Some Recent Questionnaire Respondents. . .
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Tue Aug 7 09:26:56 2007
Anonymous Guest 36 in , =UK=
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--Relationship Is:
Another person in your life who becomes integral to most aspects
of you.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...intense, but i fell inove too quickly
--The best things about relationship are:
Sharing/. making plans together. snuggling up on a cold night on
the sofa.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Being vunerable. Once someone means a lot to you its very easy to
become hurt
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
to belong. To have mutual respect and love.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be less paranoid and take responsibilty for my own happiness
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I sometimes dilute my personality because i'm so afraid of offending
anyone
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
i'd lve him to open up more
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I like the fact that my partner and I can talk about anything but
neither of us are confrontational, which is good. I don't lilek
argueing
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
his brains! i can't laugh or be interested in anyone for veyr long
if they can't make me think
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
You may be form different background or cultures and even have a
differnet faith, BUT your core beliefs and values on life have to
be similar to make it work
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex with someone you love is the most amazing
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
growing up
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Wed Jun 27 05:10:18 2007
Anonymous Guest 48 in LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNA =USA=
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More personal info:
LETS JUST BE KIND TO ONE ANOTHER CAUSE THE WORLD IS NOT HEADED IN A
POSITIVE DERECTION SO SMALL GOOD DEEDS CAN MAKE YOU DAY AND SOMEONE
ELSES..IT IS MUCH EASIER TO LIVE WITH NO TIME FOR ANGER
RE: Handwriting: NO
RE: My HW: A LOOK OF BEING SMART
AstroInfo: NO I LOVE IT I JUST AN NOT IN THE KNOW MY RYTHUMS
I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Aquarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Recommended Reading-- Titles:
A COURSE IN MIRICALS
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
CHANNLED
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--Relationship Is:
LIVE IN LOVE-TRUE LOVE AND LUST FOR AT ALL TIMES
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
--The best things about relationship are:
DEATH
--The worst things about relationship are:
HURTING EACH OTHER
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
SOMEOMNE WHO CAN HANDLE THEMSELVES IN ANY SITUATION
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
BE WILLING TO LET SOMEONE INTO MY GUARDED HEART
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
THERE ARE ADDITIONS I HAVE TO FILL THE VOID OF HAVING SOMEONE THAT
I COULD NURTURE IN ORDER TO NURTURE AND HOROR MYSELF.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
IT DEPENDS WHAT THE HABIT IS
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
CONCIOUS
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I AM THE ONE ONE WHO ALWAYS WANT TO COMMUICATE SOMTIMES TO MUCH
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A HAPPY STONG SECURE,CLEANE MAN WHO ALMOST HS AN APPEAL AND SOMETHING
ABOUT HIM EVERYBOY SEES, LIKE A BRIGH LIGHT THAT ENTERS THE ROOM
--Regarding Age in Relationship
AGE SOULD NO MATTER IF THEY HAVR EVOLVED TO THE POINT THEY SEARVE
EACH OTHER
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
GAY BUT IS STILL A TOTAL MAN PACHAAGES
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
MEN
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
YOUR SOUL AND YOUR SPIRIT OTWEIGHTS ANY ORGANIZED RELIGION
--Regarding Love and Sex:
LOVE AND GOOD SEX IS A GIFT FOR GOD IN A RELARIONSHIP
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
FIREWORKS
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
STAY INDEPENDANT AND SELL IF IF FELLS RIGHT
--Regarding Risks
TRUTH AND TRUST
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I AM HEALTHY AND HAVE BEEN HIV SINCE 88!!!!! I NEVER FELT BETTER
--A funny relationship story:
HOW OPPOSITES CAN ATRACT AND THAT IN ITSELF CAN BE VERY FUNNY WHEN
LOVE IS PRESENT
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
ALWAYS LOVE WHEN LOVE IS SO HARD TO CALL ON
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Illicit Drugs
GIVING INTOFEAR AND SELF-WORTH
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IT IS FUN AND COVERS ALOT TO THINK ABOUT WHEN YOUVE JUST CONSIDERED
A NEW LOVE
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IS PEMIS SIZ IMPORANT!
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Fri Jun 22 22:21:26 2007
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--Relationship Is:
Was going good and bang one day a bomb exploded and then it was gone
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
communication and doing things together of interest
--The worst things about relationship are:
any type of abuse
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a good listner, communicator, fun loving and family oriented that
expresses or eludes love and kindness
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
learn to slow down a bit
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I could quit smoking otherwise I am a pretty decent person who has
unconditional love to give
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Talking to People
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Thu May 24 19:10:05 2007
Anonymous Guest 23 in banning, california =usa=
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--Relationship Is:
challenging, in the beginning every thing's great when you have
been with someone that you constantly feel you have to put up a
fight for it starts feeling like a roller coaster ride.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... very intense, I was 17 and moved
in with him and parents and other 2 children. he was 3
years older than me. we argued a lot but, we had a lot of
love for eachoter.
--The best things about relationship are:
sleeping in the same bed and cuddling. its such a comforting feeling.
--The worst things about relationship are:
mistrust
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
i need a hard working man.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
listen a little better instead of talking too much.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
living life.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
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Sat Mar 31 20:31:36 2007
Anonymous Guest 44 in St. Louis, Missouri =United States=
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Prof/Studies: Corp. Teller/ Massage Therapist
RE: Handwriting: I don't have a partner at the time, but in the past I have examined
and tried to analyze it.
RE: My HW: pretty
AstroInfo: I am interested for entertainment. I wish it was more accurate
in predictions
I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and Cancer rising.
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--Relationship Is:
Honesty, commited, best friend, supportive, fun, loving, helpful,
caring and enjoy just being with each other
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...Not love at first sight, but did marry.
It ended after 13 years
--The best things about relationship are:
Just hanging out and enjoying each other completely.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Sharing everything. Not having enough alone time.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Loving, commited, supportive, confident, hard working, honest,
caring, love life, enjoy traveling
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Tear down walls of protection. Learn to cook. Open up more.
Not be so afraid.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I take things to heart to literally
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
To make decisions for both people not just me.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I don't respond well to belittling or screaming. I don't feel
like anything get solved like that.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
teeth, eyes, and kindness
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I don't think there is an age limit when you are both adults.
It depends on the people involved.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I choose people as my friends for the type of person they are not
their sexual preference. I have many gay friends who I adore and
most of the time enjoy hanging out with them more than I do my
straight friends.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I am straight and prefer that.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I don't think you have to be of the same religion, I do think that
you have to have a common belief.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Very important
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I was too young.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
To each their own. I prefer to be married first before living
with someone. I need the commitment and stability.
--Regarding Risks
I finally told my close guy friend that there was somehting between
us after 2 years and he chose to go out with an exgirlfriend.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have not had, Thank God to deal with that issue, but I hope that
the person I am sleeping with is being honest because that is a
subject that is always discussed and if I have any doubts either
it doesn't happen or use a condom
--A funny relationship story:
Bad dates
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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I made me think about what I want in a relationship, I have not
thought about that specific.
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Thu Mar 1 06:23:16 2007
Anonymous Guest 41 in Boston, MA ==
F41 in Boston, MA ==
Name: "Mickey"
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Handwritting search
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RE: Handwriting: Its nice to be able to READ it.
RE: My HW: Bold, direct. My printing is all caps and very legible.
My penmenship is appalling.
AstroInfo: I have read it all, and had my chart done twice. I think people just
like to read about themselves (which I why I am on this webpage now).
I'm a: Aries Sun; with Gemini Moon; and Aries rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I relationship is an verbal expression of intimacy with an emotional
connection/commitment. It involves trust, respect, kindness and
love among many other emotional and/or physical descriptives.
Relationships are varied. They can range from work associates
(respect), parents, friends and family (love, trust, respect,
kindness).
--That first relationship was
Puppy love.
--The best things about relationship are:
A life partner. Someone I know I can count on when the foul weather
arrives, as it certaily does.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Trust. I think for the most part men are mostly providing a flowery
verbal presentation, not reliable action. Essentially, in my view,
men are "all talk, no action".
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
It is vital he has the ability to maintain a serious conversation
(an actual dialog), but is able to jump from that to clever
humor. Emotional and mental stability is for me far more important
than financial stability. He has to love to fish, be of higher
intellegence and hopefully be (ahem) adequate...
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I have a controlling side. Being aware of this certainly makes
the dealing of its byproducts easier. I also wish I could trust
more easily. I am still in the midst of wading through this mess
in an effort to overcome its pitfalls.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am prone to make snap decisions and take immediate action. This
isn't to say I do not come right back with an apology, catch my
breath and rethink the issue.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I will not tolerate a man that is inclined to view
pornography. Period.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being responsible for my actions relating to my spouse's needs. In
other words, does my actions/behavior positivly affect him? Am I
acting/behaving in a manner that is respectful? Loving? Am I doing
my part managing money? Chores? Maintaining open communication? Are
his needs being met?
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Communication is vital. I do not raise my voice, but rather
ask for him to sit with me fir a visit and experss my concerns.
Something I have found to be very useful for its bonding value,
it to mention the good I see in him. A day doesn't pass that I do
not mention something positive about him. He is also very quick to
uplift me. Although he is 7 years my junior, he has reached a point
where he can confront ME with issues as well. When "challenges"
arise, we have a loving, yet direct discussion about the issues.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Their "presence". I adore a dominant personality. Full of
confidence. Physically, the first thing I notice is their shoulders,
the broader the better. Hair color is next.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age does matter! And I laugh myself into the ground over this,
because I DO believe that, and yet, my fiancee is 7.5 years YOUNGER
than myself! We have quite the laugh over this when the subject
rears its curious little face!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't care. But I am offened that the gay community does. I do
not belive they should get special rights because of what they do
in their bedrooms.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Hetro
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
In my experience and opinion, it cannot be possible without similar
spiritual viewpoints.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love and sex are roommates. Seperate yet very closely linked.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
=)) Disasterous. Hardly felt a thing. Pathetic tiny little guy
he was. I didn't really understand anything until boy #2 came along.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Either. It's up to the couple.
--Regarding Risks
I share my weaknesses with them. I confess to my controlling side,
and my lack of ability to trust. I do this in an effort to establish
open dialog and let him know that I have issues, too.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Whatever. If I take the risk, then I pay for it. We will all die
in the end. Egads!
--A funny relationship story:
OMGosh... I don't have the stamina in my wee little fingers to
complete this one!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
Very curious
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
My first marriage took place just after turning 17. No, I was
not pregnant.
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I think the question descriptions were too much. Instead of
allowing the reader to contemplate the question for themselves,
the webpage basically fed the reader ideas.
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What is up with this sordid porn craze? Why are men so addicted to
sex with pictures, then claims to want a relationship? I know THREE
ladies thus far that have had their homes and families broken apart
from this. It destroys a man's mind and breaks the woman's heart. I
simply do not understand...
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Fri Jan 19 00:27:43 2007
Anonymous Guest 24 in montreal, quebec =canada=
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RE: Handwriting: I have never thought about it although I came to this website
hoping to get some information on the handwriting of a guy I find
very interesting...
RE: My HW: no comment.
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--Relationship Is:
I think a relationship is about making each other's lives better,
making each other better. it is fundamentally about raising a
family. the person should stimulate you, motivate you, understand
you and besides helping you to achieve they must be there for you
when times are difficult, they must be there to pick you up. They
should have a good sense of who you are. There should be mutual
respect. There should be a balance between the two people.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... very intense, very physical and also
very intellectual. It was passionate, that was all I was
interested in, I did not understand what relationships
were about.
--The best things about relationship are:
Having someone who knows you so well and cares about so much that
they know and want to do exactly what you need to put a smile on your
face. Coming home to a warm hug. Comfort. Having someone to talk to.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Sometimes you can loose yourself in a relationship, it is important
to consider the other and compromise but you must not let the other
impeed on your needs and dreams. it is difficult, in this day and
age, with all the choices we have, to be sure that you are with
the right person.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
I would like someone that is smart, funny, that can see inside
me. Someone I can be goofy with and someone that I could talk to
for hours. Someone that has empathy for the world.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I would have to stop compromising too much. I would have to affirm
myself and let the person know who really am. I would have to go
out with their friends more often.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am a very secretive person, sometimes I should tell more about
myself instead of hoping that the other can see right through me.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I have been able to love someone not in spite of, but including
any bad habits. I am very open, maybe a little too much.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking care of the other person. Letting them know where you are
if that's appropriate, for example if you're living together and
can't come home one night. Making sure that you are doing as much
as your partner.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Me and my current boyfriend have very different styles. I like to
communicate, to argue, to have a passionate discussion. He does not
respond to me right away, I might have a big fit or a big intense
discussion and he will come back to me a few days later sometimes
with a response. In our case it is all about upbringing.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I think the face in general is the first thing but for me to be
interested I have to be touched somehow by his personnality.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age does not matter only because it is all quite relative. I think
it is more a question of timing and wanting the same things.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I think it makes sense that there would be a continuum, after all
nothing is black or white in nature, nothing is that cut and dry.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I will always love men, but I can certainly appreciate a woman
esthetically, but her charm also.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If both partners can agree that their different faiths can live
together then there is no problem. I think that the reason for
believing is the most important to be on the smae page for both
partners.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I think sex is important in a relationship, it is a way to stay
close or get close to your partner wihtout the akwardness of words.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was with a guy that I really liked. I did not feel pressure to
perform, he pretty much took over and led the way. It definitely
got better from that point on.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I don't personnaly believe in mariage, it does not mean a great
deal to me. I am currently living with my boyfriend, and if I were
married I would feel trapped.
--Regarding Risks
I remembering opening myself up to a boyfriend when I was going
through rough time. Looking back, I think it scared him away but
I would not change the way I acted because he was imply not for me.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I have been in a relationship for the past four years. Today I have
a greater awareness of these realities but back then I did not pay
much attention to it, did not think it could happen to me.
--A funny relationship story:
Me and my current boyfriend have our own goofy language. If ever
people saw us at our most extreme they would be shocked. We are
pretty insane.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
It came to me when I realised what I needed from a relationship and
I could then relate to the other better. The most important thing
was to understand the importance of communication.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
I would run into any relationship without thinking. It had to fuel
my passion.
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I have been thinking about relationships a lot these days and so
most of these questions I was laready thinking about.
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Fri Sep 29 13:57:10 2006
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RE: My HW: no ones ever commented
AstroInfo: I'm gemini through and through! Don;t really pay serious attention
to astrology, but often find descriptions of geminis match my
general personality
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--Relationship Is:
INteracting with another person on a level that goes deeper that
that which you hold with most people. Having someone to share your
interests, your time, laughter, dissappointments, physical love with
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... a frienship that turned into a
firey fling
--The best things about relationship are:
great sex, laughter, challenge, excitment
--The worst things about relationship are:
communications, maintaining a high level of excitment and interest,
maintaining a common direction
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who believes in me, who is supportive, who respects me and
my goals, who makes me laugh, who has a compatable libido level
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
listen more, communicate better
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
it is easy to hang onto something for the sake of comfort, or for
fear of the unknown. I am sometimes an enabler
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
if you earn my trust, respect and love, I am extremely loyal.
Break that trust and you'll never get it back.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I tend to notice eyes first - but mostly smile and sense of humour -
and I think I see or look for those things in the eyes.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I married someone 10 years older than me. Not an issue in our
early life, but right now I am a very young 40 year old and he is a
very old 50 year old so we have what sometimes seems like a30 year
age gap. Makes for some difficult times, but will probably seem
less again as time goes on. I'm not sure there is one " right "
answer - each individual's response to aging is so different.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Honestly haven't given it alot of thought. Live and let live.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm pretty much straight hetro. I do appreciate aesthetically
when someone of the same sex has a nice body, but don't have any
desire to explore it any further than that. I think its more an
appreciation of someone who takes good care of themself.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they are very heavily intertwined
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was somewhat dissappointing as he had conflicting issues around
his religion. ( Good Catholic Boy)
He was gung-ho to have sex, but
immediately upon taking my virginity decided that that was a sinful
(bad) thing to do and was stupid. Thanks! It was somewhat painful,
but not bad - no rockets going off, but not awful either.
--Regarding Risks
don't have one - I'm pretty open to taking chances, and giving
people opportunities.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Protect yourself, and be honest with your partner(s) about your
previous history. Give them the choice as to whether or not they
want to risk their health.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
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Wed Sep 20 14:06:18 2006
Anonymous Guest 38 in Janesville, Wisconsin =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Non-Profit Program Administrator
RE: Handwriting: I'd love to analyze his handwriting. I think he's very tense and
his writing tends to be very small and tight. His face just looks
absolutely stern whenever he writes. It would be interesting.
RE: My HW: No comments from others. I think it is ok but not on a consistent
basis. If I'm writing a lot it shifts in technique.
AstroInfo: I haven't really noticed a consistency in compatibility between any
sign and mine. But I do check my yahoo horoscope, life and career,
daily and it's pretty accurate.
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--Relationship Is:
The coexistence of two or more people from different backgrounds and
experiences, each making a commitment to be good and loving to one
another despite their differences. Two people committing to caring
for, sharing with, spending time with, and respecting each other.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... what I thought would be a summer fling
but turned out to be a 6 year relationship. The person,
I thought at first, was just 3 years older than me but he
soon confessed to being 6.5 years older than me. We lived
in different cities, continued dating others, saw each other
when we were in each other cities, wrote and talked on the
phone regularly the entire time.
--The best things about relationship are:
The first kiss. The complete chaos and uncertainty of letting
yourself fall in love.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Jealousy, doubt, and the complete chaos and uncertainty of letting
yourself fall in love.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A nice guy. Someone respectful, funny, relatively optimistic,
a hard worker, someone who shares at least one of my interests,
someone who can be independent and still make time for me, someone
with a big heart and genuine love and respect for his family and
friends, someone without gender biases.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be less accomodating and more independent, be more outgoing, be
more accepting of love.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I tend to want to be right, not necessarily in control, but right.
That can cause arguments.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I am accomodating. They may infuriate me at times, but I get
over it.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Understanding the other persons needs and choosing your actions
accordingly. In my first relationship I somehow totally grasped
that he was at this different stage in his life and had no problem
giving him his freedom and actually insisting that we both carry on
our lives with people our own ages and in our own cities. in the
end I ended it because I felt it unfair to keep tagging him along
when I knew I wasn't ready for permanent commitment and he was.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
It always goes back to the idea that each person must recognize
that they both grew up in different environments, different family
settings, and with different experiences. That means we will all
communicate differently and must always seek first to understand
and then to be understood.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
eyes and personality. a man has to be nice, funny, and respectful
and them I'm hooked.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
To each his own. If it happens it happens. But an adult should
always be the careful one and the cautious one when dealing with
someone under 18.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I don't entirely agree. Although a person may find members of the
same sex attractive, that seems as though it would be more out of
comparison sake rather than desire. Doesn't mean they have the
ability to have an intimate relationship with a same sex person.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I have found many a woman sexy and am intrigued with the concept
of two women and a man. I am not at all interested in thoughts of
being just with a woman. It seems empty.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
As long as any person, regardless of reliqion, is not too caught
up in that religions dogma and is more focused on spirituality and
the philosophy of his religion, any couple should be able to work
it out regardless of religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I need to feel loved to appreciate sex. If I'm being disrespected,
or not shown love in daily life, I can't feel like having sex.
Hand in hand if you're in a committed relationship. However,
if you're not, your frame of mind is different and I'd be more
accepting of a playful romp just for the sake of a romp.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
awkward and painful. Not well thought out or well planned.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I did it myself and think it was a mistake. We all have preconceived
ideas of marriage - regardless of whether those concepts are present
in our co-habitation scenario. So shifting from living together to
marriage is heck! It also lends itselt to making lifetime decisions
out of a sense of convenience or comfort, instead of taking a risk,
rather than out of desire.
--Regarding Risks
My first serious relationship. I was young (15) and just clueless
about love or what it felt like. He was 21 and ready for more
in his life. Still we lasted 6 years. It was hard for me to
accept when he said he loved me and hoped to marry me someday.
usually that sort of intimacy would send me running and hiding
for a while. It led to a few break ups before we, usually at my
suggestion, got back together.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It certainly would affect my actions if I were single. I'd either
remain celibate or insist on a condom until monogamy were established
and we both consented to screenings.
--A funny relationship story:
When dating my husband, we rendezvouzed at his parents house when
they were supposed to be out of town. They arrived home to find us
in a rather compromising position on their living room floor. Oops.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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It was very interesting to complete. It does generate a lot of
thought about how I approach this subject.
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Fri Aug 25 18:58:00 2006
Anonymous Guest 23 in orlando, fl =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: as long as everyone can read it and it is leagable then i dont care.
RE: My HW: neat but mess when im in a rush.
AstroInfo: dunno
I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising.
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--Relationship Is:
i would say it is the way i feel around that perosn or thing and
they treat me so good.
--That first relationship was
my first love who is my best guy firned we are still friend
nothing more.
--The best things about relationship are:
love
friendship
have someone there so your not alone
support
sex
having someone who you want to marry and have kids with
giving you love to someone
romance
be romantic for someone
getting attention
giving attention to someone
having someone
else to love other thatn your family
being able to give and share
things with someone
giving and taking
--The worst things about relationship are:
having your partner not get alone with your friends
bad sex
not
commating like you should be
half listening to what is said
lies
cheating
family hating mate
frineds hating mate
mate want you
to be with him and leave your friends
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a kind caring giving person
who is opened minded
wants a wife and
kids
do not have to explain my american jamaican/indian culture
someone who has goals in life and knows how to get them
thy
either graduated college or in college
he has to have GOD in his
life
he has to be not fat or have tendencies to get fat.
he has
to like me just the way iam with every flaw
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
i could get a better job.
be more indepent
be more open with it
come to sex
dont worry and this that my partner is gonna leave or
doing something bad to me like all the other.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
me moving too fast then stopping to king about what i did
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
my partners habits help me. he is so straight forward with me
sometimes he asked me if what is said hurt my feelings and sometimes
he does. he is also overly critical of the things i say and i like
that cause he makes me think of what i say and how i say it.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
50 50 you have to give and take to make a relationship work.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
we all need to claim down when were in an arguement and listen to
the other person then say out peace. we to listen and think about
what we want to say before we say it.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
his voice. and his body and personality.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age is just a number once your a year or two voer 18 then age should
not matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
there is only straight and GOD made us to be straight for a reason
so if your gay .... then your going to hell and thats thats
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
im straight as can be. some of my closest frineds tell me that im
homophobic. and it for a good reason. GOD said he deos not want us
to be gay if you are then your going to hell and thats all to it
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
if my partner and i beleive in GOD and the Bile and that all gays
are going to hell then were are cool he has to want to raise our
kids in the church...
--Regarding Love and Sex:
sex does not equal love. you got to love first then sex comes way
way way later after you have said i love you and meant it. sex is
just something that make too people that love each other with all
there hearts closer physically, spirtually, and emotionally.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
it was the worst experience i ever had
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
nope hell no he will not get marrige previalges before marrige. if
something was to happen i would just be the girlfriend nothing more.
--Regarding Risks
i told a past partner that i was bipolar and that when i was in
second grade... and he used this against me he used the disorder
i had and so fears i had to try to take advange of me and plus he
also held back his self from getting closer to me cause he thought
that i was somewhat crzy cause i have bipolar disorder.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
my partner will be tested before there is sex we both will be. and
we will still wear condoms until marrige.
--A funny relationship story:
when he hinted that he wanted to break up with me because of my
family problem and the fact i got drunk and passed out at his house
and he took care of me but while i was drunk i did some hurtful
things to him infront of his good friends.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations
the problems we had and how i dealed with in the wrong way and this
made evrything worst.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
me freaking out and not telling him some important things and plus
lying about the important stuff.
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it was too long.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
nope
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Sun Aug 13 18:18:39 2006
Anonymous Guest 36 in MB, SC =USA=
F36 in MB, SC =USA=
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Prof/Studies: Mom
RE: Handwriting: I have not had the opportunity to apply it. I've always had the
ability to read people, handwriting is just another aspect of it.
Body language, written language goes hand in hand.
RE: My HW: I am told I have beautiful handwriting.
I can see through 6 years
of journals how moods, state of mind, depression, happiness, etc
changed my writing.
AstroInfo: Love astrology and I've read everything I can-I have the mind of
a sieve and can't retain details. The big chunky stuff stays in
there, so I know each sign and their traits in general. I also
dabbled in Tarot.
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--Relationship Is:
you + chair = relationship between ass and chair. It is a
connection, a transfer of information, a useful often pleasurable
action.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... immature puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
comfort, happiness, strength, friendship, orgasms :) not the fake
ones either because you're honest now.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Moods, learning when not to push the wrong buttons. Not knowing
each other right away and finding out your opinions differ and
trying to find a balance.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who makes me laugh, loves me when I'm ugly, knows when to
leave me alone. I'm lucky like that :)
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Cook more. Learn how to save money.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am a homebody. I am not fond of crowds, like in clubs, since
I'm not even a good dancer. Plus I live in a resort town, where
the traffic is terrible and I don't like being angry. But in the
off season I love the beach! I'm pretty sure I'm not even answering
this question right lol I'm absent minded!
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Either he has no strange habits or I am so used to them that it
has no effect on my relationship.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Since I stay at home it is my responsibility to make sure the house
is clean, dinner is cooked, the laundry is done, the bed is made
and there is iced tea in a glass when he comes home. It is his
responsibility to bring home the bacon and make sure I'm happy
enough to do all that crap up there :)
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
you have to take each situation and work it differently. It is
important not to suppress your feelings and opinions, you just
have to pick your time. Yelling gets you nowhere, but sometimes
you just have to.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The eyes and teeth, having both and all is pretty important, though
I could fall in love with a toothless cyclopse if he made me laugh.
I'm drawn to needy souls.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter, well if you're 55 and she's 12, that's
just sick-but consenting adults over the age of 25 have at it.
Whatever makes you happy.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I really dont get the woding of this question, so I'll answer it
best I can in my own way. I am heterosexual , I've had homosexual
experiences, and I believe that most people do and won't admit it.
Maybe even just thoughts, but the idea is there. People should
just live and let live, who gives a crap what people do behind
closed doors.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Oh, I answered that up there^^^^
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it's all BS. Before there was a need for control, people worshipped
the sun, the moon, the earth, the rain...you get my drift. I have
FAITH. I believe in good and bad, not Heaven and Hell. I believe
we have energies that never go out. I believe some people can tap
into other energies and increase their abilities, it's having faith
in yourself. My partner would (and does) accept that.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
I love sex. I love my man and I love making him happy. He's just
lucky he's the one that found my spot and gave me my first real
orgasm lol
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It hurt and I was scared my mother would find out, so I puked.
Puked the 2nd and 3rd time after that too.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I think it's a great idea to take it for a test drive. You really
don't know someone until you live with them.
--Regarding Risks
I am an open book. People just tell me things. Even if I don't
open my mouth-I must emit an aura of trust. The check out lady at
Wal-Mart told me her marital problems while ringing up my stuff.
I take risks, sometimes to the limits of obscene, but it's just to
maintain my sanity.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Stick with one partner and keep it exciting. If you can't do that
protect yourself!! Protect yourself anyway, kids dont need to come
until after you're sure this is the person you want for a long time.
I mean kids keep you strapped!
--A funny relationship story:
Would I deprive you of a chuckle if I said there have been so many
funny things, I can't remember one of them?
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other:
experience, I guess it's spontanious, but more making a few mistakes
and realizing what worked and what didn't.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy
I worried if God would be mad at me for a while, until hormones
raged and blinded me from caring.
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I dunno, I just answered some questions. I was thinking I would
get feedback.
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
Well, that question about homosexuality was confusing. ANd if I was
totally off the wall and didn't answer a question correctly then
that one probably needs rewording too. Most people like straight
forward, common worded questions. I think unless you target them,
highly intelligent people don't fill these things in. And I think
I'm pretty smart.
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Wed Jul 12 22:14:54 2006
Anonymous Guest 45 in , =USA=
F45 in , =USA=
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RE: Handwriting: Actually, it was very important -= my first husband's handwriting
did not compliment mine as well, and we had ours analyzed. That was
the precursor. . .
RE: My HW: Yup - both my husband and myself have had comments on our
handwriting. My husbands is beautiful and rounded. Mine is neat
and precise, but with flourishes that have been called ornate.
They seem to complement each other.
AstroInfo: Eh. . . Sometimes we read the horoscope, sometimes not.
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--Relationship Is:
I would explain it based on attraction to a person's mind, body
and soul. A mutual attraction. The bonds are formed, and as with
anything, there will be some friction. Stressors will be present,
but the true nature of maintaining a healthy relationship is to work
things through with each other, so that both people grow mentally,
emotionally, and spiritually with each other at a fairly even rate
(relational to each other, of course).
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was puppy love - and most amusing was that
"Puppy Love" by Donny Osmond was indeed the top song of the
year! Red-headed boy named Graham. We rode bikes together,
and wrote notes back and forth in school. Alas, that was
a sweet year in 4th grade, but Graham moved away, and I
think I crushed on someone else . . . Randy, I think. . .
--The best things about relationship are:
The companionship, the love, the support, just being with them
and sharing experiences and life. Nothing is better than shared
memories, sensations, thoughts, dreams, and ideas.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Maintaining the physical balance of family and personal needs.
Sometimes it is also seeking outside advice to heal the relationship
rifts - as the outside viewer often tends to assist in re-calibration
of what is "really" a problem, what is not, and steps for resolution
or concensus with the people involved in the relationship.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A best friend, a confidante, a person who has similar dreams and
goals, one who can share, one who is comfortable with themselves
and others, kindness and helping spirit, willingness to explore
the spirituality, one to be active with. . .
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
I could be more outspoken on some issues, more assertive when I
am dissatisfied, better at standing up for myself, and a little
less insecure.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I am not always willing to talk about problems - as that is
considered whining. I am also too willing to ignore something in
hopes that it will correct itself.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Required to be patient and not too critical.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Taking responsibility for the other person's feelings and doing
your best not to hurt them. Taking responsibility on tasks, chores,
emotional stresses, and sometimes even taking the lead on decisions
- although another part is allowing responsibility to be taken by
the other as well.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Critical. Essential. I am in a relationship with a talker -
a communicator. I am not so much. I will not debate. If there
is an argument, I will usually just sit back and listen rather
than confront. However, after 20 years, I have gotten better about
that - and more diplomatic about saying "bull-s((()"
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Personality, voice, kindness and attitude. Appearances are nice
and a lovely bonus, but that is not what will last you through the
years. . .
--Regarding Age in Relationship
YOu need to have things in common. Common reference points.
JOkes that become one-liners - or even a single word that can bring a
smile to both persons. A common frame of background, music, books,
interests, pursuits. YOu do not have to be twins - but at least
an appreciation of the other's interest and building understanding
between the two. Anything else as to age is irrelevant. If the
understanding is built and expanded upon to provide common referents,
then that is all that is necessary.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
As a biologist, we see continuums of this in nearly every (I won't
say every, because saying all or never tends to be incorrect)
species of animals. Homosexual tendencies begin to show up under
crowded conditions, and have been documented in all hominids.
This continuum is biological in nature (although I also think some
people may tend to "force" their preferences depending on whether
they want to conform or rebel).
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I believe I am mostly heterosexual (saying that, because again,
I mistrust "totally")
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Fairly wide open. I actually married an agnostic. However, we now
both share a same religious preference, although maybe differing
levels of spirituality. HOwever, it is not taboo, and there is give
and take. The most important thing is tolerance - and discussion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Just being with the one you love is wonderful.
However, sex without
love is just sad.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
I think I was excited and disappointed all in the same breath.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It really depends on the people involved. My parents were married
before living together - and are celebrating 40 years of marriage.
I was married to my first husband before living together and finding
out just how incompatible we were. My 2nd current husband and
I lived together for a year, then married, and just celebrated
our 20th anniversary. It really totally depends on the persons
involved. Are they ready for a commitment or just looking for
temporary security (an oxymoron).
--Regarding Risks
When I accepted a date from an upperclassman (and class president)
in highschool that I had admired but had never even considered might
be interested in asking me out! That was terrifying! And exciting!
Lasted for 6 months, and was a really hard "fall" - even though I
recognized the signs of withdrawal first, and I took the steps to
end the relationship. Not something I wanted to do, but it was
necessary, and as a result, maintained a friendship the remained
special.
The second was when I was dating a professional musician,
and he offered several times to fly me out to Nashville with him.
I guess I was too afraid to believe he was truly interested in
maintaining a relationship, so I declined. I will always wonder
on that one. . .
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
We have been very lucky. We have also discussed this with our sons
as they grow up, so they are fully aware (or as aware as possible)
of the dangers of unprotected sexual encounters.
--A funny relationship story:
Actually, some of them are very funny. Come to think of it,
I believe most of them were funny - which is what made them so
very nice.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
My best friend was 6 ft tall in 5th grade, and her boyfriend was an
"older" middle school basketball player. We would talk a lot about
her relationship - but mine was an unrequited crush on a boy named
Dan - the smartest kid in the class, but too shy!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
My other best friend and I were fairly clueless on relationships
with "boys" - so it was really a lack of experience and lack of
interest at that age. . .
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
Yes - I think emotional maturity is a critical factor.
Also,
asking about being friends in a relationship is a good idea.
It worked for us. . .
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Thu Apr 6 05:07:11 2006
Anonymous Guest 19 in Nairobi, =Kenya=
F19 in Nairobi, =Kenya=
Name: Sharon
Email: <nkathaloves@gmail.com>
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RE: Handwriting: I don't bother much about handwriting but I like artistic looking
handwritings with curves. King of like my own. Long looping L's
anr curved F;s
RE: My HW: They always say it's beautiful and unique. Some say it's artistic.
AstroInfo: I'm in love with astrology. I know my star sign though am still
researchng on my moon sign. I'm capricorn so am compatible with
scorpios, cancer
I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
A relationship is a sharing between two willing people who deeply
care about each other and respect eah other.
--That first relationship was
It was more of a hot now cold now relationship. He would go from
hot to cold(He was Gemini!!) so When he was sort of balanced
out, it was fiery.
--The best things about relationship are:
The feeling of oneness, sharing, kindness when sad, no more stuggles
to face alone, a friend I can count on and trust, Oh there are
numerous things!Understanding each other and knowing each other in
and out.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Lack of trust,selfishness,lack of caring, over
possesiveness,pessimism,unbalanced moods of one's partner i.e hot
now cold next..
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
A mature person with a balanced attitude to life, open
minded,funny,optimistic,playful,spontaneous,open,carries his heart
on his sleeve,not shy,passionate,hardworker,trustworthy,must be
my friend.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Stop being stubborn,reduce some of my pride,be more open,trust
enough to say "I love you!",not give up easily when "things aren't
working out"
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I give myself excuses of why I shouldn't approach a guy and tell
him I'd like us to be more than friends saying that it's not done,
I guess am scared of being rejected
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Argumentative partners are my worst followed by Lying to me openly.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Marriage with a capital "M" and Kids with a capital "K"
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
If my boyfriend is obviously mad and is yelling at me I usually
lower my own voice, listen to what he's saying and even if it's
unfair I try to see his point f view. If all else fails I either
walk out or resort to humour.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
The eyes. a persons eyes are what attrat me first to a person then
I start noticing other things. After all "the eyes are the morror
to the soul"
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Age maters. Maturity and experiences help two people to relate
well. The ideal would be someone at most 10 years your senior or
5 years your junior.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
everyone is different altogether. Sexuality doesn't reflect on a
persons character and so I think either way we are all human.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm totally heterosexual.I'm attracted to the opposite sex though
am curious about homosexual affairs though I've never tried it.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
If two people trully love each other, religion doesn't matter as
long as you have the same views on moral issues then this can't
stop a relationship from taking place.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
\love and sex are two different entities.sex can happen between two
people who don't love each other but I believe it's more meaningful
and fulfilling between two people who love each other.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Confusing,awkward, a huge mistake and if I could review it I probably
would have had it with someone else.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
It depends on if I am looking for something long term or short
term. either that or am not too sure about my relationship with
the guy. It could work for some instances though i wouldn't like
to go through it.
--Regarding Risks
None! oh my am so boring!! No risks
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I don't believe someone should let their partner have 100%
trust. When it comes to STD's I say protect yourself and be safe!
--A funny relationship story:
Well me and my boyfriend were kissing at afriens house and when
he walked in on us, My boyfriend pretended to be getting something
out of my eye!
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family
I thhink I learned about relationships thrugh experiencs(my own)
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
My mother and father never had what I could call a real "connection"
so that colored my opinion somewhat about relationships
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I hadn't noticed.
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--Relationship Is:
Codependence and loving partnership
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... intense
--The best things about relationship are:
Stability, trust, loyalty and understanding
--The worst things about relationship are:
time alone, no responsibility
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Someone who understands me and loves me for who I am
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Patience and effort
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How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends
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--Relationship Is:
It's a very complex commitment; to someone whom you care deeply for,
that challenges your spirit daily.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
hugs, kisses, validation, compliments, flirting, goofing around,
laughter, confidentiality, trust, hope, happiness, equality, respect,
dignity, unshakeable love and commitment
--The worst things about relationship are:
anger, disrespect, frustration, lack of trust, lack of communication,
yelling, fighting, verbal and physical attacks, silent treatment,
hurtful words and actions
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
a person who will love me for who I am and will treat me well
and fairly.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
work harder on listening,accept him for who he is, try harder to
work together, not shoot down every idea he has, try to work on
myself more, improve my health so I would have more energy
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I blame others in my life for making my life miserable by holding
them responsible for things tat are missing in my life. I get easily
frustrated and give up to easily on caring about those around me
and my own environment.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My husband gets easily frustrated with my inability to care for
our children's disabilties and how others in society treat our
children and us too. He doesn't like how I give up so easily and
how I let others comments and behaviors bother me. He doesn't feel
like I freely accept him and he feels like my expectations of him
are too demanding and unfair.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
taking care of my family on a daily basis and trying not to lose
my mind or my temper.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
You must try to live, speak cautiously, listen carefully,
fight fairly and respectfully, maintain an unwavering level of
patience,commitment to the other person, self control, and dignity,
above all try not to lose yourcomposure
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality, looks, physique, humor, respectful, honesty, fun to
be with, spontaneity
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter but you should make sure that you really want
to be in a long term relationship with the person by spending
at least one year getting to know one another. Also get to know
someone before having sex because once you go that far there's no
going back. It also throws the relationship into a whole new level;
that could confuse your emotions and true feelings for someone.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
The whole gammit of sexual behaviors and how they are acted out,
has become very distorted by the entertainment industry; and by
other people trying to determine what true love should be like
inside of a "normal society". I don't understand homosexuality or
other distortions of what relationships were meant to be like.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I prefer heterosexuality and being committed to one person of the
opposite sex; and loving that person with all of your soul.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Sometimes if both people have different religious beliefs or
values; it can become a challenging obstacle to overcome in a
relationship. It can become something that can cause much division
between people if not discussed early in the relationship. Some
people can agree to disagree but that's not always the case;
especially when you have a german and irish mixture of temperaments.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and behaviors affect how you canfeel about the sexual part of
your relationship. If your partner just got done tearing you down
verbally; or ignored you all day, and then expects you to bypass
your hurt and have sex there's no way that's happening.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It wasn't all that great in the way that I felt cheated out of
having the fantasy experience. It's portrayed as a big fairy tale
and perfectly wonderful experience; but when there's no love or true
commitment it turns out to be a very empty and hurtful experience.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
it's a lot easier to take a person for granted and to leave
the relationship when you aren't married. Like I said before,
sex without love and a lifetime commitment to your partner is
meaningless and empty.
--Regarding Risks
ten years ago when I decided to get married and have children.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
that if our society were more committed to helping people develop
respectful relationships; and teaching them to respect themselves
enough to not give their bodies to just anyone, sexually transmitted
diseases could be wiped out or at least decreased greatly.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model
life experiences
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
bad parental role models
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helpful in that it made me think about my relationship style
and values
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can't think right now, too tired after all of those questions
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Love others as Christ loved us! Be gentle, loving, caring, kind
and forgiving and you WILL be blessed!
RE: Handwriting: I am receptive to good cursive handwriting or good printing, but
certainly don't let a person's handwriting or printing affect how
much I might or might not love them!
RE: My HW: This has varied, depending on how hurried I was when I wrote
something. Sometimes I've be told my handwriting was beautiful
or neat, but othertimes, I've had complaints that it was basically
illegible!
AstroInfo: I used to read Horoscopes finding things that were "right" and
ignored those that were wrong. I no longer believe in Horoscopes. The
sky has changed so much over time that horoscopes based on today's
dates & signs are wrong anyway.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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"Out of the Shadows" for identifying and dealing with sexual
addiction
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Dr. Patrick Carnes
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--Relationship Is:
A deep, soul-gripping, Creator-given love/tie to another being.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... with my pet lamb, which I bottle-fed
and was then killed in front of me and I was made to eat
her for Sunday dinner. THAT was the first time I sensed a
"love" relationship. I was about 8. The same year, as I
recall, I was incested/raped by an older, same sex, male
family member. He said he loved me...but there was a price.
It went on for 5 wonderful and confusing years.
--The best things about relationship are:
(Agape) love, trust, honesty, reassuring and suportive conversation
and physical contact (like hugs)
--The worst things about relationship are:
In being totally honest, there is the fear of the loved one's
negative reactin to something I might say/have said or do/have done.
There might be expectations I am not aware of or ones that I know,
neither of which I might (always) live up to and might disappoint
the very one I love most dearly!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Intense, intimate agape love, honesty, total trust, reasuring
and supportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) and
verbal confirmation of reciprocal love and compassion, physical
and spiritual beauty!
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Without exception or any further failings, live my life totally
committed to being obedient to Chist's teachings and LIVE those
things for my loved one(s) to know and see are real and consistent -
not stumbling ever agai!
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
My confused, incest-based experience of "love" between two men has
led me to an alcohol and drug-based perverted experience of "love"
- despite a happy marriage, which I abandoned to seek the "real"
love that I felt I was lacking...until I found God's love for me
and shared that with others. THAT was the loe I had been seeking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My partner should be loyal and dedicated to our relationship.
Reliable in what is promised, said or planned to be done. Needs to
be continually honest, loving, caring and compassionate towards me
AND others.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being loyal, reliable, trustworthy, dedicated, committed,
finanically, socially, legally and emotionally "right".
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Always talking openly and spontaneously with each other with love,
respect, honesty and faith in the "foreverness" of the relationship
about ANYTHING: any problem, something funny, plans for the future,
forgiving the past, etc.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A sense of an individual's INNER being, followed by: eyes, behavior
and physical appearance.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I believe love is a state of the SOUL, not the mind or body,
and is beyond consideration of "age". Love is not, at first, a
physical/sexual thing. That might or might not evolve. The most
important thing is that love exists!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe "straight" people can have "gay" experiences, without
jeopardizing their overall "preference" or commitment to their
heterosexual partners. I believe gays are committed to gay liftstyles
- and there are "bi's".
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
My distorted view of love from a man, due to incest at a young age,
led me to seek that same-sex love through most of my adult life,
despite being married and having wonderful children. Finding agape
love was what I needed!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
The beauty of a "love" relationship is that it gives the opportunity
to share the love of Christ with those we love. "Love one another
as I loved you" said Christ! Being of the same "Religion" isn't
important. Belief is!
--Regarding Love and Sex:
As I said above, I believe that love and sex are seperate and sex
might not even ever occur - even in the most sincere and intense
love relationships.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was adult male-to-male child, but I felt human love for the
first time (for 5 years). It felt good being loved! I sought to
recreate that love all my life without success - until finding the
agape love of one Christian for another!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
After 40 years of "drugs, sex, rock 'n roll" wandering in my own
proverbial "desert", I finally found Christ and believe that we
should try our best to be obedient to Him in ALL things and we
should marry and not co-habitate.
--Regarding Risks
Being totally open and honest about my past, and present, life
experiences. My commitments, my dears, my rights and my wrongs.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I belive that, without going into details of one's personal past,
number and sexes of partners, etc., when entering into a sexual,
love relationship, a simple physical and, if needed, medication,
would be best.
--A funny relationship story:
Nothing in particular, but the constant smiling, good humor/demeanor
exhibited by my best friend is my source of fun, self-worth and joy,
as well as the joy of the Lord.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy
Finding the love of God for me was the love I had always sought
but couldn't define - until I found it... The love of one Crhistian
for another!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
- - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - -
I think it was very time-consuming, but exceptionally worthwhile!
Completing your questionnaire helped me analyze and verbalize a
lot of things that were not normally expressed, but probably known
"down deep inside".
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
What is my sexual preference: homosexual vs. heterosexual (a) past) &
(b) present? For me, "love=sexual contact" was with anonymous males,
but now, my agape LOVE can be with a male and/or female. My life
partner? Preferably female.
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Name: Rapha
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More personal info:
Love others as Christ loved us! Be gentle, loving, caring, kind
and forgiving and you WILL be blessed!
RE: Handwriting: I am receptive to good cursive handwriting or good printing, but
certainly don't let a person's handwriting or printing affect how
much I might or might not love them!
RE: My HW: This has varied, depending on how hurried I was when I wrote
something. Sometimes I've be told my handwriting was beautiful
or neat, but othertimes, I've had complaints that it was basically
illegible!
AstroInfo: I used to read Horoscopes finding things that were "right" and
ignored those that were wrong. I no longer believe in Horoscopes. The
sky has changed so much over time that horoscopes based on today's
dates & signs are wrong anyway.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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Recommended Reading-- Titles:
"Out of the Shadows" for identifying and dealing with sexual
addiction
Recommended Reading-- Writers:
Dr. Patrick Carnes
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
--Relationship Is:
A deep, soul-gripping, Creator-given love/tie to another being.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... with my pet lamb, which I bottle-fed
and was then killed in front of me and I was made to eat
her for Sunday dinner. THAT was the first time I sensed a
"love" relationship. I was about 8. The same year, as I
recall, I was incested/raped by an older, same sex, male
family member. He said he loved me...but there was a price.
It went on for 5 wonderful and confusing years.
--The best things about relationship are:
(Agape) love, trust, honesty, reassuring and suportive conversation
and physical contact (like hugs)
--The worst things about relationship are:
In being totally honest, there is the fear of the loved one's
negative reactin to something I might say/have said or do/have done.
There might be expectations I am not aware of or ones that I know,
neither of which I might (always) live up to and might disappoint
the very one I love most dearly!
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Intense, intimate agape love, honesty, total trust, reasuring
and supportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) and
verbal confirmation of reciprocal love and compassion, physical
and spiritual beauty!
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Without exception or any further failings, live my life totally
committed to being obedient to Chist's teachings and LIVE those
things for my loved one(s) to know and see are real and consistent -
not stumbling ever agai!
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
My confused, incest-based experience of "love" between two men has
led me to an alcohol and drug-based perverted experience of "love"
- despite a happy marriage, which I abandoned to seek the "real"
love that I felt I was lacking...until I found God's love for me
and shared that with others. THAT was the loe I had been seeking.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
My partner should be loyal and dedicated to our relationship.
Reliable in what is promised, said or planned to be done. Needs to
be continually honest, loving, caring and compassionate towards me
AND others.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
Being loyal, reliable, trustworthy, dedicated, committed,
finanically, socially, legally and emotionally "right".
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Always talking openly and spontaneously with each other with love,
respect, honesty and faith in the "foreverness" of the relationship
about ANYTHING: any problem, something funny, plans for the future,
forgiving the past, etc.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
A sense of an individual's INNER being, followed by: eyes, behavior
and physical appearance.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I believe love is a state of the SOUL, not the mind or body,
and is beyond consideration of "age". Love is not, at first, a
physical/sexual thing. That might or might not evolve. The most
important thing is that love exists!
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe "straight" people can have "gay" experiences, without
jeopardizing their overall "preference" or commitment to their
heterosexual partners. I believe gays are committed to gay liftstyles
- and there are "bi's".
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
My distorted view of love from a man, due to incest at a young age,
led me to seek that same-sex love through most of my adult life,
despite being married and having wonderful children. Finding agape
love was what I needed!
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
The beauty of a "love" relationship is that it gives the opportunity
to share the love of Christ with those we love. "Love one another
as I loved you" said Christ! Being of the same "Religion" isn't
important. Belief is!
--Regarding Love and Sex:
As I said above, I believe that love and sex are seperate and sex
might not even ever occur - even in the most sincere and intense
love relationships.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
It was adult male-to-male child, but I felt human love for the
first time (for 5 years). It felt good being loved! I sought to
recreate that love all my life without success - until finding the
agape love of one Christian for another!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
After 40 years of "drugs, sex, rock 'n roll" wandering in my own
proverbial "desert", I finally found Christ and believe that we
should try our best to be obedient to Him in ALL things and we
should marry and not co-habitate.
--Regarding Risks
Being totally open and honest about my past, and present, life
experiences. My commitments, my dears, my rights and my wrongs.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I belive that, without going into details of one's personal past,
number and sexes of partners, etc., when entering into a sexual,
love relationship, a simple physical and, if needed, medication,
would be best.
--A funny relationship story:
Nothing in particular, but the constant smiling, good humor/demeanor
exhibited by my best friend is my source of fun, self-worth and joy,
as well as the joy of the Lord.
- - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - -
1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy
Finding the love of God for me was the love I had always sought
but couldn't define - until I found it... The love of one Crhistian
for another!
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy
- - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - -
I think it was very time-consuming, but exceptionally worthwhile!
Completing your questionnaire helped me analyze and verbalize a
lot of things that were not normally expressed, but probably known
"down deep inside".
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
What is my sexual preference: homosexual vs. heterosexual (a) past) &
(b) present? For me, "love=sexual contact" was with anonymous males,
but now, my agape LOVE can be with a male and/or female. My life
partner? Preferably female.
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--Relationship Is:
To be one together yet separate, respect and consideration,
acceptance and compassion, compromise, letting go...
...who am
I trying to kid? I've never achieved it, how can I define it??
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...obsession and convenience.
--The best things about relationship are:
focusing on myself and my own issues and letting them do the same...
--The worst things about relationship are:
...yet trying to figure out a way to live in sanity at the same time.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who can accept that we are probably both pretty messed up or
disfunctional (otherwise, we wouldn't be attracted to each other)
and there is nothing either one of us can do to fix the other one
or make it better--all we can do is stay in our own "yard" and try
not to throw our garbage on their side of the fence or blame them
for the crap we're tripping over. And hopefully have a barbeque
together every once in a while when we're having a good day.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
be more content with myself and therefore more content with my
partner; accept that if they are in a bad mood, it is a reflection
from their inner space and I don't have to take it personally;
accept that they are not me--they do not think or feel the same
way I do and that's okay for them and I don't have to like it or
agree with it but I can choose to live with it.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to keep the focus on me, otherwise I will try to blame,
shame, and criticize.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Unless it involves physical or emotional abuse, my partner's
behaviors are irrelevant to my happiness.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
I am automatically attracted to a disfunctional personality
(preferrably a drug addict or alcoholic); thankfully, I no longer
have to act on that initial attraction.
--Regarding Risks
everything that's led up to this point in my life.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
I've never learned from watching others--always had to make my own
mistakes (over and over and over and over and...) before I figured
it out.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other:
stubborness and naiveté
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How'd I do? Well
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Name: Venita
Email: <venita_brown@hotmail.com>
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RE: Handwriting: I get along better with a Messy handwriting person.
RE: My HW: neat
AstroInfo: no
I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising.
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Friendship, trust, dependable, giving,loyalty and unconditional love.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... married at first sight
--The best things about relationship are:
Friendship
--The worst things about relationship are:
Selfishness
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
I like to live alone, with short visits
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
It is a big problem
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? A bit rough
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
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How'd I do? How well
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Thu Nov 3 08:40:32 2005
Anonymous Guest 39 in zagreb, =croatia=
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Prof/Studies: teacher
AstroInfo: disinterested
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--Relationship Is:
a warm, emotional connection between two people
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was warm, friendly
--The best things about relationship are:
some very beatiful precious days and moments, long talks, little
surprises, enjoying someones presence, ...
--The worst things about relationship are:
complicated misunderstandings
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
him - fantasy person who exists
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
express my feelings more open
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
a question if I am realy able to take it
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
we need to listen more carefully, to talk more open - we need to
learn it
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
good heart, inteligence
--Regarding Age in Relationship
it matters but it is not the most important thing...
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
don`t think it is continuum
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Totally heterosexual like most people I know
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
for me very important, my basic interest - for me it is important
for relationship
--Regarding Love and Sex:
it is all about love... sex is only one way of expression of love
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Love is not a pair of shoes - it is not for trying
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How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family
books and church helped too
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other Role Model
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Fri Oct 21 11:23:36 2005
Anonymous Guest 29 in oak hill, ohio =USA=
F29 in oak hill, ohio =USA=
Name: Dawn
Email: <ohiohottie20032002@yahoo.com>
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Prof/Studies: burger king
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--Relationship Is:
a relationship is two people who love each other and want to be
with each other
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
spend each day with the person that i love
--The worst things about relationship are:
having some one tell you what you can and can't do
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
some one who is night inshinning armor
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
not beind a whiner
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse
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Thu Oct 20 08:47:58 2005
Anonymous Guest 23 in , illinois =usa=
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RE: Handwriting: No.
RE: My HW: SKipping
AstroInfo: No.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
I have friends and co-workers relationships that needs to improve.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... Intense, a crush. Had a couple
of week retationship with a person at the age of 12, that
did not involve sex, but holding hands and kissing.
--The best things about relationship are:
Having trust in a person.
--The worst things about relationship are:
Telling a person you like them and want to date them.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
As a friend and lover you want trust and honesty.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Slow it down.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
Moving to quickly and scaring them.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I want them to be more open and verbal with me.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
being honest. No secrets.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I person has to open enough to talk face to face about problems.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Looks are important, but I look for a funny smart person.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
I don't know. I feel a young girl and older guy no.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Don't know.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I've had some relationships with men and have liked some women. I
prefer woman.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
I'm not going to go out with someone who worships the devil.
I would like to go out with a Christian.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love is a feeling. Sex is just physical. Anyone can have sex,
but it takes more for love.
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
The first male was not good, there was no give and take. With
a female (I was young 10) they were the same age, we were just
playing around, it was OK.
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Depends on how long you've been together. It's OK.
--Regarding Risks
I had a friend that I thought was a slut, but then I looked at her
and thought differently and asked her out and she said yes.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I'd use a condom, and asked my male partners about diseases.
--A funny relationship story:
Writing on my partners care with shoe polish, getting silly stringed
by her.
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How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling
observing, reading, and watching TV
worrying about relationships, stressing out.
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--Relationship Is:
i would explain a relationship as being a constant give and take
between two people that have feelings for each other whether that
is sexual or just friends
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... when i was 14 years old and i guess it
was like puppy love because i really thought i was going
to marry him and then he started to get controlling and we
ended up breaking up.
--The best things about relationship are:
someone who will always be there for me, someone who understands me,
someone to run to when i need help, someone to laugh and cry with,
cuddling, kissing, the feeling of love
--The worst things about relationship are:
control issues, possesiveness, jealousy, anger,
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
i want someone who is going to be honest with me, who will love me
no matter what, who lets me be me, and who can accepts my quirps.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
i want to be more understanding, more patient, more spontaneous
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How'd I do? Adequate
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family
in my first relationship his mother absolutely hated and resented
me becuase i was in her sons life
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How'd I do?
What Helped me most deal with Relationship?
What Hindered me most in Relationship?
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Fri Sep 30 02:58:56 2005
Anonymous Guest 26 in , maryland =united states=
F26 in , maryland =united states=
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Love, Respect. Don't hate or judge. we are all one being under one
sun and God. Remember satan is cunning so watch your back.
RE: Handwriting: never thought about it.
RE: My HW: none
AstroInfo: i've given up astrology. but two alike signs rumbles because they
have similar weaknesses and strengths and get easily upset when
they see that their partner doesn't react or problem solve the way
that they do or the way that they wish they could
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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when two people are seeing one another and sharing dreams, thoughts,
and their bodies.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
the unconditional loving of one another
--The worst things about relationship are:
arguing or not agreeing about situations
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
them to be emotionally and financially stable. easing going,
great communicator.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
more control over my emotions. more passionate
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i overeat and am overweight. i don't really feel confident in myself
which restricts my passionate side
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
stay calm, talk with sense. be empathetic. work
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
doing what is expected of you
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
listen. let the other finish their thoughts without interruption. and
during this time try to keep your emotions under control.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
appearance but i can become unattracted to someone's personality
therefore their overall being as ugly
--Regarding Age in Relationship
i think age plays a part. i think people can fall in love based on
there ideals. for example, an older man might look for fresh beauty
or a younger girl may look for financial stability. being superficial
initiated them in finding the person and then falling in love. i
don't know sometimes people have kindered spirits. so , i'm neutral
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe that some people are in denial. they know their sexual
orientation but because of societies views they are subconsciously
pressured into trying to live the "right way" but then their desire
for their real need cause them to swith lanes several times.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
well as a child i watched pornography. and saw two women interacting
in sex. never before until then did i know of it. i found it
intriguing and then by the reactions of the characters and others
watching made me curious on the excitement. when i got older i did
engage in one homosexual relationship but found it no different
than being with the opposite partner except for the body parts. I
concluded that it wasn't for me. but i still fantasize about women
but i think it is my subconscious saying that i want their body
type. i would love to have a nice booty and perfect shape but only
to attract men.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it depends on how spiritual one is. but if a person is heavily
devouted to religion then being with a person of opposite views
will probably cause a lot of frustration and struggle because one
of their goals maybe to try and convert the other
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex is one. one shouldn't have sex unless their in love. sex
without love is empty but sex with love is physically, emotionally
and sexually gratifying
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
peer pressure was the force behind losing my virginity. sex was
hyped up too much. i thought i would be transformed in some kind
of way. but afterwards it was like that's it. that was sex. damn,
i should have kept my virginity
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i believe that Gods law is the right way but because i am a sinner
(which is no excuse) and lost my virginity and have been exposed
to sex; I feel that sex and love are inseperable. and i feel that
you should know your possible spouse and test the waters to see if
you are overall happy with each other. in this day in age, many men
and women wouln't be able to stay commited to a virgin because they
can't test the waters.
--Regarding Risks
risking letting go completely, not withholding myself
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
well knowing the entire history of their partners is a little
overrated. I believe once someone is tested and cleared of all
diseases they are getting a second chance to protect themselves. but
all couples should get tested together before engaging in any sexual
behavior and practice monogamy
--A funny relationship story:
sharing a moment and laughing our heads of together
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How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy
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do you think that sex is overrated?
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Sun Sep 18 20:32:12 2005
Anonymous Guest 39 in Houston, Texas =United States of America=
F39 in Houston, Texas =United States of America=
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RE: Handwriting: I think handwritting can tell me a lot about a person
RE: My HW: no comments I've heard as it pertains to relationships but I've
heard that it's easy to read and neat.
AstroInfo: Astrology can tell us a lot about ourselves and others but its not
a precise science.
I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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two people coming together to help each other through the jungle
of life with uphills and downhills but always foward
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was...I fell in love for the first time
--The best things about relationship are:
sharing joy
--The worst things about relationship are:
understanding someone else's perspective
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone to share experiences with good and bad, someone who will
support me in all that I do and I can return that same support
---I need someone to share joy and sadness with and someone who
will allow me to share their joys and sadness.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be more understanding that not everyone sees the world the way that
I do
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
if I were not so suspecious that my love was not being totally honest
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I'm pretty laid back --do what makes you happy
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I think I am responsible for protecting the trust given to me
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
I talk a lot...I have an opinion on everything. I argue and then
I get over it quickly. I also get very excited and animated when
talking about normal life stuff.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
facial expressions ---are they kind, hard, soft, scary?
--Regarding Age in Relationship
you should be no more than 10 years apart so that you are not in
different phases of life that age dictates
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
I believe whatever makes someone happy sexually is what they should
be doing --that is the point right?
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
I'm straigt as a board. I have experimented with some hot lesbian
action and was not at all happy with the experiences.
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it makes no difference to me what another believes as far as religion
or spirtuality goes
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Sex can be great without love but love can't be great without sex
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
passion mixed with fear
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Live together before getting married but put limits on how long
that arrangement will go-- a relationship does two things it either
ends or you get married so after a couple of years you must take an
inventory and ask which it's going to be and move towards that goal.
--Regarding Risks
trusting someone new not to hurt me takes a lot of risk IMO
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
Protect yourself and don't be too promiscious
--A funny relationship story:
that assholes are usually great in bed
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How'd I do? Very Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance
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Fri Sep 16 20:51:37 2005
Anonymous Guest 39 in Venice, CA =USA=
F39 in Venice, CA =USA=
Name: Sandee
Email: <sandeebrown625@msn.com>
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Prof/Studies: Buyer
RE: Handwriting: I love his handwritting
RE: My HW: It sucks
AstroInfo: I have a prpblem with no one, people have problems with me. Their
astrological sign means nothing to me.
I'm a: Cancer Sun; with Leo Moon; and Sagittarius rising.
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Share life experiences with compassion and intrigue and grow together
--That first relationship was
I was used for sex
--The best things about relationship are:
Check myself, give the relationship your all as you continue to learn
and grow and roll with the punches that are life experiences. Be
honest about your feelings as you recognize things you've never
encountered before, loyalty and faithfullness
--The worst things about relationship are:
lack of compassion of your partners life experiences because you
can't imagine them
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
to be understood, appreciated, loved unconditionally, supported,
treated with respect and compassion, agree to disagree and be adored
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
More awareness of other's feelings, ask lots of questions so we
have a clear understanding of the desired relationship mutually,
don't judge, be supportive and compassionate and understand that
people make mistakes while learning how to really love and they may
not be aware of their feelings all of the time so they may not be
able to answer the question with logic. They are to be forgiven,
and validate the other's feelings and always offer guidance and be
open to just listen. Love myself and take care of myself so I can
be a better partner.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I need to realize people don't think like me and I shouldn't be
so bossy just because something works fine for me. Validate and
always acknowledge my partner's feelings. Never expect others to
do for me what I so willingly do for them. I love the gift of give.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
Own your own thoughts because those are the only ones you
posses. Listen to your partner and appreciate what they're telling
you communicating to the best of their ability and do not tell them
their full of shit because their explanation doesn't make sense to
you. Ask more questions and be supportive.
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I thought just giving love, encouragement, honesty, faithfullness
and affection was the sole responsibility.
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
Arguments are healthy as long as both sides are heard and validated
ending in agreement or not. Just listening allows people to learn
things about themselves and is monumentally helpfull personally
and for the relatiuonship. Some people answer and comment and a
listening session becomes a damaging no growth ordeal.
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
Looks, personality, character, eyes, hands and how they treat me.
--Regarding Age in Relationship
Must be older, but no more than like 6 years.
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
Let there be love period.
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
Heterosexual
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
Spirituality, not religion.
--Regarding Love and Sex:
Love
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
Fuck you asshole!!
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
Cohabitation is a mst before marriage
--Regarding Risks
No risk no gain. I have nothing to lose as long as I'm smart and
concentrate on the emotional stability over everything else.
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
I don't have sex before asking questions and at least a month or
two goes by before I engage in intercourse so I know more about
the person I'm giving myself to.
--A funny relationship story:
Laughter with each other appreciating one another's sense of humor.
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Very Difficult
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
He broke my heart.
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness
I was who I thought the guy wanted me to be instead of being myself
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Spell relationship(s)correctly
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Anonymous Guest 29 in Baton Rouge, LA =USA=
F29 in Baton Rouge, LA =USA=
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RE: Handwriting: haven't thought of it
RE: My HW: neat and easy to read
AstroInfo: it's interesting but i don't believe in it much
I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and rising.
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love, giving, sharing compromise
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was puppy love
--The best things about relationship are:
friendship, love, sex
--The worst things about relationship are:
understanding and compromise
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
Responsible, stable, loving, loyal, honest
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
Be less selfish, and less hot-headed
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
I don't really have many bad habits
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
I'll try to work things out
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
I feel like i do it all!
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i'm an arguer
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
personality
--Regarding Age in Relationship
within 2 to 10 years - age does matter
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
you have to be one or the other and being gay just isn't natural,
i think it's wrong
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
straight - all the way
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
we should have similar views of religion or it could cause problems
--Regarding Love and Sex:
they go together
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
exciting and scary
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
i think you should try it before you buy it, but i don't know if
i could actually live with a person before marriage
--Regarding Risks
telling the person that i cared for that i cared for him and he
didn't have a clue
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
i would sleep with a person i thought could transmit this type of
thing to me
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How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity
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Anonymous Guest 17 in Aberdeen, =Scotland, UK=
F17 in Aberdeen, =Scotland, UK=
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Prof/Studies: Student at Academy(high school)
RE: Handwriting: his handwriting is a mess and looks rather a lot like a lot of
guys i know but it doesn't particularly bother me, at least it's
still legible!
RE: My HW: he once said it was pretty and neat and fancy after i commented on
his but pesonally i hate my handwriting
AstroInfo: i don't think it's possible that their are only 12 types of people
in the world but sometimes it is strange how i have read the star
signs at the end of the day and it is so similar to what actually
happened. i do tend to go for people born in feburary so apparantly
i like apuarius's
I'm a: Pisces Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising.
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--Relationship Is:
a relationship is something between (usually) two people who know
eachother this does not neccisarily have to be caring or loving or
close but it is usually considered this way
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... exciting and long-term and happy
(love)
--The best things about relationship are:
getting to know the person, having someone to talk to and rely on,
not feeling alone
--The worst things about relationship are:
frustration at not being able to understand something that person
did or said and not feeling needed
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone who needs me and wants to be with me, someone who finds
me attractive and someone who won't cheat(loyalty)and obviously
someone who i am attracted to and can share even a few interests
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
a little less dominating in a relationship even though i am not
with others(friends, teachers etc)
a little more confident about
my outward appearences
maybe a little smarter too
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i am too self conscious and nervous that my other half doesn't find
me attractive or that he finds someone else more attractive despite
the fact he always tells me otherwise
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
little things irritate me easily and may aggrivate me but despite
all that i would still like them for who they were and try not to
let it affect me and ask them to not do it as often but only if it
were something small, if it were large i wouldn't ask them to curb
who they were just for me
--Regarding responsibilities in relationship:
considering the other person and that you can't just yell at them
whenever you feel angry you have to consider that they are a person
who has feelings too. It also means being responsibility for yourself
awell as the other person
--Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship:
i like to talk things out and i get frustrated when he says that
he doesn't know what to say and i have to tell him what i need to
hear. originally i would have rather been the one to listen but i
have had to learn to be the one to talk otherwise no-one would
--Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality:
how the person reacts around me looks i thought were always important
but the thing that attracted me to the person i am with was just
who he was around me and that he made me happy and relaxed
--Regarding Age in Relationship
age doesn't matter, it only matters if the age difference is between
say a 20 yr old and a 13 or 14 yr old or even if a 17 and 14 yr
old were together but if it were a 20 yr old with a 40 yr old it
wouldn't matter. it seems to matter to me if, in my wiews, one of
the persons is stil developing mentally and physically
--Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general:
absoloutely correct! no-one is completely hetrosexual no matter
how much they think that homosexuality is a sin or totally wrong
everyone is a little bi-sexual they just tend to be either more
homosexual or more hetrosexual
--My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference:
i look at other girls and can appreciate their beauty or that they
are a good person with a great personality but i would never want
to kiss a girl or touch a girl in an intimate way. i am sexually
attracted to guys and only really enjoy being with guys
--Regarding Religion in Relationship
it will only matter if one or both of the people in the relationship
are set in the belief that they must be with someone of the same
faith. personally i think if you love someone enough you will try
your hardest to make it work and see past that aspect but i know
some people would never consider that the religion was less imporatnt
--Regarding Love and Sex:
love and sex are completely different, in todays society at any
rate, i would never have sex with someone i didn't love but they
don't always go together; many people have enjoyable sex which they
do not regret and it is not with someone they love
--Regarding the first Sexual Experience:
that it was perfect with a guy i totallly cared about and felt
uninhibited with. it was great because it was our first time ever
and it was with eachother so that took a lot of pressure off about
expectations of past experiences
--Regarding living with someone before marriage:
it seems almost too traditional to belive that living together
before marriage is wrong it was right years ago but time change and
(although it can be debated) so do morals or at least the realisation
of morals changes. therefore i believe that living together before
marriage is perfectly accptable and sensible
--Regarding Risks
telling my other half things i had NEVER told anyone before and
not hesitating about trusting them was a huge relief. The scariest
thing i ever did was let myself be intimate with him because i
hated my own appearance
--Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs):
protection is key care about yourself even if you don't care about
the other person think about the repurcussions of getting a STD it
could ruin your whole life before you've even had a chance to live it
--A funny relationship story:
the cheesiest jokes anyone has ever heard, everytime i fall over
or he falls over is always hilarious
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1st relationship occurred in my life at:
How'd I do? Well
What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life
the way i was raised contribuited to the way i think about other
people
What Hindered me most in Relationship? Rage
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it was interesting and easy because i enjoyed examining myself and
my beliefs and my relationships, that may be because psychology is
extremely interesting and i hope to study it at university
- - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here?
"are/were you in a relationship if so how long is/was it?"
i am
in a relationship and have been now for just over a year
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Mon Jul 18 13:19:01 2005
Anonymous Guest 23 in tukwila, wa =usa=
F23 in tukwila, wa =usa=
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Prof/Studies: medical assistant
RE: Handwriting: i think when i am happy i tend to write more round and bubbly and
when i am upset about him i write more sharp
RE: My HW: i have had some guys say it is hard to read and some say it is nice
AstroInfo: i am very interested and don't know all my signs but would love
to know.
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--Relationship Is:
when two people have the same likes and dislikes. can get along
and make eachother happy.
--That first relationship was
That first relationship was... high school. my first real
relationship. i didn't really have any emotion or had
negative thoughts. i was generally happy with this person.
--The best things about relationship are:
sharing life with someone. there is someone there to make me laugh
when i am down.
--The worst things about relationship are:
trust. its really hard for me to trust people.
--What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be:
someone i can trust with ease. someone who makes me laugh.
--What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is:
trying harder to trust. to stop thinking everyone is lying to
me. try not to be overbearing and possesive.
--Regarding how my habits affect a relationship:
i dwell too much and i always have to know what he is doing and
who he is with.
--Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship:
they always kn