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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Wed Sep 7 09:43:55 2011 Anonymous Guest 60 in QUINCY, IL =USA= F60 in QUINCY, IL =USA= Name: KAITTE - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] looked for relationship questionaare with question of what do I need - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: CLERICAL - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Hang in there, it gets better RE: Handwriting: NO feelings at all RE: My HW: Nice handwriting AstroInfo: Yep, I find it correlates to a lot of things in a person I'm a: Virgo Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I believe a relationship is give and take of energy and resources... a caring for one another that makes us want to make each one's life easier or better. It can be friendship, family, or lovers(wives/husbands)If you don't do your part in giving enough energy to that person, you can drain them or they can drain you and then it's no good. It's an equal sharing of emotional responsibility for the other person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... with H/S sweetheart --The best things about relationship are: Security in knowing the other person is there for you. in a committed relationship, it's the sharing of the little moments together. --The worst things about relationship are: competing with a 40+ daughter and Granddaughter living with the male friend and neither intends to move on... either the boyfriend or the daughter, which leaves me nowhere for 8 years --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who is there for me, not for an Adult child living at home with their child perfectly capable of taking care of themselves.who can move forward without "intense" fear of being taken for granted or their money.I would much rather be emotionally healthy, than have all of his money --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I like me just the way I am.. Emotionally healthy --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I could be a little more tolerant than I am now at 60 --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'm not accepting of the fact I have to wait 8 years to proceed with "our" life... due to his inability to let go of his bad divorces and his daughter/granddaughter who will be forever living with him.. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: To agree that all is not going to be smooth all the time and you can't always get what you want.Compromise --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: He wants to discuss things, you reach a conclusion which works for a very short time and then it goes back to the way it was... --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The way he treats me --Regarding Age in Relationship Age does not matter... it's the attitude of the individuals towards one another that counts --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: To each his own... as an individual changes, their sexuality changes also --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship To each his own.. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are two different things... I'm no prude but Sex should be in a committed relationship.. there are too many variables... if not --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was just a scared kid who knew nothing --Regarding living with someone before marriage: If I were in a committed relationship and wanted to be with that person all the time... then live together --Regarding Risks I invested myself only to be chewed up and spit out as if I was an old shoe because I wanted more, which they knew from the beginning --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Make sure you choose Healthy partners as much as possible --A funny relationship story: can't think of any just now - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling My Grandmother who always spoke honestly to me when questioned What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse I'm was born mostly deaf/therefore misunderstood... even now at 60 - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I sure hope you can tell me what to look for... I feel dysfunctional in this relationship in that I see things really different than he does... I see him enabling himself/not doing his homework after a divorce of 12 years which leaves a lot of fear/frozen... enabling his 40+daughter (she's not leaving) as Daddy is her sugar daddy and his Grand Daughter, He thinks I'm after his money and I am his pension/ssi which he can't leave his daughter .. she can have his stocks/house/401K... I don't see the point in waiting for this man 8 years when he's really offering me nothing except trips. I'm tired of him feeling it's me with the problems, he's emotionally draiing - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I "know" some conclusions I've come to ... what is your input into this situation... again I'm tired ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu May 5 22:16:18 2011 Anonymous Guest 43 in , OH =USA= F43 in , OH =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Googled "handwriting analysis" - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: I've been wondering about it...I've come to view handwriting as a source of insight into a person who deliberately tries to play his cards close to the chest.... RE: My HW: People say I have beautiful, unique handwriting. This is kind of funny to me, because I'm a lefty & had terrible grades in penmanship. I worked on it. What's REALLY telling is that I "perfected" my writing WHEN I WAS TRYING TO BE SOMEONE ELSE TO IMPRESS A GUY! I got the guy--married him--but he left me within two years. Lesson learned--but I kept the nice handwriting in the dissolution. AstroInfo: I own the sensual, earthy nature and the extreme stubborn tenacity of my sign, which is Taurus. I have noticed how well I get along with Cancers. I'm a: Taurus Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: How We Love; The Five Love Languages; Controlling People; Too Good to Leave-Too Bad to Stay; Secrets You Keep from Yourself; Anxious to Please; Embracing Fear; Becoming Real Recommended Reading-- Writers: Mira Kirshenbaum, Keith Ablow, Michelle R. Callahan, Beverly Engel, William July II, - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is a continuous connection with another living being. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...I fell in love. He was my first love...still love him. --The best things about relationship are: laughing together, sharing sorrow, great conversations, deep passion, emotional safety & refuge, abiding trust. --The worst things about relationship are: communicating disappointments and disagreement; misunderstandings; keeping hold of who I am as an indidivual; being able to see clearly who is responsible for unpleasant situations. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: honesty. Not just honesty: a commitment to TRUTH. Optimism. Great sense of humor. Love of life & of people. Unquestionably committed to me. Someone who has my best interests at heart. Someone who wants what I have to give. Someone who will help me thrive, as I want to help him thrive. Sexually compatible. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: build up my emotional strength so as not to be overdependent on the relationship. Accept myself as I am. Work on being a good listener. Let go of fears. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: it's high time I discard some bad thinking habits! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: there are very few "habits" that are significant enough to affect my love for someone. That being said, I can't tolerate someone who blames the rest of the world for everything that happens. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: each of us HAS to take responsibility for his or her choices. Unless literal force is involved, other people can't "make" us do things. We choose to hurt others. We choose to let others hurt us. I am learning (the hard way) to take responsibility for what I do. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: some people are bound and determined to protect themselves at all costs. Many times, the "cost" is the existence of the relationship. We can't assume that the other person's intentions are the same as ours. We can't assume that they are really hearing what we are saying. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: expressiveness. I can read body language, including facial expressiveness, and I am drawn to people who are laughing, smiling, and/or have a twinkle in their eyes. And I'm partial to brown hair, a stocky build... --Regarding Age in Relationship the two people being compatible in all the significant ways is far more important than age. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: it's possible. Attraction to people doesn't always mean you want to have sex with them, however. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer the sex I feel safest with. I am a heterosexual, but women are more attractive when men have treated me especially badly. --Regarding Religion in Relationship the level of devotion to one's religion is very important to whether the two will get along. The level of devotion will tell the tale of whether compromise between followers is even possible. --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is the deepest, most profound expression of love that is possible. It's where "two become one." That is the ideal. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: My first "sexual encounter" was a violation. My first intercourse was disappointing, not because of my partner, but because my expectations (thanks to movies and books) were way off! The fun & pleasure came with experience. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't see it as a "trying on." That implies that a person is no different from a car or other inanimate object. I'd say that when two people live together without being married, there is a little bit (or a lot) of pretending that this is a committed relationship. --Regarding Risks it's worth it to risk yourself in relationships. I wish I'd risked more and earlier. MOST people get what they give. But be careful who you choose to open up to, and DO NOT overlook behavior or words that consistently offend you. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be realistic. It doesn't mean you don't love or trust a person if you insist on protection. It just means you're smart, and good at taking care of yourself. --A funny relationship story: this is a tough one! I can find humor in anything, almost any time! I just love to laugh. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life I internalized some beliefs based on what I observed, and they became deeply ingrained. I am trying to grow out of those beliefs (mostly about myself) now. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I liked it. It fits my non-linear way of thinking. And of course, I like relationships. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I have no particular thoughts to share. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 13 06:49:37 2011 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] RE: Handwriting: My fiance has chicken scratch for handwriting. It only bothers me when he makes the grocery list and I have to try to read it. RE: My HW: I don't think he's ever commented on it other than to say I should write something bc he knows I can't read his writing. AstroInfo: The best sex I've ever had was with a scorpio...... two different scorpio's at that! They are trouble though from what I've experienced. I'm a: Taurus Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a commitment to another person that you will always be there for each other. It's a working partnership. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... an instant connection. Six years later we are still together and planning on getting married in October, we have a son together who is 2 --The best things about relationship are: Haha, my knee jerk reaction was regular sex. --The worst things about relationship are: managing joint finances --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone to talk with laugh with, share ideas with. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I'm selfish --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: not sure --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I'm responsible for another persons emotional well being --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I talk, he listens and we don't fight for long --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: height. --Regarding Age in Relationship I would like to think age doesn't matter but it in fact does. I'd say within 7 years of each other in age. If a women is much older than her male partner there can be issues conceiving children. Also, if you are much older or younger than your partner the elder is much more likely to die first leaving the other alone and that would suck. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I'd agree that most people fall somewhere in the middle whether they'll admit it or not. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight. I wouldn't be in a relationship with another woman but I would certainly entertain the idea of inviting another woman to bed. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I'm not religious or spiritual. I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who is devout to their religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: two separate things but i don't think you can have one without the other. Sex is an expression of love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It sucked and I should have waited. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I've been living with my significant other for 3 years. we have a 2 year old son. the only way we aren't married is on paper. I don't think that you have to be married to make a lifelong commitment to another person. I think living together before marriage is a good idea. --Regarding Risks I was 19, I'd been dating my then boyfriend for not even a year. We had a huge fight we were both crying and I was ready to just walk away and be done. Then he asked me to marry him, and as mad as I was I still for whatever reason said yes. I guess that was our informal engagement. He didn't let me walk away when things got tough. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): wear a condom and don't sleep around. Monogamy is healthier for you. --A funny relationship story: Oh wow. Way too many humorous moments to even recount - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Silence & Taboos ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 15 19:02:00 2011 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] RE: Handwriting: I feel it is irrelevant. Men can have such messy handwriting anyway. The two I have loved had nearly opposite handwriting. RE: My HW: I like my own handwriting. I feel it is unique. Neither guy I have loved has mentioned it. It changes often. I am always drawing. Both have always admired and told me they love my drawings. AstroInfo: I do not really pay too much attention to these signs. The love ones never seem to match up to the people I love. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is an all-consuming and highly distracting but wonderful phenomenon. Nothing feels better in the world when it is going well, and nothing feels worse when it is not going well. --That first relationship was It was magical. We truly cared about each other a lot. It was innocent. We never kissed. It was just sweet and shy but definitely powerful and still lingering. --The best things about relationship are: Intimacy, talking, understanding each other, supporting one another, and learning to love and grow unconditionally. --The worst things about relationship are: Having such variable emotions that have very severe ups and downs over the smallest things. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who has an identity and who thinks for themselves. Someone who does think. I want someone who is intellectually stimulating and perhaps my equal or other half on a mental standpoint. I want someone who in a way has an ego, not in a bad way. Self-confidence and self-respect are musts. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be a little more independent or a little more giving. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to make sure I am always being myself. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I need to make sure I don't have intentions of changing the person when going into a relationship. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being responsible for considering the feelings and situations of another person nearly as much as my own. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I definitely am a talker. I like to talk things out and I prefer to have someone who will communicate with me too. I am a communicator and get frustrated when someone is not. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I rarely look at eyes. I look at face structure, usually I am attracted to masculinity and muscle (but not too bulky.) I also have a fascination with people's hands. I love beautiful hands. Smiles are also very important. I find more beauty in facial expression sometimes than the face itself. --Regarding Age in Relationship Being a teenager, age means a lot more than I think it will as an adult. At this time, I would need someone close in age in order to relate to them because we all can change so much just within a few months in our teenage years. I need to have similar experiences with someone and not be in a different stage of life and mind. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I am completely straight. I do not judge those who are not. We can only be what we are. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship I am a strong Christian. I have been in love with an Agnostic and someone who has grown up in a church very different from my own. I do not judge others for what they believe. It is more important for someone I love to have similar values as me than similar faiths. --Regarding Love and Sex: I have not experienced sex. That is for marriage only. I have experienced love. It in itself is so strong and powerful. It seems satisfying enough on its own. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It will be with my husband when I get married. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: For my religious values, I will not live with someone before getting married. I would not disappoint my family. --Regarding Risks I gave my friend the okay to tell my best guy friend that I like him. I really am so in love with him, but I have hurt him badly in the past. Because I did not know if he would be mad if I liked him, I was afraid to tell him myself. It was a risk to let him know that I love him. I am still waiting to see if it paid off. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I will only be with my husband and a test first would not hurt anything. --A funny relationship story: Having funny moments just hanging out together. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Being brave What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends My best friends were hurt by this relationship. It was like a love triangle. The guy I loved was also moving. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Sep 29 08:42:05 2010 Anonymous Guest 40 in Shawano, WI =USA= F40 in Shawano, WI =USA= Name: Tracey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Graduate Student RE: Handwriting: they must use proper spelling and grammar RE: My HW: never AstroInfo: yes no scorpios - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: trust --That first relationship was That first relationship was quite intense. --The best things about relationship are: love and trust --The worst things about relationship are: lies and deceit --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: control --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: smoking --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they affect me greatly --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: it is what I want --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I like open honest communication --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks and charisma --Regarding Age in Relationship 10 years --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 3 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: opposite sex only --Regarding Religion in Relationship we must agree --Regarding Love and Sex: totally different --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: very charged --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It all depends but either way I am fine as long as teh relationship is secure --Regarding Risks putting myself out there just to feel alone --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): wear protection --A funny relationship story: just laughing and telling jokes - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - kinda long - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? not really ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 5 12:47:17 2010 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] googled free online handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it's a dancing fire that you've stared at for so long that you've convinced yourself that it's brightness = goodness and security. couldn't be more wrong. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: first embrace --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: kind, respectful, loving, smart, hardworking, accepting --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: no fear of loss of space --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how much i am attracted... - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Aug 26 19:46:25 2010 Anonymous Guest 53 in , == F53 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - AstroInfo: I have loved men born on the same day, twice. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was real. --The best things about relationship are: laughing, deep talks, sharing. --The worst things about relationship are: betrayal --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone kind, but with a biting sense of humor. a little rough around the edges. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not over react. be honest. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm attracted to emotionally absent men. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: putting the other person on the same level as I hold myself. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I'm the talker --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: intelligence, humor --Regarding Age in Relationship I would like a man my own age, but am attracted to slightly younger, and much younger men are attracted to me. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: love is love --Regarding Religion in Relationship a must --Regarding Love and Sex: inseparable --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was emotionally wonderful --Regarding Risks every relationship! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect yourself - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 26 16:46:55 2010 Anonymous Guest 43 in apple valley, ca =san bernadino= F43 in apple valley, ca =san bernadino= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: yhat doesnt matter RE: My HW: my handwriting is good AstroInfo: not interested - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: You have to know the person --That first relationship was first relationship was... ver exciting --The best things about relationship are: future --The worst things about relationship are: a drinker --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone like me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: share my feelings --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have no bad habitsdont worry be happy --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: just liive --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: paying bills --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: communication is important --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: there smile --Regarding Age in Relationship age shouldnt matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I dont know --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i never experience --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion is important --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex go together --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was a thrill --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it's okay --Regarding Risks taking a chance --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful --A funny relationship story: jokes all night - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? none ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Mar 9 20:39:38 2010 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Read About it: ] I'm a: Scorpio Sun; with Virgo Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Nov 30 15:27:30 2009 Anonymous Guest 37 in Hesperia, CA =United States= F37 in Hesperia, CA =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] college class - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: God is good! Just have faith. RE: Handwriting: I just wish that my partner can have a little bit of what one of my ex had (caring) RE: My HW: Beautiful and practice on it everyday. AstroInfo: I don't waste my time thinking about moon and stars. You make your own life. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: That relatioshioship between human beings is the most diffucult part of life! And that is because I love to give and I feel I'm invisible to people. --That first relationship was That first relationship was with no doubt...love at first sight. When I first saw him, I knew he was going to be my husband. --The best things about relationship are: The love and care I can give to some one new. --The worst things about relationship are: That I trust people 100%, and in return all I get is stabbers on the back. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who listens to me, and who enjoys my company. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Stop thinking negative! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I should be confident of my self. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Their approach to people. Their personality! --Regarding Age in Relationship I've always being attracted to older men. I do not see my self with a kid younger than me. That would make me feel embarrased. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I respect people choices, if I didn't I wouldn't have love for the human race. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am a woman and I love man. NOTHING ELSE! --Regarding Love and Sex: I like the word "Love". The other word does not exist in my vocabulary. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was very young, so I didn't enjoy it. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: To feel that I am part of my partner's life, I need to be married before living together. --Regarding Risks That I try to be nice to people but I get a negative response. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Don't have sex outside my marriage. I chose one partner and it is for life. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness Own experiences What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This questionnaire helped me realized many things, such what kind of person I am. It helped me meditate on why I don't have friends. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 20 08:49:55 2009 Anonymous Guest 18 in Tazewell, Virginia =United States= F18 in Tazewell, Virginia =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: College Freshman RE: Handwriting: my boyfriend writes like a 3rd grader- i dont care! RE: My HW: they always say it is beautiful AstroInfo: i am a scorpio in america and a horse in china- thats all i know - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a realationship is when two people fall for one another after talking to each other and getting to know each other- love is the feeling of intense care and concern for someone. you feel like if they werent there life would be nothing (or at least not as fun) --That first relationship was That first relationship was a summer thing- he kind of saved my life. I was new in town, taking care of my aunt- he was a lifeguard at the pool in the apartment complex. i drowned he saved me. we began to talk- we was handsome and funny and smart but i lied about my age he was 15 and i was 11. --The best things about relationship are: the long talks the hugs and kisses the trust the honesty not being alone having someone to turn to --The worst things about relationship are: jelousy anger frustration having that person always up your butt manipulation hurt feelings --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who loves movies, music and food as much as i do a blonde tall blue eyed guy with a great complexion and an awesome sense of humor someone i can trust completley and never get tired of --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: being sweeter and taking better care of myself --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am an oraly fixated person, i smoke and bite my nails id probably have to lose the habits --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: no tatoos please dont drink to the excess and dont spend your money outragiously --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being respectful and honest, and doing what i promise --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: arguments are usually over stupid stuff and guys dont like to talk as much as we do --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: sense of humor and personality --Regarding Age in Relationship love is blind age matters not --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i dont care- if it makes you happy who am i to judge? --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i love being straight! --Regarding Religion in Relationship GOD himself makes us and the person for us, he created us to be happy and to fall in love. GOD created love :) --Regarding Love and Sex: love is a feeling and sex is simply a consumation of marrage --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: at the time it was great, but looking back i wish i would have waited --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i want to live with my boyfriend before we get married. --Regarding Risks telling my boyfriend about my physical abuse at home --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): dont go and have sex with everything that walks! save it for the one --A funny relationship story: everything! i laugh at everything in life! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friend of my Parents my mom it was just being a kid in a large world- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i liked it ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Mar 3 01:55:09 2009 Anonymous Guest 41 in , =Canada= F41 in , =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] Yahoo Test and Experiments site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: Never even thought about it. RE: My HW: Never really been commented on. AstroInfo: I have to admit that I have an mild interest in astrology. It has waned over the years, but it is still fun to play with. I'm a: Scorpio Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is getting what you need and more from your partner while giving them what they need and more. The best part about a good relationship is that this giving process never feels like work or sacrifice. You do it simply because you know it will bring the other person joy and you will benefit in the process. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more of a puppy love --The best things about relationship are: Total utter companionate love. Being excited at the idea of going home just because your mate will be there. Looking forward to time to breathe together. And of course, great sex -- when you are totally in tune with each other the sex is outstanding. --The worst things about relationship are: Figuring out how to console your partner when they are really struggling with work, kids, parents or the other curve-balls life likes to throw. When your partner is suffering, you suffer right along with them. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A man who can be my lover AND my very best friend. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I think I have finally reached that point in my life where I am really happy with exactly who I am. I have been in the most amazing, loving relationship for 11 years, and we still feel like honeymooners! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: N/A --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I love him exactly the way he is. His 'habits' are part of who he is and I wouldn't change a thing. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Other than taking care of your children, our only responsibility is to take care of ourselves. Everything else we do is done out of desire to make your partner happy. It is a treat, not a chore! --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: There are very few things in this world that are worth arguing about -- in fact I can only think of one -- the wellbeing of my children. Everything else is nothing more than talking about the pros and cons of a given situation and realizing that just like any debate, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: humor, and intelligence. If you can't hold an engaging conversation, I don't really even notice you. --Regarding Age in Relationship Women mature much faster than men. So it is natural to be attracted to an older man ---but, make sure there isn't so much of an age gap that you have nothing to talk about. 10years is probably the max (depending on your age) --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: It is a continuum. There are people who fall on each of the anchors, while there are others who fall at all of the various points in the middle. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm a 2 --Regarding Religion in Relationship As long as you share the same basic spiritual beliefs, the religion is just a name to call it. The basic belief system is the same, its only some of the rituals that differ. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are different ways of expressing the same feeling when experienced with someone you love deeply. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: very disappointing. It was nowhere near as exciting as I had figured it would be. Fortunately, with lots of practice, I was able to perfect it! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: There are good arguments on both sides. If I were to pick a side, I would be on the side of trying on the shoes first. Besides, the only real reason to get married is if you plan to have children. Otherwise, why bother. Getting should cost more than a divorse, that way, you make sure you are doing the right thing for the right reason, not just because you want to get laid! --Regarding Risks It never felt like a risk. I only ever divulged what I was comfortable with. I went into the relationship expecting only to have the pleasure of his company, and ended up finding a lifelong mate. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Don't be a fool -- wrap the tool! Use the excuse that the pill gives you nausea, and lord knows you don't want to get pregnant! --A funny relationship story: Nothing jumps out at me. Humor is a constant part of our lives. We are constantly laughing at our own faux pas. If you don't laugh, you start taking yourself waaaay too seriously. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling Even though I was raised by a single mother, her consistent love and support enabled me to form deep loving relationships What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations The first several relationships were really trying to figure out how men and women interacted. With no father figure growing up, I had to figure it out on my own. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was interesting. It reaffirmed how very lucky I am. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 15 19:26:38 2009 Anonymous Guest 32 in Denver, Colorado =USA= F32 in Denver, Colorado =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] link from Self-Eval, Hanwriting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Graphic Artist RE: Handwriting: Doesn't matter to me. I have very neat penmanship and my husband's is atrocious! RE: My HW: There are no questions with what I am writing. He has mentioned it to be very neat and 'organized' (whatever that means). AstroInfo: Not really interested when it comes to relationships. Personally I find it interesting for individuals. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Regarding a lovers' relationship: A mental and physical bond between two persons. Involving communication, appreciation and common interests. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... in elementary school, 6th grade. Nothing serious, relative to adult relationships, but lasted 9 months --The best things about relationship are: Unspoken communication, knowing the other person so well that you can anticipate his or her thoughts. An overwhelming sense of being content (but not complacency). Also, the ongoing thrill of intimacy. --The worst things about relationship are: Complacency! Getting to a point where you begin to fail at communication. Without the ability to express feelings, resentment and bitterness can creep in. When something small bothers you, and it is not communicated, it can turn into something big. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A balanced person. One who is confident but humble, loving but not doting, adventurous but not maniacal, active but not obsessed with self, smart and witty but not condescending, a provider but not one that is married to his or her job, and a MUST is a strong sense of humanity. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less analytical and "exact". I could surely be a better housekeeper! Be a little less critical and more tolerant. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I must work to not fall into a co-dependent role. If I did, I would find myself resenting the relationship. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Most of his habits are not bothersome but rather a part of him that I love. Some are annoying, some of which I tell him so. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: To be accountable for your own actions and feelings. Be aware of how your actions (past and present) affect your partner and how your feelings are controlled by self. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It is the biggest part of keeping a relationship healthy. I have been in a relationship where I was made to feel like my opinion was of no worth and I stopped talking. We had no communication and I found myself looking elsewhere for the missing pieces. I am now in a relationship where we share things openly, for the most part - not perfect but healthy and happy. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Looks. First contact with most persons is visual, so appearances are what I notice first. If this person's personality was not "my type" then there is no more contact. --Regarding Age in Relationship Actual years of age does not matter. What does matter is how young or old your actions are. My husband is 17 years older than I. We have many things in common and our activities are also common. He is younger than his actual age, both mentally and physically. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Since 3.5 would be Bi-sexual, I would put myself at 1.5 or 1. I am not sexually attracted to women, but I recognize and appreciate a beautiful woman. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have had an encounter with a woman but it didn't feel right. Other than this time, I have always been with men. --Regarding Religion in Relationship There can be problems with differences in religion. For instance, raising children: do they follow mother or father's religion? How are each partners' morals and values different or the same. While it should not stop a person from pursuing a mate, he or she must consider the ramifications of having a different religion than the other. --Regarding Love and Sex: Generally, they are different. I can love my brother but not in a sexual way. That being said, in a lover's relationship love and sex (especially for females) is often the same. If a woman is not happy with her partner, she may lose the desire to have sex with him. My experience tells me that men have a physical need for sex, or at least "release". I use sex as a barometer for how we are doing as a couple. I am often surprised that sex has not become boring in a nine (and counting) year relationship. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was WAY too young, 13 years old. My boyfriend at the time was 16 and I pressured him into having sex with me. When I was 10 (or so) I remeber seeing porn at a friend's house - I think it influenced my behavior. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: My personal guidlines are this: 3 years dating and then 3 years living together before getting married. There are nuances in a person's personality that appear when you live together. Better to figure out if you can deal with those or not prior to getting married. If that particular relationship fails, you have an opportunity to learn from it and not be socially condemed. --Regarding Risks When I was 16 years old I moved 2000 miles from my parents to be with a man I later married and divorced. Not having the security of my parents and moving so far was a risk for me. However, the outcome has been great. Life will move you where you are supposed to be - I live by that philosophy. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It is each person's responsibility to be tested and to protect him or herself. Claiming ignorance is not going to stop you from getting an STD. Call me pessimistic, but I would NEVER trust that a person is going to tell me if he or she is "clean" or not. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life life experience What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling Mother was co-dependent in my formative years and by learning this to be "normal" I had a tendency to repeat it. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It is difficult to say it was useful; it was however, rather introspective. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I cannot think of how to formulate this thought but it seems there is more to childhood experiences that form us as adults. For instance, as a child I had a father that was not very attentive and sort of pushed me away as a child. I often wonder if there are correlations to being attracted to older men (a pattern since teenage years for me). ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jan 11 17:06:28 2009 Anonymous Guest 54 in Mineral Wells, TX =United States= F54 in Mineral Wells, TX =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: I agree that his speaks control and that is how he is. RE: My HW: I have a very legible handwriting but it is not precise and neat like his. Pretty much represents our two personalities. AstroInfo: I find it very interesting. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two people connecting with each other with friendship, respect, honor, and love. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a big crush. --The best things about relationship are: a best friend to share my thoughts and feelings with. Trusting another person thoroughly. Companionship. --The worst things about relationship are: the pain of losing them--too much possessiveness and smothering --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone that enjoys my companionship, that likes to laugh,is generally happy and content, settled, predictable, expresses their affection --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more trusting and open with my feelings and less suspicious --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have much room for improvement but my heart is willing to do the work and make the changes --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I am a fairly accepting and flexible person. I would not want to make unfair demands or cause a lot of distress. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: doing my part to keep things on a good positive note--taking the time to let the other person know I care. Don't do anything hurtful, embarrassing, or spiteful. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I usually try to avoid it, but will confront an issue, hopefully in a calm manner, when necessary --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes. then personality but somehow they are connected. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is important to a great extent.. You need to be able to relate to each other. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i really don't know. Each person has to judge themselves. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual 0 --Regarding Religion in Relationship it probably is best if it is a common belief, but respect is the most important thing I think. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are separate, but each enhances the other if found in the same person --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: left a lot to be desired,. wrong person, wrong place, wrong time, I was very gullible. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is probably best to be married before living together. It is a false test without the commitment. --Regarding Risks it is very scary and I have been very reluctant, but I recognize that and am working on it. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it is probably the best attitude to always play it safe --A funny relationship story: too many to just mention one in particular - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: marriage What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling Parents married and divorced each other 3 times - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was ok. It made you reflect on your feelings. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? No not really ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Dec 18 13:47:57 2008 Anonymous Guest 46 in Fife, n/a =Scotland= F46 in Fife, n/a =Scotland= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] googled 'Ask the Runes' - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Psychologist RE: Handwriting: Haven't put any store into a person's handwriting. It's a means to an end, and I don't consider it to be a particularly enlightening way of finding out about personality. RE: My HW: No comments have been made about my handwriting by any partners I have had AstroInfo: I'm open minded. It's been proven how the moon affects the tides, so why not people. I'm a: Virgo Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: How to Change Your Life in 7 Days Recommended Reading-- Writers: Paul McKenna - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I'm coming to realise more and more, that relationship is now about other people giving me love, physically and mentally. It is about me feeling that I am complete and whole and that it is a gift to give love and it is an even greater gift to receive it. We can be blessed by another's love, but more importantly we must first bless ourselves. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Was interested at first sight and the relationship built up slowly, we lived together first for about 9-10 months we couldn't see our lives without each other being part of our future. Sadly we were married for only 2 years when we found out my husband had cancer, and he died just over 2 years later. --The best things about relationship are: The ability just to be myself, accepted for what I am and how I am. --The worst things about relationship are: Having responsibility for another person's well being of being constantly aware of that person's needs and meeting them. While remaining true to myself. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Truth, unconditional love and freedom. Being part of a couple where love is unconditional given and received is the greatest freedom there is, because all is truth. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less critical and more forgiving Be more loving and less judging Accepting the person and changing behaviours --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm taking huge steps in breaking habitual patterns and making changes so that I may grow as a person and improve my abilities to relate well in a relationship --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'm exactly where I need to be right now! Where the behaviour I'm getting in a relationship is not what I want or what I would expect, it is more likely to be a reflection of who I am. Therefore changing me can lead to profound changes in my happiness in relationship --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: It is my responsibility towatch my words so that they do not pierce the hearts of those I love. Used well words can make a heart sore to the greatest heights. Used badly they are destructive weapons and can take a life time to heal. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: The more you try and hide your feelings, the bigger the problem becomes. Sharing our thoughts and communicating them well can bring the relationship together. Not listening or not understanding from what perspective the other person is coming from can lead to miscommunication and arguments --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Definitely the eyes are the windows to the soul. --Regarding Age in Relationship My first husband was 6 years older than me and my second husband is 5 years younger than me. So to me it is more about how you relate to each other than about the external stuff --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: People should be allowed to feel and express their love with whom it feels right for them to do so and where it is mutually reciprocated --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: As a woman I can appreciate and often compare myself with other women, feeling they are more attractive, beautiful, have great legs, breasts etc. while not being sexually aroused by any one woman. Men's bodies on the other hand I find are extremely sexually arousing. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I am not bound by religion but I believe in one supreme being - God. My spirituality defines me in the same way that food does. --Regarding Love and Sex: They're both separate and inseparable. For there to be love you do not necessarily need sex, for there to be sex you do not necessarily need love. It depends upon the relationship you are in. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: My first kiss was wet, messy and yet erotic. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Whatever rocks your boat. I've tried it both ways personally. Neither way was better than the other. You still have to go through a learning pattern once your married whether you've lived together beforehand or not. Committment, values and responsibilities are a matter for the couple to decide and not society. --Regarding Risks Saying no, this is not what I want. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): If you can't be bothered with the personal history USE A CONDOM. Even if you can, still USE A CONDOM. --A funny relationship story: Climbing down the stairs pretending to be a cat and then getting stuck because I was laughing so much, my husband then found me half way up the stairs on all fours and also fell about laughing it brought us closer together - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family Mostly our psychic connection, which I only now realise we had What Hindered me most in Relationship? Books & Films An unrealistic, romantic concept of what love is - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Thanks, I've been trying to work on what I want out of a relationship and some of your questions have helped me get some clarification and focus on that issue. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Do you need to be in a relationship in order to feel loved ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 16 00:36:18 2008 Anonymous Guest 54 in , == F54 in , == Name: - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: ive always like my ex husbands handwriting. It was readable, fluid and classy. RE: My HW: i was told that my handwriting reflects my individuality AstroInfo: I believe that certain characteristics do apply to different star signs. And yes i do have comprehensive knowledge regarding my ex husbands, my childrens and my own starsign! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Emotina Intelligence - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Fulfilling and rewarding --That first relationship was That first relationship was...very special --The best things about relationship are: Sex on tap --The worst things about relationship are: ....loving unconditionally make one vulnerable to abuse and exploitation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: ....unconditional love --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: ...less giving --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: ....that depends on what my partner needs me to do and be --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ...i accept anything except: Heavy drinking, emotional and physical abuse, poor personal hygene, dishonesty, disloyalty and open disrespect for who and what i am. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: When we truly love someone, we accept responsibility for the relationship unquestioned --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: its pointless to talk a stonewaller --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: facial expression, size of the person, dress style --Regarding Age in Relationship ...age matters a lot. I cannot relate to an era my partner may have lived through but i have not = we can never discuss something that was important to my partner at the time. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: ...everyone has a right to find fulfillment and happiness through the channels that work for them --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 100% heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship If ones partner follows the rules and regulation without fail - he/she needs a partner who is willing to do the same. --Regarding Love and Sex: Loving another with mind, body, heart and soul includes sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: ...lets find out what this all about --Regarding living with someone before marriage: a marriage certificate is no guarantee that he/she will stick around no matter what. Two people can grow with or without being married. --Regarding Risks ....painful --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): remain celebate. Only have sex once you are certain that a relationship has a future, in which case your partner wont mind producing a clean or honest bill of sexual health --A funny relationship story: ...when a boyfriend of mine attracted every mosquito while 10 of us where sleeping in the bush! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well having children of my own What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends Emotional Intelligence ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 16 00:15:55 2008 Anonymous Guest 54 in , == F54 in , == Name: - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: ive always like my ex husbands handwriting. It was readable, fluid and classy. RE: My HW: i was told that my handwriting reflects my individuality AstroInfo: I believe that certain characteristics do apply to different star signs. And yes i do have comprehensive knowledge regarding my ex husbands, my childrens and my own starsign! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Emotina Intelligence - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Fulfilling and rewarding --That first relationship was That first relationship was...very special --The best things about relationship are: Sex on tap --The worst things about relationship are: ....loving unconditionally make one vulnerable to abuse and exploitation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: ....unconditional love --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: ...less giving --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: ....that depends on what my partner needs me to do and be --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ...i accept anything except: Heavy drinking, emotional and physical abuse, poor personal hygene, dishonesty, disloyalty and open disrespect for who and what i am. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: When we truly love someone, we accept responsibility for the relationship unquestioned --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: its pointless to talk a stonewaller --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: facial expression, size of the person, dress style --Regarding Age in Relationship ...age matters a lot. I cannot relate to an era my partner may have lived through but i have not = we can never discuss something that was important to my partner at the time. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: ...everyone has a right to find fulfillment and happiness through the channels that work for them --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 100% heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship If ones partner follows the rules and regulation without fail - he/she needs a partner who is willing to do the same. --Regarding Love and Sex: Loving another with mind, body, heart and soul includes sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: ...lets find out what this all about --Regarding living with someone before marriage: a marriage certificate is no guarantee that he/she will stick around no matter what. Two people can grow with or without being married. --Regarding Risks ....painful --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): remain celebate. Only have sex once you are certain that a relationship has a future, in which case your partner wont mind producing a clean or honest bill of sexual health --A funny relationship story: ...when a boyfriend of mine attracted every mosquito while 10 of us where sleeping in the bush! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well having children of my own Emotional Intelligence ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 16 00:09:51 2008 Anonymous Guest 54 in , == F54 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: ive always like my ex husbands handwriting. It was readable, fluid and classy. RE: My HW: i was told that my handwriting reflects my individuality AstroInfo: I believe that certain characteristics do apply to different star signs. And yes i do have comprehensive knowledge regarding my ex husbands, my childrens and my own starsign! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Emotina Intelligence - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Fulfilling and rewarding --That first relationship was That first relationship was...very special --The best things about relationship are: Sex on tap --The worst things about relationship are: ....loving unconditionally make one vulnerable to abuse and exploitation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: ....unconditional love --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: ...less giving --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: ....that depends on what my partner needs me to do and be --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ...i accept anything except: Heavy drinking, emotional and physical abuse, poor personal hygene, dishonesty, disloyalty and open disrespect for who and what i am. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: When we truly love someone, we accept responsibility for the relationship unquestioned --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: its pointless to talk a stonewaller --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: facial expression, size of the person, dress style --Regarding Age in Relationship ...age matters a lot. I cannot relate to an era my partner may have lived through but i have not = we can never discuss something that was important to my partner at the time. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: ...everyone has a right to find fulfillment and happiness through the channels that work for them --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 100% heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship If ones partner follows the rules and regulation without fail - he/she needs a partner who is willing to do the same. --Regarding Love and Sex: Loving another with mind, body, heart and soul includes sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: ...lets find out what this all about --Regarding living with someone before marriage: a marriage certificate is no guarantee that he/she will stick around no matter what. Two people can grow with or without being married. --Regarding Risks ....painful --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): remain celebate. Only have sex once you are certain that a relationship has a future, in which case your partner wont mind producing a clean or honest bill of sexual health --A funny relationship story: ...when a boyfriend of mine attracted every mosquito while 10 of us where sleeping in the bush! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well having children of my own Emotional Intelligence ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 16 00:08:25 2008 Anonymous Guest 54 in , == F54 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: ive always like my ex husbands handwriting. It was readable, fluid and classy. RE: My HW: i was told that my handwriting reflects my individuality AstroInfo: I believe that certain characteristics do apply to different star signs. And yes i do have comprehensive knowledge regarding my ex husbands, my childrens and my own starsign! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Emotina Intelligence - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Fulfilling and rewarding --That first relationship was That first relationship was...very special --The best things about relationship are: Sex on tap --The worst things about relationship are: ....loving unconditionally make one vulnerable to abuse and exploitation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: ....unconditional love --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: ...less giving --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: ....that depends on what my partner needs me to do and be --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ...i accept anything except: Heavy drinking, emotional and physical abuse, poor personal hygene, dishonesty, disloyalty and open disrespect for who and what i am. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: When we truly love someone, we accept responsibility for the relationship unquestioned --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: its pointless to talk a stonewaller --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: facial expression, size of the person, dress style --Regarding Age in Relationship ...age matters a lot. I cannot relate to an era my partner may have lived through but i have not = we can never discuss something that was important to my partner at the time. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: ...everyone has a right to find fulfillment and happiness through the channels that work for them --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 100% heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship If ones partner follows the rules and regulation without fail - he/she needs a partner who is willing to do the same. --Regarding Love and Sex: Loving another with mind, body, heart and soul includes sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: ...lets find out what this all about --Regarding living with someone before marriage: a marriage certificate is no guarantee that he/she will stick around no matter what. Two people can grow with or without being married. --Regarding Risks ....painful --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): remain celebate. Only have sex once you are certain that a relationship has a future, in which case your partner wont mind producing a clean or honest bill of sexual health --A funny relationship story: ...when a boyfriend of mine attracted every mosquito while 10 of us where sleeping in the bush! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well having children of my own Emotional Intelligence ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Sep 29 16:36:14 2008 Anonymous Guest 18 in Columbia, SC =USA= F18 in Columbia, SC =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: As long as it is legible. I've never thought about it, really. RE: My HW: I've been informed that it is easy to read. AstroInfo: I am completely disinterested with astrology. I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship: an emotional or other connection between living things --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: Acceptance, someone who listens --The worst things about relationship are: Getting along with people --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who can tolerate my depression and anger. Someone who is supportive. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Someone who can financially care for me. No cheating allowed. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am too laid back and I don't get enough things done, so I probably irritate many. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Certain things I can accept, others I cannot. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Helping the other person out with things, telling the truth,don't fight too much --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I decide that I'm always right, even when I'm not. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The face, eyes, mouth and voice. Then it's the personality. --Regarding Age in Relationship it doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: it makes sense --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: almost totally heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship We need to tolerate each other's beliefs --Regarding Love and Sex: I'm generally a I'll only sleep with you if I love you...eventually --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I'm still a virgin --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Live together before marriage. --Regarding Risks When I screwed myself over with the people I chose as friends once upon a time... --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Dude, if you lie and we use protection and I get something, I'm going to castrate you. --A funny relationship story: I don't know - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? People's Stories, etc. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Rage ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 3 19:58:09 2008 Anonymous Guest 51 in Sandown, NH =United States= M51 in Sandown, NH =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Musician/Music Minister/Teacher RE: Handwriting: I like the way most women write RE: My HW: it sucks AstroInfo: I think it's a copout and a self fulfilling prophecy to put any stock in it I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Critical mistakes most couples make, Wild at Heart Recommended Reading-- Writers: John Eldridge, Stephen Covey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is putting someone else equal or ahead of yourself and looking for the best in that person. It is about a choice to forgive, communicate even when it's difficult, and to think how someone else feels, and to not be walking away when things get tough of the feeling of infatuation changes and you see the real person and they you. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... In many ways great but I was so naive --The best things about relationship are: All those things, and trust, love, physical touch. --The worst things about relationship are: Trying to change someone else or they trying to change you or focusing on the other's faults, and using affection as a poker chip. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I do not dare to do that because I am married and am trying to deal with reality`` --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Not overreact to emotional things. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have to keep working on being aware of everything, not get too wrapped up in work, not think her mood is caused by me --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: It is important to have similar habits and especially to be flexible```` --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to guard someone's heart if they have trusteed you and to be committed. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It's real important to acknowledge your own flaws, and to not just focus on the other's faults. It's really important to listen. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Eyes, smile, heart, gentleness, --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: nature and nurture can and do provide all the answers. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight but not phobic --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion and how someone interprets their religion is critical to me --Regarding Love and Sex: they should be inseparable. ` --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: a good start --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I used to think it didn't matter. now my faith and convictions tell me it's not a good idea to play house --Regarding Risks I took a long time to find myself` --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): people ought to be more careful --A funny relationship story: weird question`but a sense of humor is vital to me - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Perceptiveness What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness Low self-esteem - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - not sure - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? yeah, more questions for sifting out the people that are materialistic and shallow ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jul 10 16:16:25 2008 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: very neat all of them mine is elegant and illegible RE: My HW: hard to read AstroInfo: yes - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: coherence --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a karmic commit to assist in the survival of an endangered culture --The best things about relationship are: joy --The worst things about relationship are: compromise --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who si truly themselves and as powerful as I am in their own way --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Let my boundires a little be a little less independet --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my seld protective flinch has outlived it usefulness and is now a hinderance --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: wow alcoholism scares me tidiness i ;would take advantage of --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: treat person with kindness and clarity no ownership --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: this is very volitle and involving lots of attentiveness to eachother unspoken and wounded places --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: soul energy kindness andinner stregth and wisdom compassion smelll good --Regarding Age in Relationship wel limiting one's experience to one's comfort zone is what most of us do where ever that confort zone is, no one of my limitations for myself or others. Except for sexual exploitation of children --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: we are polymoorph perverse and the range not discuss is from gentle to violence --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am profoundly heterosexually monogamous in practive and heart and I am not a theorectical monogamous --Regarding Love and Sex: I love in a very wide range and depth I don't enjoy sex with out love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: wonderful --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Each to their own. I don't want to be owned by my partner and I don't want to own them --Regarding Risks pretty dangerous I have some PTSD so I avoid triggering that --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I am pretty cautious emotionally and don't trust my body to someone I can not ask if they have been tested and are safe or cannot just say until you have been tested we'll use protection because none of us know - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: Spiritual wisdon having a bodisatvah in my life Mystical studies What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: Cultural prejudice - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I find it interesting that Mystical studies was included as a negative and not as a positive influence and that onley Religion clerical was avialiable as positive ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 14 02:18:09 2008 Anonymous Guest 46 in boston, ma =us= M46 in boston, ma =us= Name: phil - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] A Course In Miricals - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: printer - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Life Is RE: Handwriting: Im Not Sure RE: My HW: You Are Sure Stuck In One Mode. AstroInfo: The Sun Gives Light We Emit Spirit From The Light When I Was Born And When I Die Does Not Matter It Has Already Occured. I'm a: Gemini Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Regarding Age in Relationship Others Affairs Only Will Be Their Way Thay Think. I Do Not Attempt To Do This For Them. A Time Is Ment For Everyone And No One At All. If I Have To Explain It Would Not Matter To Myself Or To You Either. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Only In The Ego. Let That Go And Put Love In Its Place Sexuality Does Not Exist --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Ref. To Sec. A --Regarding Religion in Relationship I Do Not Know Religion And Spirit Is Within And Emits Throughout Everything. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love, Love Is All We Have! Sex Can Be Many Things But Love Is Only 1 The Only Thing That Exists! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Doing What Others Did --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Live Together, Love, Be Happy Be One With Yourself First --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): If The Plan Is To Guess What The Plan Is I Can Say It Has Allready Happend And No One Can Change What Was Ment To Be. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Every Exp. Is Usefull - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Is There A God? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jan 9 05:18:56 2008 Anonymous Guest 27 in Portsmouth, RI =usa= F27 in Portsmouth, RI =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: homemaker RE: Handwriting: I like bold handwriting it makes me feel safe. RE: My HW: pleasent AstroInfo: i find i can relate to it. I'm a: Virgo Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its about complete honestly and trust. with out those 2 things you can't have true love. --That first relationship was we met in High school fell in love dated 2 years, then got married. --The best things about relationship are: the non-important day to day looks and touches that let me know he loves me. --The worst things about relationship are: outside influences. letting stress and money come between why you fell in love in the first place. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: the whole package. I want some one to love me for me, who can be honest and trustworthy. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to be a bit more patient, and understanding. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm not to bad there. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they are OK with my habits. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of my family. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it is a key part of any relationship. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality. beauty fades someone who can make you laugh, that's forever. --Regarding Age in Relationship a few year apart i think is most appropriate. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 5 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 3 --Regarding Religion in Relationship it works best if you both agree on the same things i feel it helps you both grow together. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different unless you are in a solid relationship. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was okay. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I could go either way. --Regarding Risks standing beside my husband when he had his breakdown. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): talk about it with your partner. I want to know what I'm getting into. --A funny relationship story: when my husband sang to me at our wedding with his best man. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Dec 31 12:21:52 2007 Anonymous Guest 25 in , =uk= F25 in , =uk= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: teaching RE: Handwriting: i'm interested in my partners handwritting but haven't thought about the meaning of it in our compatibility - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: winter book Recommended Reading-- Writers: tove jansson - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its when you include someone else in your life as if he/she was as important as you --That first relationship was That first relationship tried to embody all the preconceived ideas, dreams, ideals that i had gathered about what relationship should be - i was very clingy, expected lots of attention and shared romance and future planning. It was hardly relationship in a way that i was expecting more than seeing what is developing amongst us and taking it from there. --The best things about relationship are: being taken to places where i perhaps wouldn't be going by myself, being expected home, given food cooked in different way, the other person's presence makes me aware of myself from different perspective which can be challenging but is good in my case, sex, shared fun --The worst things about relationship are: there are days which are dull, when one of us or both are not up for including the other in our lives, when other's presence is just too much. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is really interested in the world, unambitious, non-boastful, playful, gentle, skillful with organic matter --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: voice personality gait --Regarding Age in Relationship it does not matter if its not because of some fear or trauma or inability to relate to peer group. if the person is totally free and both parties are equal in power and rights of decision making then whatever age difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 2 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 4 --Regarding Religion in Relationship it helps if partner understands and sympathises with other partners spiritual path. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: technically complicated business too busy to think about pleasure and love --Regarding living with someone before marriage: have lived together twice, havent yet married. I enjoyed living together with a man even though we did not get married. Marriage can be a goal, but primarily the goal is relationship. Does not matter if relationship does not grow into marriage. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life learning about people and myself in general, learning buddhism, letting go and seeing things as they are What Hindered me most in Relationship? Books & Films parents example and expectations and discrepancy between what they expected and what their own relationship was - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes, interesting did it in new years eve ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Dec 28 01:11:11 2007 Anonymous Guest 31 in Bangkok, n/a =Thailand= M31 in Bangkok, n/a =Thailand= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] google search engine - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Academics staff RE: Handwriting: irrelavant. RE: My HW: none AstroInfo: i don't think it's something to do with astrology. I'm a: Aries Sun; with Pisces Moon; and Virgo rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is when all people involved in the matter have mutual agreement that they are 'special' for one another and they are top 'priority' for one another. There might not be passion but surely there must be sufficient degree of 'friendship' and 'affection' there. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... merely because I was lonely and I just wanted to have someone. I wasn't in love. I knew that he liked me loads and I didn't mind having him as my boyfriend. --The best things about relationship are: the feeling of completeness and warmness. It's like you will never be alone in this world 'cos you have someone who will always there for you whenever you need them. --The worst things about relationship are: The conflicts between the need to be yourself and the need to 'compromise' --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is very different from me in terms of personality but have similar ways of thinking as well as having similar lifestyle. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: lower my expectation and try to see things just as it is, rather than as i'd like it to be. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm too self-centred and this would prevent me from relating to others. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I should learn to accept people for what they are. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: commitment --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: communication is an essential part of relationship but it must be deal with tactfulness. Being honest is good but then we need to be 'diplomatic' as well. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the message conveys from the smiles and the eyes. --Regarding Age in Relationship should be around the same age, within 3 years difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: we should regard individual preference on this matter. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: always straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion does not matter. It's love that matters most. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totally different ascents of life. There can be love without sex and vice ver sa. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it happened merely out of curiousity. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: co-habitation is not a bad idea, why not? --Regarding Risks the outcomes were painful at the time but when I look back, i think it worths the risk. After all, i have learnt something. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): one shouldn't worry about it too much if one stick to monogamy. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Sep 6 17:41:38 2007 Anonymous Guest in , =Canada= F in , =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] AstroInfo: yes...agree with astrology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: equal interactions for mutual benefit --That first relationship was That first relationship was... fall in love then marriage --The best things about relationship are: experiencing life events together --The worst things about relationship are: communicating feelings and needs --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: kind caring sensitive financially progressive --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: less impatient, more open to sharing needs and feelings --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to communicate my needs more effectively --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: better listening skills, not so tenacious when he doesn't get his way --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: equal --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I need to play fair --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: caring sensitive --Regarding Love and Sex: separate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: loving --Regarding living with someone before marriage: ok - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Aug 7 09:26:56 2007 Anonymous Guest 36 in , =UK= F36 in , =UK= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Another person in your life who becomes integral to most aspects of you. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...intense, but i fell inove too quickly --The best things about relationship are: Sharing/. making plans together. snuggling up on a cold night on the sofa. --The worst things about relationship are: Being vunerable. Once someone means a lot to you its very easy to become hurt --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to belong. To have mutual respect and love. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less paranoid and take responsibilty for my own happiness --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I sometimes dilute my personality because i'm so afraid of offending anyone --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i'd lve him to open up more --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I like the fact that my partner and I can talk about anything but neither of us are confrontational, which is good. I don't lilek argueing --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: his brains! i can't laugh or be interested in anyone for veyr long if they can't make me think --Regarding Religion in Relationship You may be form different background or cultures and even have a differnet faith, BUT your core beliefs and values on life have to be similar to make it work --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex with someone you love is the most amazing - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life growing up What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jun 27 05:10:18 2007 Anonymous Guest 48 in LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNA =USA= ...48 in LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - THINKING - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: SELF - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: LETS JUST BE KIND TO ONE ANOTHER CAUSE THE WORLD IS NOT HEADED IN A POSITIVE DERECTION SO SMALL GOOD DEEDS CAN MAKE YOU DAY AND SOMEONE ELSES..IT IS MUCH EASIER TO LIVE WITH NO TIME FOR ANGER RE: Handwriting: NO RE: My HW: A LOOK OF BEING SMART AstroInfo: NO I LOVE IT I JUST AN NOT IN THE KNOW MY RYTHUMS I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Aquarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: A COURSE IN MIRICALS Recommended Reading-- Writers: CHANNLED - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: LIVE IN LOVE-TRUE LOVE AND LUST FOR AT ALL TIMES --That first relationship was That first relationship was...LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT --The best things about relationship are: DEATH --The worst things about relationship are: HURTING EACH OTHER --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: SOMEOMNE WHO CAN HANDLE THEMSELVES IN ANY SITUATION --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: BE WILLING TO LET SOMEONE INTO MY GUARDED HEART --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: THERE ARE ADDITIONS I HAVE TO FILL THE VOID OF HAVING SOMEONE THAT I COULD NURTURE IN ORDER TO NURTURE AND HOROR MYSELF. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: IT DEPENDS WHAT THE HABIT IS --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: CONCIOUS --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I AM THE ONE ONE WHO ALWAYS WANT TO COMMUICATE SOMTIMES TO MUCH --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: A HAPPY STONG SECURE,CLEANE MAN WHO ALMOST HS AN APPEAL AND SOMETHING ABOUT HIM EVERYBOY SEES, LIKE A BRIGH LIGHT THAT ENTERS THE ROOM --Regarding Age in Relationship AGE SOULD NO MATTER IF THEY HAVR EVOLVED TO THE POINT THEY SEARVE EACH OTHER --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: GAY BUT IS STILL A TOTAL MAN PACHAAGES --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: MEN --Regarding Religion in Relationship YOUR SOUL AND YOUR SPIRIT OTWEIGHTS ANY ORGANIZED RELIGION --Regarding Love and Sex: LOVE AND GOOD SEX IS A GIFT FOR GOD IN A RELARIONSHIP --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: FIREWORKS --Regarding living with someone before marriage: STAY INDEPENDANT AND SELL IF IF FELLS RIGHT --Regarding Risks TRUTH AND TRUST --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I AM HEALTHY AND HAVE BEEN HIV SINCE 88!!!!! I NEVER FELT BETTER --A funny relationship story: HOW OPPOSITES CAN ATRACT AND THAT IN ITSELF CAN BE VERY FUNNY WHEN LOVE IS PRESENT - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend ALWAYS LOVE WHEN LOVE IS SO HARD TO CALL ON What Hindered me most in Relationship? Illicit Drugs GIVING INTOFEAR AND SELF-WORTH - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - IT IS FUN AND COVERS ALOT TO THINK ABOUT WHEN YOUVE JUST CONSIDERED A NEW LOVE - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? IS PEMIS SIZ IMPORANT! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jun 22 22:21:26 2007 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Was going good and bang one day a bomb exploded and then it was gone --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: communication and doing things together of interest --The worst things about relationship are: any type of abuse --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a good listner, communicator, fun loving and family oriented that expresses or eludes love and kindness --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to slow down a bit --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I could quit smoking otherwise I am a pretty decent person who has unconditional love to give - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Talking to People ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu May 24 19:10:05 2007 Anonymous Guest 23 in banning, california =usa= F23 in banning, california =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] teacher - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: challenging, in the beginning every thing's great when you have been with someone that you constantly feel you have to put up a fight for it starts feeling like a roller coaster ride. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... very intense, I was 17 and moved in with him and parents and other 2 children. he was 3 years older than me. we argued a lot but, we had a lot of love for eachoter. --The best things about relationship are: sleeping in the same bed and cuddling. its such a comforting feeling. --The worst things about relationship are: mistrust --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: i need a hard working man. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: listen a little better instead of talking too much. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life living life. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Mar 31 20:31:36 2007 Anonymous Guest 44 in St. Louis, Missouri =United States= F44 in St. Louis, Missouri =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Google - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Corp. Teller/ Massage Therapist RE: Handwriting: I don't have a partner at the time, but in the past I have examined and tried to analyze it. RE: My HW: pretty AstroInfo: I am interested for entertainment. I wish it was more accurate in predictions I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and Cancer rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Honesty, commited, best friend, supportive, fun, loving, helpful, caring and enjoy just being with each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was...Not love at first sight, but did marry. It ended after 13 years --The best things about relationship are: Just hanging out and enjoying each other completely. --The worst things about relationship are: Sharing everything. Not having enough alone time. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Loving, commited, supportive, confident, hard working, honest, caring, love life, enjoy traveling --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Tear down walls of protection. Learn to cook. Open up more. Not be so afraid. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I take things to heart to literally --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: To make decisions for both people not just me. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I don't respond well to belittling or screaming. I don't feel like anything get solved like that. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: teeth, eyes, and kindness --Regarding Age in Relationship I don't think there is an age limit when you are both adults. It depends on the people involved. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I choose people as my friends for the type of person they are not their sexual preference. I have many gay friends who I adore and most of the time enjoy hanging out with them more than I do my straight friends. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am straight and prefer that. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't think you have to be of the same religion, I do think that you have to have a common belief. --Regarding Love and Sex: Very important --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was too young. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: To each their own. I prefer to be married first before living with someone. I need the commitment and stability. --Regarding Risks I finally told my close guy friend that there was somehting between us after 2 years and he chose to go out with an exgirlfriend. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I have not had, Thank God to deal with that issue, but I hope that the person I am sleeping with is being honest because that is a subject that is always discussed and if I have any doubts either it doesn't happen or use a condom --A funny relationship story: Bad dates - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I made me think about what I want in a relationship, I have not thought about that specific. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 1 06:23:16 2007 Anonymous Guest 41 in Boston, MA == F41 in Boston, MA == Name: "Mickey" - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Handwritting search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: Its nice to be able to READ it. RE: My HW: Bold, direct. My printing is all caps and very legible. My penmenship is appalling. AstroInfo: I have read it all, and had my chart done twice. I think people just like to read about themselves (which I why I am on this webpage now). I'm a: Aries Sun; with Gemini Moon; and Aries rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I relationship is an verbal expression of intimacy with an emotional connection/commitment. It involves trust, respect, kindness and love among many other emotional and/or physical descriptives. Relationships are varied. They can range from work associates (respect), parents, friends and family (love, trust, respect, kindness). --That first relationship was Puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: A life partner. Someone I know I can count on when the foul weather arrives, as it certaily does. --The worst things about relationship are: Trust. I think for the most part men are mostly providing a flowery verbal presentation, not reliable action. Essentially, in my view, men are "all talk, no action". --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: It is vital he has the ability to maintain a serious conversation (an actual dialog), but is able to jump from that to clever humor. Emotional and mental stability is for me far more important than financial stability. He has to love to fish, be of higher intellegence and hopefully be (ahem) adequate... --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I have a controlling side. Being aware of this certainly makes the dealing of its byproducts easier. I also wish I could trust more easily. I am still in the midst of wading through this mess in an effort to overcome its pitfalls. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am prone to make snap decisions and take immediate action. This isn't to say I do not come right back with an apology, catch my breath and rethink the issue. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I will not tolerate a man that is inclined to view pornography. Period. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being responsible for my actions relating to my spouse's needs. In other words, does my actions/behavior positivly affect him? Am I acting/behaving in a manner that is respectful? Loving? Am I doing my part managing money? Chores? Maintaining open communication? Are his needs being met? --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Communication is vital. I do not raise my voice, but rather ask for him to sit with me fir a visit and experss my concerns. Something I have found to be very useful for its bonding value, it to mention the good I see in him. A day doesn't pass that I do not mention something positive about him. He is also very quick to uplift me. Although he is 7 years my junior, he has reached a point where he can confront ME with issues as well. When "challenges" arise, we have a loving, yet direct discussion about the issues. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Their "presence". I adore a dominant personality. Full of confidence. Physically, the first thing I notice is their shoulders, the broader the better. Hair color is next. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age does matter! And I laugh myself into the ground over this, because I DO believe that, and yet, my fiancee is 7.5 years YOUNGER than myself! We have quite the laugh over this when the subject rears its curious little face! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't care. But I am offened that the gay community does. I do not belive they should get special rights because of what they do in their bedrooms. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Hetro --Regarding Religion in Relationship In my experience and opinion, it cannot be possible without similar spiritual viewpoints. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex are roommates. Seperate yet very closely linked. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: =)) Disasterous. Hardly felt a thing. Pathetic tiny little guy he was. I didn't really understand anything until boy #2 came along. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Either. It's up to the couple. --Regarding Risks I share my weaknesses with them. I confess to my controlling side, and my lack of ability to trust. I do this in an effort to establish open dialog and let him know that I have issues, too. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Whatever. If I take the risk, then I pay for it. We will all die in the end. Egads! --A funny relationship story: OMGosh... I don't have the stamina in my wee little fingers to complete this one! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation Very curious What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness My first marriage took place just after turning 17. No, I was not pregnant. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think the question descriptions were too much. Instead of allowing the reader to contemplate the question for themselves, the webpage basically fed the reader ideas. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? What is up with this sordid porn craze? Why are men so addicted to sex with pictures, then claims to want a relationship? I know THREE ladies thus far that have had their homes and families broken apart from this. It destroys a man's mind and breaks the woman's heart. I simply do not understand... ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jan 19 00:27:43 2007 Anonymous Guest 24 in montreal, quebec =canada= F24 in montreal, quebec =canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] lloking for info on reading handwriting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: student in fine arts RE: Handwriting: I have never thought about it although I came to this website hoping to get some information on the handwriting of a guy I find very interesting... RE: My HW: no comment. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I think a relationship is about making each other's lives better, making each other better. it is fundamentally about raising a family. the person should stimulate you, motivate you, understand you and besides helping you to achieve they must be there for you when times are difficult, they must be there to pick you up. They should have a good sense of who you are. There should be mutual respect. There should be a balance between the two people. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... very intense, very physical and also very intellectual. It was passionate, that was all I was interested in, I did not understand what relationships were about. --The best things about relationship are: Having someone who knows you so well and cares about so much that they know and want to do exactly what you need to put a smile on your face. Coming home to a warm hug. Comfort. Having someone to talk to. --The worst things about relationship are: Sometimes you can loose yourself in a relationship, it is important to consider the other and compromise but you must not let the other impeed on your needs and dreams. it is difficult, in this day and age, with all the choices we have, to be sure that you are with the right person. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I would like someone that is smart, funny, that can see inside me. Someone I can be goofy with and someone that I could talk to for hours. Someone that has empathy for the world. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I would have to stop compromising too much. I would have to affirm myself and let the person know who really am. I would have to go out with their friends more often. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am a very secretive person, sometimes I should tell more about myself instead of hoping that the other can see right through me. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I have been able to love someone not in spite of, but including any bad habits. I am very open, maybe a little too much. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking care of the other person. Letting them know where you are if that's appropriate, for example if you're living together and can't come home one night. Making sure that you are doing as much as your partner. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Me and my current boyfriend have very different styles. I like to communicate, to argue, to have a passionate discussion. He does not respond to me right away, I might have a big fit or a big intense discussion and he will come back to me a few days later sometimes with a response. In our case it is all about upbringing. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I think the face in general is the first thing but for me to be interested I have to be touched somehow by his personnality. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age does not matter only because it is all quite relative. I think it is more a question of timing and wanting the same things. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think it makes sense that there would be a continuum, after all nothing is black or white in nature, nothing is that cut and dry. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I will always love men, but I can certainly appreciate a woman esthetically, but her charm also. --Regarding Religion in Relationship If both partners can agree that their different faiths can live together then there is no problem. I think that the reason for believing is the most important to be on the smae page for both partners. --Regarding Love and Sex: I think sex is important in a relationship, it is a way to stay close or get close to your partner wihtout the akwardness of words. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was with a guy that I really liked. I did not feel pressure to perform, he pretty much took over and led the way. It definitely got better from that point on. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't personnaly believe in mariage, it does not mean a great deal to me. I am currently living with my boyfriend, and if I were married I would feel trapped. --Regarding Risks I remembering opening myself up to a boyfriend when I was going through rough time. Looking back, I think it scared him away but I would not change the way I acted because he was imply not for me. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I have been in a relationship for the past four years. Today I have a greater awareness of these realities but back then I did not pay much attention to it, did not think it could happen to me. --A funny relationship story: Me and my current boyfriend have our own goofy language. If ever people saw us at our most extreme they would be shocked. We are pretty insane. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life It came to me when I realised what I needed from a relationship and I could then relate to the other better. The most important thing was to understand the importance of communication. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness I would run into any relationship without thinking. It had to fuel my passion. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I have been thinking about relationships a lot these days and so most of these questions I was laready thinking about. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 29 13:57:10 2006 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] RE: My HW: no ones ever commented AstroInfo: I'm gemini through and through! Don;t really pay serious attention to astrology, but often find descriptions of geminis match my general personality - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: INteracting with another person on a level that goes deeper that that which you hold with most people. Having someone to share your interests, your time, laughter, dissappointments, physical love with --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a frienship that turned into a firey fling --The best things about relationship are: great sex, laughter, challenge, excitment --The worst things about relationship are: communications, maintaining a high level of excitment and interest, maintaining a common direction --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who believes in me, who is supportive, who respects me and my goals, who makes me laugh, who has a compatable libido level --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: listen more, communicate better --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: it is easy to hang onto something for the sake of comfort, or for fear of the unknown. I am sometimes an enabler --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: if you earn my trust, respect and love, I am extremely loyal. Break that trust and you'll never get it back. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I tend to notice eyes first - but mostly smile and sense of humour - and I think I see or look for those things in the eyes. --Regarding Age in Relationship I married someone 10 years older than me. Not an issue in our early life, but right now I am a very young 40 year old and he is a very old 50 year old so we have what sometimes seems like a30 year age gap. Makes for some difficult times, but will probably seem less again as time goes on. I'm not sure there is one " right " answer - each individual's response to aging is so different. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Honestly haven't given it alot of thought. Live and let live. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm pretty much straight hetro. I do appreciate aesthetically when someone of the same sex has a nice body, but don't have any desire to explore it any further than that. I think its more an appreciation of someone who takes good care of themself. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are very heavily intertwined --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was somewhat dissappointing as he had conflicting issues around his religion. ( Good Catholic Boy) He was gung-ho to have sex, but immediately upon taking my virginity decided that that was a sinful (bad) thing to do and was stupid. Thanks! It was somewhat painful, but not bad - no rockets going off, but not awful either. --Regarding Risks don't have one - I'm pretty open to taking chances, and giving people opportunities. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Protect yourself, and be honest with your partner(s) about your previous history. Give them the choice as to whether or not they want to risk their health. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Sep 20 14:06:18 2006 Anonymous Guest 38 in Janesville, Wisconsin =USA= F38 in Janesville, Wisconsin =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] did a search for handwriting analysis, then clicked on a link to this site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Non-Profit Program Administrator RE: Handwriting: I'd love to analyze his handwriting. I think he's very tense and his writing tends to be very small and tight. His face just looks absolutely stern whenever he writes. It would be interesting. RE: My HW: No comments from others. I think it is ok but not on a consistent basis. If I'm writing a lot it shifts in technique. AstroInfo: I haven't really noticed a consistency in compatibility between any sign and mine. But I do check my yahoo horoscope, life and career, daily and it's pretty accurate. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: The coexistence of two or more people from different backgrounds and experiences, each making a commitment to be good and loving to one another despite their differences. Two people committing to caring for, sharing with, spending time with, and respecting each other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... what I thought would be a summer fling but turned out to be a 6 year relationship. The person, I thought at first, was just 3 years older than me but he soon confessed to being 6.5 years older than me. We lived in different cities, continued dating others, saw each other when we were in each other cities, wrote and talked on the phone regularly the entire time. --The best things about relationship are: The first kiss. The complete chaos and uncertainty of letting yourself fall in love. --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy, doubt, and the complete chaos and uncertainty of letting yourself fall in love. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A nice guy. Someone respectful, funny, relatively optimistic, a hard worker, someone who shares at least one of my interests, someone who can be independent and still make time for me, someone with a big heart and genuine love and respect for his family and friends, someone without gender biases. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less accomodating and more independent, be more outgoing, be more accepting of love. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I tend to want to be right, not necessarily in control, but right. That can cause arguments. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I am accomodating. They may infuriate me at times, but I get over it. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Understanding the other persons needs and choosing your actions accordingly. In my first relationship I somehow totally grasped that he was at this different stage in his life and had no problem giving him his freedom and actually insisting that we both carry on our lives with people our own ages and in our own cities. in the end I ended it because I felt it unfair to keep tagging him along when I knew I wasn't ready for permanent commitment and he was. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It always goes back to the idea that each person must recognize that they both grew up in different environments, different family settings, and with different experiences. That means we will all communicate differently and must always seek first to understand and then to be understood. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes and personality. a man has to be nice, funny, and respectful and them I'm hooked. --Regarding Age in Relationship To each his own. If it happens it happens. But an adult should always be the careful one and the cautious one when dealing with someone under 18. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't entirely agree. Although a person may find members of the same sex attractive, that seems as though it would be more out of comparison sake rather than desire. Doesn't mean they have the ability to have an intimate relationship with a same sex person. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have found many a woman sexy and am intrigued with the concept of two women and a man. I am not at all interested in thoughts of being just with a woman. It seems empty. --Regarding Religion in Relationship As long as any person, regardless of reliqion, is not too caught up in that religions dogma and is more focused on spirituality and the philosophy of his religion, any couple should be able to work it out regardless of religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: I need to feel loved to appreciate sex. If I'm being disrespected, or not shown love in daily life, I can't feel like having sex. Hand in hand if you're in a committed relationship. However, if you're not, your frame of mind is different and I'd be more accepting of a playful romp just for the sake of a romp. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: awkward and painful. Not well thought out or well planned. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I did it myself and think it was a mistake. We all have preconceived ideas of marriage - regardless of whether those concepts are present in our co-habitation scenario. So shifting from living together to marriage is heck! It also lends itselt to making lifetime decisions out of a sense of convenience or comfort, instead of taking a risk, rather than out of desire. --Regarding Risks My first serious relationship. I was young (15) and just clueless about love or what it felt like. He was 21 and ready for more in his life. Still we lasted 6 years. It was hard for me to accept when he said he loved me and hoped to marry me someday. usually that sort of intimacy would send me running and hiding for a while. It led to a few break ups before we, usually at my suggestion, got back together. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It certainly would affect my actions if I were single. I'd either remain celibate or insist on a condom until monogamy were established and we both consented to screenings. --A funny relationship story: When dating my husband, we rendezvouzed at his parents house when they were supposed to be out of town. They arrived home to find us in a rather compromising position on their living room floor. Oops. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was very interesting to complete. It does generate a lot of thought about how I approach this subject. K^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 25 18:58:00 2006 Anonymous Guest 23 in orlando, fl =usa= F23 in orlando, fl =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: as long as everyone can read it and it is leagable then i dont care. RE: My HW: neat but mess when im in a rush. AstroInfo: dunno I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: i would say it is the way i feel around that perosn or thing and they treat me so good. --That first relationship was my first love who is my best guy firned we are still friend nothing more. --The best things about relationship are: love friendship have someone there so your not alone support sex having someone who you want to marry and have kids with giving you love to someone romance be romantic for someone getting attention giving attention to someone having someone else to love other thatn your family being able to give and share things with someone giving and taking --The worst things about relationship are: having your partner not get alone with your friends bad sex not commating like you should be half listening to what is said lies cheating family hating mate frineds hating mate mate want you to be with him and leave your friends --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a kind caring giving person who is opened minded wants a wife and kids do not have to explain my american jamaican/indian culture someone who has goals in life and knows how to get them thy either graduated college or in college he has to have GOD in his life he has to be not fat or have tendencies to get fat. he has to like me just the way iam with every flaw --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i could get a better job. be more indepent be more open with it come to sex dont worry and this that my partner is gonna leave or doing something bad to me like all the other. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: me moving too fast then stopping to king about what i did --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: my partners habits help me. he is so straight forward with me sometimes he asked me if what is said hurt my feelings and sometimes he does. he is also overly critical of the things i say and i like that cause he makes me think of what i say and how i say it. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: 50 50 you have to give and take to make a relationship work. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: we all need to claim down when were in an arguement and listen to the other person then say out peace. we to listen and think about what we want to say before we say it. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: his voice. and his body and personality. --Regarding Age in Relationship age is just a number once your a year or two voer 18 then age should not matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: there is only straight and GOD made us to be straight for a reason so if your gay .... then your going to hell and thats thats --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: im straight as can be. some of my closest frineds tell me that im homophobic. and it for a good reason. GOD said he deos not want us to be gay if you are then your going to hell and thats all to it --Regarding Religion in Relationship if my partner and i beleive in GOD and the Bile and that all gays are going to hell then were are cool he has to want to raise our kids in the church... --Regarding Love and Sex: sex does not equal love. you got to love first then sex comes way way way later after you have said i love you and meant it. sex is just something that make too people that love each other with all there hearts closer physically, spirtually, and emotionally. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was the worst experience i ever had --Regarding living with someone before marriage: nope hell no he will not get marrige previalges before marrige. if something was to happen i would just be the girlfriend nothing more. --Regarding Risks i told a past partner that i was bipolar and that when i was in second grade... and he used this against me he used the disorder i had and so fears i had to try to take advange of me and plus he also held back his self from getting closer to me cause he thought that i was somewhat crzy cause i have bipolar disorder. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): my partner will be tested before there is sex we both will be. and we will still wear condoms until marrige. --A funny relationship story: when he hinted that he wanted to break up with me because of my family problem and the fact i got drunk and passed out at his house and he took care of me but while i was drunk i did some hurtful things to him infront of his good friends. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations the problems we had and how i dealed with in the wrong way and this made evrything worst. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: me freaking out and not telling him some important things and plus lying about the important stuff. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was too long. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? nope ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 13 18:18:39 2006 Anonymous Guest 36 in MB, SC =USA= F36 in MB, SC =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Mom RE: Handwriting: I have not had the opportunity to apply it. I've always had the ability to read people, handwriting is just another aspect of it. Body language, written language goes hand in hand. RE: My HW: I am told I have beautiful handwriting. I can see through 6 years of journals how moods, state of mind, depression, happiness, etc changed my writing. AstroInfo: Love astrology and I've read everything I can-I have the mind of a sieve and can't retain details. The big chunky stuff stays in there, so I know each sign and their traits in general. I also dabbled in Tarot. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: you + chair = relationship between ass and chair. It is a connection, a transfer of information, a useful often pleasurable action. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... immature puppy love --The best things about relationship are: comfort, happiness, strength, friendship, orgasms :) not the fake ones either because you're honest now. --The worst things about relationship are: Moods, learning when not to push the wrong buttons. Not knowing each other right away and finding out your opinions differ and trying to find a balance. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who makes me laugh, loves me when I'm ugly, knows when to leave me alone. I'm lucky like that :) --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Cook more. Learn how to save money. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am a homebody. I am not fond of crowds, like in clubs, since I'm not even a good dancer. Plus I live in a resort town, where the traffic is terrible and I don't like being angry. But in the off season I love the beach! I'm pretty sure I'm not even answering this question right lol I'm absent minded! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Either he has no strange habits or I am so used to them that it has no effect on my relationship. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Since I stay at home it is my responsibility to make sure the house is clean, dinner is cooked, the laundry is done, the bed is made and there is iced tea in a glass when he comes home. It is his responsibility to bring home the bacon and make sure I'm happy enough to do all that crap up there :) --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you have to take each situation and work it differently. It is important not to suppress your feelings and opinions, you just have to pick your time. Yelling gets you nowhere, but sometimes you just have to. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The eyes and teeth, having both and all is pretty important, though I could fall in love with a toothless cyclopse if he made me laugh. I'm drawn to needy souls. --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter, well if you're 55 and she's 12, that's just sick-but consenting adults over the age of 25 have at it. Whatever makes you happy. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I really dont get the woding of this question, so I'll answer it best I can in my own way. I am heterosexual , I've had homosexual experiences, and I believe that most people do and won't admit it. Maybe even just thoughts, but the idea is there. People should just live and let live, who gives a crap what people do behind closed doors. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Oh, I answered that up there^^^^ --Regarding Religion in Relationship it's all BS. Before there was a need for control, people worshipped the sun, the moon, the earth, the rain...you get my drift. I have FAITH. I believe in good and bad, not Heaven and Hell. I believe we have energies that never go out. I believe some people can tap into other energies and increase their abilities, it's having faith in yourself. My partner would (and does) accept that. --Regarding Love and Sex: I love sex. I love my man and I love making him happy. He's just lucky he's the one that found my spot and gave me my first real orgasm lol --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It hurt and I was scared my mother would find out, so I puked. Puked the 2nd and 3rd time after that too. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think it's a great idea to take it for a test drive. You really don't know someone until you live with them. --Regarding Risks I am an open book. People just tell me things. Even if I don't open my mouth-I must emit an aura of trust. The check out lady at Wal-Mart told me her marital problems while ringing up my stuff. I take risks, sometimes to the limits of obscene, but it's just to maintain my sanity. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Stick with one partner and keep it exciting. If you can't do that protect yourself!! Protect yourself anyway, kids dont need to come until after you're sure this is the person you want for a long time. I mean kids keep you strapped! --A funny relationship story: Would I deprive you of a chuckle if I said there have been so many funny things, I can't remember one of them? - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: experience, I guess it's spontanious, but more making a few mistakes and realizing what worked and what didn't. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy I worried if God would be mad at me for a while, until hormones raged and blinded me from caring. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I dunno, I just answered some questions. I was thinking I would get feedback. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Well, that question about homosexuality was confusing. ANd if I was totally off the wall and didn't answer a question correctly then that one probably needs rewording too. Most people like straight forward, common worded questions. I think unless you target them, highly intelligent people don't fill these things in. And I think I'm pretty smart. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jul 12 22:14:54 2006 Anonymous Guest 45 in , =USA= F45 in , =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] Crosslink from Handwriting SelfEval site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: Actually, it was very important -= my first husband's handwriting did not compliment mine as well, and we had ours analyzed. That was the precursor. . . RE: My HW: Yup - both my husband and myself have had comments on our handwriting. My husbands is beautiful and rounded. Mine is neat and precise, but with flourishes that have been called ornate. They seem to complement each other. AstroInfo: Eh. . . Sometimes we read the horoscope, sometimes not. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I would explain it based on attraction to a person's mind, body and soul. A mutual attraction. The bonds are formed, and as with anything, there will be some friction. Stressors will be present, but the true nature of maintaining a healthy relationship is to work things through with each other, so that both people grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually with each other at a fairly even rate (relational to each other, of course). --That first relationship was That first relationship was puppy love - and most amusing was that "Puppy Love" by Donny Osmond was indeed the top song of the year! Red-headed boy named Graham. We rode bikes together, and wrote notes back and forth in school. Alas, that was a sweet year in 4th grade, but Graham moved away, and I think I crushed on someone else . . . Randy, I think. . . --The best things about relationship are: The companionship, the love, the support, just being with them and sharing experiences and life. Nothing is better than shared memories, sensations, thoughts, dreams, and ideas. --The worst things about relationship are: Maintaining the physical balance of family and personal needs. Sometimes it is also seeking outside advice to heal the relationship rifts - as the outside viewer often tends to assist in re-calibration of what is "really" a problem, what is not, and steps for resolution or concensus with the people involved in the relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A best friend, a confidante, a person who has similar dreams and goals, one who can share, one who is comfortable with themselves and others, kindness and helping spirit, willingness to explore the spirituality, one to be active with. . . --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could be more outspoken on some issues, more assertive when I am dissatisfied, better at standing up for myself, and a little less insecure. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am not always willing to talk about problems - as that is considered whining. I am also too willing to ignore something in hopes that it will correct itself. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Required to be patient and not too critical. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking responsibility for the other person's feelings and doing your best not to hurt them. Taking responsibility on tasks, chores, emotional stresses, and sometimes even taking the lead on decisions - although another part is allowing responsibility to be taken by the other as well. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Critical. Essential. I am in a relationship with a talker - a communicator. I am not so much. I will not debate. If there is an argument, I will usually just sit back and listen rather than confront. However, after 20 years, I have gotten better about that - and more diplomatic about saying "bull-s((()" --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Personality, voice, kindness and attitude. Appearances are nice and a lovely bonus, but that is not what will last you through the years. . . --Regarding Age in Relationship YOu need to have things in common. Common reference points. JOkes that become one-liners - or even a single word that can bring a smile to both persons. A common frame of background, music, books, interests, pursuits. YOu do not have to be twins - but at least an appreciation of the other's interest and building understanding between the two. Anything else as to age is irrelevant. If the understanding is built and expanded upon to provide common referents, then that is all that is necessary. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: As a biologist, we see continuums of this in nearly every (I won't say every, because saying all or never tends to be incorrect) species of animals. Homosexual tendencies begin to show up under crowded conditions, and have been documented in all hominids. This continuum is biological in nature (although I also think some people may tend to "force" their preferences depending on whether they want to conform or rebel). --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I believe I am mostly heterosexual (saying that, because again, I mistrust "totally") --Regarding Religion in Relationship Fairly wide open. I actually married an agnostic. However, we now both share a same religious preference, although maybe differing levels of spirituality. HOwever, it is not taboo, and there is give and take. The most important thing is tolerance - and discussion. --Regarding Love and Sex: Just being with the one you love is wonderful. However, sex without love is just sad. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I think I was excited and disappointed all in the same breath. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It really depends on the people involved. My parents were married before living together - and are celebrating 40 years of marriage. I was married to my first husband before living together and finding out just how incompatible we were. My 2nd current husband and I lived together for a year, then married, and just celebrated our 20th anniversary. It really totally depends on the persons involved. Are they ready for a commitment or just looking for temporary security (an oxymoron). --Regarding Risks When I accepted a date from an upperclassman (and class president) in highschool that I had admired but had never even considered might be interested in asking me out! That was terrifying! And exciting! Lasted for 6 months, and was a really hard "fall" - even though I recognized the signs of withdrawal first, and I took the steps to end the relationship. Not something I wanted to do, but it was necessary, and as a result, maintained a friendship the remained special. The second was when I was dating a professional musician, and he offered several times to fly me out to Nashville with him. I guess I was too afraid to believe he was truly interested in maintaining a relationship, so I declined. I will always wonder on that one. . . --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): We have been very lucky. We have also discussed this with our sons as they grow up, so they are fully aware (or as aware as possible) of the dangers of unprotected sexual encounters. --A funny relationship story: Actually, some of them are very funny. Come to think of it, I believe most of them were funny - which is what made them so very nice. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life My best friend was 6 ft tall in 5th grade, and her boyfriend was an "older" middle school basketball player. We would talk a lot about her relationship - but mine was an unrequited crush on a boy named Dan - the smartest kid in the class, but too shy! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: My other best friend and I were fairly clueless on relationships with "boys" - so it was really a lack of experience and lack of interest at that age. . . - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Yes - I think emotional maturity is a critical factor. Also, asking about being friends in a relationship is a good idea. It worked for us. . . ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Apr 6 05:07:11 2006 Anonymous Guest 19 in Nairobi, =Kenya= F19 in Nairobi, =Kenya= Name: Sharon - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] I was on an msn search engine checking on Runes - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: I don't bother much about handwriting but I like artistic looking handwritings with curves. King of like my own. Long looping L's anr curved F;s RE: My HW: They always say it's beautiful and unique. Some say it's artistic. AstroInfo: I'm in love with astrology. I know my star sign though am still researchng on my moon sign. I'm capricorn so am compatible with scorpios, cancer I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a sharing between two willing people who deeply care about each other and respect eah other. --That first relationship was It was more of a hot now cold now relationship. He would go from hot to cold(He was Gemini!!) so When he was sort of balanced out, it was fiery. --The best things about relationship are: The feeling of oneness, sharing, kindness when sad, no more stuggles to face alone, a friend I can count on and trust, Oh there are numerous things!Understanding each other and knowing each other in and out. --The worst things about relationship are: Lack of trust,selfishness,lack of caring, over possesiveness,pessimism,unbalanced moods of one's partner i.e hot now cold next.. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A mature person with a balanced attitude to life, open minded,funny,optimistic,playful,spontaneous,open,carries his heart on his sleeve,not shy,passionate,hardworker,trustworthy,must be my friend. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Stop being stubborn,reduce some of my pride,be more open,trust enough to say "I love you!",not give up easily when "things aren't working out" --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I give myself excuses of why I shouldn't approach a guy and tell him I'd like us to be more than friends saying that it's not done, I guess am scared of being rejected --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Argumentative partners are my worst followed by Lying to me openly. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Marriage with a capital "M" and Kids with a capital "K" --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: If my boyfriend is obviously mad and is yelling at me I usually lower my own voice, listen to what he's saying and even if it's unfair I try to see his point f view. If all else fails I either walk out or resort to humour. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The eyes. a persons eyes are what attrat me first to a person then I start noticing other things. After all "the eyes are the morror to the soul" --Regarding Age in Relationship Age maters. Maturity and experiences help two people to relate well. The ideal would be someone at most 10 years your senior or 5 years your junior. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: everyone is different altogether. Sexuality doesn't reflect on a persons character and so I think either way we are all human. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm totally heterosexual.I'm attracted to the opposite sex though am curious about homosexual affairs though I've never tried it. --Regarding Religion in Relationship If two people trully love each other, religion doesn't matter as long as you have the same views on moral issues then this can't stop a relationship from taking place. --Regarding Love and Sex: \love and sex are two different entities.sex can happen between two people who don't love each other but I believe it's more meaningful and fulfilling between two people who love each other. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Confusing,awkward, a huge mistake and if I could review it I probably would have had it with someone else. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It depends on if I am looking for something long term or short term. either that or am not too sure about my relationship with the guy. It could work for some instances though i wouldn't like to go through it. --Regarding Risks None! oh my am so boring!! No risks --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I don't believe someone should let their partner have 100% trust. When it comes to STD's I say protect yourself and be safe! --A funny relationship story: Well me and my boyfriend were kissing at afriens house and when he walked in on us, My boyfriend pretended to be getting something out of my eye! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family I thhink I learned about relationships thrugh experiencs(my own) What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family My mother and father never had what I could call a real "connection" so that colored my opinion somewhat about relationships - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I loved it. I realised quite afew things about myself today that I hadn't noticed. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Mar 29 17:32:29 2006 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] google.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Codependence and loving partnership --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense --The best things about relationship are: Stability, trust, loyalty and understanding --The worst things about relationship are: time alone, no responsibility --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who understands me and loves me for who I am --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Patience and effort - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Mar 7 01:27:23 2006 Anonymous Guest 38 in , == F38 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] web search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: completely irrelevant RE: My HW: sometimes my husband says my handwriting can occasionally be hard to read if I'm writing in a hurry AstroInfo: not interested I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: 21 myths about marriage - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's a very complex commitment; to someone whom you care deeply for, that challenges your spirit daily. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: hugs, kisses, validation, compliments, flirting, goofing around, laughter, confidentiality, trust, hope, happiness, equality, respect, dignity, unshakeable love and commitment --The worst things about relationship are: anger, disrespect, frustration, lack of trust, lack of communication, yelling, fighting, verbal and physical attacks, silent treatment, hurtful words and actions --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a person who will love me for who I am and will treat me well and fairly. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: work harder on listening,accept him for who he is, try harder to work together, not shoot down every idea he has, try to work on myself more, improve my health so I would have more energy --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I blame others in my life for making my life miserable by holding them responsible for things tat are missing in my life. I get easily frustrated and give up to easily on caring about those around me and my own environment. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My husband gets easily frustrated with my inability to care for our children's disabilties and how others in society treat our children and us too. He doesn't like how I give up so easily and how I let others comments and behaviors bother me. He doesn't feel like I freely accept him and he feels like my expectations of him are too demanding and unfair. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of my family on a daily basis and trying not to lose my mind or my temper. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: You must try to live, speak cautiously, listen carefully, fight fairly and respectfully, maintain an unwavering level of patience,commitment to the other person, self control, and dignity, above all try not to lose yourcomposure --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality, looks, physique, humor, respectful, honesty, fun to be with, spontaneity --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter but you should make sure that you really want to be in a long term relationship with the person by spending at least one year getting to know one another. Also get to know someone before having sex because once you go that far there's no going back. It also throws the relationship into a whole new level; that could confuse your emotions and true feelings for someone. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: The whole gammit of sexual behaviors and how they are acted out, has become very distorted by the entertainment industry; and by other people trying to determine what true love should be like inside of a "normal society". I don't understand homosexuality or other distortions of what relationships were meant to be like. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer heterosexuality and being committed to one person of the opposite sex; and loving that person with all of your soul. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Sometimes if both people have different religious beliefs or values; it can become a challenging obstacle to overcome in a relationship. It can become something that can cause much division between people if not discussed early in the relationship. Some people can agree to disagree but that's not always the case; especially when you have a german and irish mixture of temperaments. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and behaviors affect how you canfeel about the sexual part of your relationship. If your partner just got done tearing you down verbally; or ignored you all day, and then expects you to bypass your hurt and have sex there's no way that's happening. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It wasn't all that great in the way that I felt cheated out of having the fantasy experience. It's portrayed as a big fairy tale and perfectly wonderful experience; but when there's no love or true commitment it turns out to be a very empty and hurtful experience. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it's a lot easier to take a person for granted and to leave the relationship when you aren't married. Like I said before, sex without love and a lifetime commitment to your partner is meaningless and empty. --Regarding Risks ten years ago when I decided to get married and have children. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): that if our society were more committed to helping people develop respectful relationships; and teaching them to respect themselves enough to not give their bodies to just anyone, sexually transmitted diseases could be wiped out or at least decreased greatly. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model life experiences What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse bad parental role models - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - helpful in that it made me think about my relationship style and values - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? can't think right now, too tired after all of those questions ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Feb 19 10:31:51 2006 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 9 11:37:12 2006 Anonymous Guest in Alamogordo, NM =United States= M in Alamogordo, NM =United States= Name: Rapha - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Looking for free handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Help others legally & spiritually - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Love others as Christ loved us! Be gentle, loving, caring, kind and forgiving and you WILL be blessed! RE: Handwriting: I am receptive to good cursive handwriting or good printing, but certainly don't let a person's handwriting or printing affect how much I might or might not love them! RE: My HW: This has varied, depending on how hurried I was when I wrote something. Sometimes I've be told my handwriting was beautiful or neat, but othertimes, I've had complaints that it was basically illegible! AstroInfo: I used to read Horoscopes finding things that were "right" and ignored those that were wrong. I no longer believe in Horoscopes. The sky has changed so much over time that horoscopes based on today's dates & signs are wrong anyway. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Out of the Shadows" for identifying and dealing with sexual addiction Recommended Reading-- Writers: Dr. Patrick Carnes - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A deep, soul-gripping, Creator-given love/tie to another being. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... with my pet lamb, which I bottle-fed and was then killed in front of me and I was made to eat her for Sunday dinner. THAT was the first time I sensed a "love" relationship. I was about 8. The same year, as I recall, I was incested/raped by an older, same sex, male family member. He said he loved me...but there was a price. It went on for 5 wonderful and confusing years. --The best things about relationship are: (Agape) love, trust, honesty, reassuring and suportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) --The worst things about relationship are: In being totally honest, there is the fear of the loved one's negative reactin to something I might say/have said or do/have done. There might be expectations I am not aware of or ones that I know, neither of which I might (always) live up to and might disappoint the very one I love most dearly! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Intense, intimate agape love, honesty, total trust, reasuring and supportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) and verbal confirmation of reciprocal love and compassion, physical and spiritual beauty! --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Without exception or any further failings, live my life totally committed to being obedient to Chist's teachings and LIVE those things for my loved one(s) to know and see are real and consistent - not stumbling ever agai! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My confused, incest-based experience of "love" between two men has led me to an alcohol and drug-based perverted experience of "love" - despite a happy marriage, which I abandoned to seek the "real" love that I felt I was lacking...until I found God's love for me and shared that with others. THAT was the loe I had been seeking. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My partner should be loyal and dedicated to our relationship. Reliable in what is promised, said or planned to be done. Needs to be continually honest, loving, caring and compassionate towards me AND others. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being loyal, reliable, trustworthy, dedicated, committed, finanically, socially, legally and emotionally "right". --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Always talking openly and spontaneously with each other with love, respect, honesty and faith in the "foreverness" of the relationship about ANYTHING: any problem, something funny, plans for the future, forgiving the past, etc. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: A sense of an individual's INNER being, followed by: eyes, behavior and physical appearance. --Regarding Age in Relationship I believe love is a state of the SOUL, not the mind or body, and is beyond consideration of "age". Love is not, at first, a physical/sexual thing. That might or might not evolve. The most important thing is that love exists! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I believe "straight" people can have "gay" experiences, without jeopardizing their overall "preference" or commitment to their heterosexual partners. I believe gays are committed to gay liftstyles - and there are "bi's". --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: My distorted view of love from a man, due to incest at a young age, led me to seek that same-sex love through most of my adult life, despite being married and having wonderful children. Finding agape love was what I needed! --Regarding Religion in Relationship The beauty of a "love" relationship is that it gives the opportunity to share the love of Christ with those we love. "Love one another as I loved you" said Christ! Being of the same "Religion" isn't important. Belief is! --Regarding Love and Sex: As I said above, I believe that love and sex are seperate and sex might not even ever occur - even in the most sincere and intense love relationships. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was adult male-to-male child, but I felt human love for the first time (for 5 years). It felt good being loved! I sought to recreate that love all my life without success - until finding the agape love of one Christian for another! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: After 40 years of "drugs, sex, rock 'n roll" wandering in my own proverbial "desert", I finally found Christ and believe that we should try our best to be obedient to Him in ALL things and we should marry and not co-habitate. --Regarding Risks Being totally open and honest about my past, and present, life experiences. My commitments, my dears, my rights and my wrongs. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I belive that, without going into details of one's personal past, number and sexes of partners, etc., when entering into a sexual, love relationship, a simple physical and, if needed, medication, would be best. --A funny relationship story: Nothing in particular, but the constant smiling, good humor/demeanor exhibited by my best friend is my source of fun, self-worth and joy, as well as the joy of the Lord. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy Finding the love of God for me was the love I had always sought but couldn't define - until I found it... The love of one Crhistian for another! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think it was very time-consuming, but exceptionally worthwhile! Completing your questionnaire helped me analyze and verbalize a lot of things that were not normally expressed, but probably known "down deep inside". - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? What is my sexual preference: homosexual vs. heterosexual (a) past) & (b) present? For me, "love=sexual contact" was with anonymous males, but now, my agape LOVE can be with a male and/or female. My life partner? Preferably female. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 9 11:33:32 2006 Anonymous Guest in Alamogordo, NM =United States= M in Alamogordo, NM =United States= Name: Rapha - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Looking for free handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Help others legally & spiritually - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Love others as Christ loved us! Be gentle, loving, caring, kind and forgiving and you WILL be blessed! RE: Handwriting: I am receptive to good cursive handwriting or good printing, but certainly don't let a person's handwriting or printing affect how much I might or might not love them! RE: My HW: This has varied, depending on how hurried I was when I wrote something. Sometimes I've be told my handwriting was beautiful or neat, but othertimes, I've had complaints that it was basically illegible! AstroInfo: I used to read Horoscopes finding things that were "right" and ignored those that were wrong. I no longer believe in Horoscopes. The sky has changed so much over time that horoscopes based on today's dates & signs are wrong anyway. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Out of the Shadows" for identifying and dealing with sexual addiction Recommended Reading-- Writers: Dr. Patrick Carnes - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A deep, soul-gripping, Creator-given love/tie to another being. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... with my pet lamb, which I bottle-fed and was then killed in front of me and I was made to eat her for Sunday dinner. THAT was the first time I sensed a "love" relationship. I was about 8. The same year, as I recall, I was incested/raped by an older, same sex, male family member. He said he loved me...but there was a price. It went on for 5 wonderful and confusing years. --The best things about relationship are: (Agape) love, trust, honesty, reassuring and suportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) --The worst things about relationship are: In being totally honest, there is the fear of the loved one's negative reactin to something I might say/have said or do/have done. There might be expectations I am not aware of or ones that I know, neither of which I might (always) live up to and might disappoint the very one I love most dearly! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Intense, intimate agape love, honesty, total trust, reasuring and supportive conversation and physical contact (like hugs) and verbal confirmation of reciprocal love and compassion, physical and spiritual beauty! --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Without exception or any further failings, live my life totally committed to being obedient to Chist's teachings and LIVE those things for my loved one(s) to know and see are real and consistent - not stumbling ever agai! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My confused, incest-based experience of "love" between two men has led me to an alcohol and drug-based perverted experience of "love" - despite a happy marriage, which I abandoned to seek the "real" love that I felt I was lacking...until I found God's love for me and shared that with others. THAT was the loe I had been seeking. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My partner should be loyal and dedicated to our relationship. Reliable in what is promised, said or planned to be done. Needs to be continually honest, loving, caring and compassionate towards me AND others. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being loyal, reliable, trustworthy, dedicated, committed, finanically, socially, legally and emotionally "right". --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Always talking openly and spontaneously with each other with love, respect, honesty and faith in the "foreverness" of the relationship about ANYTHING: any problem, something funny, plans for the future, forgiving the past, etc. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: A sense of an individual's INNER being, followed by: eyes, behavior and physical appearance. --Regarding Age in Relationship I believe love is a state of the SOUL, not the mind or body, and is beyond consideration of "age". Love is not, at first, a physical/sexual thing. That might or might not evolve. The most important thing is that love exists! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I believe "straight" people can have "gay" experiences, without jeopardizing their overall "preference" or commitment to their heterosexual partners. I believe gays are committed to gay liftstyles - and there are "bi's". --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: My distorted view of love from a man, due to incest at a young age, led me to seek that same-sex love through most of my adult life, despite being married and having wonderful children. Finding agape love was what I needed! --Regarding Religion in Relationship The beauty of a "love" relationship is that it gives the opportunity to share the love of Christ with those we love. "Love one another as I loved you" said Christ! Being of the same "Religion" isn't important. Belief is! --Regarding Love and Sex: As I said above, I believe that love and sex are seperate and sex might not even ever occur - even in the most sincere and intense love relationships. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was adult male-to-male child, but I felt human love for the first time (for 5 years). It felt good being loved! I sought to recreate that love all my life without success - until finding the agape love of one Christian for another! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: After 40 years of "drugs, sex, rock 'n roll" wandering in my own proverbial "desert", I finally found Christ and believe that we should try our best to be obedient to Him in ALL things and we should marry and not co-habitate. --Regarding Risks Being totally open and honest about my past, and present, life experiences. My commitments, my dears, my rights and my wrongs. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I belive that, without going into details of one's personal past, number and sexes of partners, etc., when entering into a sexual, love relationship, a simple physical and, if needed, medication, would be best. --A funny relationship story: Nothing in particular, but the constant smiling, good humor/demeanor exhibited by my best friend is my source of fun, self-worth and joy, as well as the joy of the Lord. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy Finding the love of God for me was the love I had always sought but couldn't define - until I found it... The love of one Crhistian for another! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think it was very time-consuming, but exceptionally worthwhile! Completing your questionnaire helped me analyze and verbalize a lot of things that were not normally expressed, but probably known "down deep inside". - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? What is my sexual preference: homosexual vs. heterosexual (a) past) & (b) present? For me, "love=sexual contact" was with anonymous males, but now, my agape LOVE can be with a male and/or female. My life partner? Preferably female. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jan 25 17:18:36 2006 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] through the handwriting analysis website - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Recommended Reading-- Writers: ?? - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: To be one together yet separate, respect and consideration, acceptance and compassion, compromise, letting go... ...who am I trying to kid? I've never achieved it, how can I define it?? --That first relationship was That first relationship was...obsession and convenience. --The best things about relationship are: focusing on myself and my own issues and letting them do the same... --The worst things about relationship are: ...yet trying to figure out a way to live in sanity at the same time. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who can accept that we are probably both pretty messed up or disfunctional (otherwise, we wouldn't be attracted to each other) and there is nothing either one of us can do to fix the other one or make it better--all we can do is stay in our own "yard" and try not to throw our garbage on their side of the fence or blame them for the crap we're tripping over. And hopefully have a barbeque together every once in a while when we're having a good day. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more content with myself and therefore more content with my partner; accept that if they are in a bad mood, it is a reflection from their inner space and I don't have to take it personally; accept that they are not me--they do not think or feel the same way I do and that's okay for them and I don't have to like it or agree with it but I can choose to live with it. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to keep the focus on me, otherwise I will try to blame, shame, and criticize. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Unless it involves physical or emotional abuse, my partner's behaviors are irrelevant to my happiness. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I am automatically attracted to a disfunctional personality (preferrably a drug addict or alcoholic); thankfully, I no longer have to act on that initial attraction. --Regarding Risks everything that's led up to this point in my life. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation I've never learned from watching others--always had to make my own mistakes (over and over and over and over and...) before I figured it out. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: stubborness and naiveté ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Dec 22 10:01:51 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Nov 14 12:16:31 2005 Anonymous Guest 46 in Norfolk, VA == F46 in Norfolk, VA == Name: Venita - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] RE: Handwriting: I get along better with a Messy handwriting person. RE: My HW: neat AstroInfo: no I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Friendship, trust, dependable, giving,loyalty and unconditional love. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... married at first sight --The best things about relationship are: Friendship --The worst things about relationship are: Selfishness --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I like to live alone, with short visits --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It is a big problem - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 11 05:32:40 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 3 08:40:32 2005 Anonymous Guest 39 in zagreb, =croatia= F39 in zagreb, =croatia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: teacher AstroInfo: disinterested - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a warm, emotional connection between two people --That first relationship was That first relationship was warm, friendly --The best things about relationship are: some very beatiful precious days and moments, long talks, little surprises, enjoying someones presence, ... --The worst things about relationship are: complicated misunderstandings --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: him - fantasy person who exists --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: express my feelings more open --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: a question if I am realy able to take it --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: we need to listen more carefully, to talk more open - we need to learn it --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: good heart, inteligence --Regarding Age in Relationship it matters but it is not the most important thing... --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: don`t think it is continuum --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Totally heterosexual like most people I know --Regarding Religion in Relationship for me very important, my basic interest - for me it is important for relationship --Regarding Love and Sex: it is all about love... sex is only one way of expression of love --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Love is not a pair of shoes - it is not for trying - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family books and church helped too What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other Role Model ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Oct 21 11:23:36 2005 Anonymous Guest 29 in oak hill, ohio =USA= F29 in oak hill, ohio =USA= Name: Dawn - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: burger king - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is two people who love each other and want to be with each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: spend each day with the person that i love --The worst things about relationship are: having some one tell you what you can and can't do --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: some one who is night inshinning armor --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not beind a whiner - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Oct 20 08:47:58 2005 Anonymous Guest 23 in , illinois =usa= F23 in , illinois =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: No. RE: My HW: SKipping AstroInfo: No. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I have friends and co-workers relationships that needs to improve. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Intense, a crush. Had a couple of week retationship with a person at the age of 12, that did not involve sex, but holding hands and kissing. --The best things about relationship are: Having trust in a person. --The worst things about relationship are: Telling a person you like them and want to date them. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: As a friend and lover you want trust and honesty. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Slow it down. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Moving to quickly and scaring them. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I want them to be more open and verbal with me. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being honest. No secrets. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I person has to open enough to talk face to face about problems. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Looks are important, but I look for a funny smart person. --Regarding Age in Relationship I don't know. I feel a young girl and older guy no. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Don't know. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I've had some relationships with men and have liked some women. I prefer woman. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I'm not going to go out with someone who worships the devil. I would like to go out with a Christian. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is a feeling. Sex is just physical. Anyone can have sex, but it takes more for love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: The first male was not good, there was no give and take. With a female (I was young 10) they were the same age, we were just playing around, it was OK. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Depends on how long you've been together. It's OK. --Regarding Risks I had a friend that I thought was a slut, but then I looked at her and thought differently and asked her out and she said yes. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I'd use a condom, and asked my male partners about diseases. --A funny relationship story: Writing on my partners care with shoe polish, getting silly stringed by her. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling observing, reading, and watching TV worrying about relationships, stressing out. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I thought it was silly. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Oct 15 16:09:59 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: i would explain a relationship as being a constant give and take between two people that have feelings for each other whether that is sexual or just friends --That first relationship was That first relationship was... when i was 14 years old and i guess it was like puppy love because i really thought i was going to marry him and then he started to get controlling and we ended up breaking up. --The best things about relationship are: someone who will always be there for me, someone who understands me, someone to run to when i need help, someone to laugh and cry with, cuddling, kissing, the feeling of love --The worst things about relationship are: control issues, possesiveness, jealousy, anger, --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: i want someone who is going to be honest with me, who will love me no matter what, who lets me be me, and who can accepts my quirps. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i want to be more understanding, more patient, more spontaneous - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family in my first relationship his mother absolutely hated and resented me becuase i was in her sons life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 30 02:59:19 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? What Helped me most deal with Relationship? What Hindered me most in Relationship? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 30 02:58:56 2005 Anonymous Guest 26 in , maryland =united states= F26 in , maryland =united states= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Love, Respect. Don't hate or judge. we are all one being under one sun and God. Remember satan is cunning so watch your back. RE: Handwriting: never thought about it. RE: My HW: none AstroInfo: i've given up astrology. but two alike signs rumbles because they have similar weaknesses and strengths and get easily upset when they see that their partner doesn't react or problem solve the way that they do or the way that they wish they could I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: when two people are seeing one another and sharing dreams, thoughts, and their bodies. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: the unconditional loving of one another --The worst things about relationship are: arguing or not agreeing about situations --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: them to be emotionally and financially stable. easing going, great communicator. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more control over my emotions. more passionate --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i overeat and am overweight. i don't really feel confident in myself which restricts my passionate side --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: stay calm, talk with sense. be empathetic. work --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: doing what is expected of you --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: listen. let the other finish their thoughts without interruption. and during this time try to keep your emotions under control. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: appearance but i can become unattracted to someone's personality therefore their overall being as ugly --Regarding Age in Relationship i think age plays a part. i think people can fall in love based on there ideals. for example, an older man might look for fresh beauty or a younger girl may look for financial stability. being superficial initiated them in finding the person and then falling in love. i don't know sometimes people have kindered spirits. so , i'm neutral --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I believe that some people are in denial. they know their sexual orientation but because of societies views they are subconsciously pressured into trying to live the "right way" but then their desire for their real need cause them to swith lanes several times. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: well as a child i watched pornography. and saw two women interacting in sex. never before until then did i know of it. i found it intriguing and then by the reactions of the characters and others watching made me curious on the excitement. when i got older i did engage in one homosexual relationship but found it no different than being with the opposite partner except for the body parts. I concluded that it wasn't for me. but i still fantasize about women but i think it is my subconscious saying that i want their body type. i would love to have a nice booty and perfect shape but only to attract men. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it depends on how spiritual one is. but if a person is heavily devouted to religion then being with a person of opposite views will probably cause a lot of frustration and struggle because one of their goals maybe to try and convert the other --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex is one. one shouldn't have sex unless their in love. sex without love is empty but sex with love is physically, emotionally and sexually gratifying --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: peer pressure was the force behind losing my virginity. sex was hyped up too much. i thought i would be transformed in some kind of way. but afterwards it was like that's it. that was sex. damn, i should have kept my virginity --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i believe that Gods law is the right way but because i am a sinner (which is no excuse) and lost my virginity and have been exposed to sex; I feel that sex and love are inseperable. and i feel that you should know your possible spouse and test the waters to see if you are overall happy with each other. in this day in age, many men and women wouln't be able to stay commited to a virgin because they can't test the waters. --Regarding Risks risking letting go completely, not withholding myself --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): well knowing the entire history of their partners is a little overrated. I believe once someone is tested and cleared of all diseases they are getting a second chance to protect themselves. but all couples should get tested together before engaging in any sexual behavior and practice monogamy --A funny relationship story: sharing a moment and laughing our heads of together - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was indepth. i liked it. it had me reminiscing and thinking - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? do you think that sex is overrated? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 18 20:32:12 2005 Anonymous Guest 39 in Houston, Texas =United States of America= F39 in Houston, Texas =United States of America= Name: - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: I think handwritting can tell me a lot about a person RE: My HW: no comments I've heard as it pertains to relationships but I've heard that it's easy to read and neat. AstroInfo: Astrology can tell us a lot about ourselves and others but its not a precise science. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two people coming together to help each other through the jungle of life with uphills and downhills but always foward --That first relationship was That first relationship was...I fell in love for the first time --The best things about relationship are: sharing joy --The worst things about relationship are: understanding someone else's perspective --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone to share experiences with good and bad, someone who will support me in all that I do and I can return that same support ---I need someone to share joy and sadness with and someone who will allow me to share their joys and sadness. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be more understanding that not everyone sees the world the way that I do --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: if I were not so suspecious that my love was not being totally honest --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'm pretty laid back --do what makes you happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I think I am responsible for protecting the trust given to me --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I talk a lot...I have an opinion on everything. I argue and then I get over it quickly. I also get very excited and animated when talking about normal life stuff. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: facial expressions ---are they kind, hard, soft, scary? --Regarding Age in Relationship you should be no more than 10 years apart so that you are not in different phases of life that age dictates --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I believe whatever makes someone happy sexually is what they should be doing --that is the point right? --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straigt as a board. I have experimented with some hot lesbian action and was not at all happy with the experiences. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it makes no difference to me what another believes as far as religion or spirtuality goes --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex can be great without love but love can't be great without sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: passion mixed with fear --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Live together before getting married but put limits on how long that arrangement will go-- a relationship does two things it either ends or you get married so after a couple of years you must take an inventory and ask which it's going to be and move towards that goal. --Regarding Risks trusting someone new not to hurt me takes a lot of risk IMO --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Protect yourself and don't be too promiscious --A funny relationship story: that assholes are usually great in bed - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - A little ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 16 20:51:37 2005 Anonymous Guest 39 in Venice, CA =USA= F39 in Venice, CA =USA= Name: Sandee - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] searching the web to salvage my relationship - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Buyer RE: Handwriting: I love his handwritting RE: My HW: It sucks AstroInfo: I have a prpblem with no one, people have problems with me. Their astrological sign means nothing to me. I'm a: Cancer Sun; with Leo Moon; and Sagittarius rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Share life experiences with compassion and intrigue and grow together --That first relationship was I was used for sex --The best things about relationship are: Check myself, give the relationship your all as you continue to learn and grow and roll with the punches that are life experiences. Be honest about your feelings as you recognize things you've never encountered before, loyalty and faithfullness --The worst things about relationship are: lack of compassion of your partners life experiences because you can't imagine them --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to be understood, appreciated, loved unconditionally, supported, treated with respect and compassion, agree to disagree and be adored --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: More awareness of other's feelings, ask lots of questions so we have a clear understanding of the desired relationship mutually, don't judge, be supportive and compassionate and understand that people make mistakes while learning how to really love and they may not be aware of their feelings all of the time so they may not be able to answer the question with logic. They are to be forgiven, and validate the other's feelings and always offer guidance and be open to just listen. Love myself and take care of myself so I can be a better partner. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to realize people don't think like me and I shouldn't be so bossy just because something works fine for me. Validate and always acknowledge my partner's feelings. Never expect others to do for me what I so willingly do for them. I love the gift of give. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Own your own thoughts because those are the only ones you posses. Listen to your partner and appreciate what they're telling you communicating to the best of their ability and do not tell them their full of shit because their explanation doesn't make sense to you. Ask more questions and be supportive. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I thought just giving love, encouragement, honesty, faithfullness and affection was the sole responsibility. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Arguments are healthy as long as both sides are heard and validated ending in agreement or not. Just listening allows people to learn things about themselves and is monumentally helpfull personally and for the relatiuonship. Some people answer and comment and a listening session becomes a damaging no growth ordeal. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Looks, personality, character, eyes, hands and how they treat me. --Regarding Age in Relationship Must be older, but no more than like 6 years. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Let there be love period. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship Spirituality, not religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Fuck you asshole!! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Cohabitation is a mst before marriage --Regarding Risks No risk no gain. I have nothing to lose as long as I'm smart and concentrate on the emotional stability over everything else. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I don't have sex before asking questions and at least a month or two goes by before I engage in intercourse so I know more about the person I'm giving myself to. --A funny relationship story: Laughter with each other appreciating one another's sense of humor. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life He broke my heart. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness I was who I thought the guy wanted me to be instead of being myself - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Excellent - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Spell relationship(s)correctly ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Sep 14 16:40:43 2005 Anonymous Guest 29 in Baton Rouge, LA =USA= F29 in Baton Rouge, LA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: haven't thought of it RE: My HW: neat and easy to read AstroInfo: it's interesting but i don't believe in it much I'm a: Leo Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: love, giving, sharing compromise --That first relationship was That first relationship was puppy love --The best things about relationship are: friendship, love, sex --The worst things about relationship are: understanding and compromise --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Responsible, stable, loving, loyal, honest --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less selfish, and less hot-headed --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't really have many bad habits --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'll try to work things out --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I feel like i do it all! --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i'm an arguer --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship within 2 to 10 years - age does matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: you have to be one or the other and being gay just isn't natural, i think it's wrong --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight - all the way --Regarding Religion in Relationship we should have similar views of religion or it could cause problems --Regarding Love and Sex: they go together --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: exciting and scary --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i think you should try it before you buy it, but i don't know if i could actually live with a person before marriage --Regarding Risks telling the person that i cared for that i cared for him and he didn't have a clue --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i would sleep with a person i thought could transmit this type of thing to me - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I don't know ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Sep 6 12:23:11 2005 Anonymous Guest 17 in Aberdeen, =Scotland, UK= F17 in Aberdeen, =Scotland, UK= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student at Academy(high school) RE: Handwriting: his handwriting is a mess and looks rather a lot like a lot of guys i know but it doesn't particularly bother me, at least it's still legible! RE: My HW: he once said it was pretty and neat and fancy after i commented on his but pesonally i hate my handwriting AstroInfo: i don't think it's possible that their are only 12 types of people in the world but sometimes it is strange how i have read the star signs at the end of the day and it is so similar to what actually happened. i do tend to go for people born in feburary so apparantly i like apuarius's I'm a: Pisces Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is something between (usually) two people who know eachother this does not neccisarily have to be caring or loving or close but it is usually considered this way --That first relationship was That first relationship was... exciting and long-term and happy (love) --The best things about relationship are: getting to know the person, having someone to talk to and rely on, not feeling alone --The worst things about relationship are: frustration at not being able to understand something that person did or said and not feeling needed --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who needs me and wants to be with me, someone who finds me attractive and someone who won't cheat(loyalty)and obviously someone who i am attracted to and can share even a few interests --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: a little less dominating in a relationship even though i am not with others(friends, teachers etc) a little more confident about my outward appearences maybe a little smarter too --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am too self conscious and nervous that my other half doesn't find me attractive or that he finds someone else more attractive despite the fact he always tells me otherwise --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: little things irritate me easily and may aggrivate me but despite all that i would still like them for who they were and try not to let it affect me and ask them to not do it as often but only if it were something small, if it were large i wouldn't ask them to curb who they were just for me --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: considering the other person and that you can't just yell at them whenever you feel angry you have to consider that they are a person who has feelings too. It also means being responsibility for yourself awell as the other person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to talk things out and i get frustrated when he says that he doesn't know what to say and i have to tell him what i need to hear. originally i would have rather been the one to listen but i have had to learn to be the one to talk otherwise no-one would --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how the person reacts around me looks i thought were always important but the thing that attracted me to the person i am with was just who he was around me and that he made me happy and relaxed --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter, it only matters if the age difference is between say a 20 yr old and a 13 or 14 yr old or even if a 17 and 14 yr old were together but if it were a 20 yr old with a 40 yr old it wouldn't matter. it seems to matter to me if, in my wiews, one of the persons is stil developing mentally and physically --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: absoloutely correct! no-one is completely hetrosexual no matter how much they think that homosexuality is a sin or totally wrong everyone is a little bi-sexual they just tend to be either more homosexual or more hetrosexual --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i look at other girls and can appreciate their beauty or that they are a good person with a great personality but i would never want to kiss a girl or touch a girl in an intimate way. i am sexually attracted to guys and only really enjoy being with guys --Regarding Religion in Relationship it will only matter if one or both of the people in the relationship are set in the belief that they must be with someone of the same faith. personally i think if you love someone enough you will try your hardest to make it work and see past that aspect but i know some people would never consider that the religion was less imporatnt --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are completely different, in todays society at any rate, i would never have sex with someone i didn't love but they don't always go together; many people have enjoyable sex which they do not regret and it is not with someone they love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: that it was perfect with a guy i totallly cared about and felt uninhibited with. it was great because it was our first time ever and it was with eachother so that took a lot of pressure off about expectations of past experiences --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it seems almost too traditional to belive that living together before marriage is wrong it was right years ago but time change and (although it can be debated) so do morals or at least the realisation of morals changes. therefore i believe that living together before marriage is perfectly accptable and sensible --Regarding Risks telling my other half things i had NEVER told anyone before and not hesitating about trusting them was a huge relief. The scariest thing i ever did was let myself be intimate with him because i hated my own appearance --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protection is key care about yourself even if you don't care about the other person think about the repurcussions of getting a STD it could ruin your whole life before you've even had a chance to live it --A funny relationship story: the cheesiest jokes anyone has ever heard, everytime i fall over or he falls over is always hilarious - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life the way i was raised contribuited to the way i think about other people What Hindered me most in Relationship? Rage - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was interesting and easy because i enjoyed examining myself and my beliefs and my relationships, that may be because psychology is extremely interesting and i hope to study it at university - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? "are/were you in a relationship if so how long is/was it?" i am in a relationship and have been now for just over a year ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 18 13:19:01 2005 Anonymous Guest 23 in tukwila, wa =usa= F23 in tukwila, wa =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] linked from hand writing analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: medical assistant RE: Handwriting: i think when i am happy i tend to write more round and bubbly and when i am upset about him i write more sharp RE: My HW: i have had some guys say it is hard to read and some say it is nice AstroInfo: i am very interested and don't know all my signs but would love to know. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: when two people have the same likes and dislikes. can get along and make eachother happy. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... high school. my first real relationship. i didn't really have any emotion or had negative thoughts. i was generally happy with this person. --The best things about relationship are: sharing life with someone. there is someone there to make me laugh when i am down. --The worst things about relationship are: trust. its really hard for me to trust people. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone i can trust with ease. someone who makes me laugh. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: trying harder to trust. to stop thinking everyone is lying to me. try not to be overbearing and possesive. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i dwell too much and i always have to know what he is doing and who he is with. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they always know how to make me happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: telling the other person what i am going to do or call if i am not going to be home at a certain time --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you have to choose the right time to talk or it will just resolve into a argument --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter. As long as you are getting what you want from them. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: no comment --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am not attracted to the same sex --Regarding Religion in Relationship doesn't effect my relationships --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex is different. love is a feeling you share with someone and sex is an action --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: doesn't happen the way i thought it would --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together first can solve a lot of problems and you can tell if you can really be with this person --Regarding Risks risking a relationship on truth. finding out wether he is telling the truth or not. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect your self. --A funny relationship story: being able to laugh about how clumsy i am - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - somewhat. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? i would like to examine how my feelings have changed from previous relationships. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 18 07:35:48 2005 Anonymous Guest 23 in tukwila, wa =usa= F23 in tukwila, wa =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] linked from hand writing analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: medical assistant RE: Handwriting: i think when i am happy i tend to write more round and bubbly and when i am upset about him i write more sharp RE: My HW: i have had some guys say it is hard to read and some say it is nice AstroInfo: i am very interested and don't know all my signs but would love to know. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: when two people have the same likes and dislikes. can get along and make eachother happy. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... high school. my first real relationship. i didn't really have any emotion or had negative thoughts. i was generally happy with this person. --The best things about relationship are: sharing life with someone. there is someone there to make me laugh when i am down. --The worst things about relationship are: trust. its really hard for me to trust people. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone i can trust with ease. someone who makes me laugh. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: trying harder to trust. to stop thinking everyone is lying to me. try not to be overbearing and possesive. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i dwell too much and i always have to know what he is doing and who he is with. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they always know how to make me happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: telling the other person what i am going to do or call if i am not going to be home at a certain time --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you have to choose the right time to talk or it will just resolve into a argument --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter. As long as you are getting what you want from them. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: no comment --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am not attracted to the same sex --Regarding Religion in Relationship doesn't effect my relationships --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex is different. love is a feeling you share with someone and sex is an action --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: doesn't happen the way i thought it would --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together first can solve a lot of problems and you can tell if you can really be with this person --Regarding Risks risking a relationship on truth. finding out wether he is telling the truth or not. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect your self. --A funny relationship story: being able to laugh about how clumsy i am - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - somewhat. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? i would like to examine how my feelings have changed from previous relationships. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 31 14:09:17 2005 Anonymous Guest 24 in salt lake, ut =usa= F24 in salt lake, ut =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Radio Program:... ] RE: Handwriting: I have never paid attention to my partners handwriting RE: My HW: beautiful AstroInfo: I believe in astrology, I think there is some truth to it I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its two people comming togather as one, complementing each others character, its a compromise, fun, exciting, piece of mind. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...a guy much older than me from whom I learned about sex but didn't have sex --The best things about relationship are: being loved, wanted, admired, pampered --The worst things about relationship are: time consuming, and emotionaly draining --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: good looking, strong character, confident, educated, tolerant, inteligent, wise, well mannered, spontanious, attentative, daring, realists, careing. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to listen more than talk, stand up for myself --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: habit of testing them --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he'd have to be clean, and well dressed --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: respect, and care --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I talk to myself about problems rather than my partner --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: appearances and personality --Regarding Age in Relationship depends on their personality. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: pretty accurate --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual but wouldn't mind experiencing --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't believe in any of it --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totaly seperate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: painful physicaly, but exhilarating --Regarding living with someone before marriage: try the pair of shoes --Regarding Risks exhilarating --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): scary, but I tend to trust the person I am with - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend boyfriend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 31 14:05:48 2005 Anonymous Guest 24 in salt lake, ut =usa= F24 in salt lake, ut =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Radio Program:... ] RE: Handwriting: I have never paid attention to my partners handwriting RE: My HW: beautiful AstroInfo: I believe in astrology, I think there is some truth to it I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its two people comming togather as one, complementing each others character, its a compromise, fun, exciting, piece of mind. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...a guy much older than me from whom I learned about sex but didn't have sex --The best things about relationship are: being loved, wanted, admired, pampered --The worst things about relationship are: time consuming, and emotionaly draining --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: good looking, strong character, confident, educated, tolerant, inteligent, wise, well mannered, spontanious, attentative, daring, realists, careing. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to listen more than talk, stand up for myself --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: habit of testing them --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he'd have to be clean, and well dressed --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: respect, and care --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I talk to myself about problems rather than my partner --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: appearances and personality --Regarding Age in Relationship depends on their personality. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: pretty accurate --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual but wouldn't mind experiencing --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't believe in any of it --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totaly seperate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: painful physicaly, but exhilarating --Regarding living with someone before marriage: try the pair of shoes --Regarding Risks exhilarating --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): scary, but I tend to trust the person I am with - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend boyfriend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 31 14:04:54 2005 Anonymous Guest 24 in salt lake, ut =usa= F24 in salt lake, ut =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Radio Program:... ] RE: Handwriting: I have never paid attention to my partners handwriting RE: My HW: beautiful AstroInfo: I believe in astrology, I think there is some truth to it I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its two people comming togather as one, complementing each others character, its a compromise, fun, exciting, piece of mind. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...a guy much older than me from whom I learned about sex but didn't have sex --The best things about relationship are: being loved, wanted, admired, pampered --The worst things about relationship are: time consuming, and emotionaly draining --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: good looking, strong character, confident, educated, tolerant, inteligent, wise, well mannered, spontanious, attentative, daring, realists, careing. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to listen more than talk, stand up for myself --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: habit of testing them --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he'd have to be clean, and well dressed --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: respect, and care --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I talk to myself about problems rather than my partner --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: appearances and personality --Regarding Age in Relationship depends on their personality. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: pretty accurate --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual but wouldn't mind experiencing --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't believe in any of it --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totaly seperate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: painful physicaly, but exhilarating --Regarding living with someone before marriage: try the pair of shoes --Regarding Risks exhilarating --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): scary, but I tend to trust the person I am with - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend boyfriend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 31 06:26:47 2005 Anonymous Guest 21 in Edgewater, Fl =USA= M21 in Edgewater, Fl =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] Prof/Studies: Student at UCF RE: Handwriting: It is nearly completely irrelevant.... RE: My HW: People think my handwriting is nice for a male.... AstroInfo: completely and wholely disinterested in the entirety of Astrology I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is something that is cared for like a plant. It needs love, it needs patience, but it needs the better part of you. --That first relationship was That first relationship was puppy love... --The best things about relationship are: Honesty with the other person. The ability to get advise from the other. And ofcourse "cuddle time" --The worst things about relationship are: Hanging out with friends and your significant other... Not letting each one feel avoided.... --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Honestly and a lot of love. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more on time and be less lazy. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my procrastination must come to an end... --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'm flexable... :D --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Bring it on..... --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It is vital to keep the relationship healthy and alive.... --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship Age shouldn't matter after each party is over 18 yers old. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: It doesn't bother me.... --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: No comment.... --Regarding Religion in Relationship To each his own... No bias with me... --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is a function and love is felt with the heart.... --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was memorable and pleasent.... --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is needed before marriage.... --Regarding Risks frightening.... --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be safe or don't have sex at all.... --A funny relationship story: We went to kiss for the first time and couldn't turn our heads the right way.... :D - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it let me identify where I stand on some things.... - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Is sex vital in a relationship? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 18 00:20:00 2005 Anonymous Guest 40 in bangkok, =thailand= M40 in bangkok, =thailand= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] looked for "jerral sapienza" - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: i always did like a certain style of handwriting or atleast how it makes me feel when i look at it. some i just dislike. RE: My HW: very similar to my partners'. AstroInfo: i have found that it is quite interesting. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: finding someone who one feels the least need to compromise with, the one with the best match. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love, purely based on instinct --The best things about relationship are: companionship and someone to emphatize with --The worst things about relationship are: accept and be content. there is no perfection --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: ease, simplicity, smooth --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: say things sweeter, be more gentle and aware of my language (tone) --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: jumping to conclusions too soon, nag nag nag, self occuppied --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to be there, get my hands dirty to help them out. be able to count on them being there, atleast to listen attentively. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it is two way. what is agreed should reflect in the action that follows. i dislike mouth says "yes, ok, no problem" and action does " no, i dont agree, i will do what i want" --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: i am a size queen, so size of cock usually gets my attention. however, if that is not available, i would have to say eyes and voice. --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter for the time being. however, in the long run, having someone physically similar makes it alot easier. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 0-7 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i prefer 6 and 7 --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is better to be the same as to have as little conflicts and as little need to compramise as possible --Regarding Love and Sex: they are quite different. sexless love is possible, loveless sex is also possible. sexful love is great and loveful sex is even better. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: quite scary. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: definitely co habitation. most issues lies with virginity. don't have sex, but do live together and see if the personalities clash and if it is possible to compromise. --Regarding Risks take the risk, high risk high return when i am young and can afford, low risk and low return when i am older. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): go with the heart. just do it. ones already trust the other with their heart, the body is just secondary. if one must, use a rubber. --A funny relationship story: i befriended ingvar because i felt sorry for him. he talked to me because he felt sorry for me. we went in for the wrong reasons. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was quite interesting. made me reflect about my relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 18 00:19:23 2005 Anonymous Guest 40 in bangkok, == M40 in bangkok, == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] looked for "jerral sapienza" - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: i always did like a certain style of handwriting or atleast how it makes me feel when i look at it. some i just dislike. RE: My HW: very similar to my partners'. AstroInfo: i have found that it is quite interesting. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: finding someone who one feels the least need to compromise with, the one with the best match. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love, purely based on instinct --The best things about relationship are: companionship and someone to emphatize with --The worst things about relationship are: accept and be content. there is no perfection --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: ease, simplicity, smooth --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: say things sweeter, be more gentle and aware of my language (tone) --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: jumping to conclusions too soon, nag nag nag, self occuppied --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to be there, get my hands dirty to help them out. be able to count on them being there, atleast to listen attentively. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it is two way. what is agreed should reflect in the action that follows. i dislike mouth says "yes, ok, no problem" and action does " no, i dont agree, i will do what i want" --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: i am a size queen, so size of cock usually gets my attention. however, if that is not available, i would have to say eyes and voice. --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter for the time being. however, in the long run, having someone physically similar makes it alot easier. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 0-7 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i prefer 6 and 7 --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is better to be the same as to have as little conflicts and as little need to compramise as possible --Regarding Love and Sex: they are quite different. sexless love is possible, loveless sex is also possible. sexful love is great and loveful sex is even better. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: quite scary. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: definitely co habitation. most issues lies with virginity. don't have sex, but do live together and see if the personalities clash and if it is possible to compromise. --Regarding Risks take the risk, high risk high return when i am young and can afford, low risk and low return when i am older. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): go with the heart. just do it. ones already trust the other with their heart, the body is just secondary. if one must, use a rubber. --A funny relationship story: i befriended ingvar because i felt sorry for him. he talked to me because he felt sorry for me. we went in for the wrong reasons. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was quite interesting. made me reflect about my relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Mar 6 07:03:26 2005 Anonymous Guest 24 in allentown, pa =lehigh= M24 in allentown, pa =lehigh= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Prof/Studies: student I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... with a girl, which i felt socialized into --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 0 - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 24 20:07:15 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? What Helped me most deal with Relationship? What Hindered me most in Relationship? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jan 25 09:54:59 2005 Anonymous Guest 30 in Ann Arbor, Michigan =USA= F30 in Ann Arbor, Michigan =USA= Name: Karen - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] yahoo search engine - your like number 19 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Administrative RE: Handwriting: i feel that you are onto something, i do find certain hand writings more attractive subconsiously than others. I remember exactly how my daughters father wrote and how it made me more interested in him. I love the way my current bf writes. I cannot stand highly slanted writing... RE: My HW: people comment all the time that my handwriting is like a school teachers.. not sure what that means AstroInfo: Astrology .. i take a look at it after I am in the relationship and sure enough it lines up right.. i don't hold too much faith in readings, but I do listen and stay alert also I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: When two people are able to share time together that makes them feel happy - like best friends, but are on another level of intimacy that portrays a deep unselfish love, and you are able to trust another person with this love, and they in turn open it to you. And of course, these two people must have similiar interests, morals and values in order not to fight all the time. --That first relationship was That first relationship was destined to fail? I was 13 he was 18. I was "in love" and tried to learn everything I could about him, I guess puppy love.. he took my virginity then left. I "dated" one guy for a few years before my next relationship, which was for 2 years (16-18) and first real one, which was the fact we were too young and didnt' know how to be adults. --The best things about relationship are: laughter cuddling loving (physically) making the other person smile with secret surprises, knowing little things that make them ahppy --The worst things about relationship are: Anger, disagreements, feeling like the other person just ignores your opinion, thoughts or beliefs --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: fun, loving, caring, confident, loyal, sympathetic, stern --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: better myself financially stick to my core values and not be swayed just because someone makes me laugh --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Right now I am at the point where I am trying to figure out if its holding me back or helping me improve.. i am in limbo.. and that's the pattern I repeat the most..and it kills the relationship when I start voicing it --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: the only issue that comes up is my partner's parenting habits. It's my daughter, and he's not good being a parent. Not abusive, just too strict and is a jerk at times --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: My Daughter. I have responsibility, no one else, and unless you are willing to take a full responsibility as a parent, dont think you can be a half a parent, an donly when u want --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i want to talk, i want to be heard, even if he doesnt agree, i want him to understand, listen and acknowledge he understands my feelings too --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes, smile and laugh --Regarding Age in Relationship within five years is a good gap, then you don't have the generation thing going, but hey, to each their own --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: that study sounds about right even for modern day society --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am not sure.. i am somewhere inbetween. I have experimented with females, find females attractive, but only would devote myself in a relationship to a man --Regarding Religion in Relationship I dont have any views of religion. I dont know if i believe in God. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is sex.. Love is Love, combine the two, and you have some awesome love making sex! they are two different aspects, but also at times should be viewed as one --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: fast pulse, warm all over body tingle, unsure of what was about to happen, shy, nervous, embarassed, amazed (that was it, thats what all the hype is about?) --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I dont know what's best. I have co-habited the last three relationships, and well, I'm still not married, and not sure of if i want to be with ths person.. he hasn't made tht committment, so I am still free to leave. I'd be much more willing to give up certain things if i were married. --Regarding Risks every time i am in a relationship and it lasts longer than a few months, it becomes personal and therefore is a risk everytime. I allow someone into my life, my home, my family.. it's all a risk --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): STD = Scared To Death Yup, too many people have them, most don't know and I don't want any. I am very picky, very scared, and well, will end up staying with someone longer justcuz I don't want to have to start over and worry about that again --A funny relationship story: the amount of humor i can have with one person is amazing.. i never knew that someone else could share the same humourous thoughts as myself, we dont even have to talk sometimes, we just laugh knowing what the other is thinking - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling Friends, Counseling, learning from mistakes What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: Stubborness to fix it to make it right to not give up - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it went over all the same things I have been pondering ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jan 15 06:57:21 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == F in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: I like neat handwriting, but handwriting does not really matter. If it is illegible, then that is a problem. I do note the fact that handwriting often symbolizes the person's personality. RE: My HW: They said that my handwriting is neat. However, I feel that it is rather messy. In fact this past year my handwriting has changed significantly. AstroInfo: I am immensly interested in astrology. I feel that my particular sign ( Virgo) relates to my personality a great deal. Also, my partners sign (libra) has a tendency to relate to his personality as well. I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I believe that a relationship is dervived from trust. If you are unable to trust someone, then you do not have a sturdy relationship amongst them. In a healthy relationship, support is key. You have to be willing to support your friend/lover regardless and respect their descisions. It's also important to know that everyone has flaws, and you either have to look past them, or find someone else. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Well relationships are hard things to define. First off, my first real realationship consisted of a mutual agreement of future plans, similar common interests, along with phsyical attraction. We are still together, but times are rough. --The best things about relationship are: I believe that the best thing to look forward to in a relationship is the happiness of having someone sit by your side and not have to say a thing and they know exactly how you feel and they respect it. --The worst things about relationship are: I believe the most difficult thing to deal with in relationships is when the other one withholds the inability to accept people have flaws. Nitpicking causes fights and problems in a relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: What I want a person to be in order for me to be satisfied is someone who I can hangout with and not feel obligated to do anything. Someone who can come over at any time and I do not have to fix my hair or put on a stitch of makeup. Someone who is willing to help me do homework. Someone who understands that I am very involved in school and respects it. Someone who is proud to be with me. Someone who cares about me and respects my decisions. Someone who doesn't try to tear me down. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could attempt to go out of my way a bit more and exhibit more emotions. Through this exhibition they would know that I appreciate them. I also, could give more compliments than I often do. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am generally a very understand individual. However, at times I may infact be too paranoid of my own actions. Ultimately, immediately question everything of which I do. This could lead to an inabilty because the other person may use that to their own advantage. Also, I have a tendency to remain introverted with respect to school. When I have school on my mind, I stay completely driven. People might that mistake that for being ignored. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: In order for someone to relate to my inability they would have to respect me for who I am as a person. They would have to understand that some days I just need to study. They would know that I cared for them and that school is an important factor in order to succeed later on in life. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Responsibilty for respecting one another. Also, remaining commited to the other individual regardless. It's responsible to watch your actions and realize they may affect another. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I am the type of person who likes to be calm and rational when in a relationship. When something bothers me, I become vocal about it. However, I do not get aggrivated, I simply state the fact that it bothers me. If the person continues to do so, then it is entirely up to them. I believe that discussing things brings an awareness to the relationship, which is vital for lasting. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: What I care about most is personality mixed with a smile. I feel that looks fade. If someone is initally beautiful, but their personality is horrible, thier looks fade and visa versa. It's important to keep in mind when you get older, your look swill fade and all you'll have left is the personality. Thus, looks are not that important. --Regarding Age in Relationship I believe that age and time does not matter. I believe age is nothing but a number, and does not make a difference. I also believe that love comes in places you would lease expect them to. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I believe that it does not matter if you're gay or straight or bisexual for that matter. You are what you truly are. However, I find it easier to understand those who are homosexual, rather than bi because bisexual individuals just seem confused to me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefere males. I have experimented with women, however that I was heavily sedated. I believe that thier is attraction in women, however it is more or less based on wanting to be as pretty as them, not wanting to date them. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I respect others if they have a different religion or faith. As long as they stay respectful to their own religion and are moral individuals, religion does not matter. --Regarding Love and Sex: I do not believe that love and sex need to go to gether. I believe that enjoyingn the company of another individual can be by far more rewarding then sexual intercorse. However, sometimes intercourse is wanted in order to demonstrate the love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I felt really nervous and excited at the same time. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe that living withs omeone is fine. I do recomend getting married first, but it's all a matter of choice. I support individual choice. --Regarding Risks Sharing how I truly felt regarding romantic instances. Also admiting there might be a chance of me doing something wrong when I was not totally sure. Ultimately, leaving me succeptable to loosing that person. I just didn't want to keep a secrete even if I did not know the answer myself. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It's better to be safe. --A funny relationship story: The time we were outside playing in the snow, I had so much clothing on I looked similar to that of the boy in A Christmas Story. My boyfriend and I were then playing in the snow, all he would have to do is barely tap me and I'd fall right over. I could barely move and I looked like a little eskimo. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I'm interested in my results. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jan 15 06:56:37 2005 Anonymous Guest in , == F in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: I like neat handwriting, but handwriting does not really matter. If it is illegible, then that is a problem. I do note the fact that handwriting often symbolizes the person's personality. RE: My HW: They said that my handwriting is neat. However, I feel that it is rather messy. In fact this past year my handwriting has changed significantly. AstroInfo: I am immensly interested in astrology. I feel that my particular sign ( Virgo) relates to my personality a great deal. Also, my partners sign (libra) has a tendency to relate to his personality as well. I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I believe that a relationship is dervived from trust. If you are unable to trust someone, then you do not have a sturdy relationship amongst them. In a healthy relationship, support is key. You have to be willing to support your friend/lover regardless and respect their descisions. It's also important to know that everyone has flaws, and you either have to look past them, or find someone else. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Well relationships are hard things to define. First off, my first real realationship consisted of a mutual agreement of future plans, similar common interests, along with phsyical attraction. We are still together, but times are rough. --The best things about relationship are: I believe that the best thing to look forward to in a relationship is the happiness of having someone sit by your side and not have to say a thing and they know exactly how you feel and they respect it. --The worst things about relationship are: I believe the most difficult thing to deal with in relationships is when the other one withholds the inability to accept people have flaws. Nitpicking causes fights and problems in a relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: What I want a person to be in order for me to be satisfied is someone who I can hangout with and not feel obligated to do anything. Someone who can come over at any time and I do not have to fix my hair or put on a stitch of makeup. Someone who is willing to help me do homework. Someone who understands that I am very involved in school and respects it. Someone who is proud to be with me. Someone who cares about me and respects my decisions. Someone who doesn't try to tear me down. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could attempt to go out of my way a bit more and exhibit more emotions. Through this exhibition they would know that I appreciate them. I also, could give more compliments than I often do. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am generally a very understand individual. However, at times I may infact be too paranoid of my own actions. Ultimately, immediately question everything of which I do. This could lead to an inabilty because the other person may use that to their own advantage. Also, I have a tendency to remain introverted with respect to school. When I have school on my mind, I stay completely driven. People might that mistake that for being ignored. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: In order for someone to relate to my inability they would have to respect me for who I am as a person. They would have to understand that some days I just need to study. They would know that I cared for them and that school is an important factor in order to succeed later on in life. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Responsibilty for respecting one another. Also, remaining commited to the other individual regardless. It's responsible to watch your actions and realize they may affect another. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I am the type of person who likes to be calm and rational when in a relationship. When something bothers me, I become vocal about it. However, I do not get aggrivated, I simply state the fact that it bothers me. If the person continues to do so, then it is entirely up to them. I believe that discussing things brings an awareness to the relationship, which is vital for lasting. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: What I care about most is personality mixed with a smile. I feel that looks fade. If someone is initally beautiful, but their personality is horrible, thier looks fade and visa versa. It's important to keep in mind when you get older, your look swill fade and all you'll have left is the personality. Thus, looks are not that important. --Regarding Age in Relationship I believe that age and time does not matter. I believe age is nothing but a number, and does not make a difference. I also believe that love comes in places you would lease expect them to. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I believe that it does not matter if you're gay or straight or bisexual for that matter. You are what you truly are. However, I find it easier to understand those who are homosexual, rather than bi because bisexual individuals just seem confused to me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefere males. I have experimented with women, however that I was heavily sedated. I believe that thier is attraction in women, however it is more or less based on wanting to be as pretty as them, not wanting to date them. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I respect others if they have a different religion or faith. As long as they stay respectful to their own religion and are moral individuals, religion does not matter. --Regarding Love and Sex: I do not believe that love and sex need to go to gether. I believe that enjoyingn the company of another individual can be by far more rewarding then sexual intercorse. However, sometimes intercourse is wanted in order to demonstrate the love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I felt really nervous and excited at the same time. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe that living withs omeone is fine. I do recomend getting married first, but it's all a matter of choice. I support individual choice. --Regarding Risks Sharing how I truly felt regarding romantic instances. Also admiting there might be a chance of me doing something wrong when I was not totally sure. Ultimately, leaving me succeptable to loosing that person. I just didn't want to keep a secrete even if I did not know the answer myself. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It's better to be safe. --A funny relationship story: The time we were outside playing in the snow, I had so much clothing on I looked similar to that of the boy in A Christmas Story. My boyfriend and I were then playing in the snow, all he would have to do is barely tap me and I'd fall right over. I could barely move and I looked like a little eskimo. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I'm interested in my results. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Nov 24 22:22:25 2004 Anonymous Guest 26 in Nacogdoches, Texas =USA= F26 in Nacogdoches, Texas =USA= Name: Mihaela Email: <fantasy588-at-yahoo.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] I do web serches regularly on graphology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: psych grad student RE: Handwriting: I never really thought about this, but it sounds interesting RE: My HW: most people said that my handwriting looks beautiful, but that they can't understand it...my partner said the same thing...is that relevant? AstroInfo: i don't know I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two different entities connected by blood or emotions --That first relationship was That first relationship was... I fell in love at first sight...it actually only lasted 2 weeks, but I was in love with the guy for 3 years...juts could not get over him... --The best things about relationship are: the thought that someone really cares about me and accepts me just the way I am --The worst things about relationship are: learning to understand when a relationship is over and that, although you lost a partner, you may have found a lifetime friend --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someoen who accepts me the way I am, who loves me for what I am and not for what I have, who appreciates me and what I can do... --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop getting soooo angry soooooo easily...and stop being stubborn would be nice,too --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my habits never really interfered with my relationships --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: the same thing that goes for me would be nice --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: understanding that you're not alone anymore, that you have to take the other person into account,too --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I always speak my mind, no matter how seriuos or frivolous the matter is --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the lips --Regarding Age in Relationship age DOES NOT matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think it depends on emotions really --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm bisexual myself... --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't think religion should be important --Regarding Love and Sex: they're 2 different things..but it's so much better to have sex with the one you love! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I hated it and swore to myself never to do it again...actually, that was what made me consider other options --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think it's best to live together before marriage, but again it depends on circumstances --Regarding Risks I took a risk once and it almost cost me my life,so no more.... --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): PRACTICE SAFE SEX!!!! --A funny relationship story: I don't remember anything funny right now - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Music my own experiences What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it certainly made me think about some things...I really liked it - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I really can't think of anything else ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Nov 17 22:20:58 2004 Anonymous Guest 26 in Roodepoort, Gauteng, Johannesburg =South Africa= F26 in Roodepoort, Gauteng, Johannesburg =South Africa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Accounting RE: Handwriting: Your handwriting reflects the person that you are, and if I could I would first analyse a person's handwriting before considering whether to pursue a relationship/date. RE: My HW: No, but people often comment that it is rather beautiful and neat AstroInfo: I am interested and believe in it but don't know my sun/moon/rising signs. There is one starsign in particular that is always drawn to me but we are completely incompatible as this starsign is too jealous and dominating for me - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is a kind of friendship/intimacy and the way you and another person care for each other. Sacrifices you make and things you do to make each other happy. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...very akward, I fell in love fast but kept tying to get the other person to prove his love for me as he was much older than me and a different nationality --The best things about relationship are: Knowing there is somebody else out there really caring about and looking out for you, someone you can trust and depend on....and share your happiness and sadness with. --The worst things about relationship are: Trusting that person with your heart, your secrets and putting your happiness in your hands....knowing there is always the risk of it falling apart some way or another --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Him to really care for and look out for me, but not suffocating/smothering me. Be gentle and treat me like a lady, not like a child. Trust is most important! --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Open up my heart and really let the person inside, trusting him with all I have. I'm sure there are many more, but this is the most important. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Sometimes I act a bit strange, almost lazy....preferring to stay at home just being on my own by myself with no apparant reason at all. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: When I really care for a person, I accept this person with all his "habits" as long as he does the same for me. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being aware that you have the power to trample on(and perhaps smash/break) your partner's heart. Always being considerate of his/her feelings. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Always say what is bothering you, don't wait until it builds up, give your partner a chance to "fix" what is bugging you. Never say things you'll regret when arguing. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Personality definitely....I do however notice a sexy, shy smile and crows feet around the eyes(A sure sign that the person loves to laugh) --Regarding Age in Relationship My first love was 22 years older than me and it was disasterous as he was forever telling me what I should/should not do, treating me like a baby. I am happiest when my partner is person is more or less the same age or +- 5 years older than me. We relate better to each other. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't have any comments on this. I for one would not feel comfortable with a person the same sex as me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I definately prefer the opposite sex, one might have the odd thought about the same sex but it think perhaps people do think about it now and again...I have. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Again, my first love was a different religion and this was a problem. Things like these are important and tend to become sore spots, especially when you have to decide how to raise children etc. One feels at home with one's own sort --Regarding Love and Sex: I cannot enjoy Sex with a person unless I really truly love this person. To me Sex is a way of expressing your love for each other. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was horrible, painful, I did not know how to respond or act --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I honestly don't know what to say. I wouldn't live with a man before marraige again because once you live together you might never get married. --Regarding Risks The particular risk I took was worth it, I experienced intense feelings, of both joy and sorrow. In the end it was worth it as life is about feeling and experiencing, not observing. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I trust my partners waaaayyy to much --A funny relationship story: This is a tough question and I'm not sure how to answer this - my partner HAS to have an excellent sense of humour...thus there are always hilarious moments - "They who play together stay together" - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Also experimented and chatting to family/reading books etc What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Very useful, made me think. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Oct 17 09:10:45 2004 Anonymous Guest 18 in sunderland, =durham= F18 in sunderland, =durham= Name: sarah Email: < jillweatherstone-at-yahoo.co.uk - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] yahoo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: revenue officer, psychology, business studies - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: men who think they can just touch should be murdered in their beds RE: Handwriting: all my family seems to have bad handwriting and my partners are always really bad aswee, my current puts in random capital letters and is bearly legiable RE: My HW: messy, but my relationships are usually relaxed yet my handwriting is more tensed. what i write could be full of meanings so what u see with me isnt always what you get. AstroInfo: i matched mine and my partners sign and it showed complex feelings which was true, it also said it wouldnt work out, which is not true, i believe it in some aspect but a billion people with the same sign arent going to have the same week I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: 2 people knowing each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was puppy love --The best things about relationship are: the warmth feeling --The worst things about relationship are: trying not to argue in front a group of people --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: humor, so not the racist type --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: tidy up more --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: they dont --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: as long as i get cuddles whenever i want them il be fine --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: getting a mortguage and a baby, i cant wait. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: dont talk until it needs to be yelled --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how other people relate to them, if they think they are cool or funny, etc --Regarding Age in Relationship it matters if ur 25 and wanna party you dont wanna be with a 65 year old who cant, u have to be in the same place in life --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: toltally true, at one point or another curiosity always wins --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: mainly boys, but not many girls, i prefer men --Regarding Religion in Relationship if ur in love who cares what god u believe in, if any. --Regarding Love and Sex: you can love without sex, but sex doesnt make you come as much if theres no love involved, so id take them as inseperable --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: pain --Regarding living with someone before marriage: im co-habiting and we may as well be married so i suppose do what u feel right. --Regarding Risks moving in with him --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): my partner was a virgin and i always had used protection, now we dont have to. --A funny relationship story: i dont know any - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 6 19:02:38 2004 Anonymous Guest 16 in Blanding, Utah =USA= F16 in Blanding, Utah =USA= Name: Chailee Email: < chailee2000-at-hotmail.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] heard about things like this and just wanted to look it up a little bit - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: havent ever thought about it RE: My HW: Havent ever had comments about my handwriting from partners AstroInfo: I havent ever known much about it, so I haven't payed much attention to those factors I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I would explain personalitys playing a big role, age, friends, just all of the factors related.. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... between puppy love, moving onto an intense fiery thing. --The best things about relationship are: Companionship, Intimacy --The worst things about relationship are: Other people butting in. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who i can feel relaxed around, who makes me want to be the person I am. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could be a little more open. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I drink too much. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I would like them to be able to be honest, not lie as much. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: holding up my side of the relationship. being trustworthy, and reliable, and sincere. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it's okay to talk, even if sometimes you say dumb things --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality, voice, looks, and smile --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesnt matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Everyone has their own oppinions, more power to them. but i prefer straight people. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship i am open to anyone. I dont expect them to be religious, spiritual maybe, but not religious --Regarding Love and Sex: love isnt full until sex is there too, it binds it --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i wasnt ready for sex my first time. but I am a very sexual person, and express myself in many aspects of sexuality --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I am alright with living together before marriage. --Regarding Risks Telling that person how I feel, because of fear of rejection --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I am clean --A funny relationship story: ?? couldnt really say off the top of my head - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Sep 9 21:29:02 2004 Anonymous Guest 24 in , == F24 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: I have notice how my partner's handwriting reflects his irratic character. RE: My HW: legible AstroInfo: i noticed that my two major, committed relationships have been to aries. However, some astrologers say that it is not possible for us to get along. I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Gemini Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Repeated interactive encounters with another person, regardless of their sex, race, or social status. The other person can be a lover, customer, or relative. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i fell in love with the romance. --The best things about relationship are: Having someone value you just as much as you value them. --The worst things about relationship are: Accepting that individuals are just that, individual. Everyone is going to have unique personalities; if one choses to have someone in his/her life, one has to accept them as they are. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: gives critical feedback, supportive, concerned and interested in my goals, logical and reasonable, carefully affectionate, good humor, doesn't mind being spontaneous once in a while. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: show more empathy, celebrate individuals as they are. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I shouldn't have the same expectations of others as i do for myself. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I do well in accepting individuals I value as they are. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking responsibilty for another's reactions and acknowledging when I had something to do with it. Moreover, taking the responsibility to reestablish the balance. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It's important to recognize the other person's communication style. This will decrease the chances of misunderstandings that may lead to undesirable consequences. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The manner in which someone carries him/herself. --Regarding Age in Relationship Women should be younger than their male counterparts. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: One is either hetero or homosexual. However, that doesn't mean that a male heterosexual cannot find another male to appear attractive. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I enjoy being heterosexual. Although, I do have a few homosexual friends. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It depends how strict the religion or you are about your spirituality. --Regarding Love and Sex: Depending on the type of relationship - committed or casual - sex may play an important role. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Inadequacy. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: How else would you know if the person you are dating has behavioral problems such as bi-polar disease. Sometimes it's very hard to detect certain extreme behavior issues when you don't live with someone. --Regarding Risks The opportunity for someone to betray you. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I would never sleep with someone that I new was promiscuous. Or evaluate whether they take good care of themselves. If he doesn't take good care of himself, I would think more than two or three times before sleeping with him. --A funny relationship story: sharing bathrooms with someone! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: closed minded, expected too much from significant other. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it way okay ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 27 19:12:08 2004 Anonymous Guest 22 in , nebraska == F22 in , nebraska == Name: Vanessa Email: < vanessamarie14-at-hotmail.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: Handwriting can tell how thought the words are that the person is writeing RE: My HW: my partner has said that my handwriting was neat I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Fell in love --The best things about relationship are: Friendship --The worst things about relationship are: trust --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Eyes, You can tell exactly what the person is feeling --Regarding Age in Relationship I think age doesnt matter it depend on the person some people are more mature not at the same emotional level as their peers --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex go hand and hand. Sex with out love isnt great sex - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Aug 17 21:03:29 2004 Anonymous Guest 41 in Largo, Florida =USA= F41 in Largo, Florida =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Yahoo - psychology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Severe abuse growing up so relationships and trust issues are difficult. RE: Handwriting: I don't know what to think of this. RE: My HW: I don't know. AstroInfo: I don't believe that but for fun, it's ok. to read the daily ones. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is like a glow of energy that comes from within that when shared one feels like one is floating and no longer are present problems that strong. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... dear friends from church, actually. A couple who befriended me. As far as dating, I was 21 when I really felt close to a young man the same age. --The best things about relationship are: Trust, respect, love, unity, sense of humor. --The worst things about relationship are: codependency; abuse; money problems; loneliness. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A healthy person who knows how to take care of himself and share that with his companion. He in turn is open to his partner's sharing. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Build up my trust. Build my sense of humor (I can be funny!). Loose weight, eat better and exercise so that he can see that I take good care of myself. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Watch less t.v.; cook healthy foods; not be afraid to show feelings and be vulnerable. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Communication is the key! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: The fear that I tend to rescue people and take too much on myself. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I don't like arguments. Anger scares me a lot of the time. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: A smile. --Regarding Age in Relationship Doesn't matter! Love is universal. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I stay out of that discussion. I let people decide what they want to do. As long as people stay out of that part of my life, I am fine. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: N/A --Regarding Religion in Relationship Tricky subject. For me, What I belive would work better is to marry some one of my same religion. Spirituality is important in my life and I don't want to marry someone who is too different from me. --Regarding Love and Sex: They can be both. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I feel really terrible since my experience was with my father, the bastard. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: In my religion, living together is not encouraged. --Regarding Risks I don't know. The question itself upsets me. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I don't have sex with anyone, protection or not. I will wait to take my chances when I marry. --A funny relationship story: Getting stuck at a toll booth in a highway in NY (the car broke down!), heavy rain and no rearview mirror! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance Codependent Anonymous; comedy books about relationships. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I found it okay. It helped me look into some important issues without feeling overwhelmed. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jul 30 07:14:20 2004 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] was in my fav. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: nursing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Give thanks to the Lord EVERY DAY..DONT EVER LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN! RE: My HW: different all the time AstroInfo: i am totaly into astrology! I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was...fall in love married at first sight --The best things about relationship are: my self esteem, my dignity and happiness --The worst things about relationship are: fear, let downs, stress, dissapointment, mental/verbal abuse --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: honesty, good communication, no accusing --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: sex --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am focusing on my future, happiness --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i need to find out who he really isbeing equal with your --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: have your priorities in order --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: there are those who can hold an honest conversation without tthrowing in criticizim --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship tons of love, kidness, caring and i am a good person all around! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: n/a --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i prefer straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship my partner has to have love for our LORD --Regarding Risks being equal, open and honest not greedy, overprotected --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i need to know if its there - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - alittle confused ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jul 27 15:19:01 2004 Anonymous Guest 19 in gloucester, gloucestershire =uk= M19 in gloucester, gloucestershire =uk= Name: tim Email: <room16laser-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: store manager RE: Handwriting: never even thought about it RE: My HW: everyone says its very neat AstroInfo: always read the horrorscopes out of intresst and occasionally think yeah actually that does kind of relate. but dont rely on it for advice or to map out my life for me. though for some reasons seem to attract a lot of picies which apparently is unsually for a virgo! I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: the interaction between two different ppl --That first relationship was That first relationship was. with one of my best friends kind of developed over time we were very close, Till she fell for a guy 20 years her senior, married with children who just used her for sex. but hey im not bitter at all. --The best things about relationship are: friendship and companionship someone to share everything with and to help take their burdens too --The worst things about relationship are: when your apart from each other for extended periods of time --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is confident in themselves and knows what they want. who is prepared to give everything to you and likes you for who you are doesnt try to change you into what they want --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more open with the way i feel about people. Accept everyone has their own oppinions and dont have to agree with me all the time and its not personal when they dont. maybe balance partner and friends a bit better --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: im too closed used to keeping things to myself due to a difficult childhood. Also probably go out too much as its a wekkly trasdition with friends --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: if i want to be with someone then nothing they ever do can put me off --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: accepting your not always the innocent party and sharing tasks and commitments --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i can listen with the best of them and in an agument go silent while partner gets angry and shouts. just dont feel comfortable being loud --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the smile of a person and how confident they appear --Regarding Age in Relationship depends on cirumsatnces. nothing wrong with big age gap as long as the feelings are genuine and one partner isnt using the other to boost ego or for some other reason which is often the case --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: everyone wonders what it would be like to experiment but the majority leave it at that so i wud say most ppl are round the 1 or 2 mark on the scale --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: though about it as have most ppl but never been tempted to do it for real --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion and faith make up part of who you are so are partly responsible for if you attracted to someone or not. therefore if you are actracted to someone of another faith that faith ould be part of what is attracting you so it is certainly not a barrier to a relationship --Regarding Love and Sex: without love sex is meaningless. while the two are linked i think it is perfectly possible to love someone but not be sexually attracted to them and vice versa. however sex is the most personal act two ppl can be involved in so it should only be with someone you love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: excited beyond all measure but with no real idea of what to do. desprate to please the partner --Regarding living with someone before marriage: moving in is a step to be taken as soon as both partners are readyto make a commitment to each other but they dontnessecerally have to be commited enough to get married before living together --Regarding Risks the one person i ever opened up to ran off with another bloke. safe to say risk isnt high up my list of things to do in a relationship --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): only sleep with people you know and trust even then we make a point of getting checked out before doing it just in case --A funny relationship story: being caught in the back seat of the car bythe cops while i was with my girlfriend - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jul 24 23:27:38 2004 Anonymous Guest 45 in Yakima, Washington =USA= F45 in Yakima, Washington =USA= Name: Lori S. Crow Email: <hope1017-at-juno.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] I've met you a few times! I am a friend of Kristian Clouse's and you have been to my church in Yakima (Unity) and to my office! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Administrator/Assisted Living` RE: Handwriting: i will have both our handwriting analyzed. I want to know MORE! RE: My HW: Don't know yet AstroInfo: i love it and study it all the time. Supposedly my Libra sign and his Cancer sign should have few problems. . life has intervened and made us what we are on top of our sun signs. We are wonderful for each other-at- I'm a: Libra Sun; with Sagittarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: I don"t remember the exact title but it employed the "B E S T" method "Bless, Edify, Share, Touch" It made sense to me Recommended Reading-- Writers: Ed Wheat (I think?) - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A feeling that you work on 24/7. A series of negotiations, mediations, compromises, atta boys, feel goods and feel bads. A giving of 100% when it can be done and a hope that the other person will give !00% when they are capable too. If it evens out, it is okay. It often doesn't. You have to be willing to realize that it is okay to disagree and okay to not see eye to eye. It is like an old pair of jeans so comfortable. . .never complacent (complacency kills) and never for granted. . always work but always the best work you could ever do. . --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i wanted a "boyfriend"! It seemed like what I was supposed to be wanting/ --The best things about relationship are: the future with my best friend, laughter, not wanting to get lost in the infrastructure of miniscule parts of life but living the whole picture day by day, minute by minute. --The worst things about relationship are: learning that the person I love is not exactly like me, not taking everything personally. If he is having a bad day, it is not I that has caused it. He has the right to have feelings just like I do. Accepting his idiosyncrocies (sp?) and knowing that he is accepting mine. Giving giving giving. . .and knowing that he is doing the same. Having great faith that hope will triumph over experience! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone I can count on, someone who is stable, someone who knows when to say "I'm sorry" and when to remind me that I may be making a "poor' choice. Someone who knows how to show affection and receive it, someone not afraid to say "I love you" --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Not be insecure, carry my confidence with me. . a man loves a confident woman. Reassure him of my love and commitment just as often as he needs to be reassured without pressure --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am used to chaos. I was married to an alcoholic for years and my father was one too. I have a tendency to create chaos or a crisis when there is no need for one. My partner realizes this in me and reminds me that stability is good and looking for a fight is not a good choice. I have learned to "take a walk! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: He is one in a million. I have waited a lifetime for him. . --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking responsibility for my words, my moods and my responses to life --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: One needs to be able to walk away and take the space that one needs. A cooling off period is essential! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Someone's teeth! I guess I notice if someone is smiling! --Regarding Age in Relationship i'm 45, Mike is 50. 10 years is a generation. . I feel one should have much in common; music, history, etc. . .I work with geriatrics and I love them but I couldn't be in love with one! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: We have all been everything in one life or another. Love knows no bounds or gender . . i am straight but not narrow minded. I have no desire to make love to a woman nor does my partner have the desire to make love to a man. that is just where we are in this life --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: See above --Regarding Religion in Relationship Mike and I share a very similiar opinion of Faith. I went with a person who was a Mormon, , , it didn't work!!!! --Regarding Love and Sex: If you are in love, the sex is great. . .sex can still be great without love but it is just that. . . sex. Making love is an intimate part of a relationship. Making love and sex are two totally different things! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: "Is that it?" --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I am living with my partner and I feel God has blessed our union. I would love to be married for the "legal security" that it brings in this country. I would love to have his last name. I will never push the issue however as I would rather have him without the benift of marriage than not have him at all --Regarding Risks When I met Mike I was extremely wounded as was he. I took an extreme leap of faith and now believe that we are together for the rest of our lives. Statistics would say otherwise. We have both a plethora of relationships in our past. we pledged outselves to each other after taking the leap of faith and BELIEVING and now KNOWING that this is where we are supposed to be. We have taken the leap of faith to know LOVE. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): My "faithful" husband of 18 years have me HIV. . .I ended up with cervical cancer and almost lost my life. . .need i say more? --A funny relationship story: The entirety of our relationship. We laugh all the time - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Watching how loving my grandfather was no matter what a bi. . . my grandmother was! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling I thought that even a bad relationship was better than no relationship - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This was fun! It is late on a Saturday night tho and I am tired! Should have done it in the morning! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jul 24 22:59:03 2004 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] I've met you a few times! I am a friend of Kristian Clouse's and you have been to my church in Yakima (Unity) and to my office! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: I don - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i wanted a "boyfriend"! It seemed like what I was supposed to be wanting/ - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Watching how loving my grandfather was no matter what a bi. . . my grandmother was! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling I thought that even a bad relationship was better than no relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jul 24 22:59:02 2004 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] I've met you a few times! I am a friend of Kristian Clouse's and you have been to my church in Yakima (Unity) and to my office! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: I don - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i wanted a "boyfriend"! It seemed like what I was supposed to be wanting/ - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Watching how loving my grandfather was no matter what a bi. . . my grandmother was! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling I thought that even a bad relationship was better than no relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jun 27 20:22:58 2004 Anonymous Guest 24 in , =USA= F24 in , =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] yahoo web search for career assessment questionaire - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: self employed RE: My HW: Messy, and i took the HW questionaire and found it to be amazingly accurate other than the astrological sign - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: One might call relationship the feelings that you and another person share for each other, or in the sadder cases, the feelings that you have for someone who may not neccesarily share those feelings with you. Relationship is something that can make you feel wonderful or something that can make you feel horrible. In both cases, it is something that forces you to feel alive, because if you didn't have feelings for anything or anyone (even if it is self pity for yourself) you wouldn't feel that you had the drive to live. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a puppy love that I thought was an intense fiery love. I was crushed at not having the person in my life then but laugh at the thought of ever having had a real relationship with this person now. --The best things about relationship are: Knowing that somebody loves you just as unconditionally as you love them, being able to laugh at each others pety misfortunes together, being there for each other when you know there is nobody else on the earth that you would want to be there for you, holding each other with the warm comforting feeling that we will always be there for each other, in our hearts as well as in the flesh...creating an everlasting feeling of shared love and security. --The worst things about relationship are: sharing...feelings, perspectives, decisions, space, money...dare I say that evil word...all of the things that two people are bound to have different opinions on causing one party to always have to take a loss --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is willing to understand my needs...not someone who will try to give me everything I ever wanted, but someone who will support me in getting there by myself if that is what it takes to make me happy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: have more faith and self-confidence in myself to lesson the load of constant reassurement I need from my partner --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Change is good...too many people get in a relationship rut, or think that finding the "right person" (whom they never seem to find) will give them happiness when really it is their self that they are looking for. I went through many partners trying to find that "right person" only to find that I kept dating the same type of person who was ever-so wrong for me --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: My opinion is: never go to bed angry, don't ignore that there is a problem...talk about it if it needs discussing, and don't out wear your welcome to someones lended ears. You can only talk about a subject for such an amount of time before you realize that there is no solution or you get angrier at each other...give it a rest once and a while. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: As the saying goes, "looks do help", but my first true love (unfortunately that didn't last) --Regarding Age in Relationship Age definitely does not matter in love, but I do think that some generations of people have widely different views making people quite possibly incompatible for each others needs in life. I think relationships in the statutory manner are questionable due to the mere fact that it takes many of us most of our life to figure out what it is that we need to fullfill our needs. --Regarding Love and Sex: They can be one and the same if you find a partner that you feel is right for you and someone who you feel fullfills your needs (even if your needs do not include any or much sex at all). In this they can be totally separate as well...you do not have to have sex with someone to love them, and you do not have to love someone you have sex with. Sex and love can be pure pleasures in themselves. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity dated a lot of people to learn in them who I was and to learn what/who I really wanted in my life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family Seeing the horrible relationship my parents and many of my siblings had...they were all much older than I allowing me to observe, closely, more adult relationships ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 24 07:10:40 2004 Anonymous Guest 31 in , =england= M31 in , =england= Name: Email: <ironpyrites-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: investment adviser - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: some say you can love no-one else until you love yourself. I think that it too strong a word. Self acceptance is all thats required, everybody has bad habits that we don't like and there will always be parts of yourself you don't like either. It's learning to understand and accept them that will help you to form relationships. RE: My HW: she said it looks like a spiders scrawl and not at all attractive. AstroInfo: I think you can take some general traits from it. I'm a: Libra Sun; with Moon; and Sagittarius rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people wish to be together and are prepared to put that other persons needs above their own. This must be reciprocal. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: emotional beauty of life when you are happy with someone --The worst things about relationship are: the pain you can experience when hurt by those you apened up to. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a partner, an individual. A person who wants to be with me for me and not because of any form of dependancy. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: you carry part of their emotional welfare with you. Your actions affect their life and wellbeing. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it's a balance. A life experience call of what needs to be talked about and what can be forgotten --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the way they carry themselves as a person. It tells you almost everything. Purpose or wandering soul. --Regarding Age in Relationship as long as it works --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: for some it's fantasy and others require experimentation, whilst others are sure of who and what they are --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetrosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as your differences do not destroy your relationship , then why should convention stand in your way. --Regarding Love and Sex: I prefer them to belong together. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: not what i expected and not great either --Regarding living with someone before marriage: commitment on paper does not always apply in practice. --Regarding Risks telling her i loved her after 2 weeks before she went away. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - did it out of interest. I pretty much know what I am. Even the bits I don't like so I don't feel that I helped myself in any particular way. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? You should ask people if they consider themselves to be a giver or taker in their relationship. I see many abusive relationships and these people consider them quite normal (self deception). Ed Note: 24.Jun.2004: Added to the Questionnaire. Thanks. -JS ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jun 18 14:23:54 2004 Anonymous Guest 17.9 in , Georgia =USA= F17.9 in , Georgia =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] ask.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Assistant manager RE: Handwriting: never thought about it. RE: My HW: some say its kinda of pretty. AstroInfo: I'm almost perfectly Virgo. But. I was almost born on a cusp, so I find myself acting sort of Libra-ish sometimes. But, I don't base my life on astrology. I'm a: Virgo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I really have no idea. --That first relationship was That first relationship was extremely strange. I loved him but...things didn't work out. --The best things about relationship are: The intimacy, companionship, and love. --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy, strange flaws, anger --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who loves me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I think that I need to feel my emotions more. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm too critical and I pick everything apart. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ??? --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Supporting the other person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I love arguing!!!! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: face, I guess. or body. but they could be evil and still be attractive. I'd date someone not-so-attractive if he was interesting. --Regarding Age in Relationship My boyfriends have always been older. two or three years older. but I've had crushes on younger guys! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: People can do whatver they want. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm strictly straight, baby. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Two people can not truly be in love unless they are on the same page spiritually. --Regarding Love and Sex: They go together...sometimes. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It hasn't happened yet. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: People shouldn't live together unless they are married. It's a sin. --Regarding Risks I told him I loved him still. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): People need to get tested! --A funny relationship story: the exciting banter - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was sort of insightful. It made me think about my exes. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? none ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jun 16 00:59:30 2004 Anonymous Guest 43 in pune, maharashtra =india= F43 in pune, maharashtra =india= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: artist - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: none ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jun 7 15:41:46 2004 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] link from motorcycle forum - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: haven't thought about it RE: My HW: neat, easy to read AstroInfo: huh? I'm a: ?? Sun; with ?? Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: close emotional ties with another of the opposite sex causing complete irrationality and total loss of control of emotions --That first relationship was That first relationship was... lustful --The best things about relationship are: Happiness --The worst things about relationship are: not seeing eye to eye. constant arguing. different views on life --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: strong willed personality with similiar interests --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more sympathetic to others --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm a close kept person. I don't like to show feelings often --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: take me as I am, or not at all --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Doing the right thing --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: men yell, women whine. neither listens to what the other has to say until usually too late --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: attitude --Regarding Age in Relationship as long as your happy, it don't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: god created adam and eve, not adam and steve --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual only please. --Regarding Religion in Relationship commonality can be a good thing, but variety does make life more interesting --Regarding Love and Sex: go hand in hand, but not same --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: embarassing! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: have to know what I'm gonna be spending the rest of my life with before I get myself stuck in an unhappy situation --Regarding Risks horrible --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): better safe than dead --A funny relationship story: my first date - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - interesting ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 26 17:35:49 2004 Anonymous Guest 18 in sao paulo, == F18 in sao paulo, == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] yahoo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: i've found my lover's handwriting unique, but i saw much more of them befor ei saw their handwriting so it doesnt impact it too much.. RE: My HW: Artistic. AstroInfo: I relate with many things, but not all. I'm a: Leo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: men are form mars women are form venus - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it is when two people who are attracted to one another on an intimate basis-which means caring about somebody so much it sometimes hurts your heart and never looking back on choices you have made in devoting your time to them --That first relationship was a little bit of puppy love, more so on his part. it was sort of a fling but i lost my virginity to him --The best things about relationship are: Knowing someone will always be there and knowing that when you are hurting, so are they. your partner's willingness to comfort and shelter you from pain and simulataneously feel your pain when you are down. --The worst things about relationship are: Having to compromise your ways for someone so different. dealing with their mistakes and dealing with them not realising their own faults. risk of being hurt by them. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who loves even my bad qualities, or who at least can accept those qualities and see how good can somehow come from them. like being stubborn, sometimes you have to be stubborn to be strong in situations, it gets you through. i want someone who will stick thorugh it all, the good and the bad. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I am not good in communicating my thoughts when things get tense. I freeze up and feel as though my voice is paralysed and i cannot tell them what is going on. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i listen more than i communicate my feelings --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he thinks too much about our whole relationship, when one thing goes wrong it has to be made a big deal and thigns have to get sorted out. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: responsibility for the other person's feelings, not hurting them or trying not to. also to be sensitive towards them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i have trouble expressing my feelings straight away because i'd rather think them over and think about what the other perosn has tosay as opposed to reacting straight away. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how they carry themselves, and then their personality. you can already tell alot about a person form the way they carry themselves, you can see how they feel about themselves, or how they feel others see them. --Regarding Age in Relationship it doesn't matter, when you love somebody that shouldn't hodl you apart. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: it is unnatural to love someone fom the same sex, it is like cats and zebras being in love. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: men. --Regarding Religion in Relationship your values form your religion and spirituality reflect your values and who you are as a person, so if people come fomr two very different and very diverse cultures and religions, it impacts their relationship greatly because they are so different in values and they will have trouble understanding eachother in many ways. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is the most intimate part of love, if you make love, it is different from having sex. When love someone, you ake love to them, when youblike someone you have sex with them. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it wasnt what i thought it would be because it should have bene with someone more special to me, movies and the media tend to manipulate sex and make you think sex and intimacy can be with anyone, but it is only when you find the right person that you realise how wrong you were. however those are learning experiences which shouldnt be taken for granted. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I'm not entirely sure, it shouldn't be somethign that has to be labelled, if you want to and it feels right, then why not? if you know you will marry someday, then why not? time doesn't make a difference, it's love that makes the difference. --Regarding Risks telling them i loved them --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): people should stop having promiscious sex and then complain about STD's if it is their own fault. people should check themselves out before giving them to somebody else because otherwise you harm soemoen else, and that is selfish. --A funny relationship story: when my boyfriend tickled me and i kept syaing stop but he thought i was just syaing that because it tickled and i was laughing, but because i was laughing so hard it made me fart...we both rolled over laughing uncontrollably. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family not listenign to others so much but following my heart more so What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue May 25 07:30:40 2004 Anonymous Guest 42 in Cincinnati, Ohio =USA= F42 in Cincinnati, Ohio =USA= Name: Cath - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Aye, one thing that can't be overstated...when entering into that eternal battlefield of "love"...put a helmet on that soldier!...men...ladies.....someone;) RE: Handwriting: Never thought about it beyond, perhaps, an indication of their neurological capacity and/or education. RE: My HW: Oddly, men often seem to Love my handwriting and think I'm somehow gifted in that dept...women however, like me, always see it as it is...i.e. that it sucks, basically. AstroInfo: I used to wholly discount it...now, I can no longer deny that, in the right hands, it can be amazingly accurate...yes, I know all my astrological "stats". I have Absolutely found that usually the compatibility reccomendations apply. I'm a: Virgo Sun; with Capricorn Moon; and Cancer rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's the odd state in which people who become familior to you begin to matter inordinately...their regard, well-being, virtually every aspect of their lives....it's almost like beginning a symbiotic relationship. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...intense, internal and consuming. I was absolutely Madly in love with the guy due to our shared musical interests and my admiration for his amazing talents, his sparkling personality and social ease...he was the epitamy of 'cool' and I was, way outta my league. He was 23, I was 17...he was worldly, I was provincial...I felt so undeserving that I, mostly due to fear of rejection, never expressed my love for him verbally. --The best things about relationship are: The excitement....and the "bliss" that's attainable when the relationship is stable and satisfying. The sense of completeness, purpose and confidence that lends. --The worst things about relationship are: The 'power' you allow the relationship to make you miserable...the consuming nature of unhealthy relationships and their tendency to overshadow everything else possibly good in your life...finding the balance in your mundane day-to-day life when all you want to do is focus on your relationship...the cost in self-esteem if it ends badly. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I honestly believe that that person doesn't exist. I suspect childhood abuse by my father so badly skewed my outlook and coping skills that I'll always set myself up for a fall...but what am I attracted to in a man? Intelligence, wit, independence, creativity, loyalty as a friend and to family, personal honor, quiet confidence, the ability to laugh at himself, kindness and consideration to all living things, the ability to think outside the box, the conviction to be himself, a certain quota of good instincts for 'reading' my moods/desires, finally, a man that subtlely takes charge when initiating intimacy. Hah......told you he didn't exist;) --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Somehow learn to not require so much "alone time"...be more giving and attentive...Prozac....therapy;) --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: ...I'm wholly stuck in a rut and successfully hiding from life. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ...hmmm, I'd say this question is too vague...habits? As in..? Is he robbing banks or leaving the seat up? --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: .....honoring your commitments, fair play, personal honor and integrity...ensuring it's a give/give balanced relationship...not taking advantage if there is a power inequity...above all, honesty in all things. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: ...I have No problem talking or shouting things out...my idea of torture is to leave something unsaid or to be cut-off mid-discussion or mid-rant. I'm a born, natural debator. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: When I think back over all my important relationships I realize that for each its been different, the attraction/progression...some I was bowled over right at first by a physical attraction, but more often its been a gradual drawing to someone, oftentimes someone Not physically impressive. One constant...if there's "nothing else there" save for physical appeal my attention won't be held longer than a moment and I've no further interest, "beautiful people" can often become "ugly" in a heartbeat once you start to get to know something about them. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age matters most when one partner is not only younger than the other, but also "young" in years (18-26ish) and emotionally...once people are mature it matters less...it Does play a role however, often times in power inequality...however, if both are unusually emotionally mature and wholly committed it can work, though not without effort. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: ...that it varies depending on the individual... ...while I consider myself straight, I Do, however, tend to believe that people can experience a brief "attraction" to someone of the same sex while still remaining essentially, wholly hetero. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: ...again, straight. I'm not homophobic in the least just simply attracted to men in a way I can't fatham, nor have I ever experienced feeling for a woman...it would be like my being attracted to a sheet of paper...no "reaction" whatsoever. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I think my answer deals less with religious differences and More with a persons capacity for tolerance and acceptance which is certainly effected by their individual devotion and their individual degree of interpretation of their specific doctrine. --Regarding Love and Sex: ...that they are two wholly different things. Love can exist in the total absence of sex though I doubt that would be very fullfiling for long for most people in normal circumstances...whatever that is --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Not to be a punster but I waited so long it ended up being a bit of an anti-climax, though I'm still glad I waited to have sex with someone I respected and was serious about. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: ...what Isn't improved by practice? Wholly approve. Nuff said. --Regarding Risks ...that my father taught me well that the worlds a scary place...protect yourself at all times, costs. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Being a resonably intelligent person I am Highly vigilent...and hard-line, but the way I see it, as much of a kill-joy that it is, there Is No Choice. By the way, my brother-in-law died of aids, which, no doubt had something to do with shattering any denial and misconceptions re the threat. --A funny relationship story: Oh hell, I dunno...my entire relationship history has been a joke. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life living, maturing...yup, "with age (does) come wisdom" What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse ...fear of taking risks. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - useful?...perhaps...I dunno, see I'm honestly not all that concerned with relationships, so I've actually no idea why I started or completed this...boredom, I suppose. Yup, my life is nothing short of a thrillfest. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Mar 27 23:07:29 2004 Anonymous Guest 19 in , == F19 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student RE: Handwriting: His handwriting is almost a reflection of his personalit and his i-couldnt-care-less attitude.. even his signature is a little squibble.. it's very cute.. RE: My HW: he thought it was too embellshed i think i try too hard to make it look perfect. AstroInfo: I'm a saggitarrian and he's scorpio, everyone closest to me has always been scorpion (males) and all astrological matter ive read say that they're incompatible so i've stopped reading - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's something that brings people together for no obligatory reason.. they're just there because they want to be. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... love.. it's been more than 4 years now... --The best things about relationship are: Hugs. --The worst things about relationship are: Lies. Distrust. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A best friend who continues to be that even after we're involved --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be a little less outspoken --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have to stop smoking --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he's way too posessive and cannot get over the past no matter what i do. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being committed in every sense of the term. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i hold it in and then burst .. he bursts and never talks about it again and never gets over it --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Appearance and the way he talks. --Regarding Age in Relationship i agree that they should be of the same age or somewhere around each others age. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: It's irrelevant. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm a straight female --Regarding Religion in Relationship It may be connected if religion plays a very important role in their lives and dictates their beliefs but otherwise it's almost irrelevant --Regarding Love and Sex: They're are very different but sometimes one of them might give the illusion of the other being present too --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was so great.. right time with the right guy.. almost perfect. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i have nothing against it but personally i wouldnt want to do it because we might get used to that and not end up getting married at all and i really want to get married --Regarding Risks i made a confession wich could make or break our long relationship --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I have nothing to worry about .. we share a safe monogamos relatioship. --A funny relationship story: I used to get mad when he'd rather watch tv than listen to me but now i understand it and i thinks its kind of funnny - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness problems we experienced What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Quite useful.. i never realized that i new so much about his handwriting. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 26 17:14:00 2004 Anonymous Guest 23 in Tacoma, WA =USA= F23 in Tacoma, WA =USA= Name: Tonia Email: <tonivans-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Yahoo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Business Manager RE: Handwriting: Though I never really thought about it, I find that my husband has wonderful handwriting that tells about him. It's neat/concise and easy to read...just like him. RE: My HW: I've been told that I have beautiful, legible writing. AstroInfo: I am completely disinterested in Astrology. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship - the bond that connects two or more people together, either as friends or in love --That first relationship was Fell in love and married 4 years later --The best things about relationship are: Being with someone who gets me. Being able to be who I am always. --The worst things about relationship are: Thinking of someone other than yourself at most times. Never being able to do what you want whenever you want. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who cares for others well-being not just mine or theirs. Someone who loves what I love but loves what they love. Someone who judges based on intent not what they "feel". Someone willing to do whatever it takes to be happy and who realizes that they are responsile for their own happiness. Someone who will share everything with me, not just material things, but who can open up and divulge their deepest secrets and someone with whom I can do the same thing. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more open, and share how I feel. Talk less and listen more. be less selfish and more selfless. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I tend to be a bear and I know that there are better ways to handle situations. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I can deal with most things...except for any type of abuse...physical, substance, verbal. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: my actions, feelings and words. These are things that I have all control over and am responsible to keep them in check. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it's so hard to find someone who communicates the same way I do. You just have to take a step back, count to ten and really think about what you say. When it comes to argument styles, you just have to remember to treat the other person the way you want to be treated. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks. The first thing you notice about someone (unless you meet in a chat room or over the phone) is how someone appears. It's not only about how they look, but how they take care of themselves. --Regarding Age in Relationship love who you want. I personally wouldn't go younger than me and I don't like to see anyone much older than myself (maybe 1-2 years max.), but if you are 30 and a 50 year old man makes you happy and you make him happy - do it! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't believe that there are "levels" of human sexuality...either you are or you aren't. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am 100% heterosexual. I have never dated any one of my own sex and never want to or will. I have several friends who are homosexual and engage in the lifestyle, but I don't prefer that at all. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I can't be with anyone who doesn't believe what I believe. I've tried several times and found myself fighting over sex, kids, morals. I know that the person I am with should feel the same way. --Regarding Love and Sex: love can lead to sex, but sex rarely leads to love. You can definitely have one without the other, but I would take love without sex before sex without love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was horrible. I totally expected more than what I received. I knew that television, movies, music and radio hyped sex to be more than it was, but I still expected some "charge"...didn't happen! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You never really know someone until you live with them. Even though my religion is against co-habitation, I find that I wouldn't have done it any other way...doesn't me you have to have sex with or even sleep in the same room as someone else. I would like to know if someone were a slob and didn't clean up after himself or had tons of things behind the refrigerator before I married someone and inevitably became their maid. --Regarding Risks letting go of myself. When I got married, I vowed to join with someone else and to allow their life to be my life...it's scary and wonderful at the same time. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): YUCK!!! Although I have never had any (thank God), I find them disgusting, but I agree that people nee to be completely honest and discuss everything. --A funny relationship story: I don't know - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out just being together What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family Never saw a healthy relationship growing up and didn't know how to engage in one - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I found it very useful and it was fun to think about my relationship. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Feb 11 19:09:29 2004 Anonymous Guest 18 in Milwaukee, WI == F18 in Milwaukee, WI == Name: Siobhan Email: <pinnx2-at-yahoo.com> Web: http://www.geocities.com/tintabbey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] linked from a handwriting analysis website - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Music Major/ I make pizzas too - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: i think i've told the world enough. RE: Handwriting: makes sense to me. i remember noticing how my old boy's handwriting could not have contrasted any more [from mine] than it did. hmm. RE: My HW: yeah. he said it was really really sloppy and impossible to read. well, i'd have to say it's really sloppy and impossible to read--unless i'm reading it, of course. hey, i don't take an eon to finish a paragraph like perfectionistic peers. oh, this is lined paper? i didn't see any lines... AstroInfo: uh....i'm a leo? but not really...most of the time my horoscopes are way off. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a romantic relationship is when two people want to spend time together often, making the other person feel wanted and worthwhile. a platonic relationsihp is when two or more people want to spend time together, making everyone in the platonic relationship (friendship) to feel accepted and important in their unique way. i guess. --That first relationship was first boyfriend: talked to him online every day for a year before we met; dated for a month and a half; it was his longest relationship at the time. i was so paranoid that he wanted to be with someone else and i felt so bad for "holding him back". i cried over such imagined scenarios often. i ended it because i didn't want to "hold him back" any longer. he really did want to be with someone else. you know, whatever. haven't dated since. --The best things about relationship are: earnest hugs. i like those a lot. --The worst things about relationship are: well, it never lasts forever. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: let's go with the ideal person. lots of sarcasm. similiar interests and intellect. nice teeth. gangly to some extent. dark hair (dyed or not)...or is that too specific? well, that's my nonexistant mate. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try to lower my anxiety further and not blurting my life story in five minutes only in hopes that i might say something that they'll like me for...try to be less skittish; more stable; less shy. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i talk to much when i'm nervous or when i'm trying hard to make someone like (or not-hate) me. i can't make eye contact. the more i like someone, the farther away i have to keep my eye contact from their face. most times i can't stop looking at the floor or the windows.if they stare, it makes it a billion times worse. i am also very...well...skittish. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i hate being called "hun". other than that, nothing that other people do really bothers me. oh wait! people with perpetually poor grammar and spelling put me on edge too, i admit. (don't criticize my writing now for saying that, please) :( --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: well i wouldn't want to be hounded by phone calls nor would i want to be hounded for not calling. but, a call every once in a while really is a nice thing. and just hanging out...playing video games...whatever...that's a great thing, you know? i don't know...i'm really not that responsible so i'll just stop. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: if a person can't hold a conversation without some form of media (tv show, music, movie, whatever) to convienently distract them when a subject (other than fluffy small talk) may arrive, it can really be rather hard to relate [to them]. meaningful conversation is tragically underrated. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: hair...teeth--and wit!...wit with extra sarcasm. --Regarding Age in Relationship i find it harder to relate to people who are not around my age, but that's just me. if there's a pair in love and their age difference is 15 or 20 years or whatever, who cares?. i mean, we're all little kids on the inside anyways, because we were all little kids at one time--just not all at the same time--you know? --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i think everyone is bisexual to some extent--most just prefer one or the other. some go to great lengths, it seems, to keep hidden desires hidden. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm romantically attracted to boys for sure. i can be attracted to boys or girls but i couldn't see myself dating another girl. it's just not my thing, but who knows. whatever. --Regarding Religion in Relationship oh blarg. well, i'm a passive aethist. i was raised cathloic--ccd every week; church every sunday. i just decided (quite young) that it really didn't make sense to me and i didn't understand how the adults could all take it so gosh darn seriously. i don't mind religion or spiritual types at all, unless they try to convert me. i'm sure they'd have a less than pleasant response if i tried to convert them to aethism. i'm happy. they're happy. let's all just be happy. --Regarding Love and Sex: i really don't have as strong of a romantic attachment to the physical of a relationship as people imply i should. i want to be loved more than i want lovin' but all love is fleeting and...i suppose ani said it best: "sometimes it seems that love is just a fancy word for compromise." --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: awkward...dissapointing...and boring. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: a person wouldn't notice little inconsistencies and mannerisms often that a partner may hide unless they lived with them 24/7 or close to it. if a one doesn't test the true compatability to their significant other, they may end up married to someone (they realize all-too-late) that is the wrong person. my parents' relationship is the "poster child" of this situation. my mother, a cathloic, married a man she discovered later was a verbally abusive alcoholic. she won't divorce him because it's basically a slap in the face of her upbringing and he won't leave her because he's broke and unemployed. they've been together for over 25 years...seperate bedrooms on opposite ends of the house and avoid each other most of the time. they've adapted and cope moderately well. I hate it. --Regarding Risks i blurt out everything i possibly can because i have this conviction that if everyone would just get to know me, they'd like me and not make judgements. of course, first impressions always come...first...so my trouble is i spastically say what i can about everything to try and change their minds, because i also believe that everyone dislikes me (or worse) until i finally talk to them enough for them to stop abhoring me. i end up emitting a personality that is the polar opposite of the person i really believe to be. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it's good to know as much as one can but it's impossible to check everything. condoms, anyone? --A funny relationship story: bah. my relationship wasn't funny. it was stupid. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life teen.matchmaker.com was a great site until they tried to make us pay for it. teens can't afford that. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling my parents have a very, very poor marriage. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it gave me something to do. i was severly bored and i got to the end, so i guess it ceased my boredom to some extent. then again, typing fascinates me to an infinite extent and so i love questionnaires. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? ask about pets perhaps? all my closest friends are cat people and it seems i can't relate as well with the die hard dog types. nothing against them though, you know? i guess that talking about common pet experiences is a good way to start conversation. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 3 15:13:48 2004 Anonymous Guest 17 in tiffin, ohio =usa= M17 in tiffin, ohio =usa= Name: tim weaver Email: <questdodel-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] RE: Handwriting: i have never analyzed another persons handwriting. RE: My HW: messy. illegible. AstroInfo: i have found astrology somewhat accurate. i would trust it somewhat in determinig who is best for me. I'm a: Virgo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: when you find that one special someone. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more of a puppy love deal --The best things about relationship are: special bonds. loving one another. --The worst things about relationship are: breaking up. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: loving. trusting. honest. beautiful. fun loving. care free. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i can't name a one flaw that i have. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i dont have any bad habits. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: there arent any habits that i cant stand. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being thier when your partner needs your cooperation. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: communication is a necessity in relationship, whether it is directly or indirectly. it is the base for all relationships. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: what is inside thier heart. how they feel about things. --Regarding Age in Relationship age is between the ears. personally i try to keep it within a few years though to make it easier for me to find that special someone. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it should not tell you who you like.who you like should be determined by your own interests. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex do not go together. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together will give a taste of what being married to them is like. a trial marriage, more or less. --Regarding Risks the fact that it could completely embarass me in front of the whole school. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): so some people made a mistake. they didnt find the special person the first time around. you cant do everything right the first time. plus we all die one day anyway. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 3 11:13:27 2004 Anonymous Guest 44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA= F44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - surfing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Accounting RE: Handwriting: I never thought about it- they just have to be intelligent enought to write. RE: My HW: No comments on my handwriting AstroInfo: I am interested in astrology and read my horoscope for fun and good advice, but I wouldn't let astrology rule my relationship choice. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Caring, loving and really wanting to spend as much time as possible with a person you are attracted to sexually and as a friend. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... my first high school boy friend. He was a new kid in my Senior Class. We did homework together and started dating-really just hanging around each other's homes because we didn't have money or cars. --The best things about relationship are: When it's new and there aren't many fights or problems. --The worst things about relationship are: Getting through your problems in life- when you don't agree on issues of money, work, your home and family matters. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who has some of my common interests but allows me to have my own space and time alone when I need it which is daily. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be a nicer person. Be less selfish. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I should quit drinking. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I would like him to not do EVERYTHING by the book. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: You are both responsibily to keep a good standard of life- good jobs, make money, have fun, stay healthy. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I have issues with communication. I don't want to bring up or rehash problems. I'd rather ignore things as long as they can go on without hurting things. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I would say general overall looks- mostly the fact that the person is in good shape from exercising. They don't have to be beautiful - but they must always be clean & groomed. Eyes are my favorite feature. --Regarding Age in Relationship I think age does matter. I think there may be problems if there is more than 10 years of a difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't understand what you want on this one. Yes there are hetersexual and homosexal people. How many ? I don't think about it. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am heterosexual and have always been. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't think race, faith or religion should stop people from being together if they feel right for each other. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is just something physical and doesn't mean you love that person. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was exciting because you expect so much pleasure- but I never had the best sex until much later in the relationship when you learn how to please each other. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't think it is wrong to live together before marrying. You may find out you shouldn't marry or you may stay together and not marry at all. The finacial aspect of being married is important. It is important to be married if you plan to have a family. --Regarding Risks I never lived with someone I was in a relationship in. It was very hard to get used to being together all the time. I would never live with someone again if this relationship breaks up. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I haven't dated in over 10 years. I would be terrified if I started dating. I would make sure I had protection for myself if I slept with someone that I didn't know very well. --A funny relationship story: I dated someone who told all his friends that my parents summer cottage was his and he was going to invite eveyone there soon. At the time I was flabbergased but now I can really laugh about it. He also gave everyone the impression that he paid for everything for me- my car, apartment, dates, clothes, ect. Let me tell you - I bailed him out financially many times & paid for half of all of our dates. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People My own personal experience What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance My parents never talked about relationships and dating with me. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was a bit of a personal experience. Different than most questionnaires. It was fun. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 3 11:13:01 2004 Anonymous Guest 44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA= F44 in Chicago, Illinois =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - surfing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Accounting RE: Handwriting: I never thought about it- they just have to be intelligent enought to write. RE: My HW: No comments on my handwriting AstroInfo: I am interested in astrology and read my horoscope for fun and good advice, but I wouldn't let astrology rule my relationship choice. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Caring, loving and really wanting to spend as much time as possible with a person you are attracted to sexually and as a friend. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... my first high school boy friend. He was a new kid in my Senior Class. We did homework together and started dating-really just hanging around each other's homes because we didn't have money or cars. --The best things about relationship are: When it's new and there aren't many fights or problems. --The worst things about relationship are: Getting through your problems in life- when you don't agree on issues of money, work, your home and family matters. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who has some of my common interests but allows me to have my own space and time alone when I need it which is daily. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be a nicer person. Be less selfish. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I should quit drinking. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I would like him to not do EVERYTHING by the book. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: You are both responsibily to keep a good standard of life- good jobs, make money, have fun, stay healthy. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I have issues with communication. I don't want to bring up or rehash problems. I'd rather ignore things as long as they can go on without hurting things. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I would say general overall looks- mostly the fact that the person is in good shape from exercising. They don't have to be beautiful - but they must always be clean & groomed. Eyes are my favorite feature. --Regarding Age in Relationship I think age does matter. I think there may be problems if there is more than 10 years of a difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't understand what you want on this one. Yes there are hetersexual and homosexal people. How many ? I don't think about it. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am heterosexual and have always been. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't think race, faith or religion should stop people from being together if they feel right for each other. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is just something physical and doesn't mean you love that person. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was exciting because you expect so much pleasure- but I never had the best sex until much later in the relationship when you learn how to please each other. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't think it is wrong to live together before marrying. You may find out you shouldn't marry or you may stay together and not marry at all. The finacial aspect of being married is important. It is important to be married if you plan to have a family. --Regarding Risks I never lived with someone I was in a relationship in. It was very hard to get used to being together all the time. I would never live with someone again if this relationship breaks up. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I haven't dated in over 10 years. I would be terrified if I started dating. I would make sure I had protection for myself if I slept with someone that I didn't know very well. --A funny relationship story: I dated someone who told all his friends that my parents summer cottage was his and he was going to invite eveyone there soon. At the time I was flabbergased but now I can really laugh about it. He also gave everyone the impression that he paid for everything for me- my car, apartment, dates, clothes, ect. Let me tell you - I bailed him out financially many times & paid for half of all of our dates. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People My own personal experience What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance My parents never talked about relationships and dating with me. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was a bit of a personal experience. Different than most questionnaires. It was fun. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 15 23:06:54 2004 Anonymous Guest 18 in Charlotte, NC =USA= F18 in Charlotte, NC =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] yahoo directory - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - RE: Handwriting: It's not very important, but my partner does write messy and fast. RE: My HW: My handwriting is neat and thorough, the way I address my relationship. It isn't a quick thing to be take lightly. AstroInfo: Yes, I am disinterested in astrology. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship involves two people and those two people are connected somehow, through communication, trust, and closeness. the degree of the happiness of their relationship depends on these things --That first relationship was That first relationship was... an attached, dependent relationship. --The best things about relationship are: having someone to talk to, hanging out, cuddling with --The worst things about relationship are: trust, jealousy, making time for that person, pride --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust, availability, attention, affection --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more available, listen more, pay more attention --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I work too much and it affects how I relate because I am always busy and don't have time to truly relate. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I would try to get used to them and love them for it. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: calling them and making time for them. making sure they are happy as well as i am. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: lack of communication can be a downfall and it is important to communicate honestly, to get things off your chest sometimes. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how he interacts with others, smile, laughs a lot --Regarding Age in Relationship 3 or 4 years. too much is too big of a difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i dont know --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship Two people in a relationship should share the same faith or religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex relate but only when you are married. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: n/a --Regarding living with someone before marriage: you should just spend a lot of time together before you get married, not necessarily live together yet. --Regarding Risks When I "fell in love" for the second time. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): abstinence until marriage, and marry someone who is also a virgin. that way, there is no risk of STDs --A funny relationship story: I don't know. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Experience and watching other people What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This questionnaire was helpful and it made me think about aspects in a relationship that I had never thought of before. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Dec 22 17:22:00 2003 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it is two people who acknowledge the fact that they are one not two --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: always having someone to go to, and hold u --The worst things about relationship are: jealousy on both sides, misunderstandings, rumors, reputation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust, understanding --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not fall so hard --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: they only help learn - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Dec 20 23:11:02 2003 Anonymous Guest 46 in Clinton, PA =USA= F46 in Clinton, PA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] linked from your handwriting analysis page - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Hang in there! RE: Handwriting: Before reading your web site, I never gave it any thought. I think it's not a bad idea now. RE: My HW: No...they never commented on my handwriting. AstroInfo: I have found that Astrology can be quite enlightening...I have found some astrologers to be pretty accurate. I'm a: Cancer Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Getting the Love you want Recommended Reading-- Writers: Harville Hendrix - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: how you interact with others both friends and lovers: family, friends, and lovers --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: feelings of love, intimacy, enjoyment --The worst things about relationship are: personality traits, not having the same value systems --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: one who is loving, kind, attentive, honest, self confident...one who has similar value system, enjoys my family and friends, has a great sense of humor --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more self confident --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to take charge of my future --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I need to lighten up. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: That we all are responsible for our actions...can't blame others. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: My guys don't like to talk...they like to "Let things work out for themselves." --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality (are they humorous, kind, etc.) and physical attractiveness(I check out their eyes...look into their souls :-) --Regarding Age in Relationship when you are young, age matters more...as you age, it really doesn't matter...it's more about maturity then :-) --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: whatever floats their boats...as long as my guy is straight :-) --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight and totally enjoy it! --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't matter... --Regarding Love and Sex: they are two separate aspects of life --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was more of a curosity thing...a bit "show and tell." --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Doesn't matter to me...co-habitation is fine...so is marriage. --Regarding Risks getting hurt. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I would want to know the history of my lover...if he wasn't willing to divulge that, I'd want him tested first. --A funny relationship story: being quite naive. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life reading about relationships What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Very useful. It is being used to help me understand a current relationship. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Can't think of any right now. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 30 20:37:55 2003 Anonymous Guest 42 in , Kentucky =USA= F42 in , Kentucky =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Tax Accountant RE: Handwriting: not relevant RE: My HW: my handwriting changes daily...strange huh...I could forge easy enough.. AstroInfo: never want to hook up with a Pisces again!!! I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Virgo Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: When two people can come together and live in harmony, with respect for each other and themselves. Knowing how to give and take...each party...not just one give and one take. Each person compliments the other which creates the most returns for everyone. Neither one can ever be careless with the other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...puppy love that escalated too rapidly. --The best things about relationship are: Kindness and respect...and great sex. A genuine heart. --The worst things about relationship are: Learning that it is ok to disagree. Reprimand and reprisal have no place in a relationship...our partners aren't our parents. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who wants to know me...know in more than just a physical nature. There must be a mind to go with a heart...and a body. A working functional mind...an open mind. Someone who will let me know them and appreciate the fact that I want to. Worthy of each other. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: patience and trust --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have a habit of looking for hidden agendas when there are none...I think there are none..lol --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I generally find little fault in people...I don't particularly want someone looking for mine. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I am extremely responsible for others feelings, more so than mine...which I'm changing....and I don't trust that anyone else is responsible for mine...hmmm...trust issues no doubt --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: the more you communicate the better the relationship...as long as no one is listening impaired. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: mind --Regarding Age in Relationship I hope age doesn't matter. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: the continuum is probably more correct than 100% of either...when is there really 100% of anything regarding human personality traits and preferences?? --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetero is my preference --Regarding Religion in Relationship to each his own. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is sex...and love is love....you can have sex with a grapefruit but it doesn't mean you will ever love grapefruit. No they are very seperate...very. But the best sex is with someone you love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: dumber than a box of rocks --Regarding living with someone before marriage: to each their own...been there done that...have done both ways...can't see the harm either way, it all depends on the partners. --Regarding Risks exhilarating....and extremely scary --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful --A funny relationship story: none that I can think of - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling they didn't have a clue what a relationship meant - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - interesting ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 20 04:30:46 2003 Anonymous Guest 33 in Tromsoe, =Norway= M33 in Tromsoe, =Norway= Name: Runar Clausen Email: <brewsli-at-spray.no> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] I just told you, I stumbled on it, and it hurt my toe... - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: No, doesn't matter. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is when to individuals on some level of degree agree to spending an unknown amount of time together, either as friends, a platonic relationship, or as lovers/ couple, whitch allso includes the use of different tecniques that may secure reproduction, at least if the non-platonic relationship is a healthy one, and the participants are of the right age and species --That first relationship was That first relationship was : I was a puppy on fire, she was just after my body. --The best things about relationship are: Intimacy, sex, partnership, sharing the life --The worst things about relationship are: communication, maintaining equal respect, conflict of interests --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who is honest and down to earth, and doesn't play emotional games, like the classic:"... oh, well, don't care about me, it's not that big a deal with me...". Good sense of humor, active personality, in short; my fiancé... --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Stop being so talkative, maby listen more --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I got rid of my bad habits years ago, so in my existing relationship, I feel I relate fairly well --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Punctuality, cleanlyness and straightforwardness are essential, other habits don't bother me, as long as they don't conflict with the ones metioned above --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: stability, the will to work out problems that may occure, the acceptance of not allways getting your will --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it's allways better to talk about latent problems before they turn into real ones. One should try to be precise in ones statements, and allways be aware of what the other is trying to say, and communicate that one is listening, and whether one understands or not. That way one avoids putting the other in a defensive position, and one is more likely to get the message through. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The personality, the hands, the neck, the eyes and the rest of the face. More or less in that sequence --Regarding Age in Relationship age shouldn't matter, experience has no age... --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think it's true. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I strongly believe I'm 100% heterosexual. The mere thought of having sex involving an other man is a MAJOR turnoff. For those I like it, go ahead:-) --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as the partners respect each others religious believes, and maybe even try to learn a bit, it works. I know for a fact. --Regarding Love and Sex: Before I met my fiancée, I had sex. Now, I make love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: An absolute disaster. This is 16 years ago, and I'm still having problems looking her in the eyes... --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is good to have the experience of living together with someone before you get married. Commitment and values comes from love, and shouldn't be forced on someone. Besides, your values might differ from a future spouce's, shouldn't you know if you can live with it before you commit your self for life? Marriage is for life, and if you're not 100% sure... forget it. --Regarding Risks Tell everything about my darker and weird sides --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Take a test! --A funny relationship story: the way I met my fiancé - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Weeell... nothing new, I'm afraid. But I hope you, whoever you are, can use this information to help other people. And the astrologi-stuff at the end there... loose it! It makes the whole survey look somewhat like bullshit(pardon my french)! - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? What should be your role in a relationship? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 2 11:53:43 2003 Anonymous Guest 42 in York, ME =USA= F42 in York, ME =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: I'm a pisces and I really don't know much about astrology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a bond between two poople that goes beyond mere interaction. The people involved base their interactions on trust and anticipated predictability. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... definately puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: trust...laughter...security...predictability...intimacy --The worst things about relationship are: allowing someone to get to know you allows them to understand your buttons, to know how you're truly vulnerable and to trust them to take care of that knowledge and not misuse it. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: funny, lighthearted, trustworthy, physical, honest, predictable yet spontaneous. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I should be more open and less hesitant to communicate my needs and desires. I should be less cautious and more willing to "shoot the moon" when the opportunity arises. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I tend to hide in procrastination, putting off dealing with tough issues and hoping that the other person will see what I need and I won't need to be selfish and ask for it. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he needs to be more forthcoming and honest and a lot more predictable --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being trustworthy and not taking advantage of the other person's vulnerability --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I do best with someone who can really listen and help me work through my feelings. I need someone who will consider my point of view, process it and give me honest feedback. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the expression of the eyes, the tone in someone's voice and the touch of their hand --Regarding Age in Relationship dating someone your own age allows for automatic things in common. Unless people have very funky likes, hobbies or tastes in common, then same age works best. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I am totally hetero - what others are/do/prefer does not matter to me at all (unless we're talking my partner!) --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetero --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't really matter. similar views on life in general matter more than specific religious leanings. better to both be middle of the road, very religious or not religious than the specifics within those ranges. --Regarding Love and Sex: When I love someone I want to be intimate. Sex is a critical part of sharing that intimacy, along with emotional/personal intimacy. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: yuck - way too much pressure and too soon. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I feel that living together is a good thing, unless children are involved. It that case relationships need to be more cautious in general. --Regarding Risks David --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): get tested. wait until you really trust someone and go from there...fewer is always better --A funny relationship story: bunny ears - 'nough said - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Oct 26 16:46:18 2003 Anonymous Guest 30 in Dayton, Nevada =United States= F30 in Dayton, Nevada =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] google - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: I am a Gemini sun, Virgo moon, Gemini rising. The best people I have gotten along with are Leos and Aquarians. Libras and Scorpios are difficult. They are too serious and want too much control. Astrology matters a lot to me in relationships - it helps me figure why I have a difficult time with someone or why I can't stay away from them. I'm a: Gemini Sun; with Virgo Moon; and Gemini rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A mutual agreement to share one's life or part of one's personal self, where this "gift" is shared and reciprocated. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... fall in love and was married within three months. --The best things about relationship are: Mental stimulation, humor, physical intimacy, love. --The worst things about relationship are: Differences in viewpoints or religion and philosophy, money, lack of intimacy. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A person who is my help-meet, who can meet the needs I need met, but support me to make my own decisions. Someone who can see when to step in and when to let me stumble, someone who can love me for who and am and not try to change the way I feel about life. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less critical, less self-righteous. Learn to have more patience with ignorance. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have the tendency to want to have the final say about everything, and I want my way when I feel it counts. Once my mind is made up, it is difficult to change it. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I can't stand someone who won't pull their own weight, or someone that expects me to shoulder all of the responsibility in the relationship. Also can't stand someone who is sloppy or won't pick up after themselves, or someone who is argumentative. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Sharing chores, sharing financial responsibility, letting the other person know what I'm doing and what's going on, making decisions together, stepping up to the plate when I need extra help. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I do a lot of talking and so does my husband, but we both don't budge when it comes to our own opinions about a hot topic, such as politics or religion. He is a Leo, and I am a Gemini, so I think that might have something to do with it. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Intelligence. If he can't hold an intelligent, open-minded conversation, then he's not worth my time. Some of the best sex my husband and I have had has been after a heated debate. Looks are negligible. It's usually someone's wit that gets my attention. --Regarding Age in Relationship As long as the energies between two people are matched, age shouldn't matter (and as long as the ages are legal). --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that there is a continuum for heteros to homos. Sexuality is a result of one's environment and life experiences. I don't believe that people are born gay, but that a combination of life experiences, environment, social acceptance, and perhaps even hormones cause one to lean more towards being queer or gay. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Totally hetersexual, but I have a few family members that are gay. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Relationships work better when two people share similar religious backgrounds, but they don't have to agree on every single aspect of it. My husband is Catholic and I am Protestant, but we both share the same basic religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex are separate. Lovemaking isn't just sex, but a manifestation of love and sex combined. When I don't feel like having sex, I still love my husband. Sometimes we just have sex, and other times we make love - making love is a much deeper emotional experience. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It hurt. My ex-husband was gigantic and I was particularly small. It was a total let-down, and I thought, "This is what everyone raves about?" --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You should be married before living together because living with someone prior to marriage is just "testing" the waters, and there is no real commitment there. It leads to break-up cycles, and when real marriage comes along, it feels just as easy to call it quits than to stick it out when the going gets tough. --Regarding Risks Letting someone know what truly goes on in my head - as opposed to what I let other people see of me. I have very few people that I call "friend," but MANY people that call me "friend." They simply don't know the real me. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Know who it is that you are sleeping with, have a relationship built on trust before you get involved. --A funny relationship story: My husband's humor when it comes to sex - he is always funny and joking during foreplay, and I like playful and fun sex. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I liked having to "soul-search", because self-reflection is not usually something I am interested in doing...but a good exercise every once in a while. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Oct 24 06:10:36 2003 Anonymous Guest 20 in Pretoria, n/a =South Africa= F20 in Pretoria, n/a =South Africa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Read About it: ] True love Magazine(A South African publication) - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Medical student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's a two way thing.Where two people learn to share,give and receive whpleheartedly.Sometimes their varying levels of commitmmennt but ultimately for people to stay together they need to commit themselves either sexually,emotionally,spiritually...or whatever way in whicjh they connect. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...intense fiery fling.It started with both parties having overwhelming feelings for one another.I especially knew I was complete when this guy was in my life.I gave up so much -my time,my values and neglected some frindships to maintain the affair. --The best things about relationship are: Getting to know your partner.The first kiss and wondering if you have a future together. --The worst things about relationship are: Emotional/verbal abuse.Infidelity and breaking up - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends Talking to my partner What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends Not spending ample time together as a couple. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ [Ed: Questionnaire got munged in here somewhere; Missed a few... ] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jun 29 11:04:40 2003 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] handwriting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: this is too long for my attention span. I have other things I must accomplish today. Please accept this partial test - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Light Her Fire", Light His Fire", Mars and Venus series Recommended Reading-- Writers: ???, Grey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is a bonding between two or more people. Sharing (at least some) common goals. We call it "love", but love has many interpretations to fit different situation. There is the love of a house, car, a pet, a son or daughter, parents, and the most powerful, love of a single person, you mate. It is very confusing to most of us. --That first relationship was She was the first girl to whom I could say "I love you". After 5 years of dating and not dating. I asked her to marry me. --The best things about relationship are: putting my arms around my "signiicant other", quiet times just sharing our thoughts, having fun going places and doing things. --The worst things about relationship are: understanding the needs of the other person so that each can fulfill the others desires. there are so many differences between the thinking and feeling mechanisms of men and women....we usually don't understand the other. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Books & Films What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse no real communication ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jun 24 08:39:11 2003 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] numerology page - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Games People Play - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a solid friendship intensified a hundredfold. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: attention --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn how not to anticipate disaster --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: voice and body language --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: rape and molestation --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe in the sanctity of marriage but I would compromise my belief in order to be with my one true love. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling self-help books (Games People Play, etc) What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family Growing up in dysfunctional family life skews your view of reality. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jun 11 05:14:16 2003 Anonymous Guest 25 in Vellore, Tamil Nadu =india= M25 in Vellore, Tamil Nadu =india= Name: Ajay Email: <find_ajay-at-rediff.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] web search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Studies I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu May 29 21:30:44 2003 Anonymous Guest 23 in Columbia, SC =USA= F23 in Columbia, SC =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] through handwriting analysis website. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Studing Nursing My Astrology: Astrology doesn't really matter to me I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships are when there is a strong connection between people. It can either be between your family, friends, or a lover. You care very much about the other persons well being. You enjoy there company and want to be around them. They make you feel good about yourself and you make them feel good about themselves. You give them advise and they give you advise. Your there for them when they need you as they are for you. Relationships are with people you can trust and depend on. No matter what happens you know they will be there for you and you for them. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: the laughter. The excitement of learning about that other person. The enjoyment of participating in activities you both like. --The worst things about relationship are: the insecurities, jealousy, and interests you do not share together. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone successful and likes to do things outdoors. Some one who makes me laugh and is attractive. Someone who doesn't smoke or likes to drink a lot. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: have more self confidence and be more motivated to do things to better myself. I could not be so afraid of change. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: how intimidated I am of other people and what they think of me gets in the way of allowing my true personallity come out. I have to have control in my environment so I don't risk the chance of embaressing myself. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I don't want my partner to smoke of drink too much or be abusive. They have to make me feel good about myself and I want to be proud of them. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being responsible for your main priorities in life and being able to keep promises you make. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I don't like to argue. I usually keep quite, give my opinion, or just leave. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Looks --Regarding Age in Relationship within 2 to 5 years. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: reliable. I think some people are totally heterosexual and some are totally homosexual. There are some out there who are confused. So I can agree with this continuum, but I wouldn't use it when determining what people are. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am totally heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion has no place in determining who it is we may find ourselves with in a relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and Sex are different. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: The guy got me drunk and I was curious. I was 14. I wish I had waited and known better. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think Co-habitation is okay, considering that I have lived with two partners before. I wouldn't recommend it unless you know you are with the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. It is very hard breaking up with someone you live with and having to split things up and move all your stuff out. --Regarding Risks opening up and explaining how I feel. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): get tested and have protected sex. Before you have sex with that person ask them if they are safe and be protected anyways. --A funny relationship story: just laughing about a funny comment or laughing at something someone did. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Books & Films ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 7 12:47:30 2003 Anonymous Guest 21 in LaPorte, IN =USA= F21 in LaPorte, IN =USA= Name: Crystal Email: <zephyrbearangel-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: homemaker/student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: i love being alive.... quote Jewel "I'd rather see the world from another angle, we are everyday angel's be careful with me cause i'd like to stay that way" and "Do you hate her...cause she's pieces of you?" My Astrology: I am an Aries and my girlfriend/fiance is a Scorpio...we shouldn't work...but we do :) I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a good relationship will bring you happiness, love, and contentment. It is never perfect but never falsifies what it is to you. You can trust that it will be what it is, no more, and no less. A bad relationship will require you to lie to yourself about the bad parts. You will find yourself searching hard for anything good involved and you will hold onto that memory as though it were a lifeline. In a good relationship, you are able to be you, and the other person can do the same, there is nothing "expected" everything is appreciated --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love that was quickly turned into a bundle of lies because I was 14 and found out the supposedly young, handsome, 16 year old was actually 20. --The best things about relationship are: the greatest thing in the entire world is waking up each morning and seeing the person you love sleeping contently beside you in bed. Seeing how beatiful they are at that vulnerable moment is what makes it true love. --The worst things about relationship are: the most difficult part to any of my relationships was moving in with the person. I learned quickly it's not all it's cracked up to be. suddenly you have to respect everything they're used to doing in their home and they have to do the same for you. it's not "my" space...it becomes "our" space. that is very hard to comprehend at first --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: for myself, this lover must be intelligent and have life experience. they must be able to hold a conversation and please me intellectually. one of the most important factors for me in a relationship is how they react to my family. my mom, dad, grandma, brother, and sister can be very hard on people the first, second, and times beyond that when they meet. they enjoy testing a person to see who they are. well, even the dogs form their opinions. i guess for me, to see that this person can withstand all that pressure, it shows me how much they care about me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so analytical. i have to analyze everything all the time. fortunately, my current partner is helping me get beyond that. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am very controlling. that's a bad habit. i want to be the one making the decisions. but that isn't always possible. that is a hard thing for me to grasp --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: if a partner has a few bad habits but is willing to work on them, i don't mind. when a person doesn't care enough to even attempt to put some of those habits aside, i can't say i could stick around --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: i am a homemaker....i think that says it all. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people need to learn that when they're at that point where they know something is going to come out of their mouth and they're going to regret it, they need to shut up, turn around, walk away, and cool off until they can discuss things like a human being speaking to another equal human being. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes, and voice --Regarding Age in Relationship i am 16 years younger than partner...enough said --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: For people who can't handle homosexuality, don't look at it and it won't bother you. I mean, if you don't like a tv channel do you keep it on and bitch about it?? no. you turn the channel so you aren't watching it anymore. thats what i think people need to do. if you don't like it, leave, no one is forcing you to be a part of anyone elses sex life. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am a lesbian. I am a woman in love with another woman. and i love my life and every piece of it. --Regarding Religion in Relationship people can believe what they want without forcing it on someone else, that has never been a problem with me --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different. you can have love without sex and sex without love, fortunately in my current relationship they are both at the same wonderful level --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: in the words of Angelina Jolie from the movie Gia "I could have done that with a german shephard." and no I am not into beastiality --Regarding living with someone before marriage: well, considering i'm a lesbian and can't legally marry, do i really have an opinion on this? i think it's fine as long as the couple is happy. you definatly learn alot about a person by living with them that's for sure, and for those who can marry... try it out...see if you can survive --Regarding Risks I moved from New Jersey to the middle of nowhere in Indiana. That's not so scary. The scary part is that I had only met my partner three months prior to that. And that was online. We had only spent 3 days together 2 months prior to my moving, and 3 days together 1 last time one month prior to my moving. But, 6 months later, we're still here. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): have a talk before you go and drown yourself in sorrow because you did something stupid. ask. if someone gets offended by the need for discussion, trust me, it can't be a good answer to your question. --A funny relationship story: My partner and I got into a huge fight because of another person living in the home. everyone in the house was drunk except myself, which didn't help. Well, she told me if I was going to be acting the way I was I could just go home. (not thinking i would drive 13 hours back) and so I grabbed my keys and headed for the door. With her screaming for me to stop, and her cousin trying to block my path, I shoulder slammed her cousin into a wall after asking her repeatedly to move and got to my car. I got in and slammed the door and started the car. Upon thought, I rememberd my cat was inside, whom I had brought with me on the move. I proceeded to try to get out of the car to get him and bring him too and was stuck. My car apparantly was missing a screw on the plastic part of the door and when I slammed it I got it stuck. Needless to say, I began laughing incessently because I wanted to leave to prove to her i could, but i couldn't without my cat, and i couldn't get out of the car to get the cat. we still laugh today about that night - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was useful...thank you....i have a better idea of how i feel about some issues - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? how about why people care so much about what other people do in their own bedroom? if you don't believe in it fine... jews don't believe jesus is the son of god, so are you going to illegalize them from being religious because a large amount of people disagree about it? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 7 12:47:32 2003 Anonymous Guest 21 in LaPorte, IN =USA= F21 in LaPorte, IN =USA= Name: Crystal Email: <zephyrbearangel-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: homemaker/student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: i love being alive.... quote Jewel "I'd rather see the world from another angle, we are everyday angel's be careful with me cause i'd like to stay that way" and "Do you hate her...cause she's pieces of you?" My Astrology: I am an Aries and my girlfriend/fiance is a Scorpio...we shouldn't work...but we do :) I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a good relationship will bring you happiness, love, and contentment. It is never perfect but never falsifies what it is to you. You can trust that it will be what it is, no more, and no less. A bad relationship will require you to lie to yourself about the bad parts. You will find yourself searching hard for anything good involved and you will hold onto that memory as though it were a lifeline. In a good relationship, you are able to be you, and the other person can do the same, there is nothing "expected" everything is appreciated --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love that was quickly turned into a bundle of lies because I was 14 and found out the supposedly young, handsome, 16 year old was actually 20. --The best things about relationship are: the greatest thing in the entire world is waking up each morning and seeing the person you love sleeping contently beside you in bed. Seeing how beatiful they are at that vulnerable moment is what makes it true love. --The worst things about relationship are: the most difficult part to any of my relationships was moving in with the person. I learned quickly it's not all it's cracked up to be. suddenly you have to respect everything they're used to doing in their home and they have to do the same for you. it's not "my" space...it becomes "our" space. that is very hard to comprehend at first --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: for myself, this lover must be intelligent and have life experience. they must be able to hold a conversation and please me intellectually. one of the most important factors for me in a relationship is how they react to my family. my mom, dad, grandma, brother, and sister can be very hard on people the first, second, and times beyond that when they meet. they enjoy testing a person to see who they are. well, even the dogs form their opinions. i guess for me, to see that this person can withstand all that pressure, it shows me how much they care about me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so analytical. i have to analyze everything all the time. fortunately, my current partner is helping me get beyond that. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am very controlling. that's a bad habit. i want to be the one making the decisions. but that isn't always possible. that is a hard thing for me to grasp --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: if a partner has a few bad habits but is willing to work on them, i don't mind. when a person doesn't care enough to even attempt to put some of those habits aside, i can't say i could stick around --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: i am a homemaker....i think that says it all. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people need to learn that when they're at that point where they know something is going to come out of their mouth and they're going to regret it, they need to shut up, turn around, walk away, and cool off until they can discuss things like a human being speaking to another equal human being. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes, and voice --Regarding Age in Relationship i am 16 years younger than partner...enough said --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: For people who can't handle homosexuality, don't look at it and it won't bother you. I mean, if you don't like a tv channel do you keep it on and bitch about it?? no. you turn the channel so you aren't watching it anymore. thats what i think people need to do. if you don't like it, leave, no one is forcing you to be a part of anyone elses sex life. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am a lesbian. I am a woman in love with another woman. and i love my life and every piece of it. --Regarding Religion in Relationship people can believe what they want without forcing it on someone else, that has never been a problem with me --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different. you can have love without sex and sex without love, fortunately in my current relationship they are both at the same wonderful level --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: in the words of Angelina Jolie from the movie Gia "I could have done that with a german shephard." and no I am not into beastiality --Regarding living with someone before marriage: well, considering i'm a lesbian and can't legally marry, do i really have an opinion on this? i think it's fine as long as the couple is happy. you definatly learn alot about a person by living with them that's for sure, and for those who can marry... try it out...see if you can survive --Regarding Risks I moved from New Jersey to the middle of nowhere in Indiana. That's not so scary. The scary part is that I had only met my partner three months prior to that. And that was online. We had only spent 3 days together 2 months prior to my moving, and 3 days together 1 last time one month prior to my moving. But, 6 months later, we're still here. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): have a talk before you go and drown yourself in sorrow because you did something stupid. ask. if someone gets offended by the need for discussion, trust me, it can't be a good answer to your question. --A funny relationship story: My partner and I got into a huge fight because of another person living in the home. everyone in the house was drunk except myself, which didn't help. Well, she told me if I was going to be acting the way I was I could just go home. (not thinking i would drive 13 hours back) and so I grabbed my keys and headed for the door. With her screaming for me to stop, and her cousin trying to block my path, I shoulder slammed her cousin into a wall after asking her repeatedly to move and got to my car. I got in and slammed the door and started the car. Upon thought, I rememberd my cat was inside, whom I had brought with me on the move. I proceeded to try to get out of the car to get him and bring him too and was stuck. My car apparantly was missing a screw on the plastic part of the door and when I slammed it I got it stuck. Needless to say, I began laughing incessently because I wanted to leave to prove to her i could, but i couldn't without my cat, and i couldn't get out of the car to get the cat. we still laugh today about that night - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was useful...thank you....i have a better idea of how i feel about some issues - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? how about why people care so much about what other people do in their own bedroom? if you don't believe in it fine... jews don't believe jesus is the son of god, so are you going to illegalize them from being religious because a large amount of people disagree about it? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue May 6 13:24:23 2003 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - a Friend - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: RNC,CRRN My Astrology: of intrest does not matter I'm a: Cancer Sun; with Leo Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a deep friendship that encompases all aspects of live leading to deep abiding love and concern for the welfare of mate over own welfare --That first relationship was That first relationship was...deeping friendship developing to love-seperated by 15 years now happily married to same fellow for 22 years --The best things about relationship are: time with my mate with nothing planned except time with each other to enjoy --The worst things about relationship are: when he is cross and yells --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: strong but not dominating --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: decreased agitation when things are not as I envisioned/ planned --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: need to change eating habits to stay well --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: excepting for spitting on the ground when we are outside hi does ok now --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: dishes --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: we must stop LISTEN to each other --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how I am treated --Regarding Age in Relationship doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Each person is special- attraction to either gender or both does not matter --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: open --Regarding Religion in Relationship RESPECT for beliefs of others tolerance for their practices --Regarding Love and Sex: love is how you feel about the other poerson everyday---sex is a physical relationship that doesn't have to be expericenced but nice when it does happen --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: immature --Regarding living with someone before marriage: what ever works --Regarding Risks having people over to my not quiet spick and span house --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): use protection all the time unless you are in a totally commited monagous relationship and want to have a pregency develope --A funny relationship story: when mate and I play jokes on each other - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Books & Films What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was interesting to examine feelings on topics In have not even tought of. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 2 12:21:34 2003 Anonymous Guest 32 in Kissimmee, FL =USA= F32 in Kissimmee, FL =USA= Name: Gricela Email: <Jilseponie2002-at-yahoo.com> Web: n/a - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: bookeeping My Astrology: I think that if you believe in it then it matters. I personally do, to some extent and therefore I do ask a person's sign. But I wouldn't base my entire relationship on it. I'm a: Scorpio Sun; with Libra Moon; and Capricorn rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: That is not an easy thing to explain... A relationship is the "connection" two people have with each other. A sense of "kismet". A relationship is not always good, or bad. It is a part of life. You have a relationship with everyone who surrounds you on a daily basis, be it your co-worker your siblings, your childeren or your partner. It's a mutual feeling of love - even when there's anger. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: Companionship, warmth, the ability to be myself with another person. --The worst things about relationship are: relating to the other person, (it's not a bad thing, it's just difficult) Trying to not be selfish about the other person's time, and it's not easy to let someone into your heart, and open up freely. Also, seeing that person hurting and not being able to do anything about it. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who lets me be me, without judgement or conviction. Someone who is hard working and responsible but hasn't forgotton how to play. And let's be honest, I want someone who pays attention to me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: no, I'm not perfect but I can't change who I am and I don't want anyone who doesn't accept me with all my imperfections. Including the REALLY bad ones. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: It should have no bearing in my relationship. -- none of the majors apply, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs and I don't drink excessively. Any other habbits are minor. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ditto. I don't want to change for anyone I don't expect anyone to change for me... "It should have no bearing." (except for the somking, drugs, or drinking part) --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Consideration. Responsibility certainly means prepareing for the future but it also means thinking about the other person's needs. Will I be home late from work, Are we going to a party tonight and does he/she know about it. Or basically how would the other person feel about whatever decisions you make. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Don't put the blame on anyone - in other words try not to use the word "you" a lot. Take deep breaths - think about it and talk like an adult. If this form of consideration is one-sided then take some time away, go for a brisk walk alone and let him/her get over it as well, but never forget that you love each other. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I used to think it was looks. But looks fade and there's something else I've learned, is that a persons personality as you get to know them can change the way you physically look at someone. Now - I perfer someone I can talk to, someone who has a brain, and some passion about life to go with it. --Regarding Age in Relationship as long as both people are over, hmmm say 28 or so, I don't think that the age difference would make much of a difference. Both parties have now gone into adult hood and therefore have a good idea of what they want in life. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I really don't know... maybe everyone has some homosexual tendencies, maybe it's just one big perversion. Personally, I think to each is own, and everyone has the right to their own sexuality. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I love men, there's no question about it. But that is not to say that that is wrong or right. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It certainly helps if both are of the same religion, or at least with the same or similar beliefs. Religion is a topic that is not seen very lightly by those who are truely religious and therefore a difference of opinion can make room for argument. Also, when both go (or not go) to church or gathering together, it's one more thing they have in common. --Regarding Love and Sex: You can have sex without love - but why? It doesn't necessarily go hand in hand but it is so much better when it does, both the sex and the love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I think that for women, it is not unusual for the first time to be dissapointing. You set expectation that are impossible to reach and in you own lack of experience you don't know much your self. The good news is - it get much better as you grow older. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: This is another question that I would have to respond "to each is own" I've lived with someone, lived with someone else and been married. Now, I would rather be married than live with someone. He can have his home and I'll have mine - but that is just how I see it for myself. Everyone is different. --Regarding Risks Letting my partner know that he can hurt me. That I'm not as strong as I'd like to be, and that sometimes I need to be vulnerable. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Better safe than sorry. Yes, it is uncomfortable to talk about your partner's sexual past, especially if you are a jelous person but think of the consequenses. I say ALWAYS use protection, unless you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is no risk. --A funny relationship story: I ran us out of gas on the highway. I was mortified at the time but he made such light of the situation that it was downright comical - right down to the slow speech of the officers that stoped to see if we were okay. We laugh a lot, although that is the first specific thing I can think of we constantly laugh together - be it at a movie or people watching or even poking fun at each other. It's just a part of a relationship. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Stories - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I always enjoy giving my opinion and putting it down into words. I truely enjoyed this questionaire. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I beleive that you can learn a lot about a person by their relationship with their parent... mother in particular. Maybe a question regarding that. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 27 13:43:28 2003 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Mars & Venus on a Date - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship should first consist of friendship. You and your partner should always be able to communicate about anything. You should love one another and put us other first and foremost before anything else. You will usually have disagreements about certain issues and that it ok, but you should be able to discuss them and not argue and fight about them. Never take your relationship and the time you have with your partner for granted, because you never know how much time you will have to spend with them. Always try to compliment each other and see the good in each other and bring the best out of each other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...what i consider to be young love. We were best friends all of our lives and as we grew up we started to like each other. We knew everything about each other, had the same interest, and loved each others company. --The best things about relationship are: walks in the park, looking at the stars, cooking together, playing silly games, dancing to our songs, just sitting together not having to say a word and know that we are both happier then we have ever been before --The worst things about relationship are: trying to decide where to eat, not seeing eye to eye and how to discuss things without hurting each others feelings, spending time alone and one or both of you not getting jealous or possissive about it. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A loving, kind, considerate person that will love me and respect me. A person that is stable and lives a simple life, that makes goals and achives them, weather they are big or small. I want a relationship with someone with religious views and lives by them on a daily basis. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Make more time in my schedule and let someone feel important to me. I could express my feelings and try not to be so independent all the time. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I just got out of a 7 year relatinship that wasn't good at all. I got use to being treated bad, and I realize that the relationship had become a habit that I had to break. The down side to that is that I now feel like every relationship that I will get into in the future will end up like the one that I just got out of. I am going to have to lighten up on that fear and know that not all men are going to treat me like my x did. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I will have to find someone who is willing to go very slow. I am so scared of getting hurt. Therefore in the next relationship that I pursue it will have to go very slow. The person will have to be very compasionate and sensitive, and gentle. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance i learned a lot from my mother and the patience and love that she had for my dad What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance my mom always tried to protect me therefore she didn't dicuss things with me about guys and relationships ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Mar 22 18:11:52 2003 Anonymous Guest 31 in no, NO =NO= F31 in no, NO =NO= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] My Astrology: its interesting but its stupid to prejudge people based on astrology...u might just discount someone who seems incompatible with u but who culd potentially be ur soulmate I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: messy --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense --The best things about relationship are: sex --The worst things about relationship are: emotions --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more open --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am too guarded --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: that i have impossible standards --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: children and not hurting them or being hurt --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: everybody talks and nobody listens --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: intellectual compatibility --Regarding Age in Relationship age is irrelevent --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: does it matter .... sex and love are not the same thing --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion can be a stumbling block --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are totally different aspects of a relationship --Regarding living with someone before marriage: its up to the individual but not for me ... marriage first ... everything else later --Regarding Risks disastrous --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): abstinence - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - not helpful at all. seems a waste of time - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? why do u put people thru this stuff? why did i go thru this?? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 20 21:37:15 2003 Anonymous Guest 15 in Tucson, AZ =USA= F15 in Tucson, AZ =USA= Name: Christine Email: <TiltedHalo2805-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student My Astrology: i know that a lot of people don't really "fit" into how theyre supposed to be like in their astrological signs, so any relationship can work, or not work depending on the people, and not only the signs. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Something special shared by two people that have a strong bond, emotionally or physically. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... kind of like puppy love. We talked every night, but the conversations were pretty dull, especially since im very shy. We didnt wee each other much, but i really liked him. (or i thought i did) --The best things about relationship are: The feeling of being appreciated, having someone there for you if you need them, being there for the other person, being happy, and sexual acts are great too. --The worst things about relationship are: not being able to flirt with other people, getting in arguments. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who isnt afraid to be themselves, someone funny, romantic, that respects me, and loves to be around me. Someone that can console me or help me when im sad or need help. Someone that isnt afraid to show the world how he feels, and someone that includes me in his thoughts. And, someone that is attracted physically to me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more open about my feelings, give my opinions more, make more decisions, not feel so insecure or jealous, and focus more on when my partner wants. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to open up more an be more open to change my habits for my partner. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'd probably do or change anything reasonable to make my partner happy. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I dont really bring up anything that could cause conflict. I need to communicate more, because i'm too passive --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: confidence, darkness of skin (i tend to like darker-skinned people, although im not prejudiced and i don't have to be with someone with dark skin), voice --Regarding Age in Relationship Age completely doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't think that anyone is really gay or straight. i think everyone has varying feelings on sexuality, wether they admit it or not. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: On the continuum, im probably a 2-4, and i accept all people, no matter what sexuality --Regarding Religion in Relationship I think Religion shows that a person is weak, but whatever they believe, i am willing to respect that. Religion doesn't have anything to do with who i have relationships with, and it doesn't much to me if they believe in the same thing as me, as long as they respect my faith (or lack of) like i respect theirs. --Regarding Love and Sex: When you love someone, sex is great with them, but if you only are in a relationship with sex, it doesn't mean that you necessarily love the person. Sex can make a relationship better, but it doesn't have to be amazing for things to work out. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was very memorable. i wasnt in love with the person, but it still meant a lot to me. I then realized that there can be a lot about sexual encounters that can be great experiences. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You should live with someone before marriage so you can see the other person's weird habits or you can see how it is seeing someone every day in the same house. you can also see how you react to someone living with you every day, and if you can handle it. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i practice safe sex when i can. i know the risks, and try to stay safe, but if i dont, i hope that the reason why i wasn't was beause whatever i was doing meant a lot to me, and maybe it will have beenm worth it. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Stories ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Mar 9 07:33:14 2003 Anonymous Guest 32 in england, u.k =u.k= F32 in england, u.k =u.k= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] hand writing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: hairdresser My Astrology: it's interesting but it doesn't matter, - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a deep feeling to put another persons fellings and happiness befor yourself --That first relationship was That first relationship was... fell in love and lived together for 2yrs --The best things about relationship are: a kiss and being held --The worst things about relationship are: conflict --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: warmth affection understanding compashion the ability to laugh at ones self to be able to admit you are wrong --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be able to show more emotion not be so stuborn --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being restricted and controlled --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people are to stuborn, they don't look objectivly at the other side of an issue --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes and smile --Regarding Age in Relationship age does matter 2 or 5 years is about right --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: you are what you are. if you are drawn to the opposite sex or the same sex then live to be happy as long as you aren't hurting anyone along the way --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship you do not have to be the same, it's good to have different views --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totaly different --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was fumbled and it hurt --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it's up to you, whatever you and your partner feel comfy with. personaly got married without living with him first, got divorced and now i would live with someone before remarrying --Regarding Risks i don't do it often enough, i hold back --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect yourself and protect others get a check up - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - very interesting, i learnt a few things about myself ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Mar 5 00:52:49 2003 Anonymous Guest 26 in Edmonton, Alberta =Canada= F26 in Edmonton, Alberta =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Administration My Astrology: Ive found that Sagitarius and Capricorn are a little too honest...brutally honest for my sensitive Aquarian heart. But I would never not date someone just because he was a Sag or Cap. I would have to get to know them to make any judgements on whether or not we were compatible and probably wouldn't give much thought to the Zodiac. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: All the Venus and Mars books. They are sooooo good! Recommended Reading-- Writers: John Grey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: When two people (ideally) love and care about each other and make a commitment to be in each others lives. They support each other and help each other, have fun together, laugh and cry together. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense, stupid, found myself married and divorced by the age of 22. --The best things about relationship are: Affection- physical and emotional. Being in love, feeling like you're floating when your "other" walks into the room. Knowing that you are not alone. Having someone that knows you inside and out and not having to explain every little thing that you do. Doing sweet things to show your "other" how much you love them. --The worst things about relationship are: Two very different people trying to compromise. Or someone's refusal to compromise. Arguements where you say things to hurt the other and end up leaving scars on the relationship. Having enough room to grow as an individual. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Sense of humor. Masculinity. Honest, trustworthy, sincere. Playful. Strong. Must have good sensabilities and common sense. Understanding. Kind and empathetic nature. Positive attitude. Laid back personality. Knows how to be romantic and chivalrous when the situation calls for it. Is my best friend. Is that too many??? --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Resist the urge to spend every waking moment together. Throw out the fear. Lay it all out on the table. Trust the other with my feelings. Don't take any shit. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a habit of clamming up instead of opening up. That doesn't help at all. Is that a habit? Other than that I don't think I have to many annoying habits. Who am I to say really? Someone else would have to answer this. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My ex had a habit of tuning me out when I was talking and then interrupting me. I don't think he even knew he did it. But it was a major problem for me. He also had a habit of telling me a better way to do EVERYTHING. He was also very anal. God help me, he's my best friend and I love him to death, but these three things were eventually impossible for me to overlook. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Lets say the couple is living together... Responsabilities would include household chores and making money. But when I think of responsabilities in a relationship I think of the responsibility to call when you are late so the other doesn't worry. To treat to other with respect. To keep promises you make. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It's tough! Everyone is different and it is something that has to be worked on if the relationship is going to be successful. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Build, confidence, nice facial features and how easy it is to talk to him --Regarding Age in Relationship Once a person is an adult, age doesn't matter. Take love where you find it. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: It makes sense to me. I consider myself a heterosexual woman. I love men and would only want to be in a relationship with men, but am sometimes turned on by women. This doesn't bother me a bit and I know that a lot of women feel the same way. Men however... I think that if they weren't so blinded by homophobia they may be in the same boat, but as it is now they would never admit it. We will probably never know. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: My preference is definitely men. However I have kissed and touched women. I am mildly curious. Probably not curious enough to go all the way with a woman. At least not when I'm sober... --Regarding Religion in Relationship If the couple can make it work then go for it. If it causes too many problems in the relationship then a decision has to be made. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex can definitely be two separate things but are better when accompanied by each other. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Surprised at how much I enjoyed it after the initial pain went away. Then frustrated because my partner came right after I started to enjoy it. Hmmm...that describes 75% of my sexual encounters, not just the first one... --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I am on the fence. I am for living with someone before marriage but I definitely thing not living with someone works too. To each his/her own. --Regarding Risks I risked telling my ex things I hadn't told anyone before. It was soooo scarey, but he was wonderful. As a result of this I dealt with issues I had been struggling with for a very long time. I don't regret it at all. It depends though on the person you are opening up to. Make sure that they deserve your trust. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Use protection for the first six months. Then get tested. If both are clean then just worry about birth control. No need to get into details of past sexual partners as this can cause big problems in the relationship. This whole scenario is assuming the two people are monogamous of course. --A funny relationship story: So much humor comes into a relationship when you get really comfortable with the other person. Farting can be a huge source of humor in a relationship. Pushing your girlfriends head under the covers, etc, etc, etc. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was interesting. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Feb 26 08:32:14 2003 Anonymous Guest 21 in COlumbus, OH =USA= F21 in COlumbus, OH =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] through handwriting analysis link - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: HR student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a connection between two or more people for some specific purpose....love, work,friendship --That first relationship was That first relationship was comfortable. --The best things about relationship are: You learn more about yourself and what matters most to you. I enjoy the new adventures and unforgettable moments of relationships the most. --The worst things about relationship are: Dealing with jealousy issues and communication problems --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is ambitious, funny, supportive, goal oriented, cute, reliable. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not try to make decisions for others and learn to communicate more often --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: that i enjoy haivng a feeling a comfort and often times i am reluctant to move on even when i know that the person i am with doesnt totally satisfy me. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: They need to be able to take care of themselves and not expect me to do cleaning, cooking, etc. by myseelf. I hate when partners carry grudges and consistently use them in a disagreement --Regarding Risks Allowing myself to depend a partner is the riskest for me - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Feb 9 12:58:05 2003 Anonymous Guest 34 in cedar rapids, iowa =usa= F34 in cedar rapids, iowa =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: medical My Astrology: I am a Capricorn/Sagittarius/Libra, I find that I mesh well with Piscean men, and Taurus men...........scorpio too, but always with issues.... I'm a: Capricorn Sun; with Sagittarius Moon; and Libra rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: sometimes whistful, sometimes content, sometimes plain misserable,,, it is a force to be recond with, somthing which is within our control, and without our wherewithal. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love,, not knowing --The best things about relationship are: comradre, copanionship, respect, and a feeling of knowing that other person --The worst things about relationship are: feeling let down by the other. never the open love for one another --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: intelligent respect, and unconditional love --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: being vulnerable, and complimentary to the outstanding person that I chose --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: obsession over that particular person, drinking and an infalible belief that I will find my soul mate --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I need someone strong of spirit, intelligent, ingenuitive, and loving --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: honesty, trust, respect, --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I am a person to be reckoned with, unless that person reckons me,, then I am a puddle --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: a mind, a soul, a person --Regarding Age in Relationship people should be from the same mental generation not physical,however,, I do not date men 4 yrs younger or 6 yrs older --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: a 3, you are more likely or less likely --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have been with a woman, and appreciated and adored the experience, however, even though I fantasize about women ocassionally, my men are my men, and what I revere --Regarding Religion in Relationship whom ever is my soul mate, is my soul mate,,, it is nice to have the same religious background, but definately not necessay --Regarding Love and Sex: love is love..............it does not transcend the physical,,, however, their are sexual experiences that can make a love experience more gratifying --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: simple, "stupidity" wrong time, wrong person, wrong everything..... I wish it would have been more meaningful. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: simple,,, shoes........must be on and comfortable. --Regarding Risks right now,,, telling lance that I enjoyed being vulnerable to him --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I only sleep with people I trust, and if I don't trust them, I don't sleep with them. --A funny relationship story: just being able to make the other person laugh - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other Role Model - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was useful for me to look at myself, by being honest, with an elusive questioneer, and knowing that no one knows who I am..........thank you - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? 1. What was your parents relationship? 2. Do you buy into the fact "you will turn out like your parents" 3. Do you feel as if you have a guardian angle? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jan 26 10:44:40 2003 Anonymous Guest 37 in decatur, ind =usa= F37 in decatur, ind =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: I have found this to be true. 2 Aries have a hard time in a relationship because both are bull headed. But I dont base the relationship on it. I'm a: Aries Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a commintment between 2 people who have love,communication, friendship,and same desires in life --That first relationship was That first relationship was... teenage rebellion. My Mother didn't approve --The best things about relationship are: having someone to come home to and share my day with --The worst things about relationship are: learning to compromize --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: what doesn't exist. The perfect man. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not have such high expectations --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a hard time saying its over and done. I don't like to give up --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I will not accept someone who does drugs and will not work --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of all needs of the other person from sexual to listen --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you can be anger at the person and disagree but you have to agree to disagree as know its ok --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: if they brag on themself --Regarding Age in Relationship age isnt important but if you share the same interest and goals in life --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each person has the right to decide who they want to love --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer hetro. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it depends on how important it is to the people involved --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different. I make love to someone I'm in love with, I have sex for my own needs --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I only did it to find out what everyone was talking about --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I have done both. A piece of paper does not make the love greater, it does provide for the women as in ins. under her spouse,benifits in case of the death of a loved one, things along this --Regarding Risks sharing your deepest, and darkest thoughts with the other person. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect yourself always --A funny relationship story: is how you act and feel younger and better about yourself - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity becoming older and wiser and changing myself helped me my stubborness to change and wanting everything my way - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was too long ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 23 22:39:50 2003 Anonymous Guest 26 in davangere, karnataka =india= F26 in davangere, karnataka =india= Name: Dilshad Email: <dilmehar-at-yahoo.com> Web: http://WWW.pssr.org.in - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Teaching - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jan 17 06:59:43 2003 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] http://msn.co.in - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I have no idea --That first relationship was It was a crush --The best things about relationship are: Truthfulness, Kindness, Loyalty and sex --The worst things about relationship are: Suspicions --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Maybe it's a fantasy person who can never exist --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Maybe I am just not perfect --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Can't say. Don't like smoking and drinking - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jan 4 20:59:21 2003 Anonymous Guest 18 in Dallas, TX =USA= F18 in Dallas, TX =USA= Name: Katie Email: <honeybee1328-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] my friend emailed it to me - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: College student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I am in the greatest relationship ever and we are waitint to get out of college to take it that one step forward. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship = trust. Without trust and the respect you gain nothing can ever come from a relationship. --That first relationship was That first relationship was horrible. We never went on an actual date. I never even kissed him. It only lasted about two months. --The best things about relationship are: The first kiss, and falling in love and being loved back in return. --The worst things about relationship are: Not being too possissive and working to not let the petty arguments hurt you. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: They have to be intellectual and funny. Looks are not that important but I go for eyes and smiles. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: get along and talk more with his family. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 2 22:53:16 2003 Anonymous Guest 18 in , Texas =USA= M18 in , Texas =USA= Name: Alex Email: <apd2006-at-realpolice.net> Web: http://www.angelfire.com/rock/eagle/quotes.htm - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Typed in www.baddo.com and my browser thought maybe I meant www.bardo.com, which had a link to this site. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Working on becoming a police officer. My Astrology: Astrology was invented by clergy and has been used by clergy (and the occasional magazine horoscope writer) ever since. It means nothing. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is simply the condition between two people - there are good ones and bad ones. Ideally, a romantic relationship should fulfill needs that have gone unfulfilled in the past. --That first relationship was My first SIGNIFICANT relationship was with my best friend at the time, and we dated on and off (mostly on) for 10 months... We both were about 15 or 16 but yet it wasn't that "fiery." --The best things about relationship are: Being able to talk to someone with complete trust, and knowing that you'll be able to depend on them for anything when you need them. --The worst things about relationship are: Sacrificing and compromising - maybe doing something you wouldn't ordinarily want to do. Also maintaining a positive disposition when, frankly, you might just want to be a grouch. Ha. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Anyone can be pretty or funny... one of the rare qualities that I find necessary is the ability to be socially discreet. By this I mean appearing very chaste to others once one has entered into a relationship. I can't stand it when people say "I just have a flirtatious personality... it's just who I am." --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Perhaps if I was not such a staunch individual all of the time, and loosened up more around my partner. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a habit of playing Nintendo too much... She doesn't really like that when she is over, and I bet she won't like it very much when we're married and living together, either. Ha. Also I think I enjoy the company of my ex-girlfriend a bit too much for my partner's liking. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My partner has no habits that I find challenging to accept at this time, however we do not live together so it is possible that that could change in the future. But not yet. Knock on wood and all that. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I completely understand responsibility in relationships and anywhere else. People who can't accept their responsibilities are subhuman. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I often like to cut right to the heart of the matter if in fact there is something I feel needs to be talked about. If something is bothering someone, they should say something; not save it for ammunition at a later time. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Alright, like every other guy in the planet, I have the obligatory degree of shallowness: in my current partner, the first thing I noticed was how hot she was... but of course I came to love her very quickly for her beliefs, convictions, and her desire to do right in every way. --Regarding Age in Relationship I don't think age matters - people are going to be attracted to people who are, mentally, approximately as developed as they are. People who have sex with people who are very young consistently have a mind set that is of that age. I have a girlfriend who is very mature, and we are separated by only two years. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: This is one area I have very little experience with. I have a few friends who are not straight, and we get along fine, but I am totally straight and can't imagine finding a male sexually attractive. Bleh. Haha. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight... I don't think homosexuality is 'right' but neither is envy or murder or derision or sloth or any number of things that are rampant in our world today, any of which any of us may be guilty so who are we to judge others? --Regarding Religion in Relationship As a Christian, I believe the hard truth that Jesus is the only way to be saved from going to Hell... therefore I could not be with anyone who didn't - how could I see someone I loved everyday and know they were going to hell? --Regarding Love and Sex: Again, as a Christian, I plan on not having sex until marriage, and my relationship is fine. I will admit that my definition of sex is very narrow, however. Ha. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I haven't had "sex" yet per se, but I can hardly imagine what it will really be like. People always say how great it is, and I know how hard it is to put such great things into words... I can't wait. Haha. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't see anything INHERENTLY wrong, but it's hard enough to abstain from sex with my girlfriend and we're always around our parents and friends - living together, it'd be darn near impossible. --Regarding Risks I really don't mind sharing things about myself, despite what people think I am actually very open - as long as the person I'm talking to doesn't seem like an idiot. Unfortunately, that seems to be the great majority of people I come into contact with. Since I don't date any of THOSE people, I'm pretty okay. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It's easy to know your whole history and the whole history of your partner if you've both only been with each other. That's just another reason for such values, I guess. --A funny relationship story: One time when I was 15 or 16 I was at my girlfriend's house and her over protective brother and his friends came home... I was hidden under pillows and blankets. They found me, though. Bleh. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life An intense desire to do the right thing and always think about how my actions were affecting others. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Talking to People Always wanting to be right. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Maybe a little - mostly I know myself pretty well now. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 2 22:15:08 2003 Anonymous Guest 14 in , =USA= F14 in , =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] friend suggested it. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: it is fun to know about, but it doesn't matter really. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with Pisces Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship happens when two people like each other or have feelings about each other, either by lust, love, or both. some relationships are short, some are long, and some are spontaneous. relationships usually help people to fall in love, and they should be taken seriously. --That first relationship was more of puppy love really. --The best things about relationship are: emotional connections, cuddling, someone to talk to and to help you out and to be there for you. --The worst things about relationship are: pressure, arguments. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone to care about me, someone whom i can talk to, someone whom will always be there when i need them. someone whom i can learn to love. someone that will have respect for me but is willing to take the relationship further when the timing is right. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less paranoid, more outgoing. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i'm very paranoid about being hurt emotionally in a realationship. also i'm not very liable to make first moves, as i am nervous sometimes. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: sometimes they take the relationship too fast, and sometimes not fast enough. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: playing my own part and respecting my partner. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: when something goes wrong, i insist upon talking about it with my partner, if my partner is someone that i have respect for. however if i don't have respect for the partner, then i ignore them and try to stay away from them as to avoid the subject. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes, hair, hands, personality. --Regarding Age in Relationship that age doesn't matter, although there can't be too much of a difference. for example, 20 years difference is a little much. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: everyone falls under one of the numbers; all people are somehow gay, straight, bisexual, or asexual. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am bisexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship there is no need for two people to be of the same religion as long as they love each other. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are two totally different words. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: nervous, ashamed. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: if they wanna live together, then go ahead. --Regarding Risks going along with things they have started to do, sometimes no matter what it was. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i am scared of getting them, although i have taken the risks anyway. --A funny relationship story: joking about how my ex-bf was a love buffalo. haha. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life media and experience of myself and others. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was helpful to let me see how i think of things. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Dec 28 20:42:06 2002 Anonymous Guest 66 in Pocatello, Idaho =USA= F66 in Pocatello, Idaho =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] WebSite---Came highly recommended - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Retired My Astrology: Considering I have been a student of Astrology for over 30 years, I would agree heartily that partners in a relationship should know more about the aspects between them in the relationship chart as well as their natal chars. I'm a: Scorpio Sun; with Pisces Moon; and Virgo rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Interation between two people who share some commonality in personality, interests, religion,etc.---enough to provide the glue to hold two people together to explore each other's individuality, goals, etc. for a shared future. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Marriage for 35 years --The best things about relationship are: Deep friendship, shared interests, terrific sex, respect, love and caring. --The worst things about relationship are: Selfishness, putting self first, disrespect, verbal and physical, emotional abuse. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: The person in this new relationship --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I spent 12 years making these life-changes --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am ready for newness, change, and adventure. He is too. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: AOK --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I think we're old enough to respect and court responsbility having had it most of our lives. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: No Problem --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Our birthcharts do match up pretty well, concerning communication, relating, likes and dislikes, etc. --Regarding Age in Relationship Whatever is natural and easy. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I feel that if choice was here in this world and present at birth I think that heterosexual would be it. After all, look at all the problems homosexuality has had all these years. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship On-going search for one's own truth. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex should have a sense of adventure and exploration. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: That was taken care of quite nicely---considering it was on my wedding night. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: In their younger years, it may be wiser to marry---but as we age, I see no need for marriage. After all, money and possessions would go to our children anyway. So what else would marriage be good for, anyway. --Regarding Risks Losing some of my individual habits, likes, time, family-ties. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I have refused sexual encounters, mostly for that reason. I did not know the men and they were rather free. --A funny relationship story: No problem--does have keen sense of humor. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Giving and giving up too much---not asking enough in return - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Not really---because these questions has already been asked and answered as well as possible. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Dec 16 17:41:06 2002 Anonymous Guest 22 in Pepperell, Mass =usa= F22 in Pepperell, Mass =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Butterflies in your stomace --The best things about relationship are: someone to count on --The worst things about relationship are: findding a happy medium --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is sensitive to my feelings and can deal with my crazy way of thinking and all the baggage that i come with --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to deal with my feelings and let some things go - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Dec 1 20:19:09 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in Hamilton, ontario =canada= F17 in Hamilton, ontario =canada= Name: dusty may Email: <dmt18-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] stumbled into it... - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I know I'm screwed up, but hey!At least I'm not 'normal'. Ewww...normalcy..how blah.... My Astrology: I am interested in astrology..(like i said, i'm a bad christian, lol)..but I don't live my life by it. I don't think i'd end up with another pisces naywys, for ionstance, because i don't like it when people are too much like me! lol I'm a: Pisces Sun; with Scorpio Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Er, a relationship is what you call it when 2 people know eachother, then become close friends or lovers....(bad sentence structure but you get the point.) --That first relationship was That first relationship was... ha! I don't have relationships. I get serious crushes once in a while....but I never, EVER act on them. --The best things about relationship are: I figure it'd be good to have someone who understood you, and was there for you. --The worst things about relationship are: cheating, being used for money or sex, guys having drug, alcohol, or emotional problems...... --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: brains, looks, sense of humor. Any guy for me would have to be intelligent....I couldn't be around a stupid guy for more than 20 minutes. The guy has to have morals, too. The sense of humor is important because i think of life as a big joke sometimes, and if my guy didn't understand that, he wouldn't understad me..... --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i need to lose 25 pounds before any guy would ever even look at me, so that's my first thing. I can't be in a relationship until I trust people, which I simply don't at this point. I'm an introvert-extrovert, and that would have to change for me to be in a relationship. Meaning, I'm very extrovert outside of my house, but when i'm home, I want solitude. People irritate me, so i don't see how i could have a relationship. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: like i said, i come home, and lock myself in my room with good book. Or I write poetry and stories. Or I research topics that interest me. or I work on art projects, drawing, carving, painting, etc. I can't be in a relationship because it would infringe upon my 'me' time. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: if he understood the concept of not being together all the time, we may be able to work. Other than that, most habits i see as adding character. other people's habits generally amuse me, so my guy can have nearly any he wants....as long as he doesn't cheat!!!! NO CHEATING. Or drugs, or alcoholism, although occasional drinking is okay, i guess. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: money, lol. that's not even an issue for me, i'm only 17, so relationships at this point have very little responsibility. Oh, not true! A couple is responsible for any pregnancy, and the prevention of pregnancies. And using protection...that's it for teens, lol. wouldn't matter with me though b/c i don't believe in sex before marriage. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: hmm....if you can't talk things out, without getting angy, a relationshp will not work. period. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: oooh, looks first. The face has to be nice to catch my attention, and i don't like overweight guys. BUT, if a not-too-attractive guy has an amazing sense of humor and is intelligent....i stop seeing ugliness. --Regarding Age in Relationship ugh, couples like 20 years apart sicken me!! Within 5 years, 7 tops, is acceptable for an age difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that if you aren't straight you have severe emotional problems. I think being gay is wrong, but i have nothing against people who are gay, if you get my meaning. to me if you would like to have a sexual experience with somebody who is the same gender as you, but you aren't all 'gay', you're still sick. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: oh, i think i said that...lol. I'd never want to have sex with another girl. i mean, what would i want with a female body beneath me anyway? Hello, I already have one of those! lol. Seriously though, i think the practice of being gay is sick and evil. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I'm christian, but i'm not a very good one, (lol). I would prefer another christian, but not a really starchy anal christian. and i hate hypocrates,(.....lol, i think i'm probably a hypocrate myself!). a guy would have to believe in God. --Regarding Love and Sex: TOTALLY DIFFERENT! If you can't have love without sex, whta do you say about old couples??? 90 year old men and women who still love eachother, but aren't 'getting any'? No, if you love somebody you love them with OR without sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i'm still a virign. I think sex is special, and I'm sure it will measure up when, (if ever), i have sex because it will be with my husband. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together is fine before marriage, if you can keep yourself from sleeping together. If you are engaged...well...maybe sex and living together is acceptable...the intent is there, right? --Regarding Risks i won't get into a relationship because of the risk, period. I can't stand the idea of letting somebody know all the workings of my mind. And making yourself vulnrable by falling in love....you're bound to have your heart broken...<:( --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): hey, if you're going to sleep with more than one person in your life nowadays STDs area risk you are taking. It's your choice. STDs are like the 'wrongness' of being a slut personified... --A funny relationship story: oh man....one guy wrote a song for me trying to get me to go out with him. hahaha. another started bringing me boxes of 'ferrero rocher' chocolate every week. that was funny too, i had to ignre him completelybefore he got the hint. another one.....lol, well, let's just say i have lots of funny stories about guys trying to get with me. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life I wouldn't say observation helped me.....but i contributed to my relationship status. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling Ya....my mom's love life was comletely screwed up. she always said not to make her mistakes.... - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - actuall, it was helpful to me. i never realized just how screwed in the head i am!!! lol ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Nov 20 00:31:58 2002 Anonymous Guest 20 in , =USA= F20 in , =USA= Name: Orion Email: <OrionStarMcGaha-at-juno.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Infedelity search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: I don't really pay attention to astrology. We both have the same sign, and I have read that this can be good and bad. But it doesn't matter anyway. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Relationship Rescue Recommended Reading-- Writers: Dr. Phil - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a partnership with someone else for whom you have a special bond with. The feelings and love involved can be life lasting or end in sarrow. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: Unconditional love, trust, and compassion. A passionate sex life doesn't hurt either! --The worst things about relationship are: Insecurity, conflict of interest, disrespectfulness, and infedelity! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Good personality, trustworthy, faithful, good listener, good looking, sweet, charming, passionate, compassionate, sincere, witty, generous, happy, grateful, intergetic, humble, and peaceful. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: change my insecurities into confedence. I could also dress up more and make myself look presentable for my partner, pay more attention to him and my son, take his feelings into consideration, stop nagging so much, and make the best effort to be a good friend and lover. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: most are harmless. Besides staying on the internet more than I intend to or smoking, most aren't an issue. The one thing that I have a habit of doing, is assuming things. I wish I could break it! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he needs to stop smoking! That is the one thing that hinders our ability to move forward in our relationship! He also needs to be honest with me instead of lying to me about little things that I all ready know about. He needs to be honest with me! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of his emotional needs. After my son, he is the most important person in my life and to neglect his feelings, emotions, or intelligance would be unforgiving! --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: men lack communication skills! Most women I know talk or try to talk to their partners with no success of getting to the root of the problem, myself included. Most men I know, boyfriend included, feel like if they ignore it, it will eventually go away. My theory: Yes, it will go away, not the problem, but your partner, straight out the front door! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks, unfortunately. The first thing I noticed about my boyfriend was his smile. He has perfect teeth, yet I do not. --Regarding Age in Relationship my boyfriend is 13 years my senior and neither of us have ever thought about it. If you honestly love someone, why should age be a factor? --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't know. I have honestly never thought about the subject! --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am straight, though I have had lesbian experiences in the past just to see what it was like. I am sure every woman has, and if not, it's not a big deal. --Regarding Religion in Relationship If you are a religous person, it would be wise to find someone who has your same belief. You wouldn't want to feel spiritually seprate if you and your partner have different beliefs. If you aren't, you still should find someone who believes similar to you. I don't think anyone should be pushed into something they aren't ready for or don't believe in. My boyfriend and I believe in the same thing, so it was never an issue. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love equals sex, but sex does not equal love! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: that it was very disappointing. I expected it to be joyous, yet it was hurtful, emotionally and physically. I wish I could forget it. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I am currently living with my boyfriend, yet we are not married. I will tell you that it is better to be married before you move in, because most people get comfortable living together, and think there is no reason to get married. I once heard a friend describe co-habitation as this: 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?' At the time it was very humorous, but now I understand. I don't find that quote very funny now. I have lived with my boyfriend for a little over two years and he has backed out of three wedding dates all because he didn't think it was neccessary. I don't know how anyone else feels about involving children into this equasion, but I don't know what I am going to say to my son when he asks me why me and his father aren't married! --Regarding Risks frightening! The times in which I have allowed myself to get close, I have always ended up broken hearted! My current relationship included! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I have been very lucky! I know my own complete history just by being tested quarterly. My boyfriend and I are clean of all STDs, but I can't say we were careful. I trusted him and he trusted me. I wouldn't suggest this method to anyone else though. --A funny relationship story: remembering and telling about funny things that has happened to me or him in the past. It is always fun times to listen to a wacky story about his childhood years! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations Experience What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness Too trusting - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I thought the questionaire was very helpful to me and to my relationship. It made me realize some things about myself and my relationship that I need to work on to make better for all who are involved! - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Q: What are your views about children in un-wed relationships? How does this situation differ from children born into wedlock? A: Relationships are very different from marriages. If someone isn't happy with the way a relationship is going, that person has the option to just walk out the door. It is more difficult in a marriage. There are so many other things to think about, such as the cost of a divorce, the paper work, alimony, custody agreements, etc. If you are in a relationship with children, it complicates things to where the option of leaving, comes with a price. So it does in marriages, but most think a little harder when deciding on divorce, when children are involved. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 8 08:06:10 2002 Anonymous Guest 19 in Paris, =France= F19 in Paris, =France= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Something lacking in my life. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... brief --The best things about relationship are: Sex. --The worst things about relationship are: Bad sex. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A human being (as opposed to a beast) --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Stop drinking alcohol, eating sandwich grecs, and hanging out with Duncan and Kris. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Alcoholism does not help. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? Anonymity ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 3 07:28:09 2002 Anonymous Guest 69 in South River, Ontaro =Canada= F69 in South River, Ontaro =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CNN ] searching web - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: share with other human beings Get rid of warfare altogether we are all human beings,we all have the right to life,why must children suffer because one country has something the other wants My Astrology: not really I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with Aquarius Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: People I can trust --The best things about relationship are: friendship --The worst things about relationship are: people to trust --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I want to be equal in a relationship --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: take the time --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't always have the time --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: must not try always to control me --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: caring sharing loving understanderstanding --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: both talking --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: friendlyness --Regarding Age in Relationship 5 to 8 yrs --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I do not believe that a person can be homosexual but by his own making. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am a woman preferinga man my husband --Regarding Religion in Relationship good to be of same faith but not rally a most --Regarding Love and Sex: sex belongs in the bedroom between a wife and husband --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it wasn't worth the effort --Regarding living with someone before marriage: you should be married --Regarding Risks sex --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): better to have blood tests if both patners clean marry --A funny relationship story: can't remember the most funny - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends my strict bringing up What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance no - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was something to pass the time - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? why has this human race gone crazy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 1 22:12:56 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Psych Professor - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: Not very important, sorry. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and ?? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a very special bond between you and another person. A relationship can be whatever you make of it but most importantly, a positive, healthy relationship is quite a bit of work. You shouldn't take it for granted! --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love, but we also found ourselves getting married! --The best things about relationship are: Communication, first and foremost...there are many other very important aspects such as Trust, Honesty, and Companionship, but there are lots of BEST things to look for. --The worst things about relationship are: INSECURITY! It will drive anyone insane! Bad habits that possibly interfere with the LAW can be damaging as well, and even those that don't, such as excessive drinking. Also, white lies...it's hard to trust someone that can't even be honest with you, even about the small things. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who can tolerate me. I'm a women and I do get some crazy mood swings, but someone who kicks back when I'm going through them, but still loves me when I want to be a sweetheart. Someone who is outgoing and likes to laugh at my jokes but also very structured and responsible at the same time. Someone who will baby me when I am sick and not be such a 'tough guy' that he can't admit when he is wrong or say sorry. I like a man who's not afraid to cry. It makes me feel very special and feel as though he loves just as much as I'm willing to cry for him to show him that I love him. Someone who is romantic, and reminds me often,(not too much), that he thinks of me and loves me. Lastly, (really I could go on...) someone who is willing to help me out with chores that need to be done. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try and control my temper, as well as try and have more patience. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have good habits for the most part, at least that is what I am told. I do forget things here in there, but who doesn't. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: as long as they are clean and mostly organized, I'm a happy camper. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking care of what 'needs' to be done. Esp. when it comes to due dates ie. bills. As a parent, much more indepth meaning of responsibility. Its not only to yourself, but to your whole family. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: When one person is mad, its best to allow them to get it all of their chest without adding fuel to the fire. Wait until they calm down a little. Whatever you do, DON'T just sit there and be quiet, in ANY situation, it makes the other person feel as though you either don't care, or that you are not listening. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the way in which they carry themselves and the way they talk. --Regarding Age in Relationship it matters to a certain extend. More than 20 yrs older than one another it starting to push it, but it's known to happen, and the relationship is successful. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: they are mostly sinners(except those that really have the mental problems) and are at a loss for attention. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Totally straight! --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is extremely important. In some families who are less religious,or not religious at all it may be not problem. --Regarding Love and Sex: you definately need a lot of love, and that's most important. Sex can definately inhance a relationship in many wonderful ways, but its not always absolutely necessary for them to go hand in hand, although it would be nice. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: very awkward and PAINFUL! Didn't find much joy in it at all actually! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: They say its important NOT to live together first, but the way I see it is, if you are not doing 'the naughty' and behaving yourself, it gives you a chance to see how the other person 'may' be as far as cleanliness, and their overall habits. Are you willing to live with them for the rest of your life? You still have a chance to run if not! --Regarding Risks allowing myself to involve myself with a man that was with another lady, knowing that if I started to really like him, there would be no chance. (or the consequences would be far devistating) --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): that before you 'jump in the sack' with anyone, ask, ask, ask! They may lie, but hopefully your with an honest person, but still protect yourself no matter what! --A funny relationship story: when my husband and I were driving down the highway from L.A. I was using my laptop and I didn't know how to adjust the lighting and it was starting to bother my eyes. My husband told me to put on some sunglass, joking of course, but I went ahead and did it anyways. I felt really silly, on the highway, it's night time, and everyone passing us sees this girl using her comp. with sunglass? So shortly after, I turned off the comp. Shortly after that my husband says,"You turned off the computer," I said,"Yeah..and?," he says,"But you still have your sunglasses on!," and we both started busting up laughing. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance Friends did to some extent. What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I thought the questions provided a wide range of useful 'scenerios' and pertain to real life questions that everyone has. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Oct 28 00:53:53 2002 Anonymous Guest 30 in gl;oucestershire, =uk= F30 in gl;oucestershire, =uk= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: business economics My Astrology: have had 4 serious relatiopnships 3 total failed with gemini virgo and scorpio current relatioship with another pisces and every thing going great - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: why men lie and women cry Recommended Reading-- Writers: allan barbara pease - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... fall in love and married very quickly marriage ended quick as it started he went to the gulf war and came back a totally different person --The best things about relationship are: i look forward to my boyfriend coming here and just being with him whether we go out or stay in cuddle in front of tv or go on net together just spending time with each other. I like waking up in the morning knowing he gonna be there we always wake up cuddling --The worst things about relationship are: ex s ex husbands and ex wives interfering and trying to cause trouble --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: my boyfriend and hey i had to kiss awful lot of frogs to find my prince. kind thoughtful tactile sensible always notice if i do my make up different or what clothes i wearing and full of compliments --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: remember that men have a monotracked brain and remember not to talk to much when he driving or we miss the turning --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: reading wh ymen lie ans women cry has helped my change any bad habits i had wish i had read the book every girl should be given the book for life reference --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i take my partner as awhole --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: physaical tall and nice dark eyes and a nice bum --Regarding Age in Relationship age shouldn't matter when u fall in love i personally prefer a man who is abit older than me as i find alot of younger men very immature --Regarding Love and Sex: when you in love with someone sex is great a action that just gets better the longer you together i love my boyfriend and sex is wonderful together however if something happened and we couldn't have sex i still love him as a relationship should be built on more than what happens "in bed" --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: nothing like i expected bit like a deflated balloon --Regarding living with someone before marriage: what ever people feel happy doing --Regarding Risks telling someone how i totally feel about them as i then feel vunrable --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful look after yourself and i wouldn't have unprotected sex unless i was sure of the history of the person they had an all clear from the clinic --A funny relationship story: we laugh together everday - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Oct 27 15:39:20 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] hwa.org - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: I find it amusingly interesting, but don't truly base anything on it. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: ideally a state where two emotionally healthy people enjoy life together sharing important things. Someone to converse with, nurture, be nurtured by, and laugh with. Someone you can be yourself with and let go of inhibitions. Wanting the best for someone and having the room to grow together. Companionship and trust... --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense immature love --The best things about relationship are: Sharing and laughter. Acceptance and devotion. A warm body at night to snuggle. A caress just so you know they care. --The worst things about relationship are: Financial matters. Former spouses and step-children. In-Laws. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Love, displays of affection, trust, loyalty and honesty. Dedication and companionship. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Work on my self confidence and esteem. Realize that I do have something to offer and am a lovable person. Relent on my desires for perfection in my life and myself. Accept my strengths and weaknesses. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to let go of my past hurts and learn to find someone who is emotionally ready and healty to be in a relationship. That I don't need to find someone that needs "help" or "fixing." --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I usually don't date anyone who has qualities that are unacceptable to me. I don't want anyone to change for me or expect major changes from me for a relationship to work. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being honest and faithful. Thinking of someone else's feelings before your own. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: yelling and fighting don't truly help. One or the other usually stops listening and only parts of the discussion get heard. It is much better to talk and at times when a compromise seems improbable you need to agree do disagree. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Someone's eyes and smile. Looking for what I can see there. The things that interest them and they are passionate about. --Regarding Age in Relationship Maturity level takes priority over numerical age. I find that I have more in common with someone 6 to 10 years older than I am. I usually won't date anyone younger than I am. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I see women that are attractive because they have features that I would in myself. I enjoy the companionship/friendship I can have with a woman and am looking forward to finding a man to feel that way with. I tried the lesbian thing and it wasn't for me. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Commonality in religion helps strengthen a relationship. If one person is devoted to a religion and the other won't even step foot in a church there could be a lot of strife and resentment over it later. --Regarding Love and Sex: They go hand in hand. Sex is a way to communicate the deeper aspects of love and sharing. It can take your relationship to a higher level. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I wish I would have waited until I was married. I feel that would have changed the whole base of my life. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Living together before marriage kind of makes it seem like why get married... what will actually change. Yes you get to learn more about a person, but you don't have the same level of commitment and it seems to make it easier to walk away later. --Regarding Risks Trusting someone with your heart. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Its better to be safe than sorry. A night of fun is not worth my life. --A funny relationship story: Too many to list. I love humor and enjoy laughing. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling heartbreak and lots of therapy What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling mother is codependent... father is detatched selfish and cold ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Oct 25 03:25:26 2002 Anonymous Guest 18 in , =Canada= F18 in , =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: student My Astrology: What kind of crap is this? I mean who looks up their astrological compatibility before getting involved with a guy? Thats absurd! I have looked up me and my ex-bf's compatibility before but it was only after we were already dating. I would never base a decision on something as lame as astrology. I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is when two people are very close. They are intimate with each other. They share their thoughts and feelings with one another. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...very melodramatic. It was intense. It was a love-hate relationship. On-again, off-again. --The best things about relationship are: I look forward to the intimacy...the hugging, the cuddling, the spooning, the kissing. I look forward to having someone to be romantic with, to surprise them with a spontaneous gift or other token of my affection. I look forward to the butterflies in my stomach at the beginning of a new relationship. --The worst things about relationship are: The worst part would be putting myself out there and being vulnerable. I have issues of trust and I don't like putting myself in a position where I can be hurt. Also, I don't like to be dependant on a person and often when I'm in a relationship I will develop a dependency on him. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I want someone who I can have an intelligent conversation with. Someone who has definite opinions and can discuss and debate issues with me. I like someone with a great sense of humour. He has to be able to share my idea of humour. He has to understand sarcasm and be able to take things lightly. He has to be in touch with his emotions and be able to express them to me. He has to be stable and ambitious in life. He has to be romantic, sweet, kind, gentle, and sexy. He has to be strong enough to stand up to me but not overbearing. He has to be supportive of me. He has to be fun and adventurous and spontaneous. He definitely has to do things to show me how much I mean to him. He has to be affectionate. He has to be a GOOD person. I'm talking about helping old ladies cross the street, rescuing stray dogs, etc. He has to be a gentleman for the most part. I'm not expecting any grand sweeping gestures, but a little romance is nice. I guess I'm a little picky. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I wish I could be a braver person. I wish I could be a more independent person. I realize how important it is for someone to maintain their own personal identity when they're in a relationship. In order to do that I would have to have a life of my own. I don't have any kind of social life, and I would need to develop that before I could be in a relationship with someone. Also, I need to become more comfortable with my sexuality. Before I can be more free, sexually, I need to be more comfortable with sex. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My worst habits are being too shy, picking the wrong guys, putting my own needs and wants last. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: No comment. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being honest, true, and fair to the other person. Also, I think that monogamy is a part of every relationship. I don't believe in non-exclusive relationships. So I guess that being faithful is a responsibility that most people find hard to follow through with. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I need to talk and talk and talk. Thats just me. I could talk for hours. I'm the type of person who analyzes everything to death. I would rather talk about a problem and find out both sides of the story. My major flaw is arguing just for the sake of winning, I always have to win, I always have to be right. I can't help it. I've noticed that some people either embrace my personality or they don't. Some people are just communication phobes. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I notice looks first. But its not a chiseled face or a sculpted body that I find attractive. I am drawn to people who have a definite and unique style about them. It could be the way he fixes his hair, his piercings, his clothing, his walk, whatever. If they look like someone who I can get along with I'll be attracted. I don't know what it is, its just a weird vibe I get from some people. I actually turn away from pretty boy, "perfect" looking guys. I don't know if this is because I don't think I'm good enough for them or because I think that because they are so good-looking they must be lacking in other areas. I just don't think they would have anything to offer in terms of personality. I know that sounds like I'm stereotyping and over-generalizing but hey, if the shoe fits... --Regarding Age in Relationship I WANT to say that age doesn't matter, that if two people love each other then it shouldn't even be an issue. But I have to honest and truthfully, I think people should stay within reasonable age limits. I'd say the maximum age difference should be 15 years. Thats not too bad. Of course it depends how old you are when u meet. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I totally agree with that. I think that one person is not 100% gay or straight but that everybody has homosexual tendencies. They may not be very strong, and they don't even have to act on them but everyone is a little bit of both. I think for the most part, people's attitudes about homosexuality are based largely on ignorance. Some people are so narrow-minded that the mere mention of them being part homosexual is enough for them to morph into complete denial. Thats just a lack of knowledge on the subject. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am a straight female. I've never been with a woman before. I think about it and fantasize about it. I find women to be very attractive, I mean the female body is amazing. If I was ever going to have a homosexual experience it would just be a quick fling and thats it. I know that I am not gay because I want to have serious relationships with guys only. I don't want to have a serious relationship with women. That would only be sexual. I just can't imagine it. It wouldn't be right for me. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I definitely dont think that religion shouldn't determine who you start a relationship with. I mean it could make things a little tough but what relationship isn't tough. I mean u can always each practice you're own religions separately and still stay together. I dunno, I guess it depends on how dedicated u are to that specific religion. Also, when starting a family I think that it would be best to stick to one religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are two totally different aspects of life. Just as u can have sex without love u can have love without sex. This doesn't mean that one doesn't help the other. I believe strongly that if u are in love, sex will be 100 times more deep and meaningful. I also believe that if u are sleeping with someone you love, you're relationship will reach another level. You will be even closer because you shared something that can be very intimate. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I had a very bad first sexual encounter. I was with the guy for maybe a month. I knew that he wasn't using me and I felt a definite connection with the guy. I sort of trusted him. I wasn't ready, I just wanted to get it over with and for that reason it sucked. I wasn't turned on. I was just laying there. It wasn't romantic or sexy. I wasn't in the moment. What was going through my head was "Am I supposed to moan? When is he gonna finish? Is it supposed to hurt this much? How long does it go on for? ..." It just sucked. Plain and simple. And it hasn't gotten a whole lot better to be honest. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: What a crock! Why can't u learn about commitment and values if u live together before marriage? I mean if anything u learn more about how committed he/she is gonna be. I think u definitely, definitely should live together before marriage. When you live with someone you share an experience with that person that you can't have if ur not living together. You wouldn't be as close to someone until you've lived with them. You are around them all the time, you share responsibilities. You really learn alot about the other person and if you are truly compatible. It is an essential step to take BEFORE marriage. --Regarding Risks It would be bad, if not traumatic. I used to enter relationships freely, with all my heart, and just letting myself be vulnerable. I guess thats how it should be. But now I'm way too cautious and I need to let go of some of my issues with trust and just open up more. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I am not very concerned about STD's. For one thing I don't sleep around. I only sleep with someone who I know very very well. And I don't know any guys who have had an STD. I mean I know this one guy who lived in my town who had crabs, But i mean the whole town knew who he all gave crabs to and who they were sleeping with and so it wasn't an issue for me. I would definitely not have a one-night stand or something like that. Its not a big issue for me. --A funny relationship story: The funniest thing I've ever experienced regarding relationships?....I guess it would be the first kiss I had with my second boyfriend. We were saying good-bye and we both closed our eyes and leaned in for the kiss. He had his mouth open and was going in for a french kiss, I had my mouth closed and was going for a quick peck. He licked my lip! We opened our eyes jerked back, he walked away. Now I can laugh at it but at the time it was mortifying. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think filling out this questionnaire was very useful. It let me probe my innermost thoughts on relationships and gave me alot to think about. I will definitely remind myself of what I typed here when I'm getting ready to start a new relationship. It has given me some things to mull over for awhile. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? NOpe ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Sep 30 10:12:37 2002 Anonymous Guest 20 in Manchester, =UK= F20 in Manchester, =UK= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - search engine - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student My Astrology: Astrology does matter. I'm a taurus, and am much more compatible with other earth signs or water signs. I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Sagittarius Moon; and Sagittarius rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A close bond between two people --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a long, intense one --The best things about relationship are: feeling loved --The worst things about relationship are: adultery, possessiveness --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone absolutely gorgeous, who will love me and be faithful --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop being as jealous and possessive learn to have more fun --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Having consideration for the other person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Arguments don't seem to solve very much-you end up having the same arguments over and over again. It is best to both talk and listen to each other. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: How physically attractive I think they are. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is completely unimportant. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer to be heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion/spirituality should not have to hinder a relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are two separate things. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Very messy and not at all passionate. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is best to live with someone as if you are married for a considerable length of time before making that commitment. --Regarding Risks trusting them --A funny relationship story: how completely different we were from each other. it was destined to fail from the start! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Perhaps ask about break ups/rough times in a relationship that may have affected future relationships. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Sep 25 11:01:57 2002 Anonymous Guest 21 in , california =usa= F21 in , california =usa= Name: ann Email: <briggscoupe-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: banking and finace My Astrology: well it doesn't really matter what sign she was or is the astrology saying we don't match up. as long as i think we click together that's all that i care about. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: lesbian companionship.from hearthrob to heartbeak Recommended Reading-- Writers: forgot the authors name - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relationship is being committed to certain someone whom you feel you can be comfortable with. love of course is the main thing that makes it work. relationship is being in love with someone and having that love reciprocated. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... it was more of a puppy love. i think i was not even inlove, just infatuated and deeply attracted. --The best things about relationship are: companionship and the giddy feeling of being inlove the though of someone loving you back all the same. --The worst things about relationship are: trusting someone with all your heart. especially if that soemeone is branded for being a player. and making a long distance relationship work. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone i can be comfortable with. someone whom i can talk to at just about anything. of course someone whom i'll be attracted to, not physically all the time but mentally and spiritually as well. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: maybe be more patient and less risky in committing myself in a relationship. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: well my habits as far as i can see from my partner doesn't really affect her. as long as i make time for her that;s all that matters right? --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: as long as they're presentable i don't really care. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: i guess it's giving quality time for the other half. it's making time from your busy life to stop for a while and let the other person how you love them.it's making sure the relationship works too. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: well communication is very important to me. i believe everything could be resolve with a long serious sympathetic talk. whenever i get into arguments with my other half, i'd give her time first to think things through then we talk about our problem and try to resolve it by compromising for the best of all. as much as possible i'd like to solve whatever misunderstanding i have with my gf before the sun sets. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: it's a little bit of everything. you tend to get physically attracted to the person, then their personality then you begin to noctice other features as well. --Regarding Age in Relationship it used to be that age matters to me but after having met my gf who's 3 years my junior, i realized it's more of how well you can relate to one another that matters and not the age. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: well i'm bisexual so i'd have to go 50-50. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: right now i'm into same sex relationship because they've given me more good than bad as compare to a heterosexual one. --Regarding Religion in Relationship they're very important in a relationship. it reflects who you are as a person and how you are with other people. your belief guides your way of thinking. --Regarding Love and Sex: well sex could've been a given to most but not for me. it is rather important of course that you be compatible in bed but it can;t be the basis at all in defining one either. sex drive fades in time. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: well it's more passionate but at the same time wild. the sexual tension was overwhelming! but like i said it fades. at least it did to me. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i'd prefer to live in with a person though, making sure we clicked. i don't wanna get into something serious(like get married) then get out when i can't handle the pressure and stuff. it's better to play safe for a while then when i'm sure, go on with it. --Regarding Risks my friends. i had to risk my friendship in order to please my very possesive girl friend. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i have to really know the person well before i engage in a sexual relationship with them. i'm very cautious because i don't want to catch it. the virus i mean. --A funny relationship story: when we were alone in my room, starting to make love. i was working my way down, trying to arouse her even more. we were close to the peak or arousal when the phone rang! they were looking for us already. i think it's funny cause we were flustered the whole time. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People learning from the pain and experience of it. What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was ok. nothing so new but it helps to reflect a bit. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Sep 21 11:05:25 2002 Anonymous Guest 16 in CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE , NJ == F16 in CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE , NJ == Name: KERI LEE Email: <TIGGER08260-at-YAHOO.COM> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: CHILD CARE - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: IT IS LIKE GOING AND MEETING SOME GIRL ALIEN IN OUTER SPACE --That first relationship was That first relationship was... WHEN I STARED TALKING TO A 14 YEAR OLD ON THE INTERTER AND CALLED HIM THEN WE STARTED GOING OUT --The best things about relationship are: NICENESS, KNIDNESS AND LOBVE --The worst things about relationship are: GETING INTO FIGHTS --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A FINE,SEXY GUY - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend WHEN I TALKED TO MY BEST FREND ABOUT IT AND SHE SAID GO FOR IT What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family MY FAMILY WAS NO HELP ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 8 12:26:26 2002 Anonymous Guest 25 in Telford, PA =usa= F25 in Telford, PA =usa= Name: Debi Email: <Katora1-at-earthlink.net> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Read About it: ] Prof/Studies: Mom - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: With my husband since I was 16, moved in together at 17 , had our first child at 20, second at 21, got married at 22 and had our third child at 23, and still happily together My Astrology: I find it extremely interesting, and I do believe in some cases it is right on the money, but I would never NOT be with someone because the signs say no. My husband and I should not be compatible according to our signs, but we are. I'm a: Aquarius Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relating to a person, trying to learn to trust them enough to let the me that no ones knows about shine through and knowing without a doubt that no matter what the problems can be worked out. Loveing the positives in the person and learing to love the even annoying parts of their personality --That first relationship was That first relationship was... friends for years but always knew he was the soulmate I was meant to be with --The best things about relationship are: Knowing that whatever happens that there is someone who will always be there to help you through it, even when you are wrong. --The worst things about relationship are: Giving yourself over to someone who can one day use it to hurt you as much as they want because they know your every weakness --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who will love me even though I have alot of faults. That they will listen to my bad times and feel it as if it was happening to them, and then feeling with me when I am happy. Someone who will never lie to me or try to deceive me in any way. Someone who will hold me when I cry and who will stay by my side even when I try to oush them away. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I expect too much of people. I need to learn that not every one remembers stupid little facts and my feeling get hurt too easily when they don't remember everything like I do. Also, I am too stuborn. Also, my moods vary to extremes --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a habit of expecting too much from people. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: They have to be open with me --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: responsibilites to me is to be there for the other. To listen when they need to talk and to hold them when they need to be held. Laughing with them or crying with them, --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: If you can not talk through a problem then it never gets better. It just keeps getting worse until it is in every aspect of your lives together and it ruins what was once great. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the ability to laugh. So I guess personality --Regarding Age in Relationship Age doesnt matter as long as maturity levels are the same. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I feel you can be "straight" and still be attracted to someone of the same sex. Or even fall inlove with that person. But I feel it is a rare occasion. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have found other women very attrative, but it is only a physical aspect. I have never been able to even consider falling inlove with someon of the same sex. --Regarding Religion in Relationship As long as you can compromise alittle, it shouldn't matter. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are totally seperate. It is easy to confuse the two together for people who what love desperately. They can only be one when love is there. It is easy to have sex without love and love without sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I did not enjoy it at all. But that was because of childhood tragities --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I feel living together is a good way to know each other totally. It is the only way to know if you can truly be with this person. People seem one way, and are another when you are with them all the time, day after day. --Regarding Risks letting anyone close enough to let them see that I have many faults and can not be the picture perfect person so many expect me to be. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): You can never be too careful. Even when someone has always used condoms or what not, you can still pick up something, nothing is foul proof. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none- What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 25 21:25:52 2002 Anonymous Guest in St. Louis, Missouri =USA= F in St. Louis, Missouri =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: I dunno. I don't really follow it. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: You depend on someone and not only on yourself. You trust somone enough to include them in your decisions and you tell them everything. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... my only been dating the same guy for a long time now --The best things about relationship are: being able to say anything to that person and having both mental and physical support --The worst things about relationship are: having different points of view on things and different attitudes and wants sometimes BAD DAYS! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who loves me for who I am --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I will not change for anyone --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to not be so stubborn --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: my partner tries to satisfy me --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being there for someone else like they are there for me --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: take a 5 minute break to just sit there and think and never argue in front of people it makes everyone uncomfortable then talk about it even if the other person doesn't want to never go to bed angry at each other --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the general appearance of them as if they hold themself correctly and speak properly and if they are kind --Regarding Age in Relationship stay with someone around your age group because you'll have more in common and your sex drive will wear off around the same time if nothing else. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: you like guys or girls or both! face it! --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm a female and I like men. --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion doesn't really matter. You love who you love. I myself would have no one if religion mattered. I haven't seen many wiccans walking around my block lately. --Regarding Love and Sex: they go together. Why do it unless you won't regret it later? --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I've only had one person my whole life. how would I know? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You won't know if you can stand the person if you don't live with them first. --Regarding Risks frightening because I wasn't used to having someone there for me and then I think about them possibly leaving and it would just tear me apart and thats what is so scary because the last person i had a close relationship with died and it is hard to get close to people knowing you could lose them --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): get checked. You have it or you don't. If I get it I'll kick your ass. --A funny relationship story: the meeting...we related to each other right away but we tried to set up some people we knew and that just didn't work - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - not real useful - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? i dunno ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 25 04:33:14 2002 Anonymous Guest 24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece= F24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece= Name: Email: <marg78-at-otenet.gr> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Psychology student My Astrology: Astrology has nothing to do with love. Is it possible to believe that who your're going to get married is written in the stars? Sun, planets, galaxies are more bother in exloding than informing you about your future! I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Moon; and Aries rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two or more people come together and share their lives. They love respect and care deeply for each other. They know that without each other life can and does go on but something will always be missing --That first relationship was That first relationship was that of a mendor and a student. --The best things about relationship are: Respect, understanding, humor. --The worst things about relationship are: To make the other person part of your world, to enter him/her smoothly to your everyday life, to help him become accepted by people you love --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone with passion for life itself, a person who will be willing to explore new things,who will always go after what he really wants --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I should not have as top priority my friends but balance romance with friendship. I should not care too much about what other people say --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My tendency to isolate is a habbit that is not really helpful when the issue is to come out from yourself and relate to another person --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: The most important thing is to understand that i need my paersonal space and time --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Resposibility in relationships means to know why you relate to the specific person, to be aware of your underlying motives. Responsibility means being honest with yourself and the other person. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I prefer to listen --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Good humor. Humor is an index of intellingence. The type of humor reflects the way people view life --Regarding Age in Relationship tha people should be around the same age, in order to have common experiences and common things to look forward in the future --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Most people are heterosexual, but most of them because they fear to be homosexuals. I don't believe that there is a clearly heterosexual or homosexual person. Most of us hve wondered how would it be and some of us had the courage to explore it --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I declare heterosexual in plractice with some homosexual thoughts --Regarding Religion in Relationship If religion is not of primary importance for both parties, then there is no problem. But if one, or both are trully and deeply religious then communication problem may apprear --Regarding Love and Sex: When I love a person I want to have sex with him, but i can love him even if sex is out of the question. To have sex love is not a prerequisite --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I felt nothing. I was not ashamed, I wasn't anxious, I did not experience pain and when it came to an end, I wondered why all this noise about the first time? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Cohabitation is the best test before getting married --Regarding Risks When I was younger I took a great risk, greater than my age. Relating to a mendor at a very young age cost me my adolescence. Since then I hate taking risks, I hate exposing myself --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Protect yourself! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - For an on-line questionnaire it was really good ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 25 03:47:48 2002 Anonymous Guest 24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece= F24 in Piraeus, Attiki =Greece= Name: Email: <marg78-at-otenet.gr> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Psychology student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Very Difficult ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 23 20:26:25 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] My Astrology: What a joke I'm a: Who cares!? Sun; with Who cares!? Moon; and Who cares!? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is where two beings come together emotionally,intelectually, and often physically to create one better being. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...an I feel sorry for you so I will keep dating you. --The best things about relationship are: spending time together doing something fun, physical contact, having someone to talk to and having a shoulder to cry on. --The worst things about relationship are: working out problems and differences, deciding if you really want to be around that person at all. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone that I'm attracted to, somewhat intelligent, active, funny, able to earn an income, easy going,taller than me, and nice. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less stubborn, more willing to compromise, and more tolerance --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: staying even though I know it's time to get out --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: you have to recognize them and accept them or leave that person --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: doing what you say you're going to do, thinking of others first and doing the right thing --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: As long as you can sit down and talk with that person ,discuss each other's view-points, and see what the problem was in the first place, then you can usually solve that issue. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the over-all physique of the person ,the way they carry themselves and interact with others. --Regarding Age in Relationship I would have to agree with the 2-5 yr. limit. It just starts to get gross after that. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: If you're gay there's either something wrong with the chemicals flowing to your brain or a bad personal choice. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: NA in that area --Regarding Religion in Relationship the relationship will flow more smoothly if you are with someone of the same religion. end of story. --Regarding Love and Sex: completely different. Sex is animal, love is human --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: scary, completely exposed, wouldn't want to do it again --Regarding living with someone before marriage: you shouldn't, but I am at the moment living with my boyfriend, so I'm not sure how to defend that one. --Regarding Risks giving up my virginity to my present boyfriend --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Life stinks --A funny relationship story: how retarded my first boyfriend was, and all the stupid things he did in the name of "love" - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Aug 22 13:07:17 2002 Anonymous Guest 27 in , Michigan =USA= F27 in , Michigan =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Was looking for information on Bardo. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Network Control Technician My Astrology: I am a Taurus. I really find that this astrological world can be true if you really get the facts of it and not the vague descriptions. There are some characteristics that are just dominant in each particular astrological sign that can't be ignored. I'm a: Taurus Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: You meet someone--> you communicate --> you find that you have common interests --> if you are able to still communicate on a clear, *real* level and want to, then you have just begun a relationship. Relationship= two people, two lives, one idea. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love, albeit intense and short. Very bitter ending which still leaves me seeing the person to this day and having that familiar twinge in my stomach. --The best things about relationship are: The period of time AFTER the honeymoon period. When you've really begun to just know each other. That feeling when the person is really there for you and you need to feel that you aren't alone. To know that someone really cares about you and what happens to you. --The worst things about relationship are: When they hurt you, whether it be intentionally or not. Often times, it's not intentional and those moments tend to heal quickly with a genuine "I'm sorry". However, those times when it is deliberate, I'm finding one never really does heal from that scar of broken trust. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Truth. I want someone that tells the truth and acts in such a manner that they would never *have* to lie. I want someone who is not afraid to stand up for themselves and has bonafide convictions and morals. Someone who knows the true definition of right and wrong. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be stronger in knowing that I deserve to be treated in the same way that I treat others. With loyalty, respect, and honor. I need to stop believing that people will change with my help. They will only change aspects of themselves that cause pain to others by themselves, I can't help them. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I yell. I get mad and I yell. This comes from my upbringing. I was raised by a screamer. In my mind, I toned it down to a yeller, but that's not quite the way to go. I'm also too trustworthy. I want so much to believe the person when I *know* they are lying to me, because I don't want to be left alone. So that being said, I'm too afraid to be alone as well. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: not sure how to answer this. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I'm different on this. I was a mother and a wife at 20. I had 2 children at 21. I had to grow up quickly. This word to me means that you are responsible for the other person's emotions and feelings. Their well-being. In every relationship we are in, we take something from. We leave our mark on that person. We have the choice to either leave a warm mark where that person smiles when they think of us or feels secure, or we can leave the mark of pain and hurt from things we've said or done. Either way, we are not forgotten. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: one person is always a listener, one person is always the griper/stubborn one. Now, this can switch at any given time, it just depends on the issue at hand. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The ability to make me laugh and forget about what's on my mind on a daily basis. Not many people can do this. I'm very serious and don't really know how to enjoy life in general unless it comes to my children. --Regarding Age in Relationship I think it depends on the mind set of the people. For example, I know a couple where the woman is 26 and the man is almost 38. To some people this would seem too large of an age difference. However, these two people are of like mind. She is very mature and he is very young minded. They meshed on that level. I think it depends on maturity, not age. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: to each their own. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am straight, where as some others would label me as "bi-curious". --Regarding Religion in Relationship that the people are open minded to what one another needs to feel complete in this world. If one needs to have a set religion to get the moral lessons that they need, let them. If the other one needs to look into a more new age spiritual approach, let them! All that matters is that they feel complete. --Regarding Love and Sex: in a relationship, they are both equally important separate as well as together. For women, sex is not a good thing unless there is love involved. For men, love is not a complete thing unless sex is involved. For either side, sex is a sign of real intimacy. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: excitement. that rush of heat that you don't understand completely but like. that tingling feeling that goes through you that you can't control. That smile on your face that you can't be rid of, no matter what. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe totally in living together before marriage. I think nowadays, the meaning of marriage is very unclear and abused. Divorces are the end result of most marriages due to lack of communication and getting to know the patterns and personalities of our mates. The only real way to do this is to co-habitate. Only then can you learn that this person has that oh so annoying habit of watching tv until the late hours of the night and you can't sleep without him. --Regarding Risks my friendship with my best friend. From a distance, in our college class, she did not appear like the person I am able to click with. She seemed very young, very bubble-headed but yet cranky at the same time. She seeked *me* out. She would always try and catch me after class and try to talk to me. One night, I was dealing with a real crisis on my own and she convinced me to talk to her. I found my best friend in the world and I'm convinced now that we were sisters in another life time. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I'm a victim of this. I had a partner that lied to me and told me he was clean. He wasn't. And I'll have to live with his lies for the rest of my life. Luckily, it wasn't AIDS, but it's still something that will never go away and I have to tell my future partners. Currently I'm engaged to be married again and my mate knows. However, you never feel as dirty and low as when you have to tell the person that you have fallen in love with that you have a disease like this. Especially when you get it like I did, from a lie. --A funny relationship story: The times where you are really angry at each other and something so stupid and off the wall happens, that you can't help but laugh. Back when I was married, my husband at the time and I were fighting about something irrelevant. I was sitting on the bed, and he was attempting to make it. Well, when I'm in a fight with anyone, I get really ridiculously stubborn. I wouldn't move so he could take the sheets off. So he decided to pull a Houdini and pull them off out from under me. The flannel sheets had been washed one too many times and decided to rip completely in his hands, sending him backwards off balanced. He landed right on his bum, holding this piece of flannel with an expression of disbelief and amusement. We laughed. We laughed until we cried. Then we hugged. Then the fight was long forgotten. He and I aren't married anymore, but I'll never forget that moment. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Watching what my friends went through as well. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance I was raised by a single mother that wasn't too happy about life nor anything else for that matter. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I found it to be helpful in reflecting on things. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I didn't understand this question: "In the case of a partner's habits and how they might relate to my ability to accept them and be happy in relationship or not, I'd say..." I wasn't sure if this was asking about what I could handle and what I couldn't/ OR how I handled the habits alltogether. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Aug 21 03:16:15 2002 Anonymous Guest in Springfield, MO =USA= F in Springfield, MO =USA= Name: Email: <Nianda666-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... as an escape from my parental unit so to speak...I felt that if I was required to perform responsiblities as an adult that I should also have the rewards of an adult..didn't work out that way though --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: truth, honesty, consideration and thoughtfulness. To be treated as the other person would like to be treated and thought of. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: less critical,more open to new ideas. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each person has to find his/her own path..whether it be in sexuality or faith. We ultimately find that which we seek, whether or not it is truly that which we desire. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none- What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 9 08:35:22 2002 Anonymous Guest 16 in Guildford, Surrey =England= F16 in Guildford, Surrey =England= Name: Rachel Wood - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] from handwriting thing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student A levels My Astrology: it doesnt matter really but i do belive it plays a huge part I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: You can feel blissfully happy or totlly depressed and it usually aa total rollarcoster ride, --That first relationship was That first relationship was... strange.I fell in love and we were talking bout marriage. --The best things about relationship are: Curling up watching tv or sumthing --The worst things about relationship are: learning to trust the other person --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who takes me for who i am --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Change the way i look and learn not to be so wierd or annoying --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i rush into things and keep my guard up --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they need to be sensible and be able to challabge me --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: not hurting the other person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i make a mess of things --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the eyes coz u can tell so much --Regarding Age in Relationship age dont matter but i prefere people my own age --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: people know what they feel --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i find sum girls attractive and i feel no problem bout being with another woman, but i prefer to be with men --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as they respect my beliefs i dont mind as i will respect theres --Regarding Love and Sex: love is deep,sex is just sex.however sex is much more with love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: pain hurt rape --Regarding living with someone before marriage: hey if it feels right just do it --Regarding Risks letting them see the real me is the biggest risk --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): eak scary --A funny relationship story: skipping through town - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yeah was fun ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Aug 6 04:46:45 2002 Anonymous Guest 48 in dunedin, =new zealand= F48 in dunedin, =new zealand= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] stumbled across you - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: security and studing massage therapy My Astrology: i lke to know, but its the person that counts. believe or not, i seem to be attracted to the right signs. I'm a: Libra Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... love --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: romance, talking, laughs and fanatsy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: spontinaity --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: talk openly and not be judged --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to be there for them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i listen --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the eyes, expression and smile --Regarding Age in Relationship it doesnt matter. i see the soul --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each person to their own --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetrosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship sprituality yes, religion no --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different but i have to love to have sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: anxious --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i will never marry again --Regarding Risks i dont risk --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): precaution --A funny relationship story: i am not funny - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Aug 6 04:45:44 2002 Anonymous Guest 48 in dunedin, =new zealand= F48 in dunedin, =new zealand= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] stumbled across you - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: security and studing massage therapy My Astrology: i lke to know, but its the person that counts. believe or not, i seem to be attracted to the right signs. I'm a: Libra Sun; with Moon; and rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... love --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: romance, talking, laughs and fanatsy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: spontinaity --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: talk openly and not be judged --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to be there for them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i listen --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the eyes, expression and smile --Regarding Age in Relationship it doesnt matter. i see the soul --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each person to their own --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetrosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship sprituality yes, religion no --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different but i have to love to have sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: anxious --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i will never marry again --Regarding Risks i dont risk --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): precaution --A funny relationship story: i am not funny - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Aug 5 17:41:45 2002 Anonymous Guest 25 in Karachi, =Pakistan= M25 in Karachi, =Pakistan= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: no it dosen't I'm a: Virgo Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and Who cares!? rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: mental bond between two individuals --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Love... i fell in Love --The best things about relationship are: Trust confidence honesty faithfulness understanding complementary nature --The worst things about relationship are: distrust keeping more expectations than the other can fulfill being trapped in a relationship --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: it to b like My Love... plus minus a few things ofcourse --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: change my anger level f understanding learn not to Love to the extremes --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i trust ppl very easily n trust them blindly --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: everything goes as no one's perfect! Love the other person for what n who he/she is! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: care love understanding well being protection interdependence --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it differs from ppl to ppl n from situation to situation n also upon the mental understanding of the two involved --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes --Regarding Age in Relationship physical age dosen't matter... mental age does! u could have a body of a 25 year old bt a mental understanding n maturity of a 30 year old. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: different ppl have different levels of straightness --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight! --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion in a relationship dosen't matter --Regarding Love and Sex: they r worlds apart --Regarding Risks invasion of my personal space n time --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): stick to ur wife! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Very Young Child How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life deep thinking n intuition What Hindered me most in Relationship? Silence & Taboos perceptional differences - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - strange ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jul 18 10:35:38 2002 Anonymous Guest 19 in dedham, ma =USA= F19 in dedham, ma =USA= Name: meredith Email: <merijane3-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: college student My Astrology: astrology doesn't matter to me at all in a relationship. i don't think about if me and my guy are compatible according to our signs or anything. it doesn't matter. I'm a: I have no idea! Sun; with I have no idea! Moon; and I have no idea! rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship begins when two people like eachother more than just friends. when you are around that person you get nervous, excited, and extremely happy. if the other person feels the same you then you may begin a relationship. during this relationship the people's feelings may grow until they are in love. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...filled with love. it was too mature of a relationship for two teenagers to handle. i loved him and can still see myself marrying him some day. --The best things about relationship are: The laughs and the feeling of loving somebody and being loved. knowing that there is a person other than the people related to you that loves you with all of their heart and are always there for you. i'd also have to include the drunkin sex that some people may have in their relationship. now that is always a good time. --The worst things about relationship are: Trusting eachother is sometimes difficult to do when the other person in the relationship has messed up once. fights are always hard. the feeling that you are going to loose the person you love puts a terrible feeling right in the gut of your stomach. all the bad things are forgotten however as soon as the two of you are happy again. the laughs always weigh out the tears. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: somebody who trusts me and who likes me for who i am. i don't want to have to hold things back from the person i'm in a relationship with, i want to be myself. i need to be able to laugh with the other person in the relationship i'm in. they need to be able to listen to what i have to say and sometimes give me advice but sometimes they need to just listen. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not get so jealous of other girls. realize that your guy wouldn't be in a relationship with you if he wanted other girls. trust is the basis of all relationships. i could also not get so angry when he wants to hang out with his friends and not me. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i smoke and some people won't be in a relationship with a person that smokes. i don't really know if that is what you're asking but... --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i can't deal with somebody who chews with their mouth open but if this was the case with the person i was in a relationship with i would just tell them. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: keeping the other person in the relationship happy. you have the responsiblity to cheer them up if they are sad, to listen to them if they need to talk, and to be there for them no matter what. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it sucks. i hate talking serious talk when i'm in a relationship. i am a type of person that doesn't talk about my feelings often so the other person tends to get mad when i do not want to talk about what is bothering me. i can be a great listener i just don't like to talk. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality. i need to be able to laugh when i am with the person. i also however love eyes and smile. if a boy has beautiful eyes and a perfect smile i will be more likely to start talking to them if i haven't already. --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter at all. my favorite movie is based on how age doesn't matter. it is about a 18 year old boy who falls in love with a 79 year old women. you can't help who you fall in love with and you shouldn't have to like somebody who is around your age. its not your fault if the person you love was born 10 years after you/before you. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i believe that people can be somewhere in between being straight or gay. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i actually believe that i am somewhere in between. i am attracted to men but i am also attracted to some women. if i fell in love with a women i would go for it. like i said before, you can't help who you fall in love with. i have had sexual experiences with both men and women and have liked them both the same. both sexes turn me on. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't matter if people from two different religions are in a relationship unless it bothers the people that are actually in the relationship. you can't help who you fall in love with. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are one. i will not have sex with somebody that i don't love. sex with random people just isn't as good as it is when you are having sex with somebody you love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i was petrified. i was scared that i wouldn't be good, that it would hurt but once it began i stopped being so scared. we went really slow so it wouldn't hurt and i realized that being good at having sex was something you have to work at. he was also a virgin and we had to get the same rythm before we were all about it. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it doesn't really matter to me. i don't think that people who live together before they are married are bad people. i personally probably won't live with my other before we're married because i want it to be exciting and new once we're married. --Regarding Risks telling my new boyfriend about my past. i have had past that is considered wild by some people and i had to tell my boyfriend all of it. he didn't mind though because he understood that was the past and it brought us closer together. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it is scary to think about. in my first relationship me and my boyfriend were both virgins so i didn't worry about it but now that i have a new boyfriend, he has a lot more sex partners than i have and that scares me. me and my new boyfriend haven't had sex yet and that is one of the reasons why. i have to know his history before i just jump in bed with him because some of those diseases are with you for life. --A funny relationship story: me and my ex were fooling around in the back of my car. for some reason he had taken off his boxers and stuck them out the window, rolling the window up so they wouldn't fall off. he then forgot about them and we began driving awhile later. we could hear a strange noise but we didn't know what it was until my ex turned around. he screamed "my undies are flapping out the window." we laughed about that for a very long time. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends people just learn about relationships as they grow. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i highly enjoyed filling out this questionnaire. it made me think of some things and it made me remember my ex boyfriend. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 15 21:24:39 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: jerBob I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Libra Moon; and Sagittarius rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 15 21:23:05 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: jerBob I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Libra Moon; and Sagittarius rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 15 21:20:47 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: jerBob I'm a: Taurus Sun; with Libra Moon; and Sagittarius rising. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 15 16:40:08 2002 Anonymous Guest 32 in New York, =Ireland= F32 in New York, =Ireland= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] web search using google.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: Astrology is interesting and I always read up on a partner or potential one it's fun The Chinese astrologhy is more accurate though. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships have to be formed slowly. It's where you can be yourself and still know your partner loves you as you are. It's when you feel fuzzy and warm inside when you see your partner, a smile from them warms your heart. Knowing your opinion matters with your partner. So much more though. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love i suppose but it lasted over a year I was 14 at the time --The best things about relationship are: Getting to know your partner in good and bad situations.Passion lovemaking likes dilikes finding all you have in common or not in common, experiencing new things together travelling to new places --The worst things about relationship are: Compromising. Remaining faithful. Issues over finances. Boring sex life maybe after long term relationship. Knowing waht they are going to say next or how they will react in a given situation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: They must have a sense of humour, not use bad language,have varied interests,should not be too keen on watching sports, but should be active in at least one sport. Like their own company and understand that I like my own too. should be comfortable and secure when we socialze seperately. Ambitious. Should not tell me how to spend my money. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Less bossy. Follow things through when I say I'll do something. Be more ambitious. Get involved more at partner's families get together. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: This is selfish bt I answer to myself first then I worry then about my partner. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Each partner is too busy formulating what they are going to say next that no one is really listening to the other. Arguments and disagreements always seem to be the same tpoic/issue --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Eyes and manners --Regarding Age in Relationship I think it is best to look for someone within the 2-5 years of each other. However if it's totally phyiscal who cares about the age then! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think yes some people can be a o or 7 but I know lots of people that lie in between too. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Straight but I'm open to experiencing at least one time with a woman. Who knows? --Regarding Religion in Relationship No problem with religion as long as they are not over religious and do not try to impose it on me. --Regarding Love and Sex: Two things that are entirely different. However I do notice that US women/men sometimes have a harder time seperating the two, as opposed to Europeans who have more of distintion between the two. (I'm from Europe) --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I remember it clearly it was over before we knew what happened we were both virgins. However we practised lots of times over the next year so I'll always cherish it. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Live together but know that the time may come when one partner may want to comitt and the i\one does not. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): A very scary thing for me. I do practise safe sex but not while performing or receiving oral sex. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model Been open to new things and liking myself What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was enlightening and I hope it wil be useful to other people. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jun 17 17:03:39 2002 Anonymous Guest 44 in armidale, nsw =australia= F44 in armidale, nsw =australia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] handwriting site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: my girlfriend told me i was best suited to a Capricorn or a Taurus, i married the goat. the bull was boring too unassertive in the end. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A loving intimate relationship is based on acceptance of each other and is uplifting. It nurtures us and allows us to feel good about ourselves. I love the feeling of it first hitting u like a bolt of lightning, and u find yourself not wanting to live another minute without this person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...it was puppy love, but I loved how the guy had pet names for me, I was 15 he had chocolate coloured skin and i was so attracted to this as well as his height and ruggered goodlooks. --The best things about relationship are: Togetherness, companionship, the human touch (is there anythign more powerful and loving)? --The worst things about relationship are: if he is an alcoholic and u r a codependent, it becomes very needy, desperation sets in, it is controlled by fear. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone easy on my eyes that makes my heart do backflips when i look at him, someone who is assertive, who won't let me treat him like a doormat. Someone who doesn't come with much baggage, who can devoted as much time and attention to me as I like. Being able to cook with me in the kitchen and who is handy with outdoor work, athletic build with dark skin. Someone who has his own money to spend (not mine). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more appreciative, less moody, control my temper tandrums --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I love my own space, I love chocolate, I'm a workaholic --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: its the little things that irk me, like if i want a leisurely Sunday breakfast andhe is eager to wash the dishes. i like to stroll, and he is always in a hurry --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I'm loyal, reponsible and committed to the relationship if i'm in love. I recently ended a relationship cause i could not commit to it any longer. but with my husband i was in there until death do us part. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I'm the aggressor, I'm the talker, I'm the critic, he shuts down. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I loved the way my ex was tall dark and handsome, atheletic type, filled out his jeans real nice, he stood out in a crowded pub, with his infectious happiness, but I'm attracted to dark skin (his was white though). i love a head of hair..not bald. I love a hairy chest, I love great smiles --Regarding Age in Relationship I've been most comfortable with the guy being a tad older but almost the same age (my ex was 12 months exactly older). But a guy younger no more than 5 years would not offend me these days. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each to their own, I'm straight and happy about it. I think the guy i recently split with had gay tendencies and that disgusted me. fine but not with me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship I have a gr8 friend, whom i could love, but his faith keeps him away from entering a relationship with me. I'm into spirituality, but shun from religion and church authorities --Regarding Love and Sex: I've been confused thinking the two r as one. Experience has taught me differently. suffering alot of hurt along the way --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was horrible, it was pressurized by the guy who was experience and just like to take girls virginities, he attached all the trappings of love, honour and commitment to it until he had his wicked way. Came conquered left. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I lived with my husband for 11 years....it worked for us, we married then within 18 months it was over. Big mistake big HUGE --Regarding Risks I surrendered myself completely to the man i married, i loved him warts and all...he left me after 13 years...that hurt. i'm very cautious now. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I believe in serial monogamy, I had only one partner for 13 years adn we did not practise safe sex, because i beleived we only had sex with each other, later i found out the truth and had an aids test. 'if its not on, its no on' is my slogan now --A funny relationship story: I ove chitter chatter with a special girlfriend on her bosessions over particular men, when we got together recntly and she was telling me of her favourite fantasy, he just happened to walk by us and it sent us both into hysterics, becuase she would never allow herself to make a physical pass at him, but the adrenalin rush was their for us just the same. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends experience What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family zero support, acceptance or approval from my parents or brothers on any relationship I entered into - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was ok. nothing that I have not talked about in my CoDA group during my recovery programme. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jun 17 17:00:18 2002 Anonymous Guest 44 in armidale, nsw =australia= F44 in armidale, nsw =australia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] handwriting site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: my girlfriend told me i was best suited to a Capricorn or a Taurus, i married the goat. the bull was boring too unassertive in the end. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A loving intimate relationship is based on acceptance of each other and is uplifting. It nurtures us and allows us to feel good about ourselves. I love the feeling of it first hitting u like a bolt of lightning, and u find yourself not wanting to live another minute without this person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...it was puppy love, but I loved how the guy had pet names for me, I was 15 he had chocolate coloured skin and i was so attracted to this as well as his height and ruggered goodlooks. --The best things about relationship are: Togetherness, companionship, the human touch (is there anythign more powerful and loving)? --The worst things about relationship are: if he is an alcoholic and u r a codependent, it becomes very needy, desperation sets in, it is controlled by fear. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone easy on my eyes that makes my heart do backflips when i look at him, someone who is assertive, who won't let me treat him like a doormat. Someone who doesn't come with much baggage, who can devoted as much time and attention to me as I like. Being able to cook with me in the kitchen and who is handy with outdoor work, athletic build with dark skin. Someone who has his own money to spend (not mine). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more appreciative, less moody, control my temper tandrums --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I love my own space, I love chocolate, I'm a workaholic --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: its the little things that irk me, like if i want a leisurely Sunday breakfast andhe is eager to wash the dishes. i like to stroll, and he is always in a hurry --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I'm loyal, reponsible and committed to the relationship if i'm in love. I recently ended a relationship cause i could not commit to it any longer. but with my husband i was in there until death do us part. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I'm the aggressor, I'm the talker, I'm the critic, he shuts down. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I loved the way my ex was tall dark and handsome, atheletic type, filled out his jeans real nice, he stood out in a crowded pub, with his infectious happiness, but I'm attracted to dark skin (his was white though). i love a head of hair..not bald. I love a hairy chest, I love great smiles --Regarding Age in Relationship I've been most comfortable with the guy being a tad older but almost the same age (my ex was 12 months exactly older). But a guy younger no more than 5 years would not offend me these days. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each to their own, I'm straight and happy about it. I think the guy i recently split with had gay tendencies and that disgusted me. fine but not with me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship I have a gr8 friend, whom i could love, but his faith keeps him away from entering a relationship with me. I'm into spirituality, but shun from religion and church authorities --Regarding Love and Sex: I've been confused thinking the two r as one. Experience has taught me differently. suffering alot of hurt along the way --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was horrible, it was pressurized by the guy who was experience and just like to take girls virginities, he attached all the trappings of love, honour and commitment to it until he had his wicked way. Came conquered left. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I lived with my husband for 11 years....it worked for us, we married then within 18 months it was over. Big mistake big HUGE --Regarding Risks I surrendered myself completely to the man i married, i loved him warts and all...he left me after 13 years...that hurt. i'm very cautious now. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I believe in serial monogamy, I had only one partner for 13 years adn we did not practise safe sex, because i beleived we only had sex with each other, later i found out the truth and had an aids test. 'if its not on, its no on' is my slogan now --A funny relationship story: I ove chitter chatter with a special girlfriend on her bosessions over particular men, when we got together recntly and she was telling me of her favourite fantasy, he just happened to walk by us and it sent us both into hysterics, becuase she would never allow herself to make a physical pass at him, but the adrenalin rush was their for us just the same. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends experience What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family zero support, acceptance or approval from my parents or brothers on any relationship I entered into - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was ok. nothing that I have not talked about in my CoDA group during my recovery programme. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 13 17:18:16 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jun 10 13:37:42 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 6 06:51:17 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == F in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... with an older man --The best things about relationship are: sex --The worst things about relationship are: marriage - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Superstition ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue May 14 20:17:42 2002 Anonymous Guest 40 in akron, oh. =usa= F40 in akron, oh. =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] looking for inability to bond website - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: nurse aide, med tech student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: not My Astrology: it's stupid. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: women who love and the men that hate them. Recommended Reading-- Writers: don't know - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it,s two people, or more, who just like to be around eeeach other and hang out together because they have thinggs in common and want to be together. sometimes it takes a lot of compromises and maybe you might even fight about some things but you still care for the other person even though you don't agree with everything they say and do.then there is working and school relationships where you really don't care about the other people at all but you have to be together every ddday so you just try not to be rude and work well together. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... it wasn't sexual! It was my grandparents. --The best things about relationship are: bliss? --The worst things about relationship are: sooner or later they all have to end. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: kevin costner in the character, robin hood. a green beret with a very soft voice. someone with almost too much confidence, a knowing look in their eye and a sweet little smirk on their face. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: relax, not be so accomplishment oriented. want to risk thaat much to REALLY open up and trust. not be afraid and let go and love like a child again. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: too gaurded, controlling and suspisious. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i don't do very well with it at all. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: if you love them it won't seem or feel like responsibility so mich. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: too much room for misunderstanding. it's better to think things over to yourself. people talk too much. and a lot of people take it personslly if you are not a big talker yourself. i hate that. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality. i like that look that says, i can see right through you. --Regarding Age in Relationship it doesn't matter. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i'd rather not talk about it. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: yes, i remember it well. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't matter. people need to be themselves. not change for each other. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are two different aspects of life. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: we didn't know. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i wouldn't do it. knowing what i know now. --Regarding Risks telling the truth about something about myself even though i knew it might get me rejected, ridiculed, ect. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): wow that's really scarey. i think i'll just think of something else to do. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Very Young Child How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none- What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family bad attitude towards self and men. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was very helpfull. i've never had to think about how i feel about some of this before and being on the computer allows youa lot more freedom to speak your mind. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? what is........the inability to bond? what brings this on? what can you do about it? can a person have this and not know it? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu May 9 07:06:56 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: morning water drops --That first relationship was That first relationship was DISASTER --The best things about relationship are: him --The worst things about relationship are: me --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: him --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be patient - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Apr 30 17:40:37 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == M in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 17 23:43:41 2002 Anonymous Guest 40 in Ottumwa, Iowa =USA= F40 in Ottumwa, Iowa =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Read About it: ] Prof/Studies: Activities Therapist. BA in Psychology, Human Services and Sociology with a minor in Political Science. My Astrology: I'm a Libra, but I really haven't cared what a man's astrological sign is. Maybe that's been my problem! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: His Needs, Her Needs Recommended Reading-- Writers: Willard F> Harley and I like Dr. John Gray's Mars/Venus books. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I obviously have no clue, I'm divorced. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Love at first sight. We were married within six weeks. --The best things about relationship are: Talk, touch and togetherness --The worst things about relationship are: I don't want to sound cynical, but the most difficult aspect of my previous relationships have been when the guy couldn't remember whose bed he was supoosed to be sleeping in. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who sees me an a partner. I would like to be seen as an intellectual, not some dumb blonde to be dangled from a man's arm to show off to his friends. I want someone who will read poetry to me by candle light, walk with me in the rain, look into my eyes and know what I feel (and care). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less stupid. The man I just ended a seven year relationship with cancelled 7 (yes 7) weddings. Only to marry someone he knew for three weeks. When that marriage ended after a mere 146 days, I was an idiot and took the guy back. I guess I need to act like I have a brain if I want to be treated as such. Duh. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My heart is too big and I am way too forgiving. I put up with far more than what would be considered healthy simply because I don't like to give up. I also have a degree in Psychology and I find I tend to analyze others' behavior without really realizing it. I tend to care, perhaps too much, about what motivated a certain behavior, especially when the behavior was negative or maladaptive. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I hate a man who always has to be right. I don't much care for a man who feels the need to put me down in order to feel superior. Little annoying habits don't bother me very much. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Just what the word says. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I seem to have chosen men who think that if you ignore something long enough, it will disappear. I'm big on communication. I hate to argue. Everyone has a right to their own opinion and couples don't always have to agree. People perceive things differently and keeping an open mind is a plus. I don't play the blame game. I refuse to partake in shouting matches. I'd rather go to the river or to the woods, indulge in a little solitude and reflection and come back to the issue when emotions aren't so fired up. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Definitely the smile. I notice teeth. I can't imagine kissing someone who has nasty teeth. How's that for sounding shallow? Next I look for the sense of humor. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is irrelevant. What matters is how the souls connect. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I really don't care what a person's sexual orientation is. They are human beings and need to be treated as such, regardless. I think some people are strictly heterosexual and some strictly homossexual. And some are somewhere inbetween. The only reason society thinks there are more gay people in the world today is because we're more open about sexuality than in past decades. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight, but I have lesbian friends and gay friends. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion, in and of itself, doesn't matter to me. But I have found that both need to be spiritual to connect. I'm spritual. I uphold the First Amendment of freedom of religion and respect other religions whether I agree with them or not. At least that person has sprituality. Someone who isn't at all simply doesn't understand one who is. That can be problematic. --Regarding Love and Sex: They go hand in hand but are two totally separate aspects of a relationship. I've never had sex just for the sake of having sex. If love isn't present, I'm not interested. Love is a spiritual bond, an emotion. Sex is an act. An act that goes really well with love, though! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was raped as a teenager, so I had some hangups about sex in the earlier years. My Grandmother always told me never to tell your man no or he'd get it somewhere else. Like that worked. I took her advise and they still cheated. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Statistics show that couples who live together first have a much higher rate of divorce. The level of commitment isn't as great as in a marriage. It's easier to walk away. In a marriage, couples are more inclined to work at the relationship. --Regarding Risks No guts, no glory. Who said, "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?" I'd rather take the risk. What's the worse thing that can happen? A broken heart? I've been there, done that. I'm still surviving. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Here's the risk factor again. There's always going to be a risk involved in any new relationship. I, personally, wouldn't have sex with a man unless I felt I knew him, could trust him and was in love with him. I don't do the one night stand thing. Sex is nice, but it isn't worth dying over. I'd rather go scuba diving. --A funny relationship story: You really don't want to know the details, but it involves "intimacy" driving down an interstate in Georgia. Aall the truckers, for miles, honked and gave us the thumbs up. Aren't CB radios wonderful? - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family My Grandmother had some screwed up ideas of what love was supposed to be. I listened to her. She was wrong. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I found it particularly useful in making myself take a look at the relationships I've been involved in and what was wrong. I've found that I've "settled" for less than I deserve and never really found a mate that I connected with on a spiritual level. In reflecting on past relationships, I've realized I've generally been happier when I'm not in a relationship. My tenacity has kept me in relationships that should have ended long before they did. And I think I've been a magnet for losers. Something I need to figure out why and modify. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? It's about 2AM and I've done enough thinking for one night. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Apr 15 10:58:03 2002 Anonymous Guest 29 in Los Angeles, CA =USA= F29 in Los Angeles, CA =USA= Name: Marie - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] from the handwriting analysis website - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: No, astrology is not a factor. Where a person grew up or what there favorite movie is is more important than the month they were born in. Maybe it say more about the parent than the kids. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Writers: Leo Buscaglia - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Height, huggableness, self confidence. --Regarding Age in Relationship they should think they are the same "generation". --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I am shocked too. But, everyone decides for themselves. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am probably a conservative person for the time I live in..hetero and happy. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it helps but is not necessary. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are separate BUT... --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: The person who you are with and WHY you are doing it are the most important thing, not the place or time or whatever. Did you regret it the next day or glad that it progressed your relationship to another level? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I could never feel like a good role model if I was cohabitating before marriage. It's like admitting that you want the sex without the commitment and I personally would not do it. But everyone can make up their own mind. I really think it's just to have sex more often and if that is really the case, then the commitment (i.e. piece of paper signed in front of your family and God) should be there. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): its scary. That's exactly how I view it too. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Apr 11 23:15:36 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Hurts but is good. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... serious. Puppy love and love all together. --The best things about relationship are: Caring and protection. Love and cuddling. --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who can keep a schedule and not change plans. Someone who buys me simple things. Someone who shows they want to be there with me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: change my jealousness, not be so jealous or demanding. I am possessive in a way. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have a bad habit of jealousy and control. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: sex --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: talking things out is good, listening is also great. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship close is good, but if it is meant to be, it doesn't matter. --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion is a must. i believe that christ comes first in all relationships. --Regarding Love and Sex: first comes love, then marriage, then sex. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: no, dont live together until you are married --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): dont' have premarital sex - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Apr 7 22:33:55 2002 Anonymous Guest 56 in Vacaville, CA =USA= F56 in Vacaville, CA =USA= Name: Email: <Bevrleelan-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Organizational Developmen My Astrology: sexy bullshit - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Caring, sharing, containing another's cares - yet maintaining your own boundaries - giving yourself but not losing yourself - a delicate balance --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Intense but not "close" - it wasn't so much a relationship as t was a quest for satisfaction --The best things about relationship are: sex, beautiful moments - so rare --The worst things about relationship are: jealousy - recognizing & accepting your weaknesses and the weaknesses of your other --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a reflection of myself - but the opposite sex - who needs me just a little more than I need him --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less judgmental - more accepting --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I hold people to tough standards - I expect more of them than I can give --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I want spontaneity and sensitivity - surpise me sometime - in a pleasing way --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: blaming someone - let's go for freedome --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: its a chance to blame - take what's offered or walk away --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: a "pull" - its not the looks - its deeper --Regarding Age in Relationship its happened to me - --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: never say never --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship people can connect at a deeper level than their particular view of religion or spirtuality --Regarding Love and Sex: they are synonymous unless someone isn't healthy --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: curiosity --Regarding living with someone before marriage: sounds like superstition --Regarding Risks forgiving - letting go rather than getting even --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): just be honest --A funny relationship story: ? - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends Sexual desire - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Cathargic - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? What do you do with this information? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Mar 30 22:39:14 2002 Anonymous Guest 23 in Newcastle, =Uk= F23 in Newcastle, =Uk= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] My Astrology: Astrology works but forget it and just meet whoever tutns up cos it is very hazy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A special connection, you feel as if you can't live without them, combines many aspects such as love, trust, respect e.t.c --That first relationship was That first relationship was... exciting, emotional rolercoaster in a short time, trying to get it right but turning out all wrong --The best things about relationship are: someone to be there and hold, feel safe, secure and loved --The worst things about relationship are: cheating, lying, break down in that connection or just their bad habbits --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A sole mate --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: drink a bit less, be more open --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: don't let myself love so I don't get hurt and if I do let myself I pick reasons why they are not the one --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: we have to compromise or work out a solution --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: try not to hurt them and make them a better person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: talk and analyse things if they are not working or thy will fester and turn bad --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: It would be nice to have enerything but you need some attraction to physical aspects but personality is the majour ingredient --Regarding Age in Relationship age is a consideration but if you are good for each other it doesn't really matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: the whole spectrum --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight but find the same sex attractive --Regarding Religion in Relationship slightly religious or spiritual is fine but no extreemists --Regarding Love and Sex: you need both --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: should of waited, a mistake --Regarding living with someone before marriage: what suits you but try out the merchandise --Regarding Risks I would make them think I had let down my guard but i never did unless it was too exhilarating --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect yourself and don't have sex when drunk cos you won't protect yourself - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - interesting but very long ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Mar 27 11:49:32 2002 Anonymous Guest 20 in Ft. lauderdale, Fl =Broward= F20 in Ft. lauderdale, Fl =Broward= Name: Brown suga Email: <passionplum-at-hotmailc.om> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] My Astrology: It soesent matter to me. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: The bible - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships is a closeness that you share with somebody other than yourself. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Was more of a puppy love kinda thing. It was not serious. --The best things about relationship are: To tell you the truth i have not been in alot of relationships to really understand what it really means. I am the only child i think that has something to do with it because i am always by myself and to myself. --The worst things about relationship are: The lack of self disclosure. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who is serious,kind, smart,clean open to discuss their feelings, funny, has a strong relationship with god. Who knows how to be a gentleman. Someone who is strong when tough situations occur. Someone who is romantic, very passionate (i guess those are the same thing). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could change my immature ways,learn hoe to be more responsible, and open with my feelings, lose the shyness. And many more personal things.Fear of being heartbroken. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Would lose my tough act towards men. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i have nothing to say about that --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being able to handle when you are right and when you are wrong. Being able to provide for that person (if you are the male)financially, socially, and i guess physically.taking charge if something goes wrong knowing that you have to do your part. ex. if the female in the relationship gets pregnant the male have to take full responsibility for your actions. Well both have to take responsibility so that something like that they wont let something like that happen. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It can be good and it can be bad. It can be good to get in an argument with somebody to see what type of persn they are what really presses their button and you can also learn how the person feels about you. It can be bad because both persons are yelling at wach other and can lead to physical fighting. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The smile and the eyes mainly the eyes because the eyes neer lie. --Regarding Age in Relationship age does matter in some parts and it dosent matter in other it depends on what you are looking for. For me i would date someone within the ages of 20-27. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i am totally heterosexual (straight) --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: no comment --Regarding Religion in Relationship Its very important to me because i am very religous and would love to date someone with the same faith as myself because if i am a christian and i go an date someone who is not it wont be a good relationship because we have different interest. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is when you realize that you can't live with out that person no matter what. For example you know you love someone when he/she gets cripple in an accident and you still have strong feelings for that person. Sex is showing the person hoe much you love them. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: No comment --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Is i would wait until i am married because its better that way i like to try things before i buy or use them but in this case i would wait (somethings are worth waiting for). --Regarding Risks I have not yet risk anything for a relationship. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Its better to wait. --A funny relationship story: Nothing - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was to long but it maid me think about a few things. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? none ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Mar 24 08:43:49 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: astrology is a lot of prefabricated crap and should never be beleived or even practiced. it is whole heartedly wrong in mine and gods eyes - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: intimacy with soul mate --That first relationship was love --The best things about relationship are: god, sex, marrige --The worst things about relationship are: misunderstanding, gender bias --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: nice personallity, good looking, christian, nice ass --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less arrogant more love --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: dont share easily --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: same emotional level --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: commitment, marriage --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: arguements are always solved by men apologising --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality then a nice ass --Regarding Age in Relationship ages should be close --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: right and wrong --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight is good and gay is bad in mine and gods eyes --Regarding Religion in Relationship faith in god is essential and a good relationship takes three, me god and partner --Regarding Love and Sex: sex comnes after marriage and marriage comes aafter love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: mint --Regarding living with someone before marriage: coinhabitation is dead easy but dont have sex before marriage --Regarding Risks breaking temporarily --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): only have one partner and problem is solved, my partner is white a snow --A funny relationship story: irony - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Religion/Clergy What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 14 11:34:48 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in Gallup, NM == F17 in Gallup, NM == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: Well Im fire and he;s earth were diffrent and my astrology says we wont macth but we do match! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: we love each other very much and plan to get married someday --The best things about relationship are: The day when we get married --The worst things about relationship are: The other girls that have been trying to break us up so they can get with him --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: My Jason!!! --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could learn to be mor patient and listen before I jump to conclusions --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I;m okay --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: He happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Staying commited and honest in a realationship not to mention having a open realitionship --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: He stops talking to me and he also ingores me While I stand ther and ask him what the problem is --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: His personality he is a funny guy once you get to know him --Regarding Age in Relationship we are 9 months apart --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Its really up to the person about their own sexuality --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Ive always been straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship we are both non-belivers until God is scientifically proven to be real --Regarding Love and Sex: its great!!!! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: AMAZING! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Me and my boyfriend have been living together for along time now almost a year and the sparks are still there. --Regarding Risks Not jumping to conclusions --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I asked him straight-up what and who have you "done" before you have been with me. --A funny relationship story: We have fun doing stupid things - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Just Hanging out - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This is good idea - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Do you ever feel insecure if he/she does something to loos a little bit of trust? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Mar 13 12:33:55 2002 Anonymous Guest 21 in Chicago, IL =USA= F21 in Chicago, IL =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Family Social Services Major - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: nothing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Mar 12 23:32:28 2002 Anonymous Guest 39 in Healdton, Oklahoma =USA= F39 in Healdton, Oklahoma =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] yahoo search on surveys - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: hotel night auditor My Astrology: don't know; don't care; don't waaant to know - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: blue book: making your family life happy ( i think) Recommended Reading-- Writers: published by the watchtower bible and tract society - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: emotional closeness to another being. knowing your life would be less without them --That first relationship was That first relationship was... we were best friends at first then realized we wanted to be best friends together --The best things about relationship are: emotional closeness; knowing what the other will say and do in any situation --The worst things about relationship are: dealing with the ups and downs of another's personality --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: them to just be themselves; and just love me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: pay more attention and have more time together --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i do okay. just wish we had more time together --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he has severe mental illness. sometimes it is hard to deal with --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: that i have to take care of him no matter how bad the mental illnes becomes. but it is a responsibility i accept because of love --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you need to talk about the important things and let the little things go. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality plus a smile --Regarding Age in Relationship doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: don't know yet seems to be a genetic thing though --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: seems to be genetic. --Regarding Religion in Relationship that it certainly makes it easier to get along if we agree on such important things as religion and spirituality --Regarding Love and Sex: It is important but, not everything (sex) --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: oh man, was i inexperienced!!!!! thought it would be easier --Regarding living with someone before marriage: a man and woman need to commit to each other in marriage. --Regarding Risks that it can be worth it. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): don't worry really-only one man for me and me for him. but it is something to be concerned about. --A funny relationship story: every day, every hour, every minute. we are a humor loving family. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i'm secure in my relationship--but like to think i can help someone else - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? might ask how something life changing or threatening might affect someone ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Mar 11 07:39:59 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Mar 10 22:36:36 2002 Anonymous Guest 20 in Mesa, Arizona =United States= F20 in Mesa, Arizona =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: college student/ physical therapy My Astrology: I am not sure if I quite believe it but yes I do compare signs. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Gender Roles of Males and Females - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a way for two people to enjoy and expierience life together. To accept their flaws and to compromise. It is uniting as a team. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... I was doing some research at a college university and a he asked me a question. Then for some reason we talked for a while and then when he asked for my number I didn't feel inclined not give it to him. --The best things about relationship are: Listening, laughing, breathing in the quiet moments, doing the things we love, and being patient with one another. --The worst things about relationship are: Putting up with the stereotypes that the society has put both men and women(but mostly women) thru. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I would like him to be optomistic, athletic, kind, intellectual, caring, patient, team player, and great conversationalist. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: A little less stubborn, less shy, and more self confident --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a difficult time looking at someone in the eye because I don't want them to think badly of me. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: They have to have goals and good moral standards --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being there for them when they need me --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I have always avoided conflict. I enjoy listening. If the person in the relationship is not big on talking then it won't last that long because I find that a beginning relationship is based on small talk. I am horrible at small talk. They have to initiate the conversation. Most people say that once you get to know me, I can be a chatter box. Ok. Also , I hate to argue. So if they decide that they don't want to call me to work it out then it will end up as and unresolved conflict and relationship. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile and eye contact. Even if the person really does not mean it. --Regarding Age in Relationship Two to five years --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I have researched a lot and even though there will be a never ending debate on the matter I think that is not chosen even though I still find the matter appauling. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: totally heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship Relationship does not matter as long as morals and ethics are the same --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is better than sex because it involves emotion in so many different formes. It is what makes you want to live. Sex is only wonderful if true love is involved. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: if you know that it is right, there is no need to live together first. It is just an excuse for guys not to have to deal with commitment. If that makes any sense. --Regarding Risks Letting go and not making an excuse to have to be somewhere because I am too afraid of making a fool of myself during a conversation. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): if your worried then offer to both get tested - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: Getting over the fear of rejection What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: lack of self confidence ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 8 11:47:34 2002 Anonymous Guest 24 in , PA =USA= F24 in , PA =USA= Name: Email: <annevcm-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Professional My Astrology: I am a leo w/taurus rising. I do follow my horoscope and I do believe that I fit the definition of a leo to a tee. It helps explain certain types of behaviors. I have not found the compatibility to be true or untrue. It also helps me to better understand traits of my mate. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is the most difficult thing you will try to do in your lifetime. It's the joining of two, whole and complete lives and meshing them into one. It requires dedication, effort, support, affection, honesty. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... definitely love at first sight and an intense infatuation, which grew into a deep partnership, but no marriage --The best things about relationship are: Enjoying the other's company whether you are at home doing nothing, out having a blast or doing the most menial chores. It's enjoyable if it's time shared, no matter the task at hand. --The worst things about relationship are: Trusting. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Share the same values, religion. Have a similar background (i.e. raised in similar settings, economic status, parental figures). Have similar traits, but enough opposites to keep things fun and interesting. Someone to inspire me to do my best and learn new things from. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I am too posessive, maybe too needy for affection (although I am very generous w/it). I need my ego to be boosted reguarly. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Feeling the need to have too much control of his life. Wanting to know all of the details...and compromising my morals to find out. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I am wholy and completely accepting of the other and everything that comes w/him...good and bad. I find ways to love the bad w/the good. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Responsibility and relationships go hand-in-hand. It is unavoidable. For me, it came easy. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: My way of communicating is through cards...his is not...he did not really appreciate it, but he always knew where I was coming from. I told him I loved him and he was great in a card, I told him I hated him and I apologized in a card. It was my way. I was also always open w/compliments like "you look great in that shirt" or " I love those glasses on you"... --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Physical attraction is definitely something I look for...if I don't ahve that, I haven't been able to move further towards a potential relationship. I have many male friends...none of which I'm attracted to. The physical attraction that I have towards my partner has helped to maintain my love for him. I look at him after 6 yrs. the same way I did the first day I laid eyes on him. He remains intriguing to me. It's amazing. --Regarding Age in Relationship Considering my partner is 12 years my senior, I believe that age doesn't really have to matter. I would never recommend such a huge difference to anyone, b/c there are certain issues that come w/it...but nothing of major consequence. I am a true proponent that it's all dependent upon the personalities and lifestyles of the two individuals as to whether it will truly pose a problem. I cannot date guys my own age...it just doesn't provide the things I'm looking for. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I can't relate to anything other than straight. I am not ignorant to other lifestyles, but I can only speak from my own personal experiences and therefore, I have no opinion on any other lifestyle. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship I personally only want to be w/someone with whom I share the same faith. I do w/my partner and it makes a difference. I enjoy sharing the same values, beliefs, backgrounds, no issues of "what to raise the children as", and knowing we have a similar "core". --Regarding Love and Sex: Two different...maybe not necessarily totally different aspects. For me, sex only came w/love and I live peacefully knowing I never abused it nor was I ever taken advantage of only for sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Again, mine was out of love, so I am totally comfortable w/how my first encounter occured and with whom I shared it. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't really frown upon others if they choose it, but it's not for me. I would rather keep my ducks in a row. --Regarding Risks Risk in my relationship came in magnitude. I took great risks and went to great lengths to be w/him...as did he to be w/me. It was exhilerating to the extent of the forbidden fruit, but exhausting and internally destructive in the long run. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Stay monogomous and safe. What else is there to say. Don't sleep around. If you have any morals it's difficult to do that anyway, so more than likely you won't find yourself wrapped up in those issues. --A funny relationship story: I love the way even when arguing, we can make a face or say something to make each other laugh. It keeps the argument in perspective. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This was good...it made me step back and think and reflect, which one can never do too much of. It's a learning experience. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Anonymous Guest 21 in Austin, TX =USA= F21 in Austin, TX =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Marketing My Astrology: it doesnt matter - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is finding someone that you can bond with and turn to for comfort. It's finding that one companion that you are willing to make sacrfices for to stay together, and you both understand eachother. It's finding someone that makes your heart skip a beat, butterflies in your stomach and having that one person call you before you go to bed to wish you a goodnight. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...full of new experiences, and I turned to him for a warmth and affection I knew he would always give, but took advantage of that love in the long run. --The best things about relationship are: soemone that is funny, understanding to my busy life, someone who has their own friends, more like a deep friendship with me, but intimate, and doesn't want to play games. --The worst things about relationship are: jealousy, losing trust in the person you love and being afraid to lose that person. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone that can make me laugh, someone that isn't negative, doesnt complain, tall, sensitive but not too sensitive, who understands my priorities and is a gentlemen. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be satisfied with the man I meet, not ask for too much from him, and be a little more sensitive and open with him and my true feelings. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I think in time, my habits will fade into the relationship and not become a problem. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: It would probably be hard for me to accept anothers habits, but maybe time could change that too. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Responsibility makes me think of how a person should be aware of their companions feelings and needs. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Talking things out always seem to clear things up but its getting there that is the hard part, and I always find myself believing that I am right and he is wrong. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: A guys personality and if his eyes meet with mine when we talk. --Regarding Age in Relationship I see myself with a guy 2 or 3 years older than me. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 0-3 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 0 --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't really matter. --Regarding Love and Sex: I think that making love is different from having sex, but you need to sometimes combine the both in a relationship. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: lust --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I would prefer to live with that person before marriage. --Regarding Risks Risk always involves someone getting burned, usually myself. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it worries me, and I would never have unprotected sex because of that fear. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation learning from my own mistakes What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was very useful because I got the chance to read my own thoughts. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 5 12:29:04 2002 Anonymous Guest 18 in , =USA= F18 in , =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] My Astrology: it may be fun to play with, but i don't believe it really will affect my relationship or life - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: A Midsummer Night's Dream Recommended Reading-- Writers: William Shakespeare - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is something shared between two people in which they grow and learn from each other and that other person in your life makes it worth living --That first relationship was That first relationship was... love at first sight that became something more --The best things about relationship are: comfort of a very close friend, cuddling, and an understanding between you and your love --The worst things about relationship are: learning to understand each others beliefs --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a person that listens and cares about what i think and someone who can make me laugh even though i may be depressed --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try harder to understand things that seem forigen to me --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I wish i could change the fact that i can never love enough --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i can't expect to change a person --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being able to deal with problems that can arise --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i don't really argue unless i'm only joking --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: a warm inviting smile with an intense amount of eye contact --Regarding Age in Relationship i will fall in love with whomever no matter the age --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i don't but if someone actually thinks that is what they want, let them --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: defnitely heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship i have already broken the rules of same faith in a relationship --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is not love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: akward but nice --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i would like to be married,but if i'm not oh well --Regarding Risks sneaking to see my boyfriend every once in a while --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i want to be very careful and NOT get any --A funny relationship story: doing clumsy things to embarrass myself - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it helped me see myself - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? ask one about true love and it's meaning ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Feb 3 10:51:58 2002 Anonymous Guest 57 in Bay City, TX =USA= F57 in Bay City, TX =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: yes, astrology matters, but people have the ability to comprmise with any sign - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two people bonding for life --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense --The best things about relationship are: growing old together --The worst things about relationship are: accepting anothers life view --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: intellegence, laughter, compassion for others --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop being sarcastic control my temper --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: stubborn --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: good manners --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: each do what needs to be done, no gender stuff --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: never make it personal --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: hands, eyes, personality, intellegence --Regarding Age in Relationship age is not that important --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: non of my bussiness --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetrosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion = world view so it is important --Regarding Love and Sex: inseparable, even if one has to pretend its love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: oh my goodness, what was I thinking? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: to each their own --Regarding Risks letting my feelings show --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful, get a doctor's report...new and up to date --A funny relationship story: breaking the bed - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - depends on the outcome - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? is this a psych/sociology paper for college? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Feb 2 11:25:07 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] www.google.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is the communication and emotions and feelings that occur between two people. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... just a fun summer romance. I knew he had no future (and I was right!), and I knew I would never marry someone like him. But we were attracted to each other, and we had fun. --The best things about relationship are: the "high" of a new relationship, learning about this new and interesting person in your life. Also, on the other side of the spectrum, the security of knowing that you care for this person, and this person cares for you in return, and that your friendship/love/marriage is going to last. --The worst things about relationship are: keeping the lines of communication open. Always being honest, yet doing your best not to cause hurt feelings or an arguement. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone honest, sensitive to & understanding of my feelings/moods, caring, affectionate, attentive, generous, intelligent, forgiving, and fun to be with. (Lucky for me--my husband has all of these traits!! Though, of course, no one is perfect!) --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more understanding of his work responsibilities (USMC). --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I'm a little too selfish/self-centered. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: my responsibility to keep in mind the other person's feelings and thoughts and desires, to be supportive of the other person's goals, to allow the other person to feel free to be themselves. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: talking AND listening are both crutial skills and need to be developed. Yelling, interrupting, etc, are not productive and will only make a situation worse! --A funny relationship story: My grandmother-in-law walking in on my husband and I making love! (oh boy, talk about embaressing!!) Luckily, she was great about it, and though I was mortified, she didn't make a huge deal of it. She just apologized, and hasn't mentioned it since! :o) - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family I also observed my older sister's friends and their marriages, and I read many romance novels!! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: NAIVITY ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 31 01:49:05 2002 Anonymous Guest 26 in Melbourne, victoria =australia= M26 in Melbourne, victoria =australia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] www.google.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: DIPLOMA OF MULTIMEDIA My Astrology: I am really interested in astrology but it really doesn't matter. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: As per my feelings regarding relationship...... it is a divine thing which occurs between two or more human beings and any relationship sustains on understanding each other without any greed/profit/pleasure etc. --That first relationship was That first relationship was puppy lovve. --The best things about relationship are: understanding and helping --The worst things about relationship are: understanding each other in every aspect sometimes makes very difficult to maintain a relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: caring, helping, genrous, intelligent, understanding, managing, etc. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i need to be more positive, practical, optimistic and more understanding to make a better relationship. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: As far as my habits concerned, I may change or quit my habits at any moment of my life which hinders relationship. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I would prefer a positive relationship, then there is no point of descriminating any of the habits of my partner as my feeling of a relationship stands on understanding and managing things together. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Responsibility plays very important role in any relationship/life. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: As far as my feelings regarding communication/arguement, I feel that we can communicate with a person who really wish to know something which he/she never met with or learned priorly, whereas the arguement is just made with a person which really wishes to argue for everything. But to be fact I leave to the other person whether it is communication or arguement as I personally doesn't like to interfere in their personal views. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: face in general. --Regarding Age in Relationship 2 or 3 would be better. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: human sexulity is a very positive way of having sex and whereas he gay sexuality is total absurd. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion/spirituality doesn't play any important role in my relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love & Sex are inseparable. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: no comments. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Living together before marriage is really great, where both the partners have right to analyse things of each other and if they feel comfortable then they may fix to a relationship. --Regarding Risks frightening to risk. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): everything depends on my fate so never mind what ever the resul may be. --A funny relationship story: creating some funny stories which i made to establish a relationship more binding. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I guess the questionnaire was too personal. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I really don't know presently. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jan 23 21:58:53 2002 Anonymous Guest 31 in Kirkland, WA =USA= F31 in Kirkland, WA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: It makes no difference. I have found HUGE inconsistencies in astrological charts and predictions. It's just one means people use to try and figure out life, and unfortunately it has no bearing on the truth. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," "Please Understand Me II," Recommended Reading-- Writers: David Keirsey, - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a crush turned serious relationship almost instantly because he was infatuated with me. I was flattered and it lasted two years too long. --The best things about relationship are: Emotional itimacy & companionship --The worst things about relationship are: Our own neediness creating an unfillable void and putting pressure on the other person (or on ourselves) to fill a void that humans cannot (God can.) --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Affirming, creative, energetic, deep, compassionate --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: to be less demanding emotionally --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My mind wanders and I often do not listen well. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Not blaming others for what happens to us (in general.) I had a friendship that didn't last long because the other person was very much a "victim" at every turn. She grew up in an alcoholic home and I'm sure it had a lot to do with it. Still, there wasn't much I could do for her and though I wanted to be her friend, I couldn't take the verbal abuse of constantly being blamed or listening to her blame everything but herself for what happened in her life. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Patience is key. Being able to step back and identify the real problems(s) instead of becoming defensive or blowing something out of proportion. Timing is also crucial. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Demeanor. How they manage themselves both in body and in spirit. How they treat others. How confident they are. --Regarding Age in Relationship It depends upon how old the people are. In general, a five year spread is a maximum ideal, but not by any means the limit. If you are 19 and your partner is 24, that is a big difference. Even compared to 25 and 35. Something about being post-college age (whether or not you've gone to college) adds a level of maturity. The older you are the more the spread can be. 35 and 45 isn't bad, 50 and 70 is even feasible. But 20 and 40, ew. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think it actually sounds reasonable. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am married and was a virgin when I married my husband at 29, he was 33 and also a virgin. So my experience is O, totally heterosexual. My perference is hard to say. I've had attraction pangs toward women with whom I'm close to, but never a desire to touch them or be with them sexually. I can see, however, if that were a possiblity within my paradigm how it could develop. Perhaps then, I am a 1 or 2. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I think you should be on equal ground spritually. It will bind you together ultimately. It's a foundation of who we are. --Regarding Love and Sex: They'd darn well better go together. Those who don't think so have a hard lesson on the way. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Wow, so this is what hormones are for. My first boyfriend was wildly attracted to me and knew how to touch a woman. So though we didn't have sex, he got me charged. I wasn't too worried about my technique in pleasing hiim since he seemed very glad to just be there. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is a bad idea, even if you are OK with sex before marriage. It takes away the specialness of building a home with the committment of marriage as the glue. --Regarding Risks I just experienced this--twice in one day! Two acquaintances who are women friends let me know they're pretty much "set" with fellow girlfriends, thanks but no thanks. I'm trying to broaden my circle of friends and usually found that people have wanted ME to be their friend. Lately the opposite seems true and I've been a tich lonely. So I reached out and got slammed. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): If you're smart, generally you can protect yourself (perhaps it isn't fool proof however.) But those who play with fire may get burned. No sex is the only safe sex. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness Self consciousness in asking questions - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I don't know if this writing things out was a useful experience. I would like to see what others say. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jan 22 11:20:55 2002 Anonymous Guest 18 in middlesbrough, =england= F18 in middlesbrough, =england= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] found it by accident - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: photography student My Astrology: im pieces and my partner is tarus. we are compattable. But i think it doesnt really matter in a realationship. Although i do find the subject interesting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: to be in love with the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with and have their children --That first relationship was That first relationship was...to begin with a fiery fling which has developed into us both being in love with each other, and discussing marriage --The best things about relationship are: trust. And caring for each other --The worst things about relationship are: temptation. Almost ruiening your realationship over a meaningless kiss --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who loves me the way that i am. So one who i can trust and trusts me. Someone who can make me happy, and is happy when they are with me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less sednsitive and insecure, and jeauless for no particular reason --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: selfish in bed --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: too much of a high sex drive --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being married and having children --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i prefer to listen and talk things through without any raised voises --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: definately the eyes. And the way the persons body language portrays itself. They also have to be a joker and kind --Regarding Age in Relationship age shouldnt matter so long as they are both mature enough to decide for themselves thats what they want --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: if thats what they prefer then so be it, they arent doing any harm --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: im straight, although i have kissed a couple of people of the same sex --Regarding Religion in Relationship you should be able to be with anyone from any faith. You can still love someone who prays to a different god to yourself --Regarding Love and Sex: sex can be meaningless, or develop into love, but id rather be in love with the person im having sex with --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was no magical event which hurt --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i would rather live with someone first incase it doesnt work, so that way there are no legal matters to tend to --Regarding Risks falling in love. I am prone to getting hurt easily. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful until your both tested. --A funny relationship story: was when we had our one night stand, believeing the other person was using us when all along we were both attracted to each other and wanted to progress into a realationship - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life watching tv, and how people around me were with there partners What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family mother was to overprotective, and i could not fully develop until leaving home, which was at 16 - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i really enjoyed participating. But it also made me think more deeply about realationships ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jan 18 20:27:53 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in Plano, Texas =United States= F17 in Plano, Texas =United States= Name: Beth Email: <incubethus-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] was looking up handwriting analysis pages - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: student- aspiring artist My Astrology: I research my sun sign for my own purposes. I'm interested in it, yet i don't set my watch to it. My handwriting anylysis said that the capricorn effected my sign, and in fact, he is. So who knows? Fate's wierd. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a connection or bond between two or more homosapiens either by blood, marrige, or kinship. Great deal of emotions are associatied with this bond. --That first relationship was ongoing infatuation with what i THOUGHT was truth but was more of a lie to impress me. He's definately not the most handsome guy, but he has most personality out of anyone i've met. --The best things about relationship are: intimacy, confidence, loyalty, love, companionship, optimism, refuge, honesty, trust --The worst things about relationship are: holding back secrets, vague past, spontaneously innitiating communication, lack of trust --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a sense of humor..can make me laugh, intelligence, well-learned, experienced, monogomous, honest, open, interesting, talkative, intimate, sensual, faithful in some form, artistic, renaissance man ;) --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: better communication, his settling down with a JOB and somewhere to live, his dependibility or lack thereof, wreckless behavior --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i dont commit well. Don't often awknowledge i even have a boyfriend, not completely honest with him or myself, dont allow him to see my innermost layers, dont often convey my feelings or thoughts well, and i don't know how to trust --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: hibitually doesnt keep promises to call or show up somewhere. Often has run ins with the law and doesnt have his own place to live. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Making love and the consequences that come with it. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: we haven't really agrued about anything. If there is an issue, we (meaning I) will casually bring it up in a conversation and it is dealt with quickly and without bloodshed. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: His dreadlocks are the most predominant when one glances at him. Gorgeous eyes. Sensual, smooth voice. Built but skinny, he's soft and gentle. Amazing energy. --Regarding Age in Relationship I find that it really isn't based too much on age unless the age difference creates a gap in which there are no common interests or attractions. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i have no doubt that he prefers women...but the fact that he often makes jokes about an attraction to his roommate and his indifference to walking naked around them creates an area of gray.... Thus, i think it is possible to have an area where there is some attraction, although i hate to admit it. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: my very first encounters with anything sexual came at an extremely young age with my friends....female. We explored however in "play" one of had pretended to be male. I have no doubt that i am straight now, but who knows? --Regarding Religion in Relationship I think faith doesnt mean you need to worship a certain idol or entity. As long as you have a positive outlook and have something to strive for with good morals, that's enough. --Regarding Love and Sex: they're different. My relationship with him has been sex based first off then gradually developed into something more profound. I recently gained the ability to say the words to him that i love him. Love knows no bounds, you woould be willing to do ANYTHING for this person without a second thought. sex is sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: my first time there was a great deal of pain and eventually boredom as the 3 hours drudged on without any rise from me. HE TOOK FOREVER! I was scared of my preformance. practice makes perfect. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i think you should find out first if living together is a tangible thing. If you find you cannot live with the person you love, there's a problem. It's better to do so before you make your "life-long" commitment to the person. Who knows when and if any of us will tie the knot. --Regarding Risks telling my mother i even considered going out with him. She is, in fact, ignorant to any relations with him. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): better to be safe than sorry, however, i'm not one to talk. I'm clean so i was lucky. I'd say find out if you're infected before- there's no need to map out every sexual encounter- it's trivial. --A funny relationship story: spontaneously making love in the middle of my former elementary school's soccer field. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? The Net Talked to him on yahoo messenger. Hardly talked to him on the phone or in person despite he lived a street away. What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. Heard stories constantly from mutual friends that he was cheating, and in fact, he was. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I found it extremely useful to try to evaluate my relationship in words. Often times I am a whirlwind of emotions and i find it very difficult to decipher one feeling from the next. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jan 12 22:48:54 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Writers: John - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love, but I got pregnant and things got too serious and I ended it, not wanting to obligate him. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family my family is very dysfunctional, and the relationships therein were sick and violent. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jan 12 22:48:53 2002 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Writers: John - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love, but I got pregnant and things got too serious and I ended it, not wanting to obligate him. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family my family is very dysfunctional, and the relationships therein were sick and violent. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jan 9 07:02:42 2002 Anonymous Guest 28 in London, =England= F28 in London, =England= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two or more people sharing each other with each other at diferent levels, colleague, friendship, lover, partner, or family member --That first relationship was That first relationship was... we fell in love and stayed toegtehr for 6.5 years and then probably grew out of each other , in a very amicable way --The best things about relationship are: loving and receiving love in return..fun, learning new things, being taught new ways to love, giving, learing how to trust someone and depend upon them. --The worst things about relationship are: trust, jealousy, lack of space, dependency --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a loving person, someone with a good strong family, funny, attractive (to me) caring, ambitious --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to depend to a certain point and not feel like I am losing myself to this person, and know that it's ok to really fall deeply in love and be vulnerable. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't erally have any bad habits - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation Prent role-model What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: lack of confidence ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jan 8 19:26:18 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in , =usa= M17 in , =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: high school My Astrology: not interesting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was "puppy love" --The best things about relationship are: being loved by someone else and knowing it --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to be loved --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop masturbating --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i can't control them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i never yell --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: skin, butt and face --Regarding Age in Relationship doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: between --Regarding Religion in Relationship i don't care --Regarding Love and Sex: i don't think you need sex with love, but its usually wanted...i wouldn't base a relationship on it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: regret is a horrible thing --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect and don't be with a dirty person - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: lack of response ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jan 8 19:26:13 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in , =usa= M17 in , =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: high school My Astrology: not interesting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was "puppy love" --The best things about relationship are: being loved by someone else and knowing it --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to be loved --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop masturbating --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i can't control them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i never yell --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: skin, butt and face --Regarding Age in Relationship doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: between --Regarding Religion in Relationship i don't care --Regarding Love and Sex: i don't think you need sex with love, but its usually wanted...i wouldn't base a relationship on it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: regret is a horrible thing --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect and don't be with a dirty person - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: lack of response ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jan 8 19:26:08 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in , =usa= M17 in , =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: high school My Astrology: not interesting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was "puppy love" --The best things about relationship are: being loved by someone else and knowing it --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to be loved --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop masturbating --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i can't control them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i never yell --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: skin, butt and face --Regarding Age in Relationship doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: between --Regarding Religion in Relationship i don't care --Regarding Love and Sex: i don't think you need sex with love, but its usually wanted...i wouldn't base a relationship on it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: regret is a horrible thing --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect and don't be with a dirty person - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: lack of response ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jan 8 19:25:59 2002 Anonymous Guest 17 in , =usa= M17 in , =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: high school My Astrology: not interesting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was "puppy love" --The best things about relationship are: being loved by someone else and knowing it --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to be loved --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop masturbating --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i can't control them --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i never yell --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: skin, butt and face --Regarding Age in Relationship doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: between --Regarding Religion in Relationship i don't care --Regarding Love and Sex: i don't think you need sex with love, but its usually wanted...i wouldn't base a relationship on it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: regret is a horrible thing --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect and don't be with a dirty person - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: lack of response ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jan 6 11:21:41 2002 Anonymous Guest 41 in Toms River, New Jersey =USA= M41 in Toms River, New Jersey =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Doing a paper on Death and Dying for Nursing School - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: Works for me - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Celestine Prophesy Recommended Reading-- Writers: James Redfield - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Say what is on your mind and be honest. Share time talking somewhere you can really connect on multi-levels --That first relationship was That first relationship was... presented to me in a dream 5 years before I even met that person. She was my angel from day one after I met her. --The best things about relationship are: Honesty and Devotion. Holding the person closely. Having a amorous rendevous in the middle of a grassy field. --The worst things about relationship are: The potential to lose the person you love so deeply and not be there for them when that time were to come. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Interest in medicine,music --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: accept her for everything good and bad --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Be there forever whenever for whatever reason --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Don't argue. Respect the feelings and do not argue and still problem-solve --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: sense of humor --Regarding Age in Relationship Age do not matter when you are an adult --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I do my thing and they can do theirs --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Hetero all the way --Regarding Religion in Relationship God is the one --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex has changed over my lifetime my first and my soulmate was beyond any word or emotion --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Somewhere I would love to spend the rest of my life --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Was great for me --Regarding Risks separation over the course of years --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be monogamous --A funny relationship story: Going camping with 5 girls one being my girlfriend and having the cat-like behavior brewing between 3 of them in reference to me. I stayed out of it and remained loyal to my girlfriend - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Books & Films Women's Magazines discussing relationships What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance Lack of any wholesome direction for relationship - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Fairly long - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I have to appologize I am being rushed to complete this now ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Dec 17 13:26:14 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Illicit Drugs ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Dec 6 07:44:37 2001 Anonymous Guest 38 in , =Greece= F38 in , =Greece= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Search Engine - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Law My Astrology: I am a Cancer. I have been attracted to Gemini many times but it didn't work out. Sexually I was very well with Pisces and other Cancers. My hubby is a Cancer and we are together for 12 years now. Astrology seems interesting and I often read my horoscope, especially in times of crisis either at work or within a relationship. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people coming together to help each other grow, become better persons, have fun which does not hurt anyone and in general live a better life than the one lives being alone (or lonely) --That first relationship was That first relationship was a person who looked like he was not "dangerous" as a first experience (not very virile, not agressive, with an upbringing similar to mine, with an interest for education, not likely addicted to unproductive activities) --The best things about relationship are: to care about the other person and his/her feelings, to share responsibility, thoughts and some activities, to allow the other person some "space" in order for him/her to grow --The worst things about relationship are: growing distant, not being faithful, not caring about the other person's feelings. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: him to be absolutely dedicated to me, not trying to change me, try to show interest in what I care for and share my basic beliefs. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more responsible and less self centred --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I nug a lot and I am often very self centred --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: if a person really cares about me, he will try to make life easier for me, so he will try towards the right direction. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being honest and prepared for hard work within the relationship. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people like to talk about themselves and what interests them but many hide their real self. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I have been attracted to people who did not to seem handsome. They even seemed at first rather unattractive or to be pitied. But after a while I felt there was so much mystery in them or so much need for affection that I was desperately in love. Personality is very important of course but mystery can be very attractive, although it does not guarantee that the relationship will be successfuly. To the contrary, as mysterious people often hide things about themselves. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age difference may be an issue if one of the partners is more than 5 or 6 years older, although there could be exceptions. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that if people are brought up properly and if they are not victims of any abuse in childhood, it is most probable that they wouldn't become gay. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have tried to find out if I enjoy "being" with a person of the same sex but it was only an experience. It wasn't what I was looking for in life. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It is really a good basis for a lasting relationship to have a similar background (including religion). This is the rule for me but I guess there are exceptions. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex doesn't work for me, if I' not in love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was lucky. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I wouldn't like to live with someone before getting married although I think people should first try to live on their own (no parents) before deciding to get married. --Regarding Risks I let my feelings show and that does not work to my favor. I also talk a lot and people sometimes use it against me. Risk in relationship can be moving too fast into it or disregarding the person's background and mentalityl. For example, if you know a person younger than yourself is only interested in having a good time and you see the relationship like a lasting one, you are out for trouble. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): One must be very careful, although I have been very silly at times. --A funny relationship story: I don't know - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance My parents were not the kind of people who talk to their children about relationships, so I was not allowed to discuss with them. If I felt more free, maybe I would have acted more cautiously because their restrictions made me rebelious and acting risky. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think the questionnaire is useful - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I don't want to receive comments from other but I would like to receive your comments. How can I see answers posted by other people? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Nov 26 13:30:54 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: It's bologna. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --The best things about relationship are: cuddling, making love, talking, walking, biking, traveling --The worst things about relationship are: being monogamous --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: smile, sense of humor, intelligence, generosity --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter as long as both people are over 18 and compatible --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: People should never limit themselves to a particular sex but should learn about attraction without considering this characteristic, Most people are either mostly gay or mostly hetero but few are exclusively either --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am overwhelmingly gay in terms of my actual orientation --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion shouldn't matter in a relationship --Regarding Love and Sex: they're different though sex is best when in love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was fun but confusing because I had not had a realistic or adequate education about sex. I felt guilt about having sex with a man because of being mistaught by conservatives about the nature of sexuality and romance. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think the best policy is to live together for at least a year before marriage. However the decision on whether and when to formally marry should be up to each couple/person. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It is frightening. People need to remember to used condoms during intercourse. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 23 20:53:41 2001 Anonymous Guest 16 in Boring, Oregon =USA= F16 in Boring, Oregon =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student My Astrology: I am a scorpion, and I went out with a sign that was supposedly incompatible for me, a Pices. But we were together for 10 months, and we were very much in love. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships are great. Just having that other person there helps. You can talk to them about anything. When you fall in love with them, is when it gets better. Love is such a wonderful feeling and being loved back by that person is almost a better feeling. Relationships are based on trust, honesty, and just being able to talk to them. --That first relationship was That first relationship was the summer in between my 8th grade and freshman year. i fell in love with a guy that I had known for 5 years prior to our relationship. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. --The best things about relationship are: that first kiss. How it feels when you are falling in love. Spending time with that other person, and talking to them about everything. The fun you have in a relationship. Getting to know someone so well that you feel like you have known them their whole life. --The worst things about relationship are: when you don't comprimise. When you get into arguments. Getting dumped by someone that you want to be with forever. If things just don't work out. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone that has a great personality, is nice, trustworthy, honest with me, and tells me a lot. I would want someone that I know a lot about, but just enough to keep me wanting to know more about them. Someone that I have a lot of common interests with, someone that I have a good time with. and if they are hot that is just a bonus. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: change the way I look at myself, and the way I jump to conclusions. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to not obsess so much over my boyfriend. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I can accept most of their bad habbits, unless they smoke or do drungs besides alcohol. I would not want them to have the habbit of cheating or abuse. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being there for the other person. Responsible, is if the guy and i are able to be with each other and make our own decisions about life and love. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: when a guy can talk I like taht a lot. I don't like it when I do all the talking. But sometimes when a guy talks a lot and is all talk and no action I get mad and we get into fights. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks, including his eyes and the way he smiles, and just the way he looks. Then his looks is what makes me want to get to know him better. Then if he turns out to be a jerk I won't just stay with him because of his looks. His looks are what attracts me to him, then his personality is what makes me want to stay with him. --Regarding Age in Relationship That age does not matter at all. The guy I am in love with is 2.5 years older than I am. But you don't fall in love with someones age, you fall in love with them. Age is just a number if two people really like/love each other. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: More power to them if they are gay. I think that they cannot choose whether they are gay or straight and i don't look down on someone for their sexuallity. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't think that religion or faith matters. You fall in love with someone not their religion or faith! --Regarding Love and Sex: Love does not come from sex and sex may come from love but not always. I think it is dumb that most relationships are based on and controlled by sex. Sex seems to be so important to some people. To me though love happens and sex is just a bonus. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I have not had sex so I don't know. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: is that "you don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person you can't live without." I don't think it matters either way. If you life with them or not, either way if you love them and want to marry them living with them first is not going to matter one way or another to me. --Regarding Risks almost having sex with the man I thought was my soul mate. I wanted it so bad, but he knew I really wasn't ready. But sometimes I wonder what would be different if we would have had sex that night. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I want to stay abstinent for as long as possible, but when I am/feel ready, I will have my partner be tested for ALL types of STD's and if they refuse to take the tests then it is their lose! --A funny relationship story: was when I was with Jeremey to show that he was comfotable with me he used to fart around me. I think about those times that he farted, like when we were making out and stuff, and they make me laugh! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family My parents didn't like Jeremey. But we went out anyways - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It made me really have to sit and think, i liked this very much. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I think you should ask things about previous relationships. Like...What is the hardest thing about your love leaving you? Or Have you ever been in love? Or what is the most important thing in a relationship to you? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Nov 20 15:31:59 2001 Anonymous Guest 39 in Lismore, NSW =Australia= F39 in Lismore, NSW =Australia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: teacher My Astrology: astrology is interesting and yes i have looked at our charts and we are very compatible but i could have told you that anyway - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Sharing, being there for the good and bad times, being friends and lovers and enjoying life together --That first relationship was That first relationship was... my husband, i was too young and it was the first serious relationship i had, it took me many years to realise how wrong it was for both of us --The best things about relationship are: sharing, holding, cuddling --The worst things about relationship are: too dependent on each other --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who challenges me in thought, is my equal and above all my friend --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: lose some weight and be more tolerant --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i fall in love too quickly --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: doesn't express his feelings --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to be honest and loyal --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you need to be open, listen and feel what your partner is saying and act on it, they need to be do the same fo ryou too --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: someone's eyes --Regarding Age in Relationship age is not a barrier --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: we all have a right to choose our own sexual orientation --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight female --Regarding Religion in Relationship there is a god and that things happen to us for a reason, karma and fate are a big part of life --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is important but so is love they do go together --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: unbelievable, open and exciting --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I would live with someone and yes i would marry again --Regarding Risks risks need to be taken, that is what makes life worthwhile --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): there are risks we take everyday --A funny relationship story: too much humour can be wearing though - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance I tried to live my life to unrealistic ideals - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was a cathartic experience thank you ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 8 03:48:41 2001 Anonymous Guest 40 in glasgow, =scotland= F40 in glasgow, =scotland= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: cardiographer My Astrology: i am interested in astrology but wouldnt let it be a barrier to a potential relationship - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A connection between two people-what one person has to do with another. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: intimacy,fun times together,a shoulder to cry on and one to offer in return,strong bonds,companionship,friendship. --The worst things about relationship are: learning to accept differences in other people,abusive relationships,manipulative and dishonest people,untrustworthiness,negativity. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone caring,passionate,romantic,emotionally strong,empathetic,demonstrative,affectionate,attractive,independant,good sense of humour,reliable,honest,able to communicate well(dont want much do i?) --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: relax a little,be more open and tolerant and less sensitive and demanding. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have succeeded in my efforts to break old habits and have taken the neccessary steps. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: current partner makes me happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking care with other peoples feelings and treating them the way in which i would like to be treated --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to communicate but avoid conflict as i am scuppered when i am angry and dont communicate effectively. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: sense of humour,then eyes then hands. --Regarding Age in Relationship age is unimportant once you get past the teenage years but society can put a strain on relationships with large age differences as it is considered slightly taboo --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: there are many different kinds of sexuality and all are right-i agree with the reports findings. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am 100% heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship if you love someone then religious convictions are no barrier but again it is something often frowned upon in society --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex go hand in hand --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i really enjoyed it.i dont tend to worry about other peoples expectations of me (other than my partner) --Regarding living with someone before marriage: tried marriage once without living together first. wouldnt do it again --Regarding Risks have been badly burned in the past --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): better to be safe than sorry --A funny relationship story: some of the things my children have said or done on the road to adulthood - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i have enjoyed filling out this questionnaire and it has made me think about relationship - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? relationships are very important and sometimes not all that easy but where would we all be without them? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Nov 6 00:43:27 2001 Anonymous Guest 24 in Bennington, VT =USA= F24 in Bennington, VT =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - MSN Seach engine - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Artist My Astrology: Doesnt mean much in my experience. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A romantic relationship means to be with someone you love. TO spend time with a person you like, you love and care about. To persue a romantic, sexual, honest, partnership with one person exclusively. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: Having someone be there, when every you need them. Someone who loves you no matter what. ANd having someone who will never leave you. --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy. Expecting too much out of each other. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: An honest, careing, spiritual, loving person. Someone who loves animals and all life. Whos comfortable to be with. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less jealous and more trusting. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to not nag so much and try to be mre trusting. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: If I love them, I can deal with almost anything. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: It's my responsability to hold up my side of the relationship. To be faithfull and honest. TO take responsability for mistakes I've made. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I need to talk, I need someone to talk to me too. I'm definately a button pusher and tend to be arguementative. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Who's inside. Smell. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age doesnt really matter if the people involved are special. But normally, someone under 20 is just too young for any real relationship. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I beleive it. I dont think too many people are all one way or the other. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm mostly hetero. But have bi tendancies. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Similar beliefs are important. They say so much about someone. I cant imagine 2 people of severely different ideals staying together for very long. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is something forever lasting. Its an overwhelming feeling. Sex is a way to strengthen that bond. Its something the bldy craves. Love comes from the soul. Sex comes from the body. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was awful. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think you should definately be married first. --Regarding Risks I'm very open and willing to risk things for someone I love. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Know your partner very well and use protaction. Or abstain. --A funny relationship story: Theres too many... - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life I tried to learn from others What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Interesting. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Oct 27 06:59:47 2001 Anonymous Guest 34 in Alexandria, La =U.S.= M34 in Alexandria, La =U.S.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ TV Program: ] Fox news had a segment on handwriting. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: I like to look after the fact and see how I measured up. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: The joining of two people into one union. This union would be complete with feelings of joy, love, understanding, and total acceptance. --That first relationship was That first relationship was intense fiery fling. --The best things about relationship are: Unconditional Love. --The worst things about relationship are: The inability to change other people without their willingness to change. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Love, happiness, and acceptance. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I would learn to rely on others more. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a tendency to want what I really don't need. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I need to learn to cope with the inability to change others. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Total commitment to one's partner. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I am an avid listner, but I have trouble communicating. Sometimes I let something bother me until I really get upset. This leads to an argument. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I love to get along with people. The people I am most connected to are those people who share my traits, humor, and lifestyles. --Regarding Age in Relationship I think for a more complete relationship, age does matter and 2-5 years is the limit. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Everyone is different to some extent. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I love the opposite sex. --Regarding Religion in Relationship A more complete relationship would include one faith between the two parties. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is different yet related to sex and yet for good sex, you must have love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Wow. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I like to try on my shoes. --Regarding Risks Telling others my own life stories, and still being assured of my acceptance as a friend. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be careful... --A funny relationship story: I tend to find humor with other people and their daily routines. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Very interesting and fun. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Oct 22 14:41:56 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Oct 22 14:32:31 2001 Anonymous Guest 21 in Chicago, ILLinois =USA= M21 in Chicago, ILLinois =USA= Name: Yin Yang Email: <yinyangj69-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Teacher - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Studying Psychology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Any time Any where call my name and I'll be there...Yin Yang Man My Astrology: I don't think it should, I mean love is love. It can't really be predicted nor is it by all means conventional. Plus it takes all the fun out of looking. But I can see where it is valid. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It would be the joining of 2 people trying to see if they are compatable with each other. Trying to see if both of you want/and are able to spend the rest of your life with this other person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Fun, we started as friends first, and we let our feelings progress. --The best things about relationship are: Being able to share the best and worst part of you with someone, and knowing that they love you for it. While you feel the same way about them. --The worst things about relationship are: Being yourself, and sharing your most intimate thoughts. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Them to have a sence of humor, get a long with my friends and family, don't be too submissive, independant, physically attactive (to me), spontainous, romatic, easy going, and christian/or not care that I am...and some more would be nice. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be more open, and have more money to take the person out to nice places. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have to deal with my friends better. Get in shape. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: HUH? --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: That you have to respect your partner, and their space. You also have a responsibilty to give your relationship your all. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: You do need to both talk and listen in a relationship (in a argument). And in most/almost all cases by doing both, you can get over an argument really easily. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I guess it depends on the way you meet, if you see each other, then it woul be Physical Attractiveness. But if you met on the internet, or in a non-physical way, then it would be personality. However of me, I would defiantly take personality over Appearance. --Regarding Age in Relationship I would like to think age doesn't matter, but it can. However I am a true believer in you can't control love. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: straight --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have been straight for all the time I can remember. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I would love to be with someone in the same religion as I am in, however it is not completely neccasary. But what is neccasary is that they do not hinder my belief, and accept me for what I am, because I will do the same for them. --Regarding Love and Sex: You can be in love and not have sex. You can also have sex and not be in love. Both words are different, and mean totatlly different things. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was a bit akward, and it wasn't as good as everyone said it was. It was too hyped up, even thought it was good. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Yeah I think it is a good idea for 2 people to live together before marrage. Now a days with so many people getting divorced , it is a good to know what you are getting into. --Regarding Risks Letting them know about my past. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I think that unless you really want a child, or know the persons background, that you should always use protection. --A funny relationship story: When I lost a game in which I would be regularly better at. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends Watching other relationships. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Yeah it was nice a fairly helpful, that is if I wan stil in a relationship. But some of the questions need better wording. But most of them are easy to answer. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? When you were in love how did you know? When you were in any of your serious relationships, did you always know you loved the other person? Do you get into relationships to find a mate, or just to date? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Oct 21 20:35:18 2001 Anonymous Guest 54 in Brookfield, Illinois =Cook= M54 in Brookfield, Illinois =Cook= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] social psychology class - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Crane Operator, Liberal arts student My Astrology: a curiosity, never a real factor. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is trying to understand and help another both physically (needs)and emotionally. You have to be willing to trust and let yourself be vulnerable and have the right to expect that this will be compensated in kind by your partner. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... I met her at a high school dance and we were married 4 years later, divorced 27 years later. --The best things about relationship are: Intimacy and trust that lead to a peculiar and full feeling of comfort in the others presence. --The worst things about relationship are: When that trust is betrayed or your needs ignored. In my failed marriage's case I would say that the loss of respect of my spouse not only for my feelings but that there seemed to be a sense that "as a man" I had no right to sensitive feelings. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Friendship, trust, and effort. In a romantic relationship I would expect initiation of affectionate actions on my partner's side as well as my own. An attempt to stay physically attractive is important. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I really wouldnot want to change much but would want acceptance for who I am. I would try to be accepting of my mates actions and views, I guess tolerance toward views I don't haold would be necessary. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: It was what kept me in a disfunctional relationship for years. I recently broke off a relationship because I felt I was staying in it out of habit, since my partner was a tolerant and "nice" person it took some doing to decide to end it. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: It is quite important, Ignoring irritation that is caused by a certain habit only puts aside something that will haunt later. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: effort in achieving the physical needs of both partners as for housing, cars. food, etc., as an understood and not exceptional. Personal trust and common courtesy on both partners and an effort to express sexuality frequently and not as a requirement, although it may be. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I like clear, intelligent conversation. Although the necessity to always talk about the relationship itself may mean that it is in trouble. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile and it's sincerity, a feminine posterior and overall healthy appearance but not athletic, indeed fitness obcession is a turn-off. --Regarding Age in Relationship Maturity, not age, is a necessity. I know of people who are quite young who are mature (an ex-girlfriend's neice comes to mind) and have a 68 year old brother who is just reaching a maturity in romantic relationships. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Overblown these days, gays mimic heterosexuality often, I believe in most cases gays are using there unusual sexuality as a coping mechanism from past experiences. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Strongly heterosexual, have never sought or considered a gay relationship have never had curiosity about it. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I believe in some supernatural, my religion is Roman Catholic (not a real good member I'm affraid) but can accept other religions as well, but Christianity would be preferred and atheism not likely, open mindedness a must, love-based religion a must. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are inseparable. A good sexual relationship will lead to love a good love relationship will lead to a good sexual relationship (heterosexual). --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Awkward, innocent not very good though I didnot know it at the time. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It's too much of a commitment and relinquishing of personal freedom to do without marriage. --Regarding Risks deminishing over time in a good relationship. Neither fright nor exhileration should result eventually, but comfort and practicality in addressing closeness. If you sense too much risk it is likely you expect rejection and that would likely be symptomatic of other problems. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Like it or not it is a matter of considerable concern, especially among the younger and less intelligent, making these 2 groups to approach with concern. --A funny relationship story: Getting caught having a sexual liazon in a semi-public place by a policeman, whose reaction good-natured and almost embarassing for him. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling my parents and the parents of friends and my friends. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy Indoctrination in Catholic family situations led me to accept things that later I found inadequet. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It made me think about it a little, I like the open endedness of it. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? About heterosexuality, I have often heard men have homosexual fantasies but I believe our current TV industry actually glamorises the homosexual. I would like to know to homosexuals may have been lead to first encounters by media. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Oct 20 09:47:55 2001 Anonymous Guest 71 in Waynesboro, PA =US= F71 in Waynesboro, PA =US= Name: Phoebe Email: <fhauber-at-innernet.net> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - I was looking for how to analys handwriting - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Teacher - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Grandmother to 7 grandchildren - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was intense. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling Approval from parents What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy Lack of experience ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Oct 19 05:23:01 2001 Anonymous Guest 15 in LIVERPOOL, HALEWOOD =ENGLAND= F15 in LIVERPOOL, HALEWOOD =ENGLAND= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] my friend told me - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: LEISURE AND TOURISM - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: TAKE IT SLOW AND DONT LET PEOPLE RUSH YOU IN TO THINGS - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: a teenagers guide to life - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its about 2 human beings loving and caring for each other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... just puppy love --The best things about relationship are: a family, a good time, kisses and cuddles, and someone to love --The worst things about relationship are: getting beat up, or asaulted, having an affair --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: good looking, caring, good personality. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not flirt with other men.good sex. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i couldnt stop flirting with men, it would be too hard --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they would have to be really caring. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: MAKE SURE I DO THE RIGHT THING --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: YOU HAVE TO FACE UP TO THEM, WHEN THINGS GO WRONG --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: THERE PERSONALITY, AND DEFANITLY THE LOOKS. --Regarding Age in Relationship AGE , I THINK 5 YEARS OVER OF EACH OTHER --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I DONT THINK ITS RIGHT. --Regarding Religion in Relationship IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT RELIGION YOU ARE. --Regarding Love and Sex: THERE QUITE SIMILAR. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: A SEXUALL RELATIONSHIP. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: LIVING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE --Regarding Risks take it slow, and dont rush into things. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): ID BE SCARED OF GETTING ANY DISEASES --A funny relationship story: WHEN HE ASKED IF IM READY, I GOT REALLY NERVOUS. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out just hanging out with friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - YES. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? DO WE KNOW WHAT EVERTHING MEANS IN THE QUESTIONNAIRE ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Oct 19 05:22:41 2001 Anonymous Guest 15 in LIVERPOOL, HALEWOOD =ENGLAND= F15 in LIVERPOOL, HALEWOOD =ENGLAND= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] my friend told me - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: LEISURE AND TOURISM - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: TAKE IT SLOW AND DONT LET PEOPLE RUSH YOU IN TO THINGS - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: a teenagers guide to life - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: its about 2 human beings loving and caring for each other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... just puppy love --The best things about relationship are: a family, a good time, kisses and cuddles, and someone to love --The worst things about relationship are: getting beat up, or asaulted, having an affair --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: good looking, caring, good personality. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not flirt with other men.good sex. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i couldnt stop flirting with men, it would be too hard --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they would have to be really caring. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: MAKE SURE I DO THE RIGHT THING --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: YOU HAVE TO FACE UP TO THEM, WHEN THINGS GO WRONG --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: THERE PERSONALITY, AND DEFANITLY THE LOOKS. --Regarding Age in Relationship AGE , I THINK 5 YEARS OVER OF EACH OTHER --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I DONT THINK ITS RIGHT. --Regarding Religion in Relationship IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT RELIGION YOU ARE. --Regarding Love and Sex: THERE QUITE SIMILAR. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: A SEXUALL RELATIONSHIP. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: LIVING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE --Regarding Risks take it slow, and dont rush into things. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): ID BE SCARED OF GETTING ANY DISEASES --A funny relationship story: WHEN HE ASKED IF IM READY, I GOT REALLY NERVOUS. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out just hanging out with friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - YES. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? DO WE KNOW WHAT EVERTHING MEANS IN THE QUESTIONNAIRE ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 17 14:09:58 2001 Anonymous Guest 28 in Cary, Illinois =USA= F28 in Cary, Illinois =USA= Name: Vicki Gwizdak Email: <JIMMYCATZ-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Teacher-assignment - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Bartender, Criminal Justice and Psych major My Astrology: who really cares what the astrologists say, are they in this relationship or are we? - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Wonderful and fufilling. A definate must not to be afraid of. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... crush, or puppy love --The best things about relationship are: Lifelong companionship --The worst things about relationship are: A partner that keeps thier feelings inside --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: fun and loving. Willing to compromise and desire to achieve thier goals (motivated). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Better self esteem --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: need more initiative --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: compromise --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: not my husband! --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: men tend to hold thier feelings in and this frustrates me, to a point where i am more angry than i was in the first place --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personable with others --Regarding Age in Relationship not too young and not too old, otherwise let things happen as they will --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: each person has thier own feelings, so let them live that way --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship important but definetly not practiced --Regarding Love and Sex: they compliment eachother --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i would have waited --Regarding living with someone before marriage: whatever works for you, personally i would live together first --Regarding Risks Well worth what you put into it --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): always use protection, you can never be too safe --A funny relationship story: Being silly with the other person - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Fun, interesting and great for research, but didn't really help me in my relationship.(was that the point?) - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? not sure because i don't know the basis of the research. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Oct 14 17:03:29 2001 Anonymous Guest 49 in Charlotte, NC =USA= F49 in Charlotte, NC =USA= Name: Johnnie Email: <JWea494079-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Researching for topic in our women's group bitter-sweet relationships - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Collector/Minister of The Gospel - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I have been married to the same man for 30 years. I have 4 adault children ages, 29, 27, 22, and 21. I have 2 grandchildren ages 2 1/2 yrs old and 0 mos - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Difficult ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Oct 13 19:44:19 2001 Anonymous Guest 31 in , == F31 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 3 13:02:56 2001 Anonymous Guest 14 in , == F14 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: a load of crap but some of it does have back ground - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it's a conpanionship which cannot be broken --That first relationship was That first relationship was when i was 14 --The best things about relationship are: being held close when it's cold and it's raining --The worst things about relationship are: braking --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: is a person who loves me totally --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: smile at him without him saying im laughting at him --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i get bored easily --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they think i'm never happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being faithful --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you need to talk --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: hands --Regarding Age in Relationship no age doesn't matter (well a 7 year old and a 17 yeah maybe) --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 0 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 0 --Regarding Religion in Relationship i dont have one --Regarding Love and Sex: there diffrent love than sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: special --Regarding living with someone before marriage: is a personal choice --Regarding Risks teasing his bestfriend in front of him --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful --A funny relationship story: i dunno! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation knowing your own mind What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 30 01:39:38 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] yahoo search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relationship is when two beings feel an unforseen attraction to each other,and they don't really know why,but because it feels so good,they go along with it.It sometimes turns sour,but that just means that wasnt THE person for you,but preparation for dealing with that person in a better way when you finally do meet them. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i havent had one yet --The best things about relationship are: cuddling,talking,kissing,holding hands,doing everyday things together,having someone to keep a picture of in your wallet:)hehe --The worst things about relationship are: having to ok everything you do with your partner,no privacy. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? How well - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? why question what feels so good? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 23 18:01:55 2001 Anonymous Guest 24 in , CT =USA= M24 in , CT =USA= Name: Steve Email: <steve1w5-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] looked up "friends with Benifits" on Hot Bot - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Asst. Manager My Astrology: it dosent - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is when you spend time with somone of the opposite sex(or same sex for some people) that you really care about. Somone that you can be intamate with and pleaseure in everyway. It is also somone that makes you smile and you have fun being with. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Good. Her and I went to the prom together and then spent time together at school. Then college came along. --The best things about relationship are: I know this is sick... but Makeing love would defidently have to be included. Cuddleing, laughing, smileing, etc. --The worst things about relationship are: non comunication --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: honesty, sensitivity, careingness, love, physicalness(if thats a word). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: lose weight. listen better. talk more(not be so shy). be more agressive(this is a big one) --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: kids --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you need to listen more then you talk. a lot more! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: yeah ok... if you dont know somone their looks would probobly be the first thing that would attrect you. but its not all that. for me personality is the biigest atractent. If Im atracted to agirl and then after talking to her find out her personality sucks... that it its over. but if I talk to a girl thats not the best looking and shes got a greatpersonality... theres a future --Regarding Age in Relationship it really shouldent matter... but you dont wanan wind up in jail. Id say no more then 5 years difference --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: you lost me here... to confuseing. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Strait... 100% totally strait --Regarding Religion in Relationship if theres love... it dosent matter --Regarding Love and Sex: two totally different asspects. You can love but not be in love. and you dont need to love somone to have sex with them... but you need to be in love with them to make love to them --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: energy! ...hell yeah. totally charged up. Mesureing us was never an issue --Regarding living with someone before marriage: yeah you got to... its like buying a car. you testdrive it first to make sure you like it right. Same deal! --Regarding Risks Tammi and I were at the resivior on her last night here, before heading home(3,000 miles away). We wer sitting on the shore kissing and I wanted to get even more physical. So I went from rubbing her back to massageing her brests. That was defidently a good risk!!!!!!!!! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): safe sex... 100% total safe sex. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Sep 20 10:51:01 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == M in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Yahoo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Sep 17 11:30:37 2001 Anonymous Guest 28 in chicago, illinois == F28 in chicago, illinois == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] for a psychology school assignment - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: is I don't really believe in that..I don't know what my sign would even bee. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people who enjoy being together.Love and respect eachother. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...friends and puppy love --The best things about relationship are: the love and the warmth --The worst things about relationship are: arguing. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: the person to love me for who I am and for the things I do.. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Think before I speak.Stop comparing myself to others so much. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am very open and love to talk...Getting problems out on the table --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: to spend time together talking and expressing feelings --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: respecting the others needs..Responsible for spending time with eachother..of keeping eachother happy --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: communication at a equal level is very helpful --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks and intrests. --Regarding Age in Relationship age dosent matter as long as they two are happy --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: maybe people are afraid to say they are gay...Or are searching for what is right for the individual --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have aaalways been straight, --Regarding Religion in Relationship People can still love and be together if they don't believe in the same faith. --Regarding Love and Sex: love is from the heart and sex is shared with two people from the heart the physical part of love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Is it was like playing Doctor...Experiencing...Not like in a love sense --Regarding living with someone before marriage: is people can make ther own chooses....I believe it is better to live with the amn you are going to marry first.It gives you the opportunity to get to know eachothers habits ect. --Regarding Risks letting them in on real secrets of the past --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it is very important to know who your partner has been with. --A funny relationship story: I cant think of one at this time there has been so many - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was good it made me think on how I really feel about relationships and how I want my partner to be ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Sep 17 09:07:40 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] From my psychology teacher - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Very dedicating and patience is required --That first relationship was That first relationship was...puppy love --The best things about relationship are: the laughter, passion, happiness, and companionship --The worst things about relationship are: getting to know each other and your differences --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is understanding, loving, patient,and trustworthy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: being patient, and more understanding --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I expect a lot fast and I want that person I care so much about to devote themselves to me - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I liked it but I think the questions kind of repeated themselves. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? No, thank you ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 16 22:32:25 2001 Anonymous Guest 26 in Los Angeles, CA =USA= F26 in Los Angeles, CA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] gooogle.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: My husband and I are both fire! Numerologicaly our birthdates are the same. I got a tarot reading that I would marry an Aries 6 years before I got married. Yes, I think those things are important. However, don't let only each individual knows who is feels "right". I wouldn't let anyone get in the way of changing my destiny. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Awakening the Buddha Within Recommended Reading-- Writers: Lama Surva Deyas - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships are mutual connections with others. --That first relationship was That first relationship was destiny. I ran into a very close high school friend at the mall. Oh, but the mall was 2000 miles away from where we went to high school. This was 6 years after not seeing each other. We both left our current relationships for each other. We are married blissfully 5 years... --The best things about relationship are: Talking to someone who understands me, when the whole world is against you. Having someone to hold you tight when you just awake from a nightmare. Someone that knows your inside jokes. Waking the neighbors at 4am because of making love all night long. Experiencing syncronicities that tell you, "this is destiny." --The worst things about relationship are: Feeling complacent because we are too much alike. His weaknesses are my weaknesses, his strengths are my strengths. Having someone know you so well they know what to say to tear your heart out. Having so much passion that it turns into heated fights. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone that is on my level spiritually, mentally, & physically. However, it's important to have someone that balances weaknesses & strengths. Someone that is balanced mentally, physically, & spiritually. Oh, and they have to be great in bed. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Stop having so many moodswings. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have the habit of having too high of expectations of my partner. This effects me because I get disappointed often. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: He has a habit of becoming co-dependent. He doesn't break up with people and starts depending highly on them. This annoys me because I see that as a weakness and I try to help him build strength in his self esteem issues. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Compromise, trying not to become selfish. It's my responsibility to respect my partner's feelings & wishes. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: If he doesn't give my space when things get heated, my neighbors 3 houses down know what I'm angry about. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Eye contact, a smile, & the intial vibe I get from someone. --Regarding Age in Relationship I use to say 5+ until I met my husband who is 9mos older than me. The right one can be anyone, and I don't think someone should narrow the chances because "the one" might slip by.. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 6 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have kissed women and had sexual relations. However, I'm married so I'm commited to my husband only. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I think it's important to have the same morals & principles, however having the same religion isn't necessary. Spirituality is supposed to create harmony not separation. A lot of religions are the same thing just a different name. As long as the other person sees eye to eye with me, it doesn't matter. --Regarding Love and Sex: The are two totally different things!! I've had sex with many men but have only loved one. Sex is just of the physical plane. It only take a gentialia to have sex. Anyone can have sex. It takes two dedicated people to share love. Love does get physical, but mental, and spiritual. Sex doesn't come close... --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I regretted it right after because he didn't let me orgasm. I thought, "what a selfish prick." I just gave him something I could never give anyone else. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You have to live together. You don't know someone until you live with them. Why wait to find out someone is horrible in bed until the honeymoon? More importantly, that they don't squeeze the tube from the bottom up. --Regarding Risks Leaving a good job to spend more time with my partner. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Look at each others test results before having sex. Then decide if you want to have sex. Then have protected sex. I don't think the whole history is necessary just look at the test results then start to put two and two together if necessary. --A funny relationship story: The funniest thing was making crazy love in the car at a very exclusive business area's parking lot. Then he got out of the car and stood on the business park's sign. The sign faces the 405 freeway in Southern California. He danced naked in front of hundreds of cars. A couple days later a co-worker told me she heard someone was dancing naked on the business park's sign. I smiled.. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: Feeling connected to someone spiritually, mentally & physically. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: Complacency - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This was very long. However since I've been so fortunate to have found such a wonderful husband and have such a wonderul marriage. Why not take some time to talk about relationships? - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Maybe some of the questions can be multi-choice. My wrists hurt! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 16 12:45:06 2001 Anonymous Guest 50+ in London, =England= M50+ in London, =England= Name: Email: <borokhoka11-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Graphology Search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: caring individual My Astrology: it dosenot affect consiously - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A much needed socialisation with another humanbeing --That first relationship was That first relationship was.fiery fling.. --The best things about relationship are: confiding and longing --The worst things about relationship are: hostility --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: compatible personality --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try to understand the other person very well --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: emotionality --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: how I am accepted --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being a confident --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: talking a lot --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: face --Regarding Age in Relationship age is not amajor barrier --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetrosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship should not be problem --Regarding Love and Sex: Integrated --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: much needed first experience --Regarding living with someone before marriage: whaterever happens spontaneously is acceptable --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be carefull - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity friends and closeness and curosity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Anonymity - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - pretty satisfactory - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? questions in relation to boss, prents etc. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 14 21:29:02 2001 Anonymous Guest 16 in blah blah blah, florida =United States= F16 in blah blah blah, florida =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ TV Program: ] Montel Williams Show - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student My Astrology: all i know is that i'm a scorpio - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is where you care deeply for someone. Whether it be with your parents, best friends, etc. It doesn't always mean to be considered only for two people of the opposite sex. It could be any two people, or pehaps even more who care about each other equally. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more of a "puppy love". My first relationship was in 2nd grade... so i think it was a relationship! --The best things about relationship are: having a boyfriend --The worst things about relationship are: lack of communication not having a lot of things in common not having much "chemistry" between each other --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Christian cute good personality kind-hearted muscular build (but not too much) tall thin (or average) sensitive --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i don't know --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i don't know --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks --Regarding Age in Relationship age really doesn't matter, but when you have a 18 year old girl "falling in love with" a 55 year old man... i consider that wrong. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Christians should date and marry christians. In the Bible, it says too. Plus, when you marry a non-christian, they tend to bring you down to their level before you even get to bring them up to yours. --Regarding Love and Sex: You can love someone without having sex with them. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't think its right for two people to live together before marriage, because in doing so, you tend to get carried away and lose your values. For example, you say you don't believe in premarital sex, yet when you're alone together and live together, its hard not to. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): to be safe, use protection, no matter what - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none- What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 7 05:35:11 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Sep 1 07:22:50 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 24 22:30:50 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: the best and the worst thing one ever have to endure --That first relationship was That first relationship was... wonderful --The best things about relationship are: friendship --The worst things about relationship are: insensitivity --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to be there whenever she needs me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be better by being more sensitive --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: does not effect the relationship - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Aug 13 17:24:05 2001 Anonymous Guest 43 in Colchester, CT =US= M43 in Colchester, CT =US= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] My Astrology: I don't know anything about that stuff - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I don't write that well. --That first relationship was That first relationship was love at first sight. --The best things about relationship are: I don't know what a good relationship is. --The worst things about relationship are: Monogamy --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Linda --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: too many to list --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: smoking is bad for you. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: my partner does nott have any annoying habits. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I go to woork ever day and have foor the last 14 years and pay all the bills --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: a pretty face --Regarding Age in Relationship 5-7 years younger is about the max. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't seem to have an interest in it. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Hetero --Regarding Religion in Relationship IIt's a nice thing to share and I'm sure it makes it easier around the holidays but I don't think it should be a deal breaker. --Regarding Love and Sex: They're separate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Drunk --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I would suggest marriage, it adds stability & comittment to the relationship --Regarding Risks I have never risked myself for a relationship, or anything else for that matter. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I never thought about it --A funny relationship story: none - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none- What Hindered me most in Relationship? Alcohol - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think multiple choice would of been easier. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Aug 13 16:13:43 2001 Anonymous Guest 24 in wake forest, nc =usa= F24 in wake forest, nc =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: did not have any affect - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: bond between two or more people --That first relationship was intense fiery fling --The best things about relationship are: sex --The worst things about relationship are: none --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: my husband --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not drink so much --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i'm going to work on it --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he's perfect --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: my marriage --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: we have great communication. It's my way or the highway. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: hands --Regarding Age in Relationship age dosen't matter. however my husband is just over a year older than me. I have found in my experiance that this closness in age is very nicce because we have the same childhood memeories of toys, tv shows, ect... --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I hate faggots --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I hate faggots --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is very helpfullto be of the same religion. My husband and I are both catholic. My best friend married a man from Morroco and they were divorced within a yearhe is also Muslim and she Christian. --Regarding Love and Sex: one compliments the other --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: totally clueless --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I slept with my husband on our first date. --Regarding Risks fear of loosing him --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i am married and don't plan on cheating on my husband and if he ever cheats on me i'll castrate him. --A funny relationship story: farting noises between our bellies during sex - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - good stuff ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 10 11:54:18 2001 Anonymous Guest 20 in Fayetteville, North Carolina =USA= F20 in Fayetteville, North Carolina =USA= Name: Madelaine Email: <carolinagirl80-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] altavista.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: maybe it plays a small role in my relationships, but I don't believe in it so much that I'll only date who's compatible with my sign. that's silly. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A romantic relationship is one in which 2 people who are attracted to each other have the benefit of good friendship and intimacy. Relationships in general are relations and interactions between 2 or more people in which they give and take to/from each other, and learn from each other. Each has (or should have) something to give and gain from the other. --That first relationship was It was my first sexual relationship so I consider it my first "serious" relationship. For me, the relationship was important. It wasn't exactly "puppy love", and it was more than a fling. I wasn't in love with him though. The relationship didn't last long enough for love to be a factor. He was a jerk to me so often that I don't know if I ever could have loved him. I sacrificed a lot and devoted a lot of myself to it. Unfortunately, my efforts were not appreciated. --The best things about relationship are: Intimacy. Affection. Acceptance. Comfort. Compassion. Understanding. Caring. Friendship. Mutual Respect. --The worst things about relationship are: Petty disagreements. Not-so-petty disagreements. Disagreements in general. Conflict. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: UNDERSTANDING. Consideration. Thoughtfulness. Respesct. Compassion. Romance. Affection. Caring. Comfort. Friendship. Humor. Intelligence. a love of the great outdoors. Open Minded. Nonjudgmental. Flexibility. Relaxed. Easy Going. Unselfish. Uncomplaining. Laid back. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: less insecure, more confident, worry less, be more relaxed --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I worry too much. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: a stubborn partner is frustrating. but I am still accepting nonetheless. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being dependable, being there for your partner, contributing to the relationship --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I'm the kind of person who has to TALK everything out. If I get in an argument with my partner, I can't move on to anything else until we talk everything over and work everything out. If we dont talk it out, I have this nagging feeling inside me and won't be content until I feel everything is resolved. I guess in that respect I am stubborn, because I can not move on and feel at ease until I feel things are resolved. But I think sometimes it is best to just move on, because I'm such a worry-wart that I want to talk about the tiniest little problem, and then by talking about it and worrying about it, I make a mountain out of a molehill, so sometimes my incessant need for talking makes things worse than they already are. So I think you should balance it out--talk the important things over and let the little things (petty stuff) slide. It is good and healthy to talk things over but sometimes you just gotta let go. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Of course when you spot someone across the room, if you are seeing them for the first time and have never met before, of course you are going to notice his/her appearance since that's the first thing you see. And there is nothing wrong with that. It's important to have attraction/chemistry within a relationship, so it's perfectly natural to be attracted to someone's "looks". But to be with someone simply because they look good is shallow and superficial. I do notice looks of course, but not only am I attracted to looks but to personality as well. I could have the most gorgeous man in the world standing in front of me, but if he didn't have a good personality I wouldn't be interested. As far as looks are concerned, I'm really drawn to eyes, and also the way the person carries himself. I like someone with confidence. Along those same lines though, you can be attracted to personality first and then looks. Say you meet a guy at a party and strike up a conversation with him. Initially you don't really think he's that attractive, but the conversation you're having is so interesting and you're really struck by his intelligence. After discovering similiar interests and hobbies between each other, and after having such an interesting conversation, you will be drawn to that person because of his great personality, and even if you originally thought he wasn't your "type", his personality will MAKE him attractive to you. You don't always have to have looks to be attractive, personality is just as attractive, if not more. I think so at least. --Regarding Age in Relationship Considering I'm 20 years old and once dated a 32 y/o, I say age aint nothing but a number--to a degree. I think it's fine to date someone much older than you, but it can be hard, because when you date someone who's 5 or more years older than you, usually the 2 of you are in different stages of your lives. That's why things with the 32 y/o didn't work out. Well, he had a different reason for ending the relationship, but I feel that it didn't work out because we were in different stages of our lives. He had a 5 y/o son, so here he is taking care of a son, paying a mortgage on his house and talking about investing in another house while here I am worrying about college finals coming up next week. A conflict of interest, you know? It just doesn't work. But it was a good lesson for me to learn. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Definitely true. People are more free-ranging rather than just straight on, straight arrows. No one is COMPLETELY straight. Everyone, at some point in their life, has been a little curious about their own sex. Come on, admit it people!! Heterosexuality is not the one-all, end-all. Heterosexuality is just as much a fact of life as homosexuality. Both are perfectly normal-to me at least. And to me, both are acceptable, and BOTH should be socially acceptable. It's a shame that people in today's society are so close-minded and fearful of what they don't understand, that their ignorance blinds them into discrimination and prejudice against homosexuals. Educate yourselves, grow up, and quit being so damned ignorant. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have "experimented" with the same sex before, hence my acceptance of homosexual and bisexuals. I am totally cool with it. My first homosexual experience was with a good friend of mine in high school. We are still very good friends and keep in touch (it's been about 4 yrs since that first experience back in high school). Ever since that experience, I have found women attractive. But I don't consider myself a TRUE bisexual. To me, true bisexuality is where you would be willing to be in a romantic relationship with a man OR a woman, and actively seek out a relationship with either sex. I haven't been with any other women besides my friend in high school, because to me, it is just for fun. I'm not looking for a relationship with a woman, and I never will. I prefer men much more..women are just for having fun, a little fling. My bisexuality goes to the extent of, if I see a pretty woman, I'll think to myself "wow, she's pretty", but I would never try to hook up with her, because commenting on a woman's looks is where my bisexuality ends. Maybe one day I would fool around with another woman, yeah, I would. I just really like the way things are--I'm open minded enough to enjoy the same sex, yet content and satisfied in relationships with the opposite sex. I like men too much to stick solely to women. :) --Regarding Religion in Relationship Well of course you can always find a relationship in which religion is an issue. Luckily so far I have not run into that kind of situation. I do not adhere to a specific religion and am open-minded to everything. So hopefully if I ever find myself in a sticky situation regarding religion in a relationshp, I will be able to approach with open-mindedness and resolve it. --Regarding Love and Sex: You can have sex without love, aka emotionless sex. But I think it's important to have sex with someone you truly care about, not just some stranger you met at a club. Sex is first and foremost an activity of propagating the species, but it is also an act of love and pleasure committed by 2 people who care about one another. If you want to have sex with random people, thats fine, thats your own thing, but I think with loveless sex comes a lot of loose morals that I certainly don't adhere to. Sex with random people, one night stands, is promiscuous, unsafe, unhealthy, and just BLAH. why run the risk of getting various STDs and/or HIV, why expose such an intimate part of yourself (both physically and emotionally) by having loveless sex with whoever you happen to meet in the club that you think looks good, when you can have safe, monogamous sex with someone who cares about you as much as you care about them? Why put yourself out there to be hurt when you can share so much more with someone you actually care about?... --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: My first sexual encounter, where SEX was actually involved, was obviously, when I had sex for the very first time. And it wasn't what I wanted. Let me just say to all you virgins out there, sex is not always some romantic lovey-dovey experience like movies and the media depict it to be. After that first time, I felt violated, dirty, trashy, just disgusting. I cried. He actually forced himself onto me, and it wasn't the romantic stuff I'd imagined. And it didn't feel good either. Sex hurts (sometimes). Needless to say I was very furious that he forced himself on to me and even more furious at myself that I let it happen, so I stopped him before he got too carried away. Girls, just don't let anyone take advantage of you. Treasure your body and don't let yourself become some plaything for a guy who's just going to use you and throw you away. Respect yourself. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think it's a good idea to live together before marriage. That way, you can get acclimated to each other, discover what it's like to actually LIVE together before you get married. 'Cause what if you got married, but had never lived together before? I think it would be a big mess, because you wouldn't be used to each other's habits, wouldn't be acclimated to each other in respect to living together, and so I just don't think it would work out. Definitely live together BEFORE marriage. --Regarding Risks telling someone how much I love him and worrying I'd scare him away. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): ALWAYS HAVE SAFE SEX!!!!! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life experiencing life, learning about life and life lessons What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance lack of parental guidance, lack of "parental stories" - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes it was very useful. thanks. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Aug 7 07:23:25 2001 Anonymous Guest 47 in durham, nc =usa= F47 in durham, nc =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] My Astrology: in a miniscule way. I usually ask what sign someone is but have no knowledge - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Daily Word from Unity Church Recommended Reading-- Writers: Sheehy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relationship is being a true friend. There to understand and nurture the other. Help them. Understand their bad and good. and in turn have that coming to you from another. But it is truly a blessing to have this and it should be appreciated more than anything on earth. --That first relationship was That first relationship was love and wonderful bonding and after a year we married and then found that we didn't want the responsibilities of marriage but wanted life the way it was before --The best things about relationship are: Talking, doing things together, sex, offering to give and it being received with appreciation --The worst things about relationship are: when the honeymoon is over and they start not treating you special that is a true loss. When you have a lot of family get togethers and the decisions about being a part of them on either side. Seeing where you fit in with their family --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a best friend who is honest with me about all aspects of me and him --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be a calmer person. Not be paranoid. Let things be and go with the flow. Stop analyzing everything. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need more self confidence and less proving myself. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Not working away from home so much but spending more time with homelife and being content to do just that. No gambling or secrets. able to commit --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: you want to be with me and me with you therefore we are responsible for each other, there should be the decision to either be that way all the time or forget trying it out be sure you want responsibility not just today but 2-6 years down the road too. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: when you are together you should communicate like at dinner or when you see each other, not just sit there and have the other person have to grill you to get any information. offer something to the group --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: neat appearance, clean, literate, fair looks, not overweight --Regarding Age in Relationship I like younger people, but would not feel comfortable with the age difference. I had a relationship with someone 11 years older and I think they were too old, because they were ready to retire and go camping and I wasn't there yet. I think the 2-5 range is good, but then you are still transisting in life and may lose touch with each other and split --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: there is surely all of the above --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship it depends on the individuals and what their true identifiers are in the relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are good as a combination and in a relationship I am sure you need both --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was done and insignificant --Regarding living with someone before marriage: if you are planning on getting married and it is discussed in the relationship and everyone knows where they stand in the issue, then living together is a good thing. just living together for no commitment is not good there should be a plan --Regarding Risks confronting your partner about where you stand in line with his children and grandchildren, asking why he never had any ideas about anything, just there usually extremely too quiet. Saying you think you might like to get married --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): use a condom until all doubts are cleared up and hope they aren't keeping any secrets from you, or hope they know where they really are in health --A funny relationship story: when you laugh and cut up and are truly happy for those moments just to be with each other totally complete - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life experiencing the relationship and failure What Hindered me most in Relationship? Alcohol - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was useful in that I realized I have a set idea of relationship, I feel that once one is going people get to a point where they need to design a plan for their togetherness, marriage, or whatever.Future nurtured ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 30 09:22:57 2001 Anonymous Guest 46 in eugene, or =usa= F46 in eugene, or =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] looking for an isp - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - My Astrology: it is "fun" to look at astrology and it even pans out sometimes but I take is with a grain of salt - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Trust & loyality --That first relationship was That first relationship was...on again off again till it was out grown --The best things about relationship are: security --The worst things about relationship are: being out of sync, mistrust,manipulating for personal gain --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a straight forward attitude,trusting, giving, no hidden motives --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more forgiving,less defensive,less sensitive --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: being defensive has been deeply ingrained --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: just listen to me --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to cntribute to the relationship in kind of receiving --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I feel better if all is in the open but it can drive away those who re more secretive, quiet --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how a person "carries" themself --Regarding Age in Relationship in the long run age proximity smooths out some issues but each relationship has it's own rules --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: to each his own --Regarding Religion in Relationship Each couple must work out there own situation, neither has the right to prevail. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is an aspect of love and a good relationship --Regarding living with someone before marriage: each couple has to evalute their own situation. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): know your risks and evaluate, then decide what you can afford - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was interesting, perhaps the timing made it more personally thought provking ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 23 17:13:12 2001 Anonymous Guest 16 in Flushing, NY =USA= M16 in Flushing, NY =USA= Name: Phil Email: <Darkness_Overwhelms-at-Hotmail.com> Web: http://communities.msn.com/cm42p8dq9hf8aioca0lebip1k2&naventryid=100 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: None - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... very painful - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jul 11 16:49:19 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jul 10 10:59:44 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a connection between two people --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i was 14, my boyfriend was 18, so that slightly caused problems. He wanted a serious relationship, and I didn't know what I want, it was just my first boyfriend so I basically went into the relationship blindly... and it was hard --The best things about relationship are: someone i can depend on and love --The worst things about relationship are: not being able to communicate well --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who i can trust, and someone who has a sense of humor and i can talk to easily --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be a little less stubborn, a little more patient --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being smart about sexual choices made. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people dont know how to "argue" or share different opinions without actually getting mad. its important to be open minded about anothers opinion when also telling your own, but people dont always respect the others opinion, or is set on being right instead of the theory that everyone simply thinks differently, and that can cause serious problems. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: i first notice the smile, the mouth in general... i think basically everyone is attracted to physical first because they dont KNOW the other persons personality. not always but... --Regarding Age in Relationship age shouldnt matter... what matters is the maturity level. fact is, if someone is 18 and they are dating someone 26, yet they get along and have no problems, whos to say the age difference is too great? --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i think people are branching out, and those who would in the 40's said they were straight 100 percent because they were taught that was what was right, might have a different answer now because we allow more personal opinions more --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: im mostly heterosexual, but not entirely --Regarding Love and Sex: for kissing, and anything not sex they are two different things to me. but actually having sexual intercourse in my opinion is important to have love to. fact is, sex can cause pregnancy, so you should be prepared with someone you can trust and someone who cares about your best interest --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: rushed, it happened to fast and i think i was too young --Regarding Risks telling them about my past, and all the issues that have gone on in my life. i have trouble opening up to people, for fear of making myself vulnerable, so talking was a big risk for me - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends i had heard a lot of junk from friends that threw me off about relationships ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jul 5 08:57:43 2001 Anonymous Guest 22 in Graceville, FL =U.S= F22 in Graceville, FL =U.S= Name: Tracey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is when two people choose to be in each other's lives on a permanent basis. Usually this is for love. But, later if they are still together they are usually more friends. Sad. --That first relationship was I married him. --The best things about relationship are: Sex for the very first time, waking up next to someone, knowing you have someone to turn to when noone else cares if you are dead or alive. --The worst things about relationship are: Learning to communicate effectively. I am not a mind reader. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I want it all. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: loose weight, be more cheerful. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a habbit of looking at, or making comments about other men, and how they look. But, I'm just looking! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: He need's to communicate to me more effectively what his needs are. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: weighed down, and trapped --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It all depends on the tone of your voice. If you want to discuss something with a man, you cannot start off with that high-pitched nagging voice. Speak normally, and don't use language like "if you'd done this" or something like that, then they will listen because they don't think you are nagging them. They think you are just having a discussion. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I do truly notice everything, but I must say the part I look at the most is the butt. However, no matter how good you look if you don't have a personality beneath all that..goodbye. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is only a number. Love can transend all time. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 4 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am totally straight, however, it is not my place to judge someone else. --Regarding Religion in Relationship go with what you feel is right for you --Regarding Love and Sex: They are two different things, but when both are in place it can be something really special. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was by far the most enjoyable experience in my life up to that point. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It depends on who you are talking about. Personally, I like to try things out first. --Regarding Risks Incredible, and well worth the risk. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I am always as safe as I can be, and try to stay well informed. --A funny relationship story: Not sure, I joke about a lot of things. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This was fun. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Do you feel that the first time you have sex with a new partner is the most exciting, or does it get better the longer you are together? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jun 22 17:59:21 2001 Anonymous Guest 22 in Sydeny, NSW =Australia= F22 in Sydeny, NSW =Australia= Name: Megan Email: <megarse-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Search on Excite - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Bank Teller - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is communication between two people usually of opposite genders. This communication occurs with the ultimate goal of sharing experiences, resources, emotions and procreation. Sometimes this communication can occur between two people of the same gender who experience similar things but cannot procreate. Most often this communication is not sustainable and people tend to have a lot of relationships in search of a person they can share with. Even when things do not work out, then the potential for personal growth for each individual is immense. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... an ill-advised thing which was alternatively bittersweet and horrendously exciting. I was experiencing my first natal Saturn Opposition in my seventh house so essentially it was a learning experience followed by a distressing period of celibacy as Saturn then traversed my eigth house. Sadly, Saturn has moved on but the celibacy still perserveres. --The best things about relationship are: Sex. Companionship. Free outings. Sex. --The worst things about relationship are: After sex. The end of courtship and the ensuing boredom. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Romantic (in so far as he can sustain my interest after the initial love feelings and not make me feel as though I have to work for his continued favour -- he is frickin' dreaming if he thinks that is going to happen); challenging; funny; caring but not too wimpy and definetely NOT too clingy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: The dissapation of an irrational anger at men who try to take more than they have earned from me; the feelings of claustropobia when someone gets too close; my tendency to think men should grovel at my feet until they have proved thier love in the fashion of royalty whilst giving very little in return; the strange and frightening (to them) and immediate change in my personality when I have decided that they have earned their place in my royal court and shower them with all that bridled enthusiasm I have been hoarding. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am too demanding --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Unless they have revolting habits like chewing gum or smoking I think that thier habits and idisyncracies just make them more human and less intimidating to me. Frankly everyone has "habits" and they are none of my business unless they effect my health or well-being. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Commitment, faithfulness and the feeling that you would do everything in your power to make the relationship work BEFORE just giving up. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I tend to 'withdraw favour' and not speak or communicate with someone when I am angry. this is purely to punish him and this is something he will notice becuase the difference between a happy loving me and a cold unloving me is like the difference between antartica and Jamacia. He knows he is being punished witohut any need to resort to violent angst or anger and he is so grateful when I statrt speaking to him again that he gushs all over himself to make it up to me. it is extremely effective and they often will not repeat the crime again. When a man is angry with me I try tio understand why. If I cannot, then I retreat ad wait for him to come to me when he is calmer. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: A man's hands, his teeth/smile and his willingness to laugh and be flattered. --Regarding Age in Relationship Whatever makes you happy, go for it. Although if a man is past the age of 40 without ever having had a serious relationship then forget it. He is a loser. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I beleive that most people think about memebers of thier own gender and this creates a lot of shame feelings. After all, if it were not so prevelant and so deeply felt witihn us then why is it so hotly debated at all? --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have experiemented with other girls when I was very young because I had no access to boys nor the courage if I had had access. I prefer men but I think I would try a relationhip with a girl if the right oportunity presented itself. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Depending on the relative importance of releigion to each individual this may or may not pose a problem. it owuld be useless trying to have a relationship with someone who lived by very strict codes but who felt that they loved you enough to fogo thier faith as they would ultimately resent you for it once they realise that you were serious about NOT ever being converted. Similary I would not like to be in a relationship with someone who has no rspect for my beleifs even if they do not share them. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are different but sex is a pathway to love. Once you have shared intimacies with someone and taken that risk of exposing your most vulnerable desires with them then with proper prepartions prior to the sex act you can develop a very deep and loving relationship. I have never been able to experience true love witohut having first made love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Did not feel a thing. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I can see merit in both positions but I would prefer NOT to live with someone before marriage. Why give so much of yourself without first having some security to fall back on. --Regarding Risks Granting royal privliege to a man and 'doing things' for him like domestic type things. Allowing him to tell me he loves me (the bastards just sneak it in!!!) and knowing that once i hear that I will start to frek out and sabotage the relationship. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Scary. Better to be safe than sorry and in general celibate unitl oyu find someoen willing to undergo tests for oyu. I wish they would invent pleasant smelling condoms. --A funny relationship story: I do not tend to find myself in relationships with people capable of me having a lot of fun with. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity I pretty much felt it was all up to me. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I tihnk it was a wonderful experience to examine my feelings and see which areas I found really hard to answer and what aspects I did not want to approach at all. Also what I seem to be really proud of in my way of dealing with men. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I hate to let a blank space go....ahhh well, nevermind!!!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jun 18 15:54:39 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jun 17 01:41:59 2001 Anonymous Guest 21 in spokane, wa =usa= M21 in spokane, wa =usa= Name: Cameron "Sparky" Email: <laplante-at-mail.wsu.edu> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] personal research about handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: college student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: sharing your life with someone else. getting in somebodies head/heart... letting someone inside your head/heart. appreciating/admiring someone for who they are. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... sort of love at first sight. friends for a year before it started. broke up because we knew we weren't made for each other. --The best things about relationship are: relating to someone. being challenged. learning. --The worst things about relationship are: conflicting ideas/beliefs. TIMING. moody women. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who challenges me, not afraid to teach me something. someone who is not afraid of being challenged. someone who i admire so much that if they have a different viewpoint than i, i will take it into consideration. someone who can kick my ass when i need it. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not being stubborn and picky. more organization. more romantic and conventional. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: when you talk about relating to someone you need to take the specific individual into consideration. personally, i look for someone who challenges me in areas that i lack which means that i there's a good chance that i won't relate to them in those areas but deep down i'm asking them for help. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: it's all about values. she's got to have values and her habits can't get in the way. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: sacrafice. kids. finance. ` --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to fix problems. that usually means talking about them. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: all of the above are what i really take into consideration. attraction is interesting because i find that many of my male friends have fascinations with certain females who they don't really know. i have my own fascinations also, but with different ones than they do. the females they are obsessed with are definitely physically attractive and maybe less so than the girls of my obsession. that tells me there's something underlying. auras probably. --Regarding Age in Relationship i go to college. there are many attractive females there. one of them lives directly below my apartment. she lives with an overly protective old guy. i don't like him. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i think there should be more gay people in the world. gay people are the most simple and peaceful method of population control. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm male. i have a passion for looking at women. i think males are really dumb looking. people say that there's an element of curiosity in everyone. i really don't think i'm curious at all... i am only sexually attracted to females. --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion is really scary when it comes to relationships. when a child is brought up with certain values and beliefs from a certain religious background those are hard lessons to break. i can't imagine being with someone who has vastly different religious beliefs than i. i don't consider myself to be a religious person, however. i think an ideal relationship has to have two people who are devoted to the same cause. two strict christians, two strict jews, two strict mormons, budhists, etc. i think that religion/spirituality can be an excellent pillar of a relationship for holding it together. it can also be the source of much conflict. --Regarding Love and Sex: you can't have really good sex without love involved. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it wasn't bad but i sure hope it gets better in the future. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: my parents were never married. they didn't last very long. my dad is currently in a relationship with a women who he has lived with for 7 years without being married. my mom tells me that i shouldn't live someone before i marry her. that is one piece of advice that i take into serious consideration. i think i'd prefer to get married first. --Regarding Risks most recently, informing a girl that i was attracted to her. i'd known her for two years and as long as i've known her she always made it clear, one way or another, that she doesn't like it when guys like her. a risk that i hope to take sometime is a discussion about politics. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i haven't had enough sex to worry about it personally. i don't think that i'm attracted to females who have had enough sex to be overly concerned about it either. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life learning from other people's mistakes What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: so many people in bad relationships who didn't treat each other well. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - very nice. each and every question on this page i had already asked myslef many times throughout my life. i think all people should have strong opinions about each of these questions before they attempt to be in a serious relationship. i imagine a good marriage counselor would bring these types of topics up for couples to ponder together. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? add the term "spirituality" to the questions pertaining to religion. a question about the view an individual has of themself would be a good one. "do you consider yourself attractive?" I have also always been curious about the difference between the importance of looks in a male's attraction to a women and vice versa. (Ed note: Both suggestions have been incorporated into the current version of the questionnaire.... The Looks one has its own question, and the Spirituality issue is added into the question on Religion.) ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Jun 16 07:02:58 2001 Anonymous Guest 18 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania =USA= F18 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania =USA= Name: Heather Email: <rehtaehmoun-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Unemployed - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Be careful out there. If you are in a abusive relationship find someone to help you even if you have to go to the police and get him in trouble they have ways of getting you away. There are hotlines for you to call and if you need help no matter what age remember that you can always call 1-800-boystown they are always there to talk no matter who you are parent, teenager, women, men anyone who needs help. And men or even women for that matter are not worth killing yourself over. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is something where two people come together to take on the world together. Helping each other out when times get tuff. Unconditional love and understanding. And working twords building a family together. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...I was just to young and in puppy love with a boy my age and he wasn't as mature as I was so things didn't go over very well. I knew he liked me but he wasn't sure about how to go about it because we had been friends for like 2 or 3 years. --The best things about relationship are: Love, marriage, children, and support. --The worst things about relationship are: The down times when both people have come upon a hardship, and there is nothing they can do but sit around and wait. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Love, understanding, communication, and forgivness. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: have bigger breasts, be less sarcastic, be more open, be forgiving, and be at peace with myself. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have too much pessimism and saracsticness, my past relationships have been ruined for this reason. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Well he has a bit of a temper and tends to take our problems out on me but other than that I am pretty happy in the relationship. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: If you get pregnant you have a responsiblity to the child to keep in contact with their father even if you hate them. It takes a toll on someone I know I never had a father my mom got pregnant when she was 16 and she never kept in touch with my father after he left. The other thing that comes to mind is loyalty, being honest and the responisiblity to be faithful to that one person. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I love to debate and disscuss options and different concepts. But I can be serious about our relationship without fighting with my fiance. Fighting is not something I do alot of but if I were going to fight, I comprimise and try to figure out what would make us both happy. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Total and udder attraction both physically and emotionally. It is hard to explain. The first thing I notice is their attitude, then what they look. --Regarding Age in Relationship It doesn't matter. You can fall in love with anyone at anytime no matter the age, color, religion, or culture. I am in love with a man who is 5 years older than I am. My mom is married to a man 11 years older than her, they have been married for almost 15 years and still going. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Be who you are no matter what others think. No one should be allowed to tell you how to live your life. If you were born like that or if you chose to live in that lifestyle it's your dicision and if others want to scrutinize just try to be polite and if they use force either run away or call for help. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Personally I think that it is possible for anyone to find that one person that they love and if they happen to be the same sex then that is the way it was meant to be. Personally I am bisexual. I have had relationships with both sides of the sexes. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion does play a part for many people but I don't think that it should because only one of those thousands of religions are right so not every single one can be right. If we rule out people of a differnt religion we are restricting our minds to the same square minded past. The future is here and now have an open mind. --Regarding Love and Sex: Well to enjoy sex I have to love that person. But that does not neccessarily mean that they go hand in hand. Sex is for reproduction Love is the reason why alot of people have sex. But you can love someone and not have sex with them right? So they are not one in the same. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Magical, the way it was meant to be. If you have sex for the first time with someone you doen't love then it would be a mistake because then you would never know sex in the light of love for the first time. It won't be as pleasant. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: People who think that you shouldn't live together first are the ones who are going to be divorced within 5 years. Look if you don't live with the person how do you know weather your compatible because when you just date you both put on fake masks but when you move in together the masks come off and everyone knows the true nature of the other person. It saves heartache and pain from a failed marriage. --Regarding Risks When I moved in with a guy I met a month before. But it was definately worth it. He is the best guy I have been with ever. And I am engaged to him now after a year and 2 months. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Look if your not careful who you sleep with you are going to catch something no matter what. One day it's going to creep up behind you and say BOO! But I think as long as your careful take birth control use condoms and make sure the person has an AIDS and Herpes test before okaying the first encounter even if you are wearing a condom because it is still possible to contract these. --A funny relationship story: I remember when I was at a school dance and I thought that I would never be the queen of this dance and I got totally undressed and back into my normal clothes then they announced that I won. But the funny thing was that my crush was the king and I had no idea and my family was there. They made fun of me so bad and so did his family because they were both there taking video and pictures it really was quite funny afterward. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance My mom helped me get through every little pitfall in every relationship. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Yes it actually was it helped me realize that I have some strong views and that I have had some experiences that have tought me some valuable lessons. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Q:Have you ever known true love? A:Yes I have. True love is something so special it is a click with a person it is automatically known by both parties. It is intense and erotic expecially when you don't have sex right away because that ruins the whole experience. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jun 6 23:16:50 2001 Anonymous Guest 46 in Parma, Ohio =USA= M46 in Parma, Ohio =USA= Name: Larry Webb Email: <fanart2002-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: artist - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relationships involve freindship love and family. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: sharing good times and sharing and caring for one another. --The worst things about relationship are: Putting up with annoying habits and the other person wanting to change you and having a double standard. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Silence & Taboos ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 16 23:37:50 2001 Anonymous Guest 38 in , Oregon =US= F38 in , Oregon =US= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: techie - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is a give and take of ideas and responsibilities between two people. Learning to tolerate the little things that annoy you or talking through them for better understanding of why it annoys you. Caring and nurturing of each other.. mutually --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a very intense almost worshipful thing... bordering on obsession. --The best things about relationship are: friendship, tenderness, sex --The worst things about relationship are: learning to live with another person without demanding they change or changing yourself to suit their needs, fights (which should be just disagreements but tend to escalate.) --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is openminded and honest, even if the truth hurts I would rather hear that. adventurous, slightly mysterious, caring and very very into touching. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: iwould learn patience, lose some tonage and be more physically healthy... these would alleviate some of the depression that i tend towards. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to learn to not procrastinate and to take charge more. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i had better learn some patience. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Holding up my end of the relationship, doing the things i need to do in order to help keep things going. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: one likes to talk and the other likes to yell.. that seems to be a pattern in my life. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: a mans hair. --Regarding Age in Relationship age is only a state of mind for the most part, however after a certain time lapse there tends to be societal differences between partners.. ie they grew up in different worlds. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: that if people were totally honest with themselves they all have the ability and the propensity to be truly sexual.. no gender bias. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am sexual, i hate the labels. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I wont date anyone who doesnt hold an open view of religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are totally different, you can have sex with anyone.. love is something totally different... --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: whee.. is that all it is about? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: co habitation is great. It isnt for everyone but for me... it works. I had a really bad marriage before and am not willing to take someone on without learning about them first. --Regarding Risks i flew to new orleans to meet my current fiance. we met online. I was so afraid of all the possible things that could go wrong... but it was wonderful. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): educate yourself and your partner, be honest about your past and your present. This allows your partner to make an informed decision about having sex with you. --A funny relationship story: the personal funnies that no one else gets... and the funny noises that get made during sex.. hey if you cant laugh about it... - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model My Grandparents What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - interesting questions. it made me think and thinkin is always a good thing. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon May 7 17:37:31 2001 Anonymous Guest 17 in virginia beach, virginia =usa= F17 in virginia beach, virginia =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two people who have the same interests use those interests to get to know each other better...usually involving strong feelings --That first relationship was intense fiery fling --The best things about relationship are: the way i make the other person feel --The worst things about relationship are: communicating with someone who doesnt want to communicate --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust, communication, honesty, love, charm, whit --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: dont dwell on the negativity be open and honest communicate more frequently --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i'm in a pretty decent habitual pattern --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they wouldnt really affect me all that much --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: take the blame for what i have done and know that its not always one persons fault. i have a job to uphold my end of the bargain to my fullest --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: its always better to talk about whats wrong. dont let it bother you because the other person isnt a mind reader. they may not sense something is wrong therefore you could stay miserable. communication can stop the majority of the arguments. you will feel better after talking about things --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesnt matter if you're in love --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: who cares --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: totally heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as the two of you can get past it then thats all that matters --Regarding Love and Sex: you dont have to have sex to be in love. its great to be able to share a sexual relationship with someone but only if you're ready and in love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i wish i would have waited for a more mature relationship --Regarding living with someone before marriage: by living together you find out about all the habits the other person has and if you can deal with it. if you cant get along living together how can you get along being married? you should live together as a test --Regarding Risks letting the person know exactly how i felt without knowing how they felt in return --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): as long as i'm doing my best to stay protected and my partner and myself get tested regularly theres no reason to dig up old feelings that would come with talking of past partners --A funny relationship story: having the other person be humerous - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - some of the questions really got me to think ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu May 3 15:47:51 2001 Anonymous Guest 25 in , == F25 in , == Name: Email: <piphi262417-at-icqmail..com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] link from handwriting page - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships are when two people ally agaist the rest of the world. More people can ally with those initial two, but the first two are the most important. --That first relationship was That first relationship was with a guy that was about 18-19 a senior in highschool. Iwas a freshman of about 14-15. It lasted a week, litterally. I met him at a bon fire my school was throwing for homecomming. He was my first kiss. He had a 1970's van... Black with a bubble window in the side, it was 1990. I snuck around to see him. My dad was furious when he found out. He said that the guy was up tp no good. He was sly and I was stupid. He slept with 2 of my friends in that week. When I found out I was mad, and stood up for myself and broke it off. He said he wished it would last longer, I said I wish he had kept he johnson in his pants. It was ugly. He actually trapped one of my friends in his house after we had broken up. He took the door knobs off the inside of the house. She had to climb out a bathroom window to get out. He prayed on young girls... I don;t know where he is now... --The best things about relationship are: The first kiss. Nothing else is like that first kiss. --The worst things about relationship are: personalities. They always get in the way. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: stablity and kindness --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: become more open, less panicy, and listen more --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: in ablity to get bored and not listen --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he is too quite and holds too much in. I wish he would tell me how he is feeling when he is feeling it, instead of holding it in until he explodes --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Staying faithful --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Most arguements are started over stupid misunderstandings. If we both just listened or were more clear then the arguemenst wouldn't happen --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Glasses! I love glasses.. I love dorky, intellegent men --Regarding Age in Relationship Age doesn't matter as long as both people are ADULTS. over the age of 18. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think humans are inherantly sexual. It is only willpower that keeps us from actually expirimenting with hemosexuality. In general however, I tend to agree with the "Dr. Drew" philosophy of homosexuality. 99% of the people who are gay have been abused sexually, mentally, or physically at some place in thier childhood. For eveyone it is a different place in development for a person to become gay. With serious conselling a person can change, but they have got to want to change, and not everyone does. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am hetrosexual by choice. I can personally see how homosexuality can be appealing but choose not to participate. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I t would be very difficult for two people that are very devoted to opposite or very unsimilar religions to be together. But if you are so compatible that you are together maybe the one of the people with relize the error of thier thinking and change religions. To others it may not matter all the at much. I would like to believe that love conqures all... but in reality it is more likely that people with similiar religous backgrounds have more chance for success. --Regarding Love and Sex: Totally different. Sex doesn't have to be there for love. Love does need to be there for sex..... --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was akward and very peculiar. I think I have blocked to out to be honest... hahaha --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think that there requires a whole hell of a lot more committment to live together then just being boyfriend or girlfriend, or even engaged. I think you should be married. It takes a lot more to walk away when you are are married. People, by rule, are hard to live with... period. If you live together before marriage you may ruin something that could be very good, just because it happened too early in the relationship. It takes more committment and should not be entered into lightly. Why can't people get married? because they are not ready for that step in the relationship? well then they sure as hell shouldn't be living together.... --Regarding Risks Telling one of my close friends that I was falling for him. I knew it would change things, but that change ended up very good! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): You reap what you sow.... I once had a guy I had just met tell me he didnt have a problem with indiscrimatary sex. That was my que to walk. There is some scarey shit out there... it is not worth one night to ruin the rest of my life... I have more control then that... --A funny relationship story: when I would not accept a date with my current boyfriend. He kept asking me out, and I would find away to have to work instead. Finally he went to my boss first. Then asked me out for out first date. I am glad he did - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends my vice principal at school walked up behind me when I was breaking it off. I was swearing at him. I could have gotten expelled for the things I had said. I was crying, He took me into his office and gave me tissues and water until I calmed down. Then sent me to class. I didn't get in trouble. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends My friends were all very niave, as was I. We had no idea what to expect, nor could be help eachother in any practical way - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think more than just your first relationship should be explored. and the grammar was not all that fantastic. The questions should be worded a little better... ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Apr 29 20:31:22 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is being with another person, for whom you care very deeply. It is the feeling that you do not want to be with another person besides that one you are int eh relationship with. THey make you happier than anyone else in the world. --That first relationship was Serious dating for 8 months. He was in college and I was in High School. Did not work out because he cheated on me and I fell in love with my best guy friend, now my fiancee. --The best things about relationship are: Kissing... definitly kissing. And hours of holding one another. Sharing ice cream. Knowing you never have to face anything or anyone alone again. The tingly feeling in the pit of your stomach when you see them. Talking for hours. --The worst things about relationship are: Loving someone so deeply that it aches. When you can't see that person for a long period of time. The past can hurt when people swell on it. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: exactly what I have. Someone to not judge me and accept and love me for who I am and all of my idiosyncracies. A best friend and a lover. Someone who will listen and elt me listen to them. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more truthful. Not play guilt-trips against my partner. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My habits are piddly things like biting nails and do not affect my relationship. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: His habit fo ebeing late affects us alot. His whining annoys me a little. --Regarding Risks Falling in love to begin with. Trust can be difficult. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend My relationship with my friends was what I wanted in a realtionship, only with love too. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends Friends can be good for advice, but not following it or following it simply because they are your friends can lead to bad friendship and realtionship decisions. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Apr 23 23:56:05 2001 Anonymous Guest 16 in Cypress, Ca =US= M16 in Cypress, Ca =US= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] handwriting analysist - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it is a deep attachment to someone. You want to talk to that person and to be around them. you also want to please them and make them happy. you get a chemical high or a sense of pleasure when you are with the person. it's a commitment that the two of you are there to comfort and support each other in times of need. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a disclosing of deep emotions and feelings that became a lasting friendship and trust. --The best things about relationship are: The deep conversations and the warm exchanges of physical gestures like hugs and holding hands. and the comfort and care the i receive. --The worst things about relationship are: The doubt, and the insecurity. Wondering if you are good enough or if you did something wrong. And the misunderstanding and not finding the right words to express your feelings. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone i can talk to and is interested in what i say. I also want someone with an irresistable smile that would cheer me up if i was down. a soothing gentle voice that would calm my soul. And the looks to drive me crazy with desire. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could be less bossy and more confident in that they will accept me for who i am. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to be less afraid of new things. I can't always have stability. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i don't know what the need to change --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being fateful, and trustful, and being there to support and care for the other person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to just listen then talk later when things are calmer --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: i think it's about look because a person's personality isnt written on the skin --Regarding Age in Relationship i think age does matter and the age should be fairly similar but then i'm fairly young. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 1-7 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm totally straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion doesn't matter it just keeps us from doing wrong --Regarding Love and Sex: love is it's own thing and sex is just furthering the race. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: never had it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i dont' mind living with the person but if i love them then nothing could change my mind --Regarding Risks i told them my fears and just let them know my feelings and flaws --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): they can be avoided --A funny relationship story: i can't remember - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend she was my love and became my best friend, but i still love her What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy i was afriad that i wasn't good enough - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - its was good i get a chance to analyse myself - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? nope nothing ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Apr 23 23:54:24 2001 Anonymous Guest in Cypress, Ca =U= M in Cypress, Ca =U= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] handwriting analysist - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it is a deep attachment to someone. You want to talk to that person and to be around them. you also want to please them and make them happy. you get a chemical high or a sense of pleasure when you are with the person. it's a commitment that the two of you are there to comfort and support each other in times of need. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a disclosing of deep emotions and feelings that became a lasting friendship and trust. --The best things about relationship are: The deep conversations and the warm exchanges of physical gestures like hugs and holding hands. and the comfort and care the i receive. --The worst things about relationship are: The doubt, and the insecurity. Wondering if you are good enough or if you did something wrong. And the misunderstanding and not finding the right words to express your feelings. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone i can talk to and is interested in what i say. I also want someone with an irresistable smile that would cheer me up if i was down. a soothing gentle voice that would calm my soul. And the looks to drive me crazy with desire. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I could be less bossy and more confident in that they will accept me for who i am. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to be less afraid of new things. I can't always have stability. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i don't know what the need to change --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being fateful, and trustful, and being there to support and care for the other person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to just listen then talk later when things are calmer --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: i think it's about look because a person's personality isnt written on the skin --Regarding Age in Relationship i think age does matter and the age should be fairly similar but then i'm fairly young. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 1-7 --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm totally straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion doesn't matter it just keeps us from doing wrong --Regarding Love and Sex: love is it's own thing and sex is just furthering the race. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: never had it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i dont' mind living with the person but if i love them then nothing could change my mind --Regarding Risks i told them my fears and just let them know my feelings and flaws --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): they can be avoided --A funny relationship story: i can't remember - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend she was my love and became my best friend, but i still love her What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy i was afriad that i wasn't good enough - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - its was good i get a chance to analyse myself - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? nope nothing ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 18 14:53:20 2001 Anonymous Guest teen in brockton, ma =u.s. of a.= Fteen in brockton, ma =u.s. of a.= Name: tracy b - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: living - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!!!!! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship, in this case, is a connection between two, or sometimes more, peolpe. It is a very impotant thing in life but it may hurt you, which is normal. Put your all in a relationship until you don't recieve the same thing. At that point, there's no reason to be committed. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a crush and didn't work out --The best things about relationship are: you partner and the love you recieve, also the feeling of belonging --The worst things about relationship are: heartbreak and neglectance --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: them to love and respect me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be older(experience) and have more freedom --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I tend to play when he is obviously stiff --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to face up to your love and express it --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you got something to say, say it now or never --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: gentleness or maybe looks also style of actions --Regarding Age in Relationship if you're bothering anything, do whatever --Regarding Religion in Relationship nothing, it doesn't matter unless it interfears with my life severly --Regarding Love and Sex: if you're ready, do whatever. if not the partner should wait --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it will feel perfect if he's the one --Regarding living with someone before marriage: is whatever works at the time --Regarding Risks saying "I love you" or "goodbye" --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): tell me but i'll still be protected...just in case --A funny relationship story: having one - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation realized it could happen on own What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes it will but it might not because some might not finish this long thing ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 18 08:45:53 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] reseach on sleep apena - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relationship are was hard to keep together when someone else is trying to getting in the way. sometime they are hard to find out what your partner wants. --That first relationship was That first relationship was in it was just puppy love --The best things about relationship are: happiness,a lover,a pantner,a friend,someone funny,sweet, --The worst things about relationship are: getting to know each other --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: just a great person that i can love and love me back too. someone to be there for me - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend yourself What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 18 08:29:52 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in franklin park, == M19 in franklin park, == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Read About it: ] Class assingment - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a bonding between to human beings. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...wasn't intense. It was just a simple relationship. --The best things about relationship are: Is it your destiny! --The worst things about relationship are: trusting your partner --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: the perferct relationship with the perfect partner. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: real be with the perfect person. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: let be what it has to be. What ever destiny has in my path let it take its course. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: no comment --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to act your age. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: listen to those who are arguing because they need to let their feelings out. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the person personality. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age doesn't waht matters is how the person is and what good perspective that the person has on you!! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: be what you want to be??? --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am gay --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was bad>>that when i found out what i was!! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: you should know what you are going to get your selfinto!! --Regarding Risks come out of the closet, and letting the person that i wanted to be with that i was just like him. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): let destinty take it course. --A funny relationship story: when i left my oartner at a club when i thought he had gone with his friends - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it wasn't that useful ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Apr 17 11:42:13 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was falling in love --The best things about relationship are: Marriage children going out love sharing sex --The worst things about relationship are: distance --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Honesty Fidelity Christianity --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: punctuality i spend to much --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: class work money wedding --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I tend to discuss --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Mind Nature appearance --Regarding Age in Relationship similar age --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I know some gay people I know and hang out with move straight people --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship same religion christian --Regarding Love and Sex: they are interconnected --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Unfortunate --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You shouldn't, but i almost did --Regarding Risks exitement --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): scary, but I am not at risk --A funny relationship story: my bed breaking - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Apr 17 11:29:54 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Apr 16 23:15:04 2001 Anonymous Guest 37 in Laguna Beach, CA =USA= F37 in Laguna Beach, CA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a mental, emotional, physical communication-connection --That first relationship was That first relationship was brief & intense --The worst things about relationship are: compromise --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Attitude and warmth --Regarding Age in Relationship Age matters because we're all products of our generation. Context and lasting connectiveness are relevant. Energy levels are important too, --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: People are born with sexual-identities, but social trends can play a part in nurturing experimentation. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship It can play a significant role in child-rearing. If each person has a different faith, there may be cultural conflicts that go unresolved. --Regarding Love and Sex: They were separate issues until I married. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Stupid. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Marriage is a commitment. You can have a "trial-run" by being emotionally & sexually involved over a period of time and keeping separate living quarters. Why rush into co-habitation if you're not sure about someone? Either you're single or you're not! Living together can create just as much of a "trap" as marriage, if that's the concern. From what I've seen, living together often causes more conflict and grief in the long run. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Get tested! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Apr 16 11:04:58 2001 Anonymous Guest 25 in new york, new york =USA= F25 in new york, new york =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - stumbled upon.......... - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Finance - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is when 2 people have on-going contact/communication with each other which usually involves some type of sexual intimacy and emotional attachments. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more of an intense fiery feeling - love-struck....feeling for me anyway. I was 19 and it was an off and on relationship for 2 years. We would split often, but I always felt the relationship was better each time we got back together.... Atleast I felt that way. --The best things about relationship are: i love sleeping next to someone that i love. i love their body heat. --The worst things about relationship are: when other people interfere, such as women coming on to your men or vice versa, or just temptation..... --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone i can trust and count on to be there for me when i need them most. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: i hope that i can be completely honest and faithful. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have a tendency to doubt peoples sincerity and that chases them away. i also hide things from them, such as not tell them where i am going or what my plans are. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i hate when i get calls at the last minute. it makes me feel like i am their last resort. some people agree, but others will say that that is how guys are..... that he did call.... --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Birth Control. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Guys don't communicate effeciently no matter how close you are with them. Guys are more afraid of telling the truth than women are. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: For me, its chemistry. Chemistry is not something tangible, its a feeling. If there is no chemistry/electricity, even if the person is really really good looking... then there is no way I want to touch them. --Regarding Age in Relationship i guess it doesn't matter if you are happy, however i like to stick with someone from the same generation..... --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i accept people no matter what their sexually is. it is all the same to me..... 2 people together who care for each other. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I consider myself heterosexual, but have had 1 bisexual experience. It was fun, but it made me realize that I really wouldn't want to do it again, however I have no regrets. I am openminded and like to try different things. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't matter what religion you or your partner is as long as you both can respect each others practices. --Regarding Love and Sex: i have only made love to one man, but i have had sex with a more.... definitely 2 different things. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: My first sexual counter that involved intercourse sucked. I didn;t know what I was doing and it ended very quickly. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Best way to get to know someone is to live with them! --Regarding Risks i tend not to give out too much personal information.... --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be careful, go to the doctor if you don't feel well and use condoms. --A funny relationship story: I was kissing Brian this past winter and I had gum in my mouth. It got caught in his beard and in his hair. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was good. Its nice to take a look back and remember these types of things.... such as first encounter or funniest memory or first love. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Apr 12 10:07:22 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Apr 8 18:01:45 2001 Anonymous Guest 18 in McHenry , IL =U.S.A.= F18 in McHenry , IL =U.S.A.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] school - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: the companionship between two people --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense love from both partners and we are discussing marriage. --The best things about relationship are: security and knowing that someone is always going to love you --The worst things about relationship are: comprimises --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: security --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more motivated --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: laziness --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i'm pretty much comfortable with all habits --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of eachother and bills and such --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i love to be the one who talk, and he is the one who listens --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: style and sense of humor --Regarding Age in Relationship same age is best, we have the same birthdays --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: gays are bad --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship keep whatever works for you but you should'nt compromise your faiths --Regarding Love and Sex: sex gets better with love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: disapointing --Regarding living with someone before marriage: either way, it doesn't matter to me --Regarding Risks very successful --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i'm lucky that i don't have to worry about them --A funny relationship story: getting drunk and making asses of ourselves - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - the questions helped me examine where i am in my current relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Apr 3 14:11:22 2001 Anonymous Guest 39 in , Colorado =USA= F39 in , Colorado =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] surfing the web - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's two separate humans trying to live one life. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... just a guy I met at work. Nothing special. --The best things about relationship are: sex, intimacy (knowing someone very well), companionship, shared experiences, fun. --The worst things about relationship are: consatntly having to check in and think about what the other person wants/needs. No time to be alone--that person is ALWAYS around, if only in the back of your mind. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who respects my feelings at all times. Who wants to be with me, not feels he "has to" be with me. A friend who likes sex. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: let perceived slights roll off my back: I tend to want to talk them out, analyze too much. I get my feelings hurt too easily. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't put up with enough--I need to stick it out more. Every relationship I hear about has the EXACT same problems as any of mine, but I just dump the guy when my friends stay with him for years. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: men need to be less selfish. They will steadfastly refuse to do something a woman wants to do, and then say if she wants to be with HIM, she'd better do what HE wants [I'm thinking inocuous little things like taking vacations in Victorian homes instead of fishing expeditions]. Yeah, right! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: giving as much as getting, emotionally, sexually, platonically. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you just have to be you. If he is uncommunicative, that also tells you something. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how he carries himself: is it with confidence? or is that cockiness (which is really just insecurity)? --Regarding Age in Relationship I need to be with someone quite a bit younger than myself: men my age are boring, staid, not risk-takers, all into golf and work. BLECH... Age doesn't matter up to a POINT, but if there's too much of a difference, there's something way wrong. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I totally agree! I have never heard anyone else say this, but I have said this for years myself. I know too many people who are attracted to different aspects. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am TOTALLY heterosexual. I have lived in a lesbian world for years (sports) being the only straight woman. If I'd had any leanings whatsoever, I would have toppled to the "dark side" [lesbianism]. I like to say that I am a lesbian in every way except one. --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is completely different: it's animal attraction. Love is deeper, but not necessarily more satisfying. Men usually fall in love with me, but I don't think the sex is that great. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was somewhat of a let-down. Only later did I realize he was just bad [a good case FOR co-habitation, see below!] --Regarding living with someone before marriage: in this modern era, people aren't necessarily marrying for life because we don't run a farm, or family business. In the old days, it sure seemed like marriage was a business proposition more than a love match. So people live together for years--I have friends who have co-habited for 20 years, yet their parents think this isn't a commitment?! Seems like a long time to me!! --Regarding Risks I always take risks in relationships--I don't want to be caught saying to myself "what if..." I--and the man--usually open up quite well and become very close very quickly. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I don't worry too much about it, although I have had many partners. If you are trusting someone enough to sleep with him, you'd better trust him enough to tell you the truth (if he has AIDS, herpes, whatever) up front. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 30 06:28:03 2001 Anonymous Guest 33 in North East, Pa. =USA= F33 in North East, Pa. =USA= Name: KathyJo Email: <kathyjo-at-exotrope.net> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Housewife - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Sharing, unconditional love, TRUST, Communication, Compromising. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...one that I grew to love the person eventually. --The best things about relationship are: Time together, cuddling, walking, just being together. Trusting, communicating, quality time. --The worst things about relationship are: mistrust, lack of communication, no quality time --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Quality time, loyal, communicative, honest, caring, humble, warm-hearted, loves to touch, --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: trust, quit drinking, be more sentimental? --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: they hinder the relationship --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: make me mistrust, doesn't allow me or us to communicate --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: children, cleaning, trustworthy, loyal, communication, personal hygiene, respect for other --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: It takes two to effectively communicate! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Personality!! Gentleness, sense of humor, deep voice, manly.....not feminine, clean, natural and down to earth, and most of all....GENUINE. --Regarding Age in Relationship A few years age difference wouldn't matter, but I think that 10 years would be pushing it!!!! Generally, I am attracted to those the same age and maturity level as me. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: To each his own I imagine. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: HETEROSEXUAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! --Regarding Religion in Relationship Difference is ok...but only if it is not too drastic. Like....an atheist with a religous fanatic. --Regarding Love and Sex: When I feel loved, I want to have sex. When I do not feel loved, I do not want sex. I say that if you love someone, and the love is reciprocated, then they go hand in hand. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: scary, curious, yet felt so good. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Nothing like a test drive! Why not? Need to find out somehow if the relationship can work long-term or not. So...why risk marriage until you know for sure???? --Regarding Risks it can be both --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Well..Im pretty spontaneous with my sexual way myself. But I acknowledge the continually growing concern. I am just happy I am clean, also, I feel, when ones makes their bed, they have to sleep in it. So if they catch a STD, then they have to deal with it. The rish was there's, and "to each his own" I guess. --A funny relationship story: son - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity I had to teach myself, I didn't have much guidance... - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It grew more interesting as the questions went on. I found it to be initially boring, but at the end, I feel refreshed. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Perhaps ask questions relating to the person's particular realtionship at the time, and the others' feelings..? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Mar 28 13:12:26 2001 Anonymous Guest 20 in champaign, illinois =usa= F20 in champaign, illinois =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Paradise Recommended Reading-- Writers: Judith McNaught - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it's fun and exciting but it can hurt too. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense at first and then we took a break and then it was great and exciting. --The best things about relationship are: fun, happiness, sex --The worst things about relationship are: pain, frustration, arguments --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone that is kind, caring and thoughtful, while being trustworthy and sweet. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: thinner, more patient --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: don't really say what i am feeling, keep my feelings to myself --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: yes he is happy --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to be faithful and trustworthy --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it is important to communicate especially when things are going bad --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes and face in general --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter, as long as both people are happy, it doesn't really matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: people can be whateer they want and shoud not be punished for choices that they make according to what makes them happy. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight, but i have no problem with gay or lesbian people. i have friends that are both. --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as both people can come to common ground, then it is fine. --Regarding Love and Sex: sex doesn't come with love. love is powerful and sex can be powerful, but never as powerful as love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: wonderful--it was great and i was really happy. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i think either way is fine, it all depends on the situation. --Regarding Risks living 2000 miles away from him --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it makes me worried to know how much is out there. i have to be protected whenever i involve myself in these activities. --A funny relationship story: too many to write down - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends he is not good enough for you What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance don't do anything that you will regret - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was pretty cool-i wonder what my results will be?!? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Mar 26 14:45:46 2001 Anonymous Guest 33 in woodstock, Il. =U.S.A.= F33 in woodstock, Il. =U.S.A.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] psychology class - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: nursing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Jesus is the Lord of my life. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: boundries in dating boundries in marriage - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: God must at the center. relationship is intamacy that we all long for. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a crush --The best things about relationship are: the stagnent times --The worst things about relationship are: arguments --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a man who loves and serves God through Jesus Christ --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: slow down. not be so busy --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: selfishness --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: we need to recognise what habbits we can live with and those that we cannot. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: honor --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: always ask yourself what would Jesus do? --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: their manner. a gentle leader. --Regarding Age in Relationship within 2-5 years. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: homosexuality is not Gods plan. It will cause spiritual death. we must love the sinner but hate the sin. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship i believe that at the time of marriage they must be of the same faith. --Regarding Love and Sex: sex must happen with love. we can love without sex.homosexu --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: sad. Degrading. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Its a bad idea. --Regarding Risks practicing forgiveness --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): sex is a wonderful gift from God tro be experienced within marriage.it was interesting --A funny relationship story: laughing at ourselves . the differences between men and women. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life reading What Hindered me most in Relationship? Childhood Abuse The Holy Bibleboundri - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was interesting. I wish i had more time for answers. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Mar 21 07:28:47 2001 Anonymous Guest 29 in durban, kwa zulu natal =south africa= F29 in durban, kwa zulu natal =south africa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] Prof/Studies: asca - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: i'm alive - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: seven habits of highly effective people Recommended Reading-- Writers: steven covey - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it is a journey through the soul of another human being ....eventually meeting and merging together as one --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense --The best things about relationship are: friendship,romance ,conversation --The worst things about relationship are: having to disagree about something aor an argument --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a caring considerate person who's main focus is to make me happy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so serious --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have to kick them out of my life --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i would compromise within reason --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: house,kids our relationship --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: when an argument starts i switch off --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship age has no effect when there is love --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: 0 --Regarding Religion in Relationship you are not having a realationship with the persons religion but with the person treat him or her on their own merit --Regarding Love and Sex: they go handed in hand --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: what was that? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: if he cares for you he will marry you --Regarding Risks a roller coaster ride --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): treat your body like a temple and respect it.at all times use protection and get tested if you are sexually active --A funny relationship story: the sability to laugh at yourself - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - really made me think ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Mar 17 10:42:42 2001 Anonymous Guest 20 in boston, massachusetts =usa= F20 in boston, massachusetts =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] linked to death & dying questionaire, this caught my eye - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a close bond between two people. romantic relationships include sexual attraction, while platonic relationships do not. in both types, a strong sense of trust and caring is necessary for success. --That first relationship was i was flattered by his attention b/c i'd never been looked at by a guy that way before. as a junior in high school who's decent looking, i felt that i should've been dating earlier but whatever. when he dumped me i was very very upset b/c i thought that's what was suppsosed to happen. i had been uncomfortable in the relationship and was actually glad it was over after i backed up a bit. --The best things about relationship are: gettinga hug whenever i want one. :) knowing that i can trust that person unconditionally support and encouragement i take great joy in making others happy, so my ability to make this person happy is something else i look forward to --The worst things about relationship are: talking about our problems/issues dealing with the problem of trust being broken (i'm very cynical) sex --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: smart, witty, caring, gentle, honest, open-minded (and 6'2" & buff never hurts.;) --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: both partners are responsible for maintaining the relationship by making sure that the other person is happy and satisfied. relationships take work. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it's hard for me to communicate about my feelings face to face. that goes back to the trust issue - youhave to trust someone inorder to open your heart to them without fear of being laughed at --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: height, build. but he can be an adonis and i won't go near him if i don't like how his face looks. smile is important ttoo --Regarding Age in Relationship it dependson how old you are. for example, 5 years may be fine to use as a cutoff, but what if you're 17 and your potential partner is 22? you live in completely different worlds socially, maturationally and emotionally. but 23 and 28 is different - your worlds are basically the same. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: thatmakes a lot more sense than one or the other --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship reliogion should not dictate who you marry. should i give up a wonderful person because he is not of my faith and marry someone who will treat me horribly? i don't think so. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are totally different. sex is a physical act. love is an emotional bond. youcan have one without the other, or you can have both at the same time. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i haven't had sex but i fooled around with a guy i know and i was disappointed. he was more worried about himself getting off than me. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: why not live together? youlearn a lot more about someone when youlive with them. think about former roommates whowere friends befor yeou moved in together. thinkabout what you knew befor eliving together, and what you knew after. how did that affect your perception of these people? why not do the same with the person youwant to marry? it could save a lot of heartache. --Regarding Risks i took a friend back who'd hurt me a lot, though i had the gut feeling he'd just do it again. tihs wasn't a romantic relationship, just a platonic friendship. naturally he didn't change and i got hurt all over again. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful. condoms are our friends. and i'd say if you're ina relationship you should both go get tested when it comes time for sex. regardless of what either of you thinks you know about your health, do it. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation i learned by being in relationships What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends i had a very close friend at the time who was very manipulative in a subtle way. she didcated alot of how i felt when i didn't even know it ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 15 17:58:40 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in crystal lake, illinous =mchenry= F19 in crystal lake, illinous =mchenry= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] an assignment for psychology class - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: waitress, major hotel resturant management - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is a connection between two people there is a magical spark that only the two people can see and there is a careing and wonderfull ara around them --The best things about relationship are: personality, sense of humor, how far in school, if they are going anywhre in their life, does drugs, has kids, and looks do help but not everything --The worst things about relationship are: environment, love, kids, view and belifes, attitue, and how much they care --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who will love me for me and not how i look or where i work or what i whear. someone who will always be there for me no matter how small or big the problemm. to have a great personality and a wonderfull sense of humor. that will not back down when they are in a bad situation. and someone just like my dad. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so shy and conceal myself in my new town to show everyone what they are missing. (so im told i have a wonderfull personality and people love to be around me but yet i cant meet anyone here in my new town) basically stop keeping to myself and keeping everything inside --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: stop trying so hard when i should get the hint. maybe i overdo it sometimes and that scares people away --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: teach them how to use a phone just to see how everything is going and not hold back fealing even if i dont feal the same way i just want to know how they feal. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: for istance two pepole living together, they should be responible to pay for half the bills and to not cheat on the other person or set them up for failure --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: if there is a lack of communication then there is arguments but if the line of communication is open and you can tell that person anything i see no reason for arguments but only sitting down like adults and talking out the problem --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes, they show your soul then i would have to say personality because looks are only skin deep --Regarding Age in Relationship stay pretty close to you rown age i would say i would only date some one my age and up to 5years older. i personally think that is a good idea to stay in a range or you may have problems with the law for one and for two with you family if you are 18 and want to be with someone who is 70 --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: whatever makes you happy --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight and will always be straight as far a s i know --Regarding Religion in Relationship religon is not something i look for in a person but if someone is that much into there religon then they have every right to want someone who feals the same --Regarding Love and Sex: they are connected but i truley belive that when you are in love and have sex it is so much more enjoyable then when you are not in love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: painfull i wish i could take it back. the person never talked to me again and was just using me for sex and i gave in so i could keep him but that still didnt work. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i think you should live together first i mean with all of the young people wanting to get married and then later getting divorced i think that yes they should try it out to see if this is the one for them it is just like buying a pair of shoes. --Regarding Risks when i told one of my best friends that i loved him. we had been friends with benifits and i could tell him anything. i moved away from home and about a mounth after that i got a call late one night it was him. he had called to tell me how much he missed talking to me and holing me and how he wished i was still there. then i told him i loved him and he told me it back. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): std's have come more aware for me seeigs how i have herpes. but what scares me more than that is teen pregency. i have solved to problem of beeing so extreamly terified of that by protecting myself and others. but i am still aware i know my partners before i have sex im not just one of thouse people that goes and sleaps with anyone. --A funny relationship story: when i was dateing this guy for about two weeks and he called me and said that he had met his soul mate two days ago so we could no longer be together and he still wanted to be friends. i said ok but then like three weeks later he calls me to ask me if i am stalking his new girlfriend when i dont know who she is or anything about her. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family our parents first relized we were together way too much - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i hope it helps others and yes it has helped me to an excent to ask myself the questions to evaluate my relationships - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? how to you deal with your partner coming to you and saying she is pregent? and if a girl pregent how do you tell your partner? i would just blirt it out but when i was pregent i knew before any doctor or test told me so we talked out what we would do if the test came back pregent so it wasnt such a shock ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 15 16:26:18 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] an assignment for psychology class - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a cross of puppy love and real love the only reson it ended was because we spent too much time together. and now we are still grest friends - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family our parents first relized we were together way too much ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Mar 13 14:13:07 2001 Anonymous Guest 25 in Shawnee Mission, Kansas =US= F25 in Shawnee Mission, Kansas =US= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] dogpile.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: There are many different types of relationships. The earliest ones are between a child and her parents. For the child, the bond in this relationship is based on survival and security. The emotion that develops is based upon the parent's fulfillment of the child's needs. The next relationship is between child and peer. This relationship is based on commradery and the child's need for and attraction to people of his own age. Again, the emotion is based upon the peer's fulfillment of the child's need. The next relationship generally occurs in adolescence and is spurred by hormones and a general recognition/attraction to another person based upon more sexual cues than social. At this stage, nature is preparing the former child for procreation and creating the hormonal drive needed to engage in sex. Oftentimes, the first sexual encounter does not occur at an age that the individual is prepared to deal with the emotional aspects of sex, at least these days. We now mature at an age much earlier than we are prepared socially to procreate. Therefore, there's a huge block of time in which our bodies are eager to begin the process, but our social norms do not permit it. Relationships during this period mainly center on dealing with the physical desires and preparing for the emotional relationship. We also develop more non-sexual interpersonal relationships with people in which we experiment with concepts of loyalty, honesty, love, commitment, caring and other characteristics of relationships. Some succeed,some fail. Then, we enter another unique relationship when love and sex come together in one person. A relationship like this is akin to finding a great pair of shoes that you can wear to any occasion, are always comfortable and always look great. You never want to take them off. And, if your lucky, you'll never have to. This person will be your best friend, your most firey lover, your partner, your judge and your redeemer all in one. The final relationship is the one between you and your child. For the parent, this relationship is based purely on love. It is the ultimate, the pinnacle and the purest relationship of all. --That first relationship was That first relationship was puppy love with hormones. --The best things about relationship are: The desire to share every moment of every day with one another. The ability to have a great day reading the newspaper, going for a walk, eating peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and watching a movie. In other words, it doesn't matter what you do, you are going to have the best time in the world doing it as long as you're together. --The worst things about relationship are: The rest of the world makes demands and causes you to be apart. The more the world demands, the further apart you are sent and it sometimes takes a long time to find your way back to the happy place where all is right. Oftentimes, you resent the demands and distance yourself from the relationship because you're afraid of being pulled or pushed away again when the rest of the world calls. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: humorous, loyal, optimistic, energetic, creative, imaginative, open-minded, athletic, attractive, straight-forward, ambitious, fair, moral, religious. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less selfish, more positive, less judgmental, more patient, more kind. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I expect a lot out of relationships and I have a habit of pushing them to the breaking point just to see how strong they are. Though I can forgive easily, it is difficult for me to forget completely. I have a habit of getting irritated and having difficulty bringing myself out of that before confronting someone, even when I'm wrong. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: He could be more sensitive and thoughtful. I wish he would find simple ways to let me know he loves me instead of just saying it. He could be more spontaneous. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: caring for someone physically and emotionally. Being loyal, honest and reliable makes a responsible friend/partner --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I wear my heart on my sleeve. I want to address an issue, resolve it and move on. I also want to be right. I want to discuss everything out in the open with everyone involved. However, not every issue merits discussion and not every other person likes argument or confrontation, not that I particularly love it. My spouse tends to hold back and internalize issues in favor of dealing with it himself and moving on. I have a quick temper and he does not, but he is stubborn and I am persistent. Sometimes we do not fight fairly. He summarizes my explanations and always manages to misinterpret the meaning, which sends us off on a tangent. I never feel good or relieved after we fight. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: While looks is definitely a starter, I really think it's the whole package that end up attracting me to someone. Life lessons and experiences have given me some initial cues to look for. Does he look you in the eye when he's talking or is he looking over your shoulder? It doesn't matter how nice those eyes look, if they're not looking at you. How does he carry himself? Does he have something to hide or does he know who he is? Is he heavy or are those muscles? Does he care about himself or is he a slough? Does he smile easily or is he holding back? When he laughs, is it from the belly or the chest? Chest laughers are so insincere. Does he point with his finger or use an open hand to indicate something he wants you to see? Finger pointers tend to be rude and aggressive. While the face, the eyes and the smile might get me talking to him initially, the total package will determine how long our conversation lasts. --Regarding Age in Relationship It's easier if you're sharing lifes experiences around the same time in each other's life. Being within 5 years of one another is about as far apart as I think you can be without it causing some issues, not that they can't be overcome. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I agree with the concept of there being a continuum of sexuality. Some people are more heterosexual than others who are also heterosexual. You don't have to have had a homosexual relationship to have some kind of attraction for the someone of the same sex. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have never been attracted to another woman in a sexual or physical way. I've thought about it from time to time, as in, if I were gay, who would I be attracted to? I don't really know the answer. I recognize or notice other attractive women, but not in a sexual way just a general appreciation or "how could I look like that?" way. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It shows a commitment to something greater than the individual. It demonstrates a belief in a higher power and a humble attitude about life's journey. I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't religious. --Regarding Love and Sex: At one point in my life they were separate. I could have sex without being in love. Now, I can't imagine the two without one another. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Pathetic. Uneventful. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't think that it's the preference, but it is often the way thing turn out. I ended up cohabitating out of economic necessity, but I wish I had had my space and learned to live by myself first. At the time, I don't think I had the temperament or self-confidence to be alone. --Regarding Risks I feel like the eternal optimist when it comes to new relationships and I plunge in head-first believing that everything will be OK and if it's not, I can fix it. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it's up to you to inform your partner if there's something they should know about for their own health concern or something that will effect them. Otherwise, don't tell unless asked. --A funny relationship story: The strong connection I have with my siblings often causes us to send one another into an irreversable slide of giggles and laughter during inoportune moments. Church and wedding ceremonies seem to cause us the most trouble when we all pick up on a humorous cue. We can't even look at one another when it happens or we'll burst out laughing. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family Parents refused to talk about relationships beyond their own opinion. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Healthy. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Perhaps examine relationships in a more general fashion such as friendships. I think early friendships can impact how well you do in a relationship. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Mar 6 18:02:40 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Google search - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 1 18:31:36 2001 Anonymous Guest 18 in , == M18 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Teacher, for a class project - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: When you find one alien that you like way for than a friend. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...I was young and stupid and thought I was in love. One year later I found out that we were deffinately not. --The best things about relationship are: being with someone you feel a sense of comfort from. --The worst things about relationship are: dealing with a high maintenance bitch! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A girl who is loyal, trustworthy, smart, have a sense of humor, pretty, and shares the same values. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be more outgoing, not so negative, and to be a little more optomistic when dating! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I take things to seriously! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Try, but keep in mind that no ones perfect. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care and protecting my girl. Also to respect her wishes. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: they suck, try at all costs to avoide them. However if your mate is easy going and can see two sides of a story, then argue away! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: nice legs, and a good head on their shoulders --Regarding Age in Relationship I agree, age dosn't matter. Love is love, there should not be any restricitons or guidelines to follow. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't really know. I guess gays to me are a big joke. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I in no way come from a gay family. In fact my family hates homosexuals. --Regarding Religion in Relationship How cares! I sure don't. Again, love is love. --Regarding Love and Sex: I agree with the question! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was the coolest feeling ever:) --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I will live with who ever I want to live with when ever I want to live with them. --Regarding Risks Can't really recall! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be carefull, guy's always wear your jimmy cap! --A funny relationship story: watching my girl and her mom argue over the dumbest things! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Explorations - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was ok, I really didn't learn much - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? NOPE ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 27 01:56:00 2001 Anonymous Guest 15 in london, london =england= F15 in london, london =england= Name: claire Email: <clairehungover-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] Prof/Studies: student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... horrible lust at first then really bad - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 22 15:32:51 2001 Anonymous Guest 17 in Detroit Lakes, MN =USA= F17 in Detroit Lakes, MN =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 20 08:18:20 2001 Anonymous Guest 22 in Chicago , IL =USA= F22 in Chicago , IL =USA= Name: Shanina - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Personal connection between two people. Trusting and loving someone with your whole heart and them doing the same for you. Having unconditional LOVE for that person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love at first then real love --The best things about relationship are: Intimate conversations, sharing my inner thoughts and secrets and listening to theirs. --The worst things about relationship are: LYING, DECIETFULNESS. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A God fearing man, intelligent, good looking , well kept, strong, with a stable income. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Make up my mind when I want to do something, or when I'm givin the choice to do so. Expressign my feelings. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I could not listen to other opinion about my relationship!!! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Owning up to what you have done wrong and being able to except the result of it. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Communication is the key to almost all of problem in a relationship. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Their personality and is there a connection. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age doesn't matter. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: You are either gay or straight no inbetween. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm 0 TOTALLY HETEROSEXUAL --Regarding Religion in Relationship He must be one who believes in God. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are totally different. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: "OH MY GOD". Is this really what people are talking about!!! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: No way would I live with a man before marring him. That's like the old saying why buy the cow when the milk is free!!! --Regarding Risks Opening up my heart and trusting in that person. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Get tested and use protection, it's also good to know about your partners history and for them to know about yours. --A funny relationship story: Having sex in a car parked in front of his house while his birthday party was going on. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Yes this was very helpful. It helped me see how I view relationships.It also helped me think about my previous and current relationship(s) now and, how I should change and what I should change. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 13 20:54:44 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in , Michigan =usa= F19 in , Michigan =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Something intimate between two people to have a close bond to share your heart with eachother to have a special trust for eachother --The best things about relationship are: Being honest and loyal --The worst things about relationship are: the differences and ways people handle things differently good communication is a must --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who shares the same level of spirituality a best friend someone that understands me that i can trust that likes me for me a person to share the same love for music and creativity as i do someone that will always be there for me that i'd be happy living with for the rest of my life --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Let down the wall into my heart trust more and listen without giving advice --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: like i said before i need to trust more let peolple into my heart. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: you always have to understand that everybody's different and we have are own ways to things. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Any realatioship to me should be 50 50 so yes resposablity is diffenetly has to be there --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: some people just want to be heard and its always best to just listen but some want to hear about you and that can be somewhat more of a harder thing to do because you have to open up and trust them. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: well of corse i notice there looks first then the eyes once you talk to then there eyes then there hole personality aftre that i really think plays the most inportant role to test them. --Regarding Age in Relationship For the maturity level I always think that its important for the guy to be older so he can play more of the manly role and it depends i guess just at the same age is best. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: The devil will sneek into this word and make people blind to what he is doing dont be fooled --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I fallow Jesus and to be pure is without sin so do what you will but as for me i will fallow christ jesus --Regarding Religion in Relationship Well its dangerous to unequally yoke yourself to a unbeleiver if your a believer because whatdoes righteousness and wickedness have in common? or what fellowship can light have with darkness? --Regarding Love and Sex: You have to have a balance --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I think this matter is personal and should be kept that way. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Ok if you are in a house and just you to are the only ones in there its like taking fire thats ment to stay in a fire place and letting it out it will burn down the house the fire place is the marrage and fire is sex keep it where it belongs --Regarding Risks Having people actually like you for who you are and laugh about are differences --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): The only way to play it safe is not to have sex at all. --A funny relationship story: I get really goofy once i get close to people so expect the unexpected - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It helped me to show to me how i feel about different life matters and i feel i answerd them acordingly ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Feb 12 19:49:59 2001 Anonymous Guest 17 in Detroit Lakes, MN =USA= F17 in Detroit Lakes, MN =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] school - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people who are attracted to each other and have decided to experience each other on a level above friendship which includes being exclusive. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... it was a dumb junior high relationship. We barely talked, and made out at football games. --The best things about relationship are: The feeling you get when you are content and feel that there is no better place than in your significant other's arms --The worst things about relationship are: jealousy, trust and losing the "flame" --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who i can trust, enjoy and who i know I can make happy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less jealous --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: there are definately things i could improve on --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: yes, everyone has their flaws --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking blame for what you did wrong, following through on promises... --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you need to listen to the other person, no matter how upset with them you are --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how thoughtful they are --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: it's your choice --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship it doesn't matter to me --Regarding Love and Sex: they are two different subjects --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was a mistake --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i think it's completely acceptable --Regarding Risks giving up time with your friends to make your partner happy --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): tell them before you do anything drastic --A funny relationship story: dating a friend - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - positive ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Feb 12 05:22:40 2001 Anonymous Guest 18 in Braintree, Essex =England= F18 in Braintree, Essex =England= Name: Phil Email: <94trowp-at-hedingham.essex.sch.uk> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: The way in which two people interact with each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was... sweet, and it lasted about 5 months but we were mor good friends than anything else. --The best things about relationship are: Friends, laughs, fun, easy-going, closeness and indepence, not getting too wrapped up in your partner and forgetting your friends --The worst things about relationship are: Accepting their view on certain situations, spending time with them- too much, too less, boyfriend not understanding what i want sometimes --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a friend, friendly with my friends and family, good looking fairly intelligent, good in bed, accepts me for who i am. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Accept the differences between us, not think about myself all the time and think about what they would like. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: There alright but i do like my independance which some partners find difficult to accept. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I can live with them if i can understand them --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was more experimental than sexy --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Its all very old fashioned and people have to move with the times,ihave objections. --Regarding Risks Going round to meet the family. --A funny relationship story: My partners friends and how stupid and funny they act when they are all together - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends T become friends before anything else as you have to know them first and respect what they think What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Feb 12 05:22:23 2001 Anonymous Guest 18 in Braintree, Essex =England= F18 in Braintree, Essex =England= Name: Phil Email: <94trowp-at-hedingham.essex.sch.uk> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: The way in which two people interact with each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was... sweet, and it lasted about 5 months but we were mor good friends than anything else. --The best things about relationship are: Friends, laughs, fun, easy-going, closeness and indepence, not getting too wrapped up in your partner and forgetting your friends --The worst things about relationship are: Accepting their view on certain situations, spending time with them- too much, too less, boyfriend not understanding what i want sometimes --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a friend, friendly with my friends and family, good looking fairly intelligent, good in bed, accepts me for who i am. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Accept the differences between us, not think about myself all the time and think about what they would like. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: There alright but i do like my independance which some partners find difficult to accept. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I can live with them if i can understand them --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was more experimental than sexy --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Its all very old fashioned and people have to move with the times,ihave objections. --Regarding Risks Going round to meet the family. --A funny relationship story: My partners friends and how stupid and funny they act when they are all together - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends T become friends before anything else as you have to know them first and respect what they think What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 8 08:01:27 2001 Anonymous Guest 18 in marengo, il =us= F18 in marengo, il =us= Name: christa lindholm Email: <none> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] this is a research paper i'm doing for psychology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: cna - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a best friend, someone you can trust and love, someone you can depend on, the two of you could have something in common, and depend on each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was...in 7 grade and i fell in love, and am still happily in love with him. --The best things about relationship are: trust, honesty, love, sence of humor, has something in common with me --The worst things about relationship are: disageements, friends or family that don't agree with the relationship, or a lack of trust and honesty --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: honest, funny, trust worthy, decent looking, have a big heart, caring, a child lover --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: controll my temper, look upon things he does in a different way - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 6 12:19:15 2001 Anonymous Guest 17 in Winnipeg, Manitoba =Canada= F17 in Winnipeg, Manitoba =Canada= Name: Sara Jane Wiebe Email: <bambi_57-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] from the entertainment section on the yahoo site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: High school student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is when two people from the opposite sex become attracted to each other and they would like to spend more time with each other. So they start dating and wanting to be together 24/7. Which may turn into a life long thing. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a summer puppy love --The best things about relationship are: a wonderful guy with a caring heart. a wonderful city or town to be in. --The worst things about relationship are: fighting, diagreeing with eachother, always thinking the other is cheating on them. Abuse. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a nice, polite guy. with manners and a sense of humour. we have something in common. good looks. always honest no matter what it is. and trusting. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop being so bossy, and try to control the temper that i have. and just be happy instead of miserable. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i can get too obsessive,jealous, and very annoying, and i have a bad temper over everything. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i'd change my habits ina way that some people don't always have to adjust too much to my habits. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: that i will have to be careful of which one takes up most of my time. Like, if it's my friends or my bf. than the other will think that i'm spending too much time with one than the other. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to be the one who listens. and when asked q's i would reply talking. and i would enjoy to have someone to talk to. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: their looks, than their personalities to see if i would be interested. --Regarding Age in Relationship that if the person is at least clost to your age. it shouldn t matter, it doesn't have to be the same age and yet it shouldn't be 30 years older or younger. unless they deicde that they finally met their match. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: that it shouldn't matter what they are. they're all the same inside. so we should jsut respect that --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am a straight person who just loves to be around people of the opposite sex. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it shouldn't really matter what their religion is, they should just be happy for who they are. --Regarding Love and Sex: that love is way bigger than sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i never had one yet. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: is just go with the flow. what ever happens happens. if a couple wants to live together they should. it gives them the opportunity to see if they wold really be able to spend the rest of their lives together without having any problems with living together --Regarding Risks when i was always scared of people be touching me because of what happened in the past. sometimes i let certain people touch me and other times i don't cause i am scared of what they might do. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): that the couple should talk it out first. just to see if there is any danger. they shouldn't get too obssesive over nothing. --A funny relationship story: when my bf and i were walking around and we started to get a little chilly. so we went in to this cabin and we thought we saw something outside, so we both went outside to see what it was and it was a rabbit but my bf got so scared i had to assure him that nothing would happen. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was a little useful. wasn't anything like what i thought it would be. it was fun ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 6 00:12:41 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in Cincinnati, Ohio =U.S.A.= F19 in Cincinnati, Ohio =U.S.A.= Name: Melanie Email: <supermelanieus-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: massage therapy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's too intoxicating to describe. You have to experience it yourself to know the depth of what a relationship really is. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... deep deep love. --The best things about relationship are: The way it feels to first know when you're in love. Sharing special moments with that one you love, and being comfortable with them. Knowing that they'll always be your best friend. --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy. Temptation. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone that really loves me for me. Someone that can be themselves in front of me, and I can be myself in front of them without the fear of rejection. Someone that loves me unconditionally with all of their being. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so demanding. give them a little more freedom, and understand that they should have a life outside of the relationship. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't have any habits. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i love unconditionally. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Knowing the terms of the relationship. Knowing that my responsibility is making my partner happy, at all costs. Being responsible enough to care about them. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: We always talk everything out. We get angry and sit down, talk it out, and figure out a way to make it better for both of us. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I notice someone that stands out in a room. If there are a thousand guys in the room, the guy that catches my eye is the one that I go after. That includes:self-confidence and looks (mildly). The most important thing then is personality though. --Regarding Age in Relationship I like guys not too much older than me, that way we have the same interests. ALso, I don't think I could be with someone too much older because as you get older you want different things than what you wanted when you were younger. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I'm attracted to homosapiens. Love isn't in a gender, it's in a personality and who you connect with. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer men for the most part, but there are a few women that I could actually connect with. Physically though, I am heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It's a personal thing. We don't need to agree about what we believe in except love. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is something you should have when you are in love. Love can be present without having sex though. I won't have sex UNLESS I'm in love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was something we did out of love. We mutually agreed that the time was right. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I lived with my boyfriend, and we weren't married. It's totally acceptable. I wouldn't marry someone that I couldn't live with, and in order to tell if you could live with them, you have to experience it first. --Regarding Risks Being away from them for a month at a time and taking the risk of temptation and succeeding. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): We wouldn't have the problem if people were in love and had a monogamous relationship. Casual sex it too overrated anyway. --A funny relationship story: Everything. We always have the best time no matter what we're doing. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life being best friends with the guy I loved. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - The questions made you really think about important things. Totally useful I think. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Feb 6 00:12:31 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in Cincinnati, Ohio =U.S.A.= F19 in Cincinnati, Ohio =U.S.A.= Name: Melanie Email: <supermelanieus-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: massage therapy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's too intoxicating to describe. You have to experience it yourself to know the depth of what a relationship really is. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... deep deep love. --The best things about relationship are: The way it feels to first know when you're in love. Sharing special moments with that one you love, and being comfortable with them. Knowing that they'll always be your best friend. --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy. Temptation. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone that really loves me for me. Someone that can be themselves in front of me, and I can be myself in front of them without the fear of rejection. Someone that loves me unconditionally with all of their being. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so demanding. give them a little more freedom, and understand that they should have a life outside of the relationship. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't have any habits. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i love unconditionally. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Knowing the terms of the relationship. Knowing that my responsibility is making my partner happy, at all costs. Being responsible enough to care about them. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: We always talk everything out. We get angry and sit down, talk it out, and figure out a way to make it better for both of us. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I notice someone that stands out in a room. If there are a thousand guys in the room, the guy that catches my eye is the one that I go after. That includes:self-confidence and looks (mildly). The most important thing then is personality though. --Regarding Age in Relationship I like guys not too much older than me, that way we have the same interests. ALso, I don't think I could be with someone too much older because as you get older you want different things than what you wanted when you were younger. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I'm attracted to homosapiens. Love isn't in a gender, it's in a personality and who you connect with. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer men for the most part, but there are a few women that I could actually connect with. Physically though, I am heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It's a personal thing. We don't need to agree about what we believe in except love. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is something you should have when you are in love. Love can be present without having sex though. I won't have sex UNLESS I'm in love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was something we did out of love. We mutually agreed that the time was right. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I lived with my boyfriend, and we weren't married. It's totally acceptable. I wouldn't marry someone that I couldn't live with, and in order to tell if you could live with them, you have to experience it first. --Regarding Risks Being away from them for a month at a time and taking the risk of temptation and succeeding. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): We wouldn't have the problem if people were in love and had a monogamous relationship. Casual sex it too overrated anyway. --A funny relationship story: Everything. We always have the best time no matter what we're doing. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life being best friends with the guy I loved. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - The questions made you really think about important things. Totally useful I think. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Feb 4 07:45:08 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in london, =uk= F19 in london, =uk= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: An interaction between two members of the same species over an extended period of time --That first relationship was That first relationship was... I fell in love almost straight away when I was working abroad, he moved to another country i visited him there, it was very passionate and quick and strong then ended as quickly due to long distance. Our feelings never really ended though --The best things about relationship are: intimacy companionship love comfort sex --The worst things about relationship are: dependance mood swings, reliance, jealousy lack of freedom --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a guy who looks good sounds sexy and cares about me who i can trust and is a lot of fun to be with --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less controlling, and try harder --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to stop looking for the next person --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: we would have to adapt to each other --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: commitment monogamy safe sex --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: one person is usually much better at talking than the other. Usually my partner likes to talk about the same thing over and over again even though I feel its been dealt with. We both argue the same way too, calm then slam doors a lot and walk away --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks (first being eyes and smile and physical fitness) then laughter --Regarding Age in Relationship it doesnt usually matter but id say up to 10 years is about right. It matters a lot more when you are younger though. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: this is entirely true and it doesnt matter --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have always been straight and never even thought any different but I respect those who have had other experiences --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as you dont hold upsetting views of that other religion it shouldnt matter --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is a physical act, love encompasses everything, and adds an extra dimension to sex. with love sex becomes making love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was totally ready, I felt the right age and I waited a period of time. I didnt regret anything except I didnt practice as safe a sex as i should have --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You can definitely live together you have to know each other before you get married --Regarding Risks having my partner move to my country even though he'd never been here before, and deal with all that prejudice and effect on my studies --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): They are really scary and I know i havent been as careful as i should but ive been lucky. --A funny relationship story: drinking a bottle of tequila with my partner on a beach in Greece and laughing non-stop, watching my mother flirting with all the young lads - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: distance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - its interesting id love to know how you evaluate the answers ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Feb 2 13:37:30 2001 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 1 07:49:23 2001 Anonymous Guest 25 in , =UK= F25 in , =UK= Name: S Email: <s1jroberts-at-yahoo.co.uk> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] I first found the handwriting analysis site a long time ago while - it is likely - I was hunting for personal development type websites and it linked me to here when I finally got around to doing it. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Yesterday I Cried Recommended Reading-- Writers: not sure - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Basically it comes down to procreation - the human race has just opted to complicate things with monogamy (which isn't natural to a lot of us & therefore causes conflict) etc. It is always the same with us humans! --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a horrible mistake of the being-in-love-with-the-idea-of-love variety. --The best things about relationship are: Er...dunno - companionship? --The worst things about relationship are: I believe being in a relationship can crush or smother an individual's personality (even if it is not a bad relationship - it just happens and you don't notice it at the time it's happening so you don't do anything to prevent it) --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone intelligent but not superior, caring but not sappy, ambitious but not driven and MOST IMPORTANTLY someone who will accept my belief that relationships are a very precice science and approach it that way together with me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Well I've been working very hard this past year to improve me already but I am sure there are stil things like my temper, needing to figure out some way to trust people and NOT HAVING SUCH A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE TO RELATIONSHIPS! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: See previous answer about needing to figure out some way to trust people and NOT HAVING SUCH A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE TO RELATIONSHIPS! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: As long as the person is aware of behaviors (or willing to learn to become aware) and work on stuff I am fairly tolerant. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Children, which I am not currently into. Having had some bad experiences in relationships I am now going through a period of having fun, doing stuff for me and avoiding responsibility wherever possible. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: If the two individuals have a different opinion on this it can lead to trouble (boy can it). Best to be somewhat tolerant and try not to let emotions govern the whole thing. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The persons face followed by his hands and general bodylanguage. --Regarding Age in Relationship I have always rather liked older men - going out with a 33 year old at 19 etc - though as I get older myself if a guy is younger than me it seems to matter less. On the whole it is not really an issue for me. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I do believe that humans are neither 100% one nor the other, that most people have the capacity - in the right set of conditions - to do 'go the other way' (though, of course, not everyone will). --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Like a lot of people I really hate lables etc but personally speaking if it is attractive and finds me so then chances are I'll give it a chance (homosapiens only). --Regarding Religion in Relationship So long as the two individuals are happy with each other - and ideally can smooth things with their respective families - it shouldn't come into it. (Personally though I tend to steer clear of anyone with strong religious beliefs - even a strong belief in atheism - as I am agnostic or more accurately totally ambivalent). --Regarding Love and Sex: There is love and there is sex and they are not one (for me). They can sometimes come hand in hand and it is unlikely that there would be love without sex coming into it sooner or later but there can very often be sex without love (and the love can sometimes vacate the relationship at some later point even when the physical intimacy continues). --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Er, I mean the phrase 'let down' just doesn't say it. The mistake I made was not being honest about it and approaching it next time with the atitude of learning together. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: For me - and in my opinion anyone else who wants to - it make sense to live with someone. If there are children involved a nurturing, stable environment is all that matters and that can be there without a piece of paper and a ring (or, for that matter, NOT there even with the aforementioned acoutrements). --Regarding Risks Don't even get me started - I mean is it just bad luck that I seem to end up with the two timing rats or what? --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I am just careful across the board... Since I don't envision myself in any future longterm relationships the problem of if/when to cease using barrier contraceptives is not likely to be an issue for me. --A funny relationship story: I dunno - I've kinda enjoyed the times when they've injured or embarassed themselves! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Long and tough experience (plus - I hope - learning from mistakes, like e.g. getting into a relationship in the first place! - Oh, by the way, I'm terribly cynical in case you haven't picked that up yet...) What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness I was too young when I first got involved, got into a negative pattern which I subconsciously repeated & it resulted in a whole lot of unhappiness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I thouroughly enjoyed airing my views about relationships (but please note any opinions expressed are purely those of this extremely cynical individual & therefore not to be used in any self-help manuals!!!) ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 18 10:56:40 2001 Anonymous Guest 36 in Davis, CA =95616= F36 in Davis, CA =95616= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: How we choose to behave when with one another and the choice of whom we are with --The best things about relationship are: companionship understanding affection shared values --The worst things about relationship are: my own selfishness and tendency to be critical of others --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: to trust someone --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less withholding --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: life is too short to be concerned with any of this --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: my partner can't make me happy -- only I can do that --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: committment -- can't run --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people are afraid to fight, like it's terminal or something --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the eyes are the windows of the soul --Regarding Age in Relationship does it feel right for you? --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: gay, straight and somewhere in-between --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: have spent a lot of time with men but have loved women easier --Regarding Religion in Relationship lon terms relationships are invariably spiritual, in part --Regarding Love and Sex: Not the same --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: no big deal --Regarding living with someone before marriage: people should no co-habitate -- it such for the woman; they shouldn't get married either for the same reason --Regarding Risks loving someone who lied --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): abstain -- why not? for a life of disease for a moment that passes with someone else that passes? no way. --A funny relationship story: years of grace and good humor -- for all of our complaining - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was amazingly trivial. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? No time left for that. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jan 4 19:48:50 2001 Anonymous Guest 19 in Fredericton, New-Brunswick =Canada= F19 in Fredericton, New-Brunswick =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: University Psyc. Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a bond between two people who are drawn together for a variety of reasons, who learn from each other and who attempt to discover the other person's flaws in order to see if they can accept and love that person in spite of them. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a crazy passionate fling that quickly fizzed out when we realized we had nothing in common. --The best things about relationship are: letting that one special person into your strange little world and sharing your inner self, the good and the bad, with that person. Also, the wonderful feeling of having someone there to hold you when it seems that no one else cares. --The worst things about relationship are: COMPROMISE!!! You often have to find some middle ground when the two of you have different ideas and it can be very tough to establish some mutual agreement or just accepting that you have two different ideas. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who's first and foremost, trustworthy, honest,and loving. I need to know that he loves me and he needs to make sure that I know that he's there for good. I need someone who'll make me overcome my insecurities. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try to be a little less paranoid that he's going to leave me, try to be a little more patient...after all men can be dense (i.e. you need to explain everything in many details because they often tend to miss subtle hints.) --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Well, there aren't many habits that I couldn't accept unless of course, one of them were cheating on his partner! I do however have a hard time accepting a few things, such as illegal habits. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: You are responsible of your actions; you need to make sure that you act in a way that is respectful and fair toward your partner. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Well, if you ignore the problem, it certainly won't go away. the best bet is for both partners to express their feelings, but to do it in a way that won't hurt the other person. If one of them doesn't say how he/she feels, how in the world will the other one know what they're thinking?!? --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I'm most attracted to mysterious guys, but I can't explain why. Looks have a little something to do with initial attraction, but what I find attractive is not necessarily the same as other people's or the same as the media portays physical beauty. --Regarding Age in Relationship I'd like to say that I believe that age shouldn't matter, but I can't because when my sister and my friend dated very older men, I was upset with them. It's not a matter of sex or race, but I can't see how people with huge age differences could have anything in common besides a few common interests. I believe your perception changes with experience and the older partner would already have his/her ideas set, while the younger one may still be exploring life. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that most people probably think about homosexual issues and although most people would strongly deny it, I believe a lot of people are attracted to people of the same sex. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer people of the opposite sex, but I accept that some people prefer someone of the same sex. I think it's only a matter of personal taste. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't believe that religion per say is the problem, but the difference of beliefs on certain issues. As long as there are no opposing beliefs on say, monogomy versus polygamy, then I think there shouldn't be a problem except of course for the ignorant people who will oppose their relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is definitely not synonymous of love in any way. You can have sex without love and love without sex, but usually, when you love someone, you'll want to have sex with them. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: If you're not prepared for it or as in my case not willing, it can be a very scary, life-changing thing that makes you feel really bad about yourself and of men in general. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Marriage is only a piece of paper nowadays...with the growing divorce rate I think that living together before you take the big plunge could avoid a bitter divorce settlement. Living together allows both partners to discover unknown habits about the other that they might not be able to live with or to accept. --Regarding Risks I guess the biggest risk I had to take in a relationship was to share my feelings with my partner because I have always been the kind to bottle up my feelings and I was scared to share them with anyone because that makes a person vulnerable. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It scares me big time!!! Although I know all the risks and all the horrible stds that are out there, I still find myself doing things that could put me at risk of contracting one, but I don't let it run my life. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life observing what went wrong in my previous relationships What Hindered me most in Relationship? Silence & Taboos the unrealistic portrayal of love in movies, tv and books. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I found this questionnaire very useful and it did make me realize certain things about myself and my own relationship that I already knew deep down, but never really stopped to think about before. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Dec 20 10:01:29 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] on Yahoo! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Dec 19 11:09:45 2000 Anonymous Guest 26 in Los Angeles, California =USA= F26 in Los Angeles, California =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Customer Service - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people who compliment each other. they function normally apart and when they come together it's dynamic. There is communication of whatever kind of level that suits them, not determined by outside sources. There is a knowing, and understanding, an acceptance. Respect for time and space. Also a sense of comfortableness, safeness, protection. Compromise. --The best things about relationship are: Having someone I feel a sense of belonging to. Someone I can respect, share, understand, touch. I look forward to being intimate, to sharing s secret passion. Holding hands or just lying in bed. --The worst things about relationship are: Disonesty and the break down of communications. Emotional lashing out, fighting and cheating. One person wanting it (the relationship) more/less than the other. Selfishness. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Intelligent, humorous, open minded, loved by others like family and friends, kindness to others, a sense of self-worth, financially satble, understanding, flexible, able to adapt, spiritual, encouraging, firm with me, but also loving and gentle, someone who thinks I am the most beutiful soul he has ever met. Someone who wants to meet my family and wants me to meet their own. Some who will not rush or push me, who will understand why I need to wait to have sex. Someone who will understand the way I need to be loved and that I will love them with all I have and the only way I know how. a person how is willing to compromise. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: RELAX!!! Don't over think things, don't assume. Say exactly what I mean and not expect others to already know. Don't procrastinate. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a habit of shutting down and not letting others know what is wrong or what is going on. I have a habit of procrastinating. I have the habit of beating a subject into the ground. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: not Cheating, infedelity. Doing your share of communicating, reaching out, and then some. Being Faithful, or honesty enough to say it's over and let it end. a responibility to consider the feelings of your partner, not excluding your own but including. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I'm very very talkative. But also consider myself to be a good listerner. I could be in a relationship with some one who is eactly the same, or not so talkative but an excellent listener. But not with someone who isn't a good listener, because listening, not just hearing, but listening is a big part of communicating successfully. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: well a combination of physical and personality. EYES, the voice, the hands physically and a sparkling smile! Then a personality, which you can't always see right away. A laugh, a sense of humor, a logical mind, kindness. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age matters to me. I couldn't date someone old enough to be my father. I'm a young woman and there are many factors. One main one is i don't want to be alone I want to have children and raise them with someone who will be around. I wouldn't date a teenager, but would date someone younger, but only by 2 or 3 years. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am heterosexual, end of story. ANd have no desire to be with a woamn. Nor do I have the desire to be with someone who isn't really sure if they want to be with a man or not. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It makes complete sense to me for one faith to be in a relationship if you are actively practicing your own. Because if you are and your partner is not, it can, no it WILL create a wedge that turns into a gap. It creates and area where you have to go your seprate ways. It may change the way you feel about your partner. Start to question the relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love & Sex are 2 parts of a whole for me, but also can stand alone. you can love someone and not have sex or you can have sex and not be in love with or love that person. I need to love/be in love with the person I am having sex with and I need to know/feel that from them as well. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I haven't had my first sexual encounter yet. but my only expectation is that my partner will be patient and understanding and whatever happens happens. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I have mixed feelings. But I wouldn't want to compromise the happiness of a relationship by making that an issue. I wouldn't live with a man I am involved with unless we are married. There are other ways of getting to know the habits and ways of someone without living together and besides to me that's half the fun after marriage. It keeps some mystery in relationship if you've ben co habitating there is nothing to look forward to. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I won't have sex with someone without knowing their sexual history, with out us both being tested. If that offend my partner, too bad. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? How well - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I really asked lots of thought provoking questions and made me think. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Please gear some of the questions toward persons like myself you haven't really dated seriously and haven't had sex yet! Oh I'm 26 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Dec 12 11:51:45 2000 Anonymous Guest 51 in Cleveland, TN =US= F51 in Cleveland, TN =US= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] completed death/dying questionaire after previous search on that topic - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Know yourself first, be able to live with yourself, before you enter into a relationship...don't bring old baggage. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "The Road Less Traveled" Recommended Reading-- Writers: Scott Peck - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's a special bond between two people...almost as if the two are thinking as one. Each brings out the best in the other -- each encourages the other's personal growth, and thru life they grow together, in the same direction. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...and still is, a perfect match. The culmination of previous life experiences, self-awareness & growth. --The best things about relationship are: Sharing...positive reinforcement...laughter...great talks...if it's good and intangible, then throw it in! --The worst things about relationship are: Solid and productive communication...even the best of couples take different tracks and issues become misunderstood or misinterpreted. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Honesty...integrity...responsibility...and understand me as a fellow human being who just "happens" to be female. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Calm down, especially when discussing women's issues. Also, I'd like to adopt a more positive self-image. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: My habits don't interfere with relating, since they're apart from my overall behavior patterns or characteristic behavior. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Same as previous question...nothing interferes. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I'm responsible for the consequences of my actions; I have a responsibility to my partner, all my loved ones, to be honest, caring, loving, dependable, and supportive. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Couples fail to recognize that some argumentive issues have nothing to do with them or their relationship...it may be something outside the relationship over which they have no control, yet they end up arguing with each other. Very sad. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: All kinds of cues...verbal: how they express themselves; appearance: do they care about themselves; tone of voice: a clue to their sensitivity...and on, and on... --Regarding Age in Relationship Who cares? Age is relative...compatibility is what matters. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I'd like to see "labels" of any kind discarded. We are human beings first; whatever else we are or choose to be are facets of unique individual personalities & not open for judgement or debate from others. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Good grief...I'm hetero; but count among my dear friends many from lifestyles and ethnic backgrounds different from my own. --Regarding Religion in Relationship If Religion's a major part of a person's life, then they're right to seek out a partner of a like mind. I don't see a fundamental Baptist and an atheist cohabitating very successfully. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sure, they're different! And you'll discover that when you experience Love enhancing sex and making it better. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: With the benefit of hindsight, I now wonder why I was in such a hurry. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I'd advise co-habitation, with legal protection in cases where children and/or real property is involved. --Regarding Risks I do it all the time. To love is to take risks -- anyone who's raised a child knows this. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): It not only pays to be discriminating...it will save your life. Sex may seem desirable, but it's not worth dying for. --A funny relationship story: Too numerous to mention...we're laughing at ourselves and funny incidents most of the time. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Mid-Life How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Finding my own identity, what I wanted in life, and with whom I could share life. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Very interesting...and fun. Thanks! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Dec 10 13:53:28 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Puppy love - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Dec 6 20:00:10 2000 Anonymous Guest 26 in Brier, WA =USA= F26 in Brier, WA =USA= Name: Dawn Merritt Email: <dawnmerritt-at-mailexcel.com> Web: http://www.excelir.com/dawnmerritt - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Link appeared after I submitted a handwriting analysis, so I clicked on it. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Telecommunications specialist - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I have the best communications packages for anyone. Tell me what you need, and I will cater to your every wish at a below average price. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Men From Mars, Women Are From Venus; 10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their LIves Recommended Reading-- Writers: Dr. Phil McGraw - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is a closeness shared between two people that fluctuates depending on what sorts of circumstances those two people go through together, and also influenced on what they experience separately. It may last a day, or you could spend the rest of your life with that person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... an on-again-off-again relationship starting in junior high school and lasted for seven years. Very rocky and controlling - not healthy at all! --The best things about relationship are: In my marriage, I would have to say the best things to look forward to are watching our daughter grow and find her place in the world. Also to have new experiences together, and learn more about ourselves and each other. In fifty years, I want to be able to say that I would do it all again. --The worst things about relationship are: Anger management and learning how to communicate so that our point gets across in a loving and respectful way. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Patience, humor, looks, LOVE, good "physical compatibility", they would have to be willing to go out and experience the world, have positivity, flexible, able to comprimise, willing to pamper me for no reason except that I am there, doesn't question every little thing, willing to go out and be their own person independent of the relationship, NOT JEALOUS, animal lover, --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Accept that not everyone will like what I have to say more, learn how to take things less personally, Work on hearing the person out before making my argument or responding, don't think SO MUCH about my response that it seems I am not going to talk, watch my tone and expression when I am talking, take small complaints more seriously so they don't become large issues --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am still in the "children should be seen and not heard" mindset I was raised in. I still forget that I am an adult and I have to speak up because I am half of a decision making team. I need to work on stating my opinion and dealing with it when people don't like it instead of keeping my mouth shut and assuming they won't like it or won't agree. I need to not take lighthearted jokes so seriously and let things hurt my feelings all the time. I need to keep small complaints in mind so I can constantly be striving to be the best wife I can be for my husband. I need to remember that I may not be the only one having a bad day, and it is not okay to take it out on the people around me. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My husband needs to learn how to say things instead of yelling them when he is angry. I need for him to work on walking away when he is angry instead of shooting his mouth off and saying things he can't take back. He may be sorry, but the words still echo in my heart and it hurts long after the fight is over. When he gets angry, I would respond better if he did not get so close, physically. I feel like a trapped bunny when he is in my face, and I can't function well like that. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Making the relationship a priority in your life, and doing whatever it takes to make the relationship work. When that means you don't go out with your friends, and you stay at home to talk things out, you JUST DO IT!!! A lot of friends come and go, but you have to decide which ones you hold on to and which ones you let go. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I would rather talk calmly and quietly, while my husband explodes without thinking about what he is saying. These styles do not mix, and I end up feeling awful and depressed while my husband has his anger out of his system and can't figure out why I am still upset and hurt, which can lead to another argument sometimes. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile, build, butt, distinctive looks, and personality must be there or all the looks in the world don't matter. If the personality is not attractive, the package loses its luster. --Regarding Age in Relationship For the most part, it shouldn't matter what age the people are. In my experience, though, a big difference in age can lead to a generational gap in the relationship and that can make it difficult to see eye to eye. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think all people have the ability to be attracted to people of either gender. Sometimes we are attracted to people we don't even like all that much, whether we want to be or not. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: My history is strictly heterosexual, but I wouldn't turn down an encounter from the same sex if the situation was right and I felt comfortable. I think as long as you consider all possible outcomes of your actions, consenting adults have the right to do whatever they want to with their bodies. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I only believe that there is a greater power in the universe that is in control, and I can't say which religion is right. If I were in a relationship where that is an issue, I probably wouldn't be in it for long. I don't mind if a person is very religious, but I don't want it forced on me. I am very spiritual, but I feel that is different from being religious. I wouldn't mind exploring my partner's religious beliefs, but like I said, I don't want to be forced. --Regarding Love and Sex: You don't have to have both for either one to be fantastic. But if you are lucky enough to have them both together, HOLD ON AND DON'T LET GO!!! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I don't regret it, except that I was very young. But as far as first time experiences go, it was pretty "ideal." I was in love, and it was very gentle and there was a lot of respect involved. Not the one-timer things that a lot of teenagers have. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: You have to test drive the car before you buy it. That way you can decide if you want to work on the defects, or look for a different model. --Regarding Risks When I met my husband, I was engaged to another man who was a commercial fisherman & not home very much. The biggest risk was getting involved with the man I eventually married, even though it was a "taboo" thing to do. The biggest risk I took was leaving the fisherman - and a million dollars, literally - to be with someone who still didn't know what he wanted to do when he grew up, and then to tell my now-husband that I had left the other man and wanted to be with him. He had moved on to another relationship, so I wasn't sure how he would respond! It was scary to say the words to his face! I had no idea how he would respond. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I'm glad I am married and secure that it is monogamous!! But we did go through the "hassle" of asking the hard questions. In the end, the brutal honesty was worth it. We even went through the battery of tests together to make sure. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life My learning experiences were trial and error in the thick of things. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: I kept going back to a relationship that was not healthy because it was all I knew. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was very helpful to explore a lot of the issues presented. It forced me to look at parts of myself I would rather not look at. But when you're in a relationship for the long haul, you have to accept the good and bad about yourself as well as the other person. And it does no good to acknowledge the "bad" points if you are not willing to work to improve them. It's not easy, but it IS worth it. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 30 19:35:47 2000 Anonymous Guest 25 in , CA =USA= F25 in , CA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's a wonderful thing if both parties are equal. You get what you put in and if your not then something is wrong. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: The butterflies before the first kiss, the first touch the eagerness of waiting ofr the phone to ring, all the new things. And the emotional stability a long term partner can provide. Someone to look forward to at the end of the day or knowing that person's face will be the first thing you see in the morning. --The worst things about relationship are: Trusting the other when you are away. Also the feeling that maybe they are sick of the everyday routine and want the butterflies that comes with meeting someone new. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who loves me and never gets tired of me and who I am. also someone who is not affraid to tell the truth. Someone I can trust in every way shape or form. Someone who likes me just the way I am. Someone who respects me and my feelings. Someone who wants me to be a part of his life and wants to be apart of my life. Someone looking to create a strong long lasting realationship not just looking to get his kicks until soemthing better come along. Someone who can rationally deal with all the things life throws our way. Instead of run from the first scare. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I need to be patient, I get wrapped up and eager knowing it's close to the time I am going to see my guy. Trusting him if he says he wants a guys night out. Not taking it personally if he wants to do something without me. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Being a clean freak. like to have things planned out. I don't like spur of the moment disorganized outings or plans. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I wouls say keep in touch. I get really upset if my guy goes outand does not call me. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Equalness. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: You need to make it safe to communicate the things that are hard to say, and if something terrible comes up then figure it out. Some people do stupid things that they regret, they already beat themselves up they don't need you hounding them too. Be patient and understanding. take turns listening and talking. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The appearance, not just looks but how they present themselves. Although good looks help matters. --Regarding Age in Relationship For some reason I am drawn to younger guys. But I try to keep it around 1-3 years. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: To each his own. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I stick to the opposite sex. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It is important to respect the beliefs of others. This does not mean you have to be the same religion, just don't force your ideas onto your partner, because what is true for you may not be true for another. Never stop another from doing the tings they have found to work for them. --Regarding Love and Sex: I have had sex with people I don't love, and I have loved people and had sex with them. I don't think love and sex are inseperable, but if 2 people LOVE eachother and are having sex, it is probably the most enjoyable feeling. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Never compare anything sex with others experiences. Each time and partner is different, I think it's all about being comfortable with who you are with. I veiw sex as a method a communication, and if you are not comfortable with who you are with then you are less likely to experiment and lean new things. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I have lived with my significant other and I can't say it hurt or helped things. People have habits and if you are one to like to know how things are going to be then go for it, but if you can just deal with things then that is your right too. Whatever floats your boat. --Regarding Risks Taking the first step. Then once that is over and done with, keeping it going or announcing that you would like to take it back to a friend level rather than leave the person sitting in mystery --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be safe, don't be stupid and if you are one who likes constant one night stands, get checked out regulary. You never do know whats out there and who has it or not. Look for obvious signs where possible and always use a condom. It's not a guarantee, but at least it will help. Get checked out and handle things immediately if they come up. Then there is honesty with your partner. --A funny relationship story: My ex boyfriend and I went to a mini golf course and he has this amazing ability to jump long distances so he sees a big rock in the middle of this nasty little pond that looks like sludge and slime, so he decided to jump on it... it was a very far jump. He landed the jump perfectly but what he landed on was not a rock, it was floating foam disguised as a rock, and he sank like the Titanic. He looked so shocked and so grossed out it was sad, but I could not stop laughing. He was neck high in the nastiest, smelliest stuff you could imagine. Needless to say we left the golf course as soon as he managed to got out of the pond. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation Just taking it day by day and dealing with things as they came up What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was long. I thought I was going to get a report or some type of analysis. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Nov 29 00:07:26 2000 Anonymous Guest 26 in flower mound, texas =usa= F26 in flower mound, texas =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a dynamic interface that allows you to see your self as you truly are. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... unrequited love. --The best things about relationship are: being on the same wavelength. --The worst things about relationship are: when only one person cares about the relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: something that does not exsist. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: feel worthy. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have a long way to go. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: wanting to be with me would be a good start. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: honesty is impossible. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: demeanor. --Regarding Age in Relationship people have to be in the same place emotionaly...and age does play a factor in that. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: absolutly correct. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: physicaly i am a straight female. My innner self could be more correctly described as a gay man. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it has no meaning. --Regarding Love and Sex: sex gets in the way and screws things up..always. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: exactly what i expected it to be. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: to each his own. --Regarding Risks disappointment. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): you have to be comfortable enough around your patner to ask those questions. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Lack of Awareness What Hindered me most in Relationship? Rage ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 26 11:56:46 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in , == M22 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] class assignment - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think that if this is for research purposes that you need to eliminate or cut-back on the open ended questions and set it up as either t/f or on a scale. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 26 11:19:18 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is a type of friendship that is more intense than the rest. You want to be with this person more than anyone else, and you want to learn and grow with that person. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... seemed to be love at first sight --The best things about relationship are: friendship, companionship, love, someone to listen, someone who shares everything with you --The worst things about relationship are: being honest and open all the time, seeing eachothers points of views, compromising --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone like me in a way, someone who is open and honest, fun to be around, the kind of person that you want to be around all of the time because they have a unique personality. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be more understanding, trusting of others, not be so tempremental, see people for what they really are and not just what people think they see --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: consistency in my life is very important to me, therefore making change very difficult --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: understanding that they are people to and they can't be perfect all of the time, being there for them even when you don't want to, being committed to that person --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: In my relationship the biggest problem is communication, he never wants to talk and I would rather get it all out in the open rather than avoiding the problem --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: How the person carries themselves, the strong-willed say what they feel type, leader of the pack yet friends with everyone --Regarding Age in Relationship As long as it's legal, to each his own --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: people are confused souls who need to learn for themselves what they want, not be taught --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am heterosexual, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and am open to people of all kinds --Regarding Religion in Relationship It shouldn't matter, olove sees no obstacles --Regarding Love and Sex: they go hand in hand for the majority of relationships --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It wasn't all that I had thought it would be --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I do live with my significant other and were not married, therefore it's pretty obvious what I believe --Regarding Risks I haven't really taken a risk persee, but if I were to it would probably be ending my 6 year relationship and expanding my relationship side. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): If you're not going to be mature enough to be safe, than you're not mature enough to have sex - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It helped me to examine a lot about my own personal feelings about relationships, especially my own. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 24 13:23:15 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in , Ohio == F22 in , Ohio == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] Professor at univeristy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is something that two people share and that they feel comfortable enough with each other to share everything --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: love, friendship, loyalty, security --The worst things about relationship are: distance, money, busy schedules --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: honesty, handsome, mature, friendly, respectful, loyal --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more willing to trust others, be more open, rearrange my busy schedule. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my habits do not inhibit my relationship --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: rearrange busy schedule, make quality time --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: safe sex --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: each person needs to listen and take into account what the other person is saying --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes and sturdy shoulders --Regarding Age in Relationship age does not matter unless you let it --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion can be hindering to a relationship if the two people constantly fight about which church to go to or how they are going to raise their children. --Regarding Love and Sex: there is a difference between making love and having sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Wish I waited. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I have different opinions on this subject. I used to think that I would never live with someone before getting married, however, today I would consider it. --Regarding Risks a long distance relationship --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it is scary. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Child How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Talking to People What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Nov 22 14:30:23 2000 Anonymous Guest 17 in oconto falls, wisconsin =united states= F17 in oconto falls, wisconsin =united states= Name: jane Email: <pooh_20_02-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: waitress - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship should be based on love and trust. how can you love but not trust?? trust is the most important thin. first you have to learn when to trust yourself. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a year and a half long and very intence and alot of love. --The best things about relationship are: hanging out, spending time together, just being able to be with someone you care about and cares about you with no fears or threats around you. --The worst things about relationship are: fighting, when you get close you tend to sound like you are married, not every relationships have there fights only those that love the relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a person to be trusting and faithful and understanding, not so controlling but someone that knows what they want and they will never give up no matter what. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to be more trusting and calm my attitude a little. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Nov 22 14:28:52 2000 Anonymous Guest 17 in oconto falls, wisconsin =united states= F17 in oconto falls, wisconsin =united states= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: waitress - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship should be based on love and trust. how can you love but not trust?? trust is the most important thin. first you have to learn when to trust yourself. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a year and a half long and very intence and alot of love. --The best things about relationship are: hanging out, spending time together, just being able to be with someone you care about and cares about you with no fears or threats around you. --The worst things about relationship are: fighting, when you get close you tend to sound like you are married, not every relationships have there fights only those that love the relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a person to be trusting and faithful and understanding, not so controlling but someone that knows what they want and they will never give up no matter what. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to be more trusting and calm my attitude a little. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Nov 19 18:26:19 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in Cecil, OH =United States= F22 in Cecil, OH =United States= Name: - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] This is one survey I had to choose from to write a paper for a college psychology course. This and others were provided via my professor. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship involves two people who learn and grow to love each other. Both share details of their lives and are very open. Both people are willing to compromise and try to be understanding of differences. A relationship involves two people with similar interests who enjoy doing things together and spending time with each other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love in elementary that lasted for like 4-6 months (can't really remember anymore). --The best things about relationship are: laughing, getting through disagreements and coming to an understanding or compromise, talking about life and meaningful topics, missing the other person for just a little bit, getting excited to hear and/or see the other person even after a lot of time has passed...there are so many things --The worst things about relationship are: the disagreements where understanding or a compromise cannot be reached, assuming what the other person is thinking or how they might react to a situation without really knowing, letting other people get involved in the disagreements,not being able to spend enough time together, keeping information from the other person to avoid an argument, having to face your own truths, seeing yourself in the other person... --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a good listener, someone who can give advice without it sounding like they are telling me what to do, someone who can make me laugh, someone I can sit in silence with and not feel the least bit uncomfortable, being able to cry together, someone who thinks of me when I am not around... --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try to listen better when I am angry instead of letting the anger take over, let go of the fear of being cheated on, learn when it is okay to be a little selfish, learn not to be afraid of my feelings, not jump to conclusions, not keep things from the other person when I think it will upset them, always make the other person feel important, be able to say I love you even whey I am angry --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I can't really think of anything right now. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: learn to deal with some of the things they like that I don't --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: the responsibility of thinking of the other person at most times, letting each other know what is going on in each others lives so one person isn't left in the dark --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: yelling back and forth gets you no where, don't talk or interupt the other person-let them finish what they have to say even if you think you know what they are going to say, sometimes it is best to leave something until later so each persons anger has a chance to settle and talking can be achieved, listen, let the other person tell you their side-don't tell them what happened or what the problem is as two different people see the world through different eyes --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: whether I feel comfortable around the person and whether they acknowledge me even if I don't say anything to them first and if they other person can respect my timidness off-hand, if they seem genuine --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter, love just happens, age differences shouldn't determine who a person is able to fall in love with --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Many people are somewhere in between. People are curious. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am curious. I would rate myself on the scale at probably around 3-4. I have experienced both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. I can't say I really prefer one over the other for their are advantages and disadvantages to both. They are too different in many ways to say that one is better than the other. --Regarding Religion in Relationship each can hold their own view of religion, religion isn't the determining variable although holding the same religious beliefs goes along with having similar interests which are usually a plus --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are two different words. They do not have the same meaning. Love is much deeper, emotionally and physically, than sex. Sex is just physical pleasure. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think people should do what they think is best for their relationship. I have never lived with anyone, but know people who have. I have seen both ways fail and be successful. If two people are committed to each other is shouldn't take marriage to determine that. Marriage is just like signing the final document, it doesn't make a relationship work. I think in the past people were expected to be married to live together but that is slowly changing. --Regarding Risks this may sound disgusting but I couldn't think of anything better for now, but I think farting is a big risk. You never know how the other person is going to react that first time, I think if people can handle the disgusting things in life like that it often makes it easier to break the ice (or wind)and feel more comfortable to share intimacies to become closer --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): go to the doctor, both people, and get checked out. You never know if the other person(s) is being completely honest. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life morals and/or values I have gathered over the years have played a part too. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: I am not a very social person so the number of relationships I have been involved in have been limited due to shyness and/or timidness. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I think this is an excellent questionaire. It made me think about things I don't normally think about. I think all of the questions were really relevant. If people could answer them then it might help them gain a better perspective of their own feelings about relationship. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 17 11:33:59 2000 Anonymous Guest 21 in , OH =USA= M21 in , OH =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Assignment for Adult Aging Class to complete 4 of the 8 questionnaires that the prof provided - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student: Psych Major - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Writers: Dr. James Dobson - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: What is your favorite food? Why do you like that type of food? Well, relationships are sort of like food. Sometimes, when you have your favorite food too often, you may get sick of it and not eat it for several days...unless it was the perfect food. It is a sort of friendship that will help you grow as a person. This special someone makes you better than if you by yourself. They make you laugh, they are honest, truthful, good communicators, express their feelings. --That first relationship was That first relationship occurred out of need. I think I just needed someone to hang out with. once I realized this, I ended the relationship. It was fair to stay in the relationhsip when I knew that I wasn't planning on a long term thing. He was a nice guy, but just not the one for me. --The best things about relationship are: Just being with the person. Taking walks, hanging out, drinking coffee, chatting. Or simply sitting by them, quiet and still, enjoying the time with them. --The worst things about relationship are: communicating feelings and thoughts. It might be hard for some to express what they are thinking, thus hurting the relationship. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: friendship, love, trust, companion, spiritual, intellect, goal oriented, head on shoulders, determined, has decent family background, loves children, caring, loving, expresses emotion, communication, --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less serious, just have fun. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am too goal oriented. I am not looking hard for that special someone. I hope that I do not grow old---alone. I haven't had many relationships. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ?? --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: responsibility to communicate...relationship[s are 50/50 both people must give and receive. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i am a listener --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Personality and appearance. I think there needs to be some physical attraction...but often times that is enhanced by the likes of the personality --Regarding Age in Relationship Age really doesn't matter. Much of it has to do with maturity. Are the people in the relationship at about the same maturity level. For, if one person is serious, mature and the other is always silly...the relationship probably won't last very long --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: When it comes to having sex...most people are either or. However, people may have attractions to the opposite sex, this is normal-but it doesn't mean they are homosexual. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is important that the couple have similar religious backgrounds --Regarding Love and Sex: Two totally separate entities. I feel that people should be in love, and marry before they have sex. Then, i would say it isn't even just sex...it is more of making love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: NA --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i think it depends on the relationship. I would prefer to marry before living together. --Regarding Risks No comment --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I plan to wait until marriage to have sex. I am not willing to risk my life for period of "enjoyment". I think it is overwhelming, and would hope that most people would realize how far back the the history of your partner may go. It is too risky. --A funny relationship story: ?? - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends Watching friends date several people in High School, it just never interested me. Now being a senior in college, I find that I still am not interested in dating. I know the type of guy I am looking for, and for right now, my career is most important. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This was a different type of questionnaire. It seemed like a questionnaire out of a Teen magazine. Where is the consent form? Is this confidential? You should include this information at the beginning of the questionnaire. how are you going to use this information? When will the results be out? What was the relevance of the computer questions? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 16 08:51:46 2000 Anonymous Guest 19 in Wellington, OH =United States= F19 in Wellington, OH =United States= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ UseNet posting ] Class Project - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people with common interests spending time together. --That first relationship was That first relationship was just puppy love in high school. --The best things about relationship are: going out, cuddling --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy, fighting --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: sense of humor, cleanliness, good looks --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more comfortable opening up to someone else --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am too independent --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I am usually the listener --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I have to say that physical attraction is first followed very closely by personality --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't matter as long as you are in love. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that it makes sense --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: mostly heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship the same religion makes it easier, but in the long run it doesn't matter --Regarding Love and Sex: they should be synonymous --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: exciting, different --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it is easier to just move out than to worry about divorce if you find out you are incompatable. --Regarding Risks sharing with someone something personal --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): you have to be careful at all times and as hard as it is, not completely trust everyone. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling Parents shielded me from relationships - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This survey helped my put my feelings about relationships into words ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 2 12:56:49 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - i just typed it in cause im crazy. :) - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Oct 28 14:04:27 2000 Anonymous Guest 32 in Massillon , Ohio =USA= F32 in Massillon , Ohio =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Having a relationship means how you relate to other people. Relationships involve caring, love, support, sharing, communication, loyalty, trust and friendship. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...intense and fiery --The best things about relationship are: Having someone to share things with. Someone who knows everything about you and does things for you. --The worst things about relationship are: Trying to understand everything about each other....communication can be hard, lines get crossed sometimes --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who knows the real me....understands my needs and fears....someone who loves me for who I am regardless of my flaws --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: learn to listen better, and not be such a perfectionist --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have gotten much better at realizing the things mistakes I make and work on learning from them and growing as a person --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I have to be more loose and not sweat the small stuff --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: It means following through on what I say I am going to do and taking my part of the relationship seriously....being and doing what I say I will be and do --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: for the most part things are pretty easy, but there are times when it's like we speak two different languages. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality....sincerity, genuineness, sense of humour, and loyalty --Regarding Age in Relationship age should be fairly close in range --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: People love who they love, but I still think it's either one or the other...the inbetween boggles my mind --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am a lesbian and have only ever been with women --Regarding Religion in Relationship you need to have similar morals and values....a christian and an atheist don't mix! --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex are connected....I can't have sex without love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was exciting and scary but not quite what I expected or wanted --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe in marriage, but being gay, I can't be married...yet. I think living together is acceptable if you realize that it isn't a piece of paper that makes a committment --Regarding Risks trusting that my partner was who she said she was and believing in our relationship even though it was long distance --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): know your partner and be honest about your past --A funny relationship story: misunderstandings that seemed so important at the time but then seem so ridiculous later when it gets sorted out - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life also my family examples What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy also my own lack of experience - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was pretty interesting ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 25 04:20:44 2000 Anonymous Guest 41 in , == M41 in , == Name: Trach Email: <paora-at-paulsmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Teacher - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: dynamic and changing. The need to appreciate and listen going both ways. --That first relationship was That first relationship was lust and impact --The best things about relationship are: intimacy, love, sex, closeness and sharing, learning --The worst things about relationship are: sharing, selfish --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: brains, humour, --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more considerate, partner focused --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: quietness, closed emotions --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: they would need to be considerate --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: fairness --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: men and women are very different. Women like to talk it through there and then, men tend to brood about it longer. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks, appearance and eyes. Intelligence and humour. --Regarding Age in Relationship around the same age --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: people can be bisexual. Therefore the continuum scale is not so clear cut. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetrosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship any religion it does not matter. --Regarding Love and Sex: They are different --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: amatuer. pent up emotions. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: trial is fine --Regarding Risks sexual, financial and love --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): being careful, ensuring that the person who you make love has a clear history --A funny relationship story: getting caught having sex in a garage - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - good experience but too long ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Oct 24 21:22:24 2000 Anonymous Guest 25 in Perryopolis, PA =U>S>A= F25 in Perryopolis, PA =U>S>A= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Realtionships if you are in love mean being honest with other and having your seperate time as well so you can respect each other more. And try to see they point of veiw when we are having problems --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Very intense --The best things about relationship are: Marriage, a lifelong committment, children and having someone as my best friend --The worst things about relationship are: Money, being honest, miscarriage, abuse --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not be so insecure --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being a adult and taking charge of things when others can't --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: You have to listen to both sides of the story and collect your thoughts before you say anything you might regret later on. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the way we communicate with one another --Regarding Age in Relationship Age really isn't that big of a deal as long as your on the same maturity level as the other person. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Half and Half --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: N/A --Regarding Religion in Relationship It really doesn't matter and shouldn't matter as long as you both agree with it. --Regarding Love and Sex: Loving making is a big part in the relationship, for me it's when two bodies become one --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Scared and Frightened --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I feel you have to live with someone before you get married that way you know how they live and they know how you live, it could be something you don't want after you lived with that person. --Regarding Risks to lie to someone I really care and love --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): You have to tell your partner if you have something --A funny relationship story: mistaking a brother as my boyfriend - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Useful ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Oct 21 20:14:30 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Oct 19 14:28:48 2000 Anonymous Guest in Fort Lauderdale, Florida =USA= F in Fort Lauderdale, Florida =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Looking for info on handwriting analysis. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Administrative Asst - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I have been with my husband since I was 16 and he was 18. He is the only man I have ever been with sexually and I am extremely glad I waited -- we had been together for almost two years before being "together." I am now 33 and have no regrets. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a bond or connection between two or more individuals. It is ideally a positive thing, but there are also negative relationships. All relationships take a tremendous amount of energy and effort to keep the positivity in them, but can be wonderfully rewarding if you take the time to work at it. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense, yet comfortable from the very beginning. It slowly faded in intensity, yet the comfortability only increased. --The best things about relationship are: Companionship, intimacy, laughter and love. --The worst things about relationship are: taking one another for granted, adjusting to someone else's needs and wants, lack of privacy. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone to care about me, to want to protect me yet need me in return. Give and take -- sacrifice on both parties when necessary. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: listen better, concentrate more on my mate, give MORE of myself. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my worst fault is my financial planning (or lack thereof). I have a tendency to REact when it comes to money. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: simply being aware of my time and space. Learning that giving me a small chunk of time now will give him a LARGE chunk of a BETTER me later. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: TOTAL COMMITTMENT to each other. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: they differ. I like to discuss ONLY the issue at hand; he likes to bring up EVERYTHING that ever happened. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: someone's honesty -- it shines through the eyes if its sincere. --Regarding Age in Relationship People should be within 6-8 years of each other at most in order to have common interests and memories (the same era). --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: My feeling is that we are born to be heterosexual; life changes one to "think" they're gay. I KNOW this is not the polically correct stand! --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am completely heterosexual! --Regarding Religion in Relationship You must share at least the common thread; not necessarily the same traditions, but at least the same beliefs. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex without love would be empty. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: The intimacy involved when I felt I was "giving" the best I had to the man I loved. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: NO NO NO NO NO!!!!! It makes things too EASY for one or both partners to lack commitment. --Regarding Risks finally giving up my inhibitions sexually. I grew up with a very prudish mother who told me that sex would be my DUTY when I got married. It took me a while to really LET GO and ENJOY!! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): if more people completely COMMITTED themselves to their partner and truly believed FIDELITY is the ONLY answer, the incidence of STD's would dramatically reduce., --A funny relationship story: On one of our first dates at an ice cream shop, I very innocently looked over and asked "Would you like my cherry?" to which his eyes grew ENORMOUS and my face got RED!!! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Learned from family what I did NOT want (and some things I did.) What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness We were completely naive when the relationship began and it was pretty much on our own that we developed a lasting bond. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It felt good to let loose with my VERY UNPOPULAR belief. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Oct 17 23:23:36 2000 Anonymous Guest 17 in saugerties, ny =usa= F17 in saugerties, ny =usa= Name: jessyca fellows Email: <waxl_rose-at-yahoo.com> Web: http://jessyca.nstemp.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] yahoo.com; for handwriting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: none - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: something between two people. they can talk, have fun together, trust each other, stand each other, and be honest with each other. not neccesarilly all of them have to be to work. but they all are good characteristics. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a mistake. lasted 2 years. he was abusive. i was 12-14. i dumped him. --The best things about relationship are: cuddling!talking...musik..fun,excitement..honesty...growth --The worst things about relationship are: being tied down, cant explore other options.. other preferences.. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: attractiveness, to me, and to others. intellgence. honesty. willing to do what i want, most of the time. doesnt argue. believes in a lot of what i believe in. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: trusting. i dont trust people. i always think they are lying to me, that they are fake. i make myself beleive things that arent true. i dont know why, i dont know how, i dont know how to stop. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to be the person that i want to be in my head, i think its possible but i forget to control myself. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i usually am pretty open minded when itcomes to my partner, in any situation. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: its my responsibility to live up to not what is expected of me, but i what i perceive(d) myself to be to them. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i like to argue. about just about everything. i am the talker. i always tell the other person in the arguement to shut up. unless, they are telling me what i want to hear. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: depending on where i am meet them. computer: its definatly personality.. in person, id say its based more on looks initially. --Regarding Age in Relationship i dont think age matters, not biological age anyway. i think your mental age should be what its based on. far extremes exepted from that statement (11,12 years old and younger) --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i dont think people fit into these categories. i think people are attracted to the minds of the person, not the sex. im not talking about sex, im talking about relationships, mental relationships. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i would have to say that i am bisexual, according to the generalizing of home- and hetero- sexuals. --Regarding Religion in Relationship as long as both people are tolerable, and tolerant, than religion in relationships is irrelevant. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex usually come as one. they can be seperate, i dont think its wrong, i think you have to mentally aware of when it is one and when it is not. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was awful. not what i wanted or expected.. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together before marraige is a good thing. you want to know if you are compatible enough to make the ultimate commitment to someone. --Regarding Risks i drank for almost 2 years straight, not a good risk. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): you should be able to trust your partner. you shouldnt just sleep with anyone, and if you do, you should have them tested, and yourself, and use protection against stds. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Alcohol - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i had to think about my answers. thats a good thing. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Oct 13 21:57:40 2000 Anonymous Guest 16 in Melbourne, Vic =Australia= F16 in Melbourne, Vic =Australia= Name: Courtney Brown Email: <princessc25-at-hotmail.com> Web: http://WWW.angelfire.com/vt/courtneybabe/misscourtney.html - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: True love is rare....but keep looking....because it could be you who finds it - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship and when two people open up their hearts, feeling, emotions to one another and become deeply involved, learnng from one another and helping one another get by. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...deeply emotional, like soulmates, and true love --The best things about relationship are: Making love on a beach, and talking all night about anything and everything. --The worst things about relationship are: fighting about thing that you don't agree on --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who's honest, loving, sensative, loyal, and perfect for me.....to sum it up in two words.....i want Peter Whitwood --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: lose weight, be nicer and more understanding, and of course not so selfish --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need some help, and my soulmate cold be the perfect person to help me --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i love all of his little faults.....it's what makes him human.....and i love that --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being responsible for my own actions.....and having a responsibility to my lover --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i'm a big talker and Peter''s great at listening and talking also.......and helping me when i'm down, but we do argue sometimes......we can both be childish occasionally --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: his mind.....personality definately....his laugh, voice and looks come in there somewhere too, but they are not important like sense of humour and senativity --Regarding Age in Relationship well age shouldn't matter......but alot of the time it does --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: everyone has gay tendecies.....just some more than others --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i like males much more than females...but in the future i might experiment.....one with a guy aswell though --Regarding Religion in Relationship it should not be talked about.....me and Peter are different and do not agree on it at all really, except the fact that god loves us both --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totally different, you can have love without sex.....and unfortunately you can have sex without love --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i only did what i did.........because the real person i loved was neglecting me.....i regret every second of it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It's a choice up to the couple, i'd probably prefer living with the guy for a while before marrige --Regarding Risks letting Peter into my heart after all the heart break i've endured.......it was tough --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): USES CONDOMS for god sakes --A funny relationship story: well everytime i speak to Peter on the phone he gets me giggling... - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was interesting - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? n/a ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 11 23:00:43 2000 Anonymous Guest 44 in Vancouver, BC =Canada= M44 in Vancouver, BC =Canada= Name: Peter Email: <peter_sf-at-excite.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] searched on Yahoo for meaning of a specific tarot card - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: self employed, consultant - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is energy shared between two people, hopefully, of the kind, supportive variety, but not necessarily. --That first relationship was That first relationship was an unintense fling. --The best things about relationship are: companionship. --The worst things about relationship are: unresolvable conflict --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a happy, openminded, sharing person. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less "know it all", less defensive. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my worst habits are procrastination and worry over the future. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I find it difficult to talk about other peoples habits that bother me, even if they damage the relationship, and the other person doesn't realize it. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: sharing duties, using shared resources wisely --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: taking timeouts really helps, as does avoiding "you statements". --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes and face --Regarding Age in Relationship I go with astrological compatibility, but age can matter, because personal preferences can be generational. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I agree with the Kinsey Report. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm probably a 3 -- I can be attracted to men, but it is their feminine virtues that are attractive -- I find nothing attractive about a penis, and have no desire to get close to someone elses penis. --Regarding Religion in Relationship people should be closely aligned on matters such as religion, politics, sex and diet. --Regarding Love and Sex: They're not synonymous, love without sex is fine, sex without love can be dangerous. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was a disappointment, it was also unsafe, and terrified me. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: co-habitation before marriage, absolutely. children after marriage, maybe. --Regarding Risks revealing my feelings. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be careful, don't enter a partnership you can't trust, take responsibility, keep your immune system strong. --A funny relationship story: Nothing comes to mind. But there have been funny incidents with the pets. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: my (now ex) wife helped the most, followed by counselling. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was useful -- thought provoking -- but I do wish I had something more interesting to do. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? This was lot of questions -- I wonder how many people get through them all, and where they even go? What are you going to do with this data? Anyway -- other questions that would be intereting to me are about fidelity/infidelity, open relationships, etc. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 11 03:39:19 2000 Anonymous Guest 36 in Christchurch, South Island =New Zealand= F36 in Christchurch, South Island =New Zealand= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Married to my first love for 18 years have been together 19 years we have two children boy 17 and girl 11 extremely happy family who never argue just agree to disagree - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: The joining of to people heart and soul --That first relationship was That first relationship was...love at first site that lead to marriage --The best things about relationship are: Never feeling unloved or alone --The worst things about relationship are: Lying and decieving --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: An honest person who you can trust and is my friend and lover --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Not talk so much let others talk more --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Ask yourself every time something annoys you can you live with this till death do you part or will it eat away at you till snap no more --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Family children mortgage bills --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: So many people think they have to yell to make their point when in fact a simple discussion would be more effective --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The face and eyes --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is not important between adults --Regarding Religion in Relationship We each have the right to believe in what we choose to believe --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is an emotion sex is an act --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Fear pain pleasure satisafaction --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Marriage is living together the only difference is you have a piece of paper that says its official --Regarding Risks opening your heart to someone who could crush it anytime --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Always be responsible for yourself and your partner --A funny relationship story: My entire relationship is built on the foundation of humor - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Nice to say what I truely feel and believe ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Oct 4 04:26:21 2000 Anonymous Guest 42 in memphis, tn =usa= F42 in memphis, tn =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: homemaker - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: married mom of 6, same mom and dad - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is the closeness and feelings you have to someone or something in your life --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense and immature. Lots of ups and downs and jealousy. --The best things about relationship are: closeness to someone else have someone to understand you true commitment not having to worry --The worst things about relationship are: having to be accountable at all times to someone else dealing with another persons moods and being affected by them --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a powerful person loving and thoughtful sensitive to my needs loving to the kids family oriented and enjoy family activities --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more sensitive to his needs less bitter kinder words more affectionate --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: holding bitter feelings rehashing old problems --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: to live up to my vows, to be accountable to him, to work with him and cooperate --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i talk, he sometimes listens, often does not answer, gets mad and loud --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: face, smile, voice, ability to laugh --Regarding Age in Relationship fairly close in age helps --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: hetero --Regarding Religion in Relationship It is important to share the same religion as that is a major thing to share in a family. Children do not need to make choices in which parent to follow or choose who is right. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex are tied but can be complicated. Love can survive with little sex --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: disappointing --Regarding living with someone before marriage: marry them first --Regarding Risks risked loving an older man. It was wonderful and in some ways disappointing as I could never live up in many ways because of my youth. But it was love --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): stay abstinent and don't worry - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - made me think ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Sep 28 22:49:43 2000 Anonymous Guest 24 in Amityville, New York =USA= F24 in Amityville, New York =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Psychology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A Relationship is something we share between two consenting adults who feel at ease, in love, in joy and in lust for one another. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... fall in love and married --The best things about relationship are: the humor, the fun, and the sex --The worst things about relationship are: fidelity, financial aspects, respect --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a gentlemen, a polite person with manners and goals, should be prosperous in everything money, love, humor and sex --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more responsible, more open, more adventorous in all aspects of life, more caring, successful and prosperous with long term goals. prosperous in financial situations --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: irresponsible, not hard driven for ambitions --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: not goal oriented and confused will make me feel less likely to appreciate --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of one another and allowing each other space to be able to take care of the individuals needs or wants --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: the best thing to do is talk when you go to bed or when the person is in a good mood, arguments are always worse when the person still feels the significance of their feelings whether it be anger or sadness --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the smile, the eyes, the personality, the communication --Regarding Age in Relationship age does not matter i would be able to fall in love with a man who loves me not what his age is and what year he was born, as long as he is what I am looking for --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: if you like a man one day and then a woman the next you're obviously confused you don't know what you like, you may be curious and that is probably all that it is, but if an emotion like love is part of this strong attraction it could be either or --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am straight at times curious but at times not really men excite me and women are interesting and beautiful but i can't see myself cuddling with one and loving them the way i do a man --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is pretty important if the person is very religious and holds strong views or opinions regarding to his beliefs and if the person is open minded with what others believe religion should not be a factor --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex count for alot if you don't feel love for that person at that moment sex could count for nothing but useless orgasms, then emptiness Love and sex intertwine it is beneficial to feel both --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: not pretty , did not enjoy it at all, very boring and not exciting , not inlove and could have been more pleasant and romantic, --Regarding living with someone before marriage: yes living together before getting married is a yes in my opinion allows you to see who you're really with what he likes to do at home alone you get to see a different side of that person one bad thing probably is you can get used up like a sponge and thrown away by your partner --Regarding Risks Risk the fact that my family did not accept him at first --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful, put condoms on, be trustworthy but not that trustworthy , you come first --A funny relationship story: not knowing what to do next, if it was cool to feel good about our love or was it non existent - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - pretty useful and enjoyable to answer and read - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? did a good job on your survey thanks ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Sep 24 23:50:38 2000 Anonymous Guest 31 in herriman, utah =usa= F31 in herriman, utah =usa= Name: nicole Email: <mikkool-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: self emlpoyed - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: two people who walk through life together in good times and bad,support one another, respect each other moral support,quality time together and separate,willingness and understanding and putting up with crap even when you dont have to, sacrificing of one self at times --That first relationship was That first relationship was... married at first site --The best things about relationship are: freindship,your better half of you, your all your one your love --The worst things about relationship are: ignorance,lack of trust on his part,sometimes i feel like i need to tiptoe around him,lack of comunocation --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: mutual feelings and consideration,trust friendship --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not such a push over,and voicing a little less at times --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i'm a clean freak need to mellow out a bit --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i'm flexable to a point,but bite my tongue to often --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: i'm there --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: yelling gets you know were just sit back and think about it first --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship whatever works --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: ifyour happy so am i --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight,but swapp curious both me and partner --Regarding Religion in Relationship to each his own --Regarding Love and Sex: there perfect together but not the same --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: not good at all --Regarding living with someone before marriage: its perfect its better to know than later --Regarding Risks think about it before opening mouth --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i'm very serious aboout it --A funny relationship story: total loss of control of just being goofy - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was great thanks ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Sep 14 11:04:08 2000 Anonymous Guest 24 in phoenix, az =usa= M24 in phoenix, az =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] lab assignment - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was more of a physical relationship than anything else. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who will listen to me when I have something to say, but will also keep me in tune with her thoughts and feelings as well. She must also be attractive and have a high sex drive as well. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Learn to remain faithful to my significant other. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I sometimes think with the wrong head. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Treating my girl in a manner that I would like her to treat me. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Some things are better left unsaid. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: her eyes, smile, and, of course, her body. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age doesn't always matter. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It helps to have a similar belief, but it is not neccessary. --Regarding Love and Sex: It is easier for me to have sex with a person than it is for me to fall in love with them. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: disaster --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is better to live with someone first. That way you know whether you can live with this person or if you must kick them to the curb. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): There are always going to be risks involved, but you should do your part to reduce those risks. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? People's Stories, etc. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Sep 13 13:18:06 2000 Anonymous Guest 42 in chicago, illinois =u.s.a.= F42 in chicago, illinois =u.s.a.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: ultimately trusting the other person and feeling safe and loved. --That first relationship was it was puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: being able to enjoy each other company without anything to do. --The worst things about relationship are: finding time when you or the other person isn't tired. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: loving, caring, funny, talkative, sensitive and trustworthy. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more organized and cleaner. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i could change. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i try to be open minded. sometimes its hard. i believe that if something bothers you enough, speak up. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: the responsibility of being ther mentally and physically for each other. a support system. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: ther is no right or wrong. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: hands. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: people can be what/with whom ever they want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. homosexuals should have the same rights as heterosexuals --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm heterosexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship i prefer the same religion. i've seen many wonderful marriages with people of different faiths. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are different. they do go hand and hand in a healthy relationship. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it wasn't all i though it would be. with experiance and comfort my sexual encounters have gotten much better. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i lived with my previous husban before we married. i also lived with my current husband before we married. i'd say living together before marriage is a wise decision as long a it is understood that you have definate plans to get married. --Regarding Risks with my own family and having an unhealthy relationship with my mother. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful and take precautions. --A funny relationship story: we laugh alot in my marriage even about nonsense - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Books & Films What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - very useful. this was a rather long questionnaire. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Sep 8 13:48:00 2000 Anonymous Guest 16 in , mi =usa= F16 in , mi =usa= Name: alexis Email: <lexiey16-at-hotmail.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is when you have a bond with someone that cannot be reproduced, it may be that you hate them or that they are the love of your life --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a bit choppy, but overall beautiful --The best things about relationship are: warm eyes, secretive glances at them, while they are looking at you too, bear hugs, understanding --The worst things about relationship are: stress, being unsure --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: an honest man, one who i can trust but he knows how to have fun and handle life wisely.. i also like daring and also comitted, affectionate, and loving --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more understanding, leave more room for growth --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: that you make the relationship what it is - it's all up to you --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: be open and honest from the start or you will never progress --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: a mixture of their personality, openness, and smile --Regarding Age in Relationship that tenns should stay in their genaral age group, but as you get older if you want a grandpa aged dude, than go for it - it's your deal --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: it doesnt matter, whatever (whoever) makes you happy is fine with me --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i like men, and only men --Regarding Religion in Relationship if you can handle differences than so be it, but if you know you can't than dont even try --Regarding Love and Sex: love can be an object between any two people, a very special one, but whatever it is to you, sex can be a part of it, or it can be seperated for me i see it as two parts to a whole picture --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: that it was screwed up - i would do it again, but god!!! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i don't care as long as the both of you are satisfied with it than it is your thing --Regarding Risks being a bad teenager, taking stupid risks - that simply cause problems in relationships --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful, dont make even one stupid mistake, it can cost you your life, get tests and use protection --A funny relationship story: when we would sit up all night long and try to figure all of the different ways to raise hell - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - YESS!!!! it made me think about a lot of stuff ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Sep 2 14:01:41 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Ifound you when i was just on the net looking for something to do - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 27 23:07:34 2000 Anonymous Guest 21 in Commerce, TX =Hunt= F21 in Commerce, TX =Hunt= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Server - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is what you have with another person. That's hard to explain. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Fell in love and found myself married. --The best things about relationship are: Love, companionship --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Trustworthy, honest, kind, funny. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking care of one another. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: If I'm attacted to them or not and if we have a lot in commen. --Regarding Age in Relationship After you become an adult age shouldn't matter. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't think it's right to be gay or bi, but I'm not going to judge someone because of it. It's they're own decision. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Have always been straight. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It would be hard to have a relationship with someone if they didn't have the same veiws as you. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex definately go togetther. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I lived with my husband for a year before we were married, and I'm glad I did too. Some people just can't live with eachother and end up getting divorced. I know I'll be with him for the rest of my life, but if something happened and we did get a divorce it definately wouldn't be because we just couldn't stand living together. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be careful who you sleep with. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I liked it. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Aug 18 07:56:47 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in Slagelse, =Denmark= F22 in Slagelse, =Denmark= Name: Monica Email: <monicapoul-at-mail.tele.dk> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Wanted something on needlework and your site happened to be listen right above, so I thought I'd take a look - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Agricultural assistant - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Two people who likes to be around each other get's together and the day you wake up and realize that you wouldn't want to be without that other person you're in a relationship (or in love at least!) --That first relationship was That first relationship was quite longlasting (at least I thought so at that time). I was about 13 y.o and dated this guy for almost 6 months. I don't really remember why we broke up, but we did and I haven't seen him since. --The best things about relationship are: Caresses, respekt, closeness and sex( I don't care what some people might say, it DOES matter!) --The worst things about relationship are: Jealousy --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A funny, caring handyman! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he'd have to learn to put the toilet seat down and sort his own laundry. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking care of each other. Remembering to call home if you're late, keeping somewhat order in the house --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: His eyes and smile --Regarding Age in Relationship Doesn't matter. My fiancé and I are 5 years apart and that hasn't kept us apart. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Whatever works for the individual is fine by me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I've never been anything but straight, but I wouldn't rule out the possibility of trying something else one day. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It'll never work if you aren't in the same religion or is planning to convert --Regarding Love and Sex: You can't have one without the other! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Thank god for magazines which gives you tips and stuff like that concerning sex. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I've lived with my fiancé for 7 years now and I haven't got any problems with that. By now he's trained in laundry, cleaning and stuff like that so I have no hesitations about marrying him. --Regarding Risks Telling my boyfriend about a well kept secret from when I was a child --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Use a condom! --A funny relationship story: It's hard to point out one funny thing. We always have fun! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance We didn't talk much about emotions in my family, so that's why I turned to my friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was fun. Some of the questions were a bit weird though, but still fun. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Aug 15 11:31:01 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] not really sure was looking for something else abd found this - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is the binding of two people whether it be through freindship, love, family or work. A relationship between two people can be good or bad --That first relationship was That first relationship was... fell in love and rapidly moved in together --The best things about relationship are: Sharing thoughts, feelings and experiences. Caring for someone and being cared for. The feeling of being in love. Being there for someone and knowing that there also there for you. --The worst things about relationship are: Getting advice you dont want. Possessiveness, responsibility and inhibited freedom. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who will allow me to be me and not try to inhibit me and tell me what to do. Someone sincere, open and kind. Fun-loving, independant, creative, thoughtful, passionate and intelligent. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try harder to put myself in the other persons shoes in order see things from there perspective. Try not to be so short tempered and argumentative. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Alcohol ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 6 13:05:29 2000 Anonymous Guest 42 in Allentown, PA =USA= F42 in Allentown, PA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Waitress - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... nice but ended badly. I was with my boyfriend for 9 months & we had sex then I hated him. It was a very unpleasent expierience. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation It took me a long time to realise that I mattered too. I would do anything to be loved even if it made me hate myself. Then I realised I couldn't be happy unless I was happy with myself. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling My parents had a horrible relationship. My mother did whatever she thought would make my father happy but he didn't really care about her. He had many affairs throughout their marriage & he was very demanding & never happy with either of us. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Aug 6 11:24:30 2000 Anonymous Guest 18 in n/a, TN =USA= F18 in n/a, TN =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Handwriting analylsis search! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student!! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It is wonderful if you know how to love people. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...crappy. I was 14 years old. The relationship lasted for 2 and 1/2 years. My parents hated him and I was rebellious. We didnt respect each other and made many mistakes. --The best things about relationship are: Someone that you can listen to and understand and have them do the same for you. Just to have that closeness with someone. --The worst things about relationship are: Keeping the relationship away from the emotional rollercoasters. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I look for love, encouragement, someone who is fun to be around, a good sense of humor. Just overall calm and comfort. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Stop overanalyzing people. Sometimes I go into relationships expecting someone perfect, but that isnt the case. This is a very selfish thing to do. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Overanalyzing. I need to relax. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I think that if I truly love him the habits would be easy to accept. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being patient with the other person no matter what. Sometimes it applies to sexual things too. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Communication is one of the most important things within a relationship. You need to communicate. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I notice personality and HUMOR first. Humor is a biggie. A nice appearance is a bonus. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age aint nothing but a number. That is what I think. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I feel it is "right" for men to be with women and women to be with men. But you know, It's not always that way. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Hey I wouldn't mind being with a woman--but I dont think I would do it. I am straight and I love men so much more. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Personally, I want someone with my faith. But I think that is up to the person in the relationship. If 2 people are in a relationship and are of different faith and they are making it work then Kudos for them. And I have seen it happen. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is a major step. You need to love someone to have sex with them. I can only associate it with love IN MY LIFE. But it is not always that way in other's lives. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Gross...I was scared and It wasnt pleasureful. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: My parents would die if I moved in with my boyfriend now and so would his. I would love to do it but more than likely, I will be living with mom and dad until I marry. --Regarding Risks Anything sexual. It takes me a long time to become sexually secure in a relationship. This is probably b/c of the bad feelings I had from sexual experimentation in my very first relationship. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Wear a condom. --A funny relationship story: My boyfriend and I have been dating now for three months. At the beginning of our relationship, he would make a fart noise when he kissed me. I thought it was sweet and called it "our fart kisses." He soon got over that though. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life And I have learned from my many mistakes. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was fun I guess. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Aug 2 13:34:20 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a mixture of puppy love and a truly intense first experience with the emotion of love/caring for another. While we didn't marry, we are still best of friends. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Very Young Child How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Watching the mistakes of others, and learning from them what not to do. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling When one tends to care too quickly and too deeply, it is sometimes difficult to keep ones wits. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Aug 2 09:11:49 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in Bellows Falls, vermont =usa= F22 in Bellows Falls, vermont =usa= Name: Holly coyne Email: <going to school> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Ilike swimming at my house. I am affaird of commitment - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friend of my Parents What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 31 21:02:52 2000 Anonymous Guest 17 in , =australia= F17 in , =australia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] doing the purity and death test from Spark.com, this web site was on the same web page as the other site and it looked interesting to me - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: i'd say that everyone has a party in life that partner is how you start a relationship. If there are strong feelings present a relationship is near --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more of a crush sort of thing but just flew by --The best things about relationship are: sex, cuddles, comfort, being able to trust in them --The worst things about relationship are: cheating, abuse, unwanted event which occur, lying attitude --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: affectionate person, loving, emotional, strong, caring, --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: lose weight, new looks, stop being as straight forward as i am --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: possessive, paranoid --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: ignore me slightly, i get over things quick, stick up for your own rights and don't let me overpower them --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: not cheating --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people tend to look at one side of the story(usually there own) and don't realise that another person may have a different view to them because everyones opinions are there own and no one will changet that. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: teeth, lips, hair, freckles and moles, overall everything in cluding their personality and the way they treat people - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends seeing friends go through their pain or happiness What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity thinking too highly of them and hope's get set too high ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jul 31 19:12:27 2000 Anonymous Guest 19 in sydney, =australia= M19 in sydney, =australia= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Yahoo when looking up Handwritting analysis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Social Ecology Strudent - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I think a relationship can be a deeply spititual friendship and love between two people that gives rainbows colour and brings life into a world. It is interaction and care of and for another being. It is often a time when people spend lots of time with each other and may live in the same home with each other. They may have a cremony to celebrate this called marriage to share their commitment to the world, and may have children together. They share their bodies with each other through the joys of sex. A relationship needs people who are commited to working through hard times. --That first relationship was That first relationship was a deep friendship that slowly developed over a year and we where in love for nearly two years before he broke it off --The best things about relationship are: sharing, spending time together, the special emotions, and the joys of sex --The worst things about relationship are: Finding time o give to the other person and having to understand when their commitments keep them from you. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A guy who is gentle enough to be strong and strong enogth to be gentle. An idealist who loves animals and children. Has a good job that makes a difference in the world, and brings us enougth money. Commited to issues of environmental crisis and social justice. Has a strong spiituality and sence of sustainability in life. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Become more patient, know myself better,use more tack, act more in relation to consuming less and developing a more sustainable lifestyle. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Shyness stops me meeting people --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Commitment, caring --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Deep voice, big green or brown eyes, dark hair, friendlyness --Regarding Age in Relationship Over seven years is not a good thing but maturity levels are important --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: If people are soul mates gender should not matter, to say we should not fall in love someone because of their sex is rubbish. Labels belong on jars not living beings. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I have only fallen inlove once and he was a member of the oppisite sex, but this doesn't mean I could never fall in love with a woman. --Regarding Religion in Relationship As long as people have similar spiritual views and depth then religion dose not matter --Regarding Love and Sex: I could never have sex without love but i can love without Sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I love him nothing else mattered. It was enjoyable. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it is up to the individual I would live with someone that I shared a commitment with regardless of legal statues. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): If you are in a deep relationship you can be pretty sure you are safe, but when in doubt get blood tests. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: A collection of many of these influences All these influences are both good and bad ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jul 27 19:47:48 2000 Anonymous Guest 24 in Seattle, WA. =usa= F24 in Seattle, WA. =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: self - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: An Agreement in which one person makes with another to keep one another emotionally, and physically fullfilled without wanting anything in return. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... Friendship, 2 months later marriage. True love. --The best things about relationship are: emotional security and physical touch. --The worst things about relationship are: Not every couple is equally yoked. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Aggresive, yet agreeable. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop complaining, and expecting perfection from my mate. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Habits can change just like hobbies! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: As long as he's not hurting himself or any other, I'm ok with it. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Don't treat everything as a tragedy. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling Growing up with my fathers slave, whom we called mom. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Jul 21 08:23:16 2000 Anonymous Guest 28 in , =Canada= F28 in , =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: In a relationship, you learn to live according to if they've made you happy, you're happy all day long. I you've had a fight with your spouse/boyfriend it tends to make you upset all day. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more about physical attraction and curiosity. --The best things about relationship are: Knowing that there is this one person in the world who knows you inside-out and loves you anyway. They know your moods and knows what makes you laugh. Knowing that this one person will stand by you through thick and thin. --The worst things about relationship are: Always having to answer to someone, even if they are asking out of concern. I am very independent but relationships tend to become "we" instead of "I'. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who is sensitive, but not too sensitive. Someone who stands by my opinions and thoughts and decisions. Someone attractive and someone with goals. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I usually have my defenses up in an argument. I should not ignite arguments but try to be reasonable and listen. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't really have anything too critical although I hold grudges and always will --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: We again and not I. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Anger and love are of the same emotion and therefore arguments over toothpaste become heated volcanos --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The face and body. --Regarding Age in Relationship to each his own. Each situation is different. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: To each his own. My bestfriend is gay and I love just the same as I did before he told me. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am heterosexual, and have never had a same sex experience. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Again, each is different. But religion becomes very important when children come along and views are opposite. This becomes a huge issue, especially because family gets in the way. --Regarding Love and Sex: I don't think they are connected. Many people have sex for pleasure and no strings attached. But I do believe that the best sex is with someone you love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: That's it??????? --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I don't believe in living together for me, but I think why not do it instead getting divorced in 5 years. --Regarding Risks Wonderful, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): If you lie down with dogs you get fleas! It's about time people suffer the consequences of their actions unless they are smart enought to protect themselves. --A funny relationship story: How you call each other at the same time. You know you were both thinking about each other at that exact moment. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 29 20:54:00 2000 Anonymous Guest 38 in , == F38 in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: the other person is your best friend, lover and confident and will forgive your imperfections --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense --The best things about relationship are: conversation --The worst things about relationship are: lack of honesty and trust --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: none --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i dwell too much on the negative --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: nothing --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: commitment --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: both have to be willing to compromise to make it work --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the voice --Regarding Age in Relationship age should not matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: we all need love --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship each has their own beliefs that they feel comfortable with --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: not good --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together is good to find out if you can stand each other for the rest of your lives before the ceremony --Regarding Risks putting finances together to purchase a home --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): protect yourself --A funny relationship story: farming for the first time together - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - good, had to stop and look at my relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Jun 28 06:43:14 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A erlationship should be a meeting of the minds, bodies, and soul. There should be a depth of contact in a relationship that is not achieved with a normal friendship. --That first relationship was That first relationship was long lived and constant. --The best things about relationship are: having someone who truly understands. --The worst things about relationship are: differing opinions - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jun 26 15:51:37 2000 Anonymous Guest 28 in , texas == F28 in , texas == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] looking for yoga class - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: travel - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Having a connection with another person that goes deeper than everyday contacts. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... long distance, but good when he was around. --The best things about relationship are: Having someone to talk to when I wake up in the middle of the night and can't get back to sleep. Having someone to kiss all the time. --The worst things about relationship are: Longing for that person when they're not around, doubt and mistrust. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: an honest, funny, sweet and cute guy --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: I should be more decisive and have a clearer picture of what I want out of life. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I always freak out about a year and a half into a relationship. I'm too clingy. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: No mood swings! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Taking the other person's feelings into consideration. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Opposites often attract. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile, eyes, butt. --Regarding Age in Relationship Within 10 years difference is the best- any older/younger would make relating difficult. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Most are straight, but many have leanings one way or another, and I would say a majority are at least curious about how the other half lives. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I'm straight, but have been curious. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It can get in the way, but shouldn't. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex should be inseperable, but they can be two completely different and unrelated things. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: No regrets. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: The two people in question should live on their own before marrying, and should spend as much time together as possible before marriage- living together is probably the best way to learn about the other person. --Regarding Risks Telling someone I loved them for the first time, and admitting that I want to spend the rest of my life w/ him. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Always, always, ALWAYS use a condom, no matter what! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation learning from mistakes What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - so-so ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Jun 20 09:50:26 2000 Anonymous Guest 16 in Houston, Texas =USA= F16 in Houston, Texas =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: The bond that you have with someone else, whether friend or lover. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...kind of scary. He fell in love very quickly. I have been with him on and off for 2 years. I feel in love with him about 1 year ago. --The best things about relationship are: The idea of having someone there for you to comfort you in your times of need. Almost always having a shoulder to cry on. --The worst things about relationship are: Fighting, different groups of friends, control, possible abuse (physically, emotionally). --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A guy with a nice body, good looks, a great personality, most of the same intrests, someone to take me out, show me a good time. try to understand why i do the things i do. why i say the things i do. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try not to be such a bitch. not be so moody. be more affectionate --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i keep on getting distant right around the time when i'm going to break up with someone. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: he needs to try and understand me a little better --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: having to give some signs of affection to your spouse. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: he usually brings up one of my downfalls, and it all hits the fan from there --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality, and eyes --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesn't really matter, although i think that 10 years + is way to big of a span than people should be together. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: whatever floats your boat --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm straight. totally --Regarding Religion in Relationship there isn't one --Regarding Love and Sex: there should be love before sex, but nine out of ten times there isn't --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was no good at all. not what sex is all cracked up to be. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: do what makes you happy --Regarding Risks opening up to my boyfriend, telling him how i really feel --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i try not to think of it now, i don't know what i would do if i got one either. --A funny relationship story: when i first told him that i loved him. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i think that it will help alot of people get their views on certian things together ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Jun 11 20:14:20 2000 Anonymous Guest 12 in Surrey, B.C =Canada= F12 in Surrey, B.C =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] I went to aol.ca,on kids search,and typed Handwriting and Anylasis - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: I dunno Recommended Reading-- Writers: I dunno - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I would say its what everyone has and does and without it It would be very lonely place.Friendship is important too! Relationship is what everyone has and its a very important thing.Go read a book! --That first relationship was That first relationship was...just a friendly hello saying.She met me in the hall at school.She also was my class mate.WE became friends and we NEVER kept seacrets and told everything to each other.I felt we were more than friends.I found myself very fond of her as a friend. --The best things about relationship are: Kindness,and hlilarious person that takes a joke once ina while,someone who understands you and be their when you need them,who is always beside you,and you can trust them and is someone like you! --The worst things about relationship are: taking turns at things and share thing when you really need it,and them turning their backs on you or not keeping a promise or something important,joining enimies and not agreeing on things. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: and person wno trusts and understand you,.........It's easy as that! --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not ask and talk that much!Cool down and ask what they want.Always be a good listener.Have a great time and Hey!,not everyone's perfect!!! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Nothing!!! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: They should correct it like lying and not telling the truth. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Reliability,...someone that is responsible for their actions! --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: they don't agree at something and you're blaming them but its a lie between them,If you know what I mean. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: their smile,warm face and their personality,also their appearence(although, it somethimes doesn't work.) --Regarding Age in Relationship It can be any age atleast you lke them,but mostly 1 to 5. --Regarding Risks That one friend had someone she likes and she's been knowing him for only 2 months!And now she's relying on ME to help her,I don't even know that person!It was really hard and she had to count on me for everything because I was the only person that knew!...Relationships can be really hard,.. but it's whats inside that counts! --A funny relationship story: EVERYTHING!!!!!It's the most important thing in a relationship to me ,and it happens all the time! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Just picking up facts as time goes on... What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life I've always knew relationships scince I was in my early years,and it really is important - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Not really,It's just your own opinions with ALOT of questions! - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? If relationship is all about this,than what about the inside????????!!!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 8 06:21:56 2000 Anonymous Guest 17 in melb, vic =aust= F17 in melb, vic =aust= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: year 12 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: When there is someone in your life who you think about continually and always help out when you can. --That first relationship was Haven't had one yet!! --The best things about relationship are: Having someone like me as much as I liked them --The worst things about relationship are: If they were continually calling me. That would become annoying! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Them to be funny, smart and unfortunately I'm one of the numbers who goes for a good looking guy! --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Become more self confident with guys! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my self negativity could become a problem in the relationship --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: that as long as he was a nice person, i wouldn't pick on him for his habits because i dont have the right to tell someone else how to be --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Being responsible to my boyfriend and being there for him when he needs me --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Im a good listener and am willing to talk about their problems if they need to, but im not as willing to talk about my own --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The first thing i notice in someone i havent met before is looks, but if it's someone ive known for ages and has become a friend, then personality is definately what i would go for --Regarding Age in Relationship they should be close in age, i think it's absolutely disgusting seeing a 50 year old with a 20 year old! --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I really don't care, people can do whatever they want to do --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am definately heterosexual though --Regarding Religion in Relationship it shouldnt matter as long as you really like the person --Regarding Love and Sex: they are absolutely different! --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I havent had it yet but i want it to be special and with someone i know and can trust --Regarding living with someone before marriage: People do what they want, i would move in with someone i wasnt marrying if i liked them. It's up to the individual --Regarding Risks mmmmmmmm. not applicable --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I would definately make my partner get a blood test before i was intimate with them! --A funny relationship story: giving a guy in grade 6 a christmas card and him ripping it up, when i look back at it, it's funny, but it wasn't at the time - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Still has not How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? -none- not applicable What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- not applicable - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It's a little bit too long! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 1 15:00:14 2000 Anonymous Guest 21 in santa cruz, CA =USA= F21 in santa cruz, CA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] search for info. on bardo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is a bond between 2 people. it takes work and understanding, and sharing. ? don't quite know how to explain it! --That first relationship was That first relationship was... very serious for my age. i was 13, and it lasted a year and a half. compared with the love i know now i would call it puppy love, but at the time i was very serious. --The best things about relationship are: friendship and trust. the feeling of having some one to share with. --The worst things about relationship are: honesty, trust, and the ability to apologize. power struggles, vulnerability. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: some one honest most of all, with me as well as themselves. some one open minded enough to share ideas with, yet confident enough to have their own opinions. trusworthy. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: make sure i give as much as i take. admit when i am wrong, don't let pride get in the way. don't let hurt turn into anger. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i tend to either keep a slight distance, or to depend to much on the person. haven't found that middle ground. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: the responsibility of consideration. when in a relationship one must always consider the other's feelings. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people tend to respond in anger rather than expose their hurt and feelings. i tend to just back away, and ignore the subject. in my current relationship, we ignore eachother enough for the anger to go away, and then talk. it seems to work really well. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the walk. the way a person walks says a lot about their attitude. and their clothes. they tell a lot too. of course nothing is fool proof. then eyes and smile. --Regarding Age in Relationship i don't think age matters. there are limitations, of course. but it depends so much on the people. also, as you get older,it changes. 5 years difference seems much less at 30 than it would at 10. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i think it varies. there are people that are strictly gay or straight, but i believe they are a minority. i do think that humans are naturally physical beings, and if it weren't so taboo in society, more same sex friendships would be expressed in a physical manner. this does not mean they would all be having sex, i think there would be more hugging and kissing and hand holding and cuddling. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i guess i would rate myself a 3 on that scale. more heterosexual, but i am frequently attracted to both sexes. i just feel i couldn't have a homosexual relationship without craving some one of the opposite sex, while in a heterosexual relationship i do not crave some one of the same sex as strongly. --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion itself doesn't matter, but the conflict in values and beliefs have the capability to cause many other problems. --Regarding Love and Sex: love and sex are 2 totally seperate things. sex can be an expression of love, but you can have sex without love and love without sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i think iwas just curious. i just remember it hurting and not taking too long. i think all the energy should be more about the 2nd experience. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: living together is very challenging. i don't think it's possible to know if a marraige will work unless you know you can live with that person. i also think marraige puts an extra strain on living together that makes it harder to work through issues that you might otherwise have gotten through. --Regarding Risks trusting some one with past hurts. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i think they're horrible and scary and a fact of life. (today). i think it's best to be cautious, because a person can always lie. --A funny relationship story: i am moody while i sleep. once when i was sleeping, my boyfriend came in and asked me to move over (i was taking up the whole bed.) i told him no, to go sleep on the couch. i woke up the next morning and didn't remember any of it! i asked him why he was on the couch and he told me. (probably not the funniest, but all i can think of right now.) - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Explorations learning from my experiences. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was o.k. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? some of the questions seemed really long, like they were trying not to offend anyone. but this made some of them harder to understand. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Jun 1 10:56:09 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue May 30 00:58:05 2000 Anonymous Guest 25 in new delhi, new delhi =india= F25 in new delhi, new delhi =india= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: copy writer - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: basket ball is the best sport in the world & i love jordon. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it is a bond even though broken can not be forgotten. it makes you see the brighter side of life, it's communication without words, in consise it's selfless loving. --That first relationship was That first relationship was very intense besides him i wouldn't even look at anyone else i felt married to him. --The best things about relationship are: time spent together, time spent in thinking about the time spent together,time spent together & time spent in contemplating as to how to spend more time together. --The worst things about relationship are: overly possessive people & people who constantly want to change you as you never seem to fit the socital bill of a woman.even egoistic people are bad news. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone with a sense of humour, intelligent,doesn't drink or smoke & pays attention to his body, doesn't have fixed notions & appreciates me. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more sensitive, maybe learn to cook & break my pattern of living to accomodate him.i am too critical of self & others. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i can be selfish!!!!!! & dominating. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i try to accept him the way he is thus i want the same in return. i don't like demanding people. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: i am responsible for him to have a good time with me. for him to cherish the moments spent together.responsibility is for him to know that he can rely on me when ever he wants. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: a relationship lives coz of communication. you have got to talk about everything your emotions, insecurities & wants. everything has to be discussed. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: smile & his butt. he has to look fit.no paunchy men for me. --Regarding Age in Relationship age is no barrier. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: somewhere in between --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i would like to experience it with another woman. --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion has got nothing to do with it. as far as he respects yours & you respect his. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are one. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: what i remember of it was that, i was glad that he could actually do it to me, atlast. i couldn't actually remember the feeling right after we had done it but i was happy that we had. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: there is nothing wrong with living together but it all depends upon waht society you live in. being shocking is fine but then you can't be so radical that they will throw you out of there. --Regarding Risks i am not afraid of the risks involved actually i thrive on them, that is what makes it so interesting. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): use contraceptives & stick to one person. get to know as much as you can about him, after all it is a matter of trust. --A funny relationship story: to have the ability to laugh over our arguments. when that seizes to be funny that is the time to move on. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity need to share with someone What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling society - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - they were pretty direct & some of them made me view my relationships in a different light. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 24 00:09:16 2000 Anonymous Guest 64 in Columbus, Ohio =USA= F 64 in Columbus, Ohio =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Am doing GA research to broaden my knowledge of different methods. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Retired minister and State worker - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: God's children need to learn love and social tolerance for each other. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Resonance with partner's reaction to life, intelligence, spiritual evolution, kindness, compasion, trustworthy, gentle, frugualness,automatic team worker and flexible to change. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... admiration of a brillant person. --The best things about relationship are: Peacefullness, security, a residence, non-abusive, sharing liberation and freedom of each other. --The worst things about relationship are: Financial insecurity. Abusiveness. Possession. No freedom. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A spiritual, trustworthy, non-judgemental, caring, mentally balanced, healthy person. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Learn to be observant of other's daily needs. Be a team worker. Manage money properly. Be present where I am -- Be in the NOW. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I do not clean the house frequently enough. Unable to decorate. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: No arguing. Must be mature on their own and mindfull of other's needs. Must be spiritual and believe in a God and embrace this type of growth. Tolerant of different races and opinions. Keep physically clean. Use proper grammar. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Knowing what I am responsible for and what I am NOT responsible for. Partner has their own personal responsibility to do certain things for themselves and then there are also joint responsibilies. These must be discussed and general rules worked out. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Each person must be a listener and also verbally communicate with honesty. We have two ears and one mouth = listen twice as much as we speak. Be polite to each other and logical. Do not be too emotional, be objective. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: An intelligent, brillant mind with a soul/spirit consciousness. --Regarding Age in Relationship I used to think 10 years up from my age and/or down 10 years. In current relationship,I am 16 years older. But this person picked me, so I had a big adjustment to make. We have so much in common age makes no difference. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I personally was born a lesbian, so I am a 7. I was born with a recessive Y chromosone per DNA reports. I am now 64 years old. I am very spiritually,and mentally balanced Lady. Humans need to allow each person to be a respected private citizen. We are indeed your ministers, sisters, brothers, Policemen, Firemen, lawyers, teachers, farmers, etc. We in the Gay life only seek partners who have already embraced that life style. God made no junk! At present, the Gay community is about 10% of the population. We have always existed. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I knew by 12 years of age I thought different that other young girls. I was brillant in school, so I was already a square peg in a round hole. I usually ended up as the leader of school activities. During my late 20s and early 30s, I attempted to be a heterosexual, but I was not being honest with myself. The males that I dated, told me I was acting. No one choses to be gay, nor can we change our physical reaction to what our hormones react to. We have the mental strength to keep away from people who do not share our gay sexuality. All my adult life my straight friends have respected me for who I am and I respect them for who they are. No problems, especially with my professional acquaintances. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I embrace God's love and teachings. My partner also does. I would be unable to live with someone who did not believe in a Supreme Being and loved Nature. --Regarding Love and Sex: I love with my mind, because I choose to. I respond to my sexual passion because I am loved for who I am and love myself with out judgement. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Oh, the young and innocent. Lucky we had a private room in college. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe in commitment and values. Most people are on their good behavior when dating and can hid their shadow facets. As I have grown older, I realize co-habitation in the US culture is the best way. We are not raised with the same respect as those cultures that pick your spouse for you. --Regarding Risks That first hug. That first kiss. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I have always abstained. I have taken AIDS tests upon request of one new partner. I asked a lot of questions. I am very faithful and expect my life partner to be the same. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Person responded with compassion and no judgement. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It is always good to review one's reality. Sometimes I feel like I am educating the person who reads my answers. I am very comfortable being me. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat May 20 10:50:50 2000 Anonymous Guest 42 in Toronto, Ontario =Canada= F42 in Toronto, Ontario =Canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] via Yahoo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Law Clerk - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Finding another person who accepts all aspects of you, while at the same time helps to both bring out the best in you and mitigate the bad aspects. And if the sex is great too..............so much the better !!! --That first relationship was That first relationship was over 5years in lenght, by in reality rather one-sided and ended badly --The best things about relationship are: Sex, companionship, humor, support --The worst things about relationship are: Sex, competition, control - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life Experience (and you should add that to your list) What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling parent's marriage was a violent alcholic relationship ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri May 19 14:12:48 2000 Anonymous Guest 31 in philadelphia, pennsylvania =usa= M31 in philadelphia, pennsylvania =usa= Name: bill Email: <ilovepain-at-webtv.net> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: coach - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is when people have a connection that wher eboth parties give equally to each other and tell all there desires and dreams to each other. there are no secrets and each party tell s the other exactly what the other desires or needs. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... i was curious and naive. --The best things about relationship are: happyness --The worst things about relationship are: lack of money --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: open --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: more outgoing --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: sloppyness is a problem. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: to much of a challenge --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being on time --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: they get things out into the open --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: legs --Regarding Age in Relationship age matters only if it matters to the other person. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: there are people who are gay and there are people who are straight. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: im straight but have gay friends --Regarding Religion in Relationship it dont matter --Regarding Love and Sex: there can be many ways of defining the 2 but they can be as one or separate. you can have love without sex and you can have sex without love. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it wasnt as good as i expected it to be. i shouldve waited --Regarding living with someone before marriage: you must live together before marriage. --Regarding Risks never! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): take precautions when haveing sex. --A funny relationship story: cant recall - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: i just want to treat women like gods! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - this was usefull but it didnt address how i treat people that i date. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? how do you think you should treat your mate in a relationship? i give them everything that they ask for and let them do the chosing in the dating process. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu May 11 08:44:58 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in yonkers, ny =usa= F22 in yonkers, ny =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: IT is a situation where you are with a person that makes your heart beat faster every time you see them..That you are most happiest when you are with them and when you are with out them you feel incompete. In a relationship you feel truly loved and wanted by the other person and you make them feel the same way back..It is where you learn to compromise to make things work out ... where you both work hard into achieving a good relationship with trust and love. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... wonderful and im still it in and God willing i will be in it forever. --The best things about relationship are: The admiration of the other person the feeling that they really need you and want to be with you. --The worst things about relationship are: Dealing with the other persons annoying habits. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: them to be funny, and caring and able to show love with out regard for others...Loyal above all...and supportive.be --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be less dependent on the other person..not need them soo much. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am too soft i have to stand up for myself more --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: he is not taking responsiblity we are getting older he should be thinking more about the future and what is going to happen instead of what bar we are going ot tonight. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: he just wants to forget whatever has happend like it didnt happen when it did and it has affected us and we need to talk about it --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes clear light eyes... --Regarding Age in Relationship if you love someone that is it, it doesn't matter if it is real love --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I totally agree with the kinsey report --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: ilike girls now too --Regarding Religion in Relationship it is hard to be together when you are different but if you really love each other you work it out. --Regarding Love and Sex: different when we make love it is a beautiful thin when we have sex it is just for fun --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was awkward and painful --Regarding living with someone before marriage: i would really really like to be engaged before living together --Regarding Risks telling him i liked girls too --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): i wish they didnt exist but it does...so i pray that people are careful. --A funny relationship story: him saying well allright hooray - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes it was helpful..i liked it alot ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon May 8 19:57:13 2000 Anonymous Guest 18 in Odessa, TX =USA= M18 in Odessa, TX =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ CrossLink from: ] freehoroscopes.net to hwa.org - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Web Developer/Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a collective. A sharing of life with another. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a bit of a fiery/puppy love mix! --The best things about relationship are: Sweet surprises, both material and otherwise. Well, sex of course has to be in here, but I'd rather say intimacy. --The worst things about relationship are: how much time should really be spent together, whether spending too much or not enough. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: everything. Ethics much like mine, great personality not unlike my own, basically alot like I am. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being there when someone needs you and vice versa --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I have it both ways. Sometimes it's talking for ever, DEBATING (usually pointless childly arguments), and others it's total listening. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Vibe, general feeling about a person. --Regarding Age in Relationship It just depends on the situation. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: We are all born bisexual. It is not until we are RAISED with the concepts of HETERO or HOMO sexuality that we form our thoughts to follow either path. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I've always been heterosexual, but we all have a little of both sides in us, like I said before, we are not born hetero or homo but both until someone tells us that "boys like girls and girls like boys", etc. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I personally believe beliefs and faiths are something more personal. Everyone should not have such totally exact beliefs, like organized religions try to encourage. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sometimes they go together, sometimes they dont. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: A little below my expectations (the person specifically), but the sex itself was about what I expected. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Personally: Cohabitation before marriage. If you can't live together before marriage, how do you expect to when you're married??? --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Get tested. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Pre-Teen How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: Lovers Dishonesty ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri May 5 12:08:55 2000 Anonymous Guest 14 in Spiro, Oklahoma, oklahoma =u.s.= ...14 in Spiro, Oklahoma, oklahoma =u.s.= Name: chris tabor Email: <tiya_23-at-yahoo.com> Web: http://WWW.geocities.com/tiya_23/ - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] off net - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: landscaping services - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: none - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: relationship is to show someone your love not to dis them for popularity or shit like that but show some one your feelings --That first relationship was That first relationship was... somewhat interesting .. i wouldn't call it a relationship ..we had sex the first night i came over to her house --The best things about relationship are: the time REALLY spent together with no worries --The worst things about relationship are: the bullshit you have to put up with ,even though you try to get through it together --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who won't ignore the things i do for them and appreciate me as i do them --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: many --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: smoking and drugs --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of them but that's cool --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality:you can F*** some dumb chick once or twice, but cool people you can spend your life together --Regarding Age in Relationship certain age matters to a certain exstent but not really a big deal --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i think that gay relationships are not right but it's not my place to judge --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: only straight --Regarding Love and Sex: they are VERY DIFFERENT --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: i could give a damn --Regarding living with someone before marriage: thats a subject..... --Regarding Risks jumping forward and doing what you first feel --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): fucking wear condoms!!!that's what there made for!!!2 --A funny relationship story: the shit they pull - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Very Young Child How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity nothing What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: the fact that the people are very immature in their ways and fuck my life up - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it's cool to learn about it ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed May 3 10:55:36 2000 Anonymous Guest 35 in Santa Fe, NM =USA= F35 in Santa Fe, NM =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: Dispatcher - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship to me is based on trust,respect, and common interests. I would like for my mate to understand my need for closeness without smothering and also my need for solitude from time to time. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love --The best things about relationship are: love, mutual closeness, respect --The worst things about relationship are: jealosy, lack of trust low self esteem --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who honestly cares for me..unafraid to be honest at all times..who loves me equally.. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: to be more trusting and not so suspicious..to show my affections easier and more often --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have a few habits that would help my relationship improve if I were to get rid of them --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: that I can accept the habits of my partner --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: being responsible for my actions and for my life --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it's easier for a woman to communicate to a man --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: their personality --Regarding Age in Relationship it shouldn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: no comment at this time --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: 100% heterosexual --Regarding Religion in Relationship I feel very strongly that religion is very important in my relationship --Regarding Love and Sex: they go hand in hand --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it wasn't what everyone had said it would be --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I used to believe in living together..sort of like to test drive if you will...but now I don't believe in that philosophy --Regarding Risks letting someone into my heart completely --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): no orgasm is worth dying for --A funny relationship story: laughing at myself over silly mistakes that I have made - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: communication - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - This questionnaire really made me reflect on myself and to think about how things are viewed by myself ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue May 2 16:58:36 2000 Anonymous Guest 28 in Sacramento, California =USA= F28 in Sacramento, California =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A true partnership between friends who love each other and are attracted to each other --That first relationship was That first relationship was... an intense first love that lasted 4 1/2 years. I am still in touch with that person --The best things about relationship are: Friendship --The worst things about relationship are: Making time for each other --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Caring, Handsome, stable, loving --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: More outgoing, not judgemental --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my habits are changing slowly --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I can accept them fairly easily --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of each other --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: it is important to have the same styles --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Looks --Regarding Age in Relationship it shouldn't matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: you are either one or the other --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am straight --Regarding Religion in Relationship it has no place --Regarding Love and Sex: they are seperate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Lots of desire and passion, but very disappointing in the end --Regarding living with someone before marriage: It is important to live together before marriage --Regarding Risks very scary --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be safe - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was a little helpful ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Apr 24 17:25:20 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: if you're asking for intimate relationships, then it is a strong attraction, both emotionally and intellectually. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...anattempt to cover up my feelings surrounding my mom's illness --The best things about relationship are: deep communication, laughter, strong sexual attraction, openness --The worst things about relationship are: feelings of jealousy and inadequacy --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: intelligence, creativity, humor, kindness, sensuality, and compassion. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: quit smoking!! not analyze everything so much. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: in many cases the female is more talkative. we seem to like knowing where we stand at all times. guys seem to be more confident. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: eyes..mouth...chest...butt --Regarding Age in Relationship from what I've seen age is a factor, but can be overcome if the relationship is solid. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: totally correct. I have had many friends who are bisexual, homosexual, and heterosexual. All of them were born that way. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am probably a 2 on the continuum. --Regarding Religion in Relationship People can faal in love with persons of varying backgrounds, races, cultures, etc. this is a natural occurrance and should be accepted as such. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is great. Sex is great. together, it is outstanding.right on --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Thank God!! I had a first experience which was painful to an extent, but went on long enough to be very satisfying! great! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it's entirely up to the couple involved in the relationship. at this point in my life, i would live together. --Regarding Risks telling my lover that I loved him. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): know yourself; know your partner...WELL - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Counseling What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - fun.. clarified my feelings/values ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Apr 23 23:55:00 2000 Anonymous Guest 13 in Katy, TX =USA= M13 in Katy, TX =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's when you build a bond in which two people enjoy being together. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a bit more puppy love --The best things about relationship are: understanding --The worst things about relationship are: secrecy --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: a good-looking understanding smart funny sweet nice person --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: listen more --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to be more open --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: listen to your partner --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: listening and understanding --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: both sides should talk and listen --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship want someone close to my age --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: it is correct --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i would be about a 4 --Regarding Religion in Relationship religion should not matter in relationships --Regarding Love and Sex: they are different --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: media is not correct --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it doesn't matter --Regarding Risks kissing --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): no --A funny relationship story: stories that are shared - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Apr 20 08:41:55 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] used ao.com search engine - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: be kind, truthful, think of the other persons feelings. think before you act or speak. trust is earned not given. --That first relationship was That first relationship was..like young stupid, inexperienced. a questionarie by clergy said there would be trouble in paradise. did't pay attention, forged ahead anyway. but ques. concerned me. --The best things about relationship are: trust, honesty, thoughtfulness, --The worst things about relationship are: don't take each other for granted, & under no circumstances are games to be played. no hiding $, credit cards& their statements(being sent somehwere other than home address.) no emotional &/or mental games or cruelty.no verbal abuse. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: whats stated 2 cubes above --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: not let anyone "push my buttons" what they try to do to you is because they don't want to deal w/ it , its easeir to dump it on the spouse to deal w/ it. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my habits are from a long standing "co-dependant" upbringing. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: 2 "co-dependants" in a marriage is a toxic situation. and a sex addiction on that, spells "DISASTER". --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: be responsible for your actions, what you say & how you say it, & your decisions. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: a passive-- aggressive style in communications is the ultimate control tactic. it keeps the one who wants answers at your mercy(if you choose not to answer & acknowledge the persons presence. its another disaster waitng to happen --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: how the opposites sex talks & treats women. if its not good then you know thats whow he may treat his girlfriend or wife. --Regarding Age in Relationship early in age, no mayto dec. romances. too much age diff. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: either your gay or your straight. bi (either way) is just further muddying the issue. --Regarding Religion in Relationship if its important to you jpersonally then don't marry someone of a different denomination than your own or outside your religion. (common sense, won't you say?) --Regarding Love and Sex: love= emotion. sex=the physical. women can connect the 2. men can't . men can have sex w/ a perfect stranger. men can separate sex & love. they say, i love my wife & screw somebody else & say one has nothing to do w/ the other. women generally want some emotnional connection before they "hhop in the sack". --Regarding living with someone before marriage: why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?! <---what men think) women have ignored that & have gotten used, & walked on & over because they "co-habitate> --Regarding Risks risk means, kno knowing the outcome & being able to control what happens, how wehn, by whomm for how long, etc. i would feel like a puppet on a string , someone else is controlling. not having any say or control over myself. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): if you don't have sex (before marraige)&(adultery) you dn't have to worry about it. --A funny relationship story: none - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: making mistakes & learning from them not having a mentor to talk to about things, someone more experienced to see where trouble was & to tell me what they saw & the advise following. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 19 15:17:34 2000 Anonymous Guest 34 in Rome, NY =USA= F34 in Rome, NY =USA= Name: Rebecca Smith Email: <spikesmithsmom-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] I was looking through the hospice foundation web pages because Hospice is now taking care of my father-n-law - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Pool Chemical Tech - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: I was young, and once in a very bad situation, I could have chosen a road of bad over good, i was also smart, i chose the right one and I am so proud of who I am today, I love myself, and I love my God - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Any chickensoup for the soul books, also, "Self Nurture Recommended Reading-- Writers: " by: Alice DoMar, MD - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is any communication between two people and others around you in which you feel you can trust, be honest with, be friendly with and love . We are all 1 person, we should love as God loves all --That first relationship was That first relationship was...puppy love, I thought he was the man of my dreams, only I was too young to understand the difference between a man and a boy and a woman and a girl, I was a young girl who should have been concentrating on school, and studies, and church. It didn't last and was just a girlfriend/boyfriend thing for about 1 year. --The best things about relationship are: Growing together, learning about each other, laughing, sharing, loving, spending quality time together, living for every moment --The worst things about relationship are: communication --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: honesty, loyality, trust, humor, spontnaiety,love, and paitience --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more patient, be more trusting, and communicate alittle better --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Don't step back and hear what the other person is saying, I jump in and open my mouth and insert foot, sometimes without even knowing what the other might say --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: My Partner does the same. He is also not very trusting --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Entering into a relationship means that you have a responsibility to be honest and trusting, and most of all, loyal..... you have to make that committment to be with that one person and only that one person!!! --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: there needs to be communication, less screaming and walking away and good old fashioned family time, sitting down and speaking as well as listening to what and how your significant other feels and actually putting yourself in their shoes, feel what they feel, and try to compromise! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Thier attitude and love for themselves, although I strongly believe that this person has to in some way be physically attractive to you, but ideally, the way they take car eand love themselves, if they don't, they certainlly can't love anyone else --Regarding Age in Relationship I believe that as long as both partners are adults, it doesn't matter how old a person should or shouldn't be, there is no age limit, you can fall in love with a 90 year old man if he is everything your heart desires, and loves himself as well --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Everyone is there own person, I will not judge them or place " titles" on them. A person is a person, I may not agree with something, but I certainly leave it to the person in that relationship, it is simply none of my business, I love a\ALL people --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I am married to a wonderful man, I have never had a sexual encounter with anyone of my own sex and I don't intend to. I am in love with the wonderful mant hat I married --Regarding Religion in Relationship Their strongly needs to be god in a relationship, he aids all, he leads us into the directions we want to go, or should be, and he shows love, trust and understanding. I think God is a very important player in the marriage field, or even any relationship for that matter --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is an emotion, and sex is physical, you can love someone until the day that you die, that will never change, never falter, never go unsatisfied, sex is something that can come and go, be fullfilling or not, love is the only real fulfillment you can guarantee on --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I twas STUPID! If I had known then what I know now, it never would have happened. I was a young teen. Did I enjoy it, to some extent, I was scared, nervous, and tense, I honestly should have known then, that the time wasnt right --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I disagree, you can learn commitments and values living with someone, you hadn't need be married first, just as you would with a friend, you learn things from living with a roommate of the same sex right??? I feel that if anything it helps a relationship, you better understand the person before you marry and then suddenly realize that this person is really not the one you want to share a life or a home with forever --Regarding Risks Becoming pregnant while engaged only to find out that my daughters father couldn't handle being a Dad and left me and moved. I soon after met a wonderful man that after two months of dating, and being totally in love, I was asked to marry him, risk yes, I was scared, best choice.... DEFINITELY!!! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Be Careful, use protection, and definitely have a few tests done before. I married my husband knowing he was free from any diseases, and I have been married for 11 years, but if I was suddenly out in the single world again, no way, not until I was married, not until a few tests were done, that's just too scarry for me --A funny relationship story: Getting so irate with a very abusive boyfriend once while at the beach and I left while he was in the water skinny dipping, except, I took all of his clothes with me =) - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other Role Model My sister, whom I was living with directed me, she and her husband, and the good Lord! What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling My mother cheated on my father, and he died at a very early age, so I lived with alot of resentment thoughout my childhood - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I believe it was extremely helpful. I also feel that it helps a person look back at how much they've grown as an individual and a role model, as a spouse and a friend. I think it makes you feel alittle more spiritual, and makes you realize how important life is... Thank you, I'm glad I took it - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? I think that having children prior to marriage is a good question to somehow ask the surveyers... it's important, too many teenage mothers out there, too many dead beat fathers and mothers, what about our own role as role models for our children?? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Tue Apr 11 19:21:54 2000 Anonymous Guest 39 in Rutland, VT =USA= F39 in Rutland, VT =USA= Name: Email: <ORowe58116-at-aol.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... intense fiery --The best things about relationship are: i'm still looking --The worst things about relationship are: My need for freedom --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Love, support, caring and listening to me --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop thinking i'm superwoman --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i have to be in control --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: give me my freedom --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: I have always had responsabilty --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I get angry fast --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: looks --Regarding Age in Relationship who cares --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: let others live --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: who cares --Regarding Religion in Relationship let the person be what they want to be --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is not an issue for me. I prefer cuddling --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: is that it --Regarding living with someone before marriage: no problem --Regarding Risks to walk away --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): be careful use rubbers - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Alcohol - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - yes it was good ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Apr 5 21:18:25 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in Los Angeles, CA =USA= F22 in Los Angeles, CA =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Yahoo query on questionnaires - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Accountant/Actuary - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a situation in which you find someone with whom you can communicate, with whom you can speak to without fear of reprisal, and you decide to devote yourself to that person as a result. --That first relationship was That first relationship was primarily puppy love. It was a somewhat long-distance relationship, which I believe I continued primarily because of my parents' disapproval. I don't believe I was ever actually in love with him. --The best things about relationship are: The best part of a relationship is when you first discover that he really likes you . . . the initial puppy love aspect. Later on, of course, my favorite part is my ability to share, but I enjoy the adrenaline rush of first discovering someone's attraction to me. --The worst things about relationship are: Differences of opinion that my partner is not willing to resolve. In essence, a breakdown of communication, and the unpleasantness that inolves. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone very articulate, extremely intelligent, and well educated. Good looks and ability to present himself well are important, too; I can't stand to be embarrassed in public. The ability and desire to argue are vital as well; I don't believe that a relationship can be healthy if the participants don't trust eachother enough to get angry at eachother's actions. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be less jealous/mistrustful. Work less and devote more time to my partner. Be more sensitive to my partner's needs. Be less moody. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am accustomed to spending most of my free time working or alone. I enjoy spending time alone with my partner, but I get anxious when I spend too much time having fun and not enough time working. Needless to say, that has deleterious effects. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: It's the little habits that I find most annoying. Picking his nose, snoring (not really a habit, but you catch my drift) are the ones that really make me annoyed. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Always consider the impact your decisions have on the other person's wants or needs. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Without communication, there is no relationship. Simple as that. With my partner, we have a problem in that I believe that arguing is vital to the continuing understanding between partners, whereas he tries to avoid conflict and discomfort whenever possible. We're still trying to work that out. Still, our conversations are fantastic, running the gamut from ideas to emotions. That's what makes a good relationship for me, not the sex. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Obviously, I notice people whom I find physically attractive; however, they're not the people whom I end up dating. When I'm looking for a potential partner, I'm generally drawn to intellect. I remember establishing a relationship with one guy when I was 18 because he mentioned the zygomathic arch in conversation! --Regarding Age in Relationship I don't believe it matters. When I was 16, I dated a man who was 32 . . . I couldn't find anyone my age who was mature enough for me. At the same time, I've also dated men younger than me. Even though substantial differences in age can bring social disapproval, I still believe strongly that relationships depend on the personality, not on the birthdate. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I agree 100%. d --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Because of my religious convictions, I currently engage exclusively in heterosexual relationships; however, I believe I'm actually more homosexual than heterosexual. I have had homosexual experiences in the past, but they were not as emotionally fulfilling as my heterosexual experiences. --Regarding Religion in Relationship If you see relationships as potentially leading to marriage, conformity of religion is vital. Period. I am a very religious person myself, and I can't see raising my children in a dual-religion household. They would get confused. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is a beautiful way to show your love for someone else. That being said, sex can also be simply a tool for personal pleasure. I believe the latter can lead to self-doubt and unhealthy emotional reaction. I think that sex and love should be inseparable; however, in modern society I can see how people would desire to pursue personal pleasure to the exclusion of emotion. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I feel that it was a mistake. I lost my virginity when I was 13, primarily to spite my parents, and, needless to say, that is the wrong reason to have sex. I believe that this early exposure led to promiscuity in my later years, and it wasn't even sexually fulfilling, as my partner was a virgin as well. Since my promiscuous teenage days, I seem to have "settled down," and have sex only with one partner, and rarely, but it took me many years to overcome the early promiscuity. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe that both arguments have value. However, my parents would be vehemently opposed to such an arrangement, and I value my family relationships strongly.d --Regarding Risks With my current partner, whom I've been dating for two years. The first time I spoke to him on the telephone after we met, I told him that since I might not get to talk to him again in the near future, we were going to set a date right now. That was risky because he could have perceived me as a stalker-type; however, it was a calculated risk: I didn't want to let a good thing get away. So far, it worked. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I'm scared. I'm constantly paranoid, even though I have only one partner, I'm still convinced that any sexual intimacy will result in an STD. Nonetheless, I am ashamed to admit that I don't always take all the precautions necessary to protect against such diseases. My partner and I have, however, both been tested for HIV, and I am confident that he is faithful. I suppose I am low-risk, but sometimes it keeps me up at night worrying. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance My mother and I, later on, developed a very good relationship, and she led me to realize what I was looking for in a relationship What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling My father was a womanizer who cheated repeatedly on my mother. He served as a poor role model - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Very useful. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? No. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Mar 26 14:01:18 2000 Anonymous Guest 25 in campbell river, British columbia =canada= F25 in campbell river, British columbia =canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] Prof/Studies: i am my kids mom - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: i would explain it like this: a relationship is when two people come together and live like one person. and are very honest andloving and forgiving and you trust them with your life. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...my current one were together for six months then got married. --The best things about relationship are: that there is always somebody to talk to about things --The worst things about relationship are: dealing with the conflicting moments --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: some one who can provide for the family and someone who has a great fun personality --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more trusting and not so demanding --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i dont understan the question --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i can deal with it --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: taking care of the family looking after bills making sure theres food in the house and the car works --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: you have to work at it both oif you to get the talking it out thing down pat and so it doesnt build up and no one gets hurt. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality and eyes --Regarding Age in Relationship age doesnt matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: who cares --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i have lots of gay friends i am straight but yet ive wondered what it would be like to be with another woman --Regarding Religion in Relationship to each there own --Regarding Love and Sex: sex is definatly better with someone when u love them and when your in a long term realationship --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it was nothing it was really nothing meant nothing and i didnt even really iknow the guy --Regarding living with someone before marriage: who cares do what you like --Regarding Risks when i told him about the sexual abuse on me. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): dont cheat and use protection every time unless you have been tested - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? How well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i think that this questioaire was pretty tough to answer ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Mar 16 01:00:00 2000 Anonymous Guest 27 in , =Philippines= F27 in , =Philippines= Name: Maria Email: <virgeanne-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - SURFING - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: The Road Less Travelled Recommended Reading-- Writers: Scott Peck - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationship is when two individuals mutually agree to commit themselves to spend a certain stage of thier lives shared together with love as thier common bond and grow within that bond. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... sort of a short fling. --The best things about relationship are: open communication, unconditional acceptance, friendship,sweet nothings & "just because" things,togetherness, quality time, be in my own true self, surprises, petience exercise, learn from mistakes and grow together with the relationship, learn to appreciate the ups and downs. --The worst things about relationship are: opening up very sensitive issues, meeting esp. unspoken expectations, external influences & pressures, merging two different orientations & cultures, understanding differences, building stronger bond. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: somebody who understands and accept me the way i am, who's willing to stick around when things are not what they are suppose to be, one who won't tolerate my misdeed but help me to correct, one who often if not always brings out the best, a meek and open-minded one who truly loves life and honors God above all and His creations as well --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: expect less and give more, swallow those false, needless pride,take hold of my action as my own responsibility, stretch my patience & widen the understanding, give space for individuality & be supportive. --Regarding Risks ... --A funny relationship story: laughing together at our own not so serious mistakes. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life maturity and open communication What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: Fear of commitment and taking the corresponding risk ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Mar 13 16:29:00 2000 Anonymous Guest 27 in , utah =us = F27 in , utah =us = - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more of an infactuation but the one that followed is the one I've been in for ten years and that one is true love. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: YOU MUST COMMUNICATE!!!! Its the only way things will ever work out and last.Even if it means an argument at least there is still someone talking about how he or she feels or thier views on a subject and that leaves room for compramise --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: When I Found my love it was nieghther of those things that cought my eye. When I met him there was just something that said that he was the one. You ever get the feeling that you have known someone although you have never met. Well thats what it was like. He even had a girlfriend at the time but, I knew in my mind that that didn't matter and he felt the same and ended the realationship when he met me. I t was almost like "oh there you are!". And we had never met --Regarding Age in Relationship as long as they are adults let them love eachother. who are we to say "you can't love that person because they were born 10 years before you " --Regarding Love and Sex: one enhances the other but they do not have to go hand in hand you can definately have one without the other --Regarding living with someone before marriage: my self I am not married and have lived with my boyfriend for 9 years we hope to be married one day but it is not the most important thing in ours lives today. We have the same love and commitment today that we would have if we got married tomorrow - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Mar 10 17:34:07 2000 Anonymous Guest 26 in lafayette, LA =Lafayette= M26 in lafayette, LA =Lafayette= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: waiter - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was a grasp at happiness that did not succeed. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Other: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Feb 18 06:27:13 2000 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] via hwa org site - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: love ain't nothing but sex misspelled Recommended Reading-- Writers: harlan ellsion - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: hope in the face of reason --That first relationship was That first relationship was... it was an intense first love --The best things about relationship are: companionship --The worst things about relationship are: rejection --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: clean up after myself --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to stop being such a slob --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i can not stand it when i trust someone with my flaws and they smash me by rferring to them --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: doing my share of the daily dreck --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: most people talk too much --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: i don't recall --Regarding Age in Relationship age does matter --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: i agreewith kinsey --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i'm borderlin bi --Regarding Religion in Relationship none --Regarding Love and Sex: separate --Regarding Risks saying what i think --A funny relationship story: nothing - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Difficult What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life i don't think anything has What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling my mother was very mean to my father ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Feb 17 19:05:42 2000 Anonymous Guest 29 in Binghamton, NY =BROOME= F29 in Binghamton, NY =BROOME= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Nursing - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A person who you can completly trust with personal feeling, sercrets, someone who you love --That first relationship was a person who I knew and fell in love withThat first relationship was... --The best things about relationship are: the love and friendship that you share --The worst things about relationship are: argument that you cant agree on --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: the person that I allready have --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: think about threr feeling and put them before yourself --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: if something is really bothering him them we can make adjustments or compermises you should never try to chande someone --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: maybe we could meet half way --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: paying the bills --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: we never yell at one another we address the issue and talk about the problem --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship if you love someone than age shouldnt be a issue --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: if thats what you want the do what you have to do to be happy --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Im a women I love men only --Regarding Love and Sex: to make love you need to be inlove sex has no feelings --Regarding Risks when my boyfriends exgirlfriend called I flipped uot thinkind he was still seeing her. --A funny relationship story: the first time I passed gas I was so embarressed but he said next time just blame the dog if I get so embarresed about those things. That same nite I dug up his lawn with my car and got stuck in his lawn. but he still kept me and I am still with him three years later - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i dont know what this survay is adding up to ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Feb 13 21:13:07 2000 Anonymous Guest 29 in vancouver, british columbia =canada= F29 in vancouver, british columbia =canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: women are from venus, men are from mars Recommended Reading-- Writers: unknown - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: trust, respect, confidence, intimacy, humour, romance, sexual attraction, desire, ability to communicate well with one another, enjoying being with one another and being comfortable together --That first relationship was That first relationship was... the boy next door --The best things about relationship are: trust, respect, confidence, intimacy, humour, romance, sexual attraction, desire, ability to communicate well with one another, enjoying being with one another and being comfortable together --The worst things about relationship are: abuse, disappointment, lying, cheating, stealing --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: trust, respect, confidence, intimacy, humour, romance, sexual attraction, desire, ability to communicate well with one another, enjoying being with one another and being comfortable together --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: lose weight --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to express my feelings more --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i dont understand the question --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: making sure my partner is happy --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: people need to stay more calm, and be respectful and loving toward one another --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: personality --Regarding Age in Relationship age should not matter, compatibility does love is important but so is respect and trust --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: everyone is different --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: i am heterosexual, but i enjoy the beauty of both the same and the opposite sexes --Regarding Religion in Relationship it should not matter --Regarding Love and Sex: they are interjoined, however definitely separate --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: sweet, surrender and joining of two mutually interested and exciting people --Regarding living with someone before marriage: it is a personal choice made by the parties involved --Regarding Risks letting the person know that i was interested in them --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): you need to have this information --A funny relationship story: joking with one another and laughing at things together - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends intimate knowledge of the person and the person knew me What Hindered me most in Relationship? Fear of Intimacy we were too young to deal with our feelings - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it was ok - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? nothing to add ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Feb 13 00:46:03 2000 Anonymous Guest 26 in birmingham, al =usa= F26 in birmingham, al =usa= Name: Email: <dbear305-at-excite.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: cop - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: commitment versus human nature... overcoming or falling to it. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... steady, generally average --The best things about relationship are: reliable friendship. --The worst things about relationship are: dealing with moods and personal problems that people bring with them --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Commited. Regardless of circumstances --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: bolder about what i want --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i need to not let things bother me so much. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i try to accept them --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: doing the right thing... regardless --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: makes the differance in the realtionship. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: actions speak louder thatn words --Regarding Age in Relationship age does not really matter.. up to the individuals --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: you are or you are not. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: straight. --Regarding Religion in Relationship More important than given credit --Regarding Love and Sex: two entirely different matters --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: could have been better --Regarding living with someone before marriage: depends on the people involved.. prefer marriage. --Regarding Risks great accomplishment or great tragedy --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): need to know... not names , necessary but facts. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Religion/Clergy - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - been thinking about this subject alot. have come to terms with myself... realized alot. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Feb 4 19:19:16 2000 Anonymous Guest 24 in Greenville, South Carolina =USA= F24 in Greenville, South Carolina =USA= Name: Renee Email: <Sweetdoly-at-yahoo.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Professional - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A strong bond that developes between two individuals, where in you can not imagine yourself with out that person in your life. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a traditional first "puppy love" kinda thing. I was 14, he was 16 and I had to take my baby brother (who was 10 yrs old) and all his friends with us everywhere we went! --The best things about relationship are: laughing and not being alone at night. --The worst things about relationship are: deceitfulness and feeling like you are being taken advantage of. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who is funny, caring, and emotional. someone who I am physically attracted to. someone who makes me feel wanted. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Not be quiet as nosey. Be more secure. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I tend to sometimes be overbearing. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: They rage and I clam up. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Confidence is what catches my eye. --Regarding Age in Relationship I do not think age is important, as long as you are both adults. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Interesting....and I think they are on to something. I basically consider myself heterosexual, but sometimes I am attracted to the same sex. --Regarding Religion in Relationship To me, religion in a relationship isnt important at all. As long as you can find a moral common ground. To me, ones morals are not defined by ones religion. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex has nothing to do with love. But if you love someone sometimes you have great sex. :) --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: DISAPPOINTMENT!!!!! --Regarding living with someone before marriage: If you live together and find out that you cant stand each other its less hassle and a lot cheaper to get out than if you where married. Overall a great idea in my opinion. --Regarding Risks The risk is frightening to me. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): When I am sexually active it can be pretty frightening, but the feelings of fear usually come after the act is already complete....A little to late then. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Parental Guidance What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Sure it was something to do. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Feb 4 15:07:37 2000 Anonymous Guest 23 in Liverpool, =england= F23 in Liverpool, =england= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Went in the hobbies bit in yahoo! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was...Puppy love. I was 14 He was 13! --The best things about relationship are: Knowing we are thinking the same thing just by looking at each other. Being able to laugh at each other when we just had a shouting match. Cuddles in the morning. Both wanting to watch the same things on tv. Having some one there to moan at when i've had a bad day. Having someone to laugh with when i've had a good day. --The worst things about relationship are: I Like surtain foods and he does'nt. He pulls the blankets of me in bed. He is always on the computor and never lets me have a go. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: giving, compromising, thoughtful, humble, adventurous, ambitious, loving, caring, --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Have better willpower when it comes to looking after my body, because then i would be happier in myself and therfore be able enjoy life to the fullest. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The fact that someone is taking notice in me and seems to be attracted to me is always a big first. When i feel this then i start to look at them and their looks are always the first thing to attract me.(usually because i don't know their personality yet). I do go for someone who is similar to me, I mean not 6foot tall or 20 stone. I think people are attracted to people who look like themselves to an extent. You've heard of the expression "they make a good couple". --Regarding Age in Relationship It depends on the personalities involved. Some people are older in the head than others so dating someone older may be more on there level. Some people feel they need to be looked after/the protector and so go for someone who feels the opposite needs. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I myself am living with my parner and we are not married(though we do plan to) I think today it's more a matter of money. There is no way we could of afforded to get married(the way we want) and then buy a house so we did it the most sensible way (plus his parents were moving to a smaller house). Living together without being married does'nt mean that you don't love each other any less and have any less commitment towards each other. --Regarding Risks The first time i told my boyfreind i loved him, we had only been together for about 3 weeks but i just knew, so after alot of thought i just came out with it one day and it did'nt do any harm.In fact i've said it to him almost every day for the last 2 1/2 years so it must have worked! --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Only have sex when you are in a relationship and you should always use protection if you have'nt know your partner very long. Use you judgement, if you think your partner is lying to you just to put you at ease be cautious it's not worth one night of pleasure to have an STD. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? My Best Friend Very bad shyness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I bit long, would be better with multiple choice?!!! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Feb 2 12:57:49 2000 Anonymous Guest 22 in Bronx, NY =United States= F22 in Bronx, NY =United States= Name: Desiree Y. Email: <divaqad-at-yahoo.com> Web: http://WWW.yahoo.com - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] suggested we should try it for our research class. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Sociology - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Writers: judy blume - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: it's what you make of it. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love and lust. --The best things about relationship are: a lot of time. --The worst things about relationship are: being faithful. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who likes to have fun, understanding, and who wants to have a good life. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: be more out spoken about how I feel and respect others feelings. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: i can accept them as long as they aren't annoying. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: None. It not a marriage. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: i hate to ague, so when there is one i am not listening. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: I do care you have to really catch my eye and can not lack in those areas. --Regarding Age in Relationship people should be in a certain age range. Why have someone teach you something when you can go through it together. That's waht parents are for. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Some people like to try new things and maybe it makes them feel good. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Straight haven't crossed the street. --Regarding Religion in Relationship It's should't matter. We all know we came from a greater being. Accept different people of different faith. --Regarding Love and Sex: they are totally different. Love no knows until they die. Sex anyone can have it. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: should of waited. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Shoes do get old but you keep wearing them. So why not.You never know a person until you lived with them. --Regarding Risks not worth it. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): it's ashame what can happen from one night so people should be more careful --A funny relationship story: everything. Especially the lies I heard. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends my lover at the time of the relationship. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parental Guidance they are very overprotective. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - i found it col and would love to know the results. - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Would you have a relationship with someone of another race? " " " " " " " who has a STD? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Jan 24 08:48:55 2000 Anonymous Guest 17 in Cheektowaga, New York =United States= F17 in Cheektowaga, New York =United States= Name: Kristen Kuwik - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Friend ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: Chicken Soup for The Teenage Soul - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is when you find a guy or girl that you look at more than a friend, and that have feelings for stronger than a friend. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... really happy and now we are still together and that was three years ago, and I can't picture my life without him. --The best things about relationship are: spending time with him, and being able to talk to him whenever i need someone to talk to. --The worst things about relationship are: fighting, and breaking up are the hardest things, and the most difficult things. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think people should be able to be with whoever they want if they really love the person. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Just Hanging out What Hindered me most in Relationship? Talking to People ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Dec 27 20:25:20 1999 Anonymous Guest 28 in santa rosa, ca =usa= F28 in santa rosa, ca =usa= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: bartender - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: It's meeting someone who you can tell your deepest, darkest secrets to, and they still want to be around you. Two people who love each other, and work toward a common goal of making a friendship grow forever. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... an infatuation mostly. He was 9 years older than me. I thought he was the greatest. --The best things about relationship are: friendship, love, sex, fun, someone to curl up with at night,growing old with someone. --The worst things about relationship are: getting used to their wierdness, having someone tell you when you're wrong, trusting completely --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who can love me just they way I am. Someone that won't try to change me after a while. Someone who knows that I will change over time and that I wont stay in my twenties forever. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: stop being so bossy, not act like I know everything and control my angry streak --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I need to quit smoking --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I better keep looking until I find someone with habits I can stand --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: men are not talkers, they would rather hope the problem goes away. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: someone with a kind face --Regarding Age in Relationship age does matter, there's a big difference between a 19 year old and a 29 year old. Both are at different maturity levels and want different things in their lives. Once you start getting older I don't think it's such a big deal. --Regarding Risks When I told my fiancee that I loved him for the first time. I didn't know how he would react, thank god he liked it - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling my parents divorced when I was very young. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sun Dec 26 20:27:40 1999 Anonymous Guest 19 in a small town, ontario =canada= F19 in a small town, ontario =canada= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] searched for "tests" on Yahoo - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: university student, psych major - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A relationship is a bond between two people who interact with each other. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... a pretty screwed up one. We dated and became serious, but had alot of problems. --The best things about relationship are: Love is definitely the best part. And also trust, intimacy, closeness, happiness, and having someone by my side. Support I guess. --The worst things about relationship are: Seeing past someone's faults...and most importantly, findind someone compatible in the first place! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who shares the same ideals and life philosphies as me, someone looking for the same things in life. Also someone to complement my personality, someone on the same "wave length", someone I can totally open myself to. Someone I can learn and explore life with. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Not trust so easily, take relationships slower, learn better judgement of others! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I don't like to cause a scene, and I just "go with the flow". --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I don't understand the question! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Loyalty and maturity. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: The more communication, *usually* the better. Opennes, honestly, and trust are very important. And when it comes to arguments, if the people aren't on the same "level" of thinking, things can get very difficult. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Visually, the entire "aura" of the person, or attitude. This includes how they walk, talk, dress, style their hair, etc. Eyes also catch my attention. --Regarding Age in Relationship Well, I've been with a guy 4 years older than, and one 3 years younger, both of which have taught me an incredible amount about relationships, as well as about myself. Different ages can be very mind-opening. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I agree with the continuum hypothesis. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I think I am definitely more towards the straight end of the continuum. --Regarding Religion in Relationship I don't have vey strong religious convictiongs so I say that religiong definitely shouldn't matter in a relationship. --Regarding Love and Sex: it is best when both exist simultaneously but that is not always the case. Sex can be great without being in love, and love can also be very intense and meaningful without sex. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I don't know what I would consider my first sexual encounter, considering I've never had sexual intercourse. All my experience has been on a continuum, with specific events and stages having their own important significance. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I believe in living together before marriage, but that's a personal choice. If others feel differently, I think that's right for them. --Regarding Risks Telling the first guy I ever loved that I loved him. We had this incredible, passionate "moment" and I just blirted it out. He said he felt the same, and I have never been happier in my life, than I was in that moment. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I think people should be careful and use protection. It's always a good idea to know your partner's sexual history and get tested, but that's not always easy to talk about. --A funny relationship story: I don't know... - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Lack of Awareness - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I liked it alot. Very interesting and thought-provoking. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Dec 25 23:57:51 1999 Anonymous Guest 18 in Camden, New Jersey =USA= F18 in Camden, New Jersey =USA= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: Movie theatre- consessionist - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: a relationship is an intamate bond between two people. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love. --The best things about relationship are: intamacy, fun, someone to talk to about anything and everything, and the butterflies in your stomache every time you both meet. --The worst things about relationship are: trust, doughts if other is monogamous, fear of breaking up. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: love, trust, humor, compatability, reliable, happiness, and communication. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: try to be less independent and more open with my partner and try to show more affection towards that person. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: i am very stubborn, independent, and not affectionate. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: compromise --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: compromise --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: my tone of voice is soft until the other person says somthing that is not true. then my voice gets higher and deeper and angry. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: the person's eyes because the eyes see right through to your soul and tell a lot about the person. --Regarding Age in Relationship i usually say to people under 25 to stay within 2 to 5 years of their age, but after you're about 25 you're basically at the same "mind level" as everyone 25 and older so I say date anyone 25 or older. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't care what anybody does as long as they don't touch me. Be gay or straight, I don't care. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I prefer to be heteralsexual. --Regarding Religion in Relationship stick to dating people of the same religion as you --Regarding Love and Sex: love is emotion and sex is physical --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: tense, nervous, and exciting. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think that you should try living together first to see how you like it and if you are able to co-exist together. --Regarding Risks letting my guard down and open up to show my feelings --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): As long as my partner gets an annual checkup and uses a condom, I'm fine. --A funny relationship story: trying out new sexual experiments that end up wrong - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Spontaneity What Hindered me most in Relationship? Spontaneity - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - general ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Sat Dec 18 23:50:46 1999 Anonymous Guest 44 in , Arizona =US= F44 in , Arizona =US= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Relationships should be based on mutual trust and respect between the people involved, unfortunately not all relationships are. There are ones that revolve more around misery and pain and the people in these kind often appear to have no desire or inclination to change or improve the way their lives are lived. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... puppy love although at the time I believed it would last forever --The best things about relationship are: The companionship, being able to trust someone enough that you never have to question anything, never feel any doubt. Laughter is also at the top of MY list. --The worst things about relationship are: The time involved in earning and having the trust and respect necessary to make a relationship healthy and joyful --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: A man of honor and integrity above all else. Honesty and compassion, strength of heart and character as well as physical. A person that would protect me from physical as well as emotional harm, and would "hold me loosely". An even temper would be very important as would a strong will. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Be better at controling my darker emotions, smile from the heart more, not be so judgemental, take more time improving my physical appearance such as using a little make-up now and then or spending more time fixing my hair, be more selective in the clothes I wear, etc. --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I am too moody and allow myself to indulge in too much laziness too often. I can be too protective of my privacy and not thoughtful enough when others approach me with their personal problems --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I am fairly flexable, I can deal with most habits, good and bad. The thing I can't and won't accept is lack of consideration and respect from a partner. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Caring enough that responsibility never brings a feeling of being burdened. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Quiet intensity --Regarding Age in Relationship people should mind their own business and not worry about such matters as long as no physical harm is occuring. --Regarding Religion in Relationship see above --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex is among one of the most important aspects of a relationship between two people (or I feel it should be)however, there can be deep love between people that would never have a sexual relationship. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: It was awkward and a bit embarassing but I was only 14 and the boy only 15. First time for both of us --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I can't imagine marrying someone that I had not first lived with but I have deep respect for those who believe the opposite. it's all about how and when a person was brought up. --Regarding Risks The only thing I've ever felt I've 'risked'in beginning and or staying in a relationship is a broken heart. That's a given isn't it? --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I was married when these things became reality, the whole thing scares me terribly. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life living through extremely rough relationships as well as extremely fulfilling ones What Hindered me most in Relationship? Parents' Role Modeling my naive belief tht most people were basically honest and good-hearted ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Dec 17 07:45:07 1999 Anonymous Guest 22 in bronx, ny == F22 in bronx, ny == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Prof/Studies: administrative asst. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: A complicated thing which takes respect, devotion, trust and love in order to work and to last. Sometimes it hurts so bad and at times it feels so good. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... more than puppy love and definetly not a fling. --The best things about relationship are: Spending time with your mate. Having laughs. Learnig from each other and having fights then the make-up sex afterwards. --The worst things about relationship are: Not trusting, wanting to know your mates every move. Always thinking that they're doing something there not. And expectations from one mate to another. Lies, lies and more lies. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I want to be pampered and loved. I want to be listened to and understood. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: The mood swings. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Making sure your partner is happy emotionally and sexually and being there for them when they need you to be. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: Sometimes I don't like to say anything because depending on who I am involved with they always think they are right. Or sometimes I won't shut up because I know I'm right. It can on for hours with me. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: The face. If I don't find the person attractive by looking at his face then nothing else really matters. I don't care about slim trim body's, but nor do I want a fat slob. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is nothing but a number and you can fall in love with anyone you want no matter how old. But! then again if the person is old enough to be your parent then that's extreme. But hey, if you love them who cares what others have to say. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I don't know about men, but I know alot of women out there have interest in homosexuality. As much as they would like to deny if approached by a woman to have a gay experience after a little thought they would do it. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I love men, but I also look at women I think they're beautiful. I've had gay experiences and I'll more if that what happens. I wouldn't leave a man to be with a woman though. --Regarding Religion in Relationship If a person you are in a relationship is really religious and you aren't then get out of the relationship. If your religions are different and it is not causing conflict with your relaionship then by all means stay together. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love and sex can go hand in hand. And there are times when you can have sex with a person and not love them. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I was young and if I could do it all over again I would not have gotten involved. I guess sex with him was good, but he was older and only used me. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Once you live with a person that's when you really get to know them. Live with that person first or atleast spend the night a few days out the week. Trust me you will get to know so much from that person. If you can get along living together then the relationship just my work. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Protect yourself. Or be very open and ask your partner about Std's they may have had and tell them about yours. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - The questionnaire was very useful, it made me think of a few things I never really thought of. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Dec 13 09:11:05 1999 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: at what age How'd I do? How well ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Dec 8 23:26:17 1999 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was...okay --The best things about relationship are: you --Regarding Age in Relationship 20 - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Dec 8 14:47:54 1999 Anonymous Guest 16 in Winnipeg, Manitoba =Canada= F16 in Winnipeg, Manitoba =Canada= Name: Kat Email: <lilkat-at-hotmail.com> Web: http://WWW.members.tripod.com/~Wookett/Enter.html - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] Went to Yahoo.. looked up surveys, psychological surveys, then got here - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Waitress - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - More personal info: Love is the greatest betrayal. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: sorry I havent. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Its where two people who like each other get together and start to date. They have their ups and downs where they fight and such but mainly they seem happy until one or the other ends the relationship or they maintain their happiness until they die. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... we found ourselves in love. well actully I was in love, and still am. He however decided that he would rather be on his own. We fought a lot, and he cheated on me with another man. I wouldnt be shocked to find out he cheated with women as well. --The best things about relationship are: being with someone. Having someone hold me and cuddle me, someone understand me and love me,.. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who understands that I have 2 stalkers, that my life is very complicated and hard to live through, that I have a lot of issues, and I get jealous very easily. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Not be as jealous, or somewhat controlling, break up when I first feel its right, not wait until its the last minute... --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Im very stubborn and somewhat opinionated, somewhat hard to get along with --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Some bother me, like the person above mentioned, my first love.. he didnt wash his hands after going to the bathroom. that grossed me out. --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: having a child and raising it together --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I back down really easily when told sweet words and things like that.. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Personality, hair and eyes. Looks dont matter to me .. I've been many people who were below average looks. --Regarding Age in Relationship love doesnt know ages. Love doesnt care about ages. I was 16 with my first love. and he was 22. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: People are allowed to be whatever sexuality they wish. Many of my friends are either bi, gay or straight.. and its great. One tells me each day if he is bi that day or straight. It doesnt change who he is and what a great person he is. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: Im hetrosexual. extremely. --Regarding Religion in Relationship each person is allowed to have their own religon and do not have to be subjected to the other's unwillingly --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is love.. love is a feeling of disire deep inside your heart body mind and soul.. Sex, is a physical form of love. they go hand in hand yet are so very different --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: it sucked. 2 words. it sucked. I was 15. It was with the 22 year old. I didnt feel a thing, I regretted it afterwards but dont regret it now. only thing I regret would be that we weren't even going out at the time. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think thats the best way to do things because what if you get married then find out that your partners habits are unbareable? --Regarding Risks having a secret relationship with someone who was 6 years older .. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I lost a love to AIDS. Its a horrible thing to happen and condoms are like gods to me. Sex will not happen with me, without a condom --A funny relationship story: I cant think of something.. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life going through the pains of love What Hindered me most in Relationship? Family they have disliked every man I have gone out with - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - it made me think about my ex and how much i still love him however he may not still love me - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? none.. you did a good job. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Wed Dec 1 11:30:52 1999 Anonymous Guest 18 in Los Angeles, California =United States= M18 in Los Angeles, California =United States= Name: ??????? Email: <bunuelitos-at-mailexcite.com> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Stumbled on it ] Prof/Studies: CIS - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --That first relationship was That first relationship was wonderful at the start but then things changed all of a sudden. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? A bit rough What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Friends my friend messed up on her boyfriend and that made him feel bad, so I swore I would never do that to anyone. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Mon Nov 29 15:21:45 1999 Anonymous Guest in , == ... in , == - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Encountering with an individual or person and having happiness when you are around them , they make you feel like you are their main priority and they have love and understanding for you. --That first relationship was That first relationship was...Fell in love and was going to get married but my boyfriend died at the age of 21. --The best things about relationship are: responsibility, trust, LOVE, and the fact that you are with that person and you know that the person feels the same. --The worst things about relationship are: worry, all arguments or conflicts have to do in some way with worrying about the loved one. --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: I want a loving, trusting, responsible, hard working, successful,and good-hearted man. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: get a job while going to college,get counseling --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: my habits are good. If the person does not like my habits they can hit the road!! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: Talk about the problem. Maybe, it is the body odor! - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Family What Hindered me most in Relationship? Observing Life ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Fri Nov 26 18:32:14 1999 Anonymous Guest 46 in nashville, TN =USA= ...46 in nashville, TN =USA= Name: - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Web Search: ] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: Getting along with another person. Learning that person's emotions, thoughts, reactions to stimulus and finding out how you fit in to their life and needs. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... new and upgrading --The best things about relationship are: It's never ending...learning and observing another person through life's up's and downs. --The worst things about relationship are: Not oberving and being aware of the other person's "coming storms" or vulnerabilites. When you know what's going to happen you can deal with it but when you have your back turned or your eyes closed...when it hits...it hits like an earthquake that can shake your life and the ground right out from under you...or storms that rain lighting and floods...or fires that burn so hot there is nothing left...or cold that freezes the love, and happiness of the warmth of your history and past of the "warm loving relationship" --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: someone who studies me and learns to know me as well as I learn to "DANCE" with them. --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: always be more observant and look for problem solving methods and to predict changes in the relationship... --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: Sometimes I get scared and fear abandonment, when that happens,(rarely) I cannot think and solve problems logically. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: He could be more communicative..and verbal of his feelings and thoughts...He like to go into "mental-physical hiberation". --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Don't be afraid to be wrong and let the other person take charge. Which means the other person in the relationship should also feel the same way. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: I like to keep it in the open and discussed but I like problem solving discussions not blaming ones. I can do my best when I am praised or directed. Critical remarks or blaming makes me angry and paralzyed to change. --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile and body posture. --Regarding Age in Relationship Age is a consideration but so are many other things...Economics, Social status, Education, Country of orgin, Cultures, etc. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: Yes people may be on a line scale but who sets the points of orgin. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I used to be a tomboy but I've never seen a real girl that I wanted to have a relationship with. Women are nuts and Men smell good. --Regarding Religion in Relationship People are sometimes born into a religion and some acquire their own after they live awhile, ask their own spirtual questions and get answers to their philosophical questions. Formal religion is questionable but people in relationships should have some similar philosophies. --Regarding Love and Sex: Love is the cake...Sex is the flavoring. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: Disappointed...I thought it would be better.. I remember humming..."if that's all there is my friend then let's keep dancing..." --Regarding living with someone before marriage: Great. It helps to turn on that light in the dark closet. There is also a way out without a lot of legal problems. Couples should be aware of finance sharing, property issures, and should not have children during this period of learning. --Regarding Risks I have to have faith in the realtionship and past history of traumtic outcomes and "go forth" to find the "goodness" and forget the present "tone". --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): I'm glad when I was sexually promiscus you could get "cured" with PCN.. Now its too risky. --A funny relationship story: I get in some of the damnest funny wars over lawnmowers, dryers, and refrigerators. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Mid-Life How'd I do? Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Observing Life What Hindered me most in Relationship? -none- - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - Sure. but the people who take this exam are aware of their own needs, thoughts and preferences...How can we get the introverts or more males to take exams like this? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 25 09:04:43 1999 Anonymous Guest 19 in , New York =U.S.A.= F19 in , New York =U.S.A.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] I was searching the Web for recent surveys and polls taken concerning relationships between men and women, for a Sociology project I had to do. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Administrative Assistant; College Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"; "Couplehood" Recommended Reading-- Writers: John Gray, Ph.D.; Paul Reiser - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I think giving definition to the word "relationship" is extremely difficult because so many things are incorporated into it. A relationship should be a special closeness between 2 people: a friendship, a sense of intamacy, trust, honesty, understanding, dependability, fun. It is different for everyone, but I think that the 2 people in the relationship should be able to fill something in each other's lives and hearts. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... At the time, we both thought that it was love and that it would last forever. Looking back on it 5 years later though, I realize that I was just infatuated with having a boyfriend (especially because I was a young teenager and he was older than me). I loved him as a person and a friend, but I wasn't in love with him. I was only beginning to understand what being in love meant. Sources tell me though, it was true love for him (and still is). --The best things about relationship are: That tingley feeling you get around your special someone!!! Having someone to snuggle with!!! Always having a date, without thinking about it!!! Having someone that gives you all the qualities of a best friend - and so much more!!! --The worst things about relationship are: Having to overcome the fear of getting hurt, so that you can open your heart completely and let the other person in. It's scary as hell, but it needs to be done. FIGHTING!!! (I hate fighting with someone that means a lot to me) ...sometimes the making up part is worth the fight though! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who will give and take as equally as I do. Someone who never lies and is always dependable. Someone who will be my best friend and let me be theirs. Someone who will open their heart to me, completely. Someone who will accept me for who I am and learn to love me for all of my shortcomings as well as the things that made them fall in love with me in the first place. Someone who keeps all their promises - from calling when they say they are going to, to loving me forever (if that's what they tell me they are going to do). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Learn to give myself more credit... my low self esteem could drive anyone away. Learn not to be so critical of my partner's shortcomings, after all I am no where near perfect either! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I always need to be put first and get all of my partner's time. I am in need of constant attention. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I cannot deal with a guy who smokes, drinks (other than social occasions) and does drugs. I can understand that a guy's friends are important to him, but I can't stand constantly be put second best to them! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Having to look out for your partner's needs, wants and feelings as well as your own. You need to be able to put them before you. Committment is something that I would be completely willing to give and it is an extremely important part of a relationship, but there is a huge responsibilty that goes along with it. If you wnat to create and keep a healthy and successful, loving relationship, you have to be ready to take on responsibilty. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: For me, I have a huge desire to always, always, always talk everything out until the problem is 100% dissolved. I do have a tendancy to yell sometimes, but the way I see it, is that it is better to yell to get your point across than to completely ignore the problem and let it fester inside of you, while shutting your partner out (which is what I've noticed most guys tend to do). Just make sure that you do your best to never be unnecessarily hurtful to your partner. And never go to bed mad! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile. Then eyes. Then the rest of the package - hair, other facial features, body, ect. I have noticed that I'm not always attracted to what other people may find is the "ideal" looking man. I don't particularly care about muscles or the whole blonde hair/ blue eyes thing. Personally I like the brown hair/ brown eyes thing better. As long as the person is attractive in my eyes is all that matters. A bright smile and puppy dog eyes can definitely win me over though. --Regarding Age in Relationship I think that age isn't anything but a number and you shouldn't sell yourself short of being with someone who you really care about and who really cares about you, just because of the years in which you were born. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that "to each their own". Another's personal preference isn't any of my business. I also think that each person has a strong pull to be either gay or staright, but I think that the bisexual curiosity that people feel is perfectly normal, and most people go through it at some point in their lives. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I know that I am straight. I have been in and out of realtionships with men for years and for the past year i've been with my boyfreind whom i love with all my heart and who I find myself extremely physically attracted to. However, I won't deny the fact that there have been times when I have found myself sexually attracted to other women and having curiosities about what it would be like to have sex with one. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion should not have any place in your loc=ve for another. I understand that religion is very important to alot of people and if their religion conficts with another's, it may be harder for them to carry on a relationship. If it is true love though, that should overcome all and you should accept your religious differences and learn from one another. --Regarding Love and Sex: You can have one without the other. I've had sex before but currently I am in a relationship where we "make love' to one another and it is so much more fulfilling and special. So while I think that you can have one without the other, i wouldn't particularly recommend it. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I absolutely hated my first sexual encounter. I was pressured into it by my boyfriend and in a way, he "tricked" me into thinking I was ready. While we were having sex, all I wanted was for it to be over and when it finally was, I found myself so disappointed. i had sex with him 2 more times after that, in hopes that i would enjoy it more. Well, i hated those 2 times equally and didn't have sex for 3 years after that. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think that if you are in a relationship where you find yourselves discussing marriage and you both truly feel that it is a relationship that is going somewhere in life and you plan on sticking together, there is no reason not to test the waters. It will give you an idea of what marriage to them might really be like and either the two of you will realize that it could definitely work or you just wrren't maent to be together. --Regarding Risks I think that with every relationship you take a risk. I have benn through quite a few relationships and in each and every one I have been either lied to about something significant, or cheated on. So with each new relationship, I take a huge risk in opening my heart again and letting someone get close to me, because there is that chance of getting my heart broken once again. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): You should always protect yourself. And that doesn't mean, just using a condom. It means knowing your partner and their sexual background as well. Because when you sleep with someone, you are sleeping with all of their previous partners. If you take the upmost precautions every time you have sex, contracting an STD shouldn't be a problem for anyone. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation I think that you can learn from observing other couples and listening to stories that other people offer you but the best was to learn is through experimentation. That is the only way you can really learn what is right for you (and your partner). You can't always go by what other people tell you because everybody is different. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends Many of our friends didn't approve of our relationship because there was a 6 year age gap in between us. Sometimes we found ourselves listening too much to outside influences and not paying enough attention to what was right for us. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was cool to be able to voice my opinion, but as for it helping me to analyze my relationships - it didn't. But that is because I analyze things on my own, I didn't need this survey to help me with that. I think that maybe for people who don't generally analyze things, it may have helped though. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 25 09:04:40 1999 Anonymous Guest 19 in , New York =U.S.A.= F19 in , New York =U.S.A.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] I was searching the Web for recent surveys and polls taken concerning relationships between men and women, for a Sociology project I had to do. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Administrative Assistant; College Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"; "Couplehood" Recommended Reading-- Writers: John Gray, Ph.D.; Paul Reiser - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I think giving definition to the word "relationship" is extremely difficult because so many things are incorporated into it. A relationship should be a special closeness between 2 people: a friendship, a sense of intamacy, trust, honesty, understanding, dependability, fun. It is different for everyone, but I think that the 2 people in the relationship should be able to fill something in each other's lives and hearts. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... At the time, we both thought that it was love and that it would last forever. Looking back on it 5 years later though, I realize that I was just infatuated with having a boyfriend (especially because I was a young teenager and he was older than me). I loved him as a person and a friend, but I wasn't in love with him. I was only beginning to understand what being in love meant. Sources tell me though, it was true love for him (and still is). --The best things about relationship are: That tingley feeling you get around your special someone!!! Having someone to snuggle with!!! Always having a date, without thinking about it!!! Having someone that gives you all the qualities of a best friend - and so much more!!! --The worst things about relationship are: Having to overcome the fear of getting hurt, so that you can open your heart completely and let the other person in. It's scary as hell, but it needs to be done. FIGHTING!!! (I hate fighting with someone that means a lot to me) ...sometimes the making up part is worth the fight though! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who will give and take as equally as I do. Someone who never lies and is always dependable. Someone who will be my best friend and let me be theirs. Someone who will open their heart to me, completely. Someone who will accept me for who I am and learn to love me for all of my shortcomings as well as the things that made them fall in love with me in the first place. Someone who keeps all their promises - from calling when they say they are going to, to loving me forever (if that's what they tell me they are going to do). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Learn to give myself more credit... my low self esteem could drive anyone away. Learn not to be so critical of my partner's shortcomings, after all I am no where near perfect either! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I always need to be put first and get all of my partner's time. I am in need of constant attention. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I cannot deal with a guy who smokes, drinks (other than social occasions) and does drugs. I can understand that a guy's friends are important to him, but I can't stand constantly be put second best to them! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Having to look out for your partner's needs, wants and feelings as well as your own. You need to be able to put them before you. Committment is something that I would be completely willing to give and it is an extremely important part of a relationship, but there is a huge responsibilty that goes along with it. If you wnat to create and keep a healthy and successful, loving relationship, you have to be ready to take on responsibilty. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: For me, I have a huge desire to always, always, always talk everything out until the problem is 100% dissolved. I do have a tendancy to yell sometimes, but the way I see it, is that it is better to yell to get your point across than to completely ignore the problem and let it fester inside of you, while shutting your partner out (which is what I've noticed most guys tend to do). Just make sure that you do your best to never be unnecessarily hurtful to your partner. And never go to bed mad! --Regarding Appearance & Looks vs Personality: Smile. Then eyes. Then the rest of the package - hair, other facial features, body, ect. I have noticed that I'm not always attracted to what other people may find is the "ideal" looking man. I don't particularly care about muscles or the whole blonde hair/ blue eyes thing. Personally I like the brown hair/ brown eyes thing better. As long as the person is attractive in my eyes is all that matters. A bright smile and puppy dog eyes can definitely win me over though. --Regarding Age in Relationship I think that age isn't anything but a number and you shouldn't sell yourself short of being with someone who you really care about and who really cares about you, just because of the years in which you were born. --Regarding Homosexuality, Bisexuality vs Heterosexuality in general: I think that "to each their own". Another's personal preference isn't any of my business. I also think that each person has a strong pull to be either gay or staright, but I think that the bisexual curiosity that people feel is perfectly normal, and most people go through it at some point in their lives. --My personal preferences, outlook and experience regarding Sexual Preference: I know that I am straight. I have been in and out of realtionships with men for years and for the past year i've been with my boyfreind whom i love with all my heart and who I find myself extremely physically attracted to. However, I won't deny the fact that there have been times when I have found myself sexually attracted to other women and having curiosities about what it would be like to have sex with one. --Regarding Religion in Relationship Religion should not have any place in your loc=ve for another. I understand that religion is very important to alot of people and if their religion conficts with another's, it may be harder for them to carry on a relationship. If it is true love though, that should overcome all and you should accept your religious differences and learn from one another. --Regarding Love and Sex: You can have one without the other. I've had sex before but currently I am in a relationship where we "make love' to one another and it is so much more fulfilling and special. So while I think that you can have one without the other, i wouldn't particularly recommend it. --Regarding the first Sexual Experience: I absolutely hated my first sexual encounter. I was pressured into it by my boyfriend and in a way, he "tricked" me into thinking I was ready. While we were having sex, all I wanted was for it to be over and when it finally was, I found myself so disappointed. i had sex with him 2 more times after that, in hopes that i would enjoy it more. Well, i hated those 2 times equally and didn't have sex for 3 years after that. --Regarding living with someone before marriage: I think that if you are in a relationship where you find yourselves discussing marriage and you both truly feel that it is a relationship that is going somewhere in life and you plan on sticking together, there is no reason not to test the waters. It will give you an idea of what marriage to them might really be like and either the two of you will realize that it could definitely work or you just wrren't maent to be together. --Regarding Risks I think that with every relationship you take a risk. I have benn through quite a few relationships and in each and every one I have been either lied to about something significant, or cheated on. So with each new relationship, I take a huge risk in opening my heart again and letting someone get close to me, because there is that chance of getting my heart broken once again. --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): You should always protect yourself. And that doesn't mean, just using a condom. It means knowing your partner and their sexual background as well. Because when you sleep with someone, you are sleeping with all of their previous partners. If you take the upmost precautions every time you have sex, contracting an STD shouldn't be a problem for anyone. - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Teen Ager How'd I do? Very Well What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Experimentation I think that you can learn from observing other couples and listening to stories that other people offer you but the best was to learn is through experimentation. That is the only way you can really learn what is right for you (and your partner). You can't always go by what other people tell you because everybody is different. What Hindered me most in Relationship? Friends Many of our friends didn't approve of our relationship because there was a 6 year age gap in between us. Sometimes we found ourselves listening too much to outside influences and not paying enough attention to what was right for us. - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - It was cool to be able to voice my opinion, but as for it helping me to analyze my relationships - it didn't. But that is because I analyze things on my own, I didn't need this survey to help me with that. I think that maybe for people who don't generally analyze things, it may have helped though. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thu Nov 25 09:04:21 1999 Anonymous Guest 19 in , New York =U.S.A.= F19 in , New York =U.S.A.= - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Found us by: [ Other: ] I was searching the Web for recent surveys and polls taken concerning relationships between men and women, for a Sociology project I had to do. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Prof/Studies: Administrative Assistant; College Student - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Recommended Reading-- Titles: "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"; "Couplehood" Recommended Reading-- Writers: John Gray, Ph.D.; Paul Reiser - - - - - - - - - - - - - - T O P I C A L S - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - --Relationship Is: I think giving definition to the word "relationship" is extremely difficult because so many things are incorporated into it. A relationship should be a special closeness between 2 people: a friendship, a sense of intamacy, trust, honesty, understanding, dependability, fun. It is different for everyone, but I think that the 2 people in the relationship should be able to fill something in each other's lives and hearts. --That first relationship was That first relationship was... At the time, we both thought that it was love and that it would last forever. Looking back on it 5 years later though, I realize that I was just infatuated with having a boyfriend (especially because I was a young teenager and he was older than me). I loved him as a person and a friend, but I wasn't in love with him. I was only beginning to understand what being in love meant. Sources tell me though, it was true love for him (and still is). --The best things about relationship are: That tingley feeling you get around your special someone!!! Having someone to snuggle with!!! Always having a date, without thinking about it!!! Having someone that gives you all the qualities of a best friend - and so much more!!! --The worst things about relationship are: Having to overcome the fear of getting hurt, so that you can open your heart completely and let the other person in. It's scary as hell, but it needs to be done. FIGHTING!!! (I hate fighting with someone that means a lot to me) ...sometimes the making up part is worth the fight though! --What I'm most looking for in a relationship would be: Someone who will give and take as equally as I do. Someone who never lies and is always dependable. Someone who will be my best friend and let me be theirs. Someone who will open their heart to me, completely. Someone who will accept me for who I am and learn to love me for all of my shortcomings as well as the things that made them fall in love with me in the first place. Someone who keeps all their promises - from calling when they say they are going to, to loving me forever (if that's what they tell me they are going to do). --What it's probably best that I be in order to be good for my partner is: Learn to give myself more credit... my low self esteem could drive anyone away. Learn not to be so critical of my partner's shortcomings, after all I am no where near perfect either! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I always need to be put first and get all of my partner's time. I am in need of constant attention. --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I cannot deal with a guy who smokes, drinks (other than social occasions) and does drugs. I can understand that a guy's friends are important to him, but I can't stand constantly be put second best to them! --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: Having to look out for your partner's needs, wants and feelings as well as your own. You need to be able to put them before you. Committment is something that I would be completely willing to give and it is an extremely important part of a relationship, but there is a huge responsibilty that goes along with it. If you wnat to create and keep a healthy and successful, loving relationship, you have to be ready to take on responsibilty. --Regarding Communication / Argumentation Style in Relationship: For me, I have a huge desire to always, always, always talk everything out until the problem is 100% dissolved. I do have a tendancy to yell sometimes, but the way I see it, is that it is better to yell to get your point across than to completely ignore the problem and let it fester inside of you, while shutting your partner out (which is what I've noticed most guys tend to do). Just make sure that you do your best to never be unnecessarily hurtful to your paysical and must keep a better eye on the particulars of the body. Also, it wouldn't hurt me to learn a bit more about intimacy and how to keep my judgments to myself from time to time. But then... Sag's are like that! --Regarding how my habits affect a relationship: I have some pretty good habits when it comes to diet and spiritual things. But my sleep habits are weird. I don't have any habits when it comes to hours, and that could take a toll on a Virgo type who needs things always happening at the same time! --Regarding the habits of my partner in a relationship: I'd hope that flexibility could be the basic byword for us. But I can't handle smoking, drugs, drinking, etc... or the avoidance of issues at hand. So, no major deal for me to just do a whole makeover of my partner from the ground up, eh? :-) --Regarding responsibilities in relationship: The bible stuff comes to mind: Do unto others, etc. Also, I do know that there's a strong responsibility to BE THERE for the other person. Not in a dysfunctional way, but in a helpful and supportive role. --Regarding Love and Sex: Sex will always be present only with love for me... I can't do the "Free Love / Free Sex" thing... Maybe I just don't need that much sex or something, but seems to me that too many people are a little free on these things! Call me a librarian. --Regarding Risks I tend to like to risk getting closer to someone. I would prefer to regret what I did than what I didn't do, so I tend to take some more risks than many people... though who knows... perhaps I could do more? --Regarding Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Now there's a cheery thought. Herpes and AIDS and all of those things are wonderful reminders that there are some downsides to interpersonal relations. I've had a number of friends die with AIDS, and know a LOT about the ravages of these ugly diseases. But I just try to live my quiet little life in a state of hopeful and pleasant bliss, I guess... Mindfully aware of these spectres, but not dwelling on them. --A funny relationship story: I'm not in a funny mood. Ask me later 8-} - - - - - P e r s o n a l H i s t o r y - - - - - 1st relationship occurred in my life at: Young Adult How'd I do? Adequate What Helped me most deal with Relationship? Other: Coming out of the closet! - - - Comments on this Questionnaire & collection GuestBook - - - I like to think about relationship. It's been useful, I spoze. Hard to tell. I didn't really plan to do this; it just happened. Call it automatic writing! - - - Any other questions you feel we should have asked here? Yeah: How about asking some ASTROLOGICAL questions?! I like to think in terms of some of those things. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^End of Recent Responses...
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