I can no longer deny that, in
the right hands, it can be amazingly accurate...yes, I know all my
astrological "stats".
I have Absolutely found that usually the
compatibility reccomendations apply.
I'm a: Virgo Sun; with Capricorn Moon; and Cancer rising.
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--Relationship Is:
It's the odd state in which people who become familior to you begin
to matter inordinately...their regard, well-being, virtually every
aspect of their lives....it's almost like beginning a symbiotic
relationship.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...intense, internal and consuming. I
was absolutely Madly in love with the guy due to our shared
musical interests and my admiration for his amazing talents,
his sparkling personality and social ease...he was the
epitamy of 'cool' and I was, way outta my league.
He was
23, I was 17...he was worldly, I was provincial...I felt
so undeserving that I, mostly due to fear of rejection,
never expressed my love for him verbally.
--The best things about relationship are:
The excitement....and the "bliss" that's attainable when the
relationship is stable and satisfying. The sense of completeness,
purpose and confidence that lends.
--The worst things about relationship are:
The 'power' you allow the relationship to make you miserable...the
consuming nature of unhealthy relationships and their tendency to
overshadow everything else possibly good in your life...finding
the balance in your mundane day-to-day life when all you want to
do is focus on your relationship...the cost in self-esteem if it
ends badly.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
I honestly believe that that person doesn't exist. I suspect
childhood abuse by my father so badly skewed my outlook and coping
skills that I'll always set myself up for a fall...but what am
I attracted to in a man?
Intelligence, wit, independence,
creativity, loyalty as a friend and to family, personal honor,
quiet confidence, the ability to laugh at himself, kindness and
consideration to all living things, the ability to think outside
the box, the conviction to be himself, a certain quota of good
instincts for 'reading' my moods/desires, finally, a man that
subtlely takes charge when initiating intimacy.
Hah......told
you he didn't exist;)
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Somehow learn to not require so much "alone time"...be more giving
and attentive...Prozac....therapy;)
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
...I'm wholly stuck in a rut and successfully hiding from life.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
...hmmm, I'd say this question is too vague...habits? As in..? Is
he robbing banks or leaving the seat up?
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
.....honoring your commitments, fair play, personal honor and
integrity...ensuring it's a give/give balanced relationship...not
taking advantage if there is a power inequity...above all, honesty
in all things.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
...I have No problem talking or shouting things out...my idea of
torture is to leave something unsaid or to be cut-off mid-discussion
or mid-rant. I'm a born, natural debator.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
When I think back over all my important relationships I realize
that for each its been different, the attraction/progression...some
I was bowled over right at first by a physical attraction, but more
often its been a gradual drawing to someone, oftentimes someone Not
physically impressive.
One constant...if there's "nothing else
there" save for physical appeal my attention won't be held longer
than a moment and I've no further interest, "beautiful people"
can often become "ugly" in a heartbeat once you start to get to
know something about them.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age matters most when one partner is not only younger than the other,
but also "young" in years (18-26ish) and emotionally...once people
are mature it matters less...it Does play a role however, often times
in power inequality...however, if both are unusually emotionally
mature and wholly committed it can work, though not without effort.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
...that it varies depending on the individual...
...while I
consider myself straight, I Do, however, tend to believe that
people can experience a brief "attraction" to someone of the same
sex while still remaining essentially, wholly hetero.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
...again, straight.
I'm not homophobic in the least just simply
attracted to men in a way I can't fatham, nor have I ever experienced
feeling for a woman...it would be like my being attracted to a
sheet of paper...no "reaction" whatsoever.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I think my answer deals less with religious differences and More with
a persons capacity for tolerance and acceptance which is certainly
effected by their individual devotion and their individual degree
of interpretation of their specific doctrine.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
...that they are two wholly different things.
Love can exist in
the total absence of sex though I doubt that would be very fullfiling
for long for most people in normal circumstances...whatever that is
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Not to be a punster but I waited so long it ended up being a bit
of an anti-climax, though I'm still glad I waited to have sex with
someone I respected and was serious about.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
...what Isn't improved by practice? Wholly approve. Nuff said.
--Regarding Risks
...that my father taught me well that the worlds a scary
place...protect yourself at all times, costs.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Being a resonably intelligent person I am Highly vigilent...and
hard-line, but the way I see it, as much of a kill-joy that it is,
there Is No Choice.
By the way, my brother-in-law died of aids,
which, no doubt had something to do with shattering any denial and
misconceptions re the threat.
--A funny relationship story:
Oh hell, I dunno...my entire relationship history has been a joke.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
living, maturing...yup, "with age (does) come wisdom"
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
...fear of taking risks.
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useful?...perhaps...I dunno, see I'm honestly not all that concerned
with relationships, so I've actually no idea why I started or
completed this...boredom, I suppose. Yup, my life is nothing short
of a thrillfest.
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Anonymous Guest 19 in , ==
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Prof/Studies: Student
RE: Handwriting: His handwriting is almost a reflection of his personalit and his
i-couldnt-care-less attitude.. even his signature is a little
squibble.. it's very cute..
RE: My HW: he thought it was too embellshed
i think i try too hard to make
it look perfect.
AstroInfo: I'm a saggitarrian and he's scorpio, everyone closest to me has
always been scorpion (males) and all astrological matter ive read
say that they're incompatible so i've stopped reading
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--Relationship Is:
It's something that brings people together for no obligatory
reason.. they're just there because they want to be.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... love.. it's been more than 4 years
now...
--The best things about relationship are:
Hugs.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Lies. Distrust.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A best friend who continues to be that even after we're involved
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be a little less outspoken
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have to stop smoking
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he's way too posessive and cannot get over the past no matter what
i do.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being committed in every sense of the term.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i hold it in and then burst .. he bursts and never talks about it
again and never gets over it
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Appearance and the way he talks.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i agree that they should be of the same age or somewhere around
each others age.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
It's irrelevant.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm a straight female
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
It may be connected if religion plays a very important role in their
lives and dictates their beliefs but otherwise it's almost irrelevant
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They're are very different but sometimes one of them might give
the illusion of the other being present too
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was so great.. right time with the right guy.. almost perfect.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i have nothing against it but personally i wouldnt want to do it
because we might get used to that and not end up getting married
at all and i really want to get married
--Regarding Risks
i made a confession wich could make or break our long relationship
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have nothing to worry about .. we share a safe monogamos
relatioship.
--A funny relationship story:
I used to get mad when he'd rather watch tv than listen to me but
now i understand it and i thinks its kind of funnny
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness
problems we experienced
What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none-
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handwriting.
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Anonymous Guest 23 in Tacoma, WA =USA=
F23 in Tacoma, WA =USA=
Name: Tonia
Email: <tonivans-at-yahoo.com>
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RE: Handwriting: Though I never really thought about it, I find that my husband has
wonderful handwriting that tells about him. It's neat/concise and
easy to read...just like him.
RE: My HW: I've been told that I have beautiful, legible writing.
AstroInfo: I am completely disinterested in Astrology.
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--Relationship Is:
Relationship - the bond that connects two or more people together,
either as friends or in love
--That first relationship was
Fell in love and married 4 years later
--The best things about relationship are:
Being with someone who gets me. Being able to be who I am always.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Thinking of someone other than yourself at most times. Never being
able to do what you want whenever you want.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who cares for others well-being not just mine or theirs.
Someone who loves what I love but loves what they love. Someone who
judges based on intent not what they "feel". Someone willing
to do whatever it takes to be happy and who realizes that they
are responsile for their own happiness. Someone who will share
everything with me, not just material things, but who can open up
and divulge their deepest secrets and someone with whom I can do
the same thing.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more open, and share how I feel. Talk less and listen more. be
less selfish and more selfless.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I tend to be a bear and I know that there are better ways to handle
situations.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I can deal with most things...except for any type of
abuse...physical, substance, verbal.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
my actions, feelings and words. These are things that I have all
control over and am responsible to keep them in check.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it's so hard to find someone who communicates the same way I do.
You just have to take a step back, count to ten and really think
about what you say. When it comes to argument styles, you just have
to remember to treat the other person the way you want to be treated.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
looks. The first thing you notice about someone (unless you meet
in a chat room or over the phone) is how someone appears. It's not
only about how they look, but how they take care of themselves.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
love who you want. I personally wouldn't go younger than me and
I don't like to see anyone much older than myself (maybe 1-2 years
max.), but if you are 30 and a 50 year old man makes you happy and
you make him happy - do it!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't believe that there are "levels" of human sexuality...either
you are or you aren't.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am 100% heterosexual. I have never dated any one of my own sex
and never want to or will. I have several friends who are homosexual
and engage in the lifestyle, but I don't prefer that at all.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I can't be with anyone who doesn't believe what I believe.
I've tried several times and found myself fighting over sex, kids,
morals. I know that the person I am with should feel the same way.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love can lead to sex, but sex rarely leads to love. You can
definitely have one without the other, but I would take love without
sex before sex without love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was horrible. I totally expected more than what I received.
I knew that television, movies, music and radio hyped sex to be
more than it was, but I still expected some "charge"...didn't happen!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
You never really know someone until you live with them. Even though
my religion is against co-habitation, I find that I wouldn't have
done it any other way...doesn't me you have to have sex with or
even sleep in the same room as someone else. I would like to know
if someone were a slob and didn't clean up after himself or had
tons of things behind the refrigerator before I married someone
and inevitably became their maid.
--Regarding Risks
letting go of myself. When I got married, I vowed to join with
someone else and to allow their life to be my life...it's scary
and wonderful at the same time.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
YUCK!!! Although I have never had any (thank God), I find them
disgusting, but I agree that people nee to be completely honest
and discuss everything.
--A funny relationship story:
I don't know
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
just being together
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
Never saw a healthy relationship growing up and didn't know how to
engage in one
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Name: Siobhan
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i think i've told the world enough.
RE: Handwriting: makes sense to me. i remember noticing how my old boy's handwriting
could not have contrasted any more [from mine] than it did. hmm.
RE: My HW: yeah. he said it was really really sloppy and impossible to
read. well, i'd have to say it's really sloppy and impossible to
read--unless i'm reading it, of course. hey, i don't take an eon
to finish a paragraph like perfectionistic peers. oh, this is lined
paper? i didn't see any lines...
AstroInfo: uh....i'm a leo? but not really...most of the time my horoscopes
are way off.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a romantic relationship is when two people want to spend time
together often, making the other person feel wanted and worthwhile. a
platonic relationsihp is when two or more people want to spend time
together, making everyone in the platonic relationship (friendship)
to feel accepted and important in their unique way. i guess.
--That first relationship was
first boyfriend: talked to him online every day for a year before we
met; dated for a month and a half; it was his longest
relationship at the time. i was so paranoid that he
wanted to be with someone else and i felt so bad for
"holding him back". i cried over such imagined scenarios
often. i ended it because i didn't want to "hold him back"
any longer. he really did want to be with someone else. you
know, whatever. haven't dated since.
--The best things about relationship are:
earnest hugs. i like those a lot.
--The worst things about relationship are:
well, it never lasts forever.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
let's go with the ideal person. lots of sarcasm. similiar interests
and intellect. nice teeth. gangly to some extent. dark hair (dyed
or not)...or is that too specific? well, that's my nonexistant mate.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
try to lower my anxiety further and not blurting my life story in
five minutes only in hopes that i might say something that they'll
like me for...try to be less skittish; more stable; less shy.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i talk to much when i'm nervous or when i'm trying hard to make
someone like (or not-hate) me. i can't make eye contact. the more
i like someone, the farther away i have to keep my eye contact
from their face. most times i can't stop looking at the floor or
the windows.if they stare, it makes it a billion times worse. i am
also very...well...skittish.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
i hate being called "hun". other than that, nothing that other
people do really bothers me. oh wait! people with perpetually poor
grammar and spelling put me on edge too, i admit. (don't criticize
my writing now for saying that, please) :(
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
well i wouldn't want to be hounded by phone calls nor would i
want to be hounded for not calling. but, a call every once in
a while really is a nice thing. and just hanging out...playing
video games...whatever...that's a great thing, you know? i don't
know...i'm really not that responsible so i'll just stop.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
if a person can't hold a conversation without some form of media
(tv show, music, movie, whatever) to convienently distract them
when a subject (other than fluffy small talk) may arrive, it can
really be rather hard to relate [to them]. meaningful conversation
is tragically underrated.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
hair...teeth--and wit!...wit with extra sarcasm.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i find it harder to relate to people who are not around my age, but
that's just me. if there's a pair in love and their age difference
is 15 or 20 years or whatever, who cares?. i mean, we're all little
kids on the inside anyways, because we were all little kids at one
time--just not all at the same time--you know?
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
i think everyone is bisexual to some extent--most just prefer one
or the other. some go to great lengths, it seems, to keep hidden
desires hidden.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i'm romantically attracted to boys for sure. i can be attracted to
boys or girls but i couldn't see myself dating another girl. it's
just not my thing, but who knows. whatever.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
oh blarg. well, i'm a passive aethist. i was raised cathloic--ccd
every week; church every sunday. i just decided (quite young) that it
really didn't make sense to me and i didn't understand how the adults
could all take it so gosh darn seriously. i don't mind religion or
spiritual types at all, unless they try to convert me. i'm sure
they'd have a less than pleasant response if i tried to convert
them to aethism. i'm happy. they're happy. let's all just be happy.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
i really don't have as strong of a romantic attachment to the
physical of a relationship as people imply i should. i want to
be loved more than i want lovin' but all love is fleeting and...i
suppose ani said it best: "sometimes it seems that love is just a
fancy word for compromise."
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
awkward...dissapointing...and boring.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
a person wouldn't notice little inconsistencies and mannerisms
often that a partner may hide unless they lived with them 24/7
or close to it. if a one doesn't test the true compatability
to their significant other, they may end up married to someone
(they realize all-too-late) that is the wrong person. my parents'
relationship is the "poster child" of this situation. my mother, a
cathloic, married a man she discovered later was a verbally abusive
alcoholic. she won't divorce him because it's basically a slap in
the face of her upbringing and he won't leave her because he's broke
and unemployed. they've been together for over 25 years...seperate
bedrooms on opposite ends of the house and avoid each other most
of the time. they've adapted and cope moderately well. I hate it.
--Regarding Risks
i blurt out everything i possibly can because i have this
conviction that if everyone would just get to know me, they'd like
me and not make judgements. of course, first impressions always
come...first...so my trouble is i spastically say what i can about
everything to try and change their minds, because i also believe
that everyone dislikes me (or worse) until i finally talk to them
enough for them to stop abhoring me. i end up emitting a personality
that is the polar opposite of the person i really believe to be.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
it's good to know as much as one can but it's impossible to check
everything. condoms, anyone?
--A funny relationship story:
bah. my relationship wasn't funny. it was stupid.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
teen.matchmaker.com was a great site until they tried to make us
pay for it. teens can't afford that.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
my parents have a very, very poor marriage.
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it gave me something to do. i was severly bored and i got to the end,
so i guess it ceased my boredom to some extent. then again, typing
fascinates me to an infinite extent and so i love questionnaires.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
ask about pets perhaps? all my closest friends are cat people and it
seems i can't relate as well with the die hard dog types. nothing
against them though, you know? i guess that talking about common
pet experiences is a good way to start conversation.
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Tue Feb 3 15:13:48 2004
Anonymous Guest 17 in tiffin, ohio =usa=
M17 in tiffin, ohio =usa=
Name: tim weaver
Email: <questdodel-at-yahoo.com>
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RE: Handwriting: i have never analyzed another persons handwriting.
RE: My HW: messy. illegible.
AstroInfo: i have found astrology somewhat accurate. i would trust it somewhat
in determinig who is best for me.
I'm a: Virgo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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when you find that one special someone.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... more of a puppy love deal
--The best things about relationship are:
special bonds. loving one another.
--The worst things about relationship are:
breaking up.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
loving. trusting. honest. beautiful. fun loving. care free.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
i can't name a one flaw that i have.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i dont have any bad habits.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
there arent any habits that i cant stand.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being thier when your partner needs your cooperation.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
communication is a necessity in relationship, whether it is directly
or indirectly. it is the base for all relationships.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
what is inside thier heart. how they feel about things.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age is between the ears. personally i try to keep it within a few
years though to make it easier for me to find that special someone.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it should not tell you who you like.who you like should be determined
by your own interests.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex do not go together.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
living together will give a taste of what being married to them is
like. a trial marriage, more or less.
--Regarding Risks
the fact that it could completely embarass me in front of the
whole school.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
so some people made a mistake. they didnt find the special person
the first time around. you cant do everything right the first
time. plus we all die one day anyway.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity
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Anonymous Guest 44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA=
F44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Accounting
RE: Handwriting: I never thought about it- they just have to be intelligent enought
to write.
RE: My HW: No comments on my handwriting
AstroInfo: I am interested in astrology and read my horoscope for fun and good
advice, but I wouldn't let astrology rule my relationship choice.
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--Relationship Is:
Caring, loving and really wanting to spend as much time as possible
with a person you are attracted to sexually and as a friend.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... my first high school boy friend.
He was a new kid in my Senior Class. We did homework
together and started dating-really just hanging around each
other's homes because we didn't have money or cars.
--The best things about relationship are:
When it's new and there aren't many fights or problems.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Getting through your problems in life- when you don't agree on
issues of money, work, your home and family matters.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who has some of my common interests but allows me to have
my own space and time alone when I need it which is daily.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be a nicer person. Be less selfish.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I should quit drinking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I would like him to not do EVERYTHING by the book.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
You are both responsibily to keep a good standard of life- good
jobs, make money, have fun, stay healthy.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I have issues with communication. I don't want to bring up or
rehash problems. I'd rather ignore things as long as they can go
on without hurting things.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I would say general overall looks- mostly the fact that the person is
in good shape from exercising. They don't have to be beautiful - but
they must always be clean & groomed. Eyes are my favorite feature.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I think age does matter. I think there may be problems if there
is more than 10 years of a difference.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't understand what you want on this one. Yes there are
hetersexual and homosexal people. How many ? I don't think
about it.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am heterosexual and have always been.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't think race, faith or religion should stop people from being
together if they feel right for each other.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is just something physical
and doesn't mean you love that person.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was exciting because you expect so much pleasure- but I never
had the best sex until much later in the relationship when you
learn how to please each other.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I don't think it is wrong to live together before marrying. You
may find out you shouldn't marry or you may stay together and not
marry at all. The finacial aspect of being married is important.
It is important to be married if you plan to have a family.
--Regarding Risks
I never lived with someone I was in a relationship in. It was very
hard to get used to being together all the time. I would never
live with someone again if this relationship breaks up.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I haven't dated in over 10 years. I would be terrified if I
started dating. I would make sure I had protection for myself if
I slept with someone that I didn't know very well.
--A funny relationship story:
I dated someone who told all his friends that my parents summer
cottage was his and he was going to invite eveyone there soon.
At the time I was flabbergased but now I can really laugh about it.
He also gave everyone the impression that he paid for everything
for me- my car, apartment, dates, clothes, ect. Let me tell you -
I bailed him out financially many times & paid for half of all of
our dates.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People
My own personal experience
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
My parents never talked about relationships and dating with me.
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It was a bit of a personal experience. Different than most
questionnaires. It was fun.
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Tue Feb 3 11:13:01 2004
Anonymous Guest 44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Accounting
RE: Handwriting: I never thought about it- they just have to be intelligent enought
to write.
RE: My HW: No comments on my handwriting
AstroInfo: I am interested in astrology and read my horoscope for fun and good
advice, but I wouldn't let astrology rule my relationship choice.
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--Relationship Is:
Caring, loving and really wanting to spend as much time as possible
with a person you are attracted to sexually and as a friend.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... my first high school boy friend.
He was a new kid in my Senior Class. We did homework
together and started dating-really just hanging around each
other's homes because we didn't have money or cars.
--The best things about relationship are:
When it's new and there aren't many fights or problems.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Getting through your problems in life- when you don't agree on
issues of money, work, your home and family matters.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who has some of my common interests but allows me to have
my own space and time alone when I need it which is daily.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be a nicer person. Be less selfish.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I should quit drinking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I would like him to not do EVERYTHING by the book.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
You are both responsibily to keep a good standard of life- good
jobs, make money, have fun, stay healthy.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I have issues with communication. I don't want to bring up or
rehash problems. I'd rather ignore things as long as they can go
on without hurting things.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I would say general overall looks- mostly the fact that the person is
in good shape from exercising. They don't have to be beautiful - but
they must always be clean & groomed. Eyes are my favorite feature.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I think age does matter. I think there may be problems if there
is more than 10 years of a difference.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't understand what you want on this one. Yes there are
hetersexual and homosexal people. How many ? I don't think
about it.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am heterosexual and have always been.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't think race, faith or religion should stop people from being
together if they feel right for each other.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is just something physical
and doesn't mean you love that person.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was exciting because you expect so much pleasure- but I never
had the best sex until much later in the relationship when you
learn how to please each other.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I don't think it is wrong to live together before marrying. You
may find out you shouldn't marry or you may stay together and not
marry at all. The finacial aspect of being married is important.
It is important to be married if you plan to have a family.
--Regarding Risks
I never lived with someone I was in a relationship in. It was very
hard to get used to being together all the time. I would never
live with someone again if this relationship breaks up.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I haven't dated in over 10 years. I would be terrified if I
started dating. I would make sure I had protection for myself if
I slept with someone that I didn't know very well.
--A funny relationship story:
I dated someone who told all his friends that my parents summer
cottage was his and he was going to invite eveyone there soon.
At the time I was flabbergased but now I can really laugh about it.
He also gave everyone the impression that he paid for everything
for me- my car, apartment, dates, clothes, ect. Let me tell you -
I bailed him out financially many times & paid for half of all of
our dates.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People
My own personal experience
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
My parents never talked about relationships and dating with me.
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It was a bit of a personal experience. Different than most
questionnaires. It was fun.
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Thu Jan 15 23:06:54 2004
Anonymous Guest 18 in Charlotte, NC =USA=
F18 in Charlotte, NC =USA=
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Found us by: [ Web Search: ]
yahoo directory
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RE: Handwriting: It's not very important, but my partner does write messy and fast.
RE: My HW: My handwriting is neat and thorough, the way I address my
relationship. It isn't a quick thing to be take lightly.
AstroInfo: Yes, I am disinterested in astrology.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a relationship involves two people and those two people are connected
somehow, through communication, trust, and closeness. the degree
of the happiness of their relationship depends on these things
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... an attached, dependent relationship.
--The best things about relationship are:
having someone to talk to, hanging out, cuddling with
--The worst things about relationship are:
trust, jealousy, making time for that person, pride
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
trust, availability, attention, affection
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more available, listen more, pay more attention
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I work too much and it affects how I relate because I am always
busy and don't have time to truly relate.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I would try to get used to them and love them for it.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
calling them and making time for them. making sure they are happy
as well as i am.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
lack of communication can be a downfall and it is important to
communicate honestly, to get things off your chest sometimes.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
how he interacts with others, smile, laughs a lot
--Regarding Age in Relationship
3 or 4 years. too much is too big of a difference.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
i dont know
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
heterosexual
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Two people in a relationship should share the same faith or religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex relate but only when you are married.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
n/a
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
you should just spend a lot of time together before you get married,
not necessarily live together yet.
--Regarding Risks
When I "fell in love" for the second time.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
abstinence until marriage, and marry someone who is also a
virgin. that way, there is no risk of STDs
--A funny relationship story:
I don't know.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
Experience and watching other people
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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This questionnaire was helpful and it made me think about aspects
in a relationship that I had never thought of before.
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Mon Dec 22 17:22:00 2003
Anonymous Guest in , ==
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Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ]
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--Relationship Is:
it is two people who acknowledge the fact that they are one not two
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
always having someone to go to, and hold u
--The worst things about relationship are:
jealousy on both sides, misunderstandings, rumors, reputation
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
trust, understanding
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not fall so hard
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
they only help learn
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations
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Sat Dec 20 23:11:02 2003
Anonymous Guest 46 in Clinton, PA =USA=
F46 in Clinton, PA =USA=
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Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ]
linked from your handwriting analysis page
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More personal info:
Hang in there!
RE: Handwriting: Before reading your web site, I never gave it any thought. I think
it's not a bad idea now.
RE: My HW: No...they never commented on my handwriting.
AstroInfo: I have found that Astrology can be quite enlightening...I have
found some astrologers to be pretty accurate.
I'm a: Cancer Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Recommended Reading-- Titles:
Getting the Love you want
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Harville Hendrix
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--Relationship Is:
how you interact with others both friends and lovers: family,
friends, and lovers
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
feelings of love, intimacy, enjoyment
--The worst things about relationship are:
personality traits, not having the same value systems
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
one who is loving, kind, attentive, honest, self confident...one
who has similar value system, enjoys my family and friends, has a
great sense of humor
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more self confident
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to take charge of my future
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I need to lighten up.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
That we all are responsible for our actions...can't blame others.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
My guys don't like to talk...they like to "Let things work out
for themselves."
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality (are they humorous, kind, etc.) and physical
attractiveness(I check out their eyes...look into their souls :-)
--Regarding Age in Relationship
when you are young, age matters more...as you age, it really doesn't
matter...it's more about maturity then :-)
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
whatever floats their boats...as long as my guy is straight :-)
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm straight and totally enjoy it!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it doesn't matter...
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are two separate aspects of life
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was more of a curosity thing...a bit "show and tell."
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Doesn't matter to me...co-habitation is fine...so is marriage.
--Regarding Risks
getting hurt.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I would want to know the history of my lover...if he wasn't willing
to divulge that, I'd want him tested first.
--A funny relationship story:
being quite naive.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
reading about relationships
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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Very useful. It is being used to help me understand a current
relationship.
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Can't think of any right now.
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Sun Nov 30 20:37:55 2003
Anonymous Guest 42 in , Kentucky =USA=
F42 in , Kentucky =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Tax Accountant
RE: Handwriting: not relevant
RE: My HW: my handwriting changes daily...strange huh...I could forge easy
enough..
AstroInfo: never want to hook up with a Pisces again!!!
I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Virgo Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
When two people can come together and live in harmony, with respect
for each other and themselves. Knowing how to give and take...each
party...not just one give and one take. Each person compliments the
other which creates the most returns for everyone. Neither one can
ever be careless with the other.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...puppy love that escalated too rapidly.
--The best things about relationship are:
Kindness and respect...and great sex. A genuine heart.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Learning that it is ok to disagree. Reprimand and reprisal have no
place in a relationship...our partners aren't our parents.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who wants to know me...know in more than just a physical
nature. There must be a mind to go with a heart...and a body. A
working functional mind...an open mind. Someone who will let me know
them and appreciate the fact that I want to. Worthy of each other.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
patience and trust
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i have a habit of looking for hidden agendas when there are none...I
think there are none..lol
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I generally find little fault in people...I don't particularly want
someone looking for mine.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I am extremely responsible for others feelings, more so than
mine...which I'm changing....and I don't trust that anyone else is
responsible for mine...hmmm...trust issues no doubt
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
the more you communicate the better the relationship...as long as
no one is listening impaired.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
mind
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I hope age doesn't matter.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
the continuum is probably more correct than 100% of either...when
is there really 100% of anything regarding human personality traits
and preferences??
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
hetero is my preference
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
to each his own.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex is sex...and love is love....you can have sex with a grapefruit
but it doesn't mean you will ever love grapefruit. No they are very
seperate...very. But the best sex is with someone you love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
dumber than a box of rocks
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
to each their own...been there done that...have done both
ways...can't see the harm either way, it all depends on the partners.
--Regarding Risks
exhilarating....and extremely scary
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
be careful
--A funny relationship story:
none that I can think of
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
they didn't have a clue what a relationship meant
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Thu Nov 20 04:30:46 2003
Anonymous Guest 33 in Tromsoe, =Norway=
M33 in Tromsoe, =Norway=
Name: Runar Clausen
Email: <brewsli-at-spray.no>
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I just told you, I stumbled on it, and it hurt my toe...
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is when to individuals on some level of degree agree
to spending an unknown amount of time together, either as friends,
a platonic relationship, or as lovers/ couple, whitch allso includes
the use of different tecniques that may secure reproduction, at
least if the non-platonic relationship is a healthy one, and the
participants are of the right age and species
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was : I was a puppy on fire, she was just
after my body.
--The best things about relationship are:
Intimacy, sex, partnership, sharing the life
--The worst things about relationship are:
communication, maintaining equal respect, conflict of interests
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who is honest and down to earth, and doesn't play emotional
games, like the classic:"... oh, well, don't care about me, it's not
that big a deal with me...". Good sense of humor, active personality,
in short; my fiancé...
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Stop being so talkative, maby listen more
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I got rid of my bad habits years ago, so in my existing relationship,
I feel I relate fairly well
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Punctuality, cleanlyness and straightforwardness are essential,
other habits don't bother me, as long as they don't conflict with
the ones metioned above
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
stability, the will to work out problems that may occure, the
acceptance of not allways getting your will
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it's allways better to talk about latent problems before they turn
into real ones. One should try to be precise in ones statements,
and allways be aware of what the other is trying to say, and
communicate that one is listening, and whether one understands or
not. That way one avoids putting the other in a defensive position,
and one is more likely to get the message through.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The personality, the hands, the neck, the eyes and the rest of the
face. More or less in that sequence
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age shouldn't matter, experience has no age...
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think it's true.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I strongly believe I'm 100% heterosexual. The mere thought of having
sex involving an other man is a MAJOR turnoff. For those I like it,
go ahead:-)
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
as long as the partners respect each others religious believes,
and maybe even try to learn a bit, it works. I know for a fact.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Before I met my fiancée, I had sex. Now, I make love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
An absolute disaster. This is 16 years ago, and I'm still having
problems looking her in the eyes...
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It is good to have the experience of living together with someone
before you get married. Commitment and values comes from love,
and shouldn't be forced on someone. Besides, your values might
differ from a future spouce's, shouldn't you know if you can live
with it before you commit your self for life? Marriage is for life,
and if you're not 100% sure... forget it.
--Regarding Risks
Tell everything about my darker and weird sides
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Take a test!
--A funny relationship story:
the way I met my fiancé
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How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none-
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Weeell... nothing new, I'm afraid. But I hope you, whoever you
are, can use this information to help other people. And the
astrologi-stuff at the end there... loose it! It makes the whole
survey look somewhat like bullshit(pardon my french)!
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What should be your role in a relationship?
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Sun Nov 2 11:53:43 2003
Anonymous Guest 42 in York, ME =USA=
F42 in York, ME =USA=
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My Astrology: I'm a pisces and I really don't know much about astrology
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is a bond between two poople that goes beyond mere
interaction. The people involved base their interactions on trust
and anticipated predictability.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... definately puppy love.
--The best things about relationship are:
trust...laughter...security...predictability...intimacy
--The worst things about relationship are:
allowing someone to get to know you allows them to understand your
buttons, to know how you're truly vulnerable and to trust them to
take care of that knowledge and not misuse it.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
funny, lighthearted, trustworthy, physical, honest, predictable
yet spontaneous.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I should be more open and less hesitant to communicate my needs
and desires. I should be less cautious and more willing to "shoot
the moon" when the opportunity arises.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I tend to hide in procrastination, putting off dealing with tough
issues and hoping that the other person will see what I need and
I won't need to be selfish and ask for it.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he needs to be more forthcoming and honest and a lot more predictable
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being trustworthy and not taking advantage of the other person's
vulnerability
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I do best with someone who can really listen and help me work through
my feelings. I need someone who will consider my point of view,
process it and give me honest feedback.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the expression of the eyes, the tone in someone's voice and the
touch of their hand
--Regarding Age in Relationship
dating someone your own age allows for automatic things in
common. Unless people have very funky likes, hobbies or tastes in
common, then same age works best.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I am totally hetero - what others are/do/prefer does not matter to
me at all (unless we're talking my partner!)
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
hetero
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it doesn't really matter. similar views on life in general matter
more than specific religious leanings. better to both be middle
of the road, very religious or not religious than the specifics
within those ranges.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
When I love someone I want to be intimate. Sex is a critical part
of sharing that intimacy, along with emotional/personal intimacy.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
yuck - way too much pressure and too soon.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I feel that living together is a good thing, unless children are
involved. It that case relationships need to be more cautious
in general.
--Regarding Risks
David
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
get tested. wait until you really trust someone and go from
there...fewer is always better
--A funny relationship story:
bunny ears - 'nough said
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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Anonymous Guest 30 in Dayton, Nevada =United States=
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My Astrology: I am a Gemini sun, Virgo moon, Gemini rising. The best people I
have gotten along with are Leos and Aquarians. Libras and Scorpios
are difficult. They are too serious and want too much control.
Astrology matters a lot to me in relationships - it helps me figure
why I have a difficult time with someone or why I can't stay away
from them.
I'm a: Gemini Sun; with Virgo Moon; and Gemini rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A mutual agreement to share one's life or part of one's personal
self, where this "gift" is shared and reciprocated.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... fall in love and was married within
three months.
--The best things about relationship are:
Mental stimulation, humor, physical intimacy, love.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Differences in viewpoints or religion and philosophy, money, lack
of intimacy.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A person who is my help-meet, who can meet the needs I need met,
but support me to make my own decisions. Someone who can see when
to step in and when to let me stumble, someone who can love me for
who and am and not try to change the way I feel about life.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be less critical, less self-righteous. Learn to have more patience
with ignorance.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have the tendency to want to have the final say about everything,
and I want my way when I feel it counts. Once my mind is made up,
it is difficult to change it.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I can't stand someone who won't pull their own weight, or someone
that expects me to shoulder all of the responsibility in the
relationship. Also can't stand someone who is sloppy or won't pick
up after themselves, or someone who is argumentative.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Sharing chores, sharing financial responsibility, letting the other
person know what I'm doing and what's going on, making decisions
together, stepping up to the plate when I need extra help.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I do a lot of talking and so does my husband, but we both don't
budge when it comes to our own opinions about a hot topic, such as
politics or religion. He is a Leo, and I am a Gemini, so I think
that might have something to do with it.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Intelligence. If he can't hold an intelligent, open-minded
conversation, then he's not worth my time. Some of the best sex my
husband and I have had has been after a heated debate. Looks are
negligible. It's usually someone's wit that gets my attention.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
As long as the energies between two people are matched, age shouldn't
matter (and as long as the ages are legal).
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think that there is a continuum for heteros to homos. Sexuality is
a result of one's environment and life experiences. I don't believe
that people are born gay, but that a combination of life experiences,
environment, social acceptance, and perhaps even hormones cause
one to lean more towards being queer or gay.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Totally hetersexual, but I have a few family members that are gay.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Relationships work better when two people share similar religious
backgrounds, but they don't have to agree on every single aspect
of it. My husband is Catholic and I am Protestant, but we both
share the same basic religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex are separate. Lovemaking isn't just sex, but a
manifestation of love and sex combined. When I don't feel like
having sex, I still love my husband. Sometimes we just have sex,
and other times we make love - making love is a much deeper emotional
experience.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It hurt. My ex-husband was gigantic and I was particularly small.
It was a total let-down, and I thought, "This is what everyone
raves about?"
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
You should be married before living together because living with
someone prior to marriage is just "testing" the waters, and there
is no real commitment there. It leads to break-up cycles, and when
real marriage comes along, it feels just as easy to call it quits
than to stick it out when the going gets tough.
--Regarding Risks
Letting someone know what truly goes on in my head - as opposed to
what I let other people see of me. I have very few people that I
call "friend," but MANY people that call me "friend." They simply
don't know the real me.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Know who it is that you are sleeping with, have a relationship
built on trust before you get involved.
--A funny relationship story:
My husband's humor when it comes to sex - he is always funny and
joking during foreplay, and I like playful and fun sex.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
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I liked having to "soul-search", because self-reflection is not
usually something I am interested in doing...but a good exercise
every once in a while.
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Anonymous Guest 20 in Pretoria, n/a =South Africa=
F20 in Pretoria, n/a =South Africa=
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--Relationship Is:
It's a two way thing.Where two people learn to share,give and receive
whpleheartedly.Sometimes their varying levels of commitmmennt
but ultimately for people to stay together they need to commit
themselves either sexually,emotionally,spiritually...or whatever
way in whicjh they connect.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...intense fiery fling.It started
with both parties having overwhelming feelings for one
another.I especially knew I was complete when this guy
was in my life.I gave up so much -my time,my values and
neglected some frindships to maintain the affair.
--The best things about relationship are:
Getting to know your partner.The first kiss and wondering if you
have a future together.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Emotional/verbal abuse.Infidelity and breaking up
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
Talking to my partner
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends
Not spending ample time together as a couple.
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Recommended Reading-- Titles:
"Light Her Fire", Light His Fire", Mars and Venus series
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
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--Relationship Is:
It is a bonding between two or more people. Sharing (at least some)
common goals. We call it "love", but love has many interpretations
to fit different situation. There is the love of a house, car,
a pet, a son or daughter, parents, and the most powerful, love of
a single person, you mate. It is very confusing to most of us.
--That first relationship was
She was the first girl to whom I could say "I love you". After 5
years of dating and not dating. I asked her to marry me.
--The best things about relationship are:
putting my arms around my "signiicant other", quiet times just
sharing our thoughts, having fun going places and doing things.
--The worst things about relationship are:
understanding the needs of the other person so that each can
fulfill the others desires. there are so many differences between
the thinking and feeling mechanisms of men and women....we usually
don't understand the other.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Books & Films
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
no real communication
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... a solid friendship intensified
a hundredfold.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
attention
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn how not to anticipate disaster
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
voice and body language
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
rape and molestation
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I believe in the sanctity of marriage but I would compromise my
belief in order to be with my one true love.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling
self-help books (Games People Play, etc)
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
Growing up in dysfunctional family life skews your view of reality.
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Wed Jun 11 05:14:16 2003
Anonymous Guest 25 in Vellore, Tamil Nadu =india=
M25 in Vellore, Tamil Nadu =india=
Name: Ajay
Email: <find_ajay-at-rediff.com>
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I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life
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Thu May 29 21:30:44 2003
Anonymous Guest 23 in Columbia, SC =USA=
F23 in Columbia, SC =USA=
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My Astrology: Astrology doesn't really matter to me
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Relationships are when there is a strong connection between
people. It can either be between your family, friends, or a
lover. You care very much about the other persons well being. You
enjoy there company and want to be around them. They make you feel
good about yourself and you make them feel good about themselves. You
give them advise and they give you advise. Your there for them when
they need you as they are for you. Relationships are with people
you can trust and depend on. No matter what happens you know they
will be there for you and you for them.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
the laughter. The excitement of learning about that other person. The
enjoyment of participating in activities you both like.
--The worst things about relationship are:
the insecurities, jealousy, and interests you do not share together.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone successful and likes to do things outdoors. Some one who
makes me laugh and is attractive. Someone who doesn't smoke or
likes to drink a lot.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
have more self confidence and be more motivated to do things to
better myself. I could not be so afraid of change.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
how intimidated I am of other people and what they think of me
gets in the way of allowing my true personallity come out. I have
to have control in my environment so I don't risk the chance of
embaressing myself.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I don't want my partner to smoke of drink too much or be
abusive. They have to make me feel good about myself and I want to
be proud of them.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being responsible for your main priorities in life and being able
to keep promises you make.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I don't like to argue. I usually keep quite, give my opinion,
or just leave.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Looks
--Regarding Age in Relationship
within 2 to 5 years.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
reliable. I think some people are totally heterosexual and some are
totally homosexual. There are some out there who are confused. So I
can agree with this continuum, but I wouldn't use it when determining
what people are.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am totally heterosexual.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Religion has no place in determining who it is we may find ourselves
with in a relationship.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and Sex are different.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
The guy got me drunk and I was curious. I was 14. I wish I had
waited and known better.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I think Co-habitation is okay, considering that I have lived with
two partners before. I wouldn't recommend it unless you know you are
with the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. It
is very hard breaking up with someone you live with and having to
split things up and move all your stuff out.
--Regarding Risks
opening up and explaining how I feel.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
get tested and have protected sex. Before you have sex with that
person ask them if they are safe and be protected anyways.
--A funny relationship story:
just laughing about a funny comment or laughing at something
someone did.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Books & Films
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Wed May 7 12:47:30 2003
Anonymous Guest 21 in LaPorte, IN =USA=
F21 in LaPorte, IN =USA=
Name: Crystal
Email: <zephyrbearangel-at-yahoo.com>
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i love being alive.... quote Jewel "I'd rather see the world from
another angle, we are everyday angel's be careful with me cause i'd
like to stay that way" and "Do you hate her...cause she's pieces
of you?"
My Astrology: I am an Aries and my girlfriend/fiance is a Scorpio...we shouldn't
work...but we do :)
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a good relationship will bring you happiness, love, and
contentment. It is never perfect but never falsifies what it is
to you. You can trust that it will be what it is, no more, and no
less. A bad relationship will require you to lie to yourself about
the bad parts. You will find yourself searching hard for anything
good involved and you will hold onto that memory as though it
were a lifeline. In a good relationship, you are able to be you,
and the other person can do the same, there is nothing "expected"
everything is appreciated
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love that was quickly turned
into a bundle of lies because I was 14 and found out the
supposedly young, handsome, 16 year old was actually 20.
--The best things about relationship are:
the greatest thing in the entire world is waking up each morning
and seeing the person you love sleeping contently beside you in
bed. Seeing how beatiful they are at that vulnerable moment is what
makes it true love.
--The worst things about relationship are:
the most difficult part to any of my relationships was moving in
with the person. I learned quickly it's not all it's cracked up to
be. suddenly you have to respect everything they're used to doing
in their home and they have to do the same for you. it's not "my"
space...it becomes "our" space. that is very hard to comprehend
at first
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
for myself, this lover must be intelligent and have life
experience. they must be able to hold a conversation and please
me intellectually. one of the most important factors for me in a
relationship is how they react to my family. my mom, dad, grandma,
brother, and sister can be very hard on people the first, second,
and times beyond that when they meet. they enjoy testing a person to
see who they are. well, even the dogs form their opinions. i guess
for me, to see that this person can withstand all that pressure,
it shows me how much they care about me.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not be so analytical. i have to analyze everything all the
time. fortunately, my current partner is helping me get beyond that.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i am very controlling. that's a bad habit. i want to be the one
making the decisions. but that isn't always possible. that is a
hard thing for me to grasp
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
if a partner has a few bad habits but is willing to work on them,
i don't mind. when a person doesn't care enough to even attempt to
put some of those habits aside, i can't say i could stick around
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
i am a homemaker....i think that says it all.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
people need to learn that when they're at that point where they know
something is going to come out of their mouth and they're going to
regret it, they need to shut up, turn around, walk away, and cool
off until they can discuss things like a human being speaking to
another equal human being.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes, and voice
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i am 16 years younger than partner...enough said
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
For people who can't handle homosexuality, don't look at it and it
won't bother you. I mean, if you don't like a tv channel do you keep
it on and bitch about it?? no. you turn the channel so you aren't
watching it anymore. thats what i think people need to do. if you
don't like it, leave, no one is forcing you to be a part of anyone
elses sex life.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am a lesbian. I am a woman in love with another woman. and i love
my life and every piece of it.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
people can believe what they want without forcing it on someone else,
that has never been a problem with me
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are different. you can have love without sex and sex without
love, fortunately in my current relationship they are both at the
same wonderful level
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
in the words of Angelina Jolie from the movie Gia "I could have
done that with a german shephard." and no I am not into beastiality
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
well, considering i'm a lesbian and can't legally marry, do i really
have an opinion on this? i think it's fine as long as the couple is
happy. you definatly learn alot about a person by living with them
that's for sure, and for those who can marry... try it out...see
if you can survive
--Regarding Risks
I moved from New Jersey to the middle of nowhere in Indiana. That's
not so scary. The scary part is that I had only met my partner three
months prior to that. And that was online. We had only spent 3 days
together 2 months prior to my moving, and 3 days together 1 last time
one month prior to my moving. But, 6 months later, we're still here.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
have a talk before you go and drown yourself in sorrow because you
did something stupid. ask. if someone gets offended by the need
for discussion, trust me, it can't be a good answer to your question.
--A funny relationship story:
My partner and I got into a huge fight because of another person
living in the home. everyone in the house was drunk except myself,
which didn't help. Well, she told me if I was going to be acting
the way I was I could just go home. (not thinking i would drive 13
hours back) and so I grabbed my keys and headed for the door. With
her screaming for me to stop, and her cousin trying to block my
path, I shoulder slammed her cousin into a wall after asking her
repeatedly to move and got to my car. I got in and slammed the door
and started the car. Upon thought, I rememberd my cat was inside,
whom I had brought with me on the move. I proceeded to try to get
out of the car to get him and bring him too and was stuck. My car
apparantly was missing a screw on the plastic part of the door and
when I slammed it I got it stuck. Needless to say, I began laughing
incessently because I wanted to leave to prove to her i could,
but i couldn't without my cat, and i couldn't get out of the car
to get the cat. we still laugh today about that night
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
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it was useful...thank you....i have a better idea of how i feel
about some issues
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
how about why people care so much about what other people do in their
own bedroom? if you don't believe in it fine... jews don't believe
jesus is the son of god, so are you going to illegalize them from
being religious because a large amount of people disagree about it?
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Anonymous Guest 21 in LaPorte, IN =USA=
F21 in LaPorte, IN =USA=
Name: Crystal
Email: <zephyrbearangel-at-yahoo.com>
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i love being alive.... quote Jewel "I'd rather see the world from
another angle, we are everyday angel's be careful with me cause i'd
like to stay that way" and "Do you hate her...cause she's pieces
of you?"
My Astrology: I am an Aries and my girlfriend/fiance is a Scorpio...we shouldn't
work...but we do :)
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a good relationship will bring you happiness, love, and
contentment. It is never perfect but never falsifies what it is
to you. You can trust that it will be what it is, no more, and no
less. A bad relationship will require you to lie to yourself about
the bad parts. You will find yourself searching hard for anything
good involved and you will hold onto that memory as though it
were a lifeline. In a good relationship, you are able to be you,
and the other person can do the same, there is nothing "expected"
everything is appreciated
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love that was quickly turned
into a bundle of lies because I was 14 and found out the
supposedly young, handsome, 16 year old was actually 20.
--The best things about relationship are:
the greatest thing in the entire world is waking up each morning
and seeing the person you love sleeping contently beside you in
bed. Seeing how beatiful they are at that vulnerable moment is what
makes it true love.
--The worst things about relationship are:
the most difficult part to any of my relationships was moving in
with the person. I learned quickly it's not all it's cracked up to
be. suddenly you have to respect everything they're used to doing
in their home and they have to do the same for you. it's not "my"
space...it becomes "our" space. that is very hard to comprehend
at first
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
for myself, this lover must be intelligent and have life
experience. they must be able to hold a conversation and please
me intellectually. one of the most important factors for me in a
relationship is how they react to my family. my mom, dad, grandma,
brother, and sister can be very hard on people the first, second,
and times beyond that when they meet. they enjoy testing a person to
see who they are. well, even the dogs form their opinions. i guess
for me, to see that this person can withstand all that pressure,
it shows me how much they care about me.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not be so analytical. i have to analyze everything all the
time. fortunately, my current partner is helping me get beyond that.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i am very controlling. that's a bad habit. i want to be the one
making the decisions. but that isn't always possible. that is a
hard thing for me to grasp
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
if a partner has a few bad habits but is willing to work on them,
i don't mind. when a person doesn't care enough to even attempt to
put some of those habits aside, i can't say i could stick around
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
i am a homemaker....i think that says it all.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
people need to learn that when they're at that point where they know
something is going to come out of their mouth and they're going to
regret it, they need to shut up, turn around, walk away, and cool
off until they can discuss things like a human being speaking to
another equal human being.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes, and voice
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i am 16 years younger than partner...enough said
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
For people who can't handle homosexuality, don't look at it and it
won't bother you. I mean, if you don't like a tv channel do you keep
it on and bitch about it?? no. you turn the channel so you aren't
watching it anymore. thats what i think people need to do. if you
don't like it, leave, no one is forcing you to be a part of anyone
elses sex life.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am a lesbian. I am a woman in love with another woman. and i love
my life and every piece of it.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
people can believe what they want without forcing it on someone else,
that has never been a problem with me
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are different. you can have love without sex and sex without
love, fortunately in my current relationship they are both at the
same wonderful level
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
in the words of Angelina Jolie from the movie Gia "I could have
done that with a german shephard." and no I am not into beastiality
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
well, considering i'm a lesbian and can't legally marry, do i really
have an opinion on this? i think it's fine as long as the couple is
happy. you definatly learn alot about a person by living with them
that's for sure, and for those who can marry... try it out...see
if you can survive
--Regarding Risks
I moved from New Jersey to the middle of nowhere in Indiana. That's
not so scary. The scary part is that I had only met my partner three
months prior to that. And that was online. We had only spent 3 days
together 2 months prior to my moving, and 3 days together 1 last time
one month prior to my moving. But, 6 months later, we're still here.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
have a talk before you go and drown yourself in sorrow because you
did something stupid. ask. if someone gets offended by the need
for discussion, trust me, it can't be a good answer to your question.
--A funny relationship story:
My partner and I got into a huge fight because of another person
living in the home. everyone in the house was drunk except myself,
which didn't help. Well, she told me if I was going to be acting
the way I was I could just go home. (not thinking i would drive 13
hours back) and so I grabbed my keys and headed for the door. With
her screaming for me to stop, and her cousin trying to block my
path, I shoulder slammed her cousin into a wall after asking her
repeatedly to move and got to my car. I got in and slammed the door
and started the car. Upon thought, I rememberd my cat was inside,
whom I had brought with me on the move. I proceeded to try to get
out of the car to get him and bring him too and was stuck. My car
apparantly was missing a screw on the plastic part of the door and
when I slammed it I got it stuck. Needless to say, I began laughing
incessently because I wanted to leave to prove to her i could,
but i couldn't without my cat, and i couldn't get out of the car
to get the cat. we still laugh today about that night
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
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it was useful...thank you....i have a better idea of how i feel
about some issues
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how about why people care so much about what other people do in their
own bedroom? if you don't believe in it fine... jews don't believe
jesus is the son of god, so are you going to illegalize them from
being religious because a large amount of people disagree about it?
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My Astrology: of intrest does not matter
I'm a: Cancer Sun; with Leo Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a deep friendship that encompases all aspects of live leading to deep
abiding love and concern for the welfare of mate over own welfare
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...deeping friendship developing to
love-seperated by 15 years now happily married to same
fellow for 22 years
--The best things about relationship are:
time with my mate with nothing planned except time with each other
to enjoy
--The worst things about relationship are:
when he is cross and yells
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
strong but not dominating
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
decreased agitation when things are not as I envisioned/ planned
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
need to change eating habits to stay well
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
excepting for spitting on the ground when we are outside hi does
ok now
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
dishes
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
we must stop LISTEN to each other
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
how I am treated
--Regarding Age in Relationship
doesn't matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Each person is special- attraction to either gender or both does
not matter
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
open
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
RESPECT for beliefs of others tolerance for their practices
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love is how you feel about the other poerson everyday---sex is a
physical relationship that doesn't have to be expericenced but nice
when it does happen
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
immature
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
what ever works
--Regarding Risks
having people over to my not quiet spick and span house
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
use protection all the time unless you are in a totally commited
monagous relationship and want to have a pregency develope
--A funny relationship story:
when mate and I play jokes on each other
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Books & Films
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
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tought of.
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Anonymous Guest 32 in Kissimmee, FL =USA=
F32 in Kissimmee, FL =USA=
Name: Gricela
Email: <Jilseponie2002-at-yahoo.com>
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Prof/Studies: bookeeping
My Astrology: I think that if you believe in it then it matters. I personally
do, to some extent and therefore I do ask a person's sign. But I
wouldn't base my entire relationship on it.
I'm a: Scorpio Sun; with Libra Moon; and Capricorn rising.
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--Relationship Is:
That is not an easy thing to explain... A relationship is the
"connection" two people have with each other. A sense of "kismet".
A relationship is not always good, or bad. It is a part of life.
You have a relationship with everyone who surrounds you on a daily
basis, be it your co-worker your siblings, your childeren or your
partner. It's a mutual feeling of love - even when there's anger.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love.
--The best things about relationship are:
Companionship, warmth, the ability to be myself with another person.
--The worst things about relationship are:
relating to the other person, (it's not a bad thing, it's just
difficult) Trying to not be selfish about the other person's time,
and it's not easy to let someone into your heart, and open up freely.
Also, seeing that person hurting and not being able to do anything
about it.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who lets me be me, without judgement or conviction. Someone
who is hard working and responsible but hasn't forgotton how to play.
And let's be honest, I want someone who pays attention to me.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
no, I'm not perfect but I can't change who I am and I don't
want anyone who doesn't accept me with all my imperfections.
Including the REALLY bad ones.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
It should have no bearing in my relationship. -- none of the majors
apply, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs and I don't drink excessively.
Any other habbits are minor.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
ditto. I don't want to change for anyone I don't expect anyone
to change for me... "It should have no bearing." (except for the
somking, drugs, or drinking part)
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Consideration. Responsibility certainly means prepareing for the
future but it also means thinking about the other person's needs.
Will I be home late from work, Are we going to a party tonight and
does he/she know about it. Or basically how would the other person
feel about whatever decisions you make.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Don't put the blame on anyone - in other words try not to use the
word "you" a lot. Take deep breaths - think about it and talk
like an adult. If this form of consideration is one-sided then
take some time away, go for a brisk walk alone and let him/her get
over it as well, but never forget that you love each other.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I used to think it was looks. But looks fade and there's something
else I've learned, is that a persons personality as you get to
know them can change the way you physically look at someone. Now -
I perfer someone I can talk to, someone who has a brain, and some
passion about life to go with it.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
as long as both people are over, hmmm say 28 or so, I don't
think that the age difference would make much of a difference.
Both parties have now gone into adult hood and therefore have a
good idea of what they want in life.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I really don't know... maybe everyone has some homosexual tendencies,
maybe it's just one big perversion. Personally, I think to each
is own, and everyone has the right to their own sexuality.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I love men, there's no question about it. But that is not to say
that that is wrong or right.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
It certainly helps if both are of the same religion, or at least
with the same or similar beliefs. Religion is a topic that is not
seen very lightly by those who are truely religious and therefore a
difference of opinion can make room for argument. Also, when both
go (or not go) to church or gathering together, it's one more thing
they have in common.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
You can have sex without love - but why? It doesn't necessarily
go hand in hand but it is so much better when it does, both the
sex and the love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I think that for women, it is not unusual for the first time to be
dissapointing. You set expectation that are impossible to reach
and in you own lack of experience you don't know much your self.
The good news is - it get much better as you grow older.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
This is another question that I would have to respond "to each is
own" I've lived with someone, lived with someone else and been
married. Now, I would rather be married than live with someone.
He can have his home and I'll have mine - but that is just how I
see it for myself. Everyone is different.
--Regarding Risks
Letting my partner know that he can hurt me. That I'm not as strong
as I'd like to be, and that sometimes I need to be vulnerable.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Better safe than sorry. Yes, it is uncomfortable to talk about
your partner's sexual past, especially if you are a jelous person
but think of the consequenses. I say ALWAYS use protection, unless
you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is no risk.
--A funny relationship story:
I ran us out of gas on the highway. I was mortified at the time but
he made such light of the situation that it was downright comical
- right down to the slow speech of the officers that stoped to
see if we were okay. We laugh a lot, although that is the first
specific thing I can think of we constantly laugh together - be
it at a movie or people watching or even poking fun at each other.
It's just a part of a relationship.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Stories
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I always enjoy giving my opinion and putting it down into words.
I truely enjoyed this questionaire.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
I beleive that you can learn a lot about a person by their
relationship with their parent... mother in particular. Maybe a
question regarding that.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship should first consist of friendship. You and your
partner should always be able to communicate about anything. You
should love one another and put us other first and foremost before
anything else. You will usually have disagreements about certain
issues and that it ok, but you should be able to discuss them and
not argue and fight about them. Never take your relationship and
the time you have with your partner for granted, because you never
know how much time you will have to spend with them. Always try
to compliment each other and see the good in each other and bring
the best out of each other.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...what i consider to be young love.
We were best friends all of our lives and as we grew up we
started to like each other. We knew everything about each
other, had the same interest, and loved each others company.
--The best things about relationship are:
walks in the park, looking at the stars, cooking together, playing
silly games, dancing to our songs, just sitting together not having
to say a word and know that we are both happier then we have ever
been before
--The worst things about relationship are:
trying to decide where to eat, not seeing eye to eye and how to
discuss things without hurting each others feelings, spending time
alone and one or both of you not getting jealous or possissive
about it.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A loving, kind, considerate person that will love me and respect
me. A person that is stable and lives a simple life, that makes
goals and achives them, weather they are big or small. I want a
relationship with someone with religious views and lives by them
on a daily basis.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Make more time in my schedule and let someone feel important to me.
I could express my feelings and try not to be so independent all
the time.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I just got out of a 7 year relatinship that wasn't good at all.
I got use to being treated bad, and I realize that the relationship
had become a habit that I had to break. The down side to that
is that I now feel like every relationship that I will get into
in the future will end up like the one that I just got out of.
I am going to have to lighten up on that fear and know that not
all men are going to treat me like my x did.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I will have to find someone who is willing to go very slow. I am
so scared of getting hurt. Therefore in the next relationship that
I pursue it will have to go very slow. The person will have to be
very compasionate and sensitive, and gentle.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance
i learned a lot from my mother and the patience and love that she
had for my dad
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
my mom always tried to protect me therefore she didn't dicuss things
with me about guys and relationships
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Sat Mar 22 18:11:52 2003
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My Astrology: its interesting but its stupid to prejudge people based on
astrology...u might just discount someone who seems incompatible
with u but who culd potentially be ur soulmate
I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
messy
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... intense
--The best things about relationship are:
sex
--The worst things about relationship are:
emotions
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
trust
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more open
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i am too guarded
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
that i have impossible standards
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
children and not hurting them or being hurt
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
everybody talks and nobody listens
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
intellectual compatibility
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age is irrelevent
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
does it matter .... sex and love are not the same thing
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
straight
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
religion can be a stumbling block
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex are totally different aspects of a relationship
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
its up to the individual but not for me ... marriage first
... everything else later
--Regarding Risks
disastrous
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
abstinence
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
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not helpful at all. seems a waste of time
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why do u put people thru this stuff? why did i go thru this??
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Thu Mar 20 21:37:15 2003
Anonymous Guest 15 in Tucson, AZ =USA=
F15 in Tucson, AZ =USA=
Name: Christine
Email: <TiltedHalo2805-at-hotmail.com>
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Prof/Studies: Student
My Astrology: i know that a lot of people don't really "fit" into how theyre
supposed to be like in their astrological signs, so any relationship
can work, or not work depending on the people, and not only the
signs.
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--Relationship Is:
Something special shared by two people that have a strong bond,
emotionally or physically.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... kind of like puppy love. We talked
every night, but the conversations were pretty dull,
especially since im very shy. We didnt wee each other much,
but i really liked him. (or i thought i did)
--The best things about relationship are:
The feeling of being appreciated, having someone there for you
if you need them, being there for the other person, being happy,
and sexual acts are great too.
--The worst things about relationship are:
not being able to flirt with other people, getting in arguments.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who isnt afraid to be themselves, someone funny, romantic,
that respects me, and loves to be around me. Someone that can
console me or help me when im sad or need help. Someone that isnt
afraid to show the world how he feels, and someone that includes
me in his thoughts. And, someone that is attracted physically to me.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more open about my feelings, give my opinions more, make more
decisions, not feel so insecure or jealous, and focus more on when
my partner wants.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to open up more an be more open to change my habits for
my partner.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I'd probably do or change anything reasonable to make my partner
happy.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I dont really bring up anything that could cause conflict. I need
to communicate more, because i'm too passive
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
confidence, darkness of skin (i tend to like darker-skinned people,
although im not prejudiced and i don't have to be with someone with
dark skin), voice
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age completely doesn't matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't think that anyone is really gay or straight. i think everyone
has varying feelings on sexuality, wether they admit it or not.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
On the continuum, im probably a 2-4, and i accept all people,
no matter what sexuality
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I think Religion shows that a person is weak, but whatever they
believe, i am willing to respect that. Religion doesn't have anything
to do with who i have relationships with, and it doesn't much to
me if they believe in the same thing as me, as long as they respect
my faith (or lack of) like i respect theirs.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
When you love someone, sex is great with them, but if you only are
in a relationship with sex, it doesn't mean that you necessarily
love the person. Sex can make a relationship better, but it doesn't
have to be amazing for things to work out.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was very memorable. i wasnt in love with the person, but it
still meant a lot to me. I then realized that there can be a lot
about sexual encounters that can be great experiences.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
You should live with someone before marriage so you can see the other
person's weird habits or you can see how it is seeing someone every
day in the same house. you can also see how you react to someone
living with you every day, and if you can handle it.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
i practice safe sex when i can. i know the risks, and try to stay
safe, but if i dont, i hope that the reason why i wasn't was beause
whatever i was doing meant a lot to me, and maybe it will have
beenm worth it.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Stories
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Anonymous Guest 32 in england, u.k =u.k=
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My Astrology: it's interesting but it doesn't matter,
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--Relationship Is:
a deep feeling to put another persons fellings and happiness befor
yourself
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... fell in love and lived together
for 2yrs
--The best things about relationship are:
a kiss and being held
--The worst things about relationship are:
conflict
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
warmth affection understanding compashion the ability to laugh at
ones self to be able to admit you are wrong
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be able to show more emotion not be so stuborn
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being restricted and controlled
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
people are to stuborn, they don't look objectivly at the other side
of an issue
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes and smile
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age does matter 2 or 5 years is about right
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
you are what you are. if you are drawn to the opposite sex or the
same sex then live to be happy as long as you aren't hurting anyone
along the way
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i'm straight
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
you do not have to be the same, it's good to have different views
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are totaly different
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was fumbled and it hurt
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
it's up to you, whatever you and your partner feel comfy
with. personaly got married without living with him first, got
divorced and now i would live with someone before remarrying
--Regarding Risks
i don't do it often enough, i hold back
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
protect yourself and protect others get a check up
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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Wed Mar 5 00:52:49 2003
Anonymous Guest 26 in Edmonton, Alberta =Canada=
F26 in Edmonton, Alberta =Canada=
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Prof/Studies: Administration
My Astrology: Ive found that Sagitarius and Capricorn are a little too
honest...brutally honest for my sensitive Aquarian heart. But I
would never not date someone just because he was a Sag or Cap.
I would have to get to know them to make any judgements on whether
or not we were compatible and probably wouldn't give much thought
to the Zodiac.
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All the Venus and Mars books. They are sooooo good!
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
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--Relationship Is:
When two people (ideally) love and care about each other and make
a commitment to be in each others lives. They support each other
and help each other, have fun together, laugh and cry together.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... intense, stupid, found myself married
and divorced by the age of 22.
--The best things about relationship are:
Affection- physical and emotional. Being in love, feeling like
you're floating when your "other" walks into the room. Knowing that
you are not alone. Having someone that knows you inside and out and
not having to explain every little thing that you do. Doing sweet
things to show your "other" how much you love them.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Two very different people trying to compromise. Or someone's refusal
to compromise. Arguements where you say things to hurt the other
and end up leaving scars on the relationship. Having enough room
to grow as an individual.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Sense of humor. Masculinity. Honest, trustworthy,
sincere. Playful. Strong. Must have good sensabilities and common
sense. Understanding. Kind and empathetic nature. Positive
attitude. Laid back personality. Knows how to be romantic and
chivalrous when the situation calls for it. Is my best friend.
Is that too many???
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Resist the urge to spend every waking moment together. Throw out
the fear. Lay it all out on the table. Trust the other with my
feelings. Don't take any shit.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have a habit of clamming up instead of opening up. That doesn't
help at all. Is that a habit? Other than that I don't think I
have to many annoying habits. Who am I to say really? Someone else
would have to answer this.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My ex had a habit of tuning me out when I was talking and then
interrupting me. I don't think he even knew he did it. But it
was a major problem for me. He also had a habit of telling me a
better way to do EVERYTHING. He was also very anal. God help me,
he's my best friend and I love him to death, but these three things
were eventually impossible for me to overlook.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Lets say the couple is living together...
Responsabilities would
include household chores and making money. But when I think of
responsabilities in a relationship I think of the responsibility
to call when you are late so the other doesn't worry. To treat
to other with respect. To keep promises you make.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
It's tough! Everyone is different and it is something that has to
be worked on if the relationship is going to be successful.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Build, confidence, nice facial features and how easy it is to talk
to him
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Once a person is an adult, age doesn't matter. Take love where
you find it.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
It makes sense to me. I consider myself a heterosexual woman.
I love men and would only want to be in a relationship with men,
but am sometimes turned on by women. This doesn't bother me a bit
and I know that a lot of women feel the same way. Men however... I
think that if they weren't so blinded by homophobia they may be
in the same boat, but as it is now they would never admit it.
We will probably never know.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
My preference is definitely men. However I have kissed and touched
women. I am mildly curious. Probably not curious enough to go
all the way with a woman. At least not when I'm sober...
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If the couple can make it work then go for it. If it causes too
many problems in the relationship then a decision has to be made.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex can definitely be two separate things but are better
when accompanied by each other.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Surprised at how much I enjoyed it after the initial pain went away.
Then frustrated because my partner came right after I started
to enjoy it. Hmmm...that describes 75% of my sexual encounters,
not just the first one...
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I am on the fence. I am for living with someone before marriage
but I definitely thing not living with someone works too. To each
his/her own.
--Regarding Risks
I risked telling my ex things I hadn't told anyone before.
It was soooo scarey, but he was wonderful. As a result of this I
dealt with issues I had been struggling with for a very long time.
I don't regret it at all. It depends though on the person you are
opening up to. Make sure that they deserve your trust.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Use protection for the first six months. Then get tested. If both
are clean then just worry about birth control. No need to get into
details of past sexual partners as this can cause big problems in
the relationship. This whole scenario is assuming the two people
are monogamous of course.
--A funny relationship story:
So much humor comes into a relationship when you get really
comfortable with the other person. Farting can be a huge source
of humor in a relationship. Pushing your girlfriends head under
the covers, etc, etc, etc.
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How'd I do? How well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
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Anonymous Guest 21 in COlumbus, OH =USA=
F21 in COlumbus, OH =USA=
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--Relationship Is:
a connection between two or more people for some specific
purpose....love, work,friendship
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was comfortable.
--The best things about relationship are:
You learn more about yourself and what matters most to you. I enjoy
the new adventures and unforgettable moments of relationships
the most.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Dealing with jealousy issues and communication problems
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who is ambitious, funny, supportive, goal oriented, cute,
reliable.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not try to make decisions for others and learn to communicate
more often
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
that i enjoy haivng a feeling a comfort and often times i am
reluctant to move on even when i know that the person i am with
doesnt totally satisfy me.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
They need to be able to take care of themselves and not expect me
to do cleaning, cooking, etc. by myseelf. I hate when partners
carry grudges and consistently use them in a disagreement
--Regarding Risks
Allowing myself to depend a partner is the riskest for me
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Anonymous Guest 34 in cedar rapids, iowa =usa=
F34 in cedar rapids, iowa =usa=
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My Astrology: I am a Capricorn/Sagittarius/Libra, I find that I mesh well with
Piscean men, and Taurus men...........scorpio too, but always
with issues....
I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with Sagittarius Moon; and Libra rising.
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--Relationship Is:
sometimes whistful, sometimes content, sometimes plain misserable,,,
it is a force to be recond with, somthing which is within our
control, and without our wherewithal.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love,, not knowing
--The best things about relationship are:
comradre, copanionship, respect, and a feeling of knowing that
other person
--The worst things about relationship are:
feeling let down by the other. never the open love for one another
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
intelligent respect, and unconditional love
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
being vulnerable, and complimentary to the outstanding person that
I chose
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
obsession over that particular person, drinking and an infalible
belief that I will find my soul mate
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I need someone strong of spirit, intelligent, ingenuitive, and loving
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
honesty, trust, respect,
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I am a person to be reckoned with, unless that person reckons me,,
then I am a puddle
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
a mind, a soul, a person
--Regarding Age in Relationship
people should be from the same mental generation not
physical,however,, I do not date men 4 yrs younger or 6 yrs older
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
a 3, you are more likely or less likely
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I have been with a woman, and appreciated and adored the experience,
however, even though I fantasize about women ocassionally, my men
are my men, and what I revere
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
whom ever is my soul mate, is my soul mate,,, it is nice to have
the same religious background, but definately not necessay
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love is love..............it does not transcend the physical,,,
however, their are sexual experiences that can make a love experience
more gratifying
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
simple, "stupidity" wrong time, wrong person, wrong
everything..... I wish it would have been more meaningful.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
simple,,, shoes........must be on and comfortable.
--Regarding Risks
right now,,, telling lance that I enjoyed being vulnerable to him
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I only sleep with people I trust, and if I don't trust them,
I don't sleep with them.
--A funny relationship story:
just being able to make the other person laugh
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other Role Model
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it was useful for me to look at myself, by being honest, with
an elusive questioneer, and knowing that no one knows who I
am..........thank you
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
1. What was your parents relationship?
2. Do you buy into the
fact "you will turn out like your parents"
3. Do you feel as if
you have a guardian angle?
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Sun Jan 26 10:44:40 2003
Anonymous Guest 37 in decatur, ind =usa=
F37 in decatur, ind =usa=
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My Astrology: I have found this to be true. 2 Aries have a hard time in a
relationship because both are bull headed. But I dont base the
relationship on it.
I'm a: Aries Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is a commintment between 2 people who have
love,communication, friendship,and same desires in life
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... teenage rebellion. My Mother
didn't approve
--The best things about relationship are:
having someone to come home to and share my day with
--The worst things about relationship are:
learning to compromize
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
what doesn't exist. The perfect man.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not have such high expectations
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have a hard time saying its over and done. I don't like to give up
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I will not accept someone who does drugs and will not work
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
taking care of all needs of the other person from sexual to listen
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
you can be anger at the person and disagree but you have to agree
to disagree as know its ok
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
if they brag on themself
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age isnt important but if you share the same interest and goals
in life
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
each person has the right to decide who they want to love
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I prefer hetro.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it depends on how important it is to the people involved
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are different. I make love to someone I'm in love with,
I have sex for my own needs
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I only did it to find out what everyone was talking about
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I have done both. A piece of paper does not make the love greater,
it does provide for the women as in ins. under her spouse,benifits
in case of the death of a loved one, things along this
--Regarding Risks
sharing your deepest, and darkest thoughts with the other person.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
protect yourself always
--A funny relationship story:
is how you act and feel younger and better about yourself
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity
becoming older and wiser and changing myself helped me
my stubborness to change and wanting everything my way
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Thu Jan 23 22:39:50 2003
Anonymous Guest 26 in davangere, karnataka =india=
F26 in davangere, karnataka =india=
Name: Dilshad
Email: <dilmehar-at-yahoo.com>
Web: http://WWW.pssr.org.in
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
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Fri Jan 17 06:59:43 2003
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--Relationship Is:
I have no idea
--That first relationship was
It was a crush
--The best things about relationship are:
Truthfulness, Kindness, Loyalty and sex
--The worst things about relationship are:
Suspicions
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Maybe it's a fantasy person who can never exist
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Maybe I am just not perfect
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Can't say. Don't like smoking and drinking
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? How well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
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Sat Jan 4 20:59:21 2003
Anonymous Guest 18 in Dallas, TX =USA=
F18 in Dallas, TX =USA=
Name: Katie
Email: <honeybee1328-at-yahoo.com>
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I am in the greatest relationship ever and we are waitint to get
out of college to take it that one step forward.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship = trust. Without trust and the respect you gain
nothing can ever come from a relationship.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was horrible. We never went on an actual
date. I never even kissed him. It only lasted about two
months.
--The best things about relationship are:
The first kiss, and falling in love and being loved back in return.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Not being too possissive and working to not let the petty arguments
hurt you.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
They have to be intellectual and funny. Looks are not that important
but I go for eyes and smiles.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
get along and talk more with his family.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? How well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc.
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Thu Jan 2 22:53:16 2003
Anonymous Guest 18 in , Texas =USA=
M18 in , Texas =USA=
Name: Alex
Email: <apd2006-at-realpolice.net>
Web: http://www.angelfire.com/rock/eagle/quotes.htm
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Typed in www.baddo.com and my browser thought maybe I meant www.bardo.com,
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Prof/Studies: Working on becoming a police officer.
My Astrology: Astrology was invented by clergy and has been used by clergy (and the
occasional magazine horoscope writer) ever since. It means nothing.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is simply the condition between two people - there
are good ones and bad ones. Ideally, a romantic relationship should
fulfill needs that have gone unfulfilled in the past.
--That first relationship was
My first SIGNIFICANT relationship was with my best friend at the
time, and we dated on and off (mostly on) for 10 months... We
both were about 15 or 16 but yet it wasn't that "fiery."
--The best things about relationship are:
Being able to talk to someone with complete trust, and knowing that
you'll be able to depend on them for anything when you need them.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Sacrificing and compromising - maybe doing something you wouldn't
ordinarily want to do. Also maintaining a positive disposition when,
frankly, you might just want to be a grouch. Ha.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Anyone can be pretty or funny... one of the rare qualities that
I find necessary is the ability to be socially discreet. By this
I mean appearing very chaste to others once one has entered into
a relationship. I can't stand it when people say "I just have a
flirtatious personality... it's just who I am."
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Perhaps if I was not such a staunch individual all of the time,
and loosened up more around my partner.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have a habit of playing Nintendo too much... She doesn't really
like that when she is over, and I bet she won't like it very much
when we're married and living together, either. Ha. Also I think
I enjoy the company of my ex-girlfriend a bit too much for my
partner's liking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My partner has no habits that I find challenging to accept at
this time, however we do not live together so it is possible that
that could change in the future. But not yet. Knock on wood and
all that.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I completely understand responsibility in relationships and anywhere
else. People who can't accept their responsibilities are subhuman.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I often like to cut right to the heart of the matter if in fact
there is something I feel needs to be talked about. If something
is bothering someone, they should say something; not save it for
ammunition at a later time.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Alright, like every other guy in the planet, I have the obligatory
degree of shallowness: in my current partner, the first thing I
noticed was how hot she was... but of course I came to love her
very quickly for her beliefs, convictions, and her desire to do
right in every way.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I don't think age matters - people are going to be attracted to
people who are, mentally, approximately as developed as they are.
People who have sex with people who are very young consistently
have a mind set that is of that age. I have a girlfriend who is
very mature, and we are separated by only two years.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
This is one area I have very little experience with. I have a
few friends who are not straight, and we get along fine, but I
am totally straight and can't imagine finding a male sexually
attractive. Bleh. Haha.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm straight... I don't think homosexuality is 'right' but neither
is envy or murder or derision or sloth or any number of things that
are rampant in our world today, any of which any of us may be guilty
so who are we to judge others?
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
As a Christian, I believe the hard truth that Jesus is the only
way to be saved from going to Hell... therefore I could not be
with anyone who didn't - how could I see someone I loved everyday
and know they were going to hell?
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Again, as a Christian, I plan on not having sex until marriage,
and my relationship is fine. I will admit that my definition of
sex is very narrow, however. Ha.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I haven't had "sex" yet per se, but I can hardly imagine what it
will really be like. People always say how great it is, and I know
how hard it is to put such great things into words... I can't wait.
Haha.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I don't see anything INHERENTLY wrong, but it's hard enough to
abstain from sex with my girlfriend and we're always around our
parents and friends - living together, it'd be darn near impossible.
--Regarding Risks
I really don't mind sharing things about myself, despite what people
think I am actually very open - as long as the person I'm talking
to doesn't seem like an idiot. Unfortunately, that seems to be the
great majority of people I come into contact with. Since I don't
date any of THOSE people, I'm pretty okay.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It's easy to know your whole history and the whole history of your
partner if you've both only been with each other. That's just
another reason for such values, I guess.
--A funny relationship story:
One time when I was 15 or 16 I was at my girlfriend's house and her
over protective brother and his friends came home... I was hidden
under pillows and blankets. They found me, though. Bleh.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
An intense desire to do the right thing and always think about how
my actions were affecting others.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Talking to People
Always wanting to be right.
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Anonymous Guest 14 in , =USA=
F14 in , =USA=
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--Relationship Is:
a relationship happens when two people like each other or
have feelings about each other, either by lust, love, or
both. some relationships are short, some are long, and some are
spontaneous. relationships usually help people to fall in love,
and they should be taken seriously.
--That first relationship was
more of puppy love really.
--The best things about relationship are:
emotional connections, cuddling, someone to talk to and to help
you out and to be there for you.
--The worst things about relationship are:
pressure, arguments.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone to care about me, someone whom i can talk to, someone whom
will always be there when i need them. someone whom i can learn to
love. someone that will have respect for me but is willing to take
the relationship further when the timing is right.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be less paranoid, more outgoing.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i'm very paranoid about being hurt emotionally in a
realationship. also i'm not very liable to make first moves, as i
am nervous sometimes.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
sometimes they take the relationship too fast, and sometimes not
fast enough.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
playing my own part and respecting my partner.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
when something goes wrong, i insist upon talking about it with my
partner, if my partner is someone that i have respect for. however
if i don't have respect for the partner, then i ignore them and
try to stay away from them as to avoid the subject.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes, hair, hands, personality.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
that age doesn't matter, although there can't be too much of a
difference. for example, 20 years difference is a little much.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
everyone falls under one of the numbers; all people are somehow gay,
straight, bisexual, or asexual.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i am bisexual.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
there is no need for two people to be of the same religion as long
as they love each other.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are two totally different words.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
nervous, ashamed.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
if they wanna live together, then go ahead.
--Regarding Risks
going along with things they have started to do, sometimes no matter
what it was.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
i am scared of getting them, although i have taken the risks anyway.
--A funny relationship story:
joking about how my ex-bf was a love buffalo. haha.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
media and experience of myself and others.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life
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Anonymous Guest 66 in Pocatello, Idaho =USA=
F66 in Pocatello, Idaho =USA=
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My Astrology: Considering I have been a student of Astrology for over
30 years,
I would agree heartily that partners in a
relationship should know
more about the aspects between
them in the relationship chart as
well as their natal chars.
I'm a: Scorpio Sun; with Pisces Moon; and Virgo rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Interation between two people who share some commonality in
personality, interests, religion,etc.---enough to provide the glue
to hold two people together to explore each other's individuality,
goals, etc. for a shared future.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Marriage for 35 years
--The best things about relationship are:
Deep friendship, shared interests, terrific sex, respect,
love
and caring.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Selfishness, putting self first, disrespect, verbal and
physical,
emotional abuse.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
The person in this new relationship
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I spent 12 years making these life-changes
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am ready for newness, change, and adventure. He is too.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
AOK
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I think we're old enough to respect and court responsbility
having
had it most of our lives.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
No Problem
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Our birthcharts do match up pretty well, concerning
communication,
relating, likes and dislikes, etc.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Whatever is natural and easy.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I feel that if choice was here in this world and present at
birth
I think that heterosexual would be it. After all,
look at all
the problems homosexuality has had all these
years.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Heterosexual.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
On-going search for one's own truth.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex should have a sense of adventure and exploration.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
That was taken care of quite nicely---considering it was on
my
wedding night.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
In their younger years, it may be wiser to marry---but as we
age,
I see no need for marriage. After all, money and possessions would
go to our children anyway. So what else
would marriage be good
for, anyway.
--Regarding Risks
Losing some of my individual habits, likes, time, family-ties.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have refused sexual encounters, mostly for that reason.
I did
not know the men and they were rather free.
--A funny relationship story:
No problem--does have keen sense of humor.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
Giving and giving up too much---not asking enough in return
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Not really---because these questions has already been
asked and
answered as well as possible.
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Mon Dec 16 17:41:06 2002
Anonymous Guest 22 in Pepperell, Mass =usa=
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--Relationship Is:
Butterflies in your stomace
--The best things about relationship are:
someone to count on
--The worst things about relationship are:
findding a happy medium
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who is sensitive to my feelings and can deal with my crazy
way of thinking and all the baggage that i come with
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn to deal with my feelings and let some things go
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
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Anonymous Guest 17 in Hamilton, ontario =canada=
F17 in Hamilton, ontario =canada=
Name: dusty may
Email: <dmt18-at-hotmail.com>
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I know I'm screwed up, but hey!At least I'm not
'normal'. Ewww...normalcy..how blah....
My Astrology: I am interested in astrology..(like i said, i'm a bad christian,
lol)..but I don't live my life by it. I don't think i'd end up with
another pisces naywys, for ionstance, because i don't like it when
people are too much like me! lol
I'm a: Pisces Sun; with Scorpio Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Er, a relationship is what you call it when 2 people know eachother,
then become close friends or lovers....(bad sentence structure but
you get the point.)
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... ha! I don't have relationships. I
get serious crushes once in a while....but I never, EVER
act on them.
--The best things about relationship are:
I figure it'd be good to have someone who understood you, and was
there for you.
--The worst things about relationship are:
cheating, being used for money or sex, guys having drug, alcohol,
or emotional problems......
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
brains, looks, sense of humor. Any guy for me would have to be
intelligent....I couldn't be around a stupid guy for more than 20
minutes. The guy has to have morals, too. The sense of humor is
important because i think of life as a big joke sometimes, and if
my guy didn't understand that, he wouldn't understad me.....
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
i need to lose 25 pounds before any guy would ever even look
at me, so that's my first thing. I can't be in a relationship
until I trust people, which I simply don't at this point. I'm an
introvert-extrovert, and that would have to change for me to be in
a relationship. Meaning, I'm very extrovert outside of my house,
but when i'm home, I want solitude. People irritate me, so i don't
see how i could have a relationship.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
like i said, i come home, and lock myself in my room with good
book. Or I write poetry and stories. Or I research topics that
interest me. or I work on art projects, drawing, carving, painting,
etc. I can't be in a relationship because it would infringe upon my
'me' time.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
if he understood the concept of not being together all the time, we
may be able to work. Other than that, most habits i see as adding
character. other people's habits generally amuse me, so my guy
can have nearly any he wants....as long as he doesn't cheat!!!! NO
CHEATING. Or drugs, or alcoholism, although occasional drinking is
okay, i guess.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
money, lol. that's not even an issue for me, i'm only 17, so
relationships at this point have very little responsibility. Oh,
not true! A couple is responsible for any pregnancy, and the
prevention of pregnancies. And using protection...that's it for
teens, lol. wouldn't matter with me though b/c i don't believe in
sex before marriage.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
hmm....if you can't talk things out, without getting angy, a
relationshp will not work. period.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
oooh, looks first. The face has to be nice to catch my attention, and
i don't like overweight guys. BUT, if a not-too-attractive guy has an
amazing sense of humor and is intelligent....i stop seeing ugliness.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
ugh, couples like 20 years apart sicken me!! Within 5 years, 7 tops,
is acceptable for an age difference.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think that if you aren't straight you have severe emotional
problems. I think being gay is wrong, but i have nothing against
people who are gay, if you get my meaning. to me if you would like
to have a sexual experience with somebody who is the same gender
as you, but you aren't all 'gay', you're still sick.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
oh, i think i said that...lol. I'd never want to have sex with
another girl. i mean, what would i want with a female body beneath
me anyway? Hello, I already have one of those! lol. Seriously though,
i think the practice of being gay is sick and evil.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I'm christian, but i'm not a very good one, (lol). I would prefer
another christian, but not a really starchy anal christian. and
i hate hypocrates,(.....lol, i think i'm probably a hypocrate
myself!). a guy would have to believe in God.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
TOTALLY DIFFERENT! If you can't have love without sex, whta do you
say about old couples??? 90 year old men and women who still love
eachother, but aren't 'getting any'? No, if you love somebody you
love them with OR without sex.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
i'm still a virign. I think sex is special, and I'm sure it will
measure up when, (if ever), i have sex because it will be with
my husband.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
living together is fine before marriage, if you can keep yourself
from sleeping together. If you are engaged...well...maybe sex and
living together is acceptable...the intent is there, right?
--Regarding Risks
i won't get into a relationship because of the risk, period. I
can't stand the idea of letting somebody know all the workings of
my mind. And making yourself vulnrable by falling in love....you're
bound to have your heart broken...<:(
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
hey, if you're going to sleep with more than one person in your life
nowadays STDs area risk you are taking. It's your choice. STDs are
like the 'wrongness' of being a slut personified...
--A funny relationship story:
oh man....one guy wrote a song for me trying to get me to go out
with him. hahaha. another started bringing me boxes of 'ferrero
rocher' chocolate every week. that was funny too, i had to ignre
him completelybefore he got the hint. another one.....lol, well,
let's just say i have lots of funny stories about guys trying to
get with me.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
I wouldn't say observation helped me.....but i contributed to my
relationship status.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
Ya....my mom's love life was comletely screwed up. she always said
not to make her mistakes....
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actuall, it was helpful to me. i never realized just how screwed
in the head i am!!! lol
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Anonymous Guest 20 in , =USA=
F20 in , =USA=
Name: Orion
Email: <OrionStarMcGaha-at-juno.com>
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My Astrology: I don't really pay attention to astrology. We both have the same
sign, and I have read that this can be good and bad. But it doesn't
matter anyway.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Relationship Rescue
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Dr. Phil
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is a partnership with someone else for whom you have
a special bond with. The feelings and love involved can be life
lasting or end in sarrow.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love.
--The best things about relationship are:
Unconditional love, trust, and compassion. A passionate sex life
doesn't hurt either!
--The worst things about relationship are:
Insecurity, conflict of interest, disrespectfulness, and infedelity!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Good personality, trustworthy, faithful, good listener, good looking,
sweet, charming, passionate, compassionate, sincere, witty, generous,
happy, grateful, intergetic, humble, and peaceful.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
change my insecurities into confedence. I could also dress up more
and make myself look presentable for my partner, pay more attention
to him and my son, take his feelings into consideration, stop nagging
so much, and make the best effort to be a good friend and lover.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
most are harmless. Besides staying on the internet more than I
intend to or smoking, most aren't an issue. The one thing that I
have a habit of doing, is assuming things. I wish I could break it!
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
he needs to stop smoking! That is the one thing that hinders our
ability to move forward in our relationship! He also needs to be
honest with me instead of lying to me about little things that I
all ready know about. He needs to be honest with me!
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
taking care of his emotional needs. After my son, he is the most
important person in my life and to neglect his feelings, emotions,
or intelligance would be unforgiving!
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
men lack communication skills! Most women I know talk or try to
talk to their partners with no success of getting to the root of
the problem, myself included. Most men I know, boyfriend included,
feel like if they ignore it, it will eventually go away. My theory:
Yes, it will go away, not the problem, but your partner, straight
out the front door!
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
looks, unfortunately. The first thing I noticed about my boyfriend
was his smile. He has perfect teeth, yet I do not.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
my boyfriend is 13 years my senior and neither of us have ever
thought about it. If you honestly love someone, why should age be
a factor?
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't know. I have honestly never thought about the subject!
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am straight, though I have had lesbian experiences in the past
just to see what it was like. I am sure every woman has, and if not,
it's not a big deal.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If you are a religous person, it would be wise to find someone
who has your same belief. You wouldn't want to feel spiritually
seprate if you and your partner have different beliefs. If you
aren't, you still should find someone who believes similar to you.
I don't think anyone should be pushed into something they aren't
ready for or don't believe in. My boyfriend and I believe in the
same thing, so it was never an issue.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love equals sex, but sex does not equal love!
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
that it was very disappointing. I expected it to be joyous, yet it
was hurtful, emotionally and physically. I wish I could forget it.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I am currently living with my boyfriend, yet we are not married.
I will tell you that it is better to be married before you move
in, because most people get comfortable living together, and think
there is no reason to get married. I once heard a friend describe
co-habitation as this: 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk
for free?' At the time it was very humorous, but now I understand.
I don't find that quote very funny now. I have lived with my
boyfriend for a little over two years and he has backed out of
three wedding dates all because he didn't think it was neccessary.
I don't know how anyone else feels about involving children into
this equasion, but I don't know what I am going to say to my son
when he asks me why me and his father aren't married!
--Regarding Risks
frightening! The times in which I have allowed myself to get close,
I have always ended up broken hearted! My current relationship
included!
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have been very lucky! I know my own complete history just by
being tested quarterly. My boyfriend and I are clean of all STDs,
but I can't say we were careful. I trusted him and he trusted me.
I wouldn't suggest this method to anyone else though.
--A funny relationship story:
remembering and telling about funny things that has happened to me
or him in the past. It is always fun times to listen to a wacky
story about his childhood years!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations
Experience
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
Too trusting
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I thought the questionaire was very helpful to me and to my
relationship. It made me realize some things about myself and
my relationship that I need to work on to make better for all who
are involved!
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Q: What are your views about children in un-wed relationships?
How does this situation differ from children born into wedlock?
A: Relationships are very different from marriages. If someone
isn't happy with the way a relationship is going, that person
has the option to just walk out the door. It is more difficult
in a marriage. There are so many other things to think about,
such as the cost of a divorce, the paper work, alimony, custody
agreements, etc. If you are in a relationship with children,
it complicates things to where the option of leaving, comes with
a price. So it does in marriages, but most think a little harder
when deciding on divorce, when children are involved.
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Anonymous Guest 19 in Paris, =France=
F19 in Paris, =France=
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--Relationship Is:
Something lacking in my life.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... brief
--The best things about relationship are:
Sex.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Bad sex.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A human being (as opposed to a beast)
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Stop drinking alcohol, eating sandwich grecs, and hanging out with
Duncan and Kris.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Alcoholism does not help.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age
How'd I do? How well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Anonymity
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Sun Nov 3 07:28:09 2002
Anonymous Guest 69 in South River, Ontaro =Canada=
F69 in South River, Ontaro =Canada=
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share with other human beings Get rid of warfare altogether we are
all human beings,we all have the right to life,why must children
suffer because one country has something the other wants
My Astrology: not really
I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Aquarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
People I can trust
--The best things about relationship are:
friendship
--The worst things about relationship are:
people to trust
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
I want to be equal in a relationship
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
take the time
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I don't always have the time
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
must not try always to control me
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
caring sharing loving understanderstanding
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
both talking
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
friendlyness
--Regarding Age in Relationship
5 to 8 yrs
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I do not believe that a person can be homosexual but by his
own making.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am a woman preferinga man my husband
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
good to be of same faith but not rally a most
--Regarding Love and Sex:
sex belongs in the bedroom between a wife and husband
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it wasn't worth the effort
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
you should be married
--Regarding Risks
sex
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
better to have blood tests if both patners clean marry
--A funny relationship story:
can't remember the most funny
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
my strict bringing up
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
no
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it was something to pass the time
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why has this human race gone crazy
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Anonymous Guest in , ==
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I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and ?? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is a very special bond between you and another person.
A relationship can be whatever you make of it but most importantly, a
positive, healthy relationship is quite a bit of work. You shouldn't
take it for granted!
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love, but we also found
ourselves getting married!
--The best things about relationship are:
Communication, first and foremost...there are many other very
important aspects such as Trust, Honesty, and Companionship, but
there are lots of BEST things to look for.
--The worst things about relationship are:
INSECURITY! It will drive anyone insane! Bad habits that possibly
interfere with the LAW can be damaging as well, and even those that
don't, such as excessive drinking. Also, white lies...it's hard
to trust someone that can't even be honest with you, even about
the small things.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who can tolerate me. I'm a women and I do get some crazy
mood swings, but someone who kicks back when I'm going through them,
but still loves me when I want to be a sweetheart. Someone who is
outgoing and likes to laugh at my jokes but also very structured
and responsible at the same time. Someone who will baby me when
I am sick and not be such a 'tough guy' that he can't admit when
he is wrong or say sorry. I like a man who's not afraid to cry.
It makes me feel very special and feel as though he loves just
as much as I'm willing to cry for him to show him that I love him.
Someone who is romantic, and reminds me often,(not too much), that he
thinks of me and loves me. Lastly, (really I could go on...) someone
who is willing to help me out with chores that need to be done.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
try and control my temper, as well as try and have more patience.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have good habits for the most part, at least that is what I
am told. I do forget things here in there, but who doesn't.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
as long as they are clean and mostly organized, I'm a happy camper.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking care of what 'needs' to be done. Esp. when it comes to
due dates ie. bills. As a parent, much more indepth meaning of
responsibility. Its not only to yourself, but to your whole family.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
When one person is mad, its best to allow them to get it all of
their chest without adding fuel to the fire. Wait until they calm
down a little. Whatever you do, DON'T just sit there and be quiet,
in ANY situation, it makes the other person feel as though you
either don't care, or that you are not listening.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the way in which they carry themselves and the way they talk.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it matters to a certain extend. More than 20 yrs older than one
another it starting to push it, but it's known to happen, and the
relationship is successful.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
they are mostly sinners(except those that really have the mental
problems) and are at a loss for attention.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Totally straight!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it is extremely important. In some families who are less
religious,or not religious at all it may be not problem.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
you definately need a lot of love, and that's most important.
Sex can definately inhance a relationship in many wonderful ways,
but its not always absolutely necessary for them to go hand in hand,
although it would be nice.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
very awkward and PAINFUL! Didn't find much joy in it at all
actually!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
They say its important NOT to live together first, but the way I see
it is, if you are not doing 'the naughty' and behaving yourself,
it gives you a chance to see how the other person 'may' be as far
as cleanliness, and their overall habits. Are you willing to live
with them for the rest of your life? You still have a chance to
run if not!
--Regarding Risks
allowing myself to involve myself with a man that was with another
lady, knowing that if I started to really like him, there would be
no chance. (or the consequences would be far devistating)
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
that before you 'jump in the sack' with anyone, ask, ask, ask!
They may lie, but hopefully your with an honest person, but still
protect yourself no matter what!
--A funny relationship story:
when my husband and I were driving down the highway from L.A.
I was using my laptop and I didn't know how to adjust the lighting
and it was starting to bother my eyes. My husband told me to put
on some sunglass, joking of course, but I went ahead and did it
anyways. I felt really silly, on the highway, it's night time, and
everyone passing us sees this girl using her comp. with sunglass?
So shortly after, I turned off the comp. Shortly after that my
husband says,"You turned off the computer," I said,"Yeah..and?,"
he says,"But you still have your sunglasses on!," and we both
started busting up laughing.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance
Friends did to some extent.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none-
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and pertain to real life questions that everyone has.
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My Astrology: have had 4 serious relatiopnships 3 total failed with gemini virgo
and scorpio current relatioship with another pisces and every thing
going great
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why men lie and women cry
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... fall in love and married very quickly
marriage ended quick as it started he went to the gulf war
and came back a totally different person
--The best things about relationship are:
i look forward to my boyfriend coming here and just being with him
whether we go out or stay in cuddle in front of tv or go on net
together just spending time with each other.
I like waking up in
the morning knowing he gonna be there we always wake up cuddling
--The worst things about relationship are:
ex s ex husbands and ex wives interfering and trying to cause trouble
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
my boyfriend and hey i had to kiss awful lot of frogs to find my
prince.
kind thoughtful tactile sensible always notice if i do my
make up different or what clothes i wearing and full of compliments
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
remember that men have a monotracked brain and remember not to
talk to much when he driving or we miss the turning
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
reading wh ymen lie ans women cry has helped my change any bad
habits i had wish i had read the book every girl should be given
the book for life reference
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
i take my partner as awhole
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
physaical tall and nice dark eyes and a nice bum
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age shouldn't matter when u fall in love i personally prefer a man
who is abit older than me as i find alot of younger men very immature
--Regarding Love and Sex:
when you in love with someone sex is great a action that just
gets better the longer you together i love my boyfriend and sex is
wonderful together however if something happened and we couldn't
have sex i still love him as a relationship should be built on more
than what happens "in bed"
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
nothing like i expected bit like a deflated balloon
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
what ever people feel happy doing
--Regarding Risks
telling someone how i totally feel about them as i then feel vunrable
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
be careful look after yourself and i wouldn't have unprotected
sex unless i was sure of the history of the person they had an all
clear from the clinic
--A funny relationship story:
we laugh together everday
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
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My Astrology: I find it amusingly interesting, but don't truly base anything on it.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
ideally a state where two emotionally healthy people enjoy life
together sharing important things. Someone to converse with,
nurture, be nurtured by, and laugh with. Someone you can be yourself
with and let go of inhibitions. Wanting the best for someone and
having the room to grow together. Companionship and trust...
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... intense immature love
--The best things about relationship are:
Sharing and laughter. Acceptance and devotion. A warm body at
night to snuggle. A caress just so you know they care.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Financial matters. Former spouses and step-children. In-Laws.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Love, displays of affection, trust, loyalty and honesty. Dedication
and companionship.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Work on my self confidence and esteem. Realize that I do have
something to offer and am a lovable person. Relent on my desires
for perfection in my life and myself. Accept my strengths and
weaknesses.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to let go of my past hurts and learn to find someone who
is emotionally ready and healty to be in a relationship. That I
don't need to find someone that needs "help" or "fixing."
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I usually don't date anyone who has qualities that are unacceptable
to me. I don't want anyone to change for me or expect major changes
from me for a relationship to work.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being honest and faithful. Thinking of someone else's feelings
before your own.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
yelling and fighting don't truly help. One or the other usually
stops listening and only parts of the discussion get heard. It is
much better to talk and at times when a compromise seems improbable
you need to agree do disagree.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Someone's eyes and smile. Looking for what I can see there.
The things that interest them and they are passionate about.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Maturity level takes priority over numerical age. I find that I
have more in common with someone 6 to 10 years older than I am.
I usually won't date anyone younger than I am.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I see women that are attractive because they have features that I
would in myself. I enjoy the companionship/friendship I can have
with a woman and am looking forward to finding a man to feel that
way with. I tried the lesbian thing and it wasn't for me.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Commonality in religion helps strengthen a relationship. If one
person is devoted to a religion and the other won't even step foot in
a church there could be a lot of strife and resentment over it later.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They go hand in hand. Sex is a way to communicate the deeper
aspects of love and sharing. It can take your relationship to a
higher level.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I wish I would have waited until I was married. I feel that would
have changed the whole base of my life.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Living together before marriage kind of makes it seem like why get
married... what will actually change. Yes you get to learn more
about a person, but you don't have the same level of commitment
and it seems to make it easier to walk away later.
--Regarding Risks
Trusting someone with your heart.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Its better to be safe than sorry. A night of fun is not worth
my life.
--A funny relationship story:
Too many to list. I love humor and enjoy laughing.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling
heartbreak and lots of therapy
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
mother is codependent... father is detatched selfish and cold
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Anonymous Guest 18 in , =Canada=
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My Astrology: What kind of crap is this? I mean who looks up their astrological
compatibility before getting involved with a guy? Thats absurd! I
have looked up me and my ex-bf's compatibility before but it was
only after we were already dating. I would never base a decision
on something as lame as astrology.
I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is when two people are very close. They are intimate
with each other. They share their thoughts and feelings with one
another.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...very melodramatic. It was intense. It
was a love-hate relationship. On-again, off-again.
--The best things about relationship are:
I look forward to the intimacy...the hugging, the cuddling, the
spooning, the kissing. I look forward to having someone to be
romantic with, to surprise them with a spontaneous gift or other
token of my affection. I look forward to the butterflies in my
stomach at the beginning of a new relationship.
--The worst things about relationship are:
The worst part would be putting myself out there and being
vulnerable. I have issues of trust and I don't like putting myself in
a position where I can be hurt. Also, I don't like to be dependant
on a person and often when I'm in a relationship I will develop a
dependency on him.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
I want someone who I can have an intelligent conversation
with. Someone who has definite opinions and can discuss and debate
issues with me. I like someone with a great sense of humour. He
has to be able to share my idea of humour. He has to understand
sarcasm and be able to take things lightly. He has to be in touch
with his emotions and be able to express them to me. He has to be
stable and ambitious in life. He has to be romantic, sweet, kind,
gentle, and sexy. He has to be strong enough to stand up to me but
not overbearing. He has to be supportive of me. He has to be fun
and adventurous and spontaneous. He definitely has to do things to
show me how much I mean to him. He has to be affectionate. He has
to be a GOOD person. I'm talking about helping old ladies cross
the street, rescuing stray dogs, etc. He has to be a gentleman
for the most part. I'm not expecting any grand sweeping gestures,
but a little romance is nice. I guess I'm a little picky.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I wish I could be a braver person. I wish I could be a more
independent person. I realize how important it is for someone
to maintain their own personal identity when they're in a
relationship. In order to do that I would have to have a life of
my own. I don't have any kind of social life, and I would need to
develop that before I could be in a relationship with someone. Also,
I need to become more comfortable with my sexuality. Before I can
be more free, sexually, I need to be more comfortable with sex.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
My worst habits are being too shy, picking the wrong guys, putting
my own needs and wants last.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
No comment.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being honest, true, and fair to the other person. Also, I think
that monogamy is a part of every relationship. I don't believe in
non-exclusive relationships. So I guess that being faithful is a
responsibility that most people find hard to follow through with.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I need to talk and talk and talk. Thats just me. I could talk for
hours. I'm the type of person who analyzes everything to death. I
would rather talk about a problem and find out both sides of the
story. My major flaw is arguing just for the sake of winning,
I always have to win, I always have to be right. I can't help
it. I've noticed that some people either embrace my personality or
they don't. Some people are just communication phobes.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I notice looks first. But its not a chiseled face or a sculpted body
that I find attractive. I am drawn to people who have a definite
and unique style about them. It could be the way he fixes his hair,
his piercings, his clothing, his walk, whatever. If they look like
someone who I can get along with I'll be attracted. I don't know
what it is, its just a weird vibe I get from some people. I actually
turn away from pretty boy, "perfect" looking guys. I don't know if
this is because I don't think I'm good enough for them or because I
think that because they are so good-looking they must be lacking in
other areas. I just don't think they would have anything to offer
in terms of personality. I know that sounds like I'm stereotyping
and over-generalizing but hey, if the shoe fits...
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I WANT to say that age doesn't matter, that if two people love each
other then it shouldn't even be an issue. But I have to honest
and truthfully, I think people should stay within reasonable age
limits. I'd say the maximum age difference should be 15 years. Thats
not too bad. Of course it depends how old you are when u meet.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I totally agree with that. I think that one person is not 100%
gay or straight but that everybody has homosexual tendencies. They
may not be very strong, and they don't even have to act on them but
everyone is a little bit of both. I think for the most part, people's
attitudes about homosexuality are based largely on ignorance. Some
people are so narrow-minded that the mere mention of them being part
homosexual is enough for them to morph into complete denial. Thats
just a lack of knowledge on the subject.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am a straight female. I've never been with a woman before. I think
about it and fantasize about it. I find women to be very attractive,
I mean the female body is amazing. If I was ever going to have a
homosexual experience it would just be a quick fling and thats it. I
know that I am not gay because I want to have serious relationships
with guys only. I don't want to have a serious relationship with
women. That would only be sexual. I just can't imagine it. It
wouldn't be right for me.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I definitely dont think that religion shouldn't determine who you
start a relationship with. I mean it could make things a little
tough but what relationship isn't tough. I mean u can always each
practice you're own religions separately and still stay together. I
dunno, I guess it depends on how dedicated u are to that specific
religion. Also, when starting a family I think that it would be
best to stick to one religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They are two totally different aspects of life. Just as u can have
sex without love u can have love without sex. This doesn't mean that
one doesn't help the other. I believe strongly that if u are in love,
sex will be 100 times more deep and meaningful. I also believe that
if u are sleeping with someone you love, you're relationship will
reach another level. You will be even closer because you shared
something that can be very intimate.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I had a very bad first sexual encounter. I was with the guy for
maybe a month. I knew that he wasn't using me and I felt a definite
connection with the guy. I sort of trusted him. I wasn't ready,
I just wanted to get it over with and for that reason it sucked. I
wasn't turned on. I was just laying there. It wasn't romantic or
sexy. I wasn't in the moment. What was going through my head was "Am
I supposed to moan? When is he gonna finish? Is it supposed to hurt
this much? How long does it go on for? ..." It just sucked. Plain
and simple. And it hasn't gotten a whole lot better to be honest.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
What a crock! Why can't u learn about commitment and values if u
live together before marriage? I mean if anything u learn more about
how committed he/she is gonna be. I think u definitely, definitely
should live together before marriage. When you live with someone
you share an experience with that person that you can't have
if ur not living together. You wouldn't be as close to someone
until you've lived with them. You are around them all the time,
you share responsibilities. You really learn alot about the other
person and if you are truly compatible. It is an essential step to
take BEFORE marriage.
--Regarding Risks
It would be bad, if not traumatic. I used to enter relationships
freely, with all my heart, and just letting myself be vulnerable. I
guess thats how it should be. But now I'm way too cautious and I
need to let go of some of my issues with trust and just open up more.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I am not very concerned about STD's. For one thing I don't sleep
around. I only sleep with someone who I know very very well. And
I don't know any guys who have had an STD. I mean I know this one
guy who lived in my town who had crabs, But i mean the whole town
knew who he all gave crabs to and who they were sleeping with and so
it wasn't an issue for me. I would definitely not have a one-night
stand or something like that. Its not a big issue for me.
--A funny relationship story:
The funniest thing I've ever experienced regarding
relationships?....I guess it would be the first kiss I had with
my second boyfriend. We were saying good-bye and we both closed
our eyes and leaned in for the kiss. He had his mouth open and was
going in for a french kiss, I had my mouth closed and was going for
a quick peck. He licked my lip! We opened our eyes jerked back, he
walked away. Now I can laugh at it but at the time it was mortifying.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends
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I think filling out this questionnaire was very useful. It let me
probe my innermost thoughts on relationships and gave me alot to
think about. I will definitely remind myself of what I typed here
when I'm getting ready to start a new relationship. It has given
me some things to mull over for awhile.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
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My Astrology: Astrology does matter. I'm a taurus, and am much more compatible
with other earth signs or water signs.
I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Sagittarius Moon; and Sagittarius rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A close bond between two people
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... a long, intense one
--The best things about relationship are:
feeling loved
--The worst things about relationship are:
adultery, possessiveness
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone absolutely gorgeous, who will love me and be faithful
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
stop being as jealous and possessive
learn to have more fun
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Having consideration for the other person
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Arguments don't seem to solve very much-you end up having the same
arguments over and over again. It is best to both talk and listen
to each other.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
How physically attractive I think they are.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age is completely unimportant.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I prefer to be heterosexual.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Religion/spirituality should not have to hinder a relationship.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They are two separate things.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Very messy and not at all passionate.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It is best to live with someone as if you are married for a
considerable length of time before making that commitment.
--Regarding Risks
trusting them
--A funny relationship story:
how completely different we were from each other. it was destined
to fail from the start!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
Perhaps ask about break ups/rough times in a relationship that may
have affected future relationships.
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Anonymous Guest 21 in , california =usa=
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Name: ann
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My Astrology: well it doesn't really matter what sign she was or is the astrology
saying we don't match up. as long as i think we click together
that's all that i care about.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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lesbian companionship.from hearthrob to heartbeak
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
forgot the authors name
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--Relationship Is:
relationship is being committed to certain someone whom you feel
you can be comfortable with. love of course is the main thing that
makes it work. relationship is being in love with someone and having
that love reciprocated.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... it was more of a puppy love. i think
i was not even inlove, just infatuated and deeply attracted.
--The best things about relationship are:
companionship and the giddy feeling of being inlove the though of
someone loving you back all the same.
--The worst things about relationship are:
trusting someone with all your heart. especially if that soemeone is
branded for being a player.
and making a long distance relationship
work.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone i can be comfortable with. someone whom i can talk to at
just about anything. of course someone whom i'll be attracted to,
not physically all the time but mentally and spiritually as well.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
maybe be more patient and less risky in committing myself in a
relationship.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
well my habits as far as i can see from my partner doesn't really
affect her. as long as i make time for her that;s all that matters
right?
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
as long as they're presentable i don't really care.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
i guess it's giving quality time for the other half. it's making
time from your busy life to stop for a while and let the other
person how you love them.it's making sure the relationship works too.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
well communication is very important to me. i believe everything
could be resolve with a long serious sympathetic talk. whenever
i get into arguments with my other half, i'd give her time first
to think things through then we talk about our problem and try to
resolve it by compromising for the best of all. as much as possible
i'd like to solve whatever misunderstanding i have with my gf before
the sun sets.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
it's a little bit of everything. you tend to get physically attracted
to the person, then their personality then you begin to noctice
other features as well.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it used to be that age matters to me but after having met my gf
who's 3 years my junior, i realized it's more of how well you can
relate to one another that matters and not the age.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
well i'm bisexual so i'd have to go 50-50.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
right now i'm into same sex relationship because they've given me
more good than bad as compare to a heterosexual one.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
they're very important in a relationship. it reflects who you are
as a person and how you are with other people. your belief guides
your way of thinking.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
well sex could've been a given to most but not for me. it is rather
important of course that you be compatible in bed but it can;t be
the basis at all in defining one either. sex drive fades in time.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
well it's more passionate but at the same time wild. the sexual
tension was overwhelming! but like i said it fades. at least it
did to me.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i'd prefer to live in with a person though, making sure we clicked. i
don't wanna get into something serious(like get married) then get
out when i can't handle the pressure and stuff. it's better to play
safe for a while then when i'm sure, go on with it.
--Regarding Risks
my friends. i had to risk my friendship in order to please my very
possesive girl friend.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
i have to really know the person well before i engage in a sexual
relationship with them. i'm very cautious because i don't want to
catch it. the virus i mean.
--A funny relationship story:
when we were alone in my room, starting to make love. i was working
my way down, trying to arouse her even more. we were close to
the peak or arousal when the phone rang! they were looking for us
already. i think it's funny cause we were flustered the whole time.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People
learning from the pain and experience of it.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none-
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it was ok. nothing so new but it helps to reflect a bit.
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--Relationship Is:
IT IS LIKE GOING AND MEETING SOME GIRL ALIEN IN OUTER SPACE
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... WHEN I STARED TALKING TO A 14 YEAR
OLD ON THE INTERTER AND CALLED HIM THEN WE STARTED GOING OUT
--The best things about relationship are:
NICENESS, KNIDNESS AND LOBVE
--The worst things about relationship are:
GETING INTO FIGHTS
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A FINE,SEXY GUY
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
WHEN I TALKED TO MY BEST FREND ABOUT IT AND SHE SAID GO FOR IT
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
MY FAMILY WAS NO HELP
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Anonymous Guest 25 in Telford, PA =usa=
F25 in Telford, PA =usa=
Name: Debi
Email: <Katora1-at-earthlink.net>
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With my husband since I was 16, moved in together at 17 , had our
first child at 20, second at 21, got married at 22 and had our
third child at 23, and still happily together
My Astrology: I find it extremely interesting, and I do believe in some cases
it is right on the money, but I would never NOT be with someone
because the signs say no. My husband and I should not be compatible
according to our signs, but we are.
I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
relating to a person, trying to learn to trust them enough to let
the me that no ones knows about shine through and knowing without a
doubt that no matter what the problems can be worked out. Loveing
the positives in the person and learing to love the even annoying
parts of their personality
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... friends for years but always knew
he was the soulmate I was meant to be with
--The best things about relationship are:
Knowing that whatever happens that there is someone who will always
be there to help you through it, even when you are wrong.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Giving yourself over to someone who can one day use it to hurt you
as much as they want because they know your every weakness
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who will love me even though I have alot of faults. That
they will listen to my bad times and feel it as if it was happening
to them, and then feeling with me when I am happy. Someone who will
never lie to me or try to deceive me in any way. Someone who will
hold me when I cry and who will stay by my side even when I try to
oush them away.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I expect too much of people. I need to learn that not every one
remembers stupid little facts and my feeling get hurt too easily
when they don't remember everything like I do. Also, I am too
stuborn. Also, my moods vary to extremes
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I have a habit of expecting too much from people.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
They have to be open with me
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
responsibilites to me is to be there for the other. To listen
when they need to talk and to hold them when they need to be
held. Laughing with them or crying with them,
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
If you can not talk through a problem then it never gets better. It
just keeps getting worse until it is in every aspect of your lives
together and it ruins what was once great.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the ability to laugh. So I guess personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age doesnt matter as long as maturity levels are the same.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I feel you can be "straight" and still be attracted to someone of
the same sex. Or even fall inlove with that person. But I feel it
is a rare occasion.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I have found other women very attrative, but it is only a physical
aspect. I have never been able to even consider falling inlove with
someon of the same sex.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
As long as you can compromise alittle, it shouldn't matter.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
They are totally seperate. It is easy to confuse the two together
for people who what love desperately. They can only be one when love
is there. It is easy to have sex without love and love without sex.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I did not enjoy it at all. But that was because of childhood
tragities
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I feel living together is a good way to know each other totally. It
is the only way to know if you can truly be with this person. People
seem one way, and are another when you are with them all the time,
day after day.
--Regarding Risks
letting anyone close enough to let them see that I have many faults
and can not be the picture perfect person so many expect me to be.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
You can never be too careful. Even when someone has always used
condoms or what not, you can still pick up something, nothing is
foul proof.
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How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none-
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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Sun Aug 25 21:25:52 2002
Anonymous Guest in St. Louis, Missouri =USA=
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My Astrology: I dunno. I don't really follow it.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
You depend on someone and not only on yourself. You trust somone
enough to include them in your decisions and you tell them
everything.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... my only been dating the same guy
for a long time now
--The best things about relationship are:
being able to say anything to that person and having both mental
and physical support
--The worst things about relationship are:
having different points of view on things and different attitudes
and wants sometimes BAD DAYS!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who loves me for who I am
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I will not change for anyone
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to not be so stubborn
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
my partner tries to satisfy me
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being there for someone else like they are there for me
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
take a 5 minute break to just sit there and think and never argue
in front of people it makes everyone uncomfortable then talk about
it even if the other person doesn't want to never go to bed angry
at each other
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the general appearance of them as if they hold themself correctly
and speak properly and if they are kind
--Regarding Age in Relationship
stay with someone around your age group because you'll have more
in common and your sex drive will wear off around the same time if
nothing else.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
you like guys or girls or both! face it!
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm a female and I like men.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
religion doesn't really matter. You love who you love. I myself
would have no one if religion mattered. I haven't seen many wiccans
walking around my block lately.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they go together. Why do it unless you won't regret it later?
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I've only had one person my whole life. how would I know?
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
You won't know if you can stand the person if you don't live with
them first.
--Regarding Risks
frightening because I wasn't used to having someone there for me
and then I think about them possibly leaving and it would just tear
me apart and thats what is so scary because the last person i had a
close relationship with died and it is hard to get close to people
knowing you could lose them
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
get checked. You have it or you don't. If I get it I'll kick
your ass.
--A funny relationship story:
the meeting...we related to each other right away but we tried to
set up some people we knew and that just didn't work
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations
What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc.
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not real useful
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i dunno
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Sun Aug 25 04:33:14 2002
Anonymous Guest 24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece=
F24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece=
Name:
Email: <marg78-at-otenet.gr>
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Prof/Studies: Psychology student
My Astrology: Astrology has nothing to do with love. Is it possible to believe
that who your're going to get married is written in the stars? Sun,
planets, galaxies are more bother in exloding than informing you
about your future!
I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Moon; and Aries rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Two or more people come together and share their lives. They love
respect and care deeply for each other. They know that without each
other life can and does go on but something will always be missing
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was that of a mendor and a student.
--The best things about relationship are:
Respect, understanding, humor.
--The worst things about relationship are:
To make the other person part of your world, to enter him/her
smoothly to your everyday life, to help him become accepted by
people you love
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone with passion for life itself, a person who will be willing
to explore new things,who will always go after what he really wants
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I should not have as top priority my friends but balance romance with
friendship.
I should not care too much about what other people say
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
My tendency to isolate is a habbit that is not really helpful when
the issue is to come out from yourself and relate to another person
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
The most important thing is to understand that i need my paersonal
space and time
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Resposibility in relationships means to know why you relate
to the specific person, to be aware of your underlying
motives. Responsibility means being honest with yourself and the
other person.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I prefer to listen
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Good humor. Humor is an index of intellingence. The type of humor
reflects the way people view life
--Regarding Age in Relationship
tha people should be around the same age, in order to have common
experiences and common things to look forward in the future
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Most people are heterosexual, but most of them because they fear to
be homosexuals. I don't believe that there is a clearly heterosexual
or homosexual person. Most of us hve wondered how would it be and
some of us had the courage to explore it
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I declare heterosexual in plractice with some homosexual thoughts
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If religion is not of primary importance for both parties, then
there is no problem. But if one, or both are trully and deeply
religious then communication problem may apprear
--Regarding Love and Sex:
When I love a person I want to have sex with him, but i can love
him even if sex is out of the question.
To have sex love is not
a prerequisite
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I felt nothing. I was not ashamed, I wasn't anxious, I did not
experience pain and when it came to an end, I wondered why all this
noise about the first time?
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Cohabitation is the best test before getting married
--Regarding Risks
When I was younger I took a great risk, greater than my age. Relating
to a mendor at a very young age cost me my adolescence. Since then
I hate taking risks, I hate exposing myself
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Protect yourself!
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How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
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Sun Aug 25 03:47:48 2002
Anonymous Guest 24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece=
F24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece=
Name:
Email: <marg78-at-otenet.gr>
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How'd I do? Very Difficult
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Fri Aug 23 20:26:25 2002
Anonymous Guest in , ==
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My Astrology: What a joke
I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is where two beings come together
emotionally,intelectually, and often physically to create one
better being.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...an I feel sorry for you so I will
keep dating you.
--The best things about relationship are:
spending time together doing something fun, physical contact,
having someone to talk to and having a shoulder to cry on.
--The worst things about relationship are:
working out problems and differences, deciding if you really want
to be around that person at all.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone that I'm attracted to, somewhat intelligent, active, funny,
able to earn an income, easy going,taller than me, and nice.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be less stubborn, more willing to compromise, and more tolerance
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
staying even though I know it's time to get out
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
you have to recognize them and accept them or leave that person
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
doing what you say you're going to do, thinking of others first
and doing the right thing
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
As long as you can sit down and talk with that person ,discuss each
other's view-points, and see what the problem was in the first place,
then you can usually solve that issue.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the over-all physique of the person ,the way they carry themselves
and interact with others.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I would have to agree with the 2-5 yr. limit. It just starts to
get gross after that.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
If you're gay there's either something wrong with the chemicals
flowing to your brain or a bad personal choice.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
NA in that area
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
the relationship will flow more smoothly if you are with someone
of the same religion. end of story.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
completely different. Sex is animal, love is human
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
scary, completely exposed, wouldn't want to do it again
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
you shouldn't, but I am at the moment living with my boyfriend,
so I'm not sure how to defend that one.
--Regarding Risks
giving up my virginity to my present boyfriend
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Life stinks
--A funny relationship story:
how retarded my first boyfriend was, and all the stupid things he
did in the name of "love"
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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Thu Aug 22 13:07:17 2002
Anonymous Guest 27 in , Michigan =USA=
F27 in , Michigan =USA=
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My Astrology: I am a Taurus. I really find that this astrological world
can be true if you really get the facts of it and not the vague
descriptions. There are some characteristics that are just dominant
in each particular astrological sign that can't be ignored.
I'm a: Taurus Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
You meet someone--> you communicate --> you find that you have
common interests --> if you are able to still communicate on a clear,
*real* level and want to, then you have just begun a relationship.
Relationship= two people, two lives, one idea.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love, albeit intense and short.
Very bitter ending which still leaves me
seeing the person
to this day and having that familiar twinge in my stomach.
--The best things about relationship are:
The period of time AFTER the honeymoon period. When you've really
begun to just know each other. That feeling when the person is
really there for you and you need to feel that you aren't alone.
To know that someone really cares about you and what happens to you.
--The worst things about relationship are:
When they hurt you, whether it be intentionally or not.
Often times,
it's not intentional and those moments tend to heal quickly with a
genuine "I'm sorry". However, those times when it is deliberate, I'm
finding one never really does heal from that scar of broken trust.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Truth. I want someone that tells the truth and acts in such a manner
that they would never *have* to lie.
I want someone who is not
afraid to stand up for themselves and has bonafide convictions and
morals.
Someone who knows the true definition of right and wrong.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be stronger in knowing that I deserve to be treated in
the
same way that I treat others. With loyalty, respect, and honor.
I need to stop believing that people will change
with my help.
They will only change aspects of themselves that cause pain to
others by themselves, I can't help them.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I yell. I get mad and I yell. This comes from my upbringing. I was
raised by a screamer. In my mind, I toned it down to a yeller,
but that's not quite the way to go.
I'm also too trustworthy.
I want so much to believe the person when I *know* they are lying
to me, because I don't want to be left alone. So that being said,
I'm too afraid to be alone as well.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
not sure how to answer this.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I'm different on this. I was a mother and a wife at 20.
I had
2 children at 21. I had to grow up quickly.
This word to me
means that you are responsible for the other person's emotions
and feelings. Their well-being. In every relationship we are
in, we take something from. We leave our mark on that person.
We have the choice to either leave a warm mark where that person
smiles when they think of us or feels secure, or we can leave the
mark of pain and hurt from things we've said or done. Either way,
we are not forgotten.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
one person is always a listener, one person is always the
griper/stubborn one. Now, this can switch at any given time,
it just depends on the issue at hand.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The ability to make me laugh and forget about what's on my mind on
a daily basis. Not many people can do this.
I'm very serious and
don't really know how to enjoy life in general unless it comes to
my children.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I think it depends on the mind set of the people. For example,
I know a couple where the woman is 26 and the man is almost 38.
To some people this would seem too large of an age difference.
However, these two people are of like mind. She is very mature and
he is very young minded.
They meshed on that level. I think it
depends on maturity, not age.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
to each their own.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am straight, where as some others would label me as "bi-curious".
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
that the people are open minded to what one another needs to feel
complete in this world. If one needs to have a set religion to
get the moral lessons that they need, let them.
If the other one
needs to look into a more new age spiritual approach, let them!
All that matters is that they feel complete.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
in a relationship, they are both equally important separate as well
as together. For women, sex is not a good thing unless there is
love involved. For men, love is not a complete thing unless sex
is involved. For either side, sex is a sign of real intimacy.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
excitement. that rush of heat that you don't understand completely
but like. that tingling feeling that goes through you that you
can't control. That smile on your face that you can't be rid of,
no matter what.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I believe totally in living together before marriage. I think
nowadays, the meaning of marriage is very unclear and abused.
Divorces are the end result of most marriages due to lack of
communication and getting to know the patterns and personalities
of our mates. The only real way to do this is to co-habitate.
Only then can you learn that this person has that oh so annoying
habit of watching tv until the late hours of the night and you
can't sleep without him.
--Regarding Risks
my friendship with my best friend. From a distance, in our college
class, she did not appear like the person I am able to click with.
She seemed very young, very bubble-headed but yet cranky at the
same time. She seeked *me* out. She would always try and catch
me after class and try to talk to me. One night, I was dealing
with a real crisis on my own and she convinced me to talk to her.
I found my best friend in the world and I'm convinced now that we
were sisters in another life time.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I'm a victim of this. I had a partner that lied to me and told me he
was clean. He wasn't. And I'll have to live with his lies for the
rest of my life. Luckily, it wasn't AIDS, but it's still something
that will never go away and I have to tell my future partners.
Currently I'm engaged to be married again and my mate knows.
However, you never feel as dirty and low as when you have to tell
the person that you have fallen in love with that you have a disease
like this. Especially when you get it like I did, from a lie.
--A funny relationship story:
The times where you are really angry at each other and something
so stupid and off the wall happens, that you can't help but laugh.
Back when I was married, my husband at the time and I were fighting
about something irrelevant. I was sitting on the bed, and he was
attempting to make it. Well, when I'm in a fight with anyone,
I get really ridiculously stubborn. I wouldn't move so he could
take the sheets off.
So he decided to pull a Houdini and pull
them off out from under me. The flannel sheets had been washed
one too many times and decided to rip completely in his hands,
sending him backwards off balanced. He landed right on his bum,
holding this piece of flannel with an expression of disbelief and
amusement. We laughed. We laughed until we cried. Then we hugged.
Then the fight was long forgotten. He and I aren't married anymore,
but I'll never forget that moment.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
Watching what my friends went through as well.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
I was raised by a single mother that wasn't too happy about life
nor anything else for that matter.
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I found it to be helpful in reflecting on things.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
I didn't understand this question:
"In the case of a partner's
habits and how they might relate to my ability to accept them and
be happy in
relationship or not, I'd say..."
I wasn't sure
if this was asking about what I could handle and what I couldn't/
OR how I handled the habits alltogether.
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Wed Aug 21 03:16:15 2002
Anonymous Guest in Springfield, MO =USA=
F in Springfield, MO =USA=
Name:
Email: <Nianda666-at-yahoo.com>
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... as an escape from my parental unit so
to speak...I felt that if I was required to perform
responsiblities as an adult that I should also have the
rewards of an adult..didn't work out that way though
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
truth, honesty, consideration and thoughtfulness. To be treated
as the other person would like to be treated and thought of.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
less critical,more open to new ideas.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
each person has to find his/her own path..whether it be in sexuality
or faith. We ultimately find that which we seek, whether or not
it is truly that which we desire.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none-
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
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Fri Aug 9 08:35:22 2002
Anonymous Guest 16 in Guildford, Surrey =England=
F16 in Guildford, Surrey =England=
Name: Rachel Wood
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My Astrology: it doesnt matter really but i do belive it plays a huge part
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
You can feel blissfully happy or totlly depressed and it usually
aa total rollarcoster ride,
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... strange.I fell in love and we were
talking bout marriage.
--The best things about relationship are:
Curling up watching tv or sumthing
--The worst things about relationship are:
learning to trust the other person
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who takes me for who i am
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Change the way i look and learn not to be so wierd or annoying
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i rush into things and keep my guard up
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
they need to be sensible and be able to challabge me
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
not hurting the other person
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i make a mess of things
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the eyes coz u can tell so much
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age dont matter but i prefere people my own age
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
people know what they feel
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i find sum girls attractive and i feel no problem bout being with
another woman, but i prefer to be with men
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
as long as they respect my beliefs i dont mind as i will respect
theres
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love is deep,sex is just sex.however sex is much more with love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
pain hurt rape
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
hey if it feels right just do it
--Regarding Risks
letting them see the real me is the biggest risk
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
eak scary
--A funny relationship story:
skipping through town
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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Anonymous Guest 48 in dunedin, =new zealand=
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Prof/Studies: security and studing massage therapy
My Astrology: i lke to know, but its the person that counts. believe or not,
i seem to be attracted to the right signs.
I'm a: Libra Sun; with Moon; and rising.
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... love
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
romance, talking, laughs and fanatsy
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
spontinaity
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
talk openly and not be judged
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
to be there for them
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i listen
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the eyes, expression and smile
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it doesnt matter. i see the soul
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
each person to their own
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
hetrosexual
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
sprituality yes, religion no
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are different but i have to love to have sex
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
anxious
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i will never marry again
--Regarding Risks
i dont risk
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
precaution
--A funny relationship story:
i am not funny
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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My Astrology: i lke to know, but its the person that counts. believe or not,
i seem to be attracted to the right signs.
I'm a: Libra Sun; with Moon; and rising.
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--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... love
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
romance, talking, laughs and fanatsy
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
spontinaity
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
talk openly and not be judged
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
to be there for them
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i listen
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
the eyes, expression and smile
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it doesnt matter. i see the soul
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
each person to their own
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
hetrosexual
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
sprituality yes, religion no
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are different but i have to love to have sex
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
anxious
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i will never marry again
--Regarding Risks
i dont risk
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
precaution
--A funny relationship story:
i am not funny
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Anonymous Guest 25 in Karachi, =Pakistan=
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My Astrology: no it dosen't
I'm a: Virgo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and Who cares!? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
mental bond between two individuals
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Love... i fell in Love
--The best things about relationship are:
Trust
confidence
honesty
faithfulness
understanding
complementary nature
--The worst things about relationship are:
distrust
keeping more expectations than the other can fulfill
being trapped in a relationship
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
it to b like My Love... plus minus a few things ofcourse
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
change my anger
level f understanding
learn not to Love to the
extremes
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i trust ppl very easily n trust them blindly
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
everything goes as no one's perfect! Love the other person for what
n who he/she is!
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
care
love
understanding
well being
protection
interdependence
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it differs from ppl to ppl n from situation to situation n also
upon the mental understanding of the two involved
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes
--Regarding Age in Relationship
physical age dosen't matter... mental age does! u could have a
body of a 25 year old bt a mental understanding n maturity of a 30
year old.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
different ppl have different levels of straightness
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i am straight!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
religion in a relationship dosen't matter
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they r worlds apart
--Regarding Risks
invasion of my personal space n time
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
stick to ur wife!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Very Young Child
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
deep thinking n intuition
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Silence & Taboos
perceptional differences
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Anonymous Guest 19 in dedham, ma =USA=
F19 in dedham, ma =USA=
Name: meredith
Email: <merijane3-at-hotmail.com>
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My Astrology: astrology doesn't matter to me at all in a relationship. i don't
think about if me and my guy are compatible according to our signs
or anything. it doesn't matter.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship begins when two people like eachother more than just
friends. when you are around that person you get nervous, excited,
and extremely happy. if the other person feels the same you then
you may begin a relationship. during this relationship the people's
feelings may grow until they are in love.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...filled with love. it was too mature
of a relationship for two teenagers to handle. i loved him
and can still see myself marrying him some day.
--The best things about relationship are:
The laughs and the feeling of loving somebody and being
loved. knowing that there is a person other than the people related
to you that loves you with all of their heart and are always there
for you. i'd also have to include the drunkin sex that some people
may have in their relationship. now that is always a good time.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Trusting eachother is sometimes difficult to do when the other
person in the relationship has messed up once. fights are always
hard. the feeling that you are going to loose the person you love
puts a terrible feeling right in the gut of your stomach. all the
bad things are forgotten however as soon as the two of you are
happy again. the laughs always weigh out the tears.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
somebody who trusts me and who likes me for who i am. i don't want
to have to hold things back from the person i'm in a relationship
with, i want to be myself. i need to be able to laugh with the other
person in the relationship i'm in. they need to be able to listen
to what i have to say and sometimes give me advice but sometimes
they need to just listen.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not get so jealous of other girls. realize that your guy wouldn't
be in a relationship with you if he wanted other girls. trust is
the basis of all relationships. i could also not get so angry when
he wants to hang out with his friends and not me.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i smoke and some people won't be in a relationship with a person
that smokes. i don't really know if that is what you're asking but...
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
i can't deal with somebody who chews with their mouth open but if
this was the case with the person i was in a relationship with i
would just tell them.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
keeping the other person in the relationship happy. you have the
responsiblity to cheer them up if they are sad, to listen to them
if they need to talk, and to be there for them no matter what.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
it sucks. i hate talking serious talk when i'm in a relationship. i
am a type of person that doesn't talk about my feelings often so the
other person tends to get mad when i do not want to talk about what
is bothering me. i can be a great listener i just don't like to talk.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality. i need to be able to laugh when i am with the person. i
also however love eyes and smile. if a boy has beautiful eyes and
a perfect smile i will be more likely to start talking to them if
i haven't already.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter at all. my favorite movie is based on how age
doesn't matter. it is about a 18 year old boy who falls in love with
a 79 year old women. you can't help who you fall in love with and you
shouldn't have to like somebody who is around your age. its not your
fault if the person you love was born 10 years after you/before you.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
i believe that people can be somewhere in between being straight
or gay.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i actually believe that i am somewhere in between. i am attracted to
men but i am also attracted to some women. if i fell in love with
a women i would go for it. like i said before, you can't help who
you fall in love with. i have had sexual experiences with both men
and women and have liked them both the same. both sexes turn me on.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it doesn't matter if people from two different religions are in a
relationship unless it bothers the people that are actually in the
relationship. you can't help who you fall in love with.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are one. i will not have sex with somebody that i don't
love. sex with random people just isn't as good as it is when you
are having sex with somebody you love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
i was petrified. i was scared that i wouldn't be good, that it
would hurt but once it began i stopped being so scared. we went
really slow so it wouldn't hurt and i realized that being good at
having sex was something you have to work at. he was also a virgin
and we had to get the same rythm before we were all about it.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
it doesn't really matter to me. i don't think that people who
live together before they are married are bad people. i personally
probably won't live with my other before we're married because i
want it to be exciting and new once we're married.
--Regarding Risks
telling my new boyfriend about my past. i have had past that is
considered wild by some people and i had to tell my boyfriend all
of it. he didn't mind though because he understood that was the
past and it brought us closer together.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
it is scary to think about. in my first relationship me and my
boyfriend were both virgins so i didn't worry about it but now
that i have a new boyfriend, he has a lot more sex partners than
i have and that scares me. me and my new boyfriend haven't had sex
yet and that is one of the reasons why. i have to know his history
before i just jump in bed with him because some of those diseases
are with you for life.
--A funny relationship story:
me and my ex were fooling around in the back of my car. for some
reason he had taken off his boxers and stuck them out the window,
rolling the window up so they wouldn't fall off. he then forgot
about them and we began driving awhile later. we could hear a strange
noise but we didn't know what it was until my ex turned around. he
screamed "my undies are flapping out the window." we laughed about
that for a very long time.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
people just learn about relationships as they grow.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends
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i highly enjoyed filling out this questionnaire. it made me think
of some things and it made me remember my ex boyfriend.
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Mon Jul 15 16:40:08 2002
Anonymous Guest 32 in New York, =Ireland=
F32 in New York, =Ireland=
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My Astrology: Astrology is interesting and I always read up on a partner or
potential one it's fun The Chinese astrologhy is more accurate
though.
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--Relationship Is:
Relationships have to be formed slowly. It's where you can be
yourself and still know your partner loves you as you are. It's
when you feel fuzzy and warm inside when you see your partner,
a smile from them warms your heart. Knowing your opinion matters
with your partner. So much more though.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love i suppose but it lasted
over a year I was 14 at the time
--The best things about relationship are:
Getting to know your partner in good and bad situations.Passion
lovemaking likes dilikes finding all you have in common or not in
common, experiencing new things together travelling to new places
--The worst things about relationship are:
Compromising. Remaining faithful. Issues over finances. Boring
sex life maybe after long term relationship. Knowing waht they are
going to say next or how they will react in a given situation
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
They must have a sense of humour, not use bad language,have varied
interests,should not be too keen on watching sports, but should be
active in at least one sport. Like their own company and understand
that I like my own too. should be comfortable and secure when we
socialze seperately. Ambitious. Should not tell me how to spend
my money.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Less bossy. Follow things through when I say I'll do something. Be
more ambitious. Get involved more at partner's families get together.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
This is selfish bt I answer to myself first then I worry then about
my partner.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Each partner is too busy formulating what they are going to say
next that no one is really listening to the other. Arguments and
disagreements always seem to be the same tpoic/issue
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Eyes and manners
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I think it is best to look for someone within the 2-5 years of each
other. However if it's totally phyiscal who cares about the age then!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think yes some people can be a o or 7 but I know lots of people
that lie in between too.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Straight but I'm open to experiencing at least one time with a
woman. Who knows?
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
No problem with religion as long as they are not over religious
and do not try to impose it on me.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Two things that are entirely different. However I do notice that
US women/men sometimes have a harder time seperating the two,
as opposed to Europeans who have more of distintion between the
two. (I'm from Europe)
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I remember it clearly it was over before we knew what happened we
were both virgins. However we practised lots of times over the next
year so I'll always cherish it.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Live together but know that the time may come when one partner may
want to comitt and the i\one does not.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
A very scary thing for me. I do practise safe sex but not while
performing or receiving oral sex.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model
Been open to new things and liking myself
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Anonymous Guest 44 in armidale, nsw =australia=
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i married the goat. the bull was boring too unassertive in the end.
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--Relationship Is:
A loving intimate relationship is based on acceptance of each other
and is uplifting. It nurtures us and allows us to feel good about
ourselves. I love the feeling of it first hitting u like a bolt of
lightning, and u find yourself not wanting to live another minute
without this person.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...it was puppy love, but I loved how
the guy had pet names for me, I was 15 he had chocolate
coloured skin and i was so attracted to this as well as
his height and ruggered goodlooks.
--The best things about relationship are:
Togetherness, companionship, the human touch (is there anythign
more powerful and loving)?
--The worst things about relationship are:
if he is an alcoholic and u r a codependent, it becomes very needy,
desperation sets in, it is controlled by fear.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone easy on my eyes that makes my heart do backflips when i look
at him, someone who is assertive, who won't let me treat him like a
doormat. Someone who doesn't come with much baggage, who can devoted
as much time and attention to me as I like. Being able to cook with
me in the kitchen and who is handy with outdoor work, athletic build
with dark skin. Someone who has his own money to spend (not mine).
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
more appreciative, less moody, control my temper tandrums
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I love my own space, I love chocolate, I'm a workaholic
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
its the little things that irk me, like if i want a leisurely Sunday
breakfast andhe is eager to wash the dishes. i like to stroll,
and he is always in a hurry
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I'm loyal, reponsible and committed to the relationship if i'm in
love. I recently ended a relationship cause i could not commit to
it any longer. but with my husband i was in there until death do
us part.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I'm the aggressor, I'm the talker, I'm the critic, he shuts down.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I loved the way my ex was tall dark and handsome, atheletic type,
filled out his jeans real nice, he stood out in a crowded pub,
with his infectious happiness, but I'm attracted to dark skin (his
was white though). i love a head of hair..not bald. I love a hairy
chest, I love great smiles
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I've been most comfortable with the guy being a tad older but almost
the same age (my ex was 12 months exactly older). But a guy younger
no more than 5 years would not offend me these days.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
each to their own, I'm straight and happy about it. I think the
guy i recently split with had gay tendencies and that disgusted
me. fine but not with me.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
straight
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I have a gr8 friend, whom i could love, but his faith keeps him
away from entering a relationship with me. I'm into spirituality,
but shun from religion and church authorities
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I've been confused thinking the two r as one. Experience has taught
me differently. suffering alot of hurt along the way
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was horrible, it was pressurized by the guy who was experience and
just like to take girls virginities, he attached all the trappings of
love, honour and commitment to it until he had his wicked way. Came
conquered left.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I lived with my husband for 11 years....it worked for us, we married
then within 18 months it was over. Big mistake big HUGE
--Regarding Risks
I surrendered myself completely to the man i married, i loved him
warts and all...he left me after 13 years...that hurt. i'm very
cautious now.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I believe in serial monogamy, I had only one partner for 13 years
adn we did not practise safe sex, because i beleived we only had
sex with each other, later i found out the truth and had an aids
test. 'if its not on, its no on' is my slogan now
--A funny relationship story:
I ove chitter chatter with a special girlfriend on her bosessions
over particular men, when we got together recntly and she was telling
me of her favourite fantasy, he just happened to walk by us and it
sent us both into hysterics, becuase she would never allow herself
to make a physical pass at him, but the adrenalin rush was their
for us just the same.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
experience
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
zero support, acceptance or approval from my parents or brothers
on any relationship I entered into
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it was ok. nothing that I have not talked about in my CoDA group
during my recovery programme.
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Anonymous Guest 44 in armidale, nsw =australia=
F44 in armidale, nsw =australia=
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My Astrology: my girlfriend told me i was best suited to a Capricorn or a Taurus,
i married the goat. the bull was boring too unassertive in the end.
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--Relationship Is:
A loving intimate relationship is based on acceptance of each other
and is uplifting. It nurtures us and allows us to feel good about
ourselves. I love the feeling of it first hitting u like a bolt of
lightning, and u find yourself not wanting to live another minute
without this person.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...it was puppy love, but I loved how
the guy had pet names for me, I was 15 he had chocolate
coloured skin and i was so attracted to this as well as
his height and ruggered goodlooks.
--The best things about relationship are:
Togetherness, companionship, the human touch (is there anythign
more powerful and loving)?
--The worst things about relationship are:
if he is an alcoholic and u r a codependent, it becomes very needy,
desperation sets in, it is controlled by fear.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone easy on my eyes that makes my heart do backflips when i look
at him, someone who is assertive, who won't let me treat him like a
doormat. Someone who doesn't come with much baggage, who can devoted
as much time and attention to me as I like. Being able to cook with
me in the kitchen and who is handy with outdoor work, athletic build
with dark skin. Someone who has his own money to spend (not mine).
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
more appreciative, less moody, control my temper tandrums
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I love my own space, I love chocolate, I'm a workaholic
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
its the little things that irk me, like if i want a leisurely Sunday
breakfast andhe is eager to wash the dishes. i like to stroll,
and he is always in a hurry
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I'm loyal, reponsible and committed to the relationship if i'm in
love. I recently ended a relationship cause i could not commit to
it any longer. but with my husband i was in there until death do
us part.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I'm the aggressor, I'm the talker, I'm the critic, he shuts down.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I loved the way my ex was tall dark and handsome, atheletic type,
filled out his jeans real nice, he stood out in a crowded pub,
with his infectious happiness, but I'm attracted to dark skin (his
was white though). i love a head of hair..not bald. I love a hairy
chest, I love great smiles
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I've been most comfortable with the guy being a tad older but almost
the same age (my ex was 12 months exactly older). But a guy younger
no more than 5 years would not offend me these days.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
each to their own, I'm straight and happy about it. I think the
guy i recently split with had gay tendencies and that disgusted
me. fine but not with me.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
straight
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I have a gr8 friend, whom i could love, but his faith keeps him
away from entering a relationship with me. I'm into spirituality,
but shun from religion and church authorities
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I've been confused thinking the two r as one. Experience has taught
me differently. suffering alot of hurt along the way
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was horrible, it was pressurized by the guy who was experience and
just like to take girls virginities, he attached all the trappings of
love, honour and commitment to it until he had his wicked way. Came
conquered left.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I lived with my husband for 11 years....it worked for us, we married
then within 18 months it was over. Big mistake big HUGE
--Regarding Risks
I surrendered myself completely to the man i married, i loved him
warts and all...he left me after 13 years...that hurt. i'm very
cautious now.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I believe in serial monogamy, I had only one partner for 13 years
adn we did not practise safe sex, because i beleived we only had
sex with each other, later i found out the truth and had an aids
test. 'if its not on, its no on' is my slogan now
--A funny relationship story:
I ove chitter chatter with a special girlfriend on her bosessions
over particular men, when we got together recntly and she was telling
me of her favourite fantasy, he just happened to walk by us and it
sent us both into hysterics, becuase she would never allow herself
to make a physical pass at him, but the adrenalin rush was their
for us just the same.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends
experience
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
zero support, acceptance or approval from my parents or brothers
on any relationship I entered into
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it was ok. nothing that I have not talked about in my CoDA group
during my recovery programme.
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Thu Jun 13 17:18:16 2002
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1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age
How'd I do? How well
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